#how does one get that from a tram ride

[eeuwigestilte]

for creative writing class we had to draft a text whilst on a tram to be inspired and my friend and i Both Independently took that opportunity to write a homoerotic piece, great

[seaborgium-dazies]

Do you ever think back on old memories at all or do I ever cross your mind?

reiner still misses you. months have passed but somehow all roads lead back to you.

now playing: Do I ever cross your mind by Chet Atkins♬♪

cw: Reiner and Reader broke up months ago, angst, regret and general depressed and miserable Reiner

Watching raindrops slide down the giant glass panels in this lecture hall seemed more entertaining than following the professors words. Someone yawned. Reiner saw it in his peripheral vision.

He's wearing a shirt in the same shade of that hoodie of yours. The one you got for Christmas, that you initially hated so much you banished it to the back of your closet but then felt bad for hating it and begrudgingly wore it out until you really loved it.

It wasn't even that early in the morning, Reiner glanced at the clock. 10:48. There was no way he could attribute his thoughts to non sufficient sleep. And he couldn't attribute them to the lecture either, he was only 28 minutes in. One more hour to go.

I guess he really couldn't shake the memory of you after that girl in the tram had the same perfume as you. It hit him, suddenly on his way to uni. And technically he knew that it wasn't your perfume, he still had half a bottle that he never returned to you at his place. But the base notes were the same and it was enough to get your memory to occupy his thoughts.

But really it was no surprise that the perfume reminded him of you, because that girl had the exact same keychain that you had. It was dangling off of her backpack, and even though yours always hung in your room, he couldn't escape the memory of him standing in front of it and admiring the handiwork. How you bedazzled it yourself, the shiny coats of glitter creating a stunning visual effect.

And he knew that she didn't have the same keychain, yours was one of a kind. And really, the picture was not that similar, but what do you do when your everyday life is akin to walking through a minefield of painful memories?

You and him just crumbled because the fights were piling up before you could resolve them, because you were so busy and buried yourself in academia, because-

Reiner was trying excuses out like a picky teenage girl looking for her dream prom dress. He tried to cope and somehow rationalize why you and your breakup was still on the forefront of his mind after multiple months.

He just wanted to see you again, he wanted to hold your hand between his warm palm and say what he wasn't able to say the first time around He wanted to figure it out with you.

But Reiner didn't know anything. He didn't know what you were up to now and whether you started dating again. He saw what you wanted him to see. And at this point he knew you well enough to know you were only posting photos underlining your happiness, not because you were truly that happy but to show that you could be happy without him.

But also you were posting way less than usual, which could be a sign too. He knew that. And yet it gave him no satisfaction, it only strengthened the regret that was forming a pit in his stomach.

The lecture washed over him. He spent the ride home looking at people's faces, to remind himself that they have nothing to do with you. That they're not you and that they just remind him of you because his heart is playing tricks on him.

And yet the way a teenage girl's hair falls, the way a middle aged man folds his newspaper, the way a mother places one leg on the other, they all scream your name to him.

He couldn't help but wonder, do you go through the same things? Does reiner haunt you the way you haunt him?

In the end Reiner couldn't stop himself from sending that text that he knew Berthold would berate him for. The blue bubble bloomed in an otherwise empty chat.

'Do I ever cross your mind?'

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[dumb-alek]

hello! 5, 6, 7, 11 and 26 for the ask game =) maybe this is a lot lol but so many of these questions are so interesting!!

not at all they are so fun to answer I'll gladly do it 🥰

5. favourite song in your native language?

I actually answered it in the meantime but you know what? there are so many i'll just take it as a chance to share another one <3

This song is based on a poem by one of my absolute favourite Polish (Polish-Jewish) poets. I really recommend reading the translation of the lyrics:

Can you believe this was written in the 1920s? It's eerie how timeless it still is;

And any dolt, and any pup will take for gospel each old lie that one should go and shoot off guns and murder, poison, rob, at once; start drumming into all our noggins the ‘Fatherland’; the mob incite, bamboozle with bright-coloured slogans, egg on with ‘Our historic right’,

And the phonetically, the lyrics sound so punchy and beautiful I keep coming back to this song.

6. most hated song in your native language?

People seem to love this question cause it's the third time I'm getting it :D and I actually came up with another one:

It makes me cringe so hard 😩

7. three words from your native language that you like the most?

Oh that's a hard one! I really like anything that has sibilants, cause they're just so beautiful in Polish. I'm aware that for a lot of foreigners this language sounds just like pshpshpshpsh, but just the way the articulation of these sounds are optimised to fit 3-consonant clusters is so beautiful <3

nature words like 'pszczoła' (bee), pierwiosnek (primula), or 'leszczyna' (hazelwood) are just such lovely examples.

But meaning-wise I actually love these three very specific-ass words: ogarnięty, kombinować, cwaniak. They are concepts that don't have a common, very clear cut translation in english and I tried to explain them here.

11. favourite native writer/poet?

I kind of answered it with question 5, but genuinely my first pick would probably be Tuwim. Every Polish kid knows him - he's very well known as a children's poet, and his poetry for children really showcases his mastery of the language (and I do really mean, he's a master of Polish).

But then you get into his regular poetry and it just blows you away. My random favourite is his poem entitled "to the critics" where he just talks about how he likes to ride trams in May. king shit behaviour, 10/10 iconic

I also really enjoyed reading Bruno Schultz (sklepy cynamonowe my beloved), I love Gałczyński and Kazimierz Przerwa-Tetmajer (whose poem "Rdzawe Liscie" adapted by Karlowicz is coincidentally one of my favourite classical songs to sing :') )

26. does your nationality get portrayed in Hollywood/American media? what do you think about the portrayal?

Ooof, it does and it's rarely any good 😳 In the US it'd often be "a stupid Pollack" or a bumbling immigrant maid, or a criminal (though this one is played by a quite famous polish actor, so it's kinda funny), though I guess it's starting to change. It feels like the prejudice against Polish immigrants, who mass emigrated either during the communist regime between 60s-90s or the subsequent economic disparity in the 2000s, fizzled out as they settled in enough to blend into the white American background. We're also not very well liked in Western Europe, so the portrayals there are kind of similar.

Though I did like Niko in Killing Eve, who was Polish! He was a nice guy, and though Niko is definitely not a Polish name, and that the actual portayal of Poland (as always) had to focus on the under-developed countryside, it was not inaccurate.

But the actually solid Polish representation in foreign TV I enjoyed was Abed from Community, who's half-Polish (played by Dani Pudi, who's also half-Polish 🥰)

I know Polish representation in media isn't in any way a priority; we have our own TV and our own media but it would be nice to be portrayed positively and not through completely random assumptions people have about your country being completely backwards and uncivilized 😶

Thank you for the questions 🥰

[goth-pod]

Goth-Pod Ep 5: Gotham Troubles

Welcome Back! Listening to you send ins, Juda Boone talks about things by Gothamites, for Gothamites!

[goth-pod is a fictional in-universe podcast based on the DC comics universe. Juda Boone is an original fictional character, not based on any real person or known comic book character.]

Transcript under the cut

Hello everyone and welcome to Goth-Pods special trials and troubles episode! I’m an indie theater’s take on the ghost of Christmas Present- and your host, Juda Boone. 

We're looking at your submitted trademark Gotham problems. So without my usual ramblings, lets get to business

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For our first submission username Trekkle brought up a good debate: Subway vs Bus: The Subway is safer, since buses can get hit during rogue attacks, but if you're stuck underground there's a chance of a killer croc attack and also the birds ride the roof. 

Fantastic points, Trekkle! Thank you for writing in. I don't know exactly what you mean by the birds riding the roof, though. Do you mean Robin? Because I have been on the tram while a fight was happening between Robin and The Penguin on top. Of course, I missed most of it because I had my headphones in. Noise cancellation has its pros and cons in Gotham.  

There’s no set answer on this one, I don’t think. You kind of have to pay attention to what Rouges are active the way you pay attention to the weather. Cloudy with a 70% chance of a Riddler scheme? Maybe take the Buses, since they’re not connected to a maze-like system like  the subways are. But maybe it's sweater weather with a possible freeze-over because Victor Fries broke out two nights ago and is due for a showy return. Then an underground bunker with cushy seats doesn’t sound too bad.

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From Clexx we have: I'm new to Gotham (full ride scholarship, thank you Mr. Wayne): Why does everyone hate Superman? I tried to get answers from a friend and they called Superman a Homewrecker. Is there an infidelity scandal around Superman I don’t know about??

Oh wow. First of all, congratulations on the scholarship! I'm assuming you're attending Gotham U? Just be sure you get a proper Rogue-proof gas mask. Yes there is a difference. It’ll probably be covered in your Orientation though, so onto the main question. 

To the Homewrecker comment.. oh I didn’t think it’d come to this. Okay, there's this thing in Gotham. Clexx, have you ever heard of Bruceman? Ask your friend about it, they’ll probably love to explain more. Basically it is a Real-Person based Ship on Gotham’s two protectors, Bruce Wayne and Batman. One watching over the day, the other the night. 

This is another Topic that might take all episodes to explain, so to keep it short: People see Superman and Batman’s relationship- professional, platonic, romantic, or however they define it- as a threat to Bruceman, the number one Gotham Ship. Godspeed if you get between our beloved prettyboy himbo and our odd night-stalking cryptid. 

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From Allison: My cousin is visiting and I want to show them why I stay in Gotham. Where can we go for 1) a low level rogue attack (for Bat sighting), and 2) where can we go for a Wayne sighting. (They think Dick Grayson is hotter then Brucie [eye-rolling emoji])

For the first one, I think any part of our public transport system will do, as we discussed before. The tricky part is knowing when it’s going to be low-level or if your cousin will be joining you in a shelter-in-place lockdown.

For a Wayne sighting, unfortunately it’s harder to say these days. Bruce Wayne has made several statements on how he’s spending less time at the company in order to focus on bonding with his new son, Jason. I hate to disappoint, but right now might not be the time for celebrity sight-seeing. Maybe take a day trip to Bludhaven! Your cousin might enjoy the chance to convince you instead. 

Thank you all for writing in and for joining us on this special episode! If we didn’t get to your submission, head over to our socials to see if we replied there. I’m Juda, you’re listening to Goth-Pod

Until then, Newcomers, visiting cousins, locals on the bus, Stay safe, Gotham.

[clydethesnake]

Icy Waters Vol. I

Chapter Six

Kiko feels a great sense of deja vu standing in front of the floor length mirror in her bedroom.   

While she’s not in the same slightly gritty and grimy environment, the dark blue cheongsam she is currently wearing is enough to bring back the memories of her first dinner on Air Temple Island. It was the first time she properly interacted with the eldest Beifong daughter after being arrested, though it also doubled as one of the worst nights she’s had in Republic City.  

Kiko turns in the mirror, I really need to get this thing adjusted, she cringes a little at how tight it is around her hips and chest. Or possibly I could get a new one altogether.  

Sighing at the fact that she has to go out tonight, she picks up her bag and does another once over in the mirror. The waterbender takes a deep breath, you can do this.  

The ferry to the docks takes a little longer than usual; the wind making the ride a little choppier.   

Kiko frustratedly fixes the loose baby hairs that are blowing aggressively in her face, the one night I go out with friends, it’s extremely windy. She huffs a little at the thought of having to take the tram to the other end of the city, the fair Lin invited her to being at the only other docks in Republic City. She can understand why; they are much bigger than the ones to get to Air Temple Island.  

Walking through the city to the tram station, Kiko sighs a little in relief at not feeling eyes boring into the back of her head. It’s a nice change from the usual uneasiness she feels when visiting the mainland. Maybe he’s given up?  

While the waterbender knows it’s just wishful thinking, she’s clinging onto the hope that she won’t have to go through finding a note again.   

She's suddenly remembering the sort-of-argument she had with Lin a few days ago. Shit, what if she’s still angry with me? I did kind of just leave.  

Kiko shakes the thoughts away from her head as she boards the tram to the Yue Bay Docks. It's rather busy tonight. She doesn’t normally catch this tram, as it is going the opposite direction to the Dragon Flats area and where she works. However, she does acknowledge that it must be busier due to the fair that is happening.   

The waterbender is unable to get a seat, due to the tram being densely occupied, so she opts to stand. Grabbing onto the hanging handle, she tries to keep herself upright against the people around her. I wish Kya was here.  

The thought only slips her mind, knowing that she is going to be seeing the other waterbender in only a short amount of time; Lin did end up inviting her to the fair a week prior. The only reason the two didn’t go there together is that Kiko is late, though she did manage to get off work earlier than usual. Boss isn’t very happy about that.  

It was arranged between them that Kya and Tenzin would leave when Kiko comes back, to give her time to get ready; have a shower and get changed into some nicer clothes. They would all meet her at the entrance at 7:30.  

Despite not particularly wanting to go out that night, Kiko can’t help but feel a little giddy as she sees the colourful lights come into view.   

She disembarks the tram with a lot of the passengers, seeing them pay the two yuans to enter the fair giddily; groups that are presumably families are what she sees the most, which makes her heart ache in a bittersweet way.  

Kiko spots Kya waving her hand towards her, a large smile on her face. Tenzin and Lin by her side. Her brother looks slightly disgruntled as Lin lets go of his arm that she was holding onto to also wave to Kiko. Poor guy.  

The waterbender reaches the group and hugs Kya happily, “They did a great job here,” She muses, looking up at the large ferris wheel towering above the group.   

“Didn’t they?” Kya links their arms, Lin coming to stand by Kiko’s side.   

The waterbender catches Lin’s eyes wander her body as they enter the fair, so her lips upturn into a small smile at the earthbender trying to be discreet.  

“Enjoying the view?” She teases Lin, enjoying the earthbender’s flustered expression.   

She revels in the woman’s embarrassed spluttering, before saving her, “I’m only kidding, Lin.” I wish I didn’t have to say that.  

Tenzin comes to her side with a concerned expression, “Is something wrong?” He must have not heard Kiko’s comment, and brings a hand to the earthbender’s forehead.   

Both Kiko and Kya snigger at Lin batting his hand away, “I’m fine.” She huffs.  

Oh, is she actually mad? Kiko feels a little guilty at making the woman uncomfortable, so she lays a hand on her forearm, disconnecting herself from Kya, and prompts her to make eye contact, “Hey, I didn’t mean it. Sorry for making you feel uncomfortable.”  

Lin’s eyes widen slightly, and she shakes her head, “You didn’t make me uncomfortable, I just- I wasn’t expecting it.”  

Kiko looks a little sceptical, but nods nonetheless and removes her hand.  

Almost immediately, another hand grabs at her wrist and tugs her, “Come on, you lot! We’re going on the ferris wheel!” Kya’s excited voice awakens her from her and Lin’s little bubble among the chaos and they all queue for the ferris wheel, Kya dragging Tenzin along with her other arm.   

They all get into one pod, Tenzin and Lin sitting opposite Kya and Kiko.   

“I hope you’re not afraid of heights!” Kya teases as they lift from the ground, watching Tenzin’s expression turn into one of panic.  

“I am!”  

“Come on, Tenzin. It’ll be fun!” Lin’s brightened up a bit, nudging him with her shoulder.  

“You’re an airbender, how are you afraid of heights?” Kiko laughs at the thought.   

“You fly on Oogie all the time, what’s the difference!?” Kya teases.  

“It’s just different! I trust Oogie, I don’t trust this massive metal death wheel!” Lin joins Kiko and Kya’s laughter.  

“I’m a metalbender, if something goes wrong, we’ll be fine.”  

Tenzin rolls his eyes, but catches a glimpse of the height we are currently gaining in the ferris wheel and lets out a little squeak, causing their laughter to only heighten. He attempts to move closer to the centre of the little pod they are in, but only makes the pod swing from side to side, which makes the airbender stiffen.   

“I’m- I’m just going to stay here, nice and comfortable.” He does his best to convince the three women that he is content staying hugging the centre pole of the pod, but his more than uneasy expression gives away his true feelings easily.   

Lin seems to take pity on him, “Don’t worry, we’re coming down now.” Despite her reassuring tone, she can’t quite keep the small chuckles out of her words.  

Tenzin stays like that until they reach the ground again.  

He is the first to scramble out of the pod and sighs heavily in relief as his feet touch the ground again.   

The other join him, and they all aimlessly wander around the fair.  

Kiko is starting to wish she had come here sooner. Kya has previously invited her to go to the fair together, but she’s always had an excuse, I have to work, I’m looking after someone tonight.  

But she knows, as she admires the earthbender in her baggy black slacks and unbuttoned olive shirt over her usual white tank top, that she only went because she asked. I mean, how could I say no?   

Kiko can admit to herself that the woman looks particularly beautiful like this; under the warm hues of the colourful lights, surrounded by people she likes and, most of all, with a large, cheerful smile adorning her face. It's not something the world gets to see often, and Kiko feels slightly honoured to be able to witness it firsthand tonight. The only time she’s ever seen this kind of happiness on her face is a few nights ago; when it was just the two of them on the beach, encased in their own little world.   

Kiko smiles at the memory as they walk to the next thing Kya is eager to do; apple bobbing.  

“Seriously, Kya?” Tenzin frowns.  

“Stop being so boring, Tenzin! It’ll be fun!” Kya begins tying her hair up completely.  

Kiko is glad to have her hair in her normal braid that is already out of the way, the only problem being her normal loose hair framing her face. Deciding to let loose a little, she shrugs.   

“That’s the spirit!” Kya links their arms again and pays for the two of them.  

“You don’t have to do that.”   

“Do what?” Kya asks innocently.  

Kiko narrows her eyes, “Don’t give me that look, you know exactly what I’m talking about. I can pay for myself.”  

“I know you can, but I wanted to pay for you.”  

Kiko sighs, knowing that her best friend isn’t going to back down and listens to the instructions given by the person running the stand. She feels a presence next to her, realising that it’s Lin.  

“You don’t seem like the type to do something like this.” She teases the earthbender.  

Lin lets out a huff of a laugh, “I’m not, normally. But Tenzin is being grumpy.”  

Kiko snickers, looking at the dejected boy standing off to the side, “Completely understandable.”  

The three of them face off in apple bobbing for the next five minutes. Kya is clearly very skilled in doing this, Kiko knows that she’s taken Su here nearly every year since Lin has been working or just not wanting to participate in this game. However, the young girl has now decided that she is far too old to be attending fairs with her embarrassing older sister and her friend.  

Kya wins by a long shot, with Lin coming in second and Kiko coming in last. This is all I will hear about for months, I just know it.  

Kya’s signature smug grin makes its way onto her face, with Kiko’s first reaction to it to be to grimace, “Don’t even say it.”  

“Say what? I wasn’t going to say anything.” She takes the hairband out of her long hair and flips it over her shoulder.  

They all walk back to Tenzin, “Okay, sure.” Kiko responds, voice laced thick with sarcasm.  

Tenzin's grumpy expression lightens up a little as Lin joins his side once again, “You three had your fun?” He snickers at the look of Lin’s wet fringe.  

The earthbender grumbles a little and wrings out the water in her hair. Before she can do anymore, Kiko reaches out and waterbends the water out of her hair.  

Lin lets out a little, thanks , before Kya intertwines her and Kiko’s arms once again.  

“Any of you hungry?” The older waterbender asks.  

“I’m a little hungry.” Tenzin answers his sister, before turning to Lin and asking her the exact same question.  

Lin nods, “I could have some food.”  

“Me too.”  

They all agree on one of the pop-up stands that are situated along a large amount of picnic tables right in the centre of the fair. There is live music playing on the stage they have set up, and there are families and couples alike eating, dancing and singing. It's a brilliant atmosphere. Kiko doesn’t think she’s been anywhere like this in a long, long time.  

She relaxes and gets more comfortable where she’s sitting, admiring the colourful lights, the rides scattered around and taps her foot to the music. It's a catchy tune; upbeat and cheerful, reflecting the joyous atmosphere well. This must be the most at ease she has been on the mainland in a good while now, but being surrounded by world class benders will do that.  

Their group of four find a mostly empty picnic table that has enough seats for all of them, and they agree that Tenzin and Lin will go and order for everyone. It's a place that does mainly mixed cuisine, so Kiko decides to order roast duck and also some fire flakes, because she doesn’t have them often. The Avatar’s family only ever has meat when Sokka or the Beifongs come for dinner.  

Kya and Kiko are sitting next to each other, observing the pair who have gone to order the food.  

“They have a weird dynamic.” Kiko points out, noticing Tenzin trying to discreetly signal to Lin that he wants to hold her hand.  

Kya nods, “They sure do. Their best friends but my poor brother has been hopelessly in love with her for years- she’s completely oblivious.”  

“Yeah, that or she just isn’t interested.” Kiko almost mutters, watching Tenzin order.  

Kya snickers a little, nudging the younger girl with her elbow, “Seems like she’s more interested in you nowadays.”  

“What?”  

“Don’t tell me you haven’t noticed? She’s been by your side pretty much the whole night. Not to mention the colour she goes when you tease her.” Kiko shrugs a little, but Kya only continues, “I mean, you’ve slept in the same bed twice!”  

“That didn’t mean anything.”  

“Oh, but it did to Lin.” Kya’s smile drops a little, and she leans closer to her best friend to keep her voice down, “Just- don’t lead her on, okay? I know what you’re like sometimes; completely oblivious, just like her.” She gestures to the woman in question, “If you don’t like her, then back off a little.”  

Kiko furrows her eyebrows and frowns, “I would never lead her on, Kya. I value her as a friend, and if she wants more than that then I suppose I would think about it.” She sighs, “Besides, even if I was interested in her, I don’t think it would work out.”  

“What? Why?”  

Kiko scoffs, “Look at your brother; he’s completely head over heels. She deserves someone like the Avatar’s son, not some abandoned street rat.”  

Kya rolls her eyes, “Stop being so self-pitying. She can make up her own mind about who she deserves.”  

The younger waterbender leans back from Kya a little, noticing the others coming back with their food and drinks, “Need some help there?” She raises an eyebrow at the struggling airbender.  

He shakes his head adamantly, talk about trying to show off.  

She thanks him despite herself after taking her food from his full arms and digs in, not realising how hungry she was until the food is in front of her. While it’s not the best food, it’s satisfying in a way that junk food is satisfying when you’re craving it.  

Kya sips on her five-flavour soup happily, and Tenzin takes a bite out of his vegetable dumplings. Interestingly, Lin has ordered the same as her, minus the fire flakes.  

“Not a fan of spice, Beifong?” Kiko questions the woman opposite, holding out her fire flakes for her to help herself.  

She shakes her head, “I’d rather keep my tastebuds.”  

The waterbender snorts, and just as she’s about to take them back, Kya takes a fistful, “If you’re offering.” She shoves them in her mouth and chews obnoxiously loud to be provocative.  

“Very ladylike.” Kiko now cradles her half a packet of fire flakes to her chest as she shakes her head disappointingly at her best friend.  

“I know, I’m such a lady?” She crosses her legs and sticks her nose up high.  

Tenzin decides to join the conversation, “In all my years of knowing you, I've never seen you act ‘lady like’.”  

“But I’m your older sister, you’ve known me all your life.”  

“Exactly.”  

---  

All four of them decide to make their way back to Air Temple Island at around one am. Lin is sleeping on the Island tonight as her apartment is on the complete other end of the city, and everyone is slightly on edge due to Kiko’s stalker now knowing where she lives.  

The ferry ride back is interesting; the mix of the wind and the fact that all of them but Tenzin are a little tipsy makes it slightly jarring. However, they dock at the island in no time.  

Kiko thanks the spirits that the street lamps are on, which leave a warm orange hue to settle along the path. The sight of the bushes and trees casting shadows makes the younger waterbender slightly uncomfortable, reminding her of when she was walking home that one night.  

However, the comforting weight of Kya’s arm looped through hers gives her a sense of ease as the reach the courtyard, where the fear gripping her heart loosens ever so slightly.  

The three girls say their goodnights to Tenzin, who looks sort of solemn as he makes his way to the boys' dormitories.  

Kiko breathes out a little sigh of relief; feeling a little more comfortable now that the judgemental airbender has left her sight. While she doesn’t hate Tenzin, she knows that he is not her biggest fan. Whether that is because of her growing friendship with Lin or the fact that she had to steal to live in the past, she doesn’t know.  

Kya also breathes out a little sigh as her brother leaves, “Is it just me, or was he being more miserable than usual?”  

Kiko nods and even Lin agrees with her words, “He was. I don’t know what’s gotten into him.” She furrows her eyebrows, looking a little dejected.  

Kiko places a hand on her forearm, “I’m sure it has nothing to do with you. He's probably just... working out his own issues.”  

Lin nods, just as Kya decides to call it a night. She brings both women into a tight hug, curtsey of her tipsy mind, and stumbles a little towards the women’s dormitories.  

Kiko's face lights up a little, “Hey, I just remembered I never gave you that jacket back.”  

Lin's eyes widen as she nods again, “Oh yeah, I completely forgot about that.”  

The waterbender turns and gestures for her to follow, “Come with me, I’ll give it to you now so that I don’t forget in the morning.”  

They make it to her room, where Kiko begins digging for Lin’s jacket through her wardrobe, “It must be in here somewhere...” She reaches her hand further and spots it, pulling it out of the slightly messy wardrobe.  

She turns to see Lin admiring her room. Kiko can understand why; her room is anything but minimalist, “You have so much music.” She points to the stacks of vinyl in the corner, her original box for them overflowing.  

Kiko smiles, folding the jacket over her arm, “I’ve always loved music.”  

Lin lets out a little huff-like laugh, “I can see that.” She turns to face Kiko, noticing her jacket folded over her arm.  

Kiko holds it out, “I washed it for you.”  

The earthbender takes it and nods, “That’s very thoughtful.”  

She puts it on over her casual outfit, the two staying silent for a few moments more. They don’t break eye contact for the meantime, as Lin adjusts the cuffs of her unbuttoned olive-green shirt, the silky material straining over her muscles, making the waterbender slightly flustered. What a sight... she’s ripped.  

Lin is the first to speak, “Well, thanks for my jacket back.”  

“You’re- you’re welcome.” Kiko barely breathes out.  

An almost coy grin emerges on Lin’s face, something rather uncharacteristic, “Now you’re the one ogling at me.”  

Kiko's jaw drops in shock at the earthbender’s words and she can’t help but laugh out loud, eyes following Lin’s figure to her bedroom door, “Don’t get too cocky now.”  

“I wouldn’t dare.”  

Kiko shakes her head amusedly, smiling fondly at the shorter woman, “Night, Lin.” She can’t help but fill her voice with an abundance of affection.  

They make eye contact again briefly, “Goodnight, Kiko.” She shuts the door behind her.  

Kiko flops down on her hard mattress, her hand coming to cover up her eyes. Oh spirits, I have to be careful. 

[cyrsed]

i've been thinking about how (my) society treats cats lately and it's so weird to think about. like, @houzeheld went to an event recently and when the group of hosts was asked whether they prefer cats or dogs, they all had dogs, and one was even like "i can't stand cats". like, imagine if i said "i can't stand dogs" if someone asked me if i prefer cats or dogs lol.

the way people feel comfortable talking about cats and how much they don't like them would get you crucified if you talked about dogs that way. if i talked about how dogs are smelly and gross and i have to wash my hands after touching them (even tho i do like dogs very much lol but many of em are indeed smelly and gross), or, heaven forbid, someone says they "can't stand dogs", people would look at them like they're a monster.

and then conversely people are so comfortable talking about how cats are assholes, they're not affectionate, they don't love you, they couldn't care less if you're not around, or saying how they've never met a cat who liked them, or they've been around a cat that "hated" them for "no reason" (which, imo, says more about you than the cat; either you're misinterpreting their body language as uninterested/unfriendly bc you're expecting them to act like dogs, or you're doing something that's crossing a boundary of theirs and they're telling you to quit it).

earlier this month when i flew up to the new house w sailor, my mom and i were in the airport riding the lil tram thing and the lady next to us saw the pet carrier and excitedly asked if it was a little dog, and when i told her it's a cat, she just went "... oh. :|" and turned away lol like imagine if i asked someone if they had a cat in their carrier and when they told me their beloved pet was actually a dog i made a disgusted face and stopped talking to them gsjdflksdjlkf like that interaction was just funny to me but it's also really bizarre behavior when you think about how normalized it is.

i've maintained the theory that most people just have no idea how to interpret cat body language, and that most people try to apply dog body language to cats and then misinterpret cats as being aloof and/or unfriendly. my mom told me about how when she and my grandma arrived back at my mom's place from the airport a while back my mom said "the cats are so excited i'm back :)" and my grandma was very sarcastic about it bc she didn't think they seemed excited at all (probably bc they weren't running straight up to my mom and jumping on her like a dog might).

dogs have literally been bred to love us, and then held up as the ideal dynamic of the 'owner'/'pet' relationship. it's very hierarchical in a way that i think makes people entitled. i really think people (mostly unconsciously) believe that they deserve to be worshipped by their pet, and, maybe more importantly, that their pet shouldn't have the right to say "no" to them. that they should never have to /ask/ their pet something

that's just a problem in general, that we don't respect the boundaries of animals, but i was thinking about it yesterday cause i went up to the loft bc cowboy and sailor were up there and i wanted to take a video of them being pet bc they have such different affection styles (receiving and giving) and it's kinda funny. cowboy is more reserved and sailor is just like, getting lost in the sauce immediately.

cowboy's also just not as big a fan of being pet if he's not in a Being Pet Mood. he does like it in small doses, but he's sensitive and needs his space/gets overwhelmed quickly, so when i started petting him and went from his head to his side, he turned and gave my arm a light bite to tell me he didn't want me to touch his side. so i just moved on to sailor and pet her instead bc she loves being scritched/pet/patted/shaken/wiggled etc

n i was thinking about how people would probably interpret an interaction like that with cowboy as like, an inversion of the natural hierarchy on a base level, but would probably verbalize that as him not being friendly, or not being loving. i.e. i feed him, care for him, and love him, and yet he doesn't want to be pet by me?? he doesn't always want to be around me? what am i, whipped by my cat??

the thing is that ig i don't see myself as a pet "owner" (w all the hierarchical implications), per se, in moments like that. i'm approaching cowboy as one mammal of the household to another and communicating with him what i want (to pet his soft furry belly), and then letting him answer that in his own way, on his own terms, understanding that he has the right to say no (bite arm) bc i'm not owed anything from him. we're just two mammals who live together. we negotiate and communicate with each other every day, just bc he doesn't communicate the same way as a dog does, and/or doesn't reward me with constant access to his body/obsequious subservience doesn't make him unfriendly or un-loving. (also just to be clear: dogs and cats behave/communicate in all different ways, so there are plenty of friendly cats/aloof dogs, and people also misinterpret dog body language quite a bit too, i think there's just a general issue with people not understanding or respecting animals)

[poohnotpiku]

The Tram

If one has visited the city of Kolkata aka city of joy, one wouldn’t have missed It. If one would ask around about touristy things to do, perhaps one of the tops ones from the list would be It. It is part, or rather soul, of Kolkata,  since years. The people of Kolkata might have forgotten this heritage, but It still is a chapter, written in golden letters, in the history of the city of joy. It is something we Kolkatans are proud of, yet we ignore. It is something we hate to love. It is The Tram.

In the fast pacing world of superfast metro-trains, in the world of always running late people, It has no value. It is not being able to keep up with the rat-race, we all are busy in. Perhaps, It is out of place in this world, in this era. But still It is breathing away. It is happy to host the tourists from out of town, full of excitement and awe. It is satisfied carrying the slow moving old people, who have no where to rush to. It smiles with the smiles of the school children riding it, while energetically going to schools in the morning and returning home in the afternoon, tired and lazy. It enjoys listening into the gossip by  groups of middle-aged ladies, either returning from shopping or escorting their school-going children. It loves hearing the sound of ruffling tickets that the conductor makes while passing around to collect fares.

With a pensive mood, It also notices a solo rider, sitting right on the back seat, looking out of It’s wide windows, with drops of tears rolling down. It can feel her pain without even knowing the cause. It watches sad faces of the old people, who have been left behind by their children moving abroad to shinier horizons. It looks sadly at the poor man counting his coins to pay the fare to the conductor. It can feel the responsibility on the shoulders of the hawkers, boarding It, to sell their wares. It feels the same hunger as the beggar on-board, asking around for alms. It can hear the sadness in the voice of the street children singing joyful songs to entertain the passengers and may be earn some money to feed the hungry souls back home.

It feels everything…. from sadness to happiness, from loneliness to entertainment, from smiles to tears, from laughter to silent groans, from hunger to stomach full of gossips etc. But does anyone feel for It? May be it was too much of an ask!

She boarded It and looked around with awe. She touched its old wooden benches, the same ones from eons. She sat on a window-seat and felt the electrical veins on top of the Tram’s head, powering It up for the journey. She could feel how old It was getting with each passing year, walking the roads like an old woman with crooked back and aching knees. Another tram passed by them on the parallel track. It felt like as if two sisters were exchanging news when met coincidentally on the road. She could feel the vibrations of emotions echoing from It’s walls. When asked by the conductor about her destination, She couldn’t answer because deep within her She knew that She will be sitting there till the last stoppage. She will be with It as long as It wants. She will be a true friend to this friend of all…to Her Tram…

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[theadventurerslog]

The Curse of Monkey Island | Part 10

It's time, it's time, it's finale time. With diamond in hand I was finally able to complete a whopping big uncursed diamond ring.

I went back to Elaine to place the ring on her finger and break this curse at last.

Of course, if you might recall, she was winding up to punch Guybrush before the curse took hold and there was no stopping that.

I was debating whether to use this shot because I happened catch it at an awful frame, but I decided if I had to see it, I get to inflict it on you.

He was much more concerned about Elaine though.

Elaine, was understandably very confused, but Guybrush quickly explained she'd been cursed and he fixed it. Everything was going to be fine.

Just fiiiine.

Or not because LeChuck's undead army showed up and so we start Part V.

Kiss of the Spider Monkey.

This part is basically pure exposition. When we come back, Elaine is tied up and Guybrush is locked in a tram sort of cage thingy while LeChuck is ready and waiting to gloat.

We're back. Back to the Carnival of the Damned.

Where Guybrush escaped from in the first place after his failure to find Big Whoop in the previous game.

Big Whoop, as it turns out, is actually a portal to the demon nether world, and LeChuck plans to send Elaine through it to be granted immortality. By being undead, but I mean I guess that's one form. Sure, Elaine might hate him for it, but she'll come to understand the great gift of it all and the dating pool is remarkably small for the undead.

Sure, LeChuck, sure. No Minnie Goodsoup and Charles DeGoulash here.

Anyway, from this point on LeChuck is eager to talk and you can ask him about several things.

So the theme park: sailors are clearly looking for a family-oriented theme park after months at sea. So, they come here and ride the Great Monkey Mountain rollercoaster from the highest peak down into the lava providing a great supply of undead for his army. Fun and resourceful!

There are also more details about how it's run--dynamo monkelectrics. It's monkey powered. Ruthlessly trained monkeys are down in the depths of the place bound to machines of destruction and family entertainment.

And then there's a great deal about how LeChuck got the map to Big Whoop and what he did to Captain Marley--Elaine's grandfather--and his crew who originally found it, all relating back to the first two games, especially the second. But basically in retrieving each of the four pieces of the map that they'd torn up, he killed or destroyed them in various unpleasant ways.

You can also argue about who Elaine loves. Very eloquent. Does so love me. Does not. Does so, does not. Etc. They're very mature.

And you can have enough of his stories and vileness and stop listening.

Well, LeChuck had enough of his childishness (Like you're any better, LeChuck?) and came up with a fate befitting Guybrush's behaviour.

LeChuck and Elaine vanish. Guybrush seemingly does, but you still hear him and still have control. The door was unlocked so out I sent him.

La la la it's Guybrush the kid.

He walks off to another part of the theme park and knows he needs to rescue Elaine but it's hard to think. Head...foggy. He needs to clear his head.

It was time to get down to business. I didn't have a whole lot of my inventory left anymore, down to a little less than one screen's worth.

Though Murray's pasty arm remained.

Most of my stuff wasn't going to be useful except: the recipe book for a reminder of the Head-B-Clear recipe, after all he needs a clear head now, so that's what we gotta make, and the pan and the shaving cream--those will be useful.

I needed three ingredients: egg, the hair of the dog that bit ya, and pepper. Two of those could be found on this screen.

I also had people to talk to here: Dinghy Dog, Wharf Rat and... Murray on the shelf!

Naturally, I spoke with Murray first. "Are you dead yet? You look different."

He was pleased to find out Guybrush was also cursed too; they could join their cursed forces and rule the world together. Turned down again, sadly, I mean fortunately. He was still grossed out by his pasted up arm too.

Dinghy Dog runs a guessing game to guess the weight or age of the kid playing. If he can't guess one of them the player gets a prize. The weight option fails because he can guess that correctly.

Age however, we had a little advantage. He guessed "a fearsome little buccaneer" like him must be seven years old. Which of course is not correct and Guybrush was able to prove it with his SCUMM Actors Guild Membership Card. So I was able to pick a prize. Murray so wanted to be picked. I even tried--I always do--but Guybrush realized that would be a bad idea and Murray will just keep chattering while and demanding and pleading to be picked while you look at other prizes.

The only option that can be taken is an anchor. Murray was very offended by that and sulks for a while with more comments until going quiet. I'm sorry, Murray. I'd have taken you in a heartbeat if it let me.

Then I had a chat with Wharf Rat who runs "Blow the Man Down." A lemon meringue pie is fired from the cannon at the guy in the window. You can ask what meringue is and get told it's whipped from egg whites or something. And he grumbles about Dinghy Dog: "I'm not allowed to associate with His Highness The Great and Mighty Dinghy Dog" and also gives a clue about not messing him or regretting it.

So of course I was gonna mess with Dinghy Dog by continually prodding him until he lost patience and bit Guybrush.

And Guybrush snagged some hair off his suit. One ingredient down.

As for the egg, I needed a way to get one of the pies and the Wharf Rat wouldn't just let me take one.

So, I needed to get rid of the guy who was the target for the cannon. I filled my pie plate with the shaving cream and stuck the anchor in there and then added the whole thing to the pie stack. In the easier mode you can just add the anchor to the pie stack.

Then ask the Wharf Rat to fire the cannon and threaten him with the prospect of LeChuck finding out he's got unhappy kids running around here and that got him.

The poor window guy got knocked right out.

But that left the place empty for Guybrush to go in and taunt the Wharf Rat until he fired a pie at me too.

Egg acquired.

I just needed the pepper which is in the next screen where there's a guy selling snowcones. All manner of flavours of snowcones.

The list goes on for an impressive length with a lot of rhyming. I kiiind of wish I had it memorized just for kicks. It can be quite rhythmic!

He also had a pepper shaker on the counter which I could simply grab.

I ordered a regular snowcone and added all the ingredients on top of it. Delicious... It made a disgusting snowcone, but eating it, I'm sorry Guybrush, worked and he was restored to his clear-headed adult self.

Which brought me to the sixth and final part of the game.

Guybrush Kicks Butt Once Again.

This final part takes place on the roller coaster. It passes by four different diorama areas, 3 of which are based on past events of the series. You have a chance to hop out of the coaster to look around each one and get needed items. Periodically LeChuck will show up and there's a brief bit of conversation before he winds up with some fire to shoot at you and Guybrush leaps back into the passing coaster.

Through those bits of conversation, you find out Elaine got away and must have fiddled with the controls, and therefore the coaster keeps circling instead of plunging Guybrush into the lava stream. Go Elaine go.

So sections:

Monkey Island:

A little diorama of Herman Toothrot, the hung first mate, and the three-headed monkey. This is, of course, from The Secret of Monkey Island. A piece of rope can be grabbed here.

Captain Marley, his crew and their ship.

This was also one of the times I ran into LeChuck. Or he ran into me. Before that I was able to snag a keg of rum and do a little examining of things.

LeChuck's torture chamber in reference to Monkey Island 2.

Guybrush thought there was an animatronic Wally, only to realize it really is Wally. The poor guy really can't catch a break, but Guybrush apologized for leaving him to blow up in LeChuck's castle last time, and he promises this time he'll come back for him. As soon he defeats LeChuck, saves Elaine, sets all the monkeys free... and rides the Madly Rotating Buccaneer anyway.

I was also able to flip open the lantern and grab some oil.

And finally a snowy area, featuring a path leading up to "every sailor's worst nightmare. The 'Giant, Snowy Ape.'

This is the spot I ultimately needed, specifically for the Snowy Ape's arm that forms a perfect holding spot.

I had to set a trap for LeChuck. Use oil on the rope and attach the rope to the keg of rum. Put the whole thing in the Ape's arm and the oil-soaked rope would dangle down to the lower area. Then I had to wait around for LeChuck who always feels like he takes longer to show up when I actually want him.

I remember getting kind of stuck in this part the first time and needing a bit of a nudge from dad.

But while he's winding up his fire launching, blow some pepper at him to make him sneeze. Sneezey fire plus oiled rope is a fun combination featuring a burst of excitement!

Guybrush got out of there. LeChuck was less lucky.

Kaboom.

And what's a theme park without fireworks?

And LeChuck is defeated. Again. Eat explosion, demon zombie pirate.

Then we fade out to Guybrush and Elaine, newly married and setting sail.

Kind of love the suit look for Guybrush I have to admit. Okay, it's the long tail coat. I like 'em long.

Sail away, waved off by my former crew, a chicken and Lemonhead. The crew may have mutinied but it's nice they remain friendly. Or maybe they're glad to see him gone... I'll go with friendly.

And of course there's a final word from Murray:

He SHALL RETURN. (and spoiler alert: he does.)

Then credits with a bit more grumping from Murray at the start.

And finally a last scene sometime in the future with narration from a kid and his dad enjoying the theme park, but his dad tells of a story of the man who built this place being buried here and it's said his frozen body remains somewhere in the tunnels beneath the amusement park. Then it ends with a brief ominous bit of LeChuck's theme.

The End.

Happy end. Ominous end. Gotta leave room for more!

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Final Words

This would normally be a final thoughts area, but I've played the game before. Many, many, times.

I will say, this last chunk of game--part 5 and 6--are my least favourite of the game. It's not that I dislike them or anything so extreme, but once I hit the point where I'm ready to uncurse Elaine I always feel a bit of a letdown after everything else. They had run into budget issues and such by the end and some stuff got cut and I feel like that can be felt. I've always thought the ending itself felt pretty abrupt too, but honestly I feel that for most of the series.

That aside, it's just such a comfort food game. I didn't remember to try as much or go for lesser used conversation options as much as I originally intended, so maybe, just maybe there are still a few tidbits of newness or much less familiar bits in there somewhere...for the inevitable future play.

Thank you for reading! If this was your first experience with the game... maybe not the best first go--go play it! If you've played it before, replay it! Play it!

I hope you enjoyed even with the gaps, or if you're someone in the future reading this I hope you enjoyed, gap-free!

Farewell for now Guybrush.

[photosbyjabo]

The dreamy city of Edinburgh and the Scottish highlands

Scotland, the northernmost part of the UK. This will be the first time for all of us to travel and visit this country and we're all so stoked! We have been warned though that the weather is much colder than in England and apparently it does rain more here. We flew on the last week of March but it still is chilly. We arrived in Edinburgh already late in the morning; took the tram going to the city centre and already you can see and feel that this city has a different charm. First task of the day was to find a good place to eat. We ended up choosing a Japanese place where we had some sushi.

We then walked to the hotel and strolled around the city for a bit. We had planned something very exciting (and scary) for this evening. An underground city tour! This meant that we got to explore the "Old Town" of Edinburgh where there are still underground passages and vaults accessible to people. However, because these are no longer used by people as much as the olden days, they say that these places are now haunted. I have to say that I didn't really take any photos of the whole tour and definitely not whilst underground as it did feel eerily strange. (Probably will not do it again).

Second day -- tour of the Scottish Highlands! We boarded the coach from the city centre where the tour guide kept us informed and entertained throughout the whole ride. The day was a bit gloomy and because we're going to the highlands it's definitely even colder. But despite everything looking a bit barren and grey, personally I can still see how beautiful and amazing the scenery were. It must be even nicer to see it once spring has come. We got off and saw "The Three Sisters" in Glen Coe.

Before heading back to Edinburgh we had a little stopover where we had lunch in a town called Pitlochry.

Day three! Time to explore the city a bit more. A day where we didn't have anything planned so we ended up just visiting the National Museum of Scotland and then had a little coffee break in this amazing café (The Elephant House) where people claim that J.K. Rowling wrote some parts of one of her novels. What a stunning view of the castle while having your coffee!

Last day in Edinburgh! Of course we can't leave without visiting the Edinburgh Castle. There's an incredible vantage point of the whole city from the castle. We've also been blessed with good-ish weather as the sun showed itself today. Ended up spending most of our day there. I think this will be the first castle that I've actually set foot in and explored.

Another famous spot to see and what I assume most people recognise is Victoria Street. Lined up in a curve with these colourful shops and buildings uphill.

Four days being in this city is definitely not enough. There's still so much that we haven't seen and done. I adore the architecture, the history of the city, the people we've encountered have all been nice too, and the overall atmosphere of this beautiful city. This would be my favorite city so far in the UK. Maybe next time when we come back we get to try some Scottish food (for a change, haha!).

All photos taken using an iPhone. (March 2019)

[mumsbubs]

Best Lightweight Strollers, Travel Prams & Sensitive-Skin Wet Wipes in 2025

Travelling with a baby or toddler can feel like you’re packing for a camping trip even if you’re just heading out for the afternoon. Between the gear, the snacks, and all the “just in case” items, things can get out of hand fast. That’s why choosing smart, space-saving essentials makes a huge difference.

In this guide, we’ll walk through what makes the best lightweight stroller in Australia parents are reaching for in 2025, what to look for in a reliable travel pram Australia families are loving, and how to choose the best wet wipes for sensitive skin that won’t leave your little one feeling uncomfortable.

We don’t sell any of these products, we just give honest advice to help you feel confident when you’re making decisions for your family.

Why Lightweight Strollers Are a Must-Have

Let’s be real, some strollers feel like you’re pushing a shopping trolley through sand. That’s where lightweight strollers shine. They’re built to be compact, easy to carry, and simple to fold down, making them ideal for everyday errands and family trips.

A good lightweight stroller should weigh under 8kg and still offer a smooth ride, a comfy seat, and enough storage space for nappies, wipes, and snacks. The top choices this year also fold flat and fit easily in small boots or airplane overhead compartments.

So if you’re tired of struggling with a bulky pram that takes up your entire backseat, it might be time for an upgrade.

What Makes the Best Lightweight Stroller Australia Families Recommend?

A few features separate the winners from the ones that collect dust in the garage. If you're searching for the best lightweight stroller Australia, here’s what to look for:

Quick and compact fold – You’ll thank yourself at the car park or airport gate.

Good wheel suspension – Even lightweight strollers need to handle bumpy footpaths.

Adjustable seat – Especially helpful for naps on the go.

Sun canopy and rain cover – Australian weather doesn’t wait for naptime.

Sturdy frame without the weight – The balance of comfort and portability matters.

The best strollers this year manage to keep things simple without cutting corners on comfort or safety.

Travel Prams That Keep Things Simple

A travel pram Australia parents love is one that doesn’t fight back. Whether you’re navigating narrow cafe aisles, hopping on a tram, or heading through airport security, a good travel pram keeps up without slowing you down.

It’s common for families to rely on a travel pram as their everyday pram because of how easy they are to use and store. Many can be folded with one hand, carried like a bag, and set up in seconds.

What to Look For in a Travel-Friendly Pram

Weight and size – Smaller is better when you’re moving quickly or tight on space.

Easy to carry – Some models even come with a shoulder strap or backpack option.

Solid build – Look for one that holds up to regular use, not just occasional trips.

Good ventilation – Great for Aussie summers or long walks in the sun.

Simple fold and unfold mechanism – You shouldn’t need a manual (or an extra set of hands).

A solid travel pram Australia families trust does all of this while keeping your child secure and comfortable.

Choosing the Best Wet Wipes for Sensitive Skin

Wipes are one of those things you never really think about until your baby’s skin starts reacting to them. Redness, rashes, and discomfort can often be traced back to irritating ingredients in some of the most popular baby wipes.

That’s why more parents are turning to wipes made specifically for sensitive skin. These are made with gentle materials and fewer ingredients, often using purified water and plant-based fibres. They don’t just clean, they soothe.

Features to Look For

Fragrance-free – Scented wipes can be harsh on delicate skin.

No alcohol or parabens – These ingredients can dry out or irritate.

Hypoallergenic and dermatologically tested – Fewer surprises down the track.

Biodegradable or compostable – Easier on the planet and still safe for bub.

Resealable packaging – Keeps them moist and ready when you need them.

Parents looking for the best wet wipes for sensitive skin in 2025 are focusing more on ingredients than branding and it’s paying off. Gentle wipes keep your baby clean and comfortable, whether you're at home or changing nappies in the boot of your car.

Travel Tips for Aussie Families

Even the best pram or wipe won’t help if the rest of your travel setup is a mess. Here are a few tried-and-true tips that make life on the go just a little bit easier:

Pack only what you really need. A smaller bag is easier to manage than a bursting one.

Always bring spares. Wipes, nappies, and a change of clothes (for everyone).

Snacks solve most meltdowns. Keep them handy.

Use a backpack instead of a shoulder bag. Your hands will thank you.

Give yourself extra time. Rushing with a toddler is asking for chaos.

A little planning makes a big difference and having gear that’s simple and reliable helps you enjoy the outing instead of stressing through it.

Finding What Works for You

Every family’s needs are different. You might want something ultra-compact for weekend getaways, or something that works as an everyday stroller that’s easy to toss in the car. Some parents look for the most lightweight gear possible, while others prioritise comfort or storage.

The good news? In 2025, you’ve got more choices than ever before. Whether you’re searching for the best lightweight stroller Australia, comparing options for a travel pram Australia, or tracking down the best wet wipes for sensitive skin, there are plenty of great options out there no brand loyalty required.

At Mums and Bubs, our goal is to make your choices easier, not harder. We cut through the hype so you can focus on what really matters, keeping your little one happy and your hands a little less full.

For more honest advice and simple guides, check out Mums and Bubs.

[yetitravel]

Becoming a New York City Travel Agent

New York City is a magnet for travelers from around the globe, drawing millions each year to its legendary landmarks, world-class culture, and electric atmosphere. As a travel agent specializing in the Big Apple, you have the opportunity to unlock the city’s best-kept secrets for your clients while building a rewarding and profitable business. This guide is packed with actionable advice, insider tips, and creative strategies to help you become a standout NYC travel agent who delivers unforgettable experiences.

Getting Started as a Travel Agent in New York City

Legal Requirements and Professional Qualifications To operate as a travel agent in New York, you’ll need an IATA number, which is often provided through a host agency. While New York State does not require a specific license for travel agents, professional certifications are highly recommended. These can be earned through organizations like the American Society of Travel Advisors (ASTA) and destination-focused programs centered on New York City tourism. Certification not only boosts your credibility but also equips you with essential industry knowledge. Building Your Expertise While a formal degree isn’t required, investing in travel and hospitality education is a smart move. Consider travel agent training programs, online courses, and destination specialist certifications. The more you know about New York City’s neighborhoods, attractions, and travel logistics, the more valuable you become to your clients.

The Best NYC Destinations to Book for Clients

Iconic Landmarks Every Visitor Wants to See Your clients will expect to see the city’s most famous sights. These should be the foundation of any itinerary: - Central Park: A sprawling oasis in the heart of Manhattan, perfect for walking tours, carriage rides, and picnics. - Statue of Liberty & Ellis Island: Arrange ferry tickets and guided tours to help clients explore these symbols of freedom. - Empire State Building: Book timed tickets for the observation deck to avoid long waits. - Top of the Rock: Offers panoramic views of Central Park and Midtown. - The Metropolitan Museum of Art: Secure skip-the-line passes for one of the world’s premier art museums. - 9/11 Memorial & Museum: A moving, must-see experience for many visitors. - Grand Central Terminal: Suggest guided tours to uncover its hidden history and architecture. - Brooklyn Bridge: Recommend walking or biking across for stunning skyline views. - Times Square: Arrange for Broadway show tickets and dinner reservations. - The High Line: This elevated park is a favorite for art lovers and urban explorers. Hidden Gems and Unique Experiences To set yourself apart, introduce clients to lesser-known attractions: - Pier 57 Rooftop Park: A new favorite for locals, offering 360-degree views and summer movie nights. - Governor’s Island: A quick ferry ride leads to car-free biking, art installations, and historic forts. - Roosevelt Island Tram: An aerial tramway with unbeatable skyline views. - Brooklyn Promenade: The best spot for photos of Lower Manhattan. - Chelsea Market: Foodies will love the diverse vendors and nearby art galleries.

How to Book NYC Experiences for Clients

Mastering Reservations and Logistics Many of New York’s top attractions require advance reservations, especially during busy seasons. Here’s how to streamline the booking process: - Book Early: Secure tickets 2-3 months in advance for major attractions and Broadway shows. - Use City Passes: Products like the New York Pass bundle admission to multiple attractions and can save clients money. - Reservation Policies: Many tours require a credit card to hold a spot but only charge for no-shows or late cancellations. - Special Requests: For unique experiences, like private museum tours or behind-the-scenes Broadway access, build relationships with local tour operators and concierges. Navigating City Passes and Bundles - Pass Flexibility: Passes allow clients to visit as many attractions as they want within a set time frame. - Advance Planning: Advise clients about which attractions require reservations, even with a pass. - Maximizing Value: Help clients choose the right pass based on their interests and length of stay.

Standing Out as a New York City Travel Agent

Offering Personalized Subway and Transit Guidance The NYC subway can be daunting for first-timers. Make your service indispensable by providing: - Custom Subway Maps: Highlight stations near hotels and attractions. - Step-by-Step Instructions: Explain how to buy MetroCards, read subway maps, and use express/local trains. - Self-Guided Subway Tours: Suggest themed routes, like the 7 line for Queens food adventures or the Q train to Coney Island. - Accessibility Info: Note which stations have elevators or are stroller-friendly.

Sharing Insider Tips - Best Photo Spots: Recommend places like the Brooklyn Promenade, Top of the Rock, or DUMBO for iconic photos. - Seasonal Events: Provide an up-to-date calendar of festivals, parades, and special events. - Rainy Day Plans: Suggest indoor options like the American Museum of Natural History or MoMA. - Local Eats: Guide clients to authentic bagel shops, pizza joints, and hidden speakeasies. Having a List of All the Best Spots To make yourself stand out even more, make sure you have a list of all the best spots for all different kinds of activities! Being able to tell your client which spots are best to go to during their trip will really help you stand out from other travel agents! Here's an example list you could make: Curated Lists of NYC’s Most Popular Spots by Activity To truly shine as a New York City travel agent, having ready-made, up-to-date lists for every kind of activity is a game-changer. Here are essential recommendations across key categories-perfect for customizing itineraries and wowing your clients. Top Restaurants (2025 Standouts) - Ai Fiori (Midtown): Modern Italian with city views - Charlie Bird (SoHo): Trendy American-Italian - Dame (Greenwich Village): Acclaimed seafood - Essential by Christophe (Midtown): French fine dining - Eataly NYC Flatiron: Italian marketplace and restaurant hub - Olio e Più (West Village): Beloved for rustic Italian fare - La Grande Boucherie (Midtown West): Elegant French brasserie - RH Rooftop Restaurant (Meatpacking): Chic American cuisine with skyline views Best Pizza Spots - See No Evil Pizza (Times Square): Creative pies in a unique subway setting - Roberta’s (Brooklyn): Trendy, wood-fired Neapolitan pizza - Don Antonio (Midtown): Famous for deep-fried and wood-fired pizzas - Emmy Squared (Multiple locations): Detroit-style thick crust - NY Pizza Suprema (Near Penn Station): Classic New York slice - Joe’s Pizza (Greenwich Village): Quintessential NYC street pizza

Biking Routes & Parks - Central Park Full Loop: Iconic 6.1-mile ride through the park - Hudson River Greenway: Scenic, car-free ride along the west side - Brooklyn Bridge Park: Waterfront paths with skyline views - Prospect Park Loop: Picturesque, always car-free in Brooklyn - Governors Island: Car-free biking with harbor views - East River Greenway: Views of Manhattan and Brooklyn Bridges Shopping Districts - Fifth Avenue: Luxury brands and flagship stores (49th–60th St) - Orchard Street (Lower East Side): Vintage shops and indie boutiques - East 9th Street (East Village): Vintage, gifts, and craft beer - Lafayette Street (NoHo/SoHo): Fashion-forward clothing stores - 9th & 10th Avenues (Chelsea): Chelsea Market, food halls, and Artists & Fleas Best Parks - Central Park: Must-see for first-time visitors, endless activities - Brooklyn Bridge Park: Best for skyline views and family fun - Prospect Park: Ideal for picnics and local events - Hudson River Park: Great for biking, running, and sunset views - Flushing Meadows Corona Park: Multicultural events and the iconic Unisphere - Washington Square Park: Bohemian vibe, live music, and people-watching

Nightlife & Clubs - Brooklyn Steel: Top live music venue in Brooklyn - LPR (Le Poisson Rouge): Eclectic music and arts in Greenwich Village - Slate NY: Multi-level club with games and themed nights - The Box: Legendary for avant-garde performances - Jean’s: Newcomer with DJ sets and a chic crowd - Acme: Young professionals, disco, and a lively basement scene - Wiggle Room: Known for cocktails and funky dance floor Outdoor Activities - Kayaking at Pier 26 - Walking the Brooklyn Bridge - Rowboating on Central Park Lake - Exploring Governors Island - Shakespeare in the Park at Delacorte Theater - Bird watching and jogging at the Jackie Onassis Reservoir Having these lists at your fingertips helps you quickly tailor recommendations to any client’s interests, whether they’re foodies, shoppers, night owls, or outdoor enthusiasts. Update your lists regularly to keep them fresh and always be ready to share subway routes, reservation tips, and local secrets for each spot. This level of detail and personalization is what sets the best NYC travel agents apart.

Marketing Your NYC Travel Agency

Building a Strong Online Presence - Professional Website: Your site should be visually appealing, mobile-friendly, and showcase your NYC expertise with sample itineraries and testimonials. - SEO Optimization: Use keywords like “NYC travel agent,” “New York City trip planner,” and “best NYC tours” throughout your site and blog posts. - Local SEO: Claim your Google Business Profile and keep your contact info consistent across all directories. Social Media Strategies - Visual Storytelling: Post high-quality photos and videos of NYC attractions, client experiences, and behind-the-scenes moments. - Hashtags and Engagement: Use popular tags like #NYCTravel and interact with followers to build a loyal community. - Platform Focus: Concentrate on platforms where your target audience spends time, such as Instagram, Facebook, and Pinterest. Email Marketing - Segmented Lists: Tailor content for families, solo travelers, or luxury clients. - Seasonal Offers: Promote special packages for events like Broadway Week or the holiday season. - Consistent Updates: Send regular newsletters with travel tips, new attractions, and exclusive deals.

Branding Yourself as a NYC Travel Pro

Creating a Memorable Brand - Authenticity: Your brand should reflect your personality and passion for New York City. - Long-Term Vision: Choose a brand name and style that you can grow with. - Consistent Messaging: Use the same colors, fonts, and tone across your website, social media, and print materials. - Professional Logo: Invest in a custom logo that stands out and feels uniquely yours. Building Credibility - Client Reviews: Showcase testimonials and case studies on your website and social channels. - Industry Partnerships: Collaborate with local hotels, tour operators, and event planners. - Media Features: Seek opportunities to be quoted in travel articles or interviewed on podcasts about NYC travel.

Reaching and Growing Your Client Base

Networking and Partnerships - Industry Events: Attend travel trade shows and NYC tourism board meetings. - Local Businesses: Partner with wedding planners, event coordinators, and hotel concierges for referrals. - Professional Associations: Join ASTA and local tourism groups to stay connected and informed. Specializing for Success - Niche Focus: Consider specializing in luxury travel, family vacations, or international visitors. - Neighborhood Expertise: Become the go-to agent for specific NYC neighborhoods or experiences. - Custom Packages: Offer themed itineraries like food tours, art walks, or Broadway weekends.

Top 10 FAQs for NYC Travel Agents

- What’s the best time to visit New York City? Spring and fall offer the best weather and manageable crowds. December is magical but busy; summer is lively but can be hot and humid. - How far in advance should clients book attractions? For major sights and shows, book 2-3 months ahead. Popular restaurants should be reserved 1-2 months in advance. - Which neighborhoods are must-sees for first-timers? Midtown, Greenwich Village, Lower Manhattan, and the Upper East Side are essential. Brooklyn’s DUMBO and Williamsburg are great for return visitors. - What’s the best way to get around the city? The subway is fast and affordable. Provide clients with easy-to-follow transit guides and tips for using ride-shares or ferries. - How can clients save money in NYC? Recommend free attractions, city passes, and affordable food options. Share tips on museum free hours and public transit discounts. - How do I create VIP experiences for luxury travelers? Offer private tours, exclusive dining reservations, and behind-the-scenes access to top attractions. - What are the requirements to become a travel agent in New York? You’ll need an IATA number, usually via a host agency, and professional certification is highly recommended. - How do I keep up with NYC’s ever-changing scene? Subscribe to local publications, follow tourism board updates, and network with other agents. - What should clients know about tipping? Tipping is expected: 18-20% at restaurants, $1-2 per bag for bellhops, and $2-5 per day for housekeeping. - How do I set realistic expectations about NYC costs? Be upfront about prices and fees. Offer budget-friendly alternatives and help clients prioritize their must-see experiences.

Final Thoughts

New York City is a dream destination for millions, and as a travel agent, you have the power to turn those dreams into reality. By mastering the city’s attractions, offering personalized transit guidance, and providing insider tips, you’ll become an invaluable resource for your clients. Success in this field comes from a blend of passion, expertise, and strategic marketing. Build a strong brand, leverage digital tools, and network with local partners to grow your business. Stay curious, keep learning, and embrace the ever-changing pulse of New York City. With the right approach, you’ll not only help travelers experience the best of NYC-you’ll establish yourself as the go-to expert for unforgettable New York adventures. Welcome to the city that never sleeps, and to a career that’s as dynamic and exciting as the destination itself! Looking for an agency to join? Check us out here at Yeti Travel! We offer the latest tools and the highest commissions! Read the full article

[darkmasterofcupcakes]

Multipass Ranking - Animal Kingdom

Decided to do each of these as their own post instead. I'll be ranking the attractions I've actually been on/done first and then doing a "bonus" list where I rank the N/A things based on how much I feel I personally would enjoy them.

1.) Festival of the Lion King - Yeah, a theatre show is my favorite Lightning Lane thing in Animal Kingdom. I don't really have much to say about it outside of it being a lot of fun and I mean, my favorite thing about Lion King is the music so how could I not enjoy a show with people doing honestly pretty amazing covers of said songs? Plus a lot of the "acts" during the different songs are just so fun to watch.

2.) Kilimanjaro Safaris - Probably the most fun "ride" in the park, and is only really held back by the fact that it's not only long, but the ride time can vary a lot since the animals are free roaming so for all you know, your ride could get massively delayed because of animals getting in the path of your tram and that could mess up your plans. And the whole thing of it involving live animals really does mean that it's more or less pure luck determining how many/which animals you could see. You can apparently increase your chances of seeing more animals by going early or late, but I feel like just having to be there at certain times of day to not have to risk basically not seeing anything loses points?

3.) Na'Vi River Journey - This ride is probably the definition of boring but harmless for me. I've never seen the movie Avatar so I'm not going to get anything from seeing the different types of animals in the environment and while the animatronic at the end is cool, I also can't say it's something I'd be willing to wait in a long line for or even really willing to use a Lightning Lane on.

4.) DINOSAUR - I feel like this would be ranked higher if I wasn't a bit of a wimp, because I can't deny, this ride actually kind of scares me a little. It's very dark for the most part, and there's a lot of loud noises, especially near the end, that combined with the jerk movements of the truck and moments where the dinosaurs effectively jumpscare you make this one I can't really ride that often. I am going to check it out when it gets re-themed to Indiana Jones, see if I enjoy that more.

5.) It's Tough to Be a Bug - For the most part, it's just a short little theater show to more or less waste ten minutes on between other rides or if you want to sit down for a few before going to the buses for another park to head back to your resort. It's mostly at the bottom because of the "stinkbug" part and I don't love the part of the show where Hopper takes over and it becomes a bit of a horror show. Likely end up ranking it higher when the Zootopia show replaces it.

Now for the N/A rides/attractions

1.) Finding Nemo: The Big Blue...and Beyond - Honestly sounds like something I might enjoy, since it's just a little stage show using puppets of Finding Nemo characters with original songs. I just haven't gotten around to watching it, partly because it's like half an hour and since I can't deny Animal Kingdom is my least favorite park, I'd kinda rather use those 30 minutes taking the bus to another park that I'll probably have more to do at.

2.) Kali River Rapids - I just don't like water rides, personally. That is pretty much the only reason I have no interest in this ride. I've heard it's possible to go on it and barely get wet, but that seems to be completely random and I don't want to have to wear a poncho or something on a ride to avoid having to walk around in wet clothes. Plus, I feel like if you want to avoid getting wet on water rides....you're kinda missing the point?

3.) Feathered Friends in Flight - Really just not comfortable with the idea of having live birds flying around me in a somewhat enclosed space. I do assume they're all trained, but still, those are animals with minds of their own and I feel like the whole time I'd be too busy worrying if one them would start flying at me to enjoy the show.

4.) Expedition Everest - I'm not someone who can handle roller coasters that are too intense, and this really is outside of what I'm personally able to handle. Even without the huge drop near the end, I feel like I'd struggle with the backwards section, since it seems to go on for quite a while and at a fast speed.

[panamamission]

How to Travel to Panama with Minors: A Complete Guide by Panama Mission India

Traveling to Panama together with your kids may be an exciting journey full of own family bonding and cultural studies. However, it also calls for careful planning to ensure a clean and enjoyable experience for all of us. This guide will help you prepare and make the maximum of your journey to Panama together with your youngsters.

1. Getting Ready for the Trip

1.1. Documentation

Make certain you have all of the important documents properly before your ride:

• Passports: Both adults and children want legitimate passports with at least six months of validity remaining.

• Visa: Check if you need a visa. Most travelers can enter Panama without one for up to 90 days, however it is always good to verify.

• Consent Letter: If best one parent is visiting with the child, you would possibly want a notarized consent letter from the other parent. This letter need to encompass information about the journey and contact information.

1.2. Health and Safety

• Vaccinations: Ensure your family is up to date on routine vaccinations. Check if any additional vaccines, like Hepatitis A and Typhoid, as they are important for travel to Panama.

• Health Insurance: Get travel insurance that covers healthcare for youngsters. Make certain it includes emergency evacuation coverage.

• Medications: Pack a small first aid package and any prescription medicinal drugs your kid might need. It is additionally beneficial to carry a physician’s word detailing any prescriptions.

2. Planning Your Itinerary

2.1. Kid-Friendly Destinations

Panama gives many own family-friendly locations to discover:

• Panama City: Visit the Panama Canal, discover the old city of Casco Viejo, and enjoy the interactive Biomuseo. The Amador Causeway is incredible for own family cycling and waterfront perspectives.

• Gamboa: Take a boat tour of Lake Gatun and go to the Gamboa Rainforest Resort for aerial trams, flora, and fauna spotting, and night time safaris.

• Boquete: This cool-climate metropolis is perfect for hiking, coffee excursions, and chook watching. It is extremely good for families who love the outside.

• San Blas Islands: You can relax on beautiful beaches and can observe about the way of life of the Guna Yala people living. These islands are perfect for a peaceful beach excursion.

2.2. Accommodation

Choose lodges that cater to families:

• Family-Friendly Hotels: find some hotels which has family rooms, swimming pools, and other services. Many hotels in visitor regions provide cribs or more beds if wished.

• Vacation Rentals: You can rent a house or condo that offers you extra space and the convenience of a kitchen, that is in particular helpful for households with young children.

3. During the Trip

3.1. Transportation

• Flights: Try to e-book direct flights to decrease journey time and pressure. If you have layovers, make certain they are lengthy enough for diaper changes, meals, and relaxation breaks.

• Ground Transportation: Once in Panama, you can use taxis, rental vehicles, or public transportation. Ensure that vehicle seats are to be had in case you plan to rent an automobile. Many taxis do no longer have seat belts inside the lower back seat, so it is critical to test this earlier. Ride-sharing apps like Uber would possibly offer higher automobile options.

3.2. Food and Water

• Food Safety: Panama has scrumptious and safe-to-consume ingredients, however for youngsters, keep on with bottled water and keep away from road food to prevent stomach issues. Restaurants in traveler regions generally have excellent hygiene standards.

• Familiar Foods: Pack some acquainted snacks from home. This can be beneficial if your baby does not immediately take to the local cuisine. Look for grocery shops or markets where you may purchase familiar objects or components to put together easy food.

4. Activities and Entertainment

4.1. Outdoor Adventures

• Beach Days: Panama’s beaches are stunning. Ensure your children are included with sunscreen, hats, and swimwear. Always maintain an eye on them while they are within the water. Family-pleasant beaches like Playa Blanca or Santa Clara have calm waters.

• Wildlife Encounters: Panama is rich in natural world. Visit places like the Metropolitan Natural Park in Panama City or the Jaguar Rescue Center in Gamboa for secure and academic natural world studies. The Summit Municipal Park is another fantastic spot to peer exclusive animals and study conservation efforts.

4.2. Educational Experiences

• Museums and Cultural Sites: Engage your youngsters with visits to academic attractions like the Biomuseo or the Panama Viejo ruins. The Interoceanic Canal Museum is some other tremendous location to study the history of the Panama Canal.

• Local Markets: Explore nearby markets just like the Mercado de Moriscos (Seafood Market) and artisanal markets for a taste of local subculture and crafts. These visits can be both academic and amusing, permitting kids to peer and learn about special ingredients and hand-crafted objects.

5. Safety Tips

5.1. Staying Safe

• Stay Together: Always keep an eye for your youngsters, specifically in crowded areas. Establish a meeting factor in case a person receives separated.

• Emergency Contacts: Have a list of emergency contacts, including the embassy of Panama, healthcare providers, and your resort. Familiarize yourself with the nearby emergency numbers.

• Local Laws: Learn about neighborhood laws and customs to make sure a smooth and respectful visit. This includes expertise visitors’ guidelines, get dressed codes for particular sites, and fashionable behavioral norms.

5.2. Health Precautions

• Sun Protection: Panama’s tropical weather manner robust sun exposure. Ensure your minors are blanketed with sunscreen, hats, and sun shades. Reapply sunscreen regularly, specifically after swimming.

• Hydration: Keep your children nicely-hydrated, specially all through outdoor activities. Bottled water is suggested. Make certain to hold enough water for day trips and encourage everyday drinking.

6. Making Memories

6.1. Capture the Moments

• Photographs and Videos: Document your ride with lots of pictures and videos. These can be cherished reminiscences on your own family. Encourage youngsters to take their personal pictures to look the ride from their attitude.

• Travel Journal: Encourage older kids to maintain a tour magazine. This may be a fun manner for them to document their stories and reflections. Provide them with notebooks and colored pens or pencils to make it a creative interest.

6.2. Enjoy the Experience

• Relax and Have Fun: Traveling with youngsters can be unpredictable. Stay bendy, preserve a tremendous mindset, and experience the particular stories that come with own family travel. Embrace the surprising moments and consciousness on making the experience exciting for each person.

Conclusion

Traveling to Panama with your children can be exciting and problematic so you should take advise from Panama embassy to avoid any last minute complications. By planning earlier, staying updated, and specializing in protection and comfort, you can ensure a memorable enjoy filled journey and experience. Whether exploring the bustling streets of Panama City or exciting at the serene seashores of the San Blas Islands, your family is certain to create everlasting experience on this beautiful and diverse country.

Remember, the important thing to a successful journey is guidance which you can get at Panama Mission India. With the right making plans and mind-set, your own family can enjoy all that Panama has to provide, from its colourful culture and records to its stunning herbal splendor. Happy travels!

[the-firebird69]

Freya Ridings - Castles (Official Video)

So she's looking for her guy and she's wearing a suit for space and she's laying on the ground in her bathroom okay it's a lot more subtle and really she has an intense voice and the sound and she looks like me a couple different books from the side and it's an intense video but he wanted to post this because he's asking what's going on and people are saying that it's coming alive and it is what she's saying and she is now going insane she said because she'll probably end up like building it so we're going to have a resident evil nut case in the neighborhood possibly and I do understand what you're saying it's going to be hell on Earth is the max want me down there in either form they don't want someone else and that's going to piss a lot of women off and also the fight between pseudo empire and warlock the heating up and you can see these ladies are saying they're fighting over it and the smaller ones say that they're not doing too good and it is because of the redheads behind them which is what she looks like and typically she looks like it anyways but not like that and they're saying so it's going on that he's becoming famous again and people are embarrassed and want him to have money and a lot of people want to see him in the castle so you can try and threaten for stuff and that's what they're saying so he asked my opinion that's what it is

Hera

It was really groping around saying I wonder what the status is cuz we put a lot out there about it and if we did right now there's a lot of people who are getting up to go to Orlando West Palm in Los Angeles and they're going to be mad houses too from all over the world and it's going to be intense. All I can say is Walt Disney world and Walt Disneyland are swamped globally and these two here you can't get in them probably for months so he's asking for free tickets again and they might do that cuz they don't have to give anybody free tickets anymore he needs a bus ride and Ken potato to help him arranging things this is true help me remember stuff so they're going through it it said terrific when would you like to visit and he said before they change the castle and they said oh oh and they do get that he's seen it before and he seen the other one before and she has too but not before when it's painted so they thinking oh boy that would be something cuz then it come up and see if you can know what to change later and this other stuff too and they're thinking about it and it would raise the price of their memorabilia greatly sleeping beauty and Cinderella and all the cosplay and everything that they sell would go out the door before they can make it already it's off quite a bit 5% I think and 10% in LA so now they're wondering what you're talking about but no they know they considered to be harmless but yeah he wants to go up there and walk around and take the tram the go-kart rides golf cart rides maybe his mom would be there and looking like she does now he can say some things so she wants to do that and they know how to do it they can't seem to do it here so you follow that and it's going on now that they're trying to get signed and they realize it

Thor Freya

There's more to it and he has a few things he wants to try and look at but really it's an awesome idea it might be able to get him up there and the warlock would want that

Olympus

Yeah we would want that too yeaha

Mac daddy yeah I kind of running it and that would make a lot of money right now it's ticket sales which are okay it's a decent amount but the memorabilia would go out the door fast and you can blink you would not believe how fast if you went to the castle you have got to be kidding me and then it would be that way for the whole time and beforehand and after I'm going to go ahead and do it I'm going to try and do it and they're going to try and do it on the West Coast and they know a couple characters this is going to be intense

Olympus

[ideal-girl]

Rhe Links are like this because I accidentally deleted this several times over and I got tired of linking them correctly. 

Now about the topics of retributive and restorative Justice. Well more like, more EXACTLY rambling.

On the original (I guess the now private) post, I believe you mentioned your disdain for someone suggesting that Israel should face restorative Justice instead of retributive Justice. Instead of leaving the response there, I decided to make a separate one because that post was too long and I’m mixed about retributive Justice in by itself and I rather Israel not be the focus on this post.

Now I think I can get why “Retributive Justice” is a favored concept. I mean for the past years there’s been a surge of politicians who’s trying to make life a living hell for LGBT people; such as forbidding talk in school about sexual orientation, trying to ban drag shows, even trying to get To Kill a Mockingbird banned from libraries, and making stupid “educational videos” where they basically say “Slavery wasn’t a terrible thing kids!” So of course it would be hugely entertaining so watch those kind of people get their just desserts.

The problem is that “retributive Justice” can very easily be a pipeline into some either misaimed, toxic, or even wicked beliefs. For starters well basically it’s punishment. And punishment can in many instances, be equivalent to suffering. And it’s believed in society that suffering is a good thing, that one could only be greater better through suffering, that it teaches one how to be a good person. Which is not always true.

I’ve seen this already with fictional characters, as more than a handful of people believe that Catra and Azula, both victims of abuse since childhood, should have suffered more than they already had by their respective series, despite the fact that Catra’s whole arc was that she kept putting herself in a cycle of self-punishment and suffering due to her bad actions and the latter gets locked up in a mental institution by the end. Not to mention wishing they could have suffered more contradicts some of the themes in those shows. I’ve seen a “funny” RWBY fan skit where the villain Adam Taurus gets one of his eyes branded using the logo of a mining factory company in what was supposed to be a “badass” moment. The same mining company which forced him to slavery since childhood and already branded one of his eyes, which is implied to be a strong reason why he ended up a terrible person.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PrincessesOfPower/comments/jkzgxe/some_thoughts_on_catras_redemption_for_the_all/

It’s something that affects real life. There’s this weird incident that’s not really about punishment but it is about suffering sorta. Sydney Sweeney recounted working a brief stint as a tour guide for that tram ride in Universal Studios Hollywood to make ends meet for her struggling family as they were poor and some weird entitled Tiktoker tried to claim she was lying because apparently becoming a Universal tour guide was this “notoriously difficult” position that “not everybody could get into”, and apparently a bandwagon of people hopped up trying to say that she actually had a cushy life as if struggling and suffering is the key to being a good person.

ever heard of Jasmine Richardson? She’s a Canadian killer who murdered her own parents and younger brother along with a boyfriend accomplice. She was incarcerated for 10 years, and then afterward once she served her time, the legal system cleared her criminal history and she walks free now. By all means, this sounds like a real life pure evil character and a misjudgment… except if you know that Jasmine was 12 years old when she did this. And the boyfriend character was a 23 year old man. Medical professionals confirmed that she did appear to be truly rehabilitated upon her release. The comments don’t care, they say that this person who was a manipulated child groomed by a older man is a utter monster who does not deserve a chance and should instead be locked up for life in prison or at least publicly shamed.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2hfMn2maU8o&pp=ygUSSmFzbWluZSByaWNoYXJkc29u

Speaking of prisons actually, have you ever heard about the prison system in Norway? Originally they built prisons similar to that of the US however due to the fact that prisoners released kept recommitting crimes two years of their release Norway decided to take a new approach. They focused on “Restorative Justice”, treating their prisoners (even the crueler ones) like ordinary people with more humane conditions to make it so they can reintegrate into society easier, some have even got a better chance of getting employed afterwards. It seems to be working pretty well for them, as their recidivism rate is one of the lowest in the world. Compare that to the more “retributive” US prison system where often prisoners are treated subhuman and it’s nigh impossible for anyone to hire them afterwards, and of course the high recidivism. And the US may not be the worst in that regards! What do you think about the Norway prison system?

https://ultranos.tumblr.com/post/645435392662929408/sits-down-and-brews-chrysanthemum-tea-atla

Here’s a choice quote from this blog post that got me thinking: “This has told me that the very basis of the US justice system is flawed. That people are focused on the “retribution” part of retributive justice, they’re focused on vengeance. Not mercy. Not the humanity of the victim and perpetrator.”

Another post I’ve recently found that got me thinking is this which points out that the thing is, people like Qanon, racists, anti-abortionists, corrupt governments like America, Israel and North Korea do believe that they are the good guys and that their acts of violence or whatever are their form of Justice. Sure those are more obviously evil motives, but the fact is those still function on the same motive on “retribution” which can turn into a pipeline to more reckless thoughts.

(I was toying with the idea of doing a Mandy story with this theme; but the problem is that it would be a big Author tract and I usually design the stories to be open to interpretation so I don’t know if I should send it)

There’s this great story of the George Perez Wonder Woman comic series that dealt with this matter, better than a mediocre episode of Justice League which tried to deal with a similar theme. The story was that there was this island much like Themyscira, except that its inhabitants came to be through a violent revolution where most of the men died. Despite banning men from coming to the island, the argonaut Jason and his crew came into the island, seducing the women which resulted in many offspring. However Jason and the crew abandoned them, and the islanders took ”justice” by slaughtering all the remaining men (mostly infants) including the Queen’s own father and son and banishing her and her daughter. In the end, it was revealed that because it was a ”paradise” brought by prejudice and violence, and with no one left to fight now that all the men were dead, the women turned their anger towards and slaughtered each other, the society collapsed. Maybe you can use it as an allegory for something in real life, IDK. But the Themyscira shown in that same series as ruled by Hippolyta and Diana did not suffer from this problem as they chose a more peaceful approach (in fact, any instances of writers portraying a more flawed version of Wonder Woman’s homeworld usually go use Amazon stereotypes, and those tend to be poorly written)

https://unbidden-yidden.tumblr.com/post/733640314679689216/there-are-two-related-things-ive-noticed-coming

[slimeywooper]

Labmas AU - Unintended Consequences

Chapter 14 Part 1 - Revelation

Colress is silent for a few moments, waiting until he's sure you are gone before addressing the hybrids, "Let's head back downstairs. Kudari, you are going back to your room, and Nobori, I need to speak with you in my office." They leave the tram room, making their way through the first floor, to the elevator. Kudari is still sniffling, but keeping it together, while Nobori pats his abdomen every now and then to comfort him. When they have arrived outside Kudari's room, Colress opens the door, outstretching his arm, "Well, Kudari, your domain awaits."

Kudari pauses on the way in, "May I go visit Ingo and Emmet?" he asks. "I want to practice leaving the laboratory."

Reacting as if he's taken a brick to the face, Colress adamantly refuses, "Absolutely not. You're not going anywhere."

"But I need to get used to being out for when I leave here someday to find a mate!" Kudari argues.

"Ha ha ha ha," Colress can't suppress his laughter, earning him a scowl from Kudari. "Don't get your hopes up," he jeers. "For a minute I thought you were being serious."

Temper flaring, Kudari asserts, "I am serious, and I will find a mate!"

Colress is still smirking but regains his composure, explaining, "I don't doubt you will try, but you won't succeed. When people look for mates, they don't want volatile children who fly off the handle at the smallest inconvenience. But, let's not think of hypothetical futures."

Turning to Nobori, Kudari pokes him in the chest with a sharp finger, "You get to leave here, while I am imprisoned." There's an undercurrent of rage in his voice.

Making a hurt face from the implication, Nobori tries to diffuse the situation by stating, "I'm not having any fun outside, I assure you. I'm working."

Kudari angrily retorts, "You get to interact with people in your own way. I know what you do!"

Face falling, putting his fingers to his temple in frustration, Colress admonishes him, "Everyone does, he can't do anything else. Now, get in there. Don't make me use it." Not quite finished, he adds, "And do something about that nasty thing on your neck. I'm not taking care of you if it gets infected."

Baring his teeth, Kudari returns to his room.

"Happy birthday, Kudari," Colress yells to him, just before the door completely closes. Looking to Nobori now, he says, "Let's make our way to my office. There is something I would like to discuss with you." Receiving a nod in acknowledgement, they head back to the elevator, riding it to reach the second floor. Passing a few other researchers on the way to their destination, no greetings are exchanged, but fearful looks are given to Nobori. Once inside his office, they go to the back of the room. Colress reveals why they have come here, "I have another job for you, but it can wait until tomorrow night. It's your birthday, afterall. And here, this is for you." He reaches into his desk and retrieves a clear plastic container. Inside is a decorative cupcake in the colors of a Chandelure.

Nobori pauses before reaching to take the gift. "Dr. Colress, you really didn't have to. I thank you sincerely," he says in astonishment.

He doesn't react to Nobori's thanks, only remarking, "Don't you dare share it with Kudari. You know how he gets when he has sugar. Now please leave, I have work to do."

"Of course. Should you need anything…" Nobori tips his hat and makes his leave. He rides the elevator down once more, anticipating spending the rest of his day alone in his room. As the doors open, he spots you exiting the wash room. Approaching cautiously, he comments, "(Y/N), I hope you are not in too poor a mood. It pains me to see you get treated like that. If it were up to me, I would be the only one receiving Dr. Colress' ire."

You weren't expecting to see him again today, but it's a welcome surprise. "I'll be fine, Colress just has a talent for being an asshole. And besides, even if you could, I wouldn't want you to go through that. Being one of his punching bags isn't fun, I can't imagine how bad it would be if someone were to be his sole victim." You shake your head, meeting his gaze. "I should also apologize to you for not realizing it was your birthday," you tell him, feeling terrible, even though there was no way for you to know without expressly being told. Spotting the cupcake in his hand, you perk up, asking, "Oh, did someone give you that?"

"Don't worry about it," he assures you. Raising the item slightly, he answers, "Yes, this was given to me by Dr. Colress, if you can believe it. I was told not to offer any to Kudari. As you know, he isn't allowed to have such things, but I couldn't possibly eat it without sharing some with him. You can have it," he holds the container out, waiting for you to grab it.

Taking it in your hands, you begin to protest, "But, it's your birthday. I should be giving something to you, not receiving anything!" Guilt is starting to bubble up inside you.

"Please don't feel such a way. Your friendship is the best gift I've ever received." That is such a sweet sentiment that you feel your face begin to glow. He smiles at you softly. "Do you need my assistance, or are you faring well enough solo?"