#i love my womanhood!!!
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i-mybrunettelady · 15 days ago
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Forever in love that a lot of y'all associate me with women... literally that's so good bc women amirite!!!!
I say this totally heterosexually (genuine) but I just love writing women and I'm so happy it resonates with people!!!!
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uncanny-tranny · 1 year ago
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Tall trans girl reading this: you aren't too tall for heels. If you want to wear them, wear them proud. There is nothing more spectacular than a tall woman in heels, and nobody can ever take that away from you, not even yourself 🩷🪻
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thatgentlewife · 29 days ago
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Ways a wife can contribute to a happy, Christ-centered marriage by nurturing love, respect, and joyful service to her husband:
1. Pray together and individually
• Pray for your husband’s needs, spiritual growth, and guidance. Pray together regularly, inviting God into every aspect of your marriage.
2. Communicate with Love and Respect
• Share openly and kindly, and listen with empathy. Respect his thoughts and opinions, honoring his role as a leader in the home.
3. Prepare His Lunch or Favorite Meals
• Pack a nutritious lunch for him to take to work or surprise him with his favorite dinner. This simple act shows care and appreciation.
4. Maintain a Clean and Peaceful Home
• Create a relaxing environment by keeping the home tidy and welcoming. Organize spaces that matter to him, like his favorite chair or workspace.
5. Encourage and Uplift Him
• Speak words of encouragement, recognize his strengths, and affirm his leadership. Avoid criticism, and let your words be a source of strength and comfort.
6. Show Physical Affection and Care
• Express love through small gestures, a gentle touch, or quality time. Physical closeness helps strengthen your emotional connection.
7. Practice Patience and Forgiveness
• Be quick to forgive mistakes and approach disagreements with patience and grace. Reflect Christ’s love by prioritizing unity over proving a point.
8. Welcome Him Home Warmly
• Greet him warmly, showing excitement to see him. This simple gesture helps set a peaceful and positive tone for his evening.
9. Support His Work and Hobbies
• Show interest in his work or hobbies, offering encouragement and helping when you can. Your support reinforces his value to you.
10. Align with His Vision and Decisions
• Seek to understand and support his vision for the family, discussing decisions in a way that respects his role as head of the household.
11. Run Errands or Handle Tasks He Dislikes
• Take on errands or tasks he dislikes, such as grocery shopping or car maintenance, to lighten his load and show you’re thinking of him.
12. Cultivate a Cheerful Heart and Gratitude
• Approach marriage with joy and gratitude for your partnership. Let thankfulness be evident in your actions and attitude.
13. Be Intentional in Physical Affection
• Give hugs, a kiss on the cheek, or a back rub after a long day to make him feel valued and appreciated. Regular lovemaking is also recommended!
14. Model Christ’s Love and Kindness
• Be a daily example of Christ’s love through kindness, patience, and compassion. Build him up with gentle words and actions.
15. Stay Rooted in God’s Word Together
• Study the Bible together to grow spiritually and strengthen your marriage. When both partners are aligned with God’s Word, you share a foundation for love and purpose.
16. Take Care of Household Chores Thoughtfully
• Handle regular household tasks that he appreciates, like laundry, dishes, or organizing, to create a peaceful and comfortable home environment.
17. Celebrate His Accomplishments
• Acknowledge his achievements, big or small, and celebrate them together. This helps him feel seen and appreciated.
18. Encourage His Relationship with God
• Pray for him and encourage his spiritual growth. This support strengthens both his faith and your bond.
19. Express Appreciation Through Notes or Texts
• Leave thoughtful notes in his lunch or send an encouraging text during the day. Simple reminders of love brighten his day.
20. Plan Date Nights and Special Moments
• Plan date nights or small surprises, even at home, to keep the romance alive and show your commitment to nurturing your relationship.
21. Cook Meals that Support His Health
• Prepare healthy, balanced meals that align with his dietary needs or preferences, showing care for his well-being.
22. Offer to Pray for His Specific Needs
• Ask if there’s anything specific you can pray for and take time each day to lift those needs up.
23. Be Available for Quality Time
• Dedicate time to him free from distractions. Whether it’s watching a show, taking a walk, or just listening, be present and engaged.
By serving, supporting, and loving your husband in these ways, you’ll contribute to a marriage that reflects Christ’s love and builds a joyful, nurturing partnership. 🌷
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cocoabuttavasa · 8 months ago
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you are too full of life and love to be half loved by someone. you deserve a love that feels satiating for your spirit. you deserve a love that makes you feel seen. you deserve a love that makes you feel heard. you deserve a love that listens and a love that is patient. you deserve a love that is kind and a love that feels warm. you deserve a love that makes your heart explode and a love that sends shivers down your spine. you deserve a love that takes the time to study you, that takes the time to understand your mind. you deserve a love that is patient and compassionate. you deserve a love that grows old. you deserve a love that doesn’t judge but instead accepts you wholeheartedly; flaws and all. you deserve a love that sends tingles through your whole body and leaves butterflies swarming in your stomach. you deserve a love that gives you 80 on the days that you can only give 20. you deserve a love that sends you into overdrive at the slightest thought of their touch. you deserve a love that lasts. you see how you simply read this, you deserve a love that is simple and extraordinary all in one. you deserve to be felt, you deserve to be loved. you deserve love.
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blueskittlesart · 7 months ago
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deeply refreshing to see someone critical of Swift who also like, genuinely likes her. Like i'm neutral to positive on her, but the online discourse has been absolutely rancid. flipping between "Taylor Swift has never done anything wrong ever and she's a fucking genius" and "Taylor Swift is the worst lyricist of all time and also a bad person" is exhausting, so thank you for like. nuance or something lmao
not to make it serious for a sec but i genuinely think that being able to like things that are bad is really important. like I think that it's an important skill to be able to look at something and see what you personally enjoy about it and then take a step back and acknowledge that objectively it's flawed. and to also be able to acknowledge that liking something isn't necessarily an identity or a moral stance. and i think that fandom space in general could really benefit from more people taking the time to learn how to do that. it's okay to like things that are bad
#people ask me sometimes why ill occasionally talk about something i like and then go 'but it's bad' and the answer is usually because it is#i love teen wolf. i love genshin impact. i love detective conan. and i fucking LOVE taylor swift. that doesnt mean theyre good#it just means i like them. and recognizing their flaws actually helps me better identify what i like about them!#it's like. in my mind bad > good is the x axis and i like it > i dont like it is the y axis yk. they're not mutually exclusive#tldr it's not that serious. we can all relax a little#irt taylor swift i do also think she has done some real harm to her fans in enabling them to deflect all criticism of her as misogyny#and i don't think it's fully the fault of these people who are parroting that response bc so much of her marketing has deliberately#reinforced this idea that to be a swiftie is to be a part of a sisterhood and that any attack on taylor is an attack on all of those women#who are in that in-group. when that's obviously not the case. but she's marketed herself as. for lack of a better term. 'girl music'#to the point where it makes her fans feel as though any criticism of the music or the woman responsible for it is an attack on their#personal experience of womanhood/girlhood/sisterhood/etc. and that's how you get all of thess bad-faith accusations of misogyny#i don't necessarily think this was her deliberate goal with her marketing tho because like. on first glance such a strong sense of communit#among fans sounds like a great thing. the friendship bracelets i got at the eras tour movie are really genuinely special to me.#but it does present a problem when your fans are unable to separate how they feel about the community and experience your music has fostere#from how they feel about you as a person. especially when you are a billionaire who absolutely CANNOT be above criticism in this economy#anyway. tldr i love taylor's music and i don't think swiftie hivemind is as deliberately malicious as it may seem#but it's obviously necessary to be able to take a step back and look objectively at what you're participating in.#anyway stream ttpd or don't idc <3#taylor swift
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calicoheartz · 7 months ago
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could you do caitlin hcs with reader on her period
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Periods of Love ; Caitlin Clark ♡
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꣑୧ — summary | hcs of caitlin taking care of you while you’re on your period ❤️‍🩹
— warnings | none just pure fluff !
my master list ㇀♡
a/n : lmaooo did you guys get my pun 😭 (pls laugh) anywayss more hcs 4 u guys ! Enjoy ◡̈
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what she would do ;
She would for sure drop anything and everything to get you your favorite cravings !! It doesn’t matter if it’s 1am or 2pm , our girl is out
definitely runs you a warm bath to help with cramps , and would give you a nice and gentle scalp massage if you asked 🤭
SHOWERS you in kisses and cuddles , anything to make her baby feel better
she definitely has a tracker for the both of you on her phone , just to make sure she’s always prepared
self care essentials are always stocked !!! This includes tampons / pads , advil or pain reliever , heating pads , etc
random scenarios ;
She’s great a sensing when you’re not feeling well , even before you realize it yourself. One second you’re moping in bed and the next you’re being scooped up by your girlfriend and taken to the couch, where she’ll wrap you up in a warm and nice blanket as she cuddles you while yall watching movies :)
IS SO UNDERSTANDING OMFG !!! Never makes you feel embarrassed when on your period. she’s open to talking about it if you want to, but is also perfectly fine with quietly helping you 😣
Amazing listener. If you’re feeling emotional , she’ll hold you close and let you vent without judgement. Always offering words of encouragement and insight !
sososos intuitive and knows when you need space vs affection
fucking PRO at making hot water bottles and will tuck them around you to soothe your cramps
Is all about making you feel comfortable , so she’s constantly checking in on you to see if you need anything. WILL set reminders on her phone to make sure you’re taking your pain medication regularly
specific example ;
picture this , you just got your period. You’re laying in your bed cuddling with your girlfriend when a pout suddenly appears on your face , with your girlfriend knowing all to well what you’re feeling and what you want.
Just like clockwork , she gives you a sweet and loving kiss on your cheek before leaving her position on your bed , giving you a soft and gentle look before saying “I’ll be back, the usual right?” You nod, whispering out a quiet thank you, as your girlfriend proceeds to grab her car keys and make her way to the store.
we live for soft and gentle cc in this household ‼️ as always tysm for reading!
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sergle · 8 months ago
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what I was talking abt earlier. we have fully looped back around and away from feminism, societally, whereas before it was very Feminism 101 to acknowledge that many parts of existing as a woman in a misogynistic society are painful and upsetting. not that being a woman is Inherently Negative in a bubble. but that living on this earth, in the conditions we're living in, is hostile to women. and that gender is a performance. that many of the Staples Of Femininity as accepted by society are things that you have to create and perform and mold artificially and aren't inherent, that COMPLAINING about day to day difficulties of existing as a woman is something that you're allowed to do. acknowledging these basic, again, feminism 101 things, that something tied to womanhood is more time consuming or more expensive or more dangerous Because Of The Problems. does not CREATE the problems. that when women complain about having to perform femininity, they are not, in fact, oppressing themselves. the call does not come from inside the fucking house. saying that you HAVE suffered does not fucking equate that you believe you SHOULD have suffered.
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like I could talk about this for hours. how braindead and one-dimensional the Takes are getting. "being a woman is looking in the mirror and going fuck yeah i'm a woman" damn. I guess any negative experiences you have by living in a misogynistic world... are your fault if you are anything but positive? "you don't actually want liberation" we've fully gone back to telling feminists "you WANT to be oppressed" when anything negative about our society is pointed out. it's not real until I say it out loud, I guess, and then I'm actually the one who caused it. if anybody expresses any unhappiness with how they're treated or the status quo or the language and culture surrounding womanhood and femininity. they've created it, right that second. they invented it just now. it wasn't a problem before somebody complained, right? also trans women aren't braindead zombies who just follow the flow of whatever cis women around them say. I am pretty fucking sure they are very much aware of pain, and are MORE than aware of the swirling torrent of misogyny and standards of femininity than anybody else. actually. and I am pretty sure someone complaining on tumblr that being a woman means always putting on a performance is going to make someone change their mind about transitioning. also "performing femininity" as a necessity to being treated well as a woman is not fucking NEWS to your Local Trans Woman. I AM PRETTY SURE SHE GETS THE CONCEPT. using trans women as a scapegoat for this braindead perspective on gender politics is spineless, meritless, and pathetic.
#how I feel about my gender is not the same as how I feel about the living conditions of my gender#when I saw that post I screenshotted here I literally sat w my mouth open for a minute#sent it to my friends and was like am I fucking crazy. is this what we're doing now#Forced Positivity and that there is no war in ba sing se and actually#you're ruining children's lives if you complain about misogyny on twitter#I don't HAVE to tell little girls about the downsides because they are already being mistreated#before they have even heard the word 'misogyny' let alone know what it means#you do not have to be fucking happy all the time about the cards you're dealt.#you don't live in a bubble where it's just you and your mirror and your pretty dress and nothing bad has ever happened to you#unfortunately bitch. we will have negative experiences that are in fact. part of the package of being a woman#and IGNORING them doesn't make them not exist. actually they will continue to remain status quo unless acknowledged#sergle.txt#I see so much rhetoric that is JUST old-fashioned gender ideals being presented with liberal language on tiktok#that is just telling women that womanhood is just being a girllll and loving pretty things and being kind and gentleeeee and nurturing#and not working and just like being wholesome and being happy and being a light in ppl's lives and just LOVING LOVING LOVING being a woman#so if for even one second. you don't love it. you are actually failing at being a woman#if you complain about the standards for shaving or putting on makeup. which used to be Baby's First Feminism online#that's actually just you creating problems. you're not supposed to acknowledge it. you're supposed to shut up and smile into the mirror.
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thedevilandhisbride · 1 year ago
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i love being a man
i love being man adjacent
i love being a man who is connected to girlhood
i love being seen as a man
i love the idea of having a full beard
i love the idea of having a flat chest
i love the idea of having a deep voice
i love the idea of being a father
i love the idea of being a husband
i love the idea of going on testosterone
i love the fact that one day i will get all those things
i love the fact that even though i am not where i want to be in my transition, i am still a man
i am a man
and i love being one
i love loving men and i love being a man who loves men
there is nothing wrong with loving being a man or loving loving men
im hopelessly full of joy and pride and love for men and for my own male identity everytime i go online and see myself addressed as such, or every time my sister calls me her brother, or everytime my mom mentions im going to be an uncle, or whenever my brother brings me into doing inherently men related tasks in my household
and nothing will stop me from spreading that joy
manhood and masculinity are experiences that can be, should be, and are full of joy and love and positivity
i love being a man, and i love loving men
dont derail this post or reblog it changing what i said. this post is about men. nothing you say or do will change the fact that this post is about being a man and loving men!
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marzipanandminutiae · 8 months ago
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I love womanhood and I’m so happy that I am a woman. Sometimes that Cis+ high is so real
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queer-whatchamacallit · 7 days ago
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@ochrogasting has been making some awesome trans woman Carms, and I fell headfirst into obsession
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mdemn · 8 months ago
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YOU’RE A MOTHER, MA. YOU’RE ALSO A MONSTER. SO AM I.
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IT SEEMS NO MATTER HOW I TRY I BECOME MORE DIFFICULT TO HOLD. I AM NOT AN EASY WOMAN TO WANT.
my mother believes in my marriage and this shows me her heart can forgive even years spent dancing alone - kayleb rae candrilli, mafia: definitive edition - dev. hangar13, daughter - beyoncé, —, mafia: definitive edition, —, mafia: definitive edition, on earth we’re briefly gorgeous - ocean voung, mafia: definitive edition, my mother believes in my marriage and this shows me her heart can forgive even years spent dancing alone - kayleb rae candrilli, nikki giovanni
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thatgentlewife · 29 days ago
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Great advice for all housewives to be following! ☺️
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avainblue · 2 months ago
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by the time you understand your mother it's too late to save her
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contagious-watermelon · 4 months ago
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tomboy trans girls ily <3 by the law of equivalent exchange, there's got to be a masculine trans woman out there that i switched places with gender-wise. hope she's doing well
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cocoabuttavasa · 1 year ago
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truly, connection has no recollection of time or space 🫀
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vodkartoons · 8 months ago
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how i love being a woman
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i've been rewatching outlander and anne with an e, really feeling the mystic vibe, womanhood and spirits of the night
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