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[offorestsongs]

its so funny when people tell me stuff like "wow youre so good at drawing clothes" or "how do you come up with different outfits for your ocs i could never" because the truth is that there's a very limited pool of aesthetics/styles/elements that i like to draw and i just mix and match them as needed. if i had to draw anything outside of that i would wither away and die

[torahtot]

you can always tell when someone doesn't have maga men in their life and god it makes me angry.. "if you're nice and compassionate you can be the one woman that makes them realize women aren't mean!" my mom bent over backwards for my dad for 25 fucking years he has plenty of other women kissing his ass and it never changed anything. do you really think that before being radicalized they never knew a single kind woman? they were never friends with a nice girl? alt-right men's problem with women isn't just that they've experienced too many mean women and they need to be shown that women can be nice, it's that they think women are inferior and don't deserve rights and don't understand anything so you can do what you want with them. and it takes a lot more than being nice to show someone that you aren't inferior. this isn't a case of being nice even when it's hard for the sake of deradicalization, it's about spending every fucking interaction with someone trying to get them to see you as a human being with value and a functioning intellect while they just laugh and show you that's never going to happen.

i cannot stress this enough: random women are not just going out and Being Mean to men. ur average guy interacts with plenty of women throughout his life- close women amongst their friends and family, casual interactions etc. most people don't start out being shunned by women, they start out being treated as NORMAL. & when they show their disrespect in normal society, it isn't tolerated, but when they go to alt-right spaces (which they're pushed towards online) they're told they're allowed to be as horrible as they want with no consequences because they're entitled to everything. it isn't "women aren't welcoming and the alt-right is so friendly so i'll become alt-right," it's "women don't let me disrespect them and the alt-right tells me fuck them, do whatever you want, you're entitled to it all" and why would you choose the group where you have to be a normal accountable person when there's a group that will reward you for being a shithead who gives no fucks?

the alt-right can afford to be more friendly and welcoming because they can allow bigotry. this can't work the same way for progressive spaces because we can be as kind & welcoming as possible but at the end of the day we have lines where we have to say "this behavior/speech isn't allowed in this space," and for certain people, that just can't win against a space where you can be as nasty as you want. these posts always end with a disclaimer saying "of course being kind doesnt mean you need to tolerate their bigotries" but what they don't realize and what drives me crazy is that women not tolerating bigotry IS the "women are mean" that radicalized them in the first place. they perceive you pushing back on any bigotry or bullshit as you being a meanie and treating them like they're ontologically evil. the 'kindness' they need to be deradicalized is you letting them walk all over you.

idk what the answer is to deradicalizing them and im sure relationships are part of it but you can be as kind as you want and all it will do is destroy you ime. i cant stand to see people (who have never even successfully deradicalized any man by being nice btw they always speak in hypotheticals and not from experience) double down on telling women to do things that will see no results and only hurt them, especially when any woman who has tried can tell you exactly how it went

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

one thing about me w/ creative freedom is that in all of my Personal Lore i will make dragons so People. they are a People. yeah yeah animalistic dragons dragons that are beasts we've all seen it. what about the very intelligent dragons. dragons with their own cultures and societies and languages. dragons who belong to a higher form of existence too. what about them

[x-nephophile-x]

Val Serano, the man that you are-

(Using Fuse's Leon Armor and Hayd's Val Replacer for reference !)

[hecksupremechips]

Persona romance routes are all pretty bad but damn they really hit rock bottom with p3p femc route like the misogyny is very blatant and it’s almost hilarious like look at the Shinjiro romance. When you do his social link he’s like very clearly respectful of Kotone as a leader and explicitly says stuff like "oh yeah you’re clearly the best fighter we have, I don’t really know much about fighting like you do, I hope I’m not dragging you down, you’re doing a good job as leader just remember to take care of yourself, everyone looks up to you I know you can rely on them" etc. like he has faith in her leading abilities. But then when you romance him he’s like got dialogue like "bwah bluh i gotta look after you because you’re a GIRL and you need to stick by me, a big strong MAN so you don’t get hurt" and "don’t wear that revealing outfit in front of other guys 👺" and it’s like. Does he respect her or not and also like it doesn’t make sense for him to look down on her for being a girl cuz he literally has never not been led by a girl leader during his time in sees and Mitsuru in particular really has her shit together when it comes to being responsible and a good fighter and she’s always known the most about Tartarus

It’s also like. Idk maybe its just me I’m not a girl so FUCK IF I KNOW but to me the appeal of romancing Shinji is the fact that he’s sweet and sensitive and gentle and has respect for you despite the fact that he acts all scary. That’s like, what made me like this character in the first place. But the writers seem to think what women want is for a BIG STRONG MAN to protect them because they are just DELICATE WOMEN who are inferior in every way it’s like. Shut upppp thanks

[im-smart-i-swear]

guy trapped in a hell of his own creation: haha ive never done anything wrong in my entire life. and im always right:] anyway. why did my little brother move out:(

its so funny to me that at first glance tashi seems like hed be the most 'normal' out of all the clones but at least all the others are slowly healing n shit while hes just getting more and more insane each day and one day hell snap and explode and maim someone

[piesa2]

everyone is pitying me and i dont know how to feel about that

[kiss2012]

rewatched the first three episodes of s3 and im never going to recover

[barebevil]

watching the Todd in the shadows top 10 worst hit songs of 2023 video you know todd and it reminded me that is to say ive come on here and started typing because i want to talk about how 2023 was actually a ridiculously good year for music like better than it had any reason to be. I'm going to make a list of my favorite albums that came out this year now:

PARANOÏA, ANGLES, TRUE LOVE - Christine and the Queens

My 21st Century Blues - RAYE

The Rise and Fall of a Midwest Princess - Chappell Roan

Did you know there's a tunnel under Ocean Blvd - Lana Del Rey

The Land Is Inhospitable and So Are We - Mitski

Rituals On The Bank Of A Familiar River - Kiki Rockwell

Jaguar II - Victoria Monét

and these are just the ones i remember off the top of my head and also know all the words to. i liked the new hozier i like guts i liked but did not find the time to submerge myself into like a mudbath sufjan's javelin and in all honesty i did listen mostly to the same 3 playlists last year and then a handful of albums that all came out in 2022 because holy shit was THAT a year in music whew

let us all listen to good music in the new year G-d knows we need it

[pesteringchum]

ngl i dont really care about ships anymore but whenever i hear someone say they dislike davejade i physically feel this in my soul

[bogos-bint3d]

Oooooooo you wanna find me great incredible Undyne centric content that I haven't seen before and will be consumed by ooooooooooo

[penisbrigade]

honestly everything thats going on in the world is insanely overwhelming and im always so confused trying to figure out what i can do because i feel so helpless

but then i remember what my king, V, from v is for vendetta, said: "people should not be scared of their governments, governments should be scared of their people" and i realize that even by simply not abiding by laws and not allowing the government this power over me and change who i am is an act of rebellion and making a difference.

sometimes i cant donate to charities and causes bc i have about $15 in my bank account and sometimes i cant go to protests bc i don't have a car but i can speak out against injustice and i can actively go against an unfair and terrible government and changes come from every small act you do.

its a bit like that one textpost that was like "if god sends me to hell, i simply wont go. whats he gonna do, send me to hell? already not going" like truthfully if we don't bow down and idolize whoever is in power and just not accept a stupid hierarchy put in place to force us to submit to a terrible system, things will inevitable change, because the government and people in power don't have the divine right to rule or some supernatural abilities that make them so much better than everyone else.

change takes place in many forms and sometimes its a BIG step but its also many many many small steps and its easy to start feeling useless but sometimes the simple act of not supporting and openly disagreeing and going against the government is your small step that helps push every other step so don't feel helpless because there are some things you're unable to do. there is no one single person who will tear down everything bad singlehandedly, we are all part of the effort and the smallest contribution is still incredibly important to the final product

[aashiqvi]

Not me giggling by interacting w my younger cousins on snapchat like i send them streaks bc they love it like they’re in india and i don’t do streaks really. and they just sent the gc snaps and the other two older brother cousins (but im still older by months) ignored it but i just sent my bitmoji flying a kiss and now im giggling because for once i feel like an older sister though i’m an only child who has been very disconnected from her family since the age of 11 ‼️ my friends have always treated me in a way where i feel like a younger sister but for once i now feel like an older sister and it’s kinda sweet. kinda wholesome and fulfilling

[dawntheduckrb]

Low resolution borb chilling on the curb

[philosophicallie]

i love them so much. how do i never bother them ever

[liinos]

it's a persistent trend in kpop that Pisses me off like why it it Always the worst song that seems to get the most attention