#i need to get better at friendships
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i don't know if anyone else sees my vision but the bride and dr. phosphorous are roommates who are co-parenting a dog they found on the side of a road (weasel). please tell me you get what i'm saying. propaganda under the cut (spoilers for ep. 3)
#bugs getting attached to another friendship? more likely than you think.#this one makes me less feral than econocourt but i'm in love with them and this idea#trust me it makes sense guys dr. phosphorous is just a dog dad and the bride said she “didn't want him” at first#and then the scrappy little guy grew on her#looking forward to next week#weasel needs to be proven innocent guys#and he BETTER not get the GI robot treatment#if anyone else dies i'm going to crash out i think#i'm already sending love to the GI robot lovers who got this episode literally week 2 of the show's existence#dr. phosphorus#doctor phosphorus#the bride#the bride of frankenstein#weasel#dc weasel#creature commandos#tar.txt
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Twilight x Sunset
I failed a quiz at: "How well do I know my friends", my punishment given to me by @katrittaja / @lairofanoutcast who also was victorious, was to draw her gals in the most cutest way possible.
I delivered the best I could.
#mlp#fanart#EquestriaGirls#drawing#digital art#suzy's art#my art#my little pony#my litte pony friendship is magic#equestria girls#twilight sparkle#sunset shimmer#twilight x sunset#friendship is magic#ship art#shipping#I don't know much about my little pony#but I know these are a thing#I need to get better at remembering my friends favorite things#can't dare to lose often at these games :'D#not often I get to draw this type either xD
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Masters' Academy AU: Environment Concept Art
Dipper and Norman have both been outcasts for most of their time at school, just for different reasons...
Art by @okkennymay
Dipper is an arrogant know it all who constantly gets complimented by adults for his grades and "maturity", but has zero friends (other than his sister) and is thoroughly convinced it's because none of them as "smart and grown up as he is".
Norman is a sad weird kid who talks to ghosts and struggles to pretend to be normal. His paranoid father moves them to new towns multiple times a year to hide Norman's "shameful secret" and constantly warns him about the dangers of being discovered. He's rarely been given more than a few months to build connections with other people and when he does he builds it on lies, something that his new friends can always sense because Norman isn't built to constantly lie to people.
After years of this they've both come to terms with the idea of having no friends, for opposite but equally terrible reasons: Dipper thinks he's too good for friends his age and Norman thinks that he isn't good enough.
A match made in heaven.
#masters’ academy au#parapines#paranorman#gravity falls#danny phantom#okkennymay#their friendship is just them finding one thing in common and then accidentally fixing the other's many many issues#I need to get so much better at writing unnecessary character drama because they are going to be their own worst problems#and yes that includes the murders
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As someone who heavily relates to Quinni and is a little bit in love with Harper and her fucked-up bad-bitch mystique, I think they should have an incredibly intense and fucked up gay relationship that leaves them both irreversibly wrecked as people. They could make each other worse and better in equal measure and I want it sooo bad
#and that is my contribution to the fandom thank u for your time#never underestimate an autistic girl’s ability to see through the tough-girl’s bullshit#and never underestimate the tough-girl’s ability to inspire confidence in her friends!#Harper would teach Quinni how to win the idgaf war and Quinni would teach Harper how to lose the idgaf war#do you see the vision????#Harper would be like: omg fuck everybody do what you want!! go crazy go stupid!!!#and Quinni would be like: …you know you don’t have to pretend like you’re okay all the time right?#if nothing else I need their friendship to be more fleshed out!!!#heartbreak high#quinni gallagher jones#harper mclean#cass actually talks!#omg they’re also the goth + pastel (ish) stereotype!!!#it just gets better guys like get on my level kdbdjdk
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Idk what to name my sona but I'm now realizing I got his name from a tumblr user
#my high brain must of seen it and go :0#art#fanart#my art#mlp sona#ponysona#mlp vampire#traditional goth#i think#mlp#my little pony#mlp fim#my litte pony friendship is magic#also sorry if i stole your name i need to get better at names
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i really like the dichotomy of everyone respecting Nana as their friend off stage (and the darker feeling she has that they All take from her in one way or another except Karen) but inside the stage duels as performers with her as their ultimate test, they're all still prideful enough to treat it as every man's glory for themselves, making it so they can't hold a grudge against Nana outside the Revues because to everyone the Revues are Just Business and a space for words that don't belong outside it- which plays into the repression that's hurting all their relationships, they really thought of everything making this series
#Day 8 post revstar movie i can hear colors and see sounds#This is why they don't blow up at her over the Revue of Annihilation to me btw bc Stage Nana is for the Stage like them#What happens on the stage gets resolved on the stage and only the aftermaths are taken back to reality#So Nana humiliating all of them was seen as part of the tests they all accepted to grow in the other Revues there's no grudge needed#All goes back to the thematic question of being on an off a stage#Holding things in by avoiding them vs the courage to be honest and independent#basically everyone loves Nana but when it's time to be a performer/personal glory it's just business they put that friendship aside#bc it's time to compete and when you compete 1v1 there's no such thing as friends in that moment- they can be friends again#and put the stage behind them when they're off it not when they're on it nothing personal- what happens in vegas stays in vegas type shit#revue starlight#Also Nana being the only one dressed in white for death & w two sword musashi style she's their literal metaphorical angel of death#Who needed to be invincible and 'kill' them in RoA so they could pick themselves up#Deadass she's not a villain she's just as unstable as the rest of them but she's got a grasp of how reality & self determination work#That the others had to learn in the movie until they're all free and living better for themselves by the end throwing away their jackets
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Something something Crowley and Rowena parallels, like mother like son. Cycle of trauma. Losing the one thing they still hold dear. Being proven that they can still care and love again, they’re scared of it but they can’t run from it. Trying so hard to become something that’s not meant for them and eventually giving up in the sense that they realize maybe that’s not what they wanted in the first place, only for it to be too late. But they both become what they’re meant to be even though neither really gets what they want. Also they’re both incredibly cunty and manipulative in a fun way. They’re tragic but also comedic relief somehow and I ate it up.
#I mean Crowley was fun from the start#but I only really got obsessed when Rowena showed up#they‘re foils#Crowley hated her for what she did and then became just like her#they try so hard to kill each other but it’s also not a thing that they actually want#they strive for power and search for loyal subjects but when they get it they discard it easily#because what they really want is community. partnership. friendship. family. safety.#and once they realize that they sacrifice themselves for it so they never really get to have it#I’m sure I could’ve made this post better but alas the brain worms need to be released into the wild right now#crowley#fergus macleod#rowena#rowena macleod#spn#supernatural#mine#supernatural spoilers#crowley spn#crowley supernatural
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How tf do people just. Make friends with their mutuals. How
#i want to!! yall are cool as hell#but unfortunately im cursed with chronic 'they dont *actually* want to be friends theyre just being nice#if i try to talk to them I'll just annoy them' disease#ive been dragged into all my friendships which i probably need to get better af actually#anyway#i would love to! but alas i am An Idiot#me.txt
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Creators I love you but it's time to wake up
Among rumors about our tumblr user data being sold off to Midjourney/Generative AI, recent Extremely transphobic events (that have been ongoing) coming to a head, another extremely concerning internet censorship bill being pushed in upper levels of government, and a general air of frustration over how the site belongs to and is operated by perhaps the second stupidest CEO (second only to twitters own) of our age, I'm very done with the last few vestiges of what the old internet held for artists.
And if you're reading this, you probably are too.
I know we're tired. We are all tired. It is not always viable to pack up shop and move, again and again and again.
From tumblr to twitter to anywhere else we've ever grown up posting, things no longer work. Our audiences are kneecapped by aggressive and hostile algorithms, our reach is abysmal - if we aren't shadow-banned or silenced for one (transphobic) reason or another, we're thrust into an ever growing pit of hostility where the only thing that drives clicks is fighting and contention.
We're tired. We're so fucking tired. We aren't businesses, we aren't content mills, we cannot keep this pace that modern social media has set for us, to wring every ounce of creativity out of us to profit from and leave us rotting.
The key to staying afloat here, and I cannot stress this enough, is to stay connected to your peers.
Pack up and move as units if you must. Exodus from the sites that are killing us. Push your entire friend group of artists to move from one site to the next that promises you a kinder experience.
Art drives movements, it drives change, it is all that encompasses being human. If you take that away from the shitty places, they will be left with nothing but a cesspit of inhumanity and the people who follow you will be more incentivized than ever to move with you.
Yes, this is terrifying. There are no guarantees. There never was, and never are, and never will be.
But stay connected. Stay human.
Support each other and be willing to hold hands and jump when we all - as a group - need to jump from the flames we're all trying to convince ourselves wont kill us before rescue comes.
Rescue isn't coming, rescue will be found hand in hand with each other. I'm offering you my hand, please take it. There's always a new start, there are always helping hands reaching for you. You have to look up from the doom-scroll long enough to see and take them.
#art communities#art community#teo talks#sorry I have a Lot of opinions about posting art online I've been doing this since I was 14 and I'm 28 this year#I have watched the rise and fall of social media titans and you have to understand the ONLY thing that will keep you afloat#is keeping connected to your peers#we have to move as units and we have to stay together and we have to support each other#your following is not stability. your friendships are.#thats why you hear about networking. thats ceo talk for friendships. connections.#you have to have enough connections to build your own support web on the chance that everything goes to shit. yes its hard work. it sucks.#but it is a necessity. twitter isn't getting better. its not going back to how it was. neither is DA or tumblr. its not happening.#If you put all your eggs in one or two precarious baskets and both fall. you will be shit out of luck! thats reality#there is hope to be found but you have to be realistic and understand that you NEED to build up a presence elsewhere. even if its hard.#I want to help you if I can!!!! bluesky is a really solid twitter alternative!!!#ive heard good things about cohost as a tumblr alternative!!!!#sheezy and inkblot are both indie sites currently being developed by and for other creatives. support them!#they won't be perfect until - and UNLESS - you do!#anyways sorry I will step off my soapbox now Im just frustrated with the state of everything
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Random headcanon I probably like too much is the idea that Rosie never really swears, or at the least she swears even less than Alastor.
Like, she could if she wanted to, and she's not aghast when people do. She just doesn't. There's something about a cannibal lowkey drawing a line at profanity that gets me giggling.
Alastor makes sense he swears, he's from the south so he probably picked up on that sort of talk even with the transatlantic accent. Obviously he's learned to filter swearing and profanities out for radio, but like to imagine another reason he doesn't swear that much was Rosie rubbing off in him (the irony that his swearing decreased in Hell more than Louisiana is... accurate actually)
While not my favorite relationship, I really do love Rosie's and Alastor’s close-knit relationship and can't wait to see them interact more with season 2. They've also been described as having a relationship similar to Mary Poppins and Jack, so curious if they'll establish them as mentors and protege to a degree or at least just have Alastor always looking happy/in awe at Rosie.
#Celtrist#cel rambles#Feels like their relationship gets underrated#But same goes for most of Alastor's female friendships#I GOTTA BE FAIR THOUGH THAT IT DOESN'T HELP THAT HIS MALE RELATIONSHIPS ARE ARGUABLY MORE INTERESTING/COMPLEX#AND TBH MOST OF THE MALE CHARACTERS KINDA TAKE THE SPOTLIGHT#No shade to the female cast I love them#But I gotta acknowledge they get the sore end of the stick in terms of “interesting and complex” characters#But hey maybe future seasons will get better?#Need to think more positively ^^#And maybe it's because I just tend to gear towards male characters?#Not sure. The show just didn't feel very “female-lead” as it was mentioned to be#Yknow the excuse as to why Loona and Millie gets little to no development/focus#Okay I'm getting negative again sorry#hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel alastor#hazbin alastor#alastor the radio demon#alastor hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel rosie#hazbin rosie#rosie hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel headcanon#hazbin headcanons#hellaverse#helluvaverse#hellaverse headcanon#headcanons#radiorose#Not really ship related but I know what people are looking up...
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They should go back in time and make new episodes of Star Trek TNG with the actors at the right ages and just keep going like nothing happened so that I can have new Data content please I miss him
#I desperately need more things to find out about Data and Geordie’s beutiful friendship#I crave getting to know Data better all over again#star trek#star trek tng#tng#st tng#data#data tng#data soong#geordi la forge#geordi tng
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because i'm predictable, what're bobby and chloe up to in the villain au? or how's the dynamic between sam and dogen since he's taken psychoisolation to the extreme?
Bobby's in a pretty similar position to the regular timeline - at least, at first glance. he's overworked and underpaid, constantly crunching to try and keep on top of the ever-growing mountain of paperwork his superiors keep handing down to him.
but i think the trajectory of his character looks pretty different? he never really met Raz at Whispering Rock. he never got humbled by him, never had to suffer the embarrassment of his spot as top dog being yanked away by some new kid... but he also never really got to go through a lot of the character growth from their ensuing rivalry? he's definitely mellower than he was as a kid, but he's got a lot of unresolved issues bubbling under the surface - anger problems, poor self-esteem, a tendency to lash out at authority figures...
he still really believes in the work he's doing, and wants the Psychonauts to be the force for good he knows they can be. but he's carrying a growing burden of stress and exhaustion, stuck in a toxic work environment that's more likely to change him (or just make him snap) than he is to change it.
his only real friend at the Motherlobe is Chloe. Chloe is... well! again, first-glance, not that much has changed. she works the same job in the Motherlobe's engineering and aerospace department, and she still gets to pursue her childhood fascination with space.
but the harsher work culture and the more pragmatic, efficient environment have exacerbated some of her less personable traits. she's blunt, rude, and almost fanatically devoted to her work, to the exception of basically everything else. her workplace safety standards are lax, and her ethics laxer. she'd sell the Psychonauts out for one corn chip if she thought it'd get her better funding for her pet projects
#my thesis is that Raz and Bobby made each other worse and then better#in this timeline Bobby never hit those lows. but he also never got to grow past them and develop as a person#he /hates/ vau Raz. but it's more as this faceless proxy for everything he hates about the Psychonauts#Raz barely even knows he exists.#Chloe and Bobby are still good buds! and maybe on-again off-again something more#but they're both too... (gestures vaguely) to really hold down a stable relationship as they are now#Chloe also never gets to meet Mirtala in this version of events#and she never gets to have that kind of uncomplicated deeply loving friendship with another kid her age#and among other things she's fundamentally much less well-adjusted because of it#but then isn't everyone in this au lol#villains au#SAM AND DOGEN is good also... i need to chew over that one more#much to think about#but i wanted to draw bobby today so here he is
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// personal
how strange it is to observe yourself changing
#not snz#delete later#another suddencolds yap post 😭 i apologize#i have been trying to draft a post like this for awhile now... i suppose this is a subset of the many thoughts i've had lately#this year has been so strange??! i joked in january about taking a leave to metamorphose into someone more tolerable but#honestly i am not sure if i am more tolerable now... though i do feel like i've changed. :')#for the better? for the worse? unsure... i feel like i am finding out more and more that#my social battery is unfortunately finite 😭 and that i must be more selective in how i choose to spend my time 🙇♀️#i think all throughout uni the majority of my substantial social interactions happened#over text/online? irl i made a lot of acquaintances via classes and student organizations... but the number of#close friends i had and actively met up with irl was pretty low 😭 and that embarrassed me!! like#how can one 🫵🏼 be surrounded by so many smart people her age and come away with so few in-person friends?? ☹️ skill issue truly!!! 🙄👎#even now i sometimes feel like the need to defend myself from that uncharitable perception of me? as though the idea that#there is/was something wrong with me is something i need to actively disprove 🥲#taken objectively i feel like i'm doing okay socially 😭 i have a decent handful of irl friends that#i meet with pretty regularly and people do seek out my company... but there's this feeling at the back of my mind that#no one will believe me when i say it. perhaps because i am so deeply used to seeing myself as undesirable :')#(^ i think this was all more painful than i am getting across in writing and i am summarizing it all from a point of relative detachment 😶)#but anyways! i am older now and it feels like things are shifting... or that i'm being forced to acknowledge that i have limits socially#in terms of energy rather than capability. which is new :') and i've also been thinking about the feeling of closeness (or lack thereof)#that i feel when it comes to the various friendships in my life. i think i am really fully vulnerable like#kind of seldom actually... but on the rare occasion that i feel sufficiently attached i worry i come across as a little intense 😭#(if i have embarrassed myself in front of you i am very sorry 😭😭 i'm still figuring things out)#(not sure if anyone is still reading this but) these tags are getting long enough 🏃♀️
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Hey everyone! 👀
I’ve finally posted the first chapter of my new fanfic, When Shadows Speak! 🖤 It's a fan fiction for the Dead Boy Detective Agency.📖✨
The Dead Boy Detectives think they’ve seen it all… until they’re pulled into a case that forces them to face something darker than they ever expected. Secrets, desire, and danger blur the lines as they’re forced to confront not just the dead, but the past they’ve been avoiding.
It’s a rollercoaster of mystery, magic, and a little bit of everything that makes their world so complicated.
It's on AO3 - When Shadows Speak by InkandAlchemy https://archiveofourown.org/works/60429367/chapters/154253011 (Check out my other works if you're into those fandoms)
#ao3#dbda#dbd#dead boy detective agency#save dbda#save dbd#edwin payne#charles rowland#crystal palace#niko sasaki#edwin x charles#niko is alive#hurt/comfort#angst#lost of it#romance#friendship#did i say mutual pining?#MUTUAL PINING#slow burn#payneland#archive of our own#dbda fan fic#fan fic#repressed edwardian gay#it gets worse before it gets better#read please#i need you to like this#thank you
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Omg...... Like Mother, Like Daughter is doomed Yuri (half yuri? One sided yuri?). TT0TT Sol doesn't feel the same way I'm pretty sure (sadly), but Som is DEF down bad. TT0TT And Som's not exactly the most mentally stable jakfjdksalfj (I think she has a bit of a "Sol's my pet" vibe going on as well. Som means well but she is NOT healthy either jfakslfj oh this is just going to be a fucking wreck I'm ready let's GO!)
(spoilers under cut, also under cut cause length and pictures)
Like she saw the boy Sol is hanging out with and was just ">:("
*sobbing* She is SO DONE when she finds out they are dating TT0TT
*sobs* ahhhh! klasjfdk OhmyGOAD SHE is tREMBLING as Sol tells her how she got with the guy TT0TT
She is literally SULLEN that Sol and guy have been dating FOR A MONTH! she looks os SICK TT0TT
My poor girl is literally doing the Arthur fist clench with her fist TT0TT
Som! Som! Girlie! I don't think this is just a friendship for you anymore.
LKFJDASKLFJKLAJFKL WAIT
"Anyone can see at first glance that he's good for nothing. But how does she not see that?"
OHHHHH MY GOD SHE'S LIEK 'HE SMELLY. HE STANK. HE POOR. HE BROKE. HE TOO NORMAL FOR HER." GURL! GET OFF THE FLOOOOOR!
"To be honest, I wish they'd break up" NO YOU DON'T SAY???? nEVER WOULD'VE GUESS!
Oh I was just here for the matricide but I've been blessed with more angst! Let's goooooo!!!!!!!!!
#“i'm sorry silly.... what's this about matricide?” Her moms a killer and killed her brother and she's just an absolute controlling pscyho-#-to the point som thought SHE was going to die before she got to high school if she didn't get perfect grades#lady deserves it but this isn't about her atm#like mother like daughter#like mother like daughter webtoon#like mother like daughter spoilers#i need to yap about this i'm sorry TT0TT#i had a feeling when she said 'life partner' in the other episode#the korean word can mean like an actual romantic partner buuuuut one of the words has been associated with pets#and she did compare sol to a pet in a sense#Somyung Gil#Look-Alike Daughter#똑 닮은 딸#webtoon#oh wait i never posted the other thing kafjdlksajflk TT0TT#som sweetie let's not call your crush a “stray dog”#the term you are looking for is “girlfriend”#now go listen to “i wanna ruin our friendship” and “good luck babe” you'll feel better#ugh I skipped a head a few chapters and the author is pushing some guys on som TT0TT#(I don't mind the boys they're cute but ahfkljsaklf you got me ATTACHED to Sol don't switch up on me now???)#For real tho Som needs therapy not a partner. Get her away from her mom and let her recover#I love how it's showing her slowly spiral into a villain arc and yesss I saw her becoming way too obsessed with Sol but oof there's some#def romantic tension in there and that's juicy#But right now things are just going to get worse if Som stays near her mom TT0TT#hopefully this thriller isn't a tragedy I need my girl to win!
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Does it make you sad knowing that Sand had no friends as a child, so when he noticed Ray needed a friend, he really tried to be that for him just for Ray to treat him like an object?


Thank God for good friends.
#sink these ships#only friends#only friends the series#I need people to get better friends#even if your friends are crazy‚ do they treat you right?#be Nick & Sand#they have their flaws but they apologize to each other#unlike the core group#I hate them#they ain't shit#even Top has Boeing#instead of sink these ships#how about we sink that main friendSHIP#burn it down!#and some of y'all saying 'some of y'all never had a toxic friend group?'#no! and I'm sorry you did#you deserved better#you deserve a nick and sand friendship#not a Cheum Mew Ray Boston bullshit relationship#and that's why they don't know how to be nice to other people#because they think if it's okay to treat friends like that it's okay to treat lovers like it too!
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