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You don't wish your disability was worse or more visible, you wish your disability was taken seriously. Please stop confusing the two, I guarantee you would not get the support you need JUST by being more severe or more visible. Please listen to visibly disabled people when we tell you it isn't better on our side
#m/cc#mine#I tried extremely hard to word this nicely because I KNOW people don't mean bad and often even know there are unique challenges#and believe me I know the challenges of invisible disability too!!#I have invisible disabilities!#but as someone who has also been at least visibly 'off' since they were 10 I am SO SICK of invisible disabilities being hailed as like#a unique extra oppression that us lucky visibly disabled people don't have to deal with#there are challenges to invisible disabilities that visibly disabled people DON'T have to deal with!#but you need to understand that *the reverse is also true*#there are MASSIVE benefits to being able to lie about your disability for example#or not dealing with the overt ableism that comes with your disability being obvious to everyone#*I do not have the option to pretend I'm not disabled.* that is never an option I have#I walk weirdly. I use a mobility aid now. my speech and face are 'off.' I lean to one side#for a long time I wore sunglasses 24/7 and often didn't make sense. I sometimes can't speak or won't react to others#for the most part people will always know that at the very least something is wrong with me#and more obviously I have people telling me they'll pray for me; telling me I can't do things I'm already in the process of doing;#wanting to shake my hand to tell me I'm an inspiration for not killing myself; giving me dirty looks for existing in public#and yes. I'm aware that this is very much an in-community issue. I know the average abled person doesn't know invisible disabilities exist#that's why there's so much awareness happening for it#but as a visibly disabled person I get SO TIRED of constantly hearing 'I wish my disability was visible :'('#it's just 'I wish I had your disability!' but from other disabled people
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Kidnappings, Idiots, and Sexism, Oh My!
Alright. So I tried to play nice. I swear, I really did try to keep an open mind, but I just couldn't. If you've ever seen the classic musical, Seven Brides for Seven Brothers, you'll immediately understand where I'm coming from.
Some context:
My friend - let's call her Jane - is obsessed with musicals. And when I say obsessed, I mean obsessed. Like, sees a musical on her birthday every year and really only listens to show-tunes kind of obsessed. I, unlike Jane, have seen very few musicals. So this weekend, I let her have control of the TV remote.
Big mistake.
This movie is... a lot. I mean, I tried very hard to not make fun of it, or shit on it for being probably the most sexist thing I've ever seen. The movie literally starts with a song about how this man basically wants to buy a wife to take care of him and his brothers. And he does. Literally comes to town for one day, sees a pretty girl (that he knows is strong, can cook and clean, and thus would be ideal to help on his farm in the middle of fucking nowhere) and is like, "hey, marry me?". And she does.
Even though literally everyone in town tells her not to do it.
That's just the first ten minutes! I won't bore you with all the details (I have a tendency to rant, and would prefer to avoid that in writing), but basically the film ends with the six other brothers kidnapping six women. Who then, after months of being stuck in the woods, fall madly in love with their suddenly very handsome captors. Plus, that first woman? The idiot who married a complete stranger living in bumfuck middle of nowhere? Yeah, they have a baby. Yaaaay.
So what's the takeaway here? As a student of literature, I believe that there's a place for every text, so long as it's taught with an understanding of the greater context. Censorship has no place in the 21st century. Eliminating so-called "classics" such as this, solely because it conflicts with our modern understanding of morality, is certainly not the answer. So what do I do with this monstrosity of a musical? Burn my bra? Never let my friend pick another musical? Shout from the top of my building, "DON'T WATCH THIS FILM!"
I'm sure I could tell the cops all about it when they come to talk me after screaming like a maniac. They'd find it hilarious. *rolls eyes sarcastically*
Instead, I'm choosing to look at this as a testament to an old world thinking. And I do have to admit, the musical numbers were extremely well done - there was some crazy dancing. And this was before the era of stunt doubles and CGI. Dance at your own peril.
And with that, I'll end this with a shout-out to Jane, a friend with whom I can share anything:
Please, for the love of god, find better musicals.
#seven brides for seven brothers#sexism#what the hell#I can't believe you made me watch this#i tried very hard to be nice
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#sherlock#it might be the cough medicine but I'm really feeling the bbc sherlock wedding episode today#a good feeling âŐââČá”â”à„âââĄ#like finding an old block of cheese in the back of the fridge you forgot about and its gotten super hard and chewy#i currently have half a block of gouda curating in the vegetable cupboard#waiting#how are you doing friends!! C:#I'm good! I still have the cough but I also got a new scarf#I'm still thinking about buying window colors as well but I am waiting if that is also just because of the cough medicine#I can't believe it's already been a year since I have moved! last year I was doing everything here for the first time#and now everything is happening for a second time! that year was both very long and also happened very fast#our floor in the âofficeâ my father wanted to install still is not completly done but he threw up last time he tried#he did not threw up because of the floor but because every time he does a home renovation project he drinks 3 liters of Cherry Coca Cola#we are trying to not make him drink 3 liters of Cherry Coca Cola but he doesn't want anyone else to finish the floor I think so we just do#not mention the hole in the floor#have a nice autumn day friends!! I hope you're doing well! ( ÂŽÍ âĄ `Í )#â„
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Timmy's graduation from Pixies' Academy was a very filled very chaotic day. Peri did his very best to behave! He didn't want to make a fuss on Timmy's big day!!!
But when you get a bunch of green stuff and no soda with your food, that's when you've had enough.
Bitties Series: [Start] > [Previous] > [Next]
Instability: [Next]
#fairly oddparents#fop#fop a new wish#fop peri#peri#itty bitties fop au#this comic takes place night of timmy's graduation btw. if it wasnt clear haha#THERES 11 PARTS BUT 4 WILL BE RELEASED TODAY. JUST. FWI#im doing them in smaller batches haha#also i tried very hard to make it 12 parts because 11 feels. very weird. its not a nice number to end on. hrm. hrm hrm.#but there's nothing to stretch out nothing to add nothing to remove#so 11 it is!!!#fellas... mayhaps reconsider bringing your baby siblings or relatives to graduation ceremonies.#babies and children get very fussy and graduation ceremonies are NOT optimal places for them. unnnfortunately
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yeah ok i'll jump on that trend
#trousled arts#undertale#papyrus#silver the hedgehog#14 y/o hedgehog that tries very hard to kill someone based on a rumor & skeleton that will be so so nice to u after u chop his head off#one will hit you with an entire meteor and one will knock you unconscious and put you in a shed#i think they could hang out#this was gonna be part of that doodle dump i mentioned the other day but it was taking too long so here it is while it's still relevant lma#ive been on a big sketch-as-lineart kick lately if u cant tell
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All drawings about Bakugou from 2019 to 2024
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12
special mention to Stikugou:
and the Kiribaku references in Kirishimaâs belongings and hoodie Dynamight:
#They don't have a chronological order but at first sight you can see how old it is#Bakugou was always my big problem#because no matter how hard I tried I couldnât keep up with it in my art#felt like I couldnât do it justice for how much I loved it and itâs always been my problem to love so much that I canât do anything#With form I was taking more responsibilities and I grew#he grew up with me. After getting sick and almost dying#I want to make it real#just draw for him and these 8 months have been very nice for me#Still struggled a lot with he hair I wonât lie#But with him I let my heart guide me#honneydraws âčâŹÛ«đÌžá© à»àŁȘêŁčÛ«#mha bakugou#mha#mha fanart#mha x reader#boku no hero academia#my hero academia#bnha#bakugo katsuki#bakugou katsuki#bakugou x reader#art#artists on tumblr#digital art#illustration#digital illustration#drawings
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I know the decision to have Julian's parents have him augmented was made on the fly but imo its pretty obvious from early on that Julian has Family Issues because he avoids talking about his family like the plague and I think they should've incorporated this into the Julian and Sisko dynamic right from early on because I think it would've made for some really compelling stories and moments and could've set up a REALLY interesting Julian and Jake dynamic which they kinda started to do but never fully went for
#star trek: ds9#julian bashir#benjamin sisko#jake sisko#s1 Julian being so young and eager to prove himself and latching onto Sisko as this mentor figure to look up to#seeing Sisko with Jake and low-key seeking that fatherly figure connection which he won't even let himself think about#Sisko seeing this young brilliant doctor who's got all the makings to be something great and he's just GOTTA help him along#I think he would also catch on pretty quick that Julian's got Parental Issues#he tries to ask one day all casual like 'tell me about yourself :)' and Julian talks about nothing but Starfleet and med school#any attempts to ask about his family are met with awkward brief answers and redirections#and then theres the way Julian's eyes light up the first time Sisko invites him to watch a baseball game#like he Knows. he's a dad he Knows somethings up#but he doesnt pry#I also think it makes their dynamic more tragic towards the end of the series#where we have Sisko asking Julian to compromise his morals again and again#Julian's trust and respect for him gradually deteriorating#and then at the end of course Sisko is gone and they have no idea when he'll be back#which I think Julian would have a lot of complicated feelings about#but of course theres also Jake#I imagine they'd get closer#very brotherly dynamic#you know that scene in TNG where Wesley goes to Riker for girl advice and Riker and Guinan start flirting?#absolutely happens but with Jake asking Julian for girl advice and Julian wooing a girl at Quark's and Jake absolutely loses the plot#makes the events of ...Nor the Battle to the Strong more intense as well I think#also I like to think there'd be an episode where the B plot is Jake gets mad at Sisko and impulsively decides to move out#ends up at Julian's because he did not think this through#Julian is now very much caught in the middle of this family drama and he Fucking Hates It#also him and Jake are NOT compatible roommates but he's trying so so hard to be nice#eventually they have a talk and Julian cryptically hints at his own home life and tells Jake he's lucky he has a dad who cares so much#them being closer would work into what Alone Together sets up for them
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Hinata is intensely competitive and he thrives when heâs challenged so when a player proclaim that they want to be his rival, it is the biggest form of an acknowledgment.
âfinally someone who doesnât want to be my rival but instead dream to be on the same team as me and be by my side unlike everyone elseđ„șâ is something you would NEVER catch shoyo saying bc it never mattered if itâs on the same or opposite sides of the net⊠itâs all volleyball.
wanna play together? Coolâšâš wanna be rivals? Even better âšâšâš
while it is true that at the start of the series, Hinataâs abilities in volleyball were on a newbie level and he needed a setter like Kageyama to enhance him, Itâs also true that most of the time players underestimates him bc of his appearance,
BUT as soon as they see him play they always acknowledge that he bring something to the table, that aside from being part of the freak duo heâs worth recognizing on his own.
âEveryone thinks hinata only shine bc of Kageyamaâ NO THEY DONâT lol. Youâll always hear random players from rival teams says oh that number 10 surprised me the most! heâs a scary monster! wanna take down Kageyama? gotta take down hinata firstâ
They see him as an actual threat. They see him as a worthy competitor.
This might be about hinata being acknowledged within a rivalry context but ofc others wants to play with him too, set for him.
and Kageyama? He wants both rivalry and partnership. He actively wants to compete with shoyo, not just on the court but through every little thing they do, and he also wants to toss to hinata for the rest of his life.
so to think that âno one ever appreciates hinata outside of the freak duoâ or that âeveryone just actively wanted to be his rival and not his teammatesâ until the inarizaki match is such a disservice to his story.
not only it reduces hinataâs hard work and effort, his ability to convince others to choose him but also downplay Kageyamaâs impact on him
when this guy was asking hinata to stay with him forever when they were just 15!
Kageyama being the first ever opponent shoyoâs ever encountered, who took him seriously, never once put his guard down the entire match and even after completely obliterating shoyoâs weak team he still viewed his opponent as an equal I could go on but I digress bc if I start yapping about kghn Iâll never stfu this isnât abt them LMFAOOOOO
Ok back on topic, Itâs not like hinata isnât allowed to be⊠insecure (?) He was unsettled by Washijo's comment that he's only valuable with a setter during the Karaneko match. Even when praised by a Kamomedai player, Hinata deferred all the credit to Tobio. itâs understandable, thatâs his entire dilemma for more than half of the manga.
but still,
Yes shoyo once had to âbegâ his friends for tosses in middle school, yes he had no teammates in the beginning or a partner but HE HAS KARASUNO NOW!!!
He has a very dedicated partner who promised to toss to him anytime he wants. Who makes sure hinata knows heâs integral to the team, who tells him heâs the greatest decoy. who made a whole speech about how much shoyo is needed when he was being insecure about his height. Who tells him he can fly even higher
Hinata has people in his life who believes in him, who appreciates him, respect him, acknowledge him as a worthy rival and partner. Heâs doing fine!
*wanted to add his reaction when he was being praised after a match. Heâs so cute shoyo i love you
#everytime someone say âhinata had to beg even Kageyama for tosses but atsm-â an angel dies#I tried so hard to phrase this as nicely as possible and not make it a âship thingâ#but yeah Fandom always paint atsumu as this sort of savior#when hinata never needed saving in the first place.#she donât wanna be saved donât save her#so unserious#these are very niche mischaracterizations#if youâre not chronically online on twt u wonât get my struggle#hinata shouyou#kageyama tobio#kagehina
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1 : Soap never had any idea that woman wanted him carnally, he's not the most observant on that front (he never noticed Ghost flirting with him and thought his love was one-sided for the longest time, but tbf Ghost was also very discreet about it)
2 : He sewed the hat, eyepatch and hook himself, because he's the best uncle and then got distracted as he was wrapping it up, so now he's watching a tutorial on youtube about how to build a voice box. Honestly how hard could it be, he builds explosive devices as a hobby (listen, Price doesn't have to know)
3 : He is out to his family, but doesn't want his mum to know he has a boyfriend because he knows she'll insist on meeting him and welcoming him to the family and making a big deal out of this, and he knows that Ghost isn't ready for that.
4 : Christmas is obviously a very hard time for Ghost, but he is very very in love with Soap and some days still can't believe that it's mutual, but then his Johnny does something like that and his head gets quieter while he's melting a bit.
5 : For the people that didn't see my other post : the bird is a Caique parrot, and they're supposedly very energetic, a bit loud, medium sized, unintelligible, very friendly to what they consider their family, adventurous and danger prone, with an explosive personality and a hate of boredom, so basically the adhd bird.
#cod mw2#john soap mactavish#simon ghost riley#soapghost#ghostsoap#ghost is hard edges and sharp knives but simon is babygirl#i tried my best to make soap's sister look as much like soap as possible#as someone whose siblings look nothing like them i find it hilarious i have no idea why i swear i have the weirdest sense of humour#hc that simon's very first wait no second actually bc i feel like the first special interest for every child with autism is dinosaurs#but wait plot twist birds are dinosaurs so still hc that simon's first (or second if you want) special interest was birds#and he still loves them very much and both soap and his sister have adhd and his sister has a reoccurring hyperfixation on birds#and soap thinks ghost and his sister could get along very easily and is waiting very impatiently for the day ghost is ready and he can#introduce him to his family#but also ghost is very wary of families and especially since there's a young child because he's scared that he'll bring them death like he#feels he did to his own family#i initially wanted to colour it but then i wondered why my brain was working against me and very quickly decided that colouring all that#would be a nightmare and that i already hate colouring so why would i want to torture myself#anyway pls be nice with me i've given all i had to make this lmao
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Would love for them to bring up languages at some point.
Angel: "shit they're speaking French. Smiles! Translate!"
Alastor: "I'm not sure which is more insulting; assuming I can fluently speak and understand French because I'm Creole, or that you think French and French-Creole are the same thing."
#I was gonna have Husk say something in French but that is not of the 7 languages he knows#Alastor doesn't speak French fluently and only knows a bit!#In addition it'd most likely be French-Creole which is very much not the same as normal French!#French speaking Alastor is very nice but also very inaccurate#If not in the fluency it's the type of French#Though if his mom knows French-Creole perfectly and Alastor just had a hard time learning a second language#That would be relatable and very funny if the two met in show and Alastor just stands there not knowing what she's saying in her excitement#Alastor just nods awkwardly hoping she's not saying something he should not be nodding to.#Would be cute if he tried really hard to learn and practice it even after dying tho but sucked at it.#Give a bit more fun character to him gotta say. And also sad as he tries to keep one of the few connections he has to his mother.#Celtrist#cel rambles#hazbin hotel#hellaverse#alastor the radio demon#hazbin hotel alastor#hazbin angel dust#hazbin hotel incorrect quotes
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you say machete has to be closeted then why's he always wearing them little heels
Maybe he thinks he's a tiny bit nicer looking in them.
#no in fact he's just a little ahead of the curve let me try to explain#again I'm not a historian I'm just sharing what I've read I might be misremembering stuff so don't quote me on this#high heels became extremely fashionable in the early 1600's probably just a few decades after Machete's time#and they were originally worn by men#because they were inspired by Persian riding boots#if your shoes had heels you'd have easier time keeping your feet in the stirrups (think of cowboy boots)#Europeans saw them thought they looked snazzy and they became wildly popular in noble circles fairly quickly#for some hundred years or so high heels were the epitome of class wealth power and status and they were essentially genderless#remember that concepts of masculinity and femininity are fluid and change over time#things that were seen as manly a few centuries ago may seem downright effeminate to a modern viewer#it's all matter of perspective neither is objectively more correct than the other#they started to separate into men's heels and women's heels around mid 1700's iirc but the changes weren't massive even then#and only truly went out of vogue when the French Revolution hit in 1789#and people all across the continent were suddenly put off by everything that reminded them#of the frivolousness and extravagance of royalty and aristicracy#so in his canon timeline I don't think people are looking at him and going âhmmm that's pretty gayâ#because heels hadn't become gendered yet#maybe he likes how they accentuate his already tiny paws and make his legs look even longer than they are#he's interested in fashion or at least likes to dress nicely in high quality garments#he tries very hard to look his best despite never really feeling comfortable in his skin#he was a real shrimp as a kid and even though he eventually grew up to be a beanpole he might still find the extra height appealing#no one's going to look down on him ever again#I admit the way I draw them is a lot more modern than the true historical style at the time but not outrageously so#artistic freedom and all that in the end I'm not aiming for 100% accuracy#modern au Machete has no excuses though he's just a little bit fruity#if the guy feels empowered by wearing little clip cloppers let him#answered#anonymous#Machete
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Yuuko debrief time!Â
I love how we have in-text examples of exactly what Yuuko is talking about over in Tsubasa. As she says, if someone actually has a void then it wonât actually elicit any emotional response, because they feel nothing about it - just like when Syaoranâs soul went missing and he really was just emotionless all the way down. He couldnât feel anything because there was nothing to feel with. And Yuuko uses that concept as a way to show Watanuki that even though it seemed to end badly he was actually completely correct and did actually offer her something valuable, but it was her choice not to take it.
OH OH OH I LOVE THIS SENTIMENT EVEN MORE.Â
Watanuki, the sunshine child, worries that she didnât want to hear what he had to say. But Yuuko puts aside whatever the customer might or might not want and puts Watanukiâs own feelings on the same level of importance.Â
If Watanuki WANTED to express that sentiment then his feelings are valid and he has every right to have said it. His feelings and opinions are every much as important as anyone else's and deserve to be expressed. He is allowed to take up space in the world and be a full person, not only when it is conveniently what the other person wants to hear.Â
Which is a sentiment Watanuki might not fully grasp just yet BUT ONE DAY.Â
#It took me a very long time to learn this also#I think it is especially hard to learn when you are the âniceâ one#And Watanuki tries so hard to be nice!#Which! Is another reason why Doumekiâs friendship is so good for him#It gives him space to HAVE opinions and express them#Completely in the face of anything Doumeki might want to hear#Perhaps even deliberately to spite what Doumeki wants to hear#And itâs a good way to balance out his more humble instincts#He deserves to be heard!#Not liveblogging the reservoir chronicle#xxxholic 89#xxxholic#Watanuki#Yuuko Ichihara#I guess Iâm saying Watanuki is naturally very... demure very... mindful#But the growth is in being not JUST that
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milgram prisoners third anniversary icons!
(credit is not needed, but appreciated)
#before you tell me âyou forgot esâ NO I DIDN'T I LOVE ES SM BUT they look TINY in that anniversary artwork#so even if i tried it would be very hard to make an es pfp that looks nice and isn't too blurry đ i love es please trust me#so yeah this is also why i wrote âmilgram prisonersâ and not just âmilgramâ#đself indulgent đ#milgram#milgram icons#haruka sakurai#yuno kashiki#fuuta kajiyama#muu kusunoki#shidou kirisaki#mahiru shiina#kazui mukuhara#amane momose#mikoto kayano#kotoko yuzuriha
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âŠVolcarona/TsareenaâŠ
âŠDiancie/SolgaleoâŠ
âŠYvetal/GardevoirâŠ
#pokemon fusion#yvetal#gardevoir#volcarona#tsareena#diancie#these arent even for if anymore im just having fun at this potin KJFHSKJDHFSJD#dont worry abt why two of them r in more or less the same pose i was feeling uncreative#in all seriousness i did yvetal first#got to tsareena#tried literally every pose under the sun#could not get them to work w its weird legs. theyre lowkey very hard to work with#ended up w this#anyways i wanna keep doing some big ones theyre so nice to do#also its cool to work without the constraints of which mons r in IF
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met a really cool queer stranger today that i thought was just so fucking neat i wanted to talk but if we were playing tennis they were, with the most gentle and earnest voice ive ever heard, shoving the tennis racket down my throat. every compliment or joke i made was turned away but in the sweetest way possible that made me sound like an absolute asshole lunatic. it was so scary.
#i tried so hard to be funny and nice but the way they replied to each thing i said made me feel like a scumbag LOL#ive never had that happen before. im very polite when i talk to strangers and i was being very polite then too!#i dont think they even saw it happening in realtime bc they were so calm and even keeled about it#but my god. still thinking about it. absolutely rattled me.#'ur so cool' 'oh its not the olympics. everyones cool. ur cool too' 'haha ur right yet ur still winning' 'hm. its not a competition.'#i was trying to make you laugh im sORRY i was being goofy when i said that i promise i did not say it straight#'you have so many cool tattoos' 'oh ive got a couple tattoo artist friends' 'oh thats so cool. maybe i could get a foot in the door'#like obviously as a joke but they replied gently 'you shouldnt seek friends out just to get something from them.'#NO I KNOW I KNOW IM SORRY IT HAPPENS TO ME CONSTANTLY I KNOW TRUST ME#i panicked and was like 'oh haha no i wasnt serious dont worry. im an artist so i know the feeling.' but i guess it came across as like#yknow. bc they just went 'hm.' and pulled out their phone#FUMBLED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im so embarrassed#the worst part was id been talking to someone in the back who makes familiar plushies and shed set a few out#so i was talking to them while i was trying to pull up her insta to look up more info about one of the familiars#bc it looked SO FUCKING COOL and i stood there saying that to my husband right in front of them after this legendary fumble#finally pulled up the insta post for it and. they own that one. its theirs. they dressed it like that. i was so fucking embarrassed skdjfks#i wanted to look at the pricetag bc i assumed it was there bc she HADNT sold it yet#god. legendarily embarrassed.
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Iâm not late to send my New Year cards for once! And Poldine gets to be all by herself because unlike Pyrgus she didnât get a birth announcement card, so it seemed fair. I started out writing âPoldine wishes you a happy new yearâ but then realised the shrub was more centered in the photo and more important-looking so the rest of the cards featured a happy new year message from Poldine & The Shrub.
#i know the deadline is the 31st but i wanted to post them in the first week of january for a change. it's 11pm and i am done!! i did it!#everyone got a personalised drawing this year to fill the blank spaces on the card and they were all terrible#except one of my cousins who got a squirrel. i'm good at squirrels#i can draw pandolf (sort of) but llamas are so hard#i had to add a santa hat on pampy's head because i had drawn her ears all wrong#also a friend sent me an assortment of sweets for christmas and i tried to draw my favourite sweet from the box on her card#i failed this very simple assignment and had to add a caption saying it was a nice rock i found in the woods this week
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