#i needed to get rid of the bleach damage and i needed to get rid of everything she’d touched

[marshmallowprotection]

Could we get uhhhhh hair care focused home spa day with GE Ray !!

"I'm not being too rough, am I?"

"No, if it hurt I would tell you," Ray murmured. He settled underneath your gentle strokes and leaned back against the counter as you went back to scratching the tender parts of his scalp. "I'm just not used to this sort of thing. I didn't take showers for pleasure in Magenta. They were all for the sake of getting clean in under ten minutes or... to cool me off after the elixir gave me a fever."

You knew that.

At least, that was what you figured after you talked to him about the cold showers he mentioned a few times during your walks together in the garden. It wasn't far into summer when you first met him and the gentle breeze of spring still hung in the air, however, it didn't stop the sun's lingering rays from nipping at your skin in the evening.

Even if you could only see him in the dead of night, there were traces of sunshine that lingered in the garden. Heat radiated from the grass into your clothes whenever you laid down to enjoy a moment with his hand twirled around your own. With all those layers weighing against him, no amount of a summer breeze could hide the sweat that would follow. Even during the night, Ray couldn't hide the effect of the heat no matter how much he wanted to.

His body could barely handle tension as it was, so as soon as your walks were over, it made sense for him to tumble back into his room to lay on the tile floor. It didn't bother you as much, but you had the means to regulate your body temperature. What wasn't a problem in your world was a big one in his. Fortunately, it wasn't a big deal to his body now.

He could enjoy a summer day without his clothes paving the way for a heat stroke, and he could lay in the bathtub as long as he wanted to without the fear of someone punishing him for not doing his job.

The downside to all that was that he didn't know how to take care of his hair. It wasn't as if he put much thought into it before. It was there and he did his best to deal with it. He continued to fry his curls until they were dry because he couldn't stomach the sight of himself with red hair.

Nobody taught him how to color his hair and how to use bleach to get rid of color properly. Since he didn't know how to take care of his hair to begin with and he hardly had enough time to take care of himself in the shower, it was no wonder why he always shuddered away from anyone who wanted to touch his hair. Who would want to touch him if they realized his hair was as dry as a wig made of plastic?

For a man like Ray who wanted to be seen as a prince, the idea of not being the perfect person ate away at him. His dry hands and coarse hair were a point of contention for him. The fact that he was now at ease with you holding his hand without his gloves was a step in the right direction, but it wasn't as easy when it came to his hair.

It was in desperate need of TLC but that wasn't something he could do on his own. There wasn't much he could do by himself to fix the damage caused by heat and bleach. There were serums he could use but every time you saw him look at his reflection in the mirror, you knew he didn't want to take care of it. It might have been easier if he ripped it out and started from the beginning, but you knew he didn't want to do that, either. 

He wanted his hair, but to get what he had in kind before his damage, he had to leave it alone. He didn't have to avoid it entirely but it felt as though that was his solution to the problem before you asked him if it would be easier if you applied the hair mask and lotion his scalp. If he didn't have to look at it, he didn't have to think about it. But, that was not the best outcome.

"I know," you made sure not to dig too hard into his skin when your nails dug into some of the harder spots. Those were the areas that needed to soak in cream for as long you could get him to relax. "It must be strange to have your hair wet like this, too. I can't imagine you washed your hair outside of the shower."

"No... I didn't know you could do that. Even when Saeyoung and I were little, we utilized the shower as much as we could since our mother wouldn't let us get clean outside of that time. If I used the sink to wash my hair, I... can't imagine it would've been okay," Ray closed his eyes.

You hesitated. "This isn't a bad feeling, either, is it?"

Ray shook his head. He reached up with one of his hands to find your arm, though with his eyes closed he missed your hand and ended up grasping your forearm instead.

"It's not a bad feeling. I've been afraid to ask you to touch my hair because I knew it wouldn't be a pleasant experience. You mentioned that one of your favorite ways to show affection with a partner was through playing with their hair, and I... thought if you touched mine, you would be sorely disappointed. It's not soft like wool. It's coarse and it crinkles when I try to brush it."

His hair didn't feel the way it did the day you left Mint Eye, though. That first night away from danger allowed you the chance to curl up against their body and dote on them without a second thought, but it also taught you why they were wary to let you that close. You noticed how malnourished they were, how cracked their hands were, and just how fried their curls were.

As much as it broke your heart, it invigorated your drive to make sure they never had to live that way ever again. 

It'd been a couple of months since that sweet night, and while things weren't exactly perfect, they were on track to get better and their hair was a perfect example of that. It wasn’t as dry as it used to be! It was soft although be it brittle when given too much force from a comb of all things.

It didn't snap the way it used to, and that told you it would only get better from there.

"Oh, Ray," you smushed his curls together and continued to nudge his head into a more comfortable position. "You know I wasn't sad when I played with your hair for the first time. It was nice because that was your hair. That's why I didn't want to crawl off of your lap, even during those meetings we had with the C&R team. I wanted to enjoy every moment you would allow me to touch you since I figured it might be a while before you felt comfortable with it again."

A soft gasp left his lips and you glanced over the soapy foam to see his dazzled eyes staring at you with affection. "Really?"

"Of course. Why else would be I the first one to offer to do this for you, Ray? I'm not disgusted by your body. I'll say that as many times as I have to, no matter how far away we are from Magenta, because I want you to know your body is beautiful... and I could play with your hair all day if we didn't have chores and work to do."

"Thank you," he croaked. Those words seemed to have been the glue he needed to hold himself together. "I'm happy I can give you this."

"You spoil me plenty, my prince. I want to do the same for you."

[nol0nger-human]

Some homes are more predisposed to mold than others. Mold is all around us in the air constantly, but if a house has the right moisture, the right damp corners, no matter how many times you clean it the mold will persist because of the inherent conditions of the house and frantically scrubbing wont work and the mold will simply come back again and again because its just how the house is. This can lead to property damage that leaves the house unable to be occupied if the conditions worsen enough sometimes even needing entire rooms to be repaired and the value of the house being significantly lowered. However, even then, the mold is likely to return because the problem lies in how the inside structure of the house retains moisture, rather than simply having old floorboards. Usually, the mold then just grows on the inside of the house then, spreading over pipes and the insides of the structure instead. Nobody can see it, but its there. Its an inherent filth a repulsive, rotting, disgusting disease that nothing can get rid of and yet what can be done because the house is built the structure is in place and you can pity that house and wish it wasnt built in a way that allowed such disgusting sin to overtake it and define its value in the housing market but that isnt going to change anything and neither is the bleach or the baking soda or the vinegar because the problem lies deeper than the skin than the epidermis it lies in the bone and the blood and the tissue and skin can be scratched off and picked at and washed and cut but you cannot reach bone and so you itch you can scratch and pick and re-do the tiles and replace floorboards but the birthing place of the filth is too deep to reach even if your fingernails are long and you have all the money in the world for renovations.

We forget we are all just nature. God may not have created all life equal in his eyes and yet we have just as much life as anything else that thrives. Its easy to get lost in our humanity, so I believe in the importance of reminding ourselves that it could have been us beneath the floorboards and perhaps maybe it is us? What separates gods creations?

[lokigodofaces]

hair update (i know that no one actually cares but it's kind of like a log for me now at this point. also i'm hoping that if anyone sees this maybe they'll feel encouraged to work with their natural hair bc i get it it's rough but at least i have it on the "easy" end in that i have wavy/light curly hair not tight coils & i'm white so i haven't really received a lot of problems from external sources. but even though i didn't have those problems i'm still 21 and struggling with my natural hair and learning to love it so hopefully all y'all can love your natural hair too and learn how to maintain it!)

plopping (wrapping my hair in a microfiber towel) <<<<<< microplopping (scrunching my hair with a microfiber towel to remove excess water without wrapping hair)

my hair apparently dries really fast. like i get my hair soaking wet in the shower, then i have to do other things before i can do my hair (i prioritize not having eczema over my waves/curls lol) and when i finish that and get dressed i have to rewet my hair. makes sense, my hair is fine and and i don't have a lot of it so there's not much to dry. which is nice because it doesn't take all that long to diffuse my hair. but means plopping doesn't work. i literally set a timer for five minutes today (most people recommend plopping for ten) and my hair was already very dry and because of that getting frizzy. but maybe plopping for like two minutes would be helpful for air drying days, we'll see.

i want to practice sectioning my hair better. then i could distribute product better and finger roll if i decided that would be a good idea. i'm going to try that soon. also i'm thinking about finger rolling the front bits of my hair because for some reason the front strands don't curl as much so it looks a bit off, but maybe they just need some help.

also using a slightly different mousse because my mousse nozzle broke and my mom had some mousse from the same brand but a different type she said i could use. can't say anything amazing about it but both times i have used it i have plopped my hair so i don't think it's the mousse that's the problem.

i also want to cut my hair shorter! but i'll probably do that in a month when i'll be able to see a friend that cuts hair. i'd rather pay her to do it and have a fun time with her than stress over finding a salon. but my hair has gone through a lot. when i was in brazil it got pretty sun bleached, enough that it was noticeable by not just me. i was in the hottest state and i was in the sun a lot (wearing sunscreen of course. skin was protected, but the hair not so much). i cut off a good amount before i came back to the us so it isn't so obviously damaged anymore, but i have been waiting for my hair to grow more so that i could finally cut off all of the damaged hair. and i like shoulder-length hair anyway. now, in the future i might grow out my hair, idk. but first i've got to have undamaged hair. also, i'm in such a different climate that may hair probably struggled to adapt to the dryness so this will also help to get rid of the hair used to a hotter and more humid environment.

also trying to convince myself to love my hair more. i don't hate it. and i like it when i manage to make it look good. but i'm trying to get myself to like the frizz too, because realistically i won't always have perfect hair and i have to live with that. getting there guys.

[0hbunny]

🫧Washing Plush Dolls🫧

NOTE:

I am VERY new to collecting these kinds of dolls. The doll shown above is literally the only one I have (as of right now…). That said please take everything I say with a grain of salt! This blog post is more of a log of my experience with washing my doll for the first time than a tutorial :)

Material List:

wash cloth (2x)

toothbrush (not used duh)

dawn dish soap

micellar water

tide to go stick/non bleach stain remover

blow dryer/fan

Prepping:

Before bath time there are some things I did to prep.

I started by taking off any stains on my doll. In this case mine had one on their embroidered paw on their foot. I used a “TideToGo” stick to get rid of it and it work wonders. I also heard great things about “Grandma’s Secret Spot Remover” too! Though as long as your stain remover doesn’t have bleach in it I THINK it will be fine, though I’m no expert.

After that I removed my doll’s blush. I did this by putting a little bit of micellar water onto a wash cloth and gently rubbing away where the blush was on my doll. When it comes to this please keep in mind a little goes a long way! Though I will say, I did asked some experienced plush doll collectors if I needed to remove the blush before a bath because I was scared of the blush getting moved around and staining the doll or embroidering. They told me it probably didn’t matter but it wouldn’t hurt. Do with that information what you will.

Bath Time:

Now for the actual bath I started by filling up a container with cold water and about 3 drops of dawn dish soap. (Please make sure it’s cold water because warm water makes things bleed!) Once everything was mixed together I took my toothbrush and dipped it into the mixture.

With the soapy mix I started scrubbing away at my doll. I was sure to be gentle over the embroidery in fear of loosening/damaging it if I was to rough with it. I made sure really get into all of the cracks and crevices too.

Once washed with soap I replaced the soapy water with just plain cold water. Then I scrubbed my doll again but this time with just the water. I made sure to dip my brush back into the water very frequently during this process. On my last scrub I brushed everything up in the same direction with my bruh.

Aftermath:

I placed my wet doll on a dry wash cloth and started to pat them dry with it. I was able to get the longer pieces of fabric (like the hair) pretty much dry with just the cloth but I can’t say that about the other parts.

For the other parts I used a mini fan to help the process go a little faster. (⤵️)

A blow dryer on the cold setting should also work for this if you’re impatient like me lolol. Good old fashion air drying should also work fine too but make sure it’s in a well lit room just to be careful of mold! I have also heard of people putting their dolls in pillowcases and throwing them into the drying machine along with a towel to cushion them more on a low setting. I have never tried this though personally so I’m not sure how well that would work and I’m to nervous to find out.

Also not going to lie I did not enjoy the smell of the “TideToGo” stick very much and I couldn’t get the smell to go away with just the soap and water so I did spray my doll with a bit of perfume. I’m not sure how safe/good this is for dolls but personally for me my doll turned out fine and now smells really good!

Conclusion:

This method worked very well for me I think! My doll is all clean and their hair feels so soft just like when I first got them which is very exciting. If anyone has any tips or thinks I should have done anything differently let me know! Also I’m here to answer questions too🫡 This is my first time making a blog post like this so I hope it was helpful and easy to understand!🙂

[lumine-no-hikari]

Dear Sephiroth: (a letter to a fictional character, because why not) #283

Our pigeon friend made it through the night alive. J and I woke up early this morning, got ready, put our avian friend in a cardboard box with a fluffy towel, and made our way to the animal hospital; we arrived promptly when it opened.

Given the state of the bathtub when we walked in, I'm pleased to report that it must have eaten at least somewhat recently before we scooped it up from the streets. I'm also pleased to report that our friends at the animal hospital happily took in our lovely bird friend. It will most likely get the treatment it needs to clear up whatever infection it has. I'll call tomorrow and ask for a status update.

We returned home after that. This autumn morning was beautifully misty in some places along the way. I got more than a few really nice-looking pictures for you…

…And in other places, the mist cleared to reveal spectacular skies:

...Sadly, of all the ones I tried to take, this was the only one that turned out well. Part of the challenge of taking photos in a moving vehicle is trying to make the best of the angles that are allowed to you.

It's only 9:22am. Today is far from being even halfway over. I have a friend coming to visit (R, the baker!), and maybe we'll go see that Wild Robot movie all together - me, M, J, and R!

For now... I should probably clean up the tub. There aren't too terribly many droppings left behind, and they're mostly solid in consistency; they should be easy to clean up. I'll get rid of the droppings, then blast the inside of the tub with an enzymatic cleaner (the same stuff we use to clean up the urine whenever Hoshi has a seizure; it's good stuff!!). I'll let it sit for a while, then I'll rinse it out. After that, I'll follow it up with bleach and a good scrubbing pad. And don't worry; I will make sure to wash my hands between each step. I know that bird droppings are dangerous; I will take every precaution, I promise. Don't you worry about a thing, okay?

...The enzymatic cleaner has done away with most of the visible ick, which is awesome. I rinsed it away and the tub looks practically sparkly. I've since filled the tub halfway with a mixture of bleach and VERY hot water. Now we just sit and wait for it to work its chemical magic. Bleach is a powerful oxidizer; I'm pretty sure that's the mechanism by which it destroys most microorganisms.

It's such a powerful oxidizer that it will literally fucking oxidize your skin. And since it's a base, it'll strip away all the natural oils from your skin, too. It's bad to get the stuff on your hands! Wear gloves! It's important!

I'm gonna try to finish my current Dead Cells run. By then, the bleach will likely have sat in the tub long enough and then I can drain it and scrub it; it'll be good!

...

...So, remember when I said yesterday that if I reached The Hand of the King, he'd be in big trouble?

Well, let me tell ya!!! Today he got his ass handed to him!!! And I made it to the room beyond - a place called the Astrolab!!!

The Astrolab has all kinds of new and unusual enemies. You can only reach it if you defeat The Hand of the King with 5 Boss Cells active. Unfortunately, I didn't think to take a picture for you. I'm really sorry about that.

But!!! If I did it once, I can do it again!! And next time, I will remember to take pictures; I promise!!

Anyway. I got my ass handed to me by the new enemies there. Their patterns were unknown to me, and the structure of the biome was weird and unfamiliar. I got this one flying enemy called a Librarian; it shoots lasers out of the sky directly down on you, and it zooms just out of reach above you. I... panicked. Totally lost my cool. They do a lot of damage, and their movements are still unfamiliar to me. I got zapped until I got dead.

...Oh well. That's what the training room is for!! I'll just practice against all the new enemies until they don't seem so scary anymore; it'll be good!

Aside from that... R came over today! He brought an amazing soup that he made himself, and he also brought a brioche marbled with chocolate! It was SO GOOD!!!

You can tell how good this one was by how little we have left, ahahaha~!

And the soup, too!!! Look at this beautiful soup!!!

It's just as delicious as it is colorful!!! 🤩🤤🥰

We went to go see that Wild Robot movie after that. Sephiroth... one of these days, you GOTTA see it. It's about a robot that crash-lands somewhere that wasn't intentional, in a wild place, with lots of animals, and... it was outcast at first. And it finds a baby gosling, and...

...The relationship this robot has with the gosling reminds me a lot of the way your existence has helped me, even if that help was indirect and unintentional on your part. I won't explain more for fear of spoiling things, but... Sephiroth... just trust me, you HAVE to see this one. I promise you, it's really good, and I'm sure you'll find it more than a little relatable in a wide variety of respects.

...I shouldn't have made it through the things I lived through. But I did, because you exist. I was given another chance at living, because you gave me the strength to hold on long enough to encounter new and different things. I wouldn't be here at all if not for you. I write every day because I wanna give to you what you unwittingly gave to me.

...Well. I don't have much to say. And also, I gotta get up kinda early for work tomorrow. So I guess I'll end today's letter here in favor of getting ready for sleep.

Stay safe out there, okay? We're counting on you coming back home in one piece. We're counting on you, just in general, because you're lovable and wonderful and we want you around. Don't go someplace no one can reach, okay?

I love you. And I'll write again tomorrow.

Your friend, Lumine

[cookrooms]

What is main things to clean a kitchen?

Keeping your kitchen clean is essential for maintaining a healthy and pleasant cooking environment. Regular cleaning not only ensures that your kitchen remains hygienic but also helps prevent the buildup of grime, which can lead to unpleasant odors and potential health hazards. To efficiently clean your kitchen, it's important to focus on several key areas and use the right tools and techniques. This guide will walk you through the main tasks involved in kitchen cleaning, offering tips and answering common questions to help you maintain a spotless kitchen.

What is the Necessary Things You Need In The Kitchen

Counters and Surfaces: Start by clearing off all countertops, including any small appliances, utensils, and food items. Use a kitchen cleaner or a mix of mild soap and water to wipe down surfaces. Pay attention to areas around the sink, stove, and backsplash where spills and splatters can accumulate.

Sink: The sink often harbors bacteria and food particles. Scrub the sink with a non-abrasive cleaner or a mixture of baking soda and water. For a sparkling finish, you can also use a solution of vinegar and water. Don’t forget to clean the faucet and handles, as these are frequently touched areas.

Stovetop: Remove burner grates and knobs if you have a gas stove. Soak them in soapy water and scrub away any grease or residue. For electric stoves, wipe down the surface with a suitable cleaner, ensuring you don’t use excessive moisture that could damage electrical components.

Oven: Clean the interior of the oven periodically to avoid the buildup of burnt food and grease. Use an oven cleaner or a homemade paste of baking soda and water. For self-cleaning ovens, follow the manufacturer’s instructions to activate the cleaning cycle.

Refrigerator: Empty the refrigerator and discard any expired or unwanted food. Wipe down shelves and drawers with a mixture of water and mild detergent. Clean the exterior and handles with an all-purpose cleaner.

Flooring: Sweep or vacuum the kitchen floor to remove crumbs and debris. Mop the floor using a cleaner suitable for your flooring type (tile, laminate, etc.). Make sure to rinse the mop frequently to avoid spreading dirt around.

Garbage and Recycling: Regularly empty the trash and recycling bins to prevent odors and bacterial growth. Clean the bins themselves with soap and water to remove any residual grime.

Small Appliances: Wipe down small appliances like toasters, microwaves, and coffee makers. For appliances with removable parts, such as toaster trays or microwave turntables, wash them separately.

Frequently Asked Question

How often should I clean my kitchen?

It’s best to do a quick clean daily—wipe down surfaces, wash dishes, and sweep the floor. A more thorough cleaning should be done weekly, including scrubbing the sink, stovetop, and refrigerator. Monthly or quarterly, address deep cleaning tasks like oven cleaning and organizing cabinets.

What’s the best way to clean greasy kitchen cabinets?

To clean greasy cabinets, use a mixture of warm water and dish soap. For stubborn grease, add a bit of baking soda to the solution. Apply with a soft cloth or sponge, and wipe with a clean, damp cloth to remove any soap residue.

How do I get rid of odors in my garbage disposal?

To eliminate odors, grind up lemon peels or ice cubes in the disposal. You can also use a mixture of baking soda and vinegar, letting it sit for a few minutes before running water through the disposal.

Can I use bleach to clean my kitchen?

While bleach is effective for disinfecting, it’s often too harsh for regular kitchen cleaning. Use it sparingly and always dilute it according to the manufacturer’s instructions. For routine cleaning, stick to milder cleaners to avoid damaging surfaces.

What’s the best way to clean stainless steel appliances?

To clean stainless steel appliances, use a dedicated stainless steel cleaner or a mixture of water and vinegar. Wipe in the direction of the grain and dry with a soft cloth to avoid streaks and water spots.

Conclusion

A clean kitchen is the cornerstone of a healthy and enjoyable cooking experience. By regularly addressing key areas such as countertops, sinks, stovetops, and floors, and utilizing the right cleaning tools and techniques, you can maintain a space that is not only visually appealing but also hygienic. Remember that consistency is key—daily tidying, weekly deep cleaning, and periodic maintenance will keep your kitchen in top shape. By incorporating these practices into your routine and addressing common questions and concerns, you'll ensure that your kitchen remains a safe, efficient, and pleasant place to prepare meals. Happy cleaning!

[johncartersr]

Cleaning Mold Naturally: The Best Way to Keep Your Home Safe

Mold can be a very serious problem for many homeowners, and I believe that putting it off only makes things worse in the long run. Mold growth in the interior of your home can result in damage to walls, ceilings, and even furniture. The best way to go about this problem is to cleaning mold naturally, which means not using strong chemicals that can interfere with your health. I can tell you that these methods are not only safe for your family but also almost 100% effective in preventing mold from coming back.  

Reasons You Should Quickly Treat Mold 

Mold grows at an alarming rate in areas that are perpetually damp, such as bathrooms, basements, and kitchens. Once untreated, this could pose a threat to the physical structure of your home and breathing issues. Many people seek help from a Mold Removal Service due to the difficulty of mold removal. On the contrary, if the condition is not too bad, there are natural solutions that could work fine, saving you the expense.  

Simple Ways for Cleaning Mold Naturally

If you're dealing with mold at home, I would suggest that you try these few easy and safe methods before moving on to using chemical cleaners:  

White Vinegar Application 

White vinegar is a very effective natural cleaning agent and can kill most types of mold. Pour some white vinegar into a spray bottle and spray it directly onto the moldy places. After one hour, simply wipe it with a damp cloth. In my opinion, one of the best and most natural ways to kill mold is because vinegar prevents mold from returning.  

A Mixture of Baking Soda and Water 

Baking soda is another natural and safe way for cleaning mold naturally. Combine one teaspoon of baking soda with water in a spray bottle, spray it into the affected area, scrub it with a brush, and wipe it clean afterward. Baking soda will not only eliminate mold; it will also absorb moisture to prevent further mold growth.  

Tea Tree Oil  

An effective natural antifungal, tea tree oil is excellent for fighting mold. Mix several drops of tea tree oil with water and spray it on the moldy surface. Leave for several hours before wiping clean. If you want a natural method that also smells good, this would be my recommendation.  

Use a Hydrogen Peroxide Solution 

Hydrogen peroxide is another great way to clean mold naturally for people who want to avoid bleach. It is harmful to mold, bacteria, and germs! Spray on some 3% hydrogen peroxide and allow it to stand for 10 minutes, then scrub away. This is safe and does not have a strong odor.  

When to Call Mold Removal Services  

Sometimes the mold will venture into hard-to-reach areas like the interiors of walls and underneath floors. In such instances, I would suggest that you contact a Mold Removal Service for professional assistance. The professionals have the right equipment and knowledge to get rid of it completely and stop it from any further spread.  

Final Thoughts 

According to me, natural cleaning methods are the best way to handle small mold problems at home. They are safe, cost-effective, and easy to use. However, if mold keeps coming back or spreads to a large area, professional services might be the right choice. If you need help with mold removal, GOGETFIX is here to assist you. Our experts ensure your home stays mold-free in the safest way possible.

[dangerousalpacas]

how to remove semi permanent hair dye (no borax no glue)

HELLO TUMBLR I am on a new ADHD med that makes me focus on things that are not my homework apparently so I perfected my method of removing semi permanent hair color most effectively with the least amount of damage. My qualifications are that I've been dying my hair for like 7 years and have been every color ever, and used like every hair dye brand and most color removing techniques.

caveats:

1. THIS DOES INVOLVE THE USE OF DEVELOPER, AND SOME BLEACH. Keep in mind, just because something uses bleach or developer, does not mean there will be inherent significant damage. They are tools, just use them correctly.

2. THIS WORKS BEST ON PREVIOUSLY LIGHTENED HAIR WITH AN (at least somewhat) EVEN BASE. This most likely will NOT work on virgin hair with semi permanent dye over it. For most people, virgin hair isn't super porous to begin with, so just using head and shoulders or mane n tail might be enough to get rid of color in virgin hair. This works best with hair that was a level 8+ blonde before dye, but can be used with darker bases. The lighter the base was, the better.

3. THIS MAY NOT WORK FOR EVERY BRAND OF DYE. I usually use manic panic, and for every color I've tried, it works great. It most likely will not work as well on really dark semi permanent colors, like blacks, but it's definitely worth a shot. In my experience, manic panic and ion are the easiest to remove, and most other brands I've tried are really hit or miss. Arctic fox does tend to be the hardest to remove imo. (if you have translylvania by arctic fox in your hair rn you may be cooked, I fear)

ANYWAY

What you'll need:

Color remover (Your color remover MUST have a bleach base. DO NOT GET THE SALLYS BRAND THAT SHIT DRIES YOUR HAIR SO BAD. GET MATRIX COLOR ERASER OR THE PUNKY COLOR REMOVER THEY ARE AMAZING. I've also heard very good things about the danger jones color remover if you can get ahold of it). If you can't get a color remover, you can use a bleach, I recommend cream bleach. It just might not be as effective.

Shampoo (Clarifying shampoo or head and shoulders can add some extra oomph, but can make your hair more dry. I use olaplex shampoo to prevent damage, but that is really expensive. But in general, it's your choice of shampoo.)

5-10 vol developer (you do not need more than a 10 vol, and if you only have higher strength you can water it down!!!! You can use a 5 vol if you have a medium-light color dye, and/or you're confident it'll come out easily.)

All your other hair dye stuff (you do not need foils, but I recommend gloves and a brush to mix/do roots if needed.)

STEPS:

Mix the color remover and the developer at the recommended ratios. Pre measure out developer if you're watering it down. I'm not gonna include how to water down developer, but it's a google search and very easy.

IF YOU HAVE ROOTS DO THEM NOW. Even if your hair is dark, typically low vol bleach will still lighten them a good amount because of the heat on your head. If needed, wait 15-20 min (or until you notice your roots lightening) before proceeding. I have lvl 7-8 blonde roots, and I do my roots first then literally as soon as I'm done I'm able to keep going.

Add a few dollops of shampoo, I usually use like 2-3 tbsps, but I don't have a lot of hair. the consistency should be kinda foamy/sticky, like it should feel almost like normal shampoo.

Slather that shit in your hair. Go fast; ideally saturate everything in 5 minutes or less. It isn't too much unless its dripping off your head.

(MOST IMPORTANT STEP) literally watch it in the mirror. It will lighten as you watch it. Sit in your bathroom and stare at your hair the whole time. Do not put a bag on your head.

AS SOON AS YOU GET TO A POINT WHERE YOU'RE HAPPY OR IT'S COMPLETELY GONE, RINSE. NO NEED TO OVERCOOK. This is how you avoid dryness and damage. For me, it will typically sit in my hair for less than 10 minutes. I just took out purple haze by manic panic and I watched a strand of color literally disappear in under 3 minutes. I like to prep my shower/rinsing stuff beforehand so as soon as I'm done, I just jump in the shower.

YOU"RE DONE WEEEE!!!! IF THE COLOR IS NOT EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANTED AFTER THE TREATMENT, GIVE IT A WEEK OR TWO TO FADE, THEN GO IN FOR ANOTHER ROUND. This also gives your hair time to recover, even though this is very low damage, it can still hurt your hair (especially if it was fragile to begin with). For instance, lot of reds will go pink, but in my experience the pink is gone in like a week. It's very uncommon for me to do a color remover and not be able to get back to blonde, even with semi permanent blacks.

[kiaaraagarwal]

What Are The Major Perks Of Buying Coloured Hair Extensions?

If you also like some colour in your hair like me then virtual high-five to you! I get it if some people think getting your hair coloured is too much of a commitment to ask for. Still, trying different colours in hair is a dream for many women but they stop themselves from the fear of hair damage. 

What if I tell you that you can try different colours in your hair without worrying about hair damage or long-term commitments? Sounds great, right? Yes, we are talking about coloured hair extensions. Today, we are here to talk about the major benefits of using coloured hair extensions in place of hair colours on your hair. So, let us discuss it further.

Benefits of Coloured Hair Extensions

The first advantage of using coloured hair extensions is their zero commitment. You buy them use them remove them, keep them for a long time with little maintenance and that is it. When you colour your hair then you have to wait until the colour gets fade and that will a long time. Plus, if you want to try something else then you cannot get it done until the previous colour is dark and shiny.

The second advantage of coloured hair extensions is their cost-effective factor over hair colouring. The process of hair colouring, especially when you get it done is very expensive and the extensions are any day cheaper than the whole process. Plus, you do not have to worry about their maintenance much. Your extensions will also be cheaper in terms of maintenance.

When you buy a hair extension then you can get rid of going to the salon to get a touch-up or buying maintenance products. Hair colouring involves a lot of expert involvement if you want to get it done properly. On the other hand, you can wear a hair extension on your own. You will not need an expert until you get a permanent hair extension installed in your hair. That process is still less time-consuming than hair colouring.

One more perk of coloured hair extensions is that zero hair damage. You are not applying a harmful chemical like bleach on your hair or even the chemical of hair colour is not getting applied when you use a hair extension. You can easily wear or remove extensions according to your convenience.

Conclusion

At the end of this blog, we can conclude that coloured hair extensions are a better choice than hair colour. At Hair Joy, you can find a variety of hair extensions such as clip in hair extensions, ponytail clutcher, and much more including coloured hair extensions in many different colours. To know more, please visit the website and learn more.

[uncloseted]

Okay so i need some help. I really been thinking of my dying my hair like a money piece with blonde but my grandma and aunt have been telling me im gonna damage my hair, but i know you can always dye/bleach ur hair without messing it up. And i believe you have dyed ur hair, but it seems like you keep up good with it because it doesn’t look damaged or dead. Do you have any suggestions on how to make it look healthy even after dying and bleaching it, i have an oily type of hair.

Anything you do to your hair will damage it at least a little bit, even things like blow-drying it or heat styling it. The darker your hair is right now, the more damage you'll create by bleaching it to blonde. That said, there are some things you can do to reduce the amount of damage that bleaching your hair causes.

I have a long post on all of my tips and tricks for bleaching hair here. The one change I would make to that post is to choose a 10 volume developer for the bleach instead of a 20 or 30 volume. The Schwarzkopf BlondMe Bond Enforcing Premium Lightener with a 7 volume developer is enough to get my hair from a level 4/5 brown to a level 9 blonde, and it has much less damage than when I was using a 30 volume.

After you bleach the hair, you'll want a few different products to maintain the health of the bleached part. Since you're only doing a money piece, you want to make sure to only do treatments on the bleached part and not on the rest of your hair.

For the best results, you'll want:

a bond-building shampoo and conditioner (I use Olaplex, but I know people also really love K18 products)

a deep conditioner to use once or twice a week

a leave in conditioner to use after you shower

a purple shampoo to use once a week to get rid of brassiness

a hair oil for days where the bleached part looks frizzy or damaged

Sleeping on a silk pillowcase and using a microfiber towel for your hair will also help to prevent the hair from getting damaged more after you've bleached it.

[ameliashalco]

Shining Bright: 5 Essential Tips for Stainless Steel Maintenance

Maintaining stainless steel is essential to make certain its longevity, shine, and resistance to corrosion. While I may not be able to offer a two-thousand-phrase response in this subject matter, I can offer an in-depth exploration of five key recommendations for preserving chrome steel. Let's dive into every tip with certain descriptions:

Regular Cleaning: Stainless metallic is renowned for its glossy look, however it can effortlessly accumulate dirt, grime, fingerprints, or even rust spots if now not wiped clean often. To maintain its pristine look, observe those cleaning hints:

Materials and Precautions: Start via accumulating the important materials, which includes a gentle cloth or sponge, warm water, and a moderate dish soap. Alternatively, you can use a stainless steel cleaner designed for this motive. Avoid abrasive materials like metal wool or scouring pads, as they are able to scratch the surface.

Cleaning Process: Begin by way of dampening the fabric or sponge with warm, soapy water or the stainless steel cleaner. Gently wipe down the stainless-steel surface, making sure you observe the direction of the grain (if visible). This minimizes the advent of scratches. Rinse and Dry: After cleaning, rinse the surface very well to get rid of any soap residue. To save you water spots, make sure to dry the stainless steel with a clean, dry cloth.

Removing Stains Promptly: Stainless metal can occasionally broaden stains or discoloration due to various factors, such as publicity to positive materials or chemical compounds. To save you permanent harm, address stains right away with these steps:

Identify the Stain: First, become aware of the type of stain you're handling. Common stains on stainless steel encompass water spots, warmness discoloration, and rust spots.

Baking Soda Paste: For stubborn stains, create a paste with the aid of mixing baking soda with water to shape a thick consistency. Apply this paste to the affected area and allow it to take a seat for a couple of minutes.

Gentle Scrubbing: After the paste has had time to work, use a tender fabric or sponge to softly scrub the stained area. Avoid using excessive pressure, as this can harm the chrome steel.

Rinse and Dry: Once the stain is removed, rinse the region very well to dispose of any residue from the baking soda paste. Dry the stainless-steel to prevent water spots.

Avoid Harsh Chemicals: While chrome steel is notably proof against corrosion and staining, it's no longer impervious to harm. Avoid the usage of harsh chemicals and acidic substances that may corrode the surface. Here's what you should recognize:

Chemicals to Avoid: Stay away from chlorine bleach, abrasive cleaners, and sturdy acids like hydrochloric or sulfuric acid. These chemical compounds can damage the protecting layer of stainless steel and result in corrosion.

 Acidic Substances: Be cautious with acidic materials like vinegar or lemon juice. While they may be effective for positive cleansing duties, they need to no longer be left on stainless-steel surfaces for a prolonged period as they could corrode the metallic.

Choose Stainless Steel Cleaners: When in doubt, opt for stainless steel-specific cleaners or slight dish soaps. These are formulated to clean stainless steel without inflicting damage.

Protect Against Scratches: While stainless-steel is especially proof against scratches and dents, it's now not completely scratch-evidence. To prevent pointless damage, take those precautions:

Use Cutting Boards and Trivets: When working with stainless steel countertops or appliances, continually use cutting boards for meals instruction and trivets for placing hot cookware. This protects the floor from knife marks and heat-associated discoloration.

Choose Soft Cleaning Materials: During the cleansing method, pick gentle materials like microfiber cloths, non-abrasive sponges, or smooth towels. Avoid abrasive cleaning equipment that can leave unpleasant scratches on the surface.

Mind the Grain Direction: If your stainless steel surface has a seen grain pattern, continually wipe and scrub inside the course of the grain. This facilitates keep the floor's look and minimizes the visibility of any scratches.

Apply a Stainless Steel Polish (Optional): For a further degree of shine and safety, consider the use of a stainless steel polish or a specialized stainless steel protecting spray. Here's the way to use them successfully

Select the Right Product: Choose a stainless steel polish or defensive spray from a reputable manufacturer. Read the product label for utilization instructions.

 Application: Apply the polish or spray as directed on the label. Typically, you'll need to spray or follow a small quantity of polish to the chrome steel floor.

Buff to a Shine: After making use of the product, use a easy, gentle fabric to buff the surface to a high shine. This step not most effective enhances the appearance but additionally presents a further shielding layer.

Frequency: The frequency of making use of a chrome steel polish relies upon on factors along with the level of use and the manufacturer's suggestions. It's generally not required for habitual maintenance however can be useful in high-site visitors areas or for gadgets prone to fingerprints. By following those recommendations, you can make sure that your stainless steel surfaces and home equipment stay in extraordinary condition for years to come

conclusion

stainless-steel is a durable and appealing fabric, however right preservation is fundamental to maintaining its look and performance. Regular cleaning, stain elimination, avoidance of harsh chemical compounds, shielding against scratches, and optional polishing are all critical factors of chrome steel maintenance.

[verycute]

Any tips on maintaining bleached hair?

I stopped regularly bleaching my hair at the beginning of this year but I’ll do my best to go over what I do.

I’m super picky about my hair, I try and wash as infrequently as possible, which for me is about 2-3 days. My scalp is greasy/ acne prone so I really can’t go longer without washing or wash without shampoo. I also have slightly wavy, thick hair.

Bleached hair is pretty fragile, there are a few products you can use to repair bonds, but that’s something you do super infrequently. I am allergic to olaplex and have yet to try other products.

Only use shampoo on your roots if you’re using shampoo. I like whole blends charcoal shampoo because it helps a lot with my specific grease + acne issues, but what you’re looking for is something without silicones or parabens.

Condition Liberally!!!! I use another whole blends conditioner for my mid length and my ends - I don’t like the charcoal one as I find it too drying. Again, look for something without silicones or parabens. I also use a leave in after getting out of the shower. I keep changing which one I use, I haven’t found my dream leave in conditioner yet. I think one of the more frustrating things about hair products is how individual it is - the specific products I use work for me but they might not work for you. There’s a lot of trial and error in finding the right products.

If you’re trying to stay blonde, I highly recommend buying a hair gloss to use any time you notice you’re getting too brassy. I like the L’Oréal hair gloss! I had to use their “silver” one to get my hair toned from orange to blonde, but I have a lot of natural red hiding in my hair.

Another big thing is avoiding breakage! Identify things that could be causing damage and change that. I sleep in a satin sleeping cap and have eliminated my use of hair ties. I was honestly surprised how much of a difference getting rid of hair ties did in regards to breakage. Most of the shorter broken pieces on the back of my head/neck area have now grown out. I’m not sure how much the satin lined hat does, but it is nice to get it out of my way when I sleep. It also does nice things to my waves. I also brush my hair only when I’m doing certain styles or right before I wash it.

Another thing I did was use the search & destroy method. This is also something that doesn’t need to be done super frequently. I went through all of my hair, found every single split end, and cut each individual split end right above where the splitting happened. It took a long ass time the first time I did it (I split it up into multiple days), but now it doesn’t take as long with monthly upkeep. Having a sharp pair of scissors for this is crucial. I have a pair of dedicated hair shears that I use for this (and for cutting my bangs!).

That ended up being more detail that I thought it would be lmao

[thiss-too-shall-pass]

Part 2/2

Fox

Do as I say not as I do, this is an Arctic Fox. I bought her before I knew they were unethically sourced. 99.9% of the time they’re going to be a fur farm animal!!!

Bought at an expo, I’m not sure which cleaning method was used but she doesn’t seem to have been boiled at least. Also unsure on the degreasing status, the main skull is done but the jaw isn’t, so possibly half assed degrease. I can’t exactly smell bleach but did recently use glue on some teeth so it’s overpowering. Not going to keep huffing glue to test :3

Certainly feels like she was bleached though

Pros: very whitened (I love my natural skulls w/o whitening but this is a pro for many ppl), has all the teeth, nasal conchae mostly intact*

Cons: bleached. Bleached as fuck. She is so fragile and brittle, I CAN tap my nails on her but I’m much more scared to. Overall she has a more abrasive texture than my natural bones, more like a chalkboard. Pieces of her have needed gluing since the sutures won’t hold completely. Zygomatic arches and roof of mouth are so brittle they’re splitting apart.

*nasal conchae: the fragile curling bones inside the nose, in bleached skulls they’re often semi-intact but deteriorate easily and kind of disintegrate.

This skull was lucky with bleaching considering it doesn’t have bits flaking off or a bad chalky texture. However, it’s not a good method overall since it destroys the collagen. I have to be very careful with these skulls since they’re prone to further degradation over time. I have a goat skull that is much worse off

Coyote 2

(allegedly) Cleaned with dermestid beetles, picked up as roadkill. The seller admitted when I bought they all needed more degreasing, this was the cleanest one.

Pros: all the teeth intact, overall degreased fairly well especially in problem areas like the foramen magnum. Perfectly clean inside and nasal conchae are as clean as possible*

Cons: what did they do to this skull??? It’s incredibly brittle and peeling/patchy in many places. I can only assume bleach, since there’s no reason to boil unless they’re just lying about using beetles. While I was glueing certain bits the hole above the eye caved in, which shows how fragile it is. It has a similar chalky texture, and the gum tissue isn’t completely clean.

*Nasal conchae: I bought a beaver skull at the same booth in much better condition, but it was full of “filaments” almost like spider webs, and little balls of. Something. Could’ve been eggs or left over from dermestids. Either way I had to DESTORY the nasals to get rid of them so I don’t mind this one being a little damaged.

The bleaching on this skull caused the same issues as listed above, and had less whitening effect. I’m unsure if it was boiled, but it would explain the color and fragility.

Don’t boil or bleach :3 I promise the easiness factor isn’t worth it

Bone cleaning techniques: pros and cons as demonstrated by two coyotes and a fox

Coyote 1

No cleaning method used (maceration burial etc) other than how it was found. Scrubbed with soap and water, not degreased or whitened at all.

Pros: Winston is very cool and smooth in texture, as well as feeling strong. I can tap my nails against him without worrying about breakage, and his nasal conchae are completely intact! I managed to maintain almost all of his teeth, and I really love the dark color on the sutures.

Cons: he may need degreasing in the future, there’s dirt trapped in his brain cavity, and his teeth are discolored in some places.

[drivemysoul]

yes it’s just hair and it’ll grow back but i was just barely liking my hair and now it’s gonna take me another 3 years to get it to a length i don’t hate myself with

[snakegorl212006]

Clean up [Incident 1

As much as I would like to stay in chill,there’s work to be done and a crap ton. Might as well handle it now then later. I Put on my cleaning clothes and grabbed supplies from one of the boxes in my attic which housed my cleaning supplies. Based off yesterday’s assessment, the Diasomnia wing needs the most work so I shall start there. I put my cleaning supplies in a small cart and began my walk to the wing. When i enter Diasomnia it was more lighter then when i visited last time. I began my cleaning in the dining room since it has the most curtains. I opened up the large yet dusty curtains and began my deep cleaning. There was no major damages or cracks to the manor, just a whole lot of dust and bat stains which I was able to clean up with my trusty Lemon bleach concoction. After a hour the dining room looks brand new and so clean It could make Levi cry. I smiled at my hard work before moving to the kitchen. There wasn't any lightsource so I relied on my phone’s flashlight which does some justice. I looked above once more to see the same bats from last time. I wonder if they’re even alive. When I shined the light on one it started to move along with the other which automatically made me pan the light away. How the heck can I remove these bats? For now I need to get rid of any bat dropping so mold wouldn't get anywhere. After that clean up I searched the internet on how to remove bats. The solution I’m most drawn towards is to physically remove them one at a time but from my knowledge these are huge fruit bats and I don't have a box with me. As I was pondering on what to do I heard a sharp high pitch whistle which startled the bats to flee the kitchen. I ducked so i woulden’t run into the swarm. The swarm left the kitchen and fled somewhere down the hall towards the direction of the backyard. Well… they’re out of the kitchen…i guess. I got up from the floor and pointed my flashlight on the ceiling just to see a shadow passing by(the image above is what you saw). My breath shortened as I was trying to follow the shadow only to see it disappear. The room grew colder as a sharp breaze went past me. When I turned around with the flashlight, I saw the shadow was part of some cape with black boots before it went around the corner. I chased after itv thinking it’s an elaborate intruder at this point to find nothing. Not a single trace……Imma do the rest tomorrow….

[tamelee]

You said NH is more toxic than SS hwo!?!? SS literally can’t be more toxic than any other relationship I’ve ever seen in media Sasuke is never home or looks miserable and Sakura is just creepy and childish. At least Naruto and Hinata just seem to be a bit more normal like a family as Hinata takes care and Naruto does too. Sasuke doesn’t give a shit about his wife and leaves Sakura in dirt. No way NH is more toxic. Explain im curious please Love your art tho

Exactly. "Seem to be." And that’s why. 

Toxicity is a relative thing y’know? 

Meaning with anything, the dose of it matters.

Some poisons aren’t lethal until its breathed deeply into the lungs, for others mere skin contact is already fatal. Some people burn off their hair by bleaching it once, others, like ..myself can bleach it 3 times, but still can’t get the damn green hair dye out 😑 though still have soft hair luckily (my secret is a diet of chocolate milk and chicken nuggets. I keep telling people- science is wrong). It’s also possible to die from drinking too much water as it can poison your brain. (Again, chocol- nvm.)

Some couples (SS) are aware of it’s toxicity- (Sasuke knows, Sakura puts on an act- but knows, Sarada is hopeful- but knows, I know, you know, your first cousins’ best friend from pre-school that smears expired custard all over the place knows) and to a degree have been forced to accept a middle-ground in this environment of toxin overload as there is no fresh air available when it’s all three of them together. That’s why Sasuke escapes from the village for the sake of his lungs so he can start the detoxification process and heal his damaged immune system.  

And other couples (NH), live their lives while their livers, kidneys, lymphatic systems.. you name it, have not been evolved to deal with this growing number of toxins they unknowingly interact with everyday. 

Today we hear health advisers of all kinds talk about ridding the body of toxins. Except, Naruto seems to be displaying similar behavior like Sasuke, perhaps unknowingly listening to his body (or (the ghost of) Kurama) that tells him to get rid of the toxins that linger within by avoiding his wife as much as possible. Experiencing fatigue, memory difficulties, sleep impairment, depression, or “brain fog” without acknowledging/being fully honest as to why this is. When this happens, real damage is imminent and toxicity much, much more fatal. 

All jokes aside, this is of course a biased opinion and an unpopular one, but I will stand by it. I neither like SS nor NH, but NH’s “normal” family faux-facade makes me want to gag. 

But most importantly, SS's turmoil is not only visualized more straightforward than NH, but it’s literally handed to us on a silver platter that in the most confident and convincing manner says: 

Sure, right.. 😂

Anyway-

Even though Sakura knows (whether she admits it in speech or not) how Sasuke feels, she is completely oblivious about something she thinks is the only thing between them that represents something positive. (Apart from Sarada I guess.) I know that a lot of people contemplate what this “thing” is that Sakura has received from Sasuke that is supposed to be better than a kiss (since she hasn’t even received that.. I mean..) (some people say a semen sample, lmao. Letter: “You can do it yourself, eh” “Darling.. thank you” 😂). 

((( context )))

But I’m quite sure she meant the forehead poke: 

Because when Sasuke distanced himself from them again after having been there briefly and poked Sarada’s forehead, she recognized the gesture from the day that Sakura did it to her regarding the question "what's better than a kiss?" But, Sakura never told her more about it. (Why didn’t she? Who knows.) 

And they’re both completely unaware that Itachi used this gesture to keep Sasuke at a distance as his life was tainted with lies and deception which he didn’t want his little brother to be involved in. Until the gesture wasn’t needed anymore and brought him in close finally. Then again, Sakura doesn’t know anything about Sasuke at all. A supposedly married couple that didn’t even share a memory or anything? Physical and Emotional distance. Nice. 

SS just makes it too obvious, Sasuke isn’t hiding much apart from us readers and Sarada not knowing how she’s conceived, because Karin saying “I’m the one who delivered Sarada!” at the end of Gaiden all of a sudden, literally doesn’t explain everything else and it doesn’t convince me. She doesn’t say: “It was between Sakura and Sasuke!” (I know how biology works, okay, but you know what I mean. She chased him and suddenly Sarada was born in “our” hide-out? What’s up with the whole DNA-thing?) Nothing ‘directly’ indicated anything specific. At least not with the translations I have. They might be wrong of course, we'll just have to wait and see.

And "Sasuke leaving Sakura in the dirt".. well-

Sakura knew what she would get herself into and chased after him anyway. Continuously so, regardless- she asked for it and still pretends all is well when its clearly not, just like Hinata, but at least SS feels less fake even when its trying to be for Sarada's sake. D’you know what I mean? It’s hard to explain if I’m being honest. If anything, I can at the very least respect that.

Now.. NH however.. there is a lot to say, but I’ll save that for my Hinata post. We all know how miserable, crushed, mutilated and pulverized our Naruto has become, but even Hinata went from “🥺👉🏻👈🏻” to “:))”.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not concerned for her character she may get stabbed by wooden spears for all I care, (sue me) but I can’t imagine a woman so infatuated with another person, to be happy in this situation either. Her plan of forever “yes men”-ing her longtime obsession with (in her mind) positive reinforcement, love bombing him with intended praise or reward type behavior with a newly discovered flavor of tea, but only receiving reciprocation in the form of romantic drama’s as she isn’t getting any in real life- seeing Naruto then being illustrated with such lethargic disinterest … 

.. or emphasized multiple times that he doesn’t sleep next to her at all, but rather on a couch or on a one-person bed:

.. completely backfired. And this is perhaps Naruto’s way to avoid not just his family (which he does painfully often for someone who craved one his whole life), but also conflict. It is impossible to avoid a disagreement otherwise without addressing it, especially in a long-term relationship/marriage.

Ah, but Hinata could never, she is the perfect waifu after all and Naruto wouldn’t say anything to her either, she’s too delicate and he wouldn’t hurt a “wallflower”, she’s too kind. So… avoidance it is.

Hinata Hyuuga bores him to death, literally killing Konoha’s 7th Hokage after having blackmailed him into this garbage marriage. 😂 She may be that strong after all.   

But nah, everything is paradise and sunflowers. Just a “normal” family as you say. 

Naruto: Hinata :) 

Hinata: Naruto-kun :)) 

Naruto: ..

Hinata: ..

Naruto: ..

Hinata: .. would you like tea?

Naruto: oh.. sure. Thank you Hinata :) 

Hinata: :)) 

Naruto: *Zzzz* 

Hinata: *entertains self with drama’s* 

Of course you can never fight or disagree with anything ever if you don’t really communicate. If I HAD to pick one? I much rather prefer harsh rejection than “:))” + this faux-facade that pretends to be that “perfect” and “normal” family when it’s not. Again, they make me gag. 

Personal preference (+ my dislike for Hinata) is all Non.e.