#i love you good night

[fedorahead]

So my friend Nova (Jenny) found out she has a tumour in her brain. She's going in for surgery at 6:30 (I assume EST) to have a shunt put in while awaiting biopsy results.

I wrote a thing for Facebook when I shared the gofundme her friend set up, but I realized I could try sharing it here too and see if anyone on here was interested in helping.

anyway here's what i wrote on facebook

Jenny's been my friend for like seven years at this point, and that makes me qualified to assert that she's the sweetest person on this fucking planet, and probably the least worthy of something like this. She's under the care of some of the top doctors in the country, and the country is the US so you know how healthcare can be.

Donate if you can, and if you know any spells/illuminati that owe you a favour/have some sort of an in with your local deity, please give that a shot and see if we can make this tumour benign.

I got that fortune the other day that said my luck would change, and since then my luck's been 10x worse, so I hope it's because the good luck got reallocated to her.

If you can donate or send whatever energy/agents of chaos/well wishes her way, a whole lot of people whose lives she consistently makes better would appreciate it.

Here's a link to her public post linking this gofundme (to show it's got her sanction)

Here's the original public post about the tumour (she had other posts about her migraines since the 2nd, but obviously none of us saw this coming)

[fedorahead]

here's the full original chart

it's basically the crossroads between toxic positivity and toxic masculinity (bulletproof coffee, sweat tears +struggle, weird xian/trad themes)

Tag yourself as this list of “bad art” features, according to a twitter fascist

[chloesimaginationthings]

Everyone “hates” Mike in the FNAF movie..

[eskildit]

In a better kinder world. Gideon nav would have been at the club.

[erabu-san]

I enjoyed every second of this quest

[This art has platonic intention. Thank you for not tag ship!]

[hektor-world]

This is better than any poem, GOOD NIGHT

[danandfuckingjonlmao]

dnp are so much worse than we could ever be. they bully us for being like omg they touched and then sit there screaming and giggling and kicking their feet because omg dan helped phil sort his fringe out in 2015 that’s soooo sweet!1!!1!!!!! 😭😭😭 omg did you see how they communicated without words?? 😱 they are so in tune with each other they have such a powerful connection 🥹🥰😆 so cute how dan was looking out for phil soulmate shit fr 🥺 let’s watch it again ����😍🤣😵🤭🫨 like shut the fuck up?? fucking phannies?? you’re so embarrassing??

[fisherrprince]

dummy trio let’s go ‼️‼️

[xxplastic-cubexx]

oh boy 2AM !!!!!!

[aarghone]

He's just a gunky goopy lil guy

[dizzybizz]

"this is regrettably the best kiss of your life, you understand?"

[fedorahead]

i wish more people understood "transandrophobia" and "transmisandry" are just the words for the intersection of misogyny and transphobia when directed at trans men, not some political statement

I have an acquaintance who I believe has been gone to the tirf side and while I don't think she's going to be able to be talked to on this the thing she posted to me to try to be like "well this trans man thinks you can't be specifically against trans masc people" did make me think like,

If transmisogyny has been expanded from just being about the type of extreme violence described by serrano to a lot of other items, but some people don't believe that anything similar can be described to trans men, then it feels like they are saying that men are the default in the way that anything bad that happens to a trans man or trans masc person is just transphobia but bad things that happen to trans women are transmisogyny.

Like I feel like it's a bit like, what is just transphobia any more then, is it something which just applies to all trans people or is it the same transphobia which can affect trans masc and trans fems?

Are there limits to what can be called transmisogyny like people are putting to transandrophobia?

Honestly, I think this idea kind of rests on this very weird model of gender categorization that really just ignores what transphobia is, and how it actually works on a systemic level.

The implication here is that trans women are women, therefore what they experience is misogyny. Which means that because trans men are men, what we experience cannot be misogyny.

We see this same logic in "TME/TMA" ("transmisogyny exempt/transmisogyny affected") language, which also conflates oppression with identity: do your actual lived experiences with oppression determine your "TME/TMA" categorization? Or are people of certain identities simply considered exempt from transmisogyny, by nature of those identities alone? In practice, it is overwhelmingly the later.

If we consider transmisogyny to be a system of oppression that is expressed in particular ways, rather than a kind of oppression that only impacts certain people, "TME/TMA" categorization immediately falls apart. Nobody is "exempt" from a system of oppression that, for example, polices conformity to idealized western standards of cis womanhood in sports; we know for a fact that women of color are regularly deeply affected by transmisogynistic rules and laws in sports. Those same women do not face many other aspects of transmisogyny-- currently they are not in danger of being places in men's prisons, for example-- but clearly, that doesn't mean they're exempt from transmisogyny, either.

The point here is that these are systems of oppression, and while they target certain qualities in people, their goal is ultimately to police certain societal rules. It doesn't matter what your identity actually is; only that you are breaking those rules.

Trans women are women, but they are not seen as women by these systems. They are seen as people who are breaking a particular set of rules; not "woman", not "man", but "other". Even "defective", "failed", or "outlaw". Transmisogyny exists to police their particular ways of breaking those rules, and it does not particularly care how they actually identity themselves, on an individual level.

Trans men are men, but we are not seen as men. We are breaking rules, too, and there are systems in place to police those rules; we've named them "transandrophobia" (or "transmisandry", or "antitransmasculinity", or whatever) so we can talk about them a little more easily.

[chickenchirps27]

Last night after reading a bit of the Book of Bill i went to sleep.

i had a dream that i had to team up with Bill Cipher to assassinate an angel.

I had to carve out its heart so that Bill would let me go.

I woke up very tired.

[timethehobo]

Just finished Emmy’s personal questline and am too full of feels rn so all I have is a tiny doodle tonight. I love him sm. 😭

[rayllurn]

Rayllum + Kissing

Bonus:

[erabu-san]

I enjoyed every second of this quest This art has platonic intention, please don't tag ship