#i love being ace

[virginwithasthma]

"I'm asexual" I say with an air of condescension to assert superiority

[curlyhairedintrovertsworld]

i swear, realizing i was ace made me a better person. i will stand by this forever. happy asexual awareness week 💖

[blossoms-and-petrichor]

i love being ace. i love having allo friends tell me about the people who they are attracted to, as i munch popcorn and slurp my smoothie loudly. i love having ace friends who like to tell me about all the things that are totally better than sex. guitars. databases. linear algebra. literature seminars. creme brule. fresh laundry. i love having allo friends who explain sex as i listen with a strangely scholarly interest. i love having ace friends who have sex, and ace friends who get sick of hearing about sex, and ace friends who will say the raunchiest jokes for the bit. i love asking my allos friends how they divide sexual and romantic attraction, about their experiences with shame around said attractions, about kinks or the lack thereof. i love asking my ace friends about the divide between aesthetic and sensual attraction, and shame around not having sexual attraction, or not having it "correctly." genuinely, being ace allows you to really think about how society enjoys, shames, discusses, praises, and condemns sex. and you know what? its fun. it's fun to learn about sexual attraction, it's fun to learn about the lack therof, it's fun to learn about all the inbetweens.

and of course, its insidiously fun to bully your friend for going crazy over someone who does nothing for you.

[thestars-shinebright]

hey guys!!

hi chat!! ^^ sorry for the delay on new stuff, I’ve been busy and just started high school-

anyways

throws art made in class at u guys (I’m in theater class as I post this-)

on another note, thank you guys so much for the support on my Kinito X Reader! You guys are the best!! <3

here’s some things to expect soon <3

• Kinito X Sam

• SCP-166 headcanons

thank you all again, I love you all sm!! <3333 /p

[delicious-p4ncakes]

Happy International Asexuality Day!!!!

[softniceselfships]

headcannoning that all of my faves are ace because what else am i gonna do, NOT that?????

[wickedwitchofthesouth]

Being demisexual but also super celibate might sound confusing but it's actually the best combination to have. I'm not gonna feel horny for anyone until I love them enough to marry them

[lesbian-strider]

🙌

"love is love" until it doesn't include sex

"love is love" until it lives in separate beds

"love is love" until it is queer platonic

"love is love" until it does not comply with compulsory sexuality and amatonormativity

love IS love, for aspecs, for sex repulsed folk and for platonic relationships

"love is love" apply to more than same-sex relationships in a world where romantic and sexual relationships are considered more valuable

Remember to advocate for Asexuals and Aromantics this pride. Because we are also here, and we are also queer

[mrtequilasunset]

Listen man, you guys can't be like "you guys need to be normal about asexuality" and then turn around and get weirdly judgemental when you find out someone doesn't have sex by choice. Like that's weird that some of you do that.

[stiffyck]

Good luck during pride month to all the aroaces who are gonna be blasted with "love is love" everywhere

Edit:

This post includes aplatonic people, loveless aros and any other people who fall anywhere on the aro and ace spectrum.

Stop saying "but theres platonic love and familial love-"

[virginwithasthma]

Me listening to my Christian friends talk about their struggle with abstinence:

[mawce444]

it’s funny when i get called im “sexualizing” characters when i’m literally incapable of feeling sexual ANYTHING.

These comments about me sexualizing stuff sound wild, because I don’t really view things from a sexy perspective. I’m chronically unhorny actually😭

[seagiri]

ahaha

[datcravat]

yes.. YES

[orbis2d]

I love the ASL dynamic of

Portgas D Ace, a son of two people with the will of D/the Pirate King

Monkey D Luffy, Grandons of Marine hero Garp the Fist and Son of the most Wanted Man Alive, Dragon the Revolutionary

And Sabo, a nepobaby, poor by choice and keeping up with the other two by just being a Freak

[r-aindr0p]

Man the jury is unhinged on those culinary crucible event

I genuinely thought for a few seconds that Ortho would idk casually nuke the food