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demonio-fleurs · 6 months ago

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my mom, who knows both my partner and i hate crowded small spaces with lots of people and noise: hey is it okay if we let your sister invite her four friends to your birthday celebration??? it would be rude not to!

me: hUH??!??????!!

#i put my foot down and said no #i’m already having to make my own cupcakes bc i can’t afford to buy a fancy cupcake for everyone and i know it would be rude if only i had #one bc southern hospitality rules and stuff #BUT LIKE #NO??????????#im already exhausted from yesterday and i have to work tomorrow like what even mom #ange rambles

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insertsomthinawesome · 1 year ago

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⚜ L u o c h a ⚜

#Honkai Star Rail #Luocha #Luocha honkai star rail #luocha hsr #isa's fanart #insertsomthinawesome #December2023 #No thoughts. wanted to draw luocha #this is my campaign to fight against my art perfectionism #which yeah i've said that before aldjglasdg #but i'm trying to get more serious about it cause its been bad #i mean its been bad for over half a decade at this point (heck maybe an actual decade #yikes)#but i wanna start really putting my foot down with it. its not going to actually change otherwise (or at least its unlikely)#i hecking love black fire so much.#black fire is so cool. its so neat. what vibes. what awesome #happy accidents were had with the glow light around his head HAHA #me double posting art in one night? In a row? Its more likely than you think

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monst · 28 days ago

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Sometimes y/n is better than me cause istg I would crash tf out ✋

#I am not the one >:(#these x neglected reader fics have me in a chokehold and I'm livid. Deadass need to stop reading them for the sake of my blood pressure 😭✋#Ooooo I would've been gone so fast. Or those mfs would've had to catch these hands cause you ain't gonna talk to me crazy 🧍#poison exists watch yourself 🤨as lil Wayne once said I'm not a killer but don't push me 💀💀💀💀#Like you wanna talk mess? I can talk mess too as a matter of fact imma go for your fucking soul #ooo I'm so mad #Like the whole 'bitch you can't say that😰' type mad. Pero no pues they can act and say shit but I can't 🙄#we tried the high ground we pulling these mfs to the trenches now #this bitch is yapping #The real rage bait I swear 😭😡😭#Imma still keep reading them tho 👉👈 just needed to get that off my chest #y/n I ride at dawn for you bitch I'm putting my foot down for you

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astrobei · 2 years ago

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every byler creator who has ever felt unappreciated or has never seen their work on a rec list or has stayed awake for hours working on something for it to get no interaction or has had their work passed up in favor of the big fandom favorites or has never been taken a chance on or has ever come last in a poll they didn’t ask to be on or has felt self conscious about posting or about calling themselves a creator if what they’re posting is not a magnum opus or has created something for themselves and still hoped deep down that people would love it: get behind me. i’ll protect u

#i’m five foot three and terrified of confrontation but i’ll go down swinging #andi would like me to add that she and i are standing on top of each other in a trench coat fighting for u all #thea is also wearing a trench coat but it’s just her and tutter in there #u all better fear thea’s fully developed frontal lobe and streamlined leadership experience (her words)#but seriously guys like #maybe i’m taking fandom too seriously or whatever but i know how scary it can be to put urself out there #especially in fandom spaces where the whole point is u want to enjoy urself and be accepted and not be judged #i’d be lying if i said that luck and timing wasn’t a huge part of why ppl enjoy my fics #and i’m flattered that my name shows up in rec lists a lot but. there are so so so many talented writers that go unnoticed when ppl fixate #on the same 5-6 names #and i know bc i’ve been them for other fandoms!#especially in this community there is such a big issue with putting big creators up on a pedestal #expecting them to be perfect and to keep churning out high quality stuff for free on demand #twt is something else too . like i’m not even talking abt that rn #and people always saying stuff like #‘atp i refuse to read fics unless they’re by _ or _ or _’#just know that even if u are not one of these names u are so so valued and appreciated #get behind me fr #ok Bye <3333333 #🫂#byler #/astro posts

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faaun · 4 months ago

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we sang in the aeroplane over the sea tgth ☆

#27% circle line with a lovely friend of mine rail tracks screeching etc etc u know the usual. im just gonna write down memories #a few weeks ago my friend read thus spoke zarathustra by the fire to the music she was dancing it was her silhouette #against the flashlight lit up gold and royal blues and tiger's silk i tried not to fall in love with her. in bordeaux we searched #for pomegranates he sent her 300 quid by the beach she cut it open with a knife her hand covered in red we each had a taste of her work #sweet red wet the sweetest grit. too barely clothed to go into the cliffside church they painted my eyes we painted hers #8 shots of gin she screamed joyfully IT'S ALIVE! at the book she said become the child i said i feel like a monster she said i was insane #i tried to believe her. fortified wine and later a red pen crossword defiled by humidity her hair in my hands two king sized beds #pushed next to each other she took her top off she told us to watch her arms raised up the musculature on her back was precise cut from #marble we saw oceans we saw the birds take cold baths the midnight sun over a wasp-infested pool our chemicals in their bodies #gold flakes dark skin gold cross shoulders against mine drawing some form of each other on the train i didn't hesitate #to say her eyes were beautiful over and over monks at the soapshop with titanium credit cards i loved you like i loved no other #he tied his hair up and walked us into the river he held a bullet between his lips i never held his hand he said what an honour #you own too much capital your mother thinks i'm a natural i realised i haven't told my mother i loved her in years she's always been mother #never mom i'll watch you watch seaweeds this is terminal akrasia i'll feel your fingers smear perfume on my lips your girlfriend grins #bite into the straw take the shot hold my hand get it all wrong draw in the sand kiss him right stab through leather shower in chlorine #you're the determinable vicissitude is all yours we won the Game AND the Battle AND the War i'm proud of you like crazy we feed each other #saffron cliffside lovers well-fallen brothers fat cats blue windows southwest sun ALife SynBio design aXAA grow us a city in silico #we've grown to the ends of glee fire-jumper ocean-eater sure-footed lists on lists hands on eyelids не устану искать тебя #...anyway ive put my face on this blog b4 but hiii again #feel free to rb btw the rants r not personal

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coachbeards · 2 months ago

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honestly. I love it when ted and beard are a little toxic codependent dynamic that has a power imbalance . I think it’s swell

#beard literally owing ted his entire life makes my brain go brrrrrr #devoting himself TO ted in lieu of connecting with other people #going along with what ted says even if he doesn’t agree and even if it doesn’t make him happy #he was for real willing to go back to Kansas with him if ted told him to #if ted had said. stay on this plane. beard would’ve and he would’ve been miserable but he’d do it for ted #ted assuming beard’ll go along with whatever he says in s1 bc that’s what beard has always done #because that’s not how We measure success #ted inviting him to sleep on his couch after being a literal drug addict ex con #knowing fully well he’s got a girlfriend at home that he didn’t clear this wirh #Michelle waking up and beard is there and ted has put his foot down and ?? wow #I love it #I love them. they’re such messes #I love you beard being Ted’s pet dog woof woof #beard literally having to choose between Ted and his girlfriend ALL the time #said girlfriend isolating him from ted bc she doesn’t trust their dynamic and she thinks beard is sleeping with ted #I love you beard only calling ted coach #I love you beard blurring lines and determining his worth strictly through the life ted gave him

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rottenlittlefink · 3 months ago

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lol I love completely disregarding canon when scripting my DR ♥️♥️ fuck canon

#bleats #reality shifting #shifttok #idk I love making posts like these I love putting my foot down and setting boundaries ♥️#who tf said my DR had to follow canon??? shifttok? fuck shifttok ♥️#anyways my DR s/o & I are rich femme lesbians ♥️♥️♥️#‘rich ppl bad!’ - I don’t care I love being a rich lesbian trophy wife ♥️♥️♥️#she spoils me SO good im never gonna stop fighting for this ♥️♥️♥️#quiet luxury #im not a fan of the flashy shit tho lmao

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ratatatastic · 2 months ago

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nothing could have prepared me for the cats finally releasing erods gopro footage of him going around being a chaos demon at our cup parade

Panthers Championship Parade | 6.30.24 (x)

#evan rodrigues #florida panthers #he is in his utter element when a scandinavian is in his 5 foot vicinity #the freaked out “oh my god” when someone threw a phone up at him as he shares a look of horror with swaggy #i also went “oh my god 😨” everytime it happened #like im glad thats the part we all agree was the fucking craziest shit of this whole parade #not the like 2 hour storm delay because lightning or everyone running about in said delay or lifting the cup up while lightning is in the bg #or maffhew and benny returning back to the sea like little sirens or anything else that happened #it was this #him laughing and point at mr looks like an accountant swaggy spindly legs as he runs down the a1a kills me everyone #wojack ass pointing #“FILL IT UP FILL IT UP 👹👹👹” “...with what...” sasha sweetheart what do you think #waterboarding your teammates with alcohol a very loving tradition #“best day of my life... (remembers hes a husband and father) well their bdays and my wedding but other than that best day of my life!”#“dont put that on there”#yeah bud yeah #cant get over the FOR FINLANDIA FOR SWEDEN #man loves his scandanavians frrrr

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thebirdandhersong · 10 months ago

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sometimes (very often) I just sit there like ?????????

#mother has asked once again in all seriousness if i'd consider mr knight if he were to ask me out a second time................#mother the answer is you couldn't pay me enough money to do that. i'd literally rather be single for the rest of my life #between mr knight and the engineer boy ive learned quite a lot about what i'd like/DEFINITELY would not like in a potential boyfriend #and personally. PERSONALLY. i can't do this no more <3 i CANNAE HANDLE that kind of anxiety sadness insecurity confusion!#the anniversary of the day i wrote mr knight a ten page (occasion: valentine's day) love letter for the first time #and received a random Facebook meme and two weeks of radio silence in return is coming up and i must say #that kind of experience is enough for a girl to put her foot down and declare: that's enough. i can't do this no more :-)#anyway father too was like well all things considered mr knight's not the worst option. he's okay. he could turn out okay #to which i say. father. i may seem and feel desperate at times but i'm not THAT desperate.#no offense to mr knight he simply isnt the right person for me and im simply not the right person for him #i wouldnt be offended if he said you couldnt pay me enough money to date her again either (well. maybe a little. but still)

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wetslug · 5 months ago

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ive got a friend whos kind of rude and degrading to me and everytime we hang out i get some level of annoyed but i seem to be unable to track patterns and realize what i put myself into. maybe cuz i have so few friends

#shes always broke so ill frequently pay her portion of things. she never says thank u and will choose expensive options even tho im trying #to save money as well #when drunk she will frequently slap/thrust things in ur face despite ppl telling her how annoying it is #shes spend a great deal of time together complaining about other ppl when i keep telling her to drop it and stop ruminating #yesterday she asked me to hold her drink. asked whywhat was she doing and she just said 'well i dont want it anymore'???? so i hold it #indefinitely????#i try to put my foot down and stand up for myself a bit and she will half heartedly apologize but then is obviously pissed about it #shes Fine in a group setting but i cant do one-on-one anymore im not strong enough. and its taking all my money #im in a 'beggars cant be choosers' scenario like wah wah ill go hang out w OTHER friends; girl what other friends 😭😭

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argeriant18 · 6 months ago

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Weird thought but don't you find it cool and oddly fitting that Susan is gifted a horn. The whole point of it is that once you use it then help will always come to her. It's oddly fitting and quite foreshadowing as well, knowing that she's the one who strays from the path of Narnia. But also it's a bittersweet and hopeful thought because she should be willing to receive help. She can never come back to Narnia until she resolves her feelings about it within herself. And once she has that peace in herself, she can then seek out Narnia. Like an old verse: seek and you will find, I think that the horn operates on that level too: help will come to her, they will find her, so long as she is willing to call out and receive that help.

#thoughts #argeraint #books #narnia #c.s. lewis #cs lewis #susan #the chronicles of narnia #susan pevensie #queen susan the gentle #like just a thought because she got two gifts from father christmas #makes me think whether father christmas knew of her future too #also i can go on about she's an allegory for the lost sheep that will soon be brought back to the flock #and her story feels like how we shouldn't force our religion on people because they will only flee from it more #like we can talk about it too them but we shouldn't force them to join it #since religion also consists of willingness to be in it and put a certain amount of commitment to it as well #like we can never do that commitment unless we also accept that religion as an aspect of ourselves #susan doesn't accept Narnia as an aspect of herself anymore so she is moving away from the commitment of it so yeah #just a thought #i used religion generally because i know that fans of this series isn't just monotheistic or you know purely christian #also this is coming from me a catholic who literally has little to no idea about the practices of my own religion #mostly because i went to a christian school and they had some biases towards catholicism #also this is coming from someone who didn't set foot in a church for a year when my dad died because i broke down in every mass i attended #and i didn't want to keep crying every single time i was in church so there' that to think about lol #i said too much hahaha #sorry #anyway #just thoughts

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lesbiansanemi · 8 months ago

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I am so fucking sick of living with my roommate and his fuck ass boyfriend. Also watching my roommate burn every single one of his (already rather minimal, I might add) bridges for this guy is also kind of painful but also his relationship with me is one of said bridges so I'm almost past the point of even feeling bad for him lmao

#i have had to piss for probably the better part of an hour now #because they decided to take a shower together and have been in there for well OVER an hour now #and this is a nightly occurence atp sometimes MULTIPLE times a day #we have one bathroom.... can yall not be considerate enough to not be in there for up to TWO HOURS AT A TIME???#also it's such a waste of fucking water....#idk we've hit a point where i literally hear the bf doing anything and i get pissed off #but also tell me why i'm sitting in my room (which shares a wall with the bathroom) and i can hear this man hacking and spitting shit up #and this is also something that happens multiple times a day #like.... dude.... why are you spitting up toothpaste so fucking loudly oh my fucking god #but yeah no i'm like my roommate's only friend atp and he's about to not have me lmao like we're about to reach #'i'm cutting you off when i move out' levels of me being pissed off with this whole situation type shit #and apparently the bf convinced him to come out to his family which his mom was chill which is good #his dad's side of the family though....? not great. and my roommate KNEW that would be the case cuz we'd talked about it before #also love that my roommate has constantly talked about moving out of the city we live in because he hates and also there's no good career #opportunities for him here (which is true)#and now. MAGICALLY. he's like 'idk i think it'd be best for me to stay here'#like oh my GOD???? are you hearing yourself???? are you fucking stupid???? you fucking hate it here???#but sure throw your life away and ruin all your meaningful relationships for a guy you met six months ago jfc #and the thing is i *know* my roommate we've been close CLOSE friends for nearly a decade now #i know he is not like this.... like yeah he's being insane by allowing this but also i know these aren't the kinds of decisions he would ma #and also i know he wouldn't treat me like this all on his own #it's the deranged fucking control freak of a guy he decided to date and my roommate has too many of his own issues to put his foot down #about certain things and tell the guy no so he's just allowing him to completely take over his life #and fuck everything up until the bf is the only thing he has left once it's all said and done #and yeah. it's painful to watch. but also wtf am i supposed to do because obviously my opinion is not respected nor wanted regarding this #that has been made PAINFULLY clear #ugh this is so fucking horrendous #what is it with ppl who start to date someone and then go clinically fucking insane and destroy their lives all for this one person #who. realistically. they barely know in comparison to all the other ppl in their life #like explain it to me jfc

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vulptilla · 11 days ago

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It's Hawke/Blackwall hours in this household tonight, so I just have to rave a little about how cathartic it feels that Katla, after enduring so much loss since Lothering, outright refused to let Blackwall to be consumed by his guilt. It's so deeply fitting to her personality and past experiences that she'd resort to questionable means to save him—because, unlike the countless times she'd been powerless to save those she loved, this time, she actually had the power to act.

And she did act. No questions asked.

#dragon age #hawke x blackwall #my oc: katla hawke #blackwall #in my headcanons katla used her friendship with iliana (my inq) to haul his sorry ass out of prison #iliana might not have done it on her own #(she would've wanted to but might not have dared)#i just love the idea of katla putting her foot down #after what happened to her parents and bethany and after losing carver to the templars and anders to vengeance #and thrask to the mess that was kirkwall #she finally said enough #varric @ katla's attempts to save the lives of lying men: third time's the charm eh?

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kindnotestoself · 11 months ago

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HEARTBROKEN

#I'm the bad guy because I want to postpone Christmas at my in laws because one of them tested positive for covid #and I don't want to postpone physical therapy at my cancer hospital again #it's been a month I NEED that therapy #we had plans to meet with so many friends #and I said if we do go #we are staying separate house #not talking to family for risk of them having it #and we cant see any of our friends #Hubby is not happy with that at all #Grr babe I have no immune system #the patients at the cancer hospital have no immune system #one of our friends is hanging out with me between flights #another has small children #the third has been ill and disabled since childhood #and I;m the bad guy for putting my foot down'#I can;t cry anymore because of damage from all my brain surguries #but I'm sobbing #I feel so bad #enforcing my boundaries hurts sometimes #kn2s talks #covid

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calyroco · 3 months ago

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The best and worst part of being an adult with your own income is realizing you can buy any of that stuff you want at any time and you don't have to go through a third party for permission. You are the only one standing between you and the consequences of a shopping addiction

#i have been expanding my manga collection over the past few months like I said I wanted to a while back #and I have had to put my foot down dealing with me because I love getting books in the mail too much #so I'm not gonna be doing that again for a while #i love buying books period but online bookshopping is so convenient and that's very bad for me

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freckledgeto · 1 year ago

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rewatched all of hidden inventory in one sitting i cant stop thinking about how fucking sad gojo satorus life is

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