#high value man

[sk-lumen]

What a healthy, secure relationship looks like

He communicates consistently and clearly. Replies promptly, doesn't leave you on seen, checks up on you throughout the day/week according to his schedule and in agreement with your needs as well.

He pays attention to your needs and desires and quirks, and makes your life better using said details. Ie. buys your favorite kind of flowers, makes your favorite tea in the morning, remembers your food allergies when having dinner dates, etc.

Disagreements may still appear even in health relationships, and it's ok, as communication is essentual for a healthy dynamic. However, his approach to disagreements is a secure one: each will share their perspective, and if feelings were hurt or mistakes were made, he takes accountability for his side, and makes genuine apologies followed by reparations and direct actions (ie. "I'm sorry I did x, I didn't mean to hurt you. I will be/do y in the future", and then does as he promised).

Promises are kept. His actions are in alignment with his words, and he keeps his words. If he says he'll call you after work, he does. If he says he needs to cool off during an argument and will reopen the conversation in 1h, he does indeed return in 1h to continue the topic.

If you're anxious, he will reassure you and work through it. He doesn't run away or avoid the topic (as an avoidantly attached person would).

If you come forward communicating your needs, or sharing complaints or grievances, he will hear you out and actively seek a way to improve things. He won't freak out, or get angry or run away in response to you having needs or communicating your thoughts; these are normal relationship things you're entitled to, and a securely attached man knows this.

A man that is well-rounded, with a secure attachment style, will have a rich life of his own: hobbies, interests, circles of friends, activities, etc. He will enjoy having his independence and space, and will respect your need for your own. He is not co-dependent, nor gets in the way of you having your own life outside of him. He knows having individually rich lives is important for a healthy relationship. To expand on this, he encourages you to enjoy your selfcare time, your girl's night out, or whatever other activities nourish you.

[iamwinklebottom]

THEME: “Random Ass Messages?”

Choices:

1. If this resonates with you, consider getting a personal reading here @ https://www.iamwinklebottom.com/shop/advice-psychic-mediumship-divination/32

• I keep hearing “Can’t Get You Out Of My Head” by Kylie Minogue: https://youtu.be/c18441Eh_WE?si=vfUS2-a-jjamnS81

In the past, you used to fall in love with unworthy people and easily become obsessed a lot. You healed from this and realized that you went through these karmic cycles so many times, so your heart won’t get stolen by unworthy beings anymore.

You are very high vibrational. Please be careful. Check your astrology chart and become familiar with it.

You may not realize it, but people become obsessed with you easily. If you’re in danger, please reach out to me if you want my professional help and services: https://www.iamwinklebottom.com/shop/conjure-services/30

Dealing with stalkers can be very weird and uncomfortable, but please understand what the situation tells you and is teaching you about the “human condition” and your future.

Low vibrational obsession is not attractive or cute, but many people don’t understand that. Protect yourself. Some stalkers genuinely do attack and even hate the people they’re obsessed with and cannot possess.

2. If this resonates with you, consider getting a personal reading here @ https://www.iamwinklebottom.com/shop/advice-psychic-mediumship-divination/32

• I’m hearing a song I wrote. It’s personal and not public yet, but it’s about seeing a divine lover in a dream.

You need to start preparing yourself for love. I offer Divine Romantic Union Preperation services and Divine Love services: https://www.iamwinklebottom.com/s/search?q=Divine%20

These magical services also help with being able to only accept high quality love and give high vibrational love to high vibrational beings who actually deserve it.

Some self love work will benefit you too + Beauty Conjure & Confidence Charisma Conjure: https://www.iamwinklebottom.com/shop/conjure-services/30

You really feel like you’ll be alone for the rest of your life. You’ve grown comfortable with that because of your past, but please understand that you specifically are meant to love and be loved genuinely. Great luck and much love to you.

3. If this resonates with you, consider getting a personal reading here @ https://www.iamwinklebottom.com/shop/advice-psychic-mediumship-divination/32

• I’m hearing “Hey Joe” by Jimi Hendrix: https://youtu.be/biguQQBpHjY?si=fv1DGjjjUgf7fs1E

At first I felt feelings of nervousness. Like “oh god.”

I heard “hey Joe, where you goin wit that gun in yo hand… I’m going to shoot my old lady; I caught her messin round with another man,” but that was just my human self perceiving only the meaning of the song.

You’re safe. Don’t worry. I’m not channeling MUCH about violence.

The thing is, this message is about Jimi Hendrix himself. He was perceived as ONLY a talented, confident, and charismatic sex symbol. Yes, he had those traits, but he was honestly very shy and kind (he did become violent when his mental health started to decline, so continue to prioritize emotional stability please: https://www.iamwinklebottom.com/product/-emotional-stability-conjure-service/260?cp=true&sa=false&sbp=false&q=true).

People will perceive your power and want you far away from them, but so close at the same time. You are a spectacle: a rare breed of being that people want to degrade and abuse, view up close with a glass between contact, or drag you into their personal space to hold forever. Be aware of this.

You must understand the vortex swirling around you and your existence. You are an odd starlight. It can be beautiful and healing, don’t let it become dangerous and unhealthy FOR YOU…

Prioritize evolution and development to assist you in this lifetime and the lifetimes after. Proper social navigation is necessary as well: https://www.iamwinklebottom.com/product/-social-navigation-conjure-service/295?cp=true&sa=false&sbp=false&q=true

[yaboiyeeyee]

No one asked but i made more doctor who memes while we watched another episode

[smokeringsofmemory]

Hey ladies just popping in bc I have been seeing waaaaay too much content on “high value men” on my already narrowed + selective media platforms, so I just wanna drop a few things here:

Looking fantastic won’t put you in the same class. -This is a lesson that I learned inadvertently, and then explicitly when I realized that those around me who came from well-to-do backgrounds or Ivy-League universities were looking for someone to match their lifestyle— not just aesthetically, but intellectually as well. I’m not just saying “read a lot of books”; there is a cultural fluency that is expected (even if it’s entitled) that they expect you to know (and definitely respect!!!!!) in their spaces. Please don’t be too enamored with the high-quality man who might notice your pretty face, take you out, and then not speak to you again— or only expect sex. These men will step out of their statuses for flings but not for futures.

Yes: family matters. And I think it’s really sad and unfortunate and *extraordinarily unfair* but the reality is that they want to know where and from who you come from. I’ve seen this to be the case because those in good social standing rely on the continuation and support of that to happen with whoever they decide to bring home/marry. I know that insane/awful/devious stuff happens to rich people too, but if they feel as though your family isn’t a “fit” then it might be a bust.

They expect you to know what you’re getting yourself into. I’m in a very loving relationship right now and although I’m not dating anymore, this lesson still stays with me— and I oftentimes share it to warn my girlfriends. *The top 10% of men know that you’re competing to have them, and they’re moving accordingly.* So I ask you: if this is the tier that’s in your vicinity and that you’re looking to date, mark your priorities. A faithful man can be hard to find, *but a faithful man making 6 figures and up*? Don’t be surprised if he doesn’t stick around and/or expects the world from you. These men do believe that they have the world to give, and many women treat them as such. A faithful man was my biggest non-negotiable, and I started realizing just how insane the numbers are. Call it misogyny or whatever you want, but if you want high-value men, you’ve got to be top of your game. You should take excellent care of yourself (non-negotiable), have great characteristics, and know that men who want you will do anything for you. There’s no need to worry about that.

Many men won’t keep their word. One of my girlfriends said to me: “I’d pay you $100 to date an American.” I’m black + my man is Kurdish, but my pattern of dating Eastern European men has long since been established… but anyways, something that would make me insane would be men who wouldn’t keep their word with me. I found it traumatic. I found it condescending. But more often than not, I KNEW THAT IF HE DIDN’T KEEP HIS WORD FOR HIMSELF THAT HE MOST CERTAINLY WOULDN’T KEEP IT WITH ME. Ladies: pay attention. If a man commits to something, he’ll follow through. Even if it’s hard, even if it takes time… he’ll make it happen. These are the men who will make you feel safest and re-assured. Why? *Most women associate money with stability and security and most men find it burdensome.* The men who find it burdensome are typically the ones who have (or have had) a lot of it and know the hardship it can bring: such as everyone expecting so much more out of you (including women). It’s a weird thing that men have explained to me, and I can tell that having money makes them even wearier of women, but *know that men who can exhibit his abilities to commit to his word is a man who can yield you the safety and protection you are looking for and also propel you and him both into the life of your dreams.* -That’s all for now, ta-ta ladies!!! xoxoxo

[subcoolture]

The only reason I still have a small hope in love is because Taylor Swift found Joe Alwyn. And I don’t mean it in a ‘she finally got lucky’ way, I mean it in a ‘Joe Alwyn exists so that means good men ARE POSSIBLE’. Taylor is not only beautiful and talented, she is also outspoken and blunt talking about women’s rights, and Joe Alwyn is not only not turned off by that like other men, it is obvious he admires her and loves her for all that she is and stands for. He is a symbol of hope, and I hope men took notes instead of being beta males that don’t know what to do with an intelligent, corageous and free woman.

[luxuryandlilacs]

Man, so 99% of men really are trash eh?

Nope. I would say about 40%, but they’re just the loudest. The high-value and average ones are just busy living their lives.

[sk-lumen]

Hi there! Looking for a lil advice about an interaction i had recently that’s left me confused! A guy about my age (25/30) came into my work (restaurant) on Valentine’s day to pickup food for a doordash, and came back after the delivery to give me his number because he thought i was so pretty and nice. I thought he was cute and so we texted for a bit and made plans for a coffee date on saturday. Friday night he texts me saying he’s at the bar and asks if I wanna join him for a drink, im at work so say it’s too late but that i still am excited for our date tomorrow. He never responds and ghosted me for the whole day of our date. the next day he texts apologizing saying he was really sick and didn’t go on his phone the whole day of our date. Obviously a cop out/lie but i’m wondering why he even gave me his number if he didn’t want to actually go out? our texts were pretty generic and limited to 10ish a day but it was only 3 days between our meet and planned date, nothing really happened in those texts- why cancel? Left me feeling so confused!

Hi doll,

The answer is always in how a man makes you feel.

Confusion and anxiety = he's not that into you and/or in his toxic masculine.

Clarity and calm = he's into you & he's in his healthy masculine.

There's no two ways about this. I've tested this time and time again, and how a man makes you feel says everything about his intentions and masculine energy.

He probably did like you but not enough to fully commit to meeting up - most likely he got drunk and lonely, and hung out with another girl or with his friends. Not worth your time. Delete his number and move on darling. I don't recommend giving a second chance to any guy that ghosts you even once. Get used to seeing any disrespect as a dealbreaker, otherwise you're just teaching them it's okay to mistreat you and get away with it.

You deserve a classy dinner date where the communication is consistent and he treats you like a princess.

-Lumen

[nayypretty]

healthy love relationship

Comunicación Abierta y Honesta

La base de cualquier relación sólida es la comunicación. Habla abiertamente con tu pareja sobre tus sentimientos, deseos y preocupaciones. La honestidad fomenta la confianza y evita malentendidos.

Respeto Mutuo

Respeta las opiniones, deseos y límites de tu pareja. El respeto mutuo es esencial para una relación equilibrada y armoniosa.

Tiempo de Calidad Juntos

Dedica tiempo a hacer actividades que ambos disfruten. Esto fortalece el vínculo y crea recuerdos positivos.

Apoyo y Comprensión

Apoya a tu pareja en sus metas y sueños. La comprensión y el apoyo mutuo son fundamentales para el crecimiento individual y de la relación.

Espacio Personal

Es importante que cada uno tenga su propio espacio y tiempo para actividades individuales. Esto ayuda a mantener la independencia y a evitar la sensación de asfixia.

Resolución de Conflictos

Aprende a manejar los conflictos de manera constructiva. Evita las críticas destructivas y busca soluciones juntos. La clave es escuchar y entender el punto de vista del otro.

Expresión de Afecto

No olvides expresar tu amor y aprecio de manera regular. Pequeños gestos de cariño pueden hacer una gran diferencia en la relación.

Crecimiento Personal y de Pareja

Trabaja en tu propio crecimiento personal y fomenta el crecimiento de tu pareja. Una relación saludable es aquella en la que ambos individuos pueden desarrollarse plenamente.

Confianza

La confianza es la base de cualquier relación. Evita las mentiras y las acciones que puedan dañar la confianza mutua.

Diversión y Espontaneidad

Mantén la chispa viva con momentos de diversión y espontaneidad. Las sorpresas y las actividades inesperadas pueden revitalizar la relación.

tiktok: nayygirl1

youtube: nayybienestar

instragram: nayybienestar

🏎💗🌿

[joyboythehopepunk]

the idea that people need to love themselves first before they are capable of a healthy/good relationship (or finding one) needs to end.

we don't live in a world which produces healthy people or healthy ways of being.

even if you happen to love yourself, that doesn't keep you from being traumatized, or fucked up. it doesn't keep you from meeting people who are likewise. you can love yourself and know yourself and still be fucked up.

hell, some of the most fucked up people are very into themselves.

loving yourself is good for what it is: having an appreciation of your own life.

lastly: just because you DON'T love yourself doesn't mean you're not worthy of love.

any fault you can imagine having - whether it is being needy or anxious, or having issues with setting boundaries - has a solution or work-around. there is almost always something you can do about whatever you feel is lacking in your life.

self-love isn't just about accepting. it is also about knowing oneself and improving. this doesn't make you more worthy of love, either.

you can be a great person and still end up in fucked up situations. just like you can be a shitty person and end up in luxurious situations. that is just how our world is. it is unfair. luckily we have the ability to make it more fair. to make it better for everyone.

last but not least: having your shit together doesn't make you MORE worthy of a relationship or person. if a person likes you, it shouldn't be for what you have or what you are. it should be for WHO you are.

and some mf really just like toxic people.

Loving yourself is essential for having good relationships with others and living a fulfilling life.

When you focus on finding love from others instead of loving yourself, it can cause problems. You may feel unsure about yourself and depend on others to feel good. This can lead to bad relationships where you accept mistreatment because you're afraid of being alone. It can also make your emotions unstable because your happiness depends on what others think of you. You might forget who you really are and have trouble setting boundaries. Others might see you as too needy, and you may feel disappointed when people don't give you the love you want. Not loving yourself can hold you back from growing and trying new things.

But if you choose to love yourself first, you'll benefit in many ways. You'll become more confident and believe in yourself. You'll have healthier relationships because you'll know what you deserve and set limits. You'll handle tough times better and become stronger emotionally. When you love and accept yourself, you'll naturally grow and improve. This will bring more happiness and satisfaction in your life. Loving yourself is essential for having good relationships with others and living a fulfilling life.

[justoneletter]

Here’s what I don’t get.. As a man, what does it say about you when you think fucking a woman lowers her value?

[ranjith11]

9 Things Women INSTANTLY Notice About High Value Men

9 Things Women INSTANTLY Notice About High Value Men - How to Attract Girls In today's video, we're delving into the intriguing world of dating, relationships, and self-improvement, exploring the qualities that catch a woman's attention when it comes to high value men. Have you ever wondered what makes certain men stand out from the rest and how to be that attractive alpha male? Well, you're about to find out!

[severeactions]

http://tee.pub/lic/It1GYByyelQ

Visit my store on TeePublic

[thombyxbe]

The Ultimate Guide to Being a High Value Man

Being a high value man is an art that requires a combination of traits, behaviors, and attitudes that make you a person of great worth and value. A high value man is confident, assertive, and ambitious. He has a clear sense of purpose and direction in life, and he knows what he wants and how to get it. To become a high value man, you must cultivate certain qualities that will set you apart from…

[feminineenergylife]

Date a man who provides 100%, no matter how much money you make #ProviderMenOnly

[qrgshvkfbnhfbbgf]

"Darcy just had social anxiety"

Wrong.

Darcy enters the party, mumbles something about being a high value man, and sits in the corner on his phone. The golden retriever bisexual himbo he is inexplicably besties with goes over, "hey, why don't you come and talk? There's even cute girls here!" He responds "no, I know I'm worth better."

Bingly tries again, "hey, what about that girl? She's Jane's sister, she looks nice"

"She's like a solid 3, 3.5 on a good day. Even you don't go that low. Leave me alone, come back if you have anything interesting to say"

Like if that guy stared at you for months and never spoke and then asked you out in a very dickhead way? Yeah.

[succulentsiren]

As the legend tells, never believe men’s words, watch their actions and you will know everything.

Men will swear up and down that they won’t participate in ‘simp’ behavior yet the moment they find the girl they adore, all that goes out the window and they become natural providers and protecters who will willingly dote on and adore their partner. It’s literally in a their nature to be providers and care for women. It makes no difference how much they reject it or disown it in speech, it is the natural role they’ll eventually take.