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It's really weird when you know someone in a context different from how everybody else knows them so you look at them and you still kind of see that person they used to be
#this post is about the boy i dated my senior year who was so incredibly sweet tbh wouldnt be the person i am today if i hadnt met him#but he was so fucked up he had so many issues it was really hard so it didnt work out but i loved him and i think he loved me too#but hes in a moderately successful band now which i just found out about do i looked them up and theyre good#but its so weird because its like i know that when you were 17 you wanted to be an underwater welder#i helped you clean your room at your grandmas house because you were so sad you couldnt do it yourself#i ditched 5th period AP English to sit on the steps behind the auditorium and listen to you talk about whatever#you pushed me on the swings and we took the bus to the movie theater and you liked cherry wraps and you played me my favorite songs#i havent REALLY thought about that guy in years and we were only together MAYBE 6 months but its so weird what you remember about people#and especially how you remember how they made you feel because he made me feel so good like i was in control#all my previous relationships was me trying to desperately please someone who wouldnt do the same for me#and honestly a lot of my relationships since have been the same especially in college and with the one girl who honestly if she called me#today i would drop everything and go be with her again no questions because i cant get her out of my head#but stuff witj him was never ever like that it was so easy it was like breathing even though it ended messy i have 0 regrets#and its nice to know that things are going well for him because honestly he changed my life a little bit#the way i dont give a fuck now is something i learned from him#ill probably delete this later but you know
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#talkys#delete later#(this is a meme redraw)#ruined my life is a strong word. and of course theres lots of self blame and obvs ive probably wronged lots of people before#and i dont deserve unending torture for it. right. like part of me doesnt even actually feel ill will toward the other party#because whatever! normal human experience!#the other part is like ohhh okay you lied to and kinda used me + treated me badly then lied again to the point where i found out the truth#from another party so you didnt even have to fess up yourself and now you're back to being happy as if nothing happened#i was just a stepping stone i was just a distraction. ok!#like for real actually ok ^_^ it literally happens to ppl all the time...#<- he keeps experiencing waves of horrific sense of self worth that already wasnt Too Great as a result#ugh. and thats nobody's fault but my own right.... but idk. i cant believe it...! i cant believe someone treated me dis way#and i let it happen... and i would have let it keep happening if an end hadnt been put to it by someone else....#but still. at the end of the day i was the only one left with these thoughts. ykwim. other party has forgotten. got happy ending.#doesnt deserve ''consequences'' but still feels horrific to see and think about. you know?#i literally got all the bad. throughout and after.
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sorry for making yet another textpost but i came across that post saying they dislike transfem natsume because he "canonically hates being perceived as a girl and tries to erase all sorts of memories related to that" and also went on to shame genderbends of him aswell. So, as someone who not only draws genderbends of natsume but is myself someone who is nonbinary and hates being perceived as a woman, i thought id offer my two cents
first of all; i think its important to note that natsume does NOT hate his childhood. in fact, hes quite happy that he had such an unusual upbringing!
what natsume hates is being perceived as weak. thats why he was raised as a girl after all, it was his mother trying to protect him from evil spirits. he doesnt hate the whole "-chan" or "wearing dresses" thing because he has a hatred for womanhood, its because due to his upbringing hes now come to associate those things as being weak. he begs tsumugi to forget about it because that means tsumugi remembers natsume being weak, and natsume thinks tsumugi still referring to him as "natsume-chan" means he still sees natsume as weak. (iirc natsume did however once say that he is a little sad that he doesnt really know how to relate to young boys due to this in poltergeist, but i couldnt find the exact quote. either way that just adds to the complexity of natsumes relationship with his childhood, because while he is happy to be "abnormal" in that sense, it has left him lacking in some areas)
i have to ask though, should this conflict of his not be something we hope he overcomes? should we not want him to develop a healthy relationship with various gender expressions? should we not want natsume to overcome his belief that feminine things = weakness? i want natsume to reach a point where he can wear feminine clothing and not feel like some damsel in distress because of it. i want natsumes character to grow. i want him to develop a positive relationship with his gender because natsume DOES enjoy some more typically feminine things, like baking! he used to bake with his mom when he was little! and i want him to feel like he can indulge in that side of him without feeling insecure.....
i LOVE transmasc natsume, my primary hc for him is transmasc nonbinary after all, but with all these things considered, shouldnt people be allowed to headcanon him however they want? if they hear his story and negative relationship with femininity and how that resonates with them and they themselves are transfem, should they not be allowed to hc him as such too?
which brings me to my next point; my own personal relationship with gender and femininity. i was raised as a girl and i fucking DESPISED womanhood. i hated everything about it. i hated how i felt forced into a box i didnt want to be stuck in, and i hated how it felt like my whole life had already been planned out for me due to societal expectations, aswell as me needing to present a certain way. i was peak "tomboy" growing up, constantly wearing super baggy clothes and wouldnt even brush my hair alot of the time. but despite that i remained miserable. i frankly hated how i looked and would constantly dye my hair vibrant colors in an attempt to make me like myself a little more. it wasnt until i realized "wow, im actually not a girl at all" that i finally let go of believing i needed to look a certain way (and thus, defying it) and started to dress for myself. i started to dress in clothes that made me happy and feel pretty! alot of which leans feminine, but clothes doesnt have a gender, and how you dress doesnt define your gender either, but it can still be a bit scary yknow? especially since i dont want people to think of me as a girl, and drawing a bunch of femstars has really made me learn to love myself more in a funny way. i can put these characters in clothes i think are beautiful, i can explore the more feminine parts of me that i adore but dont want to express in public due to how i want others to perceive me, but it has also warmed me up to femininity even more. because femstars to me feels detached from the expectations of society because its not a real thing!! there are no canon femstars designs!!! i can do literally whatever the hell i want with it and its been so liberating to me!!
all this to say; i think it really sucks seeing the way this fandom treats transfem hcs and explicit genderbends, because like ive said before; they can truly be something so personal. you dont know why that person is drawing what theyre drawing, so its a little unwise to make assumptions based on ........ Well, whatever it may be. i know very well that women dressing the way society expects them to SUCKS, esp if you have personal ties to it, but you have to realize the issue isnt femininity, but misogyny.
#maybe ill delete this later idk but i just felt like i needed to say something#as i constantly see these things being spoken of yet never do these people actually reach out to femstarries#and ask Hey why are you doing this?#so instead they make bad faith assumptions and it really sucks.#and while im here;#trans hcs count as genderbends. Because you have changed the characters gender#*IF the org chara is a cisman and you make them a trans woman i should add#once again Stop treating trans and cis people as two separate things#if it was a cisbend itd be CALLED CISBEND#and the reason i tag genderbend is because i know some people dont like it#and thats valid!!! no one is forced to like this kind of stuff!!!#and some people who dont like genderbends might be new to enstars and dont know what femstars is#so should it not still be tagged for those people too?#should we not look out for the trans people who dont wish to see their favs be a different gender???#i dont get it. i really dont#this post probably wont even reach the right audience but wtv#nat rambles#nats enst posting
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with the leaks to the 2nd to last chapter out can I just ask that we hold off on criticism of whoever until the last chapter is officially out? I know it's asking a lot
#its one more week y'all#AND#this isnt even the official translation#its not even the fan translation?#its 2 leakers giving a brief and very biased summary of whats happening in some badly scanned pictures#i just feel like everyone is seeing the 2nd to last chapter play out#and dooming themselves to be disappointed no matter what happens in the finale#its not the end yet??#theres one more week??#after that its totally fair if you want to hate the way things were handled or criticize whoever#not all of the plot points are going to be addressed unfortunately and some people are going to be disappointed regardless#i might be disappointed i dont know yet#but im holding my opinion until august 4 when the official last chapter is released#being disappointed in a chapter is fair!#but feeling as tho this chapter was the end and theres nothing that can be added to the final chapter to make it better is a little extreme#idk#i need to get off twitter bc its all doom and gloom there#bnha#bnha leaks#mha#bnha 429#mha 429#ill probably delete this later#in other news#that full color page with aizawa smiling is so so good like chicken soup for the soul#those are HIS kids#and hes proud of them#hopefully he can take a break soon and get some real sleep#okay im done
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/neg rambling...
perhaps this is because I'm not doing well and overthinking myself into a Doomer state, but I'm thinking back to that anon I got. And how they mentioned "Nikki doesn't feel like a Sonic". (Granted, this ask was thinly-veiled transmisogyny disguised as a "critique", so im aware that's enough of a reason for me to expel it from my mind lmao.)
But honestly? If I wrote Nikki exactly the same as she is now, but had her be male/masc in her gender presentation, I don't doubt everyone and their mother would absolutely eat it up.
But she's a woman who's gender identity plays a part into her character. So i get the vibe that i have to try harder to sell my portrayal at times. And that sucks. But it's just the way it is, i guess. I don't know.
#💔 ˚₊ · 𝖔𝖚𝖙 𝖔𝖋 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖗𝖆𝖈𝖙𝖊𝖗 ✗ long lost words whisper slowly to me. ❞#tbd //#ill delete this later because i don't want to invalidate those who love nikki & have supported me.#i see you guys. im forever appreciative and delighted to see that so many ppl love my girl <3#these are just thoughts im growing hyperaware of and need to get out of my head.#i dont wanna point fingers because i have no basis outside my own observations.#but this is something i notice whenever i log in here.#and it sucks lol. though doomer line of thinking aside i know if any of the above applies to someone;#if ppl dont like my blog/dont wanna interact because my muse is a trans woman? they don't matter.#anyways... its slow and quiet at work today which is probably prompting my overthinking x__x#i'll be around here and there <3
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Jason x Transmasc!Reader - Early Morning Rambles
Don't mind me, I just need to get these thoughts out of my head. Most of these are NSFW. You've been warned. Minors dni, obviously. Just did reader because that's popular here and honestly I'd like to see myself in these anyways. Fair warning, there is use of fem terms to describe specific body parts. It's not that I don't want to use gender neutral or strictly masc terms, it's just a personal preference of mine as a TransMan. Also warning for use of pet names, daddy kink, sleepy morning sex, we gotta fuck now sex, praise....I think that's everything.
Also, I am intentionally using he/him pronouns and not using you/yours. Let's get to it.
Note after writing: Might switch to you/yours. It's not confusing for me, but I can see how it would be for others. Jason's POV. Also I got carried away. Hehehe
Jason loves lazy early mornings. He loves the sunlight streaming in from the curtains. He loves the warmth of it on his skin. He loves the way his boy looks cuddled under warm blankets and pressed close to him.
He gets caught up in it. He gets overwhelmed by the warmth and the way his body fits perfectly against his own. He can't stop touching him. He has to. He has to know he is really there and that this is real and not a dream. His fingers trace over his spine, he gets lost in the feeling of soft warm skin.
It's not enough
Fuck.
It's just...it's not enough.
He's selfish. He needs more. Wants more. He wraps his arms around him and pulls him closer. One arm around his waist, the other around his chest. Jason's lips press soft, slow, lazy open mouth kisses to his neck.
Pretty boy
Sweet boy
My sweet boy.
Jason still can't believe that he's the one who gets to see him like this. Who gets to touch him...kiss him. He should let him sleep, but he can't help it. He just fucking can't help it. He needs to touch you. He needs to have you.
Now
He needs him now
Jason's hands waste no time sliding down down down until he's dipping fingers in to gather wetness so he can slide his fingers over his little cock. He knows how he likes it. He's fucking memorized it. Burned it into his brain so he will never fucking forget. Slow soft steady strokes that have those little noises he loves falling from his lips as he starts to wake up.
"Jay...what are...ah..."
He never gives his boy time to get this thoughts together. To wake up fully. No. He wants him like this. He wants him soft and warm and thoughtless.
"Morning Pretty Boy." Jason loves how he moans at the praise. "Tell me what you need." He would give him the world if he asked for it. He would do anything for him. It should scare him. It does most days. But mornings like this he doesn't let that fear distract him.
His boy takes too long to answer, but Jason doesn't care. It gives him time to suck a few hickeys down his throat, to stroke his fingers over his boys cock, to dip his fingers inside his tight hole and stretch him open. Get him ready. He loves this. He loves working his boy up until he's moaning and panting and arching against him. Until he's desperate and needy. Until he's begging for him.
"Jason please. Need you. Fuck...please fuck me."
Finally.
Fucking finally.
It's effortless. Fuck...it's too easy. He wastes no time in pulling his leg up. He wastes no time as he lines up and slides inside him with a groan. Jason is overwhelmed by how good he feels. Overwhelmed by tight walls gripping him and milking him and fuck fuck fuck fuck.
His boy is cumming.
Fuck
"Love my tight little boy's pussy...'m close baby. So good. So good for me." Jason get lost in praise. He can't stop telling him how he feels...how good he is...how much he loves him...how much he loves his body.
Jason feels like he cums against his will. He slams deep, holds himself there as he fills him up. Jason isn't done. No. He can't be done. He doesn't want to be. He needs to feel his boy squeeze him again. He tell him as much as he strokes that little cock until he is cumming hard, arching and gasping and begging and saying his name like it's fucking music to his ears.
Jason loves lazy early mornings. He loves how he looks in the sunlight, all flushed and sweaty and sweet and dazed. He loves seeing his boy fucked out. He loves him. He loves him. He wraps his arms around him and kisses over the marks he left on his neck. He loves him. He hopes that will be enough to keep this for as long as he fucking can.
#jason todd#jason todd x reader#jason todd x transmasc!reader#smut#red hood#red hood smut#delete later#im so self conscious about writing like this on this site#anyways#minors dni#this is also from Jasons pov#sorry if the tense seems confusing#i am trying out writing styles#let me know if you want more#if you hate it ill probably just cry#as transman want to write transman#trans reader
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the thing that really Gets me is how much adam and lawrence absolutely broke the mold and subverted john's expectations so much. john thinks he can predict most human behavior, and based on the way we hear him talk about lawrence throughout the movies, he clearly didn't have a high opinion of him At All before putting him into the bathroom (duh why else is he there), but i don't think he expected lawrence to fuck it up so bad.
really, yes, the bathroom does have a massive hand in changing lawrence, but i think adam's presence is what threw a wrench into how everything was going to go. i think if it had been anyone else, lawrence might not have done things the same way. adam, even though he's inflammatory and terribly mean at times, the same way lawrence is, has more empathy available to him and voices that on several occasions. this contrasts lawrence HUGELY because lawrence is so self-centered, his entire world is in his own head. but adam, despite lawrence shoving and pushing and reacting first with anger and never understanding, is kind and gentle at times. lawrence's sincere moments are few and far between, and certainly not as frequent as adam's, but i think they're just as important.
adam changes lawrence so hugely that he may as well just have ripped the floor out from underneath the guy. you SEE it happen. he crawls over to adam after adam kills zep (and i think this detail is incredibly important because ADAM is the one to kill the guy who lawrence assumes has killed or severely injured his family. adam's killing him bc he thinks zep is jigsaw but lawrence makes it personal to him like he does everything.) despite the fact that he's bleeding the fuck out and shouldn't be taking extra time, but he Needs to give adam some semblance of comfort because he's realizing Finally that this isn't just about him and never was. he thinks he'll be able to come back for adam, he means it when he says that he isn't lying; this is lawrence's turning point, this is where he undergoes the biggest change. and adam doesn't believe him, because he doesn't think lawrence is the type of person to change, he thinks he's lying because that's all he's heard lawrence do for eight hours straight. and it fucking kills me because even though they've started to know each other in ways no other human will ever understand, adam can't trust lawrence because he has no reason to while lawrence basically rewrites his entire life philosophy because of what happened with adam in that fucking bathroom.
#learning not to be selfish by being Forced to be selfish#and then not ever being given the location until the person you were forced to leave is way past being dead#i'll get into adam soon. promise. i think so much about lawrence's character because he is my everything but i have a Tome of thoughts abou#adam that i never vocalize because.......I DONT KNOW WHY ACTUALLY#i think i just need to be prompted#jonah.txt#probably ill get embarrassed and delete this later lollll
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reworking an old oc
thing that stares at you weird
#and stares away from you also. i guess#not putting this on the art blog bc im not super happy w it yet. i like the side view but not so much the front.....#they are supposed to look. not *quite* human. like almost. close enough that they could believably say they are. but theyre not#so rn theyre still lookin a little too normal#anyway ill tag them mostly. just so i have some way of finding this later lmao#bc i will probably delete this when i make more progress but also who knows when that will be#oc: floyd
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I wanna give my two cents on a situation that's happenin in the Dialtown fandom rn, but I also. Don't wanna get involved since it ain't really my place to do so. I will say that this should stay out of the fandom tags, though.
#dusty yaps#this is extremely vauge i know#but thats on purpose#ill probably delete this later#also if those people who were affected by this person are seein this rn#tell me if you want me to give my opinion on this
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#vent#will probably delete later#i just need to write this out so ill stop feeling sick#but you ever like#realize you need to talk to someone for help#but you dont#because like#feel like they hate you#and you feel it so intensely even though you know its not reality#and you don't feel like you can talk#because you already talk and bitch so much#why would anyone want to listen to the guy whos always crying about feeling like his friends don't like him#i hate#feeling like im a rescue animal#that needs constant attention#and just becomes a hated burden#and is abandoned again#I KNOW ITS NOT TRUE#but it doesn't change how my brain makes me feel#i just#i don't want to keep feeling like im waiting for the day where the people i hold close tell me theres no longer a place in their life#im grieving for something that isnt dying#but what if#what if its going to happen#i can say i can grin and bear the thought and just enjoy the time i get to have with them#but i dont want to#i dont want to be alone#im so scared of being too much#i dont want to have to give them up#i dont know
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Kurt Cobain: A sonnet by 1 of my 9th graders
"Music is subjective, ain't that a fact
From mumble rap to hopeless fools
Most artists these days are frankly quite trash
Not to mention they sound like pathetic tools.
Kurt, you were special, you were a star
You blew everyone else out of the field.
As you would say 'Come As You Are'
To fresh fans, those words wouldn't yield.
But your voice was tired and filled with much pain
Nobody knew how you truly felt.
Masses thought you had everything to gain
But with this pain, few knew with how you dealt.
I love you for all of this, but one thing I can't forgive
Is the world of new annoying Nirvana fans in which we live."
#hes on thin ice with that fact/trash slant rhyme but i liked this one a lot#ill probably delete this later but you know
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#sort of venty but also not i guess idk#dont read these tags if you dontwanna hear me complaining but#man its been bad lately huh. bad month#thought things were going ok but i was too caught up in all this bullshit being thrown at me#that i didint see alot of the crap people i care abt are going through#been just opening sky for no reason .#bcus like . everyone i know is really badly ill#and its making me so anxious i want to throw up and cry#even my mother whos lowkey abusive. shes getting older and her body is failing#if she goes i have no more supports . nobody.#no family close to me. no car. im not on the lease. like#its bad out here man#im scareddddd#im scareddd bro. idk#need these people to get better or so god helpme#plssss pls pls pls#for the love of goddddd#deleting this later probably. embarrassing#delete later
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Eugh, making a disclaimer I'm not proship or antiship but this does discuss that topic so. Beware or whatever I'm gonna post Hatsune Miku tomorrow
I've had it on my mind for awhile and this is my fucking soapbox and I'm allowed to do what I want so; those fucking "recovering proshipper" TikToks drive me fucking insane are those ragebait and I'm just falling for it or what because all of the comments are fucking genuine and all of them are just shit like "what I ate today" and not even fucking related, like stop mocking people recovering from Actual Disorders and life damaging events
YOU DO NOT. "RECOVER" FROM PROSHIPPING this proship/antiship bullshit is stupid and everyone on both sides just needs to touch some fucking grass and that's coming from someone with a vitamin d deficiency
#repost#i moved the two tags below this one after posting because they need to be front and center#but feel free to send me an ask if you dont understand how the fuck being antiship is just as stupid as being proship#FOLLOW YOUR OWN DNI#came home from school pissed as shit. i mean im usually pissed as shit but today everyone was stupid#NO ONE FUCKING KNEW WHAT A SEMICOLON WAS IM SO PISSED HOW THE FUCK DO YOU NOT KNOW WHAT A SEMICOLON IS#ill probably delete this post later because i dont want to even be associated with this chronically online bullshit#this is the one of the few things i give enough of a shit about to try my hand at sharing my opinion#talk talks#ugh. may as well fuck it#proship#antiship#proship neutral#neuship#im not fucking neutral on this topic because im actually extremely angry at both fucking sides#but neutral is the closest thing i can alogn to for those. specific. people that cant fucking read between the lines#whicb is everyone under this tag because if you were able to read between the lines you would have the media literacy to realize this whole#arguement is stupid as hell
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im going to actually injure myself trying to beat this song
#1:30am time to post cringe that hopefully no one will see#if my cool mutuals see this sorry pls dont unfollow#for context usually when you play a song solo in this game-#the level wont end no matter how badly youre losing. you have to manually quit out of it#but THIS ONE SPECIFICALLY DOESNT WORK LIKE THAT#and i dont know what the fuck the cross at the bottom indicates??? or what the cross notes that appear mean??#like .if im supposed to be michael should i. not be hitting those???#its just Not Explained.#okay anyway. ill probably delete this later lol#original post tag
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“i’m so delulu” girls when i say that i once believed i was put on this earth to fix the earth’s economy and eliminate the lower class
#long rant sorry#do you seriously think every mentally ill person’s thoughts are 100% pure?#tbh people like that are just mad my mental illness isn’t able to be fetishized#‘b-but that’s so horrible why would you think something like that!!’#i know that and i’ve gotten help#i’m not able to control my thoughts/episodes dumbass#if you’re worried dw this was a while ago and i got help#i will probably delete this later
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Trans women talking about misogyny doesn’t mean they hate trans men, cry harder to ur terf friends
good job dipshit youve successfully demonstrated to the class what the strawman fallacy is. how is it that youre able to recognize that trans women talking about transmisogyny isnt an attack on trans men but not vice versa
you really gotta be plugging your ears and ignoring the shit out of trans men if you think that anybody with a brain is arguing what youre accusing us of lmao. which lemme check my Transandromisia List, oh shit
talking over us, erasure of our experiences, purposeful misconstruing to make us out as the Bad Guys (thats you!)
calling us terfs and grouping us in with actual dangerous oppressors (also you!)
othering us in some us vs. them type bullshit (you did that!)
dogg i dunno how to tell you this but youre an s-tier example of why trans men are fed up to the point where theres a brand sparkly new movement that pisses you off. maybe youre pressed cause were trying to dismantle the oppression olympics and you think youre winning. too bad sunshine, nobodys a fucking winner when it comes to any flavor of transphobia. pull your head out of your terminally online ass and go interact with somebody. go think about why trans men discussing their struggles is such a fucking issue for you
#and while youre at it shut the fuck up#you probably would have been an aspec exclusionist in 2018 lmao#or someone who insisted that bi people have no place in the lg*b*t+ community cause they can pass as straight and have straight privilege#ill give you a hint. bi people are not straight and will never have straight privilege#just like how trans men will never be cis and we will never benefit from that privilege#youre a class a discourse slurping shit stirrer and nobody irl and / or over the age of 25 will ever take you seriously#additionally wow thats crazy if im a terf. i didnt know terfs cared so much about trans men (sarcasm.)#wow i had no idea we were on the same side and we all respected each others identities (they want us dead.)#thats nuts that terfs are advocating for trans men (they call us traitors.)#clearly the terfses and the transmascses are best friends and are conspiring against the transfemses (they want to eliminate *all* of us.)#youre a fucking idiot. dont even stay mad. just shut up#delete later#transphobia#transandromisia#transandrophobia
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