#heteroace

[chadchadsonthesnail]

Hey! If you are queer and you don't think bi people, pan people, asexual people, or aromantic people are valid? Go fuck yourself! If you don't think Heterosexual Aromantic people and Heteroromantic Asexual people are members of the LGBTQIA+ community? Go fuck yourself! If you say "I wouldn't date a bisexual/biromantic person because they are attracted to/have dated [the opposite gender]."? Go fuck yourself! If I see any lesbian say that shit, I block them! Because guess what? There are also lesbians who have dated guys! I'm one of them! I did that before I realized I wasn't attracted to them! So go fuck yourself! If you say that trans people/people under the trans umbrella aren't valid? Go fuck yourself! If you think that alloromantic asexuals are not valid? Go fuck yourself! If you think that allosexual aromantic people aren't valid? Go fuck yourself! If you think someone isn't a valid lesbian because they think some men look pretty/are aesthetically attractive? Go fuck yourself! Same for the other way around with gay men finding a women pretty/aesthetically attractive! And anyone who says "oh you aren't bi/pan because you are in a relationship with a man/women, or because when asked you listed more men/women that you were attracted to than the other gender, so you are just gay/straight!" No! Go fuck yourself! If you say that being nonbinary, or having any gender identity other than trans man or trans woman doesn't make you a part of the community, and that the only valid gender identities outside of cis woman and cis man are trans woman or trans man? Go fuck yourself!

We are ALL facing hate, and we do not deserve to get hate from within! Because we are all valid!

If you hate on people like this, you are just as bad as homophobes and transphobes, because JUST LIKE THEM, you are hating on someone for their attraction, or for their gender identity!

It's fine if your attraction is mainly towards cisgender women or men because both the gender identity AND the physical body parts are part of your attraction. You didn't make that choice, you aren't excluding them out of hate. But if it's towards cisgender people solely to exclude trans people? Yeah, go fuck yourself. Because you don't control what factors into your attraction, so having something like that be part of your attraction is fine. If your attraction is towards both people who identify as female AND people who have a vulva, or vice versa, yeah, you do you, you didn't choose for the presence or lack of a primary or secondary sex characteristic, that's just a part of your attraction. But the MOMENT the intent is to exclude trans people, you are just being an asshole.

So yeah, if you think that any of the identities I mentioned aren't valid? Let me know so I can block you!

Everyone else, if you are part of any of these identities, as someone who falls under a few of these categories, (Asexual, Asexual Alloromantic, Falling under the nonbinary umbrella) I will always accept you. As long as you yourself are not being exclusionary. You are JUST as valid as anyone else!

Signed, an Asexual Lesbian Demigirl

[aroaceconfessions]

This feels like something that for some reason only happens to me but I find it really annoying when people tell me I'm not straight or can't be straight becase I'm asexual like uhh. I like the opposite gender? But since I don't want sex that suddenly makes me not straight? Just let me call myself straight please. Also is it bad that I don't really want to be involved in the LGBT community or be called queer just because I don't like sex? Genuine question cause some friends were acting like they were betrayed or something.

Submitted April 28, 2023

[whitestgray]

TIAU Part 31: Geno and Reaper.

This will be sad for all of you Afterdeath fans, but they are not dating and they do not love each other romantically. In fact, Geno is heteroace.

However, they do love each other platonically and consider themselves best friends! They are very close, though Geno acts cold and Reaper usually sleeps while visiting her. Reaper understands Geno only acts like that because she’s stuck in the Save Screen, and Geno understands Reaper sleeps because she’s tired, as she’s busy.

[our-aroace-experience]

at the beginning of this year, I was really desperate for a relationship because everyone I saw was in one and I wanted to fit in. I was watching a video and when it said something about asexuality, I was intrigued and realized "Wow, this is me." so I started identifying as heteroace. I then decided to question my romantic orientation for the hell of it, and I realized that I really like the thought of romance, but never felt romantic attraction, only squishes.

Conclusion: I was an aroace in denial for like 4 or 5 months.

i'm glad you've found what works!

[ultimateotaku666]

Persona 3, 4, & 5 Protag sexuality headcanons

Disclaimer: I am not going to include the first three Persona games as I have no way to play and figure them out, but maybe I'll find a way.

Another disclaimer: I sadly won't include the FeMC, as I haven't played P3 Portable. But I got it recently, and I shall repost once I finish!

Makoto Yuki:

HeteroAce. I know it seems like a cop-out, but I think it fits him well. He probably never thought about romance and didn't think he would ever fall in love. Then he meets the girl of his dreams (me and my fiancé say Fuuka) and he finally understands.

Another idea is AroAce, it's more an idea.

Yu Narukami:

Polysexual and possibly Polyamorus. Persona protags are lady killers, but it doesn't mean that they can't also be different. Narukami is no exception. He gives off Polysexual vibes. You have many female options, so there's one. Yosuke was supposed to be a romance option (we were robbed!!), so already makes sense. And I headcanon Naoto being Non-binary or Genderfluid, so check on that! As for the Polyamory, depending on who you romance, you could be a throuple (We imagine Narukami, Naoto, and Kanji. It would be sweet).

Akira Kurusu:

Pansexual. I know we have many female options, but four of them are adults. And I know Japan is different, but its still strange. But that's a rant for later! And let me say we all know that if we had male options, people would have Ryuji and Yusuke as their partner. Plus, Akira seems like he doesn't discriminate (like I said, he dates adults), and he values their emotions and love.

These are just headcanons, so if you don't agree, that's perfectly fine! Everyone has an opinion, and they can be beautiful (not all and you know who you are 🫵😡)

Thank you for listening to my TED Talk!

[ibuprofen-exe]

WIP Introductions Part Two

Nuclear Fanfare

This is the second of several posts dedicated to introducing my dearly beloved original characters so that I may talk about the more in the future.

Part One

Warning: The post below the cut has mentions of car accidents and medical malpractice. There isn’t anything particularly graphic, but please stay safe.

Status: planning

Medium: script

In an America where creative expression is stifled and monopolized by self-serving corporations, breaking into the scene as an independent is no small task. Tank Kim O'neel, along with his band Nuclear Fanfare, must navigate the perils of the entertainment industry with only the music in their hearts.

Characters:

Tank Kim O’neel, demigender (he/him, zey/zem), bisexual, disabled (Deafness and autism), Korean Irish American, Buddhist (4033-40??)

She’s A Rebel by Green Day Tank held a steadfast dream of becoming a musician, even after being blacklisted from the industry for hosting an alien parasite. He founded Nuclear Fanfare with the intention of realizing his dream with like-minded individuals. Fact: Tank has had cystic acne on zeir face since zey were a teenager. He used to hate himself for it, but has come to terms with his appearance.

Siren Rosenberg, demigender (she/her, they/them), bisexual, disabled (mute), Black American, Jewish (4032-4???)

Art-I-Fical by X Ray Spex Siren had long been an independent visual artist, but after a corporation experimented on her comatose body without her consent, she vowed to cause as much trouble for them as possible. She joined Nuclear Fanafre after tagging Tank’s studio, thinking it was an abandoned building. Fact: In their youth, Siren was a part of a fairly infamous graffiti duo.

Muhammad Lestari, transgender (she/her), heteroace, disabled (type one diabetes), Indonesian American, Muslim (4033-4???)

Transgender Dysphoria Blues by Against Me! Ever since Lestari was young, she understood that fast fashion had no intention of catering to people like her, so she sought to create her own fashion brand to express her style. She joined Nuclear Fanfare after Tank commissioned custom clothes from her. Fact: Lestari’s dream is to own her own boutique on the coast.

Yu Mi Lee, cisgender (she/her), lesbian, disabled (autism), Korean American, Agnostic (4032-4???)

Kiss Them for Me by Siouxsie and the Banshees Yu Mi was raised a Hollywood starlet, acting in films alongside her brother Howard, but a series of increasingly demanding projects wore down her health, forcing her into an early retirement. She joined Nuclear Fanfare after answering a call for a cinematographer for the band’s music videos. Fact: Yu Mi loves goth music and dances at goth nightclubs to unwind.

Howard Truman, transgender (he/him), biace, disabled (autism and ASPD), Korean American, Agnostic (4032-4???) 

Hollywood by Car Seat Headrest Howard was raised a Hollywood starlet but from a young age rejected the lifestyle, eventually culminating in him stabbing a director and being blacklisted for his attitude. He joined Nuclear Fanfare after Lestari convinced him to try music as an outlet for his frustrations with the entertainment industry. Fact: Howard legally changed his last name as a rejection of his parents, who he views as responsible for his childhood trauma.

Dalisay Fontana, butch (she/her), lesbian, disabled (surgical amputee), Filipino American, Catholic (4031-4???)

Cilantro by Patricia Taxxon After an accident stole her best friend and her dominant hand, Dalisay began to obsess over her artistic work as a way to cope, which earned her a fine arts scholarship and a gallery position. She learned of Nuclear Fanfare after a one night stand with Yu Mi. Fact: While pink is publicly her signature color, Dalisay actually prefers teal.

Settings:

Radio Valley

Video Killed the Radio Star by The Buggles A quiet town in the state of New Mexico that was once a hub for punk musicians. Vibes: long lines of telephone polls, tin barns, fine sand, fresh air, and towering mountains

Thank your for again for reading (⁠｡⁠･⁠ω⁠･⁠｡⁠)⁠ﾉ⁠♡

[eclecticelectriceccentric]

I had to combine arohomo + homoace + homorose, arohetero + heteroace + heterorose, aromulti + multiace + multirose because spacing; there are only allowed to be ten options and if I had the full options there'd be sixteen and I wanted the SAM non-aro/ace options to be included

[caughtthedarkness93]

I'm heteroace.

I spent about 28 years of my life thinking I was just straight.

When I realized I was wrong, I stopped calling myself straight.

I doubt it at this point, but if I realize I'm something other than I thought I was...oh well. I'll just call myself something else. I've done it before, where's the harm in me doing it again?

"B-b-but what if ur not actually aro!! What if u just haven't met the right person yet?? Ur still young 🥺"

Than I'll stop using the aro label. I'll realize that I was incorrect and go on with my life. No one's changed my mind yet though. I haven't met that "special someone 🥺🥺🥺🥺" "yet" so I don't care about this entirely hypothetical person.

Aphobes are stupid ngl. Realizing that this label doesn't fit me (which it will almost definitely still fit me as I get older) isn't going to be some world shattering event. I'll move on, I'll accept my mistake. Lol

I'm not ace, but this post wasn't about being aroallo so go wild, I se you aroaces and aces, y'all r cool so you can tag it as ace and aroace

[yluck13]

HeteroAce Flag created by me

Black: Represents asexuality

Blue: Represents cis and trans men

White: Represents romantic attraction to the opposite sex

Pink: Represents cis and trans women

Red: Represents romantic attraction

[vanellygal]

𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐓𝐎 𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐌𝐔𝐍

——— BASICS! ♡

(PEN)NAME: Nelly

PRONOUNS: She/Her (also fine with they)

ZODIAC SIGN: Gemini

TAKEN OR SINGLE: Single

INTROVERT, EXTROVERT, OR AMBIVERT: Introvert

IDENTITY: HeteroAce

——— THREE FACTS! ♡

1 - I love to travel and have been to many different states. Heck, I've been to Canada once too!  I have so many places I have yet to vacation.

2 - I have a beloved Nintendo Gamecube that I've held on to ever since I was in the first grade. I try not to play it a whole lot, reason being I'm trying to make it last longer. A little extra fact is that my favorite game on the console is Kirby Air Ride. (I'm still waiting on a sequel dangit D:< ) I have a favorite controller for it too! It's a bit worn out now.

3 - I have met a few smaller celebrities, including Nick Castle (original Michael Myers actor), Kane Hodder (played Jason Voorhees from F13th 7 - X), CJ Graham (played Jason Voorhees in F13th 6), and I've seen Robert Englund from a distance. I hope to continue to go to more conventions in the future and meet more people!

——— EXPERIENCE! ♡

YEARS OF WRITING: 9 years and counting

PLATFORMS USED (current): Tumblr, Discord.

PLOTTING / WINGING IT / MEMES: I can do all!

——— MUSE PREFERENCE! ♡

GENDER: Nah

MULTI OR SINGLE: Doesn't matter

LEAST FAVOURITE FACECLAIM(S): Huh(?) ಠ_ಠ?

——— FLUFF / ANGST / SMUT! ♡    

FLUFF: Yes 🥹💞

ANGST: Absolutely! Bring in the feels >:D

SMUT : NO.

tagged by: @drchandras-sanctuary-for-ais

tagging: I don't know of any other rp accounts so-

[mythicaldemigoddess-of-deltarune]

I Hate Michael Farris’s Anti-LGBTQ+ Group & Pastor Worley

[Note: Reading This Post Is Optional, also Don’t Reblog Without Permission.]  

I Deeply Hate Michael Farris And His "Alliance Defending Freedom" if it is true that group is just a Anti-LGBTQ+, then I have a right to hate that group and the man who made that group.

I hate Pastor Worley and he is likely will go to Hell, also there is other ways to reproduce, like having a surrogate for one, one who isn't a dirty shameless toxic-religious jerk.....plus there is adoption as well, couples can do either one or both. 

also someone could be Heteroromantic & be Ace and have two Dads who are supportive of their son or daughter being Heteroace. I found out about some super idiot Pastor Worley on Youtube, it's bad enough there is some hyper-h*rny jerks who have a problem with Aces...

also I know there are some Christians who aren’t Toxic-Christian,

but that Pastor is a Toxic-Christian, and he does know that there are some humans in this world who are bi, pan and omni, right...?

even if that video was from a few years ago, that Pastor is still a Toxic-Christian and the woman who defended him is a Toxic-Christian too...

even if I use to go by Christian, and I can still believe in God...

but I view myself as Neo-Spiritual, and I believe in a Goddess now as well.

also as weird as it sounds, I kind of view myself as a Rebel Earth Angel,

but not the same type as those Eon-Boomers...

what I want to Rebel for, is restoring the full balance between the Masculine and Feminine Energies, and the Toxic-Masculine is a bit higher than the Toxic-Feminine, but both still need to be fixed.

and yes I’m calling Lucifer a Eon-Boomer, even his Ficto-Counterparts are Eon-Boomers.

Lucifer from Hazbin Hotel, he is a Eon-Boomer...

Lucifer from the Lucifer Tv Series, he is a Eon-Boomer...

and if that Good Place Tv Series has a Lucifer in it, then he too, is a Eon-Boomer.

heck, I would even call Cain a Eon-Boomer....or would it be Eon-Xennials, while Adam, Eve and Lilith are Eon-Generation X...?

then again, let’s just go with “Eon-Boomers”....

even if Adam may or may not be Cain’s Bio-Dad, he was still his Dad and should of did better to make sure he didn’t succumb to the darkness in his heart.

plus who Cain’s Bio-Dad is suppose to be, can seem really confusing...

like is it Lucifer or Satan, or like Samael...?  

do we need to Jerry Springer this situation...

like can you picture them sitting on some chairs with Eve, and a audience doing that “Jerry, Jerry, Jerry!” chant...?

well no matter which one of those guys are Cain’s Bio-Dad, they ain’t the boss of me....even if I am Cain’s descendant, as well as Seth’s descendant...

would that still make those two like both my Grandpas and Grunkles...?

also even if I know it might not be possible, I wouldn’t mind if it turn out I was a descendant of Mary Magdalene, but I would prefer it if Jesus was just a distant cousin....I have my reasons...

yeah, I know Jesus is technically a distant cousin, because we are both descendants of King David....which once again, King David wasn’t 100% a good dad, because of the whole Tamar situation.

and being a descendant of King Solomon is still a blessing to me, not a curse.

it’s all a night party, and the jokes on those still view that whole being a descendant of Solomon and his son Rehoboam as a curse.

and the perfect song to play to that, is the song “The Jokes On You” by Niki Watkins.

also if certain info I had found before turn out to be true....

it would still make me wish I could grab both Jesus and The Antichrist by their ears.....and if Heavenly Father & Earthly Mother allowed it, I would do it...

I mean I had the thought of wanting to punch Mammon in the groin, and that was my first time thinking about doing that to a guy....and I have good reasons to want to punch Mammon in the groin...

also yeah I have bitter feelings to Satan, you know the real one, not the one from some Ficto-Universes...

and like I pointed out before, in one of my past lives, I was used in a ritual, in attic, and I am still not sure if it is the same George, because when I did try to look up some info about a attic and a man named George, who was suppose to be one of my past life self’s Dad, I ended up finding something that has to do with a Ghost named George who I guess lived in a Lady’s Attic and who had choked a guy...

but the chances of them being the same George is very small, plus it could turn out that there were two different Georges in two different attics...

I think that some past life memories wont be a full picture for some, and some can have bad luck way too many times possibly, because in most of their past lives they never reached to 13 years old...which I believe might of happen in most of my past lives, and you be lucky to make it to that age in your current life, and no one should die so young to the point when they become 3 or 4 years old, they get memory triggered and think if they wear a dress they will die like they did in one of their past lives when they were in a hospital and possibly waiting for their baby sibling to be born....I mean if a little kid dies a bit too young and gets reborn, they are possibly going to get the wrong impression and think they will end up the same way like in one of their past lives....

which I think might be the reason why I didn’t want to wear dresses when I was really little, I think it had to do with a past life memory being triggered...    

and yeah a part of me hopes some Satanist have some sense not to cross the line, and do those disgusting Satanic Rituals...

Satanist who do that stuff in real life, I call them Toxic-Satanist and they are on the Toxic-Religious list...Toxic-Christians are also on that list...

as well as the one who made me cry and made me feel really bad, who kept misusing the words “may god have mercy on you.” or “may the lord have mercy on you...” I know it was one of those two, but yeah even when I did try to point out that all they were doing was hurting me and making me cry, that Toxic-Religious person was being too stubborn, and might of thought they were “helping” but really, they were doing more harm than good, and well I had to block them over at where it all happen...

and now I can only hope I never run into them here or some other places I go to.

plus I had figured out the way they were using those words, were being misused.....so yeah, even if I told them that, they would likely not listen.

I know that some people in this world can be very passionate when it comes to their beliefs, like in religion for one...

but it might be really important to not go into a Toxic-Religious Zone, because if one does that, they might end up hurting someone’s feelings really badly.

also if that Michael Farris guy does have a problem with Aces, then he just became even more my enemy.

I think it might be while before I flux, and even if I do find myself being sexually attracted to some humans, I still find some of them not being date worthy...

but I rather not try to date, I know I had bad luck before when it came to some online boyfriends, and I rather just stick to husbandos...

plus my whole Aroaceflux and Semi-Virgintiphobia is a separate thing.

and I believe that my panic attack a few years ago, that I had in the car, around 2015, might of had to do with Virgintiphobia.

I don’t like being by myself outside far from home...

I know that I was hyperventilating during that time and I did end up hitting my head on the ceiling of the car as well...

anyway once again, my being Aroaceflux as well as Fictoromantic, is separate from that....

I rather not be touched by Toxic Hyper-H*rny Shisno, I mean they make Tucker from Red Vs Blue seem like a Saint in comparison.

yeah he is a perv, but he kind of funny and cute, and he has that whole cute idiot himbo thing going for him...

and yeah it took me re-watching a episode where he thought he went back in time, to figure out that he is a cute idiot...

so you got your dangerous pervs, and you got your safe pervs.

cause a safe perv wouldn’t cause a possible alternative version of the Apocalypses in another timeline, when he touched someone he shouldn’t of touched.....don’t ask, all I’m gonna say that it could possibly be true, but that timeline was prevented...plus it’s okay that everyone believes about that...

anyway I really am not a fan of that Michael Farris guy or his group...

and I just found out about that Pastor Worley, even if that video was uploaded a few years ago, and I am still not a fan of that man either or the woman who defended him.

and yeah even if some other Earth Angels might not agree with me on this, but I would probably give those two men the double bird, you know flipping the bird at them.....even if before I might of never done that, but some things that can happen to a person, can make them bittersweet....ya know having bittersweet moments.

plus I’m not like the other Earth Angels, I am like the Amethyst and Off-Color of the whole Earth Angels, and I don’t think I mind being a Defective Earth Angel.

I don’t think I would be me, if I weren’t.

I think later, I will watch some Steven Universe, Transformers, RWBY and Red Vs Blue and some other shows and movies.

anyway, it might be possible that if Pastor Worley and Michael Farris are the Toxic Types that take their hate and dislike a bit too far, it is likely possible they will get karma, and who knows, maybe that Pastor Worley already got his karma.....I mean, it is possible. and both he and Michael Farris, can Frag Off...

even though one of the tags is “f*ck off” but I’m using the Cybertronian version of it, so yeah....they can Frag Off...        

[queerrambles]

Heteroromantic aces are just as much a part of the lgbtq+ community as anyone else

[theacearmy]

Idk my romantic orientation? Like I thought I was heteromantic (yes, I'm one of those horrible cishet aces) but recently I keep talking about how beautiful girls can be like dang they're drop dead gorgeous. Also I got invited to this party today by this girl I think is an amazingly good person and I freaked out cuz I didn't think she knew I existed. Also this other girl came out as bi and I felt relief (?) cuz earlier I was worried I was getting a crush on her. Idek. I'm so confusedd

First thing, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with hetero-romantic aces or heterosexual aros.  They’re part of the community and we love them.

That said, sexuality can be fluid and there’s nothing wrong with changing your labels (or not!) to adjust to new experiences, such as developing a crush on someone you didn’t expect.  It can definitely be confusing and even distressing, but you’re okay.  Just take a second to adjust and maybe try rolling with things as they come for a while.

-Fyr

[garecc]

I'm watching the Carmen Sandeigo show on Netflix and Gray/Crackle is my son

He,,, I love. Big love.

[caitlin-snow-leopard]

I don’t personally consider myself queer as a heteroace because it took me until college to realize I was any different than a “normal” straight girl, but if you try to tell me that other cishet aces can’t call themselves queer and don’t belong in these spaces, you are completely wrong.

Also cishet aspec people have the right to not consider themselves queer and that doesn’t mean that being aspec doesn’t inherently make you queer.

I know older bi people who identify as bisexual and don’t consider themselves part of the community. That doesn’t mean that bi people aren’t inherently queer or part of the community. Some nonbinary people don’t identify as trans, some do. Some intersex people consider themselves part of the community, some don’t. There are straight trans people who don’t see themselves as queer.

You internet rotten brained people need to relearn the value of the concept of diversity. And also get through your thick skull that validity is not some thing that only ONE (1) group of people/form of oppression/whatever can have at a time

[ophenl]

Enby & Heteroro

I thought : Heteroro mean romance attraction toward a different gender. So, technically, like I’m an enby person, every heterosexual personn could be attracted to me (except, enby :( ), no ?