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eltehdork · 2 months ago

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#deep yearning. intense longing.#i know a relationship wont fix me #but it doesnt make me crave it any less #im so despserate for contact. touch. warmth. intimacy. safety.#and the fear of people seeing just how desperate i am #how broken i am #how fucking...just. me. people get mad at me. slow clingy impulsive me #stubborn me. childish me.#i know i have good qualities i know i do #i know im desirable #but how do i prove it? how do i prove i deserve it? how do i prove that im...worth the time #worth the patience. worth the...the me.#im sick of dating apps #but i dont know how to talk to new people irl #not without another friend to buffer my lack of social skills and total lack of confidence #what self respecting woman would waste her time with someone as fucking pathetic as me? even she ended up growing up faster than i did #id include men but men constantly disappoint me #all the good guys are taken and all the pretty girls are spoken for #and im left to watch all the happy couples coming together #im left to watch all the happy friend groups hang out #im left. im here. im still here. on the sidelines. watching #looking in. watching from afar.#planet earth i need a friend cuz im on the outside looking in

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joanyio · 2 years ago

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WHEN I FLY TOWARDS YOU (2023) - Ep. 8

#rangzai aquarium date #they’re so cute im crying #when i fly towards you #当我飞奔向你 #su zaizai #zhang miaoyi #zhang lurang #zhou yiran #cdrama #mine #im just giffing everything i like while im rewatching this show for the 9272885th time #youku app is so sick of me opening it every night to rewatch the same shit

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orcelito · 18 days ago

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Man, seeing all the valentines day decorations in stores n shit is just reminding me how much I fucking Hate valentines day

#speculation nation #negative/#it was the last normal day my dad was alive. he went to the hospital in the early am hours of the 15th and died early on the 17th #he liked bringing the daily papers with him in his lunchbox to work. the very last one that we found tucked inside was for the 14th.#i had a valentines day date planned for the evening of the 16th. canceled of course.#i wasnt too fond of the holiday even before last year. as a grey aro that struggles with these things i find it too saccharine and stifling #but now all i can think about when i see those decorations is the fact that he mightve drunk himself into organ failure that night #the final straw on the camel's back. it all came crumbling down.#wonder if i can end up with a romantic partner that doesnt care about valentines day. it's kind of the expectation if ur dating someone #to care about it. but i dont wanna. id rather just plug my ears and wish it all away.#wake me up when september ends and all that business. except it's february for me.#sigh. i swear im doing okay with the Grief Recovery and all that shit. but it's gonna get rougher again as it draws closer.#an anniversary. as remarkable and horrible as the first year since your father died.#need to lay off trying to join any dating apps until after this. given how quickly i succeeded in finding someone with the first try #i dont wanna be seeing anyone by the time that date rolls around. itd make me sick to try to celebrate valentines day this year.#who knows maybe ill crack open a cold one in his honor. as a fun little joke.

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cluelesslesbosstuff · 8 months ago

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when chappell roan said "im so sick of online love" i felt that in my gay little heart

#girl loser #girl love #girlblogging #lesbian #gl #sapphic #wlw blog #wlw yearning #sapphic love #wlw #femme4femme #femme lesbian #femme dyke #femme #im so sick of dating apps #i just want cuddles

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grimmweepers · 3 months ago

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i really do self sabotage when it comes to irl dating 😭💀

#spilling tea like you guys are my irls #first of all i’m chronically single #i dont do dating apps or casual sex (anymore. 2.5 years celibate by choice... which is a whole other story c: )#and second of all anytime anyone shows interest in me i am 🏃‍♀️💨 running away #even if they’re cool #😭😭😭😭😭#i *am* the problem. THAT i know #there’s this person who i’ve known for a very long time and they've been trying to take me out for a year #(very casually not pushy at all)#first time i said yes but my travelling got in the way. eventually we stopped talking but then we started again some time later #and when they asked to do something again - i got scared so told them i was sick (WHICH I WAS BUT HFJGJGJGJ IDK)#and THIS time he mentioned it again #and i umm didn’t respond until after 6 days #i know i know i’m awful #but here’s the thing #IM TRAVELLING AGAIN #FOR A WHOLE MONTH THIS TIME #so if it even happens it’ll be pushed back once more #but like i said we've known each other for a long time so it's always been brought up in a casual way. nothing that really screams DATE #although i can tell the tone of it is a lil more than friendly #i’m just glad he’s super nice and older than me (so he doesn’t rlly care about late replies and all that. usually when i respond late he #replies right away)#and we both keep ourselves busy with work #AND HE LIKES ANIME TOO LMFAO HE DRESSED UP AS SUKUNA ONCE #so like #i need to do better #💀💀💀💀#commitment is scary DATING IS SCARY #i just don’t want to date until i’ve achieved some personal goals but at the same time i don’t want to limit myself you know #HOWEVER i can’t have high expectations for my partner when i don’t have high expectations for myself

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harlecore · 11 months ago

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i kinda want to be a third

#im soo sick of all of the dating apps but feeld actually seems okay lmao #everyone is corny but that's to be expected

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prodkeiji · 1 year ago

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when will you stop villainizing us lol

#be fucking grateful that we're—or /i'm/ letting you live on this app like it's nothing #because if i didn't i would've ruined your fucking life the day you left the server #but at least have some decency to shut the fuck up and move on because the fact that youre still so pissy is so annoying #like. kill yourself? die? i don't care i need you gone #at least act your fucking age #you're already a minor who writes smut and youre also minor who threatens others that youd kill yourself if they talk about your faves like.#are you fucking sick in the head?#choose a goddamn struggle goddammit #i hate you i hate you so much that i seriously want you dead and gone from the faces of the earth #if i could attend your funeral i would point and laugh at your dead corpse im so fucking pissed #talk shit about me when you're not a 17 yr old bitch who's talking to 13 yr olds about sex LMFAOOOOO loser #fuck you luma i hope you everything bad in life #fuck you and stupid girlfriend #you guys are perfect for each other btw! we love seeing a couple of minors who write smut date each other 🩷#tw rant #tw death threats #tw discourse #do not read if ure uncomfy i beg

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giverofempathy · 1 year ago

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besties i'm in a Situation and idk what to do

#salisha speaks #lets start by saying that my and my gf broke up #the long distance shit was just Not working #i hate hate hate it i miss her but it is what it is #i was lonely and feeling insane so i downloaded a dating app and i was confused abt my sexuality #so i also put it on men and i matched with a guy #and it was like fun and shit but then i got stressed so i told him im a lesbian and he ghosted me #then in the meantime i deleted and redownloaded the dating app bc im just crazy like that x #and then we matched again 😭 and now were talking again #and he explained why he didnt reply and like i get it #but now im just so confused bc like i kind of like him but also i dont and idk if bi or a lesbian and im so SICK OF ITTTT #and all my friends are telling me to drop him bc im like. gay gay 😭 and like yah but also idk #im so CONFUSEDDDD #on the one hand i wanna block him and never think about him again #but then again why dont i just try it out and see what happens...#what do yall think i should do i feel genuinely insane

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thaliagrayce · 10 months ago

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on The Dating App, there is a person that is haunting me. because they do not list their pronouns and have a very stereotypical masculine name. (not androgynous at all, straight up masculine.) but they're listed as lesbian and woman. i Have encountered straight boys who are either "lost" or like the challenge of trying to "turn" a lesbian, which makes me wary. i also know that some butches have masculine names, which is frankly very hot. unclear which category this one falls into.

the real problem comes in the fact that if this person is a dude, then really they're just some dude. but. if this person truly is a lesbian with the most stereotypical frat bro name i've ever seen and That Much Dykeability, i might not survive meeting them. so like. my problem is that i either want to throw myself at this person's feet or treat them with the disdain that begets a man trying to prove to a lesbian that she does like men, she just hadn't met Him before

#mj talks #adventures in lesbian dating!#urg. frat bro looking dude please PLEASE be a woman #TO BE CLEAR IF THIS PERSON IS A TRANS BUTCH THAT ABSOLUTELY FALLS UNDER THE CATEGORY OF PEOPLE I WOULD DO ANYTHING TO MEET #don't care about what descriptors you attach to the Woman label as long as there is in fact a Woman label #or a dyke label. that's also a good gender.#so SICK of dating apps im almost ready to put an ad in the newspaper or some shit #do some networking. anyone around here know a single twentysomething sapphic who likes long hair and extensive knowledge about percy jackso

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dykemom · 11 months ago

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other trans commie dykes........... hmu so we can fuck

#im serious #i can't fly to you but. im already sick of dating apps #o

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samuel-de-champagne-problems · 1 year ago

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not to beat dead horse or whatever but i would really like a boyfriend

#this is me rambling #it just seems so nice to be my favorite person’s favorite person #and im sick of only dreaming of a hypnotical romance #and dating apps are so so so so bad

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thathopelessromantic · 1 year ago

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spiritual successor to my siblings making fun of me for my grandma hobbies (knitting & cross stitch) hurting me and my grandma problems (bad eye sight + arthritis) is my friend asking if ive played any new phones games recently and having to tell her completely genuinely that the only games on my phone are killer sudoku, solitaire, and logic puzzles

#rita rambles #i know i made a post or a tweet abt the first thing but its too much work to try and find it to add on directly #but i know that specifically is where my siblings bullied me abt this #but i keep thinking abt this hc ive been obsessively playing killer sudoku this week more than all the rest of the time ive had the app #and im just like why is this my life #my parents were two partiers until they had kids #my dad stopped drinking in his 20s bc he used to get so blackout before that that he started to get sick #my mom used to dance outside of bars to get older guys to buy her drinks b4 she was old enough to get in and dated a drummer in a rock band #and im 26 playing sudoku and cross stitching every night after my full time job at a bookstore #how did these people spawn me

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mochalotic · 3 months ago

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really wanna hook up but im shy and dating apps scare me :(

#advice is welcome /gen #i got tinder once and talked to one person for like 5 minutes and they were nice but i got scared and deleted my account and the apo #Cause like the idea of someone wanting to gauge if they want to be in a relationship with me like romantically and seriously FREAKS ME OUT #atleast when i dont know them well #for whatever reason someone flirting with me just cause they wanna fuck is more comfortable for me than like #romantic dating apps like #idk man #im a virgin and im sick of being scared of sex #thats why im trying to be more open about it #nsft

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roseandpeaches · 4 months ago

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food poisoning is not fun. i'd rather get a migraine. wait no i don't wanna jinx it.

#being broke and sick is not fun #im in the middle of job hunting #i got an interview next week with a skincare company #i hope they have a good office culture and benefits #also the pay better be more or meet what i asked for #im legit being picky rn like when im on dating apps #if there's no unlimited outpatient benefits and no health insurance i won't take it

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