#horrific behaviour

[psyaurorak]

Alright… so a year ago I went and joined the LO discord…

And lemme tell ya, they legitimately SUCK

There’s more but this got me SO MAD last year. Led to me leaving.

[rebellum]

I feel like... Perhaps... Arguing that transphobia is defined by murder and that anything other than murder doesn't even matter... May NOT be conducive to fighting for trans rights.

Like... people want the right to exist as they are. They want to have access to hrt and surgeries and prosthetics. People want access to clothes that fit them and reflect how they want to be seen. People want access to medical care (eg. Getting screened and treated for sex-based forms of cancer can be impossible if you have the "wrong" sex listed to receive those tests). People want to be respected and treated well. People want to not be sexually assaulted and beaten and abused. People want to have access to housing and jobs, and the protection to not lose those things for being trans. People want access to shelters for homeless people or survivors of domestic abuse. People want name changes.

Acting like all of those things don't matter because at least they weren't murderered by an individual (and instead die of suicide or state violence, or survive and suffer) isn't okay.

[zazikels]

can the da fandumb stop throwing around words like gestapo and concentration camps about the templars/circles like please grow a braincell or three.

[benevolenterrancy]

hi! I recently came across your tgcf fics, and I wanted to say you’re a phenomenal creator. the recovery series fic and the gloves fic and just all of them. thank you for your content and great attention to detail.

do you have any thoughts/hcs on FXMQ and Xie Lian you’d be willing to share? within the original story or the universes of your fics!

Thank you so much, I'm glad you're enjoying them! (ﾉ*^▽^*)ﾉ.｡:*☆

hmm, random thoughts about the FXMQ... a silly headcanon: Feng Xin has very much been hoisted by his own petard by heckling Mu Qing! That is to say, he'll harass Mu Qing relentlessly about something stupid only to be confronted with a similar situation and realise that there's absolutely NO way he can act in anyway similar to Mu Qing or he'll never hear the end of it.

(For example, he has tolerated some truly atrocious divine statues in the past because he's heckled Mu Qing so much about how picky he is with his divine statues that there's no WAY he can say ANYTHING without seeing that smug bastard's face in his head so he just has to bite his tongue and tolerate some unspeakably ugly statues.)

Mu Qing doesn't generally suffer from similar overthinking (he'll just prepare to kick FX's ass if he dares to say anything about it) except for things more directly related to himself. I think he genuinely finds sewing/embroidery/etc rather relaxing work but he'd rather die than have anyone ever see him do it because he's made such a big deal about not doing that sort of "servant" work anymore.

(He actually really enjoyed stitching Ruoye back together because it gave him the perfect excuse -- he's returning a favour!! and Xie Lian is hopeless!! of course he had to!! -- and he secretly considered using white thread to embroider some invisible little designs just because he doesn't quite want to stop... only he knew he'd get caught if he messed with Xie Lian's spiritual device like that and gave up the idea)

[fondfamilies]

people who say they stopped liking reid in 'memoriam' & call him whiny for how he acts in it?? fuck u fuck u fuck u, exercise just the tiniest amount of empathy please fucking hell

[megabuild]

Hello, I am from Gaza, due to the shortage of medicine in Gaza, my mother who is a type 1 diabetic and was supposed to undergo urgent eye surgery, has not been able to get insulin or any medical care for the past three months. . Some members of my family fled to the southernmost part of Gaza (Rafah) in tents. But my parents and sisters have nowhere else to stay. They are forced to stay in the Nuseirat refugee camp, which has been bombed since the beginning of Christmas. "I am on my knees asking for your donations. Please help me. where you can.

Goal: $700

You are so blatantly a scammer and liar attempting to profit off the genocide of thirty thousand people. So lazy you can't even write unique messages and copy paste this into hundreds of people's askbox all while thousands are murdered, you are fucking deplorable, you disgust me.

Please donate to the actual GoFundMe the pictures and story have been stolen from instead.

[ndcultureis]

Neurodivergent culture is your overprotective parents not giving you anything u can call "privacy" or "intimacy". Your bedroom doesn't have door, you have to change and take shower with someone literally sitting and literally keeping eye on you. Who cares you're 17 and you're perfectly capable of doing it on your own? Not them

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[worstloki]

Thor: Call me stupid once, shame on you!

Thor: Call me stupid twice, shame on me!

Thor: Call me stupid three times... why do you keep calling me stupid? It's hurtful :(

[indigomovn]

Before you all go and defend judy for stalking nct and breaking in to jaehyun’s room because she’s so pretty and “it’s not that serious”, just to let you know, stalking is a crime and should be taken seriously, especially in a world where you can access and collect others’ personal data and private information online.

[iandarling]

Yes, Debbie is annoying and makes horrific choices but let us not forget how she grew up…

In the Pilot we see a 10 year old Debbie bring her toddler brother to school because someone needs to babysit him and Fiona’s got work.

In season 1 episode 2 Debbie is terrified her father has died and spends her day searching for her missing dad, and once he returns she wants to hear stories of his trip to Canada because she’s still a little kid

In season 1 episode 3 Debbie gains a maternal figure in the senile woman her family steals borrows from a nursing home. She spends a full 24 hours loving her and creating memories she never got to have with either of her grandparents or Monica. She knows this isn’t the real Aunt Ginger but she mourns her loss as if she was real

In season 1 episode 4 Debbie borrows steals a neighbourhood toddler because she was desperate for attention and no one wanted to bake a pie with her. She tells her family she misses aunt ginger and fiona responds “who?”

In season 1 episode 10 Monica returns saying she loves her and misses her, but she’s here to take steal Liam and “start a family of her own”. Fiona moves out of the house, and in the end Monica leaves her yet again

In season 2 episode 3 Debbie witnesses an old man die and is horrified to learn that her loved ones can also die and therefore leave her forever

In season 2 episode 9 Monica returns and Debbie is the only one worried about her dead grandmother laying alone in a hospital freezer

In season 2 episode 11 Debbie’s mother attempts suicide in front of her and her new nephew isn’t even Lips so she lost him too

In season 2 episode 12 Debbie helps break her mother out of hospital and she leaves her yet again shouting “i love you debbie!” as she drives away

In season 3 episode 1 her father has been missing for 140 days and she’s the only one in the family who cares while the others ignore her fear of loosing Frank

In season 3 episode 2 Frank destroyed her history project and her childhood with it. She finally understands who he truly is and she has now lost both parents

[incorrectbuckandeddie]

[nellasbookplanet]

Isn't it funny how today it’s pretty common belief on here that the idea of 'cringe' and shaming of people who like 'cringe' things is bad. That the big fandoms back in the day that people like to make fun of - superwholock and john green books and twilight and homestuck and whatever was popular at the time - certainly had elements very deserving of critique, but how that critique largely drowned under people pointing and laughing at, the mostly teen girl, fans. Like, we are pretty agreed that this was bad, right? That it’s cruel to actual people and makes it difficult to have genuine conversations about the actual flaws of the media and fandoms in question, right??

And yet here we are today and I see people doing the exact same thing to newer fandoms with the defense that the fans are cringe or, if you're trying to be all moral about it, problematic and possibly evil for liking a popular media. Like, I don’t care about reylo or our flag means death or taylor swift or romantasy novels to any particular extent. I don’t have a horse in this race. But I keep seeing their fans treated as acceptable targets for harrassment or bullying. Posts talking about how immoral they are and then their screenshoted 'proof' is mostly just. Women being passionate about a thing that they love, or god forbid daring to defend it or being bummed about everyone else harrassing them. And I think it's kind of scary how we keep repeating this cycle of designating a media as inherently problematic, therefore all of its fans are problematic, therefore they are deserving of every ounce of mocking and public shaming they get.

[year2007]

ive had multiple ppl tell me they noticed i lost weight after my suicidal spiral and anorexia nervosa resurgence (hair falling out and corners of lips tearing) and im like 1. oh ok so it is getting pretty bad but also 2. wait so you noticed *hair tuck behind ear* BUT i have my meds and weed and i got some groceries ln and im gaining my weight back 🤦🏻‍♀️

[timcurry-imgoinghomedotmp4]

the original sin of hotd is that the writers can't grasp that there's a difference between streamlining a messy book into compelling television and hurtling the characters quickly through a series of events with little to no time to breathe, feel emotions, or make the stakes resonate

[onlineviolence]

I love jail birds (IM ill im ill im ill im ill im ill im ill im ill im ill im ill im ill) Im so normal aboit them! (LET ME OIT OF MY ENCLOSURE) and i think they love wach other so much (THEIR SOULS WOULD TWIST AND THEIR HEARTS WOULD SHATTER IF ONE OF THEM DIES) i love you gamble and yaoiel (IM SCRATCHING AT THE WALLS LET ME OIT!!!!!! IM SO NORMAL!!!!)

GHGHHGHGHFFGGFFGGFGHHGHGHGHJHG H YEAH

YOUGET ME IM NOT NORMAL ABOUT THEM AT ALL. THEYRE SO

[ugartecoco]

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