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jack-o-phantom · 8 months ago

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ngl it took me like 5 minutes of scrolling to find a mid-sized person in your art tag and you’ve never drawn a fat person so i feel like not being able to distinguish twink from hunk is more a side effect of generally having oversaturated thin character designs? /gen /nm

Let me sit you down for this, and put aside that you walked into MY home. Took one look around, and bit me like I am some type of evil.

First of all, I have never seen you before. And the first things you comment on my posts are as follows:

You assume, under a 5 minutes of searching my blog, that I cannot distinguish body types. You state this as if I am ignorant, or discriminating because I do not draw a certain body type often.

Let me GIVE you my pieces then since it took you so long to find a "mid-size person"

I make art because I want to, I share my art because I want to, and I love doing it!

This is my online experience, if I believe calling my Oc a twink as a joke is getting annoying, do not say I do not know what I am talking about. Or that I am blind to his body type.

hi! Here is my Oc Mal the Sea Lion, I love her, but I don't post all my personal work.

I always know there will be "that person" when it comes to making my work public. Do not come up to me with hostility, when you yourself are not educated about me. You will not dictate how I want to create.

Nor will you show me such disrespect of my person.

I won't take shit from strangers on the internet, this ain't twitter, Im blocking you now.

#im not sure what to tag this #im taking off anon from now on #if you're going to act like this #deal with the consequences #its not like im going to see this person ever again #bye!!#:3c

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dredsina · 7 months ago

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Ive said this before but swear the biggest skill to learn as an adult is how to resist high-pressure sales tactics. You do NOT have to answer questions with anything other than "Sorry I'm not interested." No matter how nice they are or no matter how many follow up questions they ask or even how agitated they get when you stand your ground. Just keep saying I'm not interested. Don't answer their questions. Don't give them an opening to try to push back on your reasons. Be a fucking brick wall of I'm not interested.

#You're going to feel like you're being rude and that's okay #They're going to act like your best friend at first #And slowly get more agitated #the more you try #To stand your ground #But they're not your friend #They're trying to sell you something you don't want

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inkskinned · 2 years ago

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the thing is that they're so fascinated by sex, they love sex, they can't imagine a world without sex - they need sex to sell things, they need sex to be part of their personality, they need sex to prove their power - but they hate sex. they are disgusted by it.

sex is the only thing that holds their attention, and it is also the thing that can never be discussed directly.

you can't tell a child the normal names for parts of their body, that's sexual in nature, because the body isn't a body, it's a vessel of sex. it doesn't matter that it's been proven in studies (over and over) that kids need to know the names of their genitals; that they internalize sexual shame at a very young age and know it's 'dirty' to have a body; that it overwhelmingly protects children for them to have the correct words to communicate with. what matters is that they're sexual organs. what matters is that it freaks them out to think about kids having body parts - which only exist in the context of sex.

it's gross to talk about a period or how to check for cancer in a testicle or breast. that is nasty, illicit. there will be no pain meds for harsh medical procedures, just because they feature a cervix.

but they will put out an ad of you scantily-clad. you will sell their cars for them, because you have abs, a body. you will drip sex. you will ooze it, like a goo. like you were put on this planet to secrete wealth into their open palms.

they will hit you with that same palm. it will be disgusting that you like leather or leashes, but they will put their movie characters in leather and latex. it will be wrong of you to want sexual freedom, but they will mark their success in the number of people they bed.

they will crow that it's inappropriate for children so there will be no lessons on how to properly apply a condom, even to teens. it's teaching them the wrong things. no lessons on the diversity of sexual organ growth, none on how to obtain consent properly, none on how to recognize when you feel unsafe in your body. if you are a teenager, you have probably already been sexualized at some point in your life. you will have seen someone also-your-age who is splashed across a tv screen or a magazine or married to someone three times your age. you will watch people pull their hair into pigtails so they look like you. so that they can be sexy because of youth. one of the most common pornography searches involves newly-18 young women. girls. the words "barely legal," a hiss of glass sand over your skin.

barely legal. there are bills in place that will not allow people to feel safe in their own bodies. there are people working so hard to punish any person for having sex in a way that isn't god-fearing and submissive. heteronormative. the sex has to be at their feet, on your knees, your eyes wet. when was the first time you saw another person crying in pornography and thought - okay but for real. she looks super unhappy. later, when you are unhappy, you will close your eyes and ignore the feeling and act the role you have been taught to keep playing. they will punish the sex workers, remove the places they can practice their trade safely. they will then make casual jokes about how they sexually harass their nanny.

and they love sex but they hate that you're having sex. you need to have their ornamental, perfunctory, dispassionate sex. so you can't kiss your girlfriend in the bible belt because it is gross to have sex with someone of the same gender. so you can't get your tubes tied in new england because you might change your mind. so you can't admit you were sexually assaulted because real men don't get hurt, you should be grateful. you cannot handle your own body, you cannot handle the risks involved, let other people decide that for you. you aren't ready yet.

but they need you to have sex because you need to have kids. at 15, you are old enough to parent. you are not old enough to hear the word fuck too many times on television.

they are horrified by sex and they never stop talking about it, thinking about it, making everything unnecessarily preverted. the saying - a thief thinks everyone steals. they stand up at their podiums and they look out at the crowd and they sign a bill into place that makes sexwork even more unsafe and they stand up and smile and sign a bill that makes gender-affirming care illegal and they get up and they shrug their shoulders and write don't say gay and they get up, and they make the world about sex, but this horrible, plastic vision of it that they have. this wretched, emotionless thing that holds so much weight it's staggering. they put their whole spine behind it and they push and they say it's normal!

this horrible world they live in. disgusted and also obsessed.

#this shifts gender so much bc it actually affects everyone #yes it's a gendered phenomenon. i have written a LOT about how different genders experience it. that's for a different post.#writeblr #ps my comments about seeing someone cry -- this is not to shame any person #and on this blog we support workers.#at the same time it's a really hard experience to see someone that looks like you. clearly in agony. and have them forced to keep going.#when you're young it doesn't necessarily look like acting. it looks scary. and that's what this is about - the fact that teens #have likely already been exposed to that definition of things. because the internet exists #and without the context of healthy education. THAT is the image burned into their minds about what it looks like.#it's also just one of those personal nuanced biases -#at 19 i thought it was normal to be in pain. to cry. to not-like-it. that it should be perfunctory.#it was what i had seen.#and it didn't help that my religious upbringing was like . 'yeah that's what you get for premarital. but also for the reference #we do think you should never actually enjoy it lol'#so like the point im making is that ppl get exposed to that stuff without the context of something more tender #and assume .... 'oh. so it's fine i am not enjoying myself'. and i know they do because I DID.#he was my first boyfriend. how was i supposed to know any different #i didn't even have the mental wherewithal to realize im a lesbian . like THAT used to suffering.

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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 4 months ago

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Council of lovefools.

[First] Prev <–-> Next

#poorly drawn mdzs #mdzs #wei wuxian #jiang yanli #jiang cheng #They don't have an actual sleepover in this scene but the vibes were so sleepover coded...I had to get them cozied up.#Late night talks with friends and family are some of the best conversations.#My siblings and I used to have room sleepovers with each other (Actually an excuse to stay up and talk about runescape)#Currently my flatmates and I also have really great heart to hearts late into the night.#Pondering shit like 'What defines confidence?“ and ”Why are people terrified of letting themselves fall in love?"#All that aside; There is a really great conversation between JC and WWX here. They are so close and yet so far way from each other!#Fundamentally they *agree* about many things - but JC now has to play the role of someone more 'mature'.#His temper is reigned in and he had to take a more nuanced approach. Whereas WWX can be far more reactionary.#JC has changed to become someone more mature (or at least he is trying).#Contrast this attitude with the scene *right* after where WWX literally goes baby mode with JYL. Rolling around going “I'm Fwee years old”.#When children are hurt we comfort them with hugs and warm food and a laugh. It's not enough when you're an adult. It's not simple anymore.#WWX is stuck in the past when everyone else is shifting and moving on! It's a depression allegory (and just...actual depression)#But we also get to see how some things have stayed the same. They still bicker about soup. They still tease. They are still together.#They all care for each other very much but they are struggling against trauma and are not equipped to talk about it.#You can't really blame WWX for being so protective over JYL. But JC is right: “You don't have a say in who she likes.”#It may have started as an arranged marriage but *she* is *choosing* what her heart wants. JC sees that. WWX cannot.#The final act of love is letting go after all.

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aunmenosheteroenespanol · 9 months ago

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2.12 Chimney Begins - 2.09 Hen Begins - 2.16 Bobby Begins Again - 7.04 Buck, Bothered and Bewildered

Tommy's family arc

#911 #911edit #911 abc #911 show #911 spoilers #911 season 7 #tommy kinard #evan buckley #evan 'buck' buckley #kinley #bucktommy #kinkley #tevan #pick a ship name you guys and thanks for picking tevan the most correct name #anyway analysis time!#looking back with Modern Knowledge tm about why tommy acts the way he does in the past... babygirl you were so closeted I'm so proud #babygirl was back there getting into narnia #he was so resistant to letting go of the pseudo-family he'd found at the 118 in chimney begins #even tho it was a good old boys club that he knew he really didn't fit into he was making himself fit because at least it was something #but then he let chimney in and then hen came around and he saw a very queer person being openly queer and not giving a fuck what they think #and I think his behavior in that episode was trying to support hen as much as he could without outing himself #because like. how do you give up years of relative safety with people who do care about you they just won't like you anymore if you're *you #then he meets buck in s7 which is like 10-20 years later timeline is fake and he's like oh. this is what unconditional family is #and he's like oh. maybe I can come back. maybe I can be part of this again somehow. maybe we've both grown enough #or at the very least he'll be close to something he never believed would really happen for him #rant over tevan my beloved tim minear pillow cold both sides god bless #my edits

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bamsara · 23 days ago

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I love Arson he's my favorite heater but I should really get a cheap laptop one day so I can leave the house to write because the Noise. Is . Too Much. I need to go write in the forest

#I live in a very very full and busy house hold #and sometimes it makes it extremely difficult to work #both on art stuff and packaging #but also writing especially #i have horrible executive dysfunction but on good days ill still try and get thwarted by multiple inturruptions and loud sounds #and on bad days ill just completely shut down from it all #adhd meds and headphones cannot fix Other People In My Space lmao #sara shush #personal #complaining #Unfortunately if i ask to be left alone or for quieter volume i will get neither of those even if i lock my door #I legit have a sign on my door that lets people know when im live streaming and have asked not even volume control just to be left alone #and there will still be knocking on my door for questions like 'can you go get something from the store'#i need. people to understand that if i am busy esp if i am doing packages and stickers and stuff that i am WORKING #please treat it like im at a 9-5 office building somewhere act like i dont exist #you dont just walk into someones place of work and start venting/asking them of things while theyre at their job #'but you're at home' yes and im still working and i have communicated this several times #i did not mean to vent but GOD

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divineandmajesticinone · 5 months ago

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4 MINUTES (2024) I 1.03 "I didn't think you were like this. Like what? Like this..."

#4 minutes #4 minutes the series #userfaiza #userrlaura #uservix #userrlana #tonkla #win #win x tonkla #wintonkla #tonkla x win #jjay patiphan #fuaiz thanawat #thai drama #bl series #thai bl #after this episode i feel that 'the woman was too stunned to speak" meme because whew girl....#jeez louise tonkla is kinda self destructive tho #but i kinda get it: he's grieving and korn ignoring him must sting extra hard #but win seems to be quite self-destructive as well if we're being honest....#also tonkla's sleeping with win is not only because he's sad and wants to distract himself #it's also maybe a way for him to punish korn.... like 'look what i'm doing while you're not here' kinda stuff #but im still rooting for them to fall in love bc that would make things EXTRA complicated soooooooooooooooo #plus kinda interesting how he's acting completely different with win - he's not faking anything the same way he does with korn hmmmmmmmmmmm #and i kinda respect win just going with the flow tho - my man was not complaining and doing whatever he was told #love that tonkla kinda looks like the mafia boss and win is his boytoy - surely this doesn't mean anything....#mywork

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knifearo · 1 year ago

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"asexual discourse" is so funny cause dude that's not discourse and it's never been discourse. it's not an argument and it's not a conversation bitches are just yelling at us unprompted and then making up people to get mad at 😭

#exclusionists will act like they're in the fucking trenches when they're posting #as if they're not taking the time to walk into someone else's community without provocation and start being nasty.#saw a post the other day that was saying smth aphobic and was like 'it's true and we should be allowed to say it'#babe nobody's Stopping you. you can say whatever the fuck you want.#thing is though that when you say shitty things. people don't typically like it <3 #anyway die mad sorry that you fell for heteronormativity and amatonormativity and assume both to be the norm.#i'm gonna keep creating community with other queer people and you are more than welcome to go off and die alone <3 #also if you're fr going into ace discourse in the year of our lord 2024. jesus fucking christ get a hobby #aromantic #aromanticism #arospec #aroace #aspec #talking #asexual #ace discourse #ace exclusion

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butwhatifidothis · 19 days ago

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Wyll fans: Can Larian please just give Wyll a little more content with this new patch? Even just a few more voice lines would be fine-

Weirdos, without fail, literally every single time: WHY ARE YOU SO ENTITLED OH MY GOD WHY CAN'T YOU UNDERSTAND THAT ADDING A DOZEN SUBCLASSES AND CROSS PLAY AND A PHOTO-MODE AND NEW ASTARION VOICE LINES IS SO MUCH EASIER ON THE DEVS THAN ADDING VOICE LINES FOR WYLL WHY AREN'T YOU PEOPLE EVER SATISFIED WITH EVERYTHING YOU'VE BEEN GIVEN SHUT THE FUCK UP THIS IS WHY NOBODY LIKES THE BLAND BORING GOODY TWO SHOES CHARACTER IT'S BECAUSE OF YOU PEOPLE

#wyll ravengard #like i'm sorry that people pointing out and getting upset about the treatment of the only black playable character #makes y'all so uncomfortable you start freaking out like this. but my guys and gals and nb pals you do NOT look good acting like this #go back to pretending to like Ast*rion as you replace all his lines with Wyll's and leave this discussion if this is how you're gonna act

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aceghostsarchive · 1 month ago

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Emmrich: But you've been through so much these past days. You must need rest.

Rook: Emmrich?

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beanghostprincess · 6 months ago

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A bit tired of people complaining about Sanji's principle of "not hitting women" being misogynistic when it has been clearly stated multiple times that he does not choose it and it's heavily tied to his trauma and admiration for his dad and respect for women and definitely not from seeing women as somehow weaker than him

#like okay i get where you're coming from and i understand that from a simpler perspective it's weird #if meet a guy irl who refuses to fight against women no matter how evil they are for no reason other than being women i'd consider it odd #but.... we have watched sanji's backstory and we have seen him actively feeling bad for not being able to hit female enemies #like what do you not understand #you can say the practice itself is based on misogynistic views too but the reasons why sanji doesn't hit women are more complex than that #a lot of people might disagree with me but like #i'm not saying the act itself is awesome and solemn and correct but you can't go and call sanji a misogynistic character just bc of that #like saying he views women as weaker than him is just. wrong. and i've seen people say it #and yes this behavior adds to his gentleman personality and it's also for the writing to show how polite and nice he is to women #but it's not exaggerated. he genuinely has issues viewing women as equals bc he romanticizes them #and that's bad! he knows that's bad!#let the character grow?????? i swear people can't read 😭#i'm not making any sense i just woke up but yeah #one piece #black leg sanji

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backjustforberena · 2 months ago

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RHAENYS TARGARYEN: "I know who he is, Corlys." 2x04 - The Red Dragon and The Gold.

#or as i call these gifs: “do you think I'm dumb”#followed by “i've said it now what are you going to do about it?”#then “is that really what you think of me? is that really how you're going to act”#and finally: “i can't even look at you”#there's a WHOLE flipping journey going on!#but the mood shifts are remarkable #and it feels like her mask and her composure is just getting thinner and thinner #get this woman a nap and a husband who can communicate pls #eve best #rhaenys targaryen #house of the dragon #my gifs #hotdedit

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blueskittlesart · 1 month ago

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what the hell are people???? even saying????? about zelda?????? i looked at some of your art (all beautiful btw huge fan) and i cant even COMPREHEND what people could even be on about

i have had people tell me im ""glorifying obesity"" completely genuinely believe it or not

#the comment that prompted that post was much tamer but like. no one can be normal about women who arent stick thin it's insane #at this point if you say 'squishy' or 'gives good hugs' or god forbid 'MOM BODY' i block for that too. act fucking normal #and she's not even REAL im just like. if you say that to a real life woman you're going to get the shit slapped out of you. please #asks #fatphobia

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thatdiabolicalfeminist · 3 months ago

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You guys know those at home COVID tests have a very high false negative rate, right?

Please tell me you know this. It's important that you understand that testing negative does not mean you don't have COVID or that you aren't contagious.

Also, if someone you live with has the same symptoms as you and tests positive, you should assume that you also have COVID.

#immediately upon waking a few mins ago i have just discovered someone in my life does not seem to know either of these facts #i feel like I'm going insane please know these very important basic facts!!! and then act like you know them!!!#thatdiabolicalfeminist #unless you test positive for flu or strep or something if you're sick you should act like you have covid tbh

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milolovesbmc · 6 months ago

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"Old men yaoi" You guys couldn't even handle Whizzer and Marvin

#like come on dude let's stop making them look/act freakishly young please #they're grown ass middle aged men #i swear I've seen them basically written as teenagers way too many times #like come on people we can do better!#slap some wrinkles and body hair and fat on them #“They look ugly :(”#WHO CARES!#They're people #they're gonna be a little ugly #they're not gonna be the perfect representation of beauty or something #I swear I've made so many posts about this I'm just very insane about it #All of you Falsettos artists who give them body hair and wrinkles and fat are my favourites ever I'm kissing you on the mouth #(Beginner) Falsettos artists who are afraid to do so because you're not confident on your artstyle or whatever #you can do it. do it. go ahead. who cares if they look a little bad. go nuts with it!#okay I'm done I SWEAR #falsettos 2016 #marvin falsettos #whizzer brown

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mohntilyet · 1 month ago

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is this a safe space to admit i really don't even like the lines in lucanis' first romance scene where he says something like "perfectly gathered clouds of doom" . but that does not stop me from loving him very much. i'm choosing to see this as a guy who is the terrible combo of reads romance novels, has never had a romantic relationship before AND his definition of 'good flirt' is synonymous with 'illario' so he's got an incorrect definition of what's actually romantic. the less lucanis is specifically trying to be romantic the more he becomes irresistible but i don't think he's caught onto that yet

#like . LIKE. it makes sense to me that this is him trying extremely hard to make his attraction known before he overthinks it and leaves #as always i find a way to sneak illario into this conversation but the point stands #like the romance line is not corny if theres a reason that he's being so wildly corny. i have to believe this #i am also saying irresistible > romantic because he has some crazy lines in the romance #thats not romantic. but its genuinely like oh god here comes the yearner he's going to yearn all over the place #the discussion after the first part of act 3 for example.#'i thought i was never going to see you again' 'you're here. you're really here. i swear'#<- that is not lucanis flirting. that is lucanis being so unbelievably earnest with those stupid brown eyes that it just gets you #and the 'i've got you don't i?' 'you do' in act 3 too #<- and i dont even think this one is romance specific #theres a point to this .i just dont think he's naturally romantic #buuut. some of the more 'innocuous' lines that are part of his romance that are not overt flirting have such incredible acting/animation #which allows me to expand the mind palace. and he digs himself a little deeper into my heart #lucanis dellamorte #veilguard spoilers #dav #txt #'ur walking a bit too close to the edge 😈' and tyche's first thought in her mind is VIRGIN? but she likes him for him so its fine

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