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tommykinard217 · 4 months ago

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I think I'm always going to be the villain in her story, and I need to accept that.

#she always immediately jumped to the conclusion that me telling her i was upset abt smth was me seeing her as a terrible person #she always said that she felt like i thought the worst of her #but never actually listened to what i was saying #and this isn't me saying i was guiltless #i know i could have been a better friend #i know i was possessive and jealous #i have my flaws and im trying so hard to learn and grow #but it's the fact that she always came to the worst conclusion about me #and that conclusion was that i thought the worst things about her #so maybe it's for the best that things ended #it hurts that she's a stranger and idk what she's doing and if she's happy #if her sister is doing okay #if she got married #if her dad's health is okay #if the dogs are okay #all these details and these worries about her life #and i have to eventually move on and forget them all #it hurts #but maybe this is for the best #im slowly healing bit by bit #and I've found new friends that i love #friends that (hopefully) know i love them and see them in the best light #anyways sorry for all this djdjdjdjdjjf #just got into my own feelings about that friendship breakup i mentioned the other night fjfnfndnnfj

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fandomsandfeminism · 2 years ago

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Yall wanna hear a kinda funny, kinda sad story about my grandmother and hetero-normativity?

Ok, so... when my grandmother was in her 50s (I was an infant), she met a woman at the Unitarian Church. And, as can happen when you meet your soul mate, this event made it impossible for her to deny parts of herself that she had fiercely hidden her whole life.

All the drama- their affair being found out, the divorce with my grandfather, the court battle over who got the house, happened while I was a baby. Even in my earliest memories, it's just Mama Jo and Oma, and my grandfather lived elsewhere (first his own apartment, then a nursing home, then with us.)

But here's the thing- no one ever explained any of this to me. No one ever sat down and was like "hey, Rosie, so do you know what a lesbian is?" It was the 90s. It was Texas. I think my mom was still kinda processing all this, and just assumed that like... I was gonna figure it out. Don't mention it, let it just be normal. Like I think my mom thought that if she explained the situation, she would be making it weird? I dunno.

But like. In the 90s, in all the movies I had seen and books I had read, do you know how many same sex couples I had seen? Like. 0. Do you know how many "platonic best friend/roommates" I had seen? A lot. I had no context, is what I'm saying.

I literally thought this was a Golden Girls, roommates, besties situation until I was like...I dunno, 11? 12?

It was actually their parrot, an African Grey named Spike, imitating my grandmothers voice saying "Johanna, honey, it's getting late", that triggered the MIND BLOWN moment as I realized that *there's only one master bedroom and it only has 1 waterbed* when all the pieces finally clicked.

Anyway. I think it's a real important thing for kids to know queer people exist, for a lot of reasons, but also because kids can be clueless and it's embarrassing to have your grandmother be outted by a parrot because everyone just thought you'd figure it out on your own.

Anyway, here is my grandma and her wife, my Oma, after they moved to Albuquerque to be artsy gay cowboys and live their best life. They helped run a "Lesbian Dude Ranch" out there (basically just with funding and financial support. As Oma has explained "traditionally, most lesbians don't have a lot of money" so they wrote the checks and let the younger ladies actually run the ranch.)

#this is the grandmother who passed away unexpectedly earlier this month #she was so cool yall #and so weird #they got married twice by the way once when Massachusetts legalized it and once when New Mexico did #they hiked the grand canyon together #they had a european river cruise planned for this fall #she was 89 and she wanted to see the whole world with her wife #and they were working on it #literally i thought they were roommates #and there was only one bed

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dollykiller · 3 months ago

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#now that's a good night #they're so cool #Jeremy take care pls #my wife got a ring now yall shutup she's a married woman #jeremy dufrene #lizzy grant #lana del rey

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hey-heigo · 7 months ago

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happy pride month

#naegami #makoto naegi #byakuya togami #danganronpa #trans byakuya #polaris polanski #that post is ff naegami to me to a terrifyingly accurate degree #makoto and his wife who wants him to quit his job #byakuya casually dropping bombshells on a shell-shocked and exhausted man #and then daydreaming about a better life they could have together while makoto's still reeling with the implications #if i reconcile my bizarro upbringing and my convoluted perception of gender roles and current position in this foundation #the only way i can get him to leave on his own volition is to marry him. in a straight way. bc we're both straight. what if i was a girl #makoto's resigning himself to being ff's dog for the forseeable future. meanwhile byakuya is doing the same but also having egg emotions #not featured: kyoko who was sitting on the opposite side of makoto and was in the middle of a conversation with him. that got interrupted #she immediately downs her shot after byakuya says that out loud and texts the other survivors who each owe her $10. toko owes her $20 #tgirl egg byakuya in her 20s in an apocalypse as a middle manager is a very specific headcanon that i enjoy a lot #only thing keeping her going is her bisexuality and the reminder that 'i went off the grid while crossdressing before i can do it again'#my arts

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mayasaura · 7 months ago

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Spin the wheel of Locked Tomb characters and answer for who you get:

#maybe there is one and I just haven't seen it yet #in which case <3 two cakes!#the locked tomb #polls #fmk #fmk poll #I got Ianthe #.....I abstain on sharing my answer on the grounds that it may incriminate me #but I didn't marry her #and she's too interesting to kill

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erinwantstowrite · 10 days ago

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thinking about them atm (couldn't focus while writing so i had to doodle)

#alessandra parker #she needs her own tag #for context in case any of my readers forgot:#she's mary parker but if she like got to have a personality and a life #also i changed her name because for the context of the story it felt weird having dick's alt self marry someone with his dead mom's name #so yeah this is her #dick grayson #peter parker #ao3 #ao3 fanfic #leap of faith ao3 #leap of faith catch me if you can #peter parker in gotham

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saudariel · 3 months ago

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SAM HAZELDINE and MORFYDD CLARK as ADAR and GALADRIEL in The Rings of Power 2x08 "Shadow and Flame"

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morganbritton132 · 10 months ago

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Eddie’s live-streaming in his studio when Robin asks if he wants the rest of her milkshake. He’s like ‘yeah’ and she says, “Woooow, look at that. Once again, Eddie Munson gets my sloppy seconds.”

Eddie, playing along: Hate to break it to you, Rob, but Steve was with me before he married you, and during, and after.

Robin: Yeah, but I put a ring on it first.

Eddie: Actually, you didn’t.

Robin: In the eyes of the law, I did.

Eddie: Well, I slept with him

Robin: Ew. He confessed his love to me first

Nancy, not even looking up from her laptop: I don’t know about that…

#This is an ongoing bit that Eddie and Robin do #It’s the most fun you can have if you’re gay and you were married to the same guy #Nancy is there just to remind them that she got there first #Meanwhile Steve isn’t there at all. he’s at a school function #eddie munson tiktok saga #eddie munson #robin buckley #nancy wheeler

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samueltanders · 6 months ago

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#trekedit #entedit #star trek enterprise #enterprise #trip tucker #t'pol #trip x t'pol #scifiedit #scifigifs #tvedit #televisiongifs #by samueltanders #the way she grabs his arm and kisses him in front of people #he's got her lipstick on his cheek! when he watches her get married to someone else!

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lazycranberrydoodles · 7 months ago

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transfems your wangxian

#WEI YING REDO YOUR HAIR DYE PLEASE!!!#i was deep in thought about whether wwx would be combat boots or a sneakerhead #commentary on her shoe choice welcome #they got married and then simeoultaneously(??) realized and transitioned #lan wangji looks like she goes to church. she could not care less for the light of god #i think she eventually realizes she can be butch AND transfem #and then comes full circle and starts using He/Him again #wwx was an effeminate twink and already wore a bunch of womens clothes and used She/He so the change was less dramatic #RIP wei wuxian you would have LOVEDDDD barking #rip wei wuxian you wouldve loved leashes #btw idgaf about putting this in the main tag. look at my fucking lesbians #mdzs #wlwangxian #lan wangji #wei wuxian #wangxian #lesbians #t4t #art #my art #mo dao zu shi #mdzs fanart #fanart #modern au #the grandmaster of demonic cultivation #sketch #doodle

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notyourmusebby · 4 months ago

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charles and his in laws in monza, interesting

everybody knows they are married and expecting

#since carlos and charles got married and are expecting the two families have been inseparable #the big smile on pascale face when she is watching them pls that a proud mother in law #reyes and charles are wearing more light baby blue now bc they want charles to have a bby boy #everybody knows #carlos sainz jr #charles leclerc #f1 #ferrari #carlos sainz #scuderia ferrari #formula 1 #monza 2024 #italian gp 2024

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bitacrytic · 1 year ago

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I like that Marry My Husband didn't just give us a Cinderella moment for the female lead where she ditches her glasses for contacts and starts wearing form-fitting clothes. They also gave us a Cinderfella moment for the male lead where he ditches his glasses for contacts and starts wearing form-fitting clothes.

#equal rights you say?#marry my husband #because his suits in the first four episodes got on my nerves #when she mentioned it I WAS ECSTATIC!!!#not that I mind the glasses #but if they made the girl do it then I'm glad they made the boy do it too

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rainbow-sunshine-unicorn · 5 months ago

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Kate to Anthony: