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hey. shoutout to the aros who DO enjoy valentine's day. shoutout to the ones who repurpose it for platonic, familial, or self love. shoutout to the ones that do not need comfort or pity this valentine's day but simply recognition.
shoutout to aromantics that send valentines to their friends. that treat themselves. that tell loved ones "happy valentine's day, i love you." that bask in the love and positivity the holiday brings. that participate in valentine's day events. that watch sappy romcoms for valentine's day. that use it as an excuse to draw ship art of their blorbos. that give their pets heart-shaped treats. that dress up in hearts and pink. that bake heart-shaped cookies. that shop for cute love-themed decorations. that look forward to chocolate sales tomorrow.
because valentine's day can be fun. you don't need a romantic valentine's date to enjoy it.
#this goes for single allos too!#but i felt like this was important to say for aros#because i've seen so many posts feeling sorry for me#but i'm living my best life#i made boxes of silly valentines gifts and homemade cookies and sent them to my friends#i told my mom i loved her#i dressed all pink#and i got to eat candy!#so i don't need anyone pitying me#i just want to show love and joy my way#dragonn talks#dragonn rants#aromantic#aro#aro tag#aroace#valentines day#queer tag
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The books reveal that Ford is actually a secret partier
(Available as a print on my Etsy Shop)
(wips under cut)
#doctorsiren#gravity falls#the book of bill#billford#journal 3#stanford pines#bill cipher#jheselbraum the unswerving#gravity falls fanart#digital art#my art#procreate#RAHH MY LOVE FOR MAKING MIDCENTURY-STYLE ART AT TIMES CAME IN SUPER HANDY#I think I surprised myself here 😳#(also don’t take this as shipping him and Jhes 😭💀 that’s his space fish mom 😁)#in the book of bill. obviously he and bill get drunk that time#and then in the 3rd journal#it says that after Jhes told him he had the face of the man who would defeat bill (meaning stanley lmao)#he ‘was so excited’ that he and Jhes ‘spent the entire night partying and drinking cosmic sand’#it’s funny bc Jhes is described as speaking with a steely resolve and is very calm#so it’s silly to me to picture her partying haha#I might make this one a print as well bc I really love how it looks#I’ll print it out tomorrow and decide if it’ll work well enough :) if it does I’ll put it on my shop#😭 the bill…his thumb is backwards BUT THATS NOT MY FAULT THATS LITERALLY HOW IT IS IN THE BOOK OF BILL PAGE THAT I REFERENCEDTHIS FROM WAHH#he can do whatever he wants ig
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#asexual#aces#asexual spectrum#young aces#younger asexuals#lgbtqia#lgbtq community#lgbt polls#lgbt poll#asexual poll#im gonna tell you something my mom did#i love her and it wasn't that bad but still#when i told my mom i might be a lesbian (when i thought i was a girl) she asked if i thought of my 15-16 YEAR OLD BEST FRIEND NAKED!#i was so disgusted#so yeah#but normally i don't tell people about being asexual i don't know if I'll ever tell my mom#i wonder if she won't believe me y'know?#maybe i should im growing older and she is getting more comfortable to talk about relationships with me#aegosexual
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the summer before Hogwarts🫶
in my mind, Sebastian is a huge planner & he always insisted on bringing too much along whenever he and Anne went on adventures. It’s always better to be prepared than to realize you forgot something at home😤
the next drawing will be Anne so you can compare the two😂💓
#I love thinking about their childhood so much🤧#this is a scene from my fic 🥹💓#hogwarts legacy#hogwarts legacy fanart#hphl#sebastian sallow#anne sallow#today I was walking to work and an old woman asked me where the library was and I had time so I walked with her there#I can’t give directions to save my life#turns out we have the same favorite book 🥹#then she told me ‘qué bien te parió tu madre’ jajajajajaja (my mom did a good job giving birth to me)#god I love old women & they give the funniest compliments#anyways hope you’re all having an amazing day too💓
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A lil guy !
#honkai star rail#dan heng#genuinely have a million things i wanna draw and then zero energy#so dan heng in a hoodie#now i gotta go get dinner sooooo maybe that will give energy and then i can draw more of what i actually wanna draw#but i kinda spent like ... hours ? talking to my mom earlier today#since shes been in the hospital for many many days#so i was catching her up on whats been goin on and showed her silly lil videos#and telling her how hyped i was for summer hrid and she (very patient with my fe talk)#was like you always tell me about banners being bad so it must have made you REALLY happy to say the whole banner is good#and im like yeah and i had multiple people on multiple sites like hey salmon/moeblob did ya see the banner#and she was like thats so cool that people acknowledge who you like and im like yeah it is p cool#and then i told her how mad i was at the absolutely criminal act of limiting how you can watch clue (1985 hit movie)#like i told her yeah sure i own it twice on dvd and once on itunes and that the only way to watch those#are either desktop or ps2 and how i dont have access to my itunes email#and i dont have it on my laptop so i sadly would have to rebuy the movie on itunes under a new acct#then i said how i loved that it was free to watch with ads on yt and id watched it twice that way#but then recently wanted to watch it on there but laptop and hoo boy you have to buy or rent it now#so i v angrily was like fine whatever ill do the thing and leave my room and go watch it on my moms tv#while she isnt around and use her amazon prime where it should be included except ! IT WASNT!#YOU HAVE TO HAVE PRIME TO BUY OR RENT IT NOW TOO!#HOW ARE THEY DOING THIS AND WHY ! who in the world is watching this movie so much that isnt me that they have to charge for it now#on all platforms unless you straight up pirate it#and hey why would i of all people be needing to pirate a movie i own physically two times and digitally once#this is literally a personalized attack to me#and my mom was like i understand how you feel cause yeah thats really weird to do to a 1985 movie#and im like yes exactly i have morals and principles that make me opposed to this and its v maddening#and she said she understood and its ok next time we are having power issues and i have to shut down#that if i really wanna watch it i can rent it on her amazon account and i looked at her and shes like oh you feel v strongly about this#and i do! I HAVE HAD IT GIFTED TO ME TWICE ! I BOUGHT IT ONCE! WHY DO I HAVE TO RENT IT FOR MORE MONEY!
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ah. it hurts
#kimi ni todoke#i knew this episode would wreck me personally but..... idk this.. this here just.. oh it killed me#grief is so.. its so... it eats you whole#and you really do think you arent allowed to move on or smile or eat#because you should be sad#my mom told me the story that about 2 or so weeks after my dad died#when she went back to work#her colleagues made a joke at the lucnh table and she laughed#and one of them said oh look she can already laugh again#and he meant it nicely but my mom felt SO GUILTY#can i even be allowed to move on with my life if someone died that i love#am i allowed to smile tto have wishes to be annoyed about things to be angry about things to complain#ah. man ah man. i love kimi ni todoke so much i can barely put it in words
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#mom doesnt call it kitten usually too so makes it funnier#but also! she means it :D#it told her about how tried to make seem like post isnt irony poisoned discord kitten message meme and she say “i LOVE MY DOTTER”.. awesome
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i find it fascinating that style is the one saying this. the non-killer. who you'd think is the one who would be afraid. but no, it's the non-killer saying "no need to be afraid" to the killer. style, the non-killer who has proven to be fearless over and over again throughout the entire series so far. it's always been fadel, the killer, who's been the more scared one out of the two of them
#i LOVE how they gave the emotional fear package to the killer character who one would expect to be fearless#as my mom noted when i told her this thought earlier: it makes him human#the heart killers#fadelstyle#stylefadel#thk#thk fadel#adrm#airenyah plappert#god i wish i had the time to dissect fadel the way i've been dissecting style#that might be a project for when the series is over and i'm done with my style meta series
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DPXDC Prompt #58
Gotham is a city with a lot of ambient ectoplasm, enough that the Fentons move here instead of Amity Park. Danny being a pretty smart kid being the son of 2 scientists gets a scholarship to Gotham academy where he makes friends with Tim and Damian. Well the 2 were only doing it at first because they wanted to keep an eye on them scientists rarely didn’t become rouges in Batman’s gallery so can you really blame them for being cautious?
Danny is telling them about the portal that they were trying to build and how it wasn’t working and how Danny felt guilty about it. The 3 venture down there when the parents are gone and Danny wearing his hazmat goes into the portal while the other 2 watch on. Danny trips and no one’s having a good time.
They decided to take Danny to Wayne manor until they can figure out what exactly happened to him, unfortunately Danny’s new powers act up and he winds up phasing through the floor into the basement… or more accurately the Bat cave.
#dp x dc prompt#dp x dc#dc x dp#danny fenton#danny phantom#Danny and Jazz grow up in Gotham#Danny gets his powers in front of Damian and Tim#now they’re all traumatized#Does it count as character death if it’s Danny?#I’ve always thought if you describe it at all then yes#I’ve never told anyone in my life how much I love Danny Phantom so absolutely no one knows it’s my favorite show#Like even my mom and I tell her almost everything#All my prompts are free for everyone to use#My goal in life is to spread creativity#I also want more DPXDC fanfics so that’s why I started this#My asks are still open btw#Bruce definitely approved Danny’s scholarship just to keep an eye on him
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The doctors had told him that things would get easier after the first trimester.
Fox had believed them. He had kind of had to, to preserve his own sanity. He had to believe that at some point, he would stop throwing up, sweating and shivering and being so damn tired that he'd fall asleep just about anywhere.
It had, in fact, been true. Of course he still occasionally felt a little sick when he smelled something unsavory, but it was only occasionally. He didn't wake up to being hot and cold in tandem so much anymore either. He was tired, still, but only to a degree that he had to sit down a couple of times a day, and maybe take a nap. Otherwise, he had been feeling pretty good during the start of the second trimester.
But then, a new challenge had crept up on him.
It had started small, so small that he had barely even felt anything at first. When he had noticed it for the first time, he had actually been happy about it.
What a fool he had been.
It had only gotten more frequent from then on, and most importantly, stronger. So much stronger.
So much stronger, in fact, that he had looped back around being tired, since every time he tried to sleep or even rest for a moment, it would start again.
It was happening again now, as he lay in their cooled bedroom, the lights dimmed and the blinds shut to escape the summer heat. He would've loved to take a nap, but he was yet again realising that sleep would not be happening.
There was a light knock on the door, and Breha peeked in.
"You're still awake?" She asked. She kept her voice quiet, in case Fox was somehow sleeping.
"Yes", Fox answered. "I don't think I will be getting any sleep."
Breha made her way to the bed, and sat on the edge of it next to Fox. Her fingers very quickly found their way into his hair, pushing it back from his face.
"Try to at least close your eyes", she said. "It's better than nothing."
"I know, I know, I'm trying-" There it was again, cutting his words into a breathless gasp.
Breha sighed softly, continuing to pet his hair.
"Is it that bad?" She asked.
Fox pressed his hand against his abdomen, and poked at it slightly. It was still, for the most part, hard muscle he had spent so long acquiring during his training, and had took even more time and effort to keep during serving. He hadn't even needed new clothes, yet, apart from a pair of dress pants he had very much liked and sorely missed now.
Fox had no idea how there was a whole baby in there, somewhere, but there was no mistake of it, not since-
Fox hissed slightly when there was a blow straight into his ribs.
"Yes", he said. "I'm going to send Bail a very pointed message. Those are definitely his elongated legs kicking my insides around the clock."
Breha barked out a laugh, that she quickly tried to cover up behind her hand.
Fox turned to glare at her.
"You think this is funny?" He asked. "You think it's funny that our husband's giant long-legged offspring is trying to break my bones?"
"No, no, of course not", Breha hurried to say, but she was definitely still grinning behind her hand, and-
-and maybe Fox was tired enough, because the longer he laid there and watched her laugh about it, the funnier it suddenly got in his mind as well.
"How dare you", he said, trying his hardest to keep himself from breaking out into laughter as well. "How dare you make me laugh when I'm miserable."
Breha could no longer hold it in. She broke down into loud, bright laughter, and Fox could only hold his own in for a few more seconds, before he eventually followed her suit.
#I loved laying down next to my step-mom when she was pregnant and listening to my sister kick#I only later realised that it happened every time she laid down and I am very sorry for her haha#I am very sorry for you too Fox lmao#unfortunately now it's only going to get worse#dw he has two very devoted alpha spouses making him comfy but still#Bail might get told off anyway poor Bail#I'm sorry ya'll I thought about this last night while falling asleep and it has now taken over#sw#tcw#Star Writing#my writing#snippets#Omegaverse AU#Breha Organa#Commander Fox#bail/breha/fox
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Nathan & Sofia's divorced parents (Maria & Scott).
#ts4#sims 4#my sims#ts4 cas#portrait post#simblr#oc: maria#oc: scott#first post on the new year!!!!#the reason they are divorced is bc when scott found out nathan was dating a man (mateo) & he told maria think she would agree that its wron#but she didn't agree & they divorced like a few months after that talk but he still loves her#so shes an architect & designed the house they've been living in for years & scott is retired but use to work a 9 to 5#while i was making maria & scott i was think about the facial features that nathan & sofia got like nate got his dads nose#& sofia got her moms nose & lips but she also got her dads eye & hair color so wears contacts & dyes her hair to be more like her mom#since they are divorced maria put a bed in scott's office that he sleep in while she keep the main bedroom bed
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✌🏻
#I’d just like one day that I get to enjoy without every happy moment being ruined#by a family member mentioning my dad and the way he died#it sends me to my own private hell#and I’d love to just enjoy a day#I remember writing how bad my birthday was because my mom wouldn’t stop mentioning my dad and how he died#she even got me gifts from him and wrote as though he was writing#and then talked about his death all day#and while I didn’t get gifts from him#the rest was pretty much the same#and I miss him too. like horribly bad#but I also talked with him about death a lot#and he told me how he’d hate for our lives to center around his death#and he’d hate for us to not be happy#so I try and I try and I try#but it’s like it’s not allowed here#because my mom’s grief- according to her- is worse than mine#because I didn’t choose my dad but she chose her husband#and somehow that makes all the difference#and ‘while I know you’ve never had a Christmas without him I haven’t had one without him since we dated…’#why can’t both of our pain just be pain??#and why can’t we be allowed to make happy memories now?#sorry for rambling it’s been a long and v hard day
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Ngl something that really pisses me off about the way that Tumblr deals with mental health is the fact that there's this seeming disconnect between trying to be inclusive of mental/personality disorders without acknowledging the grotesque, uncomfortable nature of some of them (OCD intrusive thoughts, for example, esp. if they're POCD) and the fact that others are, in fact, the root cause for a lot of actual abuse
Like, I've been hearing a lot from my mom about how my dad is a narcissist and an abuser bc of it (she's only just now realizing how awful he is after starting therapy, and her therapist is who told her what I've been trying for years), but I'm uncomfortable talking about that because as soon as I rant on it on my own damn blog, people will jump at my throat to snarl at me about how narissistic abuse isn't real or w/ever. Hell, even hearing my mom TALK about her experiences in that light makes me feel nervous/uncomfortable bc I knew if she said that shit on here she'd get piled with hate asks for her not using the 'correct' language, even though she basically flat-out admitted that the only reason me or my siblings existed was through coercion/marital rape when she was drinking. That shit's been haunting me ever since she said it bc I genuinely did not know that it was that bad (though I should have, bc he used to be very phsyically abusive to us before my brother was born), but I knew if I said anything about my discomfort for it til now that people would get mad at me for calling my dad a narcissist, even though that is the root of his behavior and this is my own damn blog for posting these sorts of thoughts/musings. Like, cool! Here's my mom gushing to me about how grateful she is that I'm the reason she figured out she needed help, and I'm sitting here feeling some kind of fucked-up queasy fear-guilt bc she's using wording that would get her cancelled on tumblr even as it contextualizes 30+ years of abuse in a manner that is accurate, easily digestible, and assisting her in getting aid. That's not helpful. But the obsession with 'proper inclusive language' over 'respectful conduct' takes priority over actual help
I don't think all people with NPD are automatically abusers, because I know myself just how easy it is to be an abusive, manipulative asshole. It's really only bc I grew up detesting my father so much that I'm not a piece of shit, honestly. People should be judged based on how they treat the people around them, not how they actually feel or think about it. But at the same time, saying narcissistic abuse doesn't exist is just plain falsehood. No personality disorder is automatically abusive, but many of them are the source of very particular abuses, and claiming otherwise is not helpful to the people trying to be better than their brain, nor to the people who got harmed by those who never bothered to try
#rant#rape tw#yeah I've not been handling that revelation very well!!#the only thing that makes me feel better about it is that my mom genuinely loves us#and has told us that we're her only reason for living#but by god is it disheartening to know that she also stayed for us#and that shes wasted her whole life/spent it in misery for us#like. i dont wanna call it traumadumping bc she needs this catharsis#but my mom went from one extremely abusive life to another#just in different ways#and hearing it as someone who only cares about her in my family#its...awful#like i got the second worst out of it when i was growing up but i didnt realize how bad#i thought the abuse I took was somewhat equal to my mom but its not even close#my dad at least had an idealized picture of a person in his head#that hed rage at me for not fitting#but my mom is just an object/posession to him- only there for sex cleaning and rearing his kids#he told that to her *verbatem*#its...sickening#everytime i doubt that i had it bad#i come home and then realize just how wrong i am#it could be worse physically yeah but psychologically. oh my god
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just watched wicked. this is what i felt the whole time
#SUCH A WONDERFUL MUSICAL ADAPTATION#i never thought i would see the day wicked gets such a wonderful adaptation. only in my wildest dreams#the movie truly respected its source material and musicality#unlike some other adaptation (glares at mean girls 2024)#anyways ariana is actually brilliant as glinda and she is the highlight of the movie#cynthia is amazing as elphaba (but her meme is still fuckin hilarious still wouldve preferred if she had red lipstick)#i think the actor for fiero looks too old tho. hes like the campus frat dude that stayed in school for 10 years#i was by myself and whispered 'hes too old' and girl next to me told her friend 'guy looks too old'#LMFAOOOOOOOOO but otherwise i think this movie is absolutely brilliant#i also love the Mom from Everything Everywhere All At Once is Morrible#she suits her so well#i squealed when Indina and Kristina appeared. delightful surprise
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okay it’s been a day and a half…y’all a WILD thing happened on Friday
#I was stuck in DC for the night bc of my flight situation and staying with my bf’s mom#who’s lovely and I was excited to see!#and so we went out to dinner together at a local Mexican restaurant#and while catching up over dinner she starts telling me about some home renovations she’s been doing#and is showing me before and after pics on her phone#and while scrolling…she scrolled past a NUDE OF HERSELF 😨😭#she flicked it away quickly and maybe she thought I didn’t see ?????#but neither of us acknowledged nor will I ever acknowledge#the rest of the meal was fine but I was like ☠️ afterwards and told my bf who was like no no no no no#but yeah…..figured I’d share with y’all 😳
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My mom didn’t want anything for Mother’s Day and didn’t really wanna do anything either. Only thing she wanted to do today was garden, so I’ve been out with her in the dirt most of the day. It’s our thing. We tend her garden together every single year. And after her stroke last year, I’m extra grateful we get to garden together this year.
#idk I love my mom#september/October of last year was very hard with all the stuff going on with her#not to mention that was on top of stuff going on here but it’s fine#I remember telling her about the stuff when we were in her hospital room and she still had enough energy to roll her eyes and say fuck them#nothing phases her and that’s my favorite thing about her#she does enjoy some gossip tho lmao which is why I told her I knew it’d cheer her up#I love that woman#nonsims#text post
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