#i guess that’s just getting accommodations but still!
Explore tagged Tumblr posts
revelboo · 3 days ago
Note
How's bee and his human doin on the arc lately?
Tumblr media
Last Night Pt 4
IDW Bumblebee x Reader
• Sitting down on his berth with one leg drawn up and the other stretched out, he watches you scrunch up your nose, but eat the nutrient bar Ratchet has given him for you. You’re not shaking uncontrollably anymore at least or cowering away from him. Between bites you still glance up at him as if to make sure he’s keeping his distance and his promise to not touch you. It’s an effort not to reach out and not to bombard you with questions. Trying to let you get used to him and to prove he’s not a threat. “When can I leave?” You ask, head down to look at your hands.
• “I don’t know,” your captor, Bumblebee, says and he sounds genuinely unhappy about it. Like maybe it bothers him to keep you trapped and even though he’d explained why, you don’t like it. But also know there’s little you can do about it. Sighing, you glance up at his earnest face and those intent, blue optics focused on you. No, you don’t like it, but he seems so upset on your behalf that it’s hard to hold it against him. As long as he’s not grabbing you or looming over you, he’s not so bad. “But I’ll try to get you whatever you need. Do you need anything?” He sounds almost eager and it’s cute.
• Unhappily watching you crumbling your food rather than eating it, the silence stretches between you two again, painfully awkward. “Well, being freed is off the table. Right?” You ask finally with a weak little huff of laughter that makes him smile despite the way his spark constricts at your words. Knows it’s wrong to be glad of what happened, but deep down he is. Because he’s not alone, even if you don’t want to be near him. Anything is better than that empty, loneliness.
• “Sorry,” he says, watching your little shoulders slump in defeat and he leans forward, stretching out a servo. Aware of the way you tense and lean away before he hesitates and turns his hand over, servos splayed but not touching you. Your attention flicks from his hand to his face and back, expression almost questioning before you cautiously stretch out your own arm, palm up over the tip of one of his servos and his spark warms. “We’re the same,” he says.
• That earnest, cheery tone almost makes you smile as you look from his big hand to your tiny one. And then it clicks. Same number of digits, his big metal hand shaped uncannily like your own. Lifting your head, you note the other similarities between your two very different species. “Yeah, I guess we are,” you murmur and he grins at you. Moving slowly, he curls that one servo until the tip of it barely ghosts the back of your hand while glancing at your face for your reaction. Uncertain, you turn your hand over, resting it on his warm servo and his expression brightens like that little touch means the world to him. He just smiles like that and it’s impossible to be afraid of him, because he’s trying so hard to be accommodating and to put you at ease. Understands that this is all new and frightening to you, and doesn’t push you. Doesn’t demand anything of you. That’s what makes you stand still wrapped in your blanket and cautiously trace your fingers along one of his servos, studying the way his joints work. Aware of the way he’s grinning at you as you pretend you don’t notice. Just a little thing, but it seems to mean so much to him.
Previous
Tumblr media
Bluestreak, Prowl, and Sideswipe added to the collection.
123 notes · View notes
headpainmigraine · 1 day ago
Text
"He had a spine injury, but he fought back", lol, what?
What do you mean he 'fought back'?
"Fully recovered, but the damage was still there", so in other words NOT Fully recovered.
Jokes aside, this is so sad. The man's internalised ableism was such a defeating force in his life that he thought a positive mental attitude cured his spine condition, and then ended up in chronic pain years later because he didn't do anything about it.
And then, while he was passing out and collapsing on a weak heart, he still punished himself by refusing to use an aid that wasn't here for people just like him
Pushing through the pain isn't noble when you have other options.
Imagine the stress on his family (his wife, I guess, since whoever this is seems to get off to inspo porn) wondering every time they go out and their husband is struggling if this'll be the final straw, if he's finally put too much stress on his body that wouldn't be there if he just used the mobility aid.
If I knew someone like this, I too wouldn't tell them shit about my amputation or accommodations.
The Abled's Guide to Being Disabled.
I've never seen such damaging ignorance in my life.
Comment:
Tumblr media
Reply:
Tumblr media Tumblr media
Hey able bodied people SHUT THE ACTUAL FUCK UP AND NEVER TYPE THIS SHIT TO A DISABLED PERSON
25 notes · View notes
igotpapercuts · 2 years ago
Text
my stuff from crazy arron’s will be here tomorrow ^_^
3 notes · View notes
effielovesapples · 6 months ago
Text
i think actually accommodating friends struggling with sobriety is not that hard. btw.
Tumblr media
7 notes · View notes
villanele · 1 month ago
Text
I am really going to try to unmask this time. I don't know why I always think that if I mask, people will find me "normal" enough to be around or that I will finally understand how to follow social norms in a natural way, even though I Always fail in the end. Even if my masking is shit, it still takes so much energy from me. And in the end, I just spent time and energy making myself uncomfortable and trying to be someone else just to still get treated like crap.
2 notes · View notes
badolmen · 2 years ago
Text
I just realized that Jesse Pinkman’s address in high school was his Aunt’s house. He was already living with her instead of his parents by the time he was in high school. The timeline of her cancer and death is a little fuzzy, but it’s likely he had to care for her while attending school. If that’s the case it’s clear he didn’t ask for accommodations or even use his Aunt’s illness as an excuse for his poor grades (Walt was surprised to hear she had been sick). Combined with his obviously untreated ADHD, it’s no wonder he turned to drug use and failed to ‘apply himself.’
And to think that through all this - taking care of his Aunt, struggling in school - his parents didn’t help; either directly with his Aunt’s illness or indirectly easing his responsibility for her by hiring care givers…
50 notes · View notes
jorvikzelda · 3 months ago
Text
reading is… frustrating. I first read this thing when I was in an all too foggy state, I’ll think, so I didn’t really absorb it all too well �� I’d best read it again and really make sure to take it all in. And so I do, and I really do take it all in! Except then I’ll be all too foggy to read for a few days, and when I get back to it and continue on to the next chapter I’ll just have. Completely forgotten what happened in the last. Makes you feel rather defenceless to the fog
3 notes · View notes
of-another-broken-heart · 1 year ago
Text
Woman with a 20" waist: How DARE you try to talk over my lived experiences as a FAT WOMAN!! My doctor still tells me to lose weight so that makes me FAT and OPPRESSED!!
Woman with a 20" waist, literally 5 minutes later on her tiktok: omg guys I think Bougie Brand shrunk its sizes?? I had to get a LARGE can you believe it??
4 notes · View notes
silverislander · 1 year ago
Text
forgot to mention but my therapist is literally encouraging me to get adhd testing :') she really did believe me and still does, and i'm not just losing it i (almost definitely) have A Disorder holy fuck
5 notes · View notes
Text
.
2 notes · View notes
doctor-disc0 · 2 years ago
Text
So, I went to get an autism diagnosis and accommodations for school and stuff. After a bunch of different tests, they determined that I don't have it. They said I have "autistic tendencies" but that these weren't enough to warrant a diagnosis. They also said I no longer have OCD. Which. Didn't know that could go away, but okay.
They said that my "autistic tendencies" could be explained by my severe social anxiety. And when they said that, all I could think was, "Well what about my sensory issues???" They did not even mention those when they were going over my test results.
Also, my sister just got diagnosed with autism and a bunch of anxiety disorders. The fact that my sister was diagnosed with autism but I wasn't really annoys me. She reminds me so much of me. We get each other in a way that no one else does. AND we're 9 years apart (she's 11 and I'm 20) so that makes that connection even weirder. UNLESS we are both autistic.
Maybe I didn't get diagnosed because I mask too well. Maybe it's the fact that I'm an adult. Or maybe I really don't have autism, I just have a bunch of "autistic tendencies."
I'm not sure which is more likely. All I know is that labeling myself as autistic makes sense to me, so I'm not going to stop using the label.
2 notes · View notes
kil9 · 2 years ago
Text
aauauauuougghghs i need to move out 👁👁
Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media
^^^ [CHEC IT OUT] i need to move out moodboard (available now !!!(
#99.txt#my mom is like ''you seem upset with mee :('' yeah cos straight up like i think i just hate u now#when i got covid it was MY problem i stayed in my room. i wore a mask any time i left. i even wore gloves to the kitchen.#to make sure she didnt get it (and she didnt !!!) and i even cleaned the whole house while i had it lol. and still kept it away from her#so now that she has it guess what !!!!!!!!!!!! everyone guess what !!!! its STILL my problem !!!#i stay in my room ! i use the basement toilet !! i have to wear a mask outside my room at all times !!#and wash my hands so much im gettin rashes because she just goes around doing whatever touching whatever ?#coughing on whatever because she doesnt give a shit !!!!#i made it my mission when i had it to keep her safe#and now that she has it its ''well if you wanna keep safe thats your responsibility'' like ???????#i promise you the thought of making space for another person & accommodating or compromising has never occoured to her once#its all ''well its up to you !!! good luck !!!!!'' yeah fuck me i guess#and she keeps bothering me asking me to help her with shit still !!!!!!!!!!!#''how do i find my documents on the computer ive had for 10 years :('' are you stupid ?????? are you dumb for real ???????#and she puts me in the situation where. im busy clearly busy with my own shit#but she feels SO entitled to my time that she will just insist that i drop everything and do something for her#if i say no or have a slightly unenthusiastic response its ''oh youre SO mean to me youre SO mean. no one will want you :('' ...ok.#but if i ask for help from my own mother once in a while its ''wow you ask so much of me you know youre not a child anymore :\\\''#yeah. i know. i dont think ive been helped with anything by a parent since i was like 15 years old#''why are you mad at me ven you seem mad at me :('' yeah . i think like you just kinda fucking suck
5 notes · View notes
froody · 1 year ago
Text
I guess what I think is that suicide is a symptom of a problem and not the problem to fix, you know what I mean? To stop suicides you have to stop people’s mental health from getting to the point where they consider it, you have to treat the disease, trying to treat the symptom itself is almost completely useless.
For instance, Japan has spent a great deal of money on anti-suicide infrastructure, doing genuinely cartoonishly things like putting rollers on bridge railings so you can’t climb over them and slide right off, putting blue lights in the subway so it’s harder to see to throw yourself in front of a train. It’s not working. Japan’s suicide rate rose again in 2022. They are not addressing the root causes and stressors in their citizen’s lives and social barriers to mental health care and psychiatric medication.
It’s the same with universities in America, many have spent an exorbitant amount of money on turning their dorms into psych ward like environments. Anti-hanging chairs that you can’t stand on, bunks you can’t hang yourself from, slanted doorknobs etc. And yet suicide is still the second leading cause of death for college students. They make no attempts to make college easier, to make pausing and resuming your studies better, to make the pressure of an academic environment feel less life or death. They make no accommodations for the individual. They just make it a little harder to hang yourself in a few rooms on campus and call it a day, say they’re being proactive in terms of mental health.
29K notes · View notes
deityofhearts · 8 months ago
Text
it’s just frustrating because I cannot afford a life worth living and probably never will
1 note · View note
hecksupremechips · 8 months ago
Text
Tumblr media
Tags by @neuromantis
Yeah definitely that’s why I’m always kinda hesitant to say much about snake as a disabled character cuz it’s like. Certainly not as bad as some shit ive seen but it’s mostly because it’s not incorporated into his character hardly at all, it’s only mentioned when plot convenient
Take what I’m about to say with a grain of salt since I wouldn’t say snake was really written to be A Gay Character but regardless the way snake’s gender and overall personality is portrayed is probably one of the best depictions of gay men I’ve ever seen. He’s very pretty, dressed in expensive clothes reminiscent of a prince, with beautiful wavy hair and an air of poise and sophistication. He’s the smartest person in the room and he KNOWS this and he will not hesitate to be a condescending prick. He’s delicate and funny and charming. He has no fear or hesitation about suggesting he and Junpei share a bed or referencing gay sex. All these things tend to make a character the butt of jokes or at the very least regarded as lesser than the other characters but with snake hes the most admired one here. He’s very capable and is in fact so capable he literally needed to be removed temporarily from the situation so that the others could solve the mystery on their own. He’s absolutely fearless, doesn’t care about pissing off Aoi or getting shot multiple times by Ace. He’s fucking strong as hell and is able to survive being shot multiple times and have enough strength to dig his claws into Ace and force them to burn to death together. Everyone loses their shit without him and he’s the key to escape. He’s cool as hell and he fucks severely
#i get not wanting to write a disabled character thats like helpless or weak but theres nothing helpless or weak about needing basic#accommodations like theres some implication that the way he does the escape rooms is people will tell him what any writing says#and he will feel anything that can be felt but theres not too much going on there#he just knows where everything is based off of. echo location i guess#and yeah he was just left to search alone like theres a lot of puzzles that rely on visual information so uhhh#they just didnt think that one through lol#i think it wouldve been nice if he was given one of those long canes used for walking and it wouldve fit him too#cuz hes very elegant and would lean into the cane thing really well#or maybe if hes specifically without accommodations and the puzzles are very reliant on visuals they can at least show how#it affects him as a blind person like maybe he just cant help in certain spots#or he overcompensates how much information hes able to gather because hes too proud to ask for help#idk its just like i can appreciate the fact that he has a whole character that isnt tied solely to being disabled like he has a personality#and thoughts and feelings and is loved and admired but at the same time its like#they ignore so much about his disability in the process and just dont write it being a thing cuz people cant seem to wrap their minds around#the fact that disabilities are legitimately disabling but theyre ultimately just a fact of life for these people#and they still have value and are 3 dimensional human beings#you cant help but wonder if snake wouldve been as admired by the group if he had been more visibly disabled and actually inconvenienced them#in any way
148 notes · View notes
sleepyjim · 1 year ago
Text
i start school in like 12 hours im gonna explode /neg
#so scared im gonna throw up#none of my accommodations hav been like . Done yk#need an elevator pass and a staff bathroom pass .they said theyll send it to us or we can come pick it up from the school sometime#but as far as i know they havent even Made it#i need someone to help me get around the first couple days or I Will Die and they havent gotten back to us about that either#at least i got out of marching band but like#i really wanted to be in some kind of music class :(#but apparently ! in order to be in Any Music Class At All its Mandatory to take marching band for a year#girl that will kill me .i will die#but the band teacher was a huge ass about it and wouldnt even let me switch to another kind of band#like concert band or jazz band cause theres less physical activity than marching band#AND theyre Supposed to Do that for me anyways cause of my 504 plan#but idk the director just doesnt give a shit about it i guess#still rlly sad about that tho :( im taking music theory/history instead of an actual music class but like#it aint the same yk#OH YEAH!!! and the school introduced a new tardy policy!!!#if you're late to class At All theyre going to confiscate ur phone for the whole day#and report u to the dean#like#?????#but the thing is#im gonna be late to almost Every Class cause i gotta hustle my crippled ass around the school without any kind of mobility aid#cause they wont let me bring em#and im gonna hav to find someone with an elevator key to get to like . over half my classes#so gonna be late to a couple classes obviously#BUT !!!!!#if you're late more than 5 times u get in school suspension !#im gonna . Get That just in the first day#and they wont make exceptions for me#and it fucking sucks
0 notes