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5 Healthy Habits

5 Healthy Habits That Will Help You Eat Less Every Day With so many sugary, processed foods lurking around in every supermarket aisle, tempting us with their flavors, it is much easier to give into temptation and indulge in fatty foods, however, you are well-aware that this dietary lifestyle is not doing you any favors. They serve to hinder your health goals, as well as your fitness goals and, of…

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Simple Ways to Increase the Aura of Your Home: One of the main purposes of home is to help our bodies recover from overt chemicalization of our world. The world is flooded with a constant force of harmful chemicals that degenerate physical and mental vitality, therefore our home life should be a passionate haven where those heightened chemical variances are limited to non-existent. Therefore consider eliminating or greatly reducing chemical cleaning products and chemical beauty products which will enhance your digestion, your gut microbiome (the main factor that effects our the 7 systems of the body, hormones, mind health, and quality of life) and thereby increase your home's frequency. You want to create a home that supports the healthiest fullest expression of your gut microbiome, the center of your reality. A well-loved microbiome supports an essential resource that grows your life force energy. It supports healthy hydrated longevity that gives you more choices in life, mainly because it supports you in procuring naturally expanded human experience. A healthy gut microbiome helps you to master ways of thinking, feeling, intuiting, and perceiving. Be intentional in actively welcoming in details of beauty all around  your home— plants, books, art, well-made candles, music and the musical, macrame, hanging fabric or beads, color, etc. Invite in the sacred and the edges of the universe into your home--pour libations, chant, sing mantras, and whatever other ritual, divination, cosmic and grounding aesthetics, and ancestral intelligence. Clear clutter in closets and underneath beds and chairs and clean often and with thoughtful detail and intention, place special attention to windows, doors, toilet bowl, refrigerator, sinks, floors, and corners Dance around your home while infusing love into each room; more and more love and tactile loving acts Take out trash often -unpleasant smells distill unpleasant energy Resort your refrigerator daily or every other day-no spoiled food Open windows daily first thing in the morning, even in Winter briefly Ritualize washing your floors and walls every new season with a quality lime or orange essential and water solution, Florida water, and some of concoction that clears energy Mind your recurring thoughts --if you have been thinking in negative ways, no worries--just open windows an air out the energy and clean up around you Air out your bed linen daily Replace plastic with glass It's a living energy .....pray over your home Refresh water on most fresh flowers daily Light an oil lamp, ghee lamp or candles nightly Find a place for everything, and put everything in its place. Get into the habit of donating what you don't use or no longer matches your frequency often Create more white clear space Keep something sacred items by the front door that help clear energy e.g. hanging bells on the door knob Invest in quality kitchen supplies Home is a safe oasis where we repair our energetic relationship with living in an overly masculine, exhausted, mentally chaotic world. How does your home reflect the nourishment and nuturance of feminine energy? How does it inspire rest, regeneration, love, passion, creativity, arousal, playfulness, joy, prosperity, or living more inward-facing rather than externally-focused? India Ame'ye

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#𝟏𝟎𝟎𝐃𝐀𝐘𝐒𝐑𝐄𝐈𝐍𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 - Week 3

Although I am (extremely) new to the self improvement community on tumblr. I have seen the #𝟏𝟎𝟎𝐃𝐀𝐘𝐒𝐑𝐄𝐈𝐍𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 challenge from @dreamdolldiary come by a few times among self improvement creators. Because of my curiosity, I have finally read the challenge and I immediately knew that this was the ideal challenge for me to start my self improvement journey! The "goal" of this challenge is to start with holding yourself accountable and to build healthy habits.

𝕸𝖞 𝖌𝖔𝖆𝖑𝖘 𝖋𝖗𝖔𝖒 𝖑𝖆𝖘𝖙 𝖜𝖊𝖊𝖐:

☙ The main focus of next week will be on my studies and personal things. Since i'm on my schoolbreak i have all the time to be working on them.

♡ Studies I plan out all the work i am supposed to do. I do schoolwork daily. I keep up with all the tests & assignments. I am productive in school.

♡ Personal I compliment the people around me. I spend more time on crochet, knitting & sewing. I start dancing again.

Other plans: ☙ I start following my morning & night routines. ☙ I read when I'm bored. ☙ I follow my weekly work out-plan. ☙ I plan out my winter wardrobe (+budget).

𝕽𝖊𝖋𝖑𝖊𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖔𝖓 𝖒𝖞 𝖌𝖔𝖆𝖑𝖘 𝖋𝖗𝖔𝖒 𝖑𝖆𝖘𝖙 𝖜𝖊𝖊𝖐:

☙ I tend to forget my goals very easily throughout my week. To prevent that from happening again, I will write my goals down on paper and put them next to my toothbrush. So that I read them while brushing my teeth.

☙ I did everything I wrote down by other plans, except planning out my wardrobe. So I will have to do that again.

☙ I did study a lot the past week, the only problem was. That my study sessions were not very productive, because I kept getting distracted. To prevent this from happening again, I will meditate when i get too distracted and I will try to create a better study space.

☙ I haven' t started with crochet, knitting & sewing again. But I did make a few designs. So now I do have the motivation to do it!

𝕸𝖞 𝖕𝖑𝖆𝖓 𝖋𝖔𝖗 𝖓𝖊𝖝𝖙 𝖜𝖊𝖊𝖐:

☙ This week I will focus on my physical, mental, emotional and habit goals. Most of these goals I have already payed some attention too. But I'm having a very stressful week and i could really use some extra motivations to follow these basics:

♡ Physical I follow my weekly work out-plan. I eat healthy. I use my skincare consistantly. I go to bed before 10 pm.

♡ Mental I make time for self love. I plan out my day and follow my plan. I journal daily.

♡ Emotional I do the things that bring me happiness and fulfillment. I write the things that bother me down. I allow myself to feel my emotiong fully.

♡ Habits I start following my morning & night routines. I practice gratefulness. I read more often.

Thank you sososo much for checking in with me, lovelies! ⚝☁ I hopefully see you next week! If you have any tips and/ or encouragement, please do share. Bye bye ʕ•́ᴥ•̀ʔっ♡

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Madison’s parents had always kept her on a strict diet, encouraging her to stay active with dance and cheerleading. While she tried to meet their expectations, she felt an undeniable pull toward indulgence. By her junior year of high school, Madison couldn’t ignore the cravings any longer. She started sneaking snacks, reveling in the fullness that followed each secret binge. Little by little, her slim, toned frame began to soften, her clothes becoming tighter. She loved every new curve, every extra inch, secretly thrilled to see her body filling out.

By the time she graduated high school, Madison weighed in at 160 pounds—a solid 40 pounds heavier than she’d been before she started sneaking treats. Her parents noticed but only assumed it was “senior year stress” and tried to coax her back into healthy habits. Inside, Madison was buzzing with excitement. Once I’m in college, I’ll be free to really let go, she told herself. This was only the beginning.

College was everything Madison had hoped for. With no one to monitor her eating, she dove headfirst into a world of unlimited options. The dining halls became her haven, and she was no longer limited by portion control or healthy choices. Every meal became an opportunity to indulge, and she quickly established a nightly ritual of “study snacks”—burgers, fries, pizzas, and heaps of dessert.

Her body eagerly took on the extra calories. By mid-semester, her clothes clung tightly around her growing belly and hips. Her jeans pinched uncomfortably, and her tops no longer fit quite right. She felt secretly thrilled whenever she had to adjust her waistband or pull down her shirt to cover her softening stomach. She could see and feel herself getting bigger, each change in her body filling her with pride.

By Thanksgiving, Madison had already outgrown many of her clothes. When she returned home for the holiday, her parents were surprised to see how much she’d changed. She wore oversized sweaters to hide her curves, but in the privacy of her room, she marveled at how her body was beginning to transform. She documented her journey online under the name “BlondieBBW,” sharing photos and stories with a community that encouraged her to keep growing.

Sophomore year brought even more indulgence. By now, Madison had developed a serious appetite and craved heavier, richer foods. She often treated herself to extra-large portions, ordering late-night pizzas, milkshakes, and fries, relishing the comforting weight of a full belly. Her body was changing rapidly; her thighs now brushed together with each step, and her belly hung over her waistband when she sat down.

Madison’s friends noticed her growing figure and playfully teased her about her increased appetite. She had started wearing leggings and oversized shirts exclusively, her old jeans far too tight to fit. Each wardrobe upgrade felt like a victory. After one particularly heavy meal with friends, she stood up only to hear a sharp pop—the button on her jeans had flown across the room. Embarrassed but thrilled, she shared the story online, her followers cheering her on with every update.

Over winter break, while she was home for the holidays, she met a new friend online—a guy named George who also went to her college and shared her excitement for gaining. They began chatting daily, sharing stories about their love for food and the thrill of seeing her body grow. George seemed genuinely fascinated by her journey, and he encouraged her to keep going. “Once we’re back on campus, let’s hang out,” he suggested one night. Madison’s heart raced at the thought. Someone who actually gets it, she thought. She couldn’t wait.

When spring semester started, Madison and George planned to meet up at her dorm. She was nervous but excited; no one else had ever supported her desires so openly. When George arrived, he greeted her with a warm smile and a large pizza box in one hand and a liter of soda in the other.

“I brought a little snack,” he teased, setting the box down in front of her. Madison’s eyes lit up, and she quickly made herself comfortable, eagerly opening the pizza box. She started eating with gusto, savoring each cheesy slice as George watched, his eyes twinkling with admiration.

As she devoured the pizza, George would occasionally encourage her, smiling as he said, “Don’t stop now—you’re doing great.” Madison felt her cheeks flush with excitement, the attention only making her more eager to finish every last bite. When she’d polished off the entire pizza, she leaned back with a satisfied sigh, placing her hand on her bloated stomach. Her belly was full, stretching the fabric of her shirt tightly. George handed her the liter of soda, encouraging her to take long gulps until the bottle was empty, the carbonation making her feel even fuller.

Once she was finished, George moved closer, resting his hand on her rounded belly. He began to massage her stomach gently, his touch sending a shiver through her. “Look at you,” he murmured. “You’ve really let yourself grow, haven’t you?”

Madison felt her cheeks grow warm, loving every second of his attention. “I have,” she replied softly, her voice filled with pride. George’s hands continued to knead her belly, and she could feel the pressure easing the tension from her full stomach. Each touch felt like validation—a reminder of how far she’d come and how much she had changed.

“Let’s see how you look in one of my shirts,” he suggested, a mischievous grin spreading across his face. He dug into his bag and pulled out a fitted medium shirt, tossing it to her. Madison struggled to pull the shirt over her head, the fabric clinging to her body in ways her loose clothes never did. The shirt barely reached her belly button, her round stomach bulging out underneath, and her arms felt restricted by the tight sleeves.

George chuckled, his eyes gleaming with amusement. “Looks like you’ve definitely outgrown this size,” he teased, giving her belly a playful poke. Madison giggled, feeling a rush of excitement at how snugly the shirt fit. She caught her reflection in the mirror, marveling at how much she’d filled out since the start of college. She tugged at the hem of the shirt, only for it to spring back, unable to cover her full belly.

Her confidence soared with every teasing comment, and she felt more determined than ever to keep growing. The encouragement from George only fueled her desire to see just how big she could become.

By the time junior year rolled around, Madison was 220 pounds and loving her new lifestyle. George had become a regular part of her life, often joining her for late-night food runs and even surprising her with treats when she least expected it. Their friendship deepened with every shared meal, and Madison’s appetite only grew with his encouragement. She would often polish off double portions, relishing the fullness in her belly as George watched with pride.

Her body had changed drastically. Her belly had grown into a heavy, soft dome that rested on her lap when she sat, and her thighs were thick enough to rub together with each step. She could feel the weight of her body with every move, and even simple tasks like climbing stairs left her slightly out of breath. But each physical strain was a reminder of how far she’d come.

Shopping for clothes had become a regular affair. She now wore 2X sizes, her leggings and oversized shirts accommodating her expanding figure. She loved seeing how her belly pressed out against the fabric, a constant reminder of the journey she was on. When she tried on smaller clothes just for fun, she’d call George, showing him how tightly the fabric clung to her curves. Each time, he’d laugh, playfully teasing her about how quickly she was outgrowing her wardrobe.

Her stretch marks had become more pronounced, pink lines stretching across her belly, hips, and thighs. She felt a strange sense of pride whenever she noticed a new one, knowing it was a visible marker of her progress. She shared updates with her followers, who encouraged her to keep going, cheering her on as her body continued to grow.

By senior year, Madison had reached 280 pounds. Her body had become everything she’d dreamed of—soft, round, and full. George remained by her side, her biggest supporter, often challenging her to finish larger meals and laughing as she did so with enthusiasm. Every meal was an event, an opportunity for Madison to push her limits further.

Her belly had grown so large that it rested comfortably on her lap, her thighs pressing against the edges of chairs, and her arms brushing her sides as she moved. Walking across campus was now a challenge, each step leaving her slightly out of breath, but even this felt like an accomplishment.

On the last day of college, George surprised her with one final treat—a massive feast to celebrate her journey. She ate with gusto, savoring every bite until her belly was stretched tight and her clothes strained against her curves. When she finally stood up, feeling the weight of her body, she looked over at George, a grateful smile on her face.

“I couldn’t have done this without you,” she said, resting her hand on her swollen belly. George grinned, giving her a playful poke. “You did all the hard work,” he replied, laughing. “I just got to enjoy the show.”

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Enhancing Your Skin Health: Navigating the Skin Care Clinic Scene in Winnipeg

In the bustling city of Winnipeg, where the winters can be harsh and the summers unforgiving, maintaining healthy, radiant skin often feels like a challenging task. However, with the proliferation of skin care clinics in the area, achieving glowing, rejuvenated skin has become more accessible than ever before. These clinics offer a myriad of services tailored to address various skin concerns, ranging from acne and aging to pigmentation and hydration. Let's explore the landscape of skin care clinics in Winnipeg and how they can help you achieve your skincare goals.

Understanding Skin Care Clinics: Skin care clinics serve as havens for individuals seeking professional guidance and treatment for their skin concerns. These clinics are staffed with trained dermatologists, estheticians, and skincare specialists who possess the expertise to analyze your skin and recommend personalized treatment plans.

Services Offered: Skin care clinics in Winnipeg offer a diverse range of services designed to cater to different skin types and concerns. From basic facials to advanced treatments such as chemical peels, microdermabrasion, and laser therapy, these clinics employ state-of-the-art technologies and techniques to address various skin issues effectively.

Personalized Consultations: One of the key benefits of visiting a skin care clinic is the opportunity for personalized consultations. During these consultations, professionals assess your skin condition, listen to your concerns, and tailor treatment plans to address your specific needs. Whether you're struggling with acne, sun damage, or signs of aging, a personalized approach ensures that you receive targeted solutions for optimal results.

Professional Expertise: The expertise of skincare professionals sets skin care clinics apart from over-the-counter remedies or DIY treatments. Dermatologists and estheticians possess in-depth knowledge of skin physiology, enabling them to recommend products and treatments that are safe and effective for your skin type. Moreover, they stay updated on the latest advancements in skincare technology, ensuring that you have access to cutting-edge treatments.

Quality Products and Treatments: Skin care clinics often carry high-quality skincare products that are not readily available in retail stores. These products are formulated with potent ingredients backed by scientific research, offering superior results compared to mass-market alternatives. Additionally, clinics may offer medical-grade treatments that deliver transformative outcomes for various skin concerns.

Holistic Approach to Skin Health: Many skin care clinics in Winnipeg adopt a holistic approach to skincare, emphasizing the importance of lifestyle factors such as diet, stress management, and sun protection in maintaining healthy skin. Beyond offering treatments, they provide education and guidance on skincare routines and habits that promote long-term skin health.

Building Confidence and Self-Esteem: Beyond the physical benefits, visiting a skin care clinic can have a profound impact on your confidence and self-esteem. Clearing up acne, reducing signs of aging, or achieving smoother, more radiant skin can boost your self-image and empower you to face the world with renewed confidence.

Choosing the Right Clinic: With numerous options available, selecting the right Medical Clinic Winnipeg can seem daunting. When choosing a clinic, consider factors such as reputation, qualifications of the staff, range of services offered, and the quality of products used. Reading reviews and seeking recommendations from friends or family can also help you make an informed decision.

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Conquering the Chill: Top Winter Wellness Tips for a Thriving Season

Winter's frosty embrace may bring shorter days and brisk winds, but it also ushers in cozy evenings, festive cheer, and the beauty of a sparkling white landscape. However, alongside the charm often comes a wave of sniffles, coughs, and that all-too-familiar winter sluggishness.

Fear not, fellow winter warriors! By incorporating some simple habits into your routine, you can transform the season from a potential health hazard to a period of thriving. So, grab your warmest scarf and a steaming mug of cocoa, because we're about to conquer the chill!

Boost Your Inner Defender:

Vitamin C, your citrusy champion: Oranges, grapefruits, kiwi, and bell peppers are bursting with this powerful antioxidant, helping your body fight off winter invaders. Squeeze some lemon into your water, whip up a vibrant smoothie, or simply enjoy a juicy orange – your immune system will be grateful.

Don't underestimate the zinc zing: This mineral plays a crucial role in keeping your defenses strong. Pumpkin seeds, chickpeas, oysters, and even dark chocolate are excellent sources to add to your winter diet.

Sleep, the ultimate recharge: Prioritize those precious Zzz's! When you're well-rested, your immune system is better equipped to combat seasonal threats. Aim for 7-8 hours of quality sleep each night, creating a cozy sleep haven in your bedroom.

Warmth From Within and Without:

Layer like a pro: Ditch the bulky sweaters and embrace the magic of layering. Start with a thin, moisture-wicking base layer, followed by an insulating mid-layer, and top it off with a weatherproof outer shell. This allows you to adjust to changing temperatures without feeling like a walking marshmallow.

Pamper your extremities: Hats, gloves, and scarves are your winter essentials. They prevent heat loss from your head, neck, and hands, keeping you toasty and comfortable. Choose fun colors and patterns to add a touch of personality to your winter look!

Hot beverages, your winter warmers: There's nothing quite like a steaming mug of herbal tea, rich hot chocolate, or spiced apple cider to chase away the chills. Bonus points for adding warming spices like ginger or cinnamon – they'll tantalize your taste buds and boost your circulation.

Fuel Your Body for Winter Adventures:

Embrace winter comfort foods: Hearty soups, stews, and chilis are not just delicious, they're packed with nutrients to keep you energized throughout the day. Choose lean protein sources like chicken or lentils, and don't forget to load up on the veggies!

Hydration, your winter secret weapon: Even though you might not feel as thirsty, dehydration is still a risk in winter. Aim for 8 glasses of water per day, and consider incorporating herbal teas or fruit-infused water for added flavor and a touch of fun.

Snack smart, conquer cravings: Keep healthy snacks like nuts, fruits, or yogurt on hand to avoid unhealthy temptations when hunger strikes. Trail mix with dried berries and dark chocolate chips is a delicious and nutritious option to keep you going between meals.

Get Moving, Even When It's Freezing:

Indoor workouts, your winter fitness allies: If venturing out in the cold isn't your thing, there are plenty of ways to stay active indoors. Try yoga, bodyweight exercises, or online fitness classes – there's something for everyone!

Embrace the sunshine: Bundle up and head outside for a brisk walk, jog, or bike ride on sunny days. Sunshine is a natural mood booster and helps your body produce vitamin D, essential for bone health and immune function.

Get creative, have fun: Turn household chores into a workout. Dance while cleaning, do squats while waiting for the kettle to boil, or take the stairs instead of the elevator. Every little bit counts, and you might even surprise yourself with how much fun you can have!

Bonus Winter Wellness Hacks:

Wash your hands like a pro: This simple yet effective habit is your best defense against the spread of winter

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Elevate Your Outdoor Space with Expert Flower Bed Design and Installation in Tulsa

Creating a vibrant and welcoming outdoor space begins with thoughtful flower bed design and installation. In Tulsa, where the appreciation for nature meets a desire for stunning landscapes, finding the right balance is key. In this article, we'll explore the essential elements of flower bed design and installation in Tulsa to help you transform your yard into a blooming haven.

The Art of Flower Bed Design:

Flower bed design and Installation Tulsa is more than just arranging plants; it's about crafting an aesthetic that complements your home and embraces the local environment. In Tulsa, where the climate can be diverse, selecting the right combination of flowers, shrubs, and foliage is crucial for a successful design.

Consider the following factors when planning your flower bed design:

Climate-conscious Choices:

Tulsa experiences a range of temperatures throughout the year. Opt for plants that thrive in the local climate, ensuring they can withstand both the summer heat and occasional winter frost.

Color Palette Harmony:

Choose a color palette that harmonizes with your home and the natural surroundings. Vibrant blooms can add a pop of color, while subtler shades create an elegant and serene atmosphere.

Seasonal Appeal:

Plan your flower bed to bloom in different seasons, ensuring year-round visual interest. Tulsa's climate allows for a variety of plants that flourish during different times of the year.

Installation Expertise:

Flower bed design and Installation Tulsa is a crucial step that requires a combination of skill and horticultural knowledge. Hiring professionals with experience in Tulsa's unique landscape ensures a successful and enduring garden. Here's why professional installation matters:

Soil Preparation:

Tulsa's soil can vary, and understanding its composition is vital for plant health. Professionals assess the soil and make amendments to ensure optimal conditions for your chosen plants.

Proper Plant Placement:

Professional installers have an eye for design and understand the growth habits of different plants. This ensures that each plant is placed strategically, considering factors like height, spread, and sunlight requirements.

Irrigation Efficiency:

Tulsa's weather can be unpredictable, and a well-designed irrigation system is crucial for maintaining a healthy flower bed. Professionals can install efficient watering systems that adapt to the changing climate, conserving water while nourishing your plants.

Maintenance for Long-lasting Beauty:

Once your flower bed is in full bloom, ongoing maintenance is essential to preserve its beauty. Regular tasks include weeding, pruning, and fertilizing. In Tulsa, where the weather can be unpredictable, staying attentive to your garden's needs ensures a thriving and enduring landscape.

Flower bed design and installation Tulsa is an art that combines creativity, local expertise, and horticultural knowledge. Elevate your outdoor space by carefully planning your flower bed design, entrusting the installation to professionals, and committing to ongoing maintenance. With the right approach, you can turn your yard into a blooming oasis that reflects the beauty of Tulsa's natural environment.

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Dive into Comfort: Essential Pool Heating Maintenance

Your pool heater is the unsung hero of your backyard oasis, working diligently to keep your pool water at the perfect temperature. However, like any hardworking hero, it needs a bit of care and attention to ensure it continues to perform optimally. Let's dive into the world of pool heating maintenance to keep your pool's best friend in tip-top shape.

Why Maintenance Matters

Regular maintenance isn't just about extending the lifespan of your pool heater; it's about efficiency, safety, and economy. Neglecting maintenance can lead to inefficient heating, higher energy bills, and even potential hazards.

Maintenance Tasks for a Healthy Heater

Here are the essential maintenance tasks that will keep your pool heater running efficiently and prolong its lifespan:

1. Regular Inspections: Make it a habit to visually inspect your pool heater. Look for signs of rust, corrosion, or damage. Ensure that there's no debris obstructing the airflow.

2. Clean the Filter: A clogged filter reduces airflow and efficiency. Clean or replace it regularly, following the manufacturer's recommendations.

3. Check for Leaks: Inspect the heater for any leaks or drips. Leaks can be a sign of a failing component, and addressing them promptly can prevent further damage.

4. Clean the Burner: In gas heaters, the burner can accumulate dirt and debris. Clean it using a soft brush or compressed air to ensure efficient combustion.

5. Lubricate Moving Parts: For heaters with moving parts, like pumps, ensure that they are well-lubricated to prevent wear and tear.

6. Monitor Gas Lines: In gas heaters, check the gas lines for leaks or loose connections. If you smell gas or suspect a leak, shut off the gas supply immediately and contact a professional.

7. Electrical Connections: Ensure all electrical connections are secure and free from corrosion. Faulty connections can lead to heater malfunctions.

8. Professional Checkup: Schedule an annual professional inspection. A trained technician can identify and address issues that may not be visible during regular maintenance.

Seasonal Shutdown: If you live in an area with harsh winters, consider a seasonal shutdown. Properly drain the heater and protect it from freezing temperatures.

Safety First

When performing maintenance on your pool heater, always prioritize safety:

- Turn off the power supply before working on electrical components.

- Shut off the gas supply and allow any residual gas to dissipate before inspecting gas heaters.

- If you're unsure about any maintenance task, consult the manufacturer's manual or hire a professional.

Conclusion

Proper maintenance is the key to keeping your pool heater running efficiently and extending its lifespan. By performing regular inspections, cleaning, and addressing issues promptly, you can enjoy a comfortable and perfectly heated pool for years to come. Remember, a well-maintained pool heater not only saves you money but also ensures a safe and enjoyable swimming experience. So, take the plunge into pool heating maintenance, and enjoy your aquatic haven to the fullest.

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The Ultimate Guide to Roof Maintenance for Homeowners

Owning a home comes with a myriad of responsibilities, and one of the most critical is roof maintenance. Your roof is your first line of defense against the elements, and neglecting it can lead to costly repairs or replacements. In this comprehensive guide, we'll walk you through everything you need to know about the importance of roof leak repair & roof maintenance for homeowners. From routine inspections to tackling common issues, we've got you covered.

Introduction

Maintaining your roof might seem daunting, but with the right knowledge and a proactive approach, you can keep it in top shape for years to come. This guide will empower you with the information you need to protect your investment and ensure the longevity of your roof.

Roof Maintenance Essentials

Regular Inspections

Regular inspections are the cornerstone of effective roof maintenance. By inspecting your roof at least twice a year, you can identify and address issues before they escalate. Look for signs of damage, loose or missing shingles, and water stains on your ceiling.

Cleaning Gutters

Clogged gutters can lead to water buildup on your roof, causing damage and leaks. Make it a habit to clean gutters and downspouts to ensure proper water drainage.

Trim Overhanging Branches

Overhanging tree branches can scratch and damage your roof during windy conditions. Trim branches that come into contact with your roof to prevent unnecessary wear and tear.

Seal Leaks

If you spot any leaks or gaps in your roof, don't procrastinate. Even small leaks can lead to extensive damage over time. Seal them promptly to prevent further issues.

Ventilation Check

Proper ventilation is crucial for regulating temperature and moisture in your attic. Ensure that vents are clear and functioning correctly to prevent mold and moisture-related problems.

Weathering the Seasons

Spring Maintenance

Spring is an ideal time to check for any damage caused by winter storms. Inspect your roof for ice damming, damaged shingles, and gutter issues

Summer Care

In the summer, focus on preventing your roof from overheating. Adequate attic ventilation and reflective roofing materials can help keep your home cool and your roof in good condition.

Fall Preparations

Before winter sets in, clean your gutters, and inspect your roof for loose or damaged shingles. Address any issues promptly to prevent water infiltration during the cold months.

Winter Readiness

During the winter, keep an eye on heavy snow accumulation and ice dams. Remove excess snow to prevent overloading, and use ice melt products to prevent ice dams from forming.

Common Roofing Problems

Leaks

Roof leaks can be caused by various factors, including damaged shingles, flashing issues, or worn-out sealants. Identifying the source of the leak is essential for effective repairs.

Shingle Damage

High winds, hail, and debris can damage shingles. Replace or Re-roofing damaged shingles promptly is crucial to prevent water infiltration and further damage.

Moss and Algae Growth

Moss and algae can take root on your roof, causing aesthetic and structural problems. Regular cleaning and treatment can help keep these issues at bay.

Ventilation Problems

Improper ventilation can lead to moisture buildup in your attic, potentially causing rot and mold. Address ventilation issues promptly to maintain a healthy roof.

Conclusion

In this ultimate guide to roof maintenance for homeowners, we've covered the essential steps to protect your investment and prolong the life of your roof. By following these tips and staying proactive, you'll ensure that your home remains a safe and comfortable haven for years to come.

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CREATING A SAFE AND COMFORTABLE HOME FOR YOUR DOG

As a dog lover, you know that your furry companion is more than just a pet — they’re a family member! And just like any other family member, you want to ensure they feel safe, comfortable, and loved in their home. Creating a safe and comfortable home for your dog is crucial to their health and happiness. But where do you start? In this blog post, we’ll dive into tips and tricks for making your home the perfect haven for your furry friend.

Buy the Right Gear

One of the first steps to creating a safe and comfortable home for your dog is ensuring you have the right gear for them. This includes, at a minimum, a comfortable bed, accessible food and water bowls that are the appropriate height to prevent neck strain, and a leash and harness for safe walks. Additionally, if you live in an area prone to harsh weather, consider investing in dog booties to protect their paw pads and a winter coat or rain jacket to help keep your dog comfortable and protected in inclement weather.

Dogs are notorious for their love of playtime. Providing plenty of toys helps keep them entertained and reduces destructive behavior by providing them with an appropriate outlet for chewing and more. Choose toys that fit your dog’s size and chewing habits to avoid choking hazards. Additionally, rotating your dog’s toys can help keep things interesting and prevent boredom and the accompanying destructive behaviors.

Make Your Home Safe

As much as we love our furry friends, they can be mischievous and deeply curious. Dog-proofing your home can help prevent accidents and injuries, preventing pain and suffering for both you and your pet. Always store hazardous cleaning materials or chemicals in locked cabinets, keep sharp objects out of reach, and ensure any plants are dog-safe. Additionally, be aware of common choking hazards and items your dog is prone to snag (e.g., socks, kid’s toys, etc.). If you own a home with a yard, ensure you reduce risk there too! Some dogs chew on rocks or eat plants that may be dangerous to their health; others are prone to digging under fences and escaping. One way to help dog-proof your home is by walking through your space at their level and thinking like your pup, then taking the proper precautions in response.

Dogs are naturally active creatures and require daily exercise to stay healthy and happy. Part of providing them with a safe and comfortable home is ensuring they are mentally and physically stimulated. Don’t worry — that doesn’t require a yard, just a commitment to get moving! Going for walks or runs, playing fetch, or taking them to a dog park are great ways to keep your dog active. Mental stimulation, such as puzzle toys or obedience training, can help keep your dog sharp and engaged when walks aren’t enough. A tired dog is a happy dog and is also more likely to stay out of trouble within their home space.

Proper nutrition and feeding are essential to making your home safe and comfortable for your dog and their overall health and well-being. Dogs who trust they don’t have to fight for their next meal develop deep loyalty and are more relaxed in their environment. Be sure to choose a high-quality dog food that meets their nutritional needs — consult a veterinarian for suggestions on high-quality dog food and appropriate portion sizes if you’re unsure.

Additionally, ensure that your dog has access to fresh water at all times. Give treats and chews in moderation, and always supervise your dog when they’re snacking. And finally, be mindful of your dog’s food allergies, if any, when buying new treats.

Creating a safe and comfortable home for your dog is essential to their overall happiness and health. Ensuring they have the right gear, plenty of toys, a safe environment, opportunities for exercise, and proper nutrition are all vital components. By following these tips, you can provide your furry companion with the perfect haven they deserve. Remember, a happy dog equals a happy family!

While you’re setting up your home for success, be sure to check out everything that K9 & Company has to offer, both for pets and their paw-rents.

[toadstoolgardens]

🌿Inviting Birds Into Your Garden🐦

Birds are essential to a healthy ecosystem, but not everyone takes kindly to them in their gardens. Birds love to eat berries, peck holes in fruits, and scratch up seedlings, but in the permaculture garden we strive to partner with nature to meet the needs of wildlife AND ourselves. Growing food for ourselves at the expense of wildlife has resulted, in part, in the current global food system that doesn't value the humans involved or the ecosystem.

"By attracting birds, small animals, and insects to our yards, we not only increase biodiversity but make our gardens more balanced, disease free, and productive as well." -Toby Hemenway, Gaia's Garden: A Guide to Small-Scale Permaculture

Benefits of a Bird-Friendly Garden

Birds are beautiful! Watching them enjoy your gardens and learning bird language is rewarding and entertaining

Birds keep insect problems in check

Birds loosen the soil as they forage and scratch

Birds provide natural fertilizer

The Combination that Works

"Creating a garden that your winged friends want to call home is easy. You'll need to provide food, water, and shelter. Any of these elements will bring birds to your garden for a visit. But providing all three will make them more inclined to take up residence." -Kris Bordessa, Attainable Sustainable: The Lost Art of Self-Reliant Living

Keep in mind that birds have different needs! Not all birds eat the same things and their nesting habits vary. So the real key is diversity! Plant a variety of plant types, textures, heights, and seasons of value.

Food

Birds have a varied diet of fruit/berries, insects, and nuts/seeds. Some have more specific diets than others. Some forage for food on the ground and some hunt above ground.

Year-Round Bird Food Sources

Evergreen trees - Provide shelter, protection, and sap for food

Flowers, tall grasses, and herbs - Provide cover for ground feeders, seeds, nectar, and insects to forage

Fruits (late spring through summer) - Blueberries, brambles like blackberries or raspberries, cherries, elderberries, mulberries, serviceberries, and wild plum. Birds LOVE mulberries especially and having them available will help deter birds from your other crops

Fruits (fall) - Aronia berries, dogwood, sea buckthorn, buffaloberry. In fall birds need to build up fat reserves to survive winter, give them a fall buffet!

Fruits (winter) - These are fruits that cling to branches over winter. Crabapple, hardy kiwi, hawthorn, highbush cranberry, medlar, sumac

Nectar-producing plants for hummingbirds - Bee balm, lupine, sage, maple trees, black locust trees

Nuts - Butternut, chestnut, hazelnut, pickory, piñon, walnut. Offer protection, good nesting sites, and insects to forage

Choose plants native to your area!

2. Water

Birds love natural moving water like streams or ponds. Replicate this with a 2 inch deep bird bath with a fountain! Place your bird bath near a shrub so they have perches and an escape route nearby.

3. Shelter & Protection

Birds need shelter from the elements and protection from predators along with their food and water sources.

Tall grass, dense shrubs, tree canopy, and thorny plants act as a save haven. Birds also nest at different heights, so offer a variety of trees and shrubs for them to settle in.

More plant ideas that provide nesting sites, shelter, and protection:

Apple

Persimmon

Rose

Serviceberry

"Without animals, nature just limps along." -Toby Hemenway

Source

[softyoongiionly]

Can I Make a Mess Now?

Jungkook’s never had sex before but, after realizing that he’s falling in love with you, he thinks he wants that to change.

Pairing: Jungkook x Reader

Genre: Virgin! Jungkook, established relationship au, college au, smut, fluff.

Word Count: 4.8k

A/N: This is a part 2 to Will You Make a Mess Now? Please please please let me know what you think! Love you

Warnings: smut, language, 18+ only please.

Winter break never lasts long enough does it?

A few short weeks of bliss and then-

BOOM.

You’re forced out of the warm and lazy cocoon of holiday spirit and, back into the rigidity of modern education.

It’s not that you don’t enjoy your studies, it’s just that after nearly four years of exams and, group projects that never go exactly as planned; you are starting to feel burnt out.

It also doesn’t help that you spent the majority of your winter break sleeping over at your boyfriends house.

You got used to the weight of his head on your chest.

You got used to running your fingers through his hair; an act that lulled both of you to sleep.

You got used to waking up beside him every morning.

When the semester started once again, the two of you agreed that you’d reserve overnight stays to weekends only.

As encouraging as you were of each other’s success, copious amounts of alone time is a (delightful) distraction.

Especially since the two of you began exploring the boundaries of your relationship.

At the beginning of winter break, Jungkook had revealed to you that not only was he a virgin but, he’s never been touched before.

After a bit of discussion, he decided that he wanted you to change that.

And boy did you…

You still can’t get the images of him falling apart beneath the firm grasp of your hand out of your head.

It’s arguably one of the best things you’ve ever seen.

Jungkook’s room became the safe haven for exploration.

Many cold nights were spent underneath his duvet, touching on each other until things eventually got heated enough for you to take turns making eachother cum.

Happy Holidays indeed.

There was one night in particular that things got a little out of hand.

In the heat of the moment, Jungkook had torn off your t-shirt, leaving the two of you to make out in your underwear.

He positioned you on his lap with a low whine in his throat and, at the feeling of your heat pressing directly into his dick; he almost lost it right then and there.

It took everything in him to keep his hands steady.

To keep them from ripping your panties off…

However, he succeeded and although, it was painful to slow things down, he knew it was the right thing to do.

The only problem is, that night increased his desire to a level he’s never felt before.

He knows he wants you to be his first but; he’s so particular and, so sensitive to his surroundings that he wants to make sure everything is perfect.

Perfection is a concept he frequently struggles with and, although he’s lessened his standards over the years, he still finds himself reverting back to his old habits.

Losing his virginity is a big deal for him.

He can’t help that.

And because it carries so much weight, he feels the need to hold off until the moment is 100% right.

But, how does he define such a thing?

He knows he wants you.

He knows you want him.

He knows he’s falling in love with you…

So, how is a perfect moment established?

Can you plan it?

Jungkook doesn’t know but, he’s starting to believe that he can’t.

His brothers don’t understand his issues.

Seokjin’s been with his girlfriend for two years and, every time she comes to visit, he can hear her moaning through his bedroom door.

An event that continuously scars him.

Namjoon is engrossed in his studies so, he doesn’t make time for relationships.

But one time, when he was looking for his laptop, Jungkook walked in on him getting his dick sucked.

He’s still never gotten that image out of his head.

Hoseok literally attended an orgy two months ago.

Jimin’s dating his childhood sweetheart.

Taehyung stays over at the sorority house at least twice a week.

And, last but not least, Yoongi frequently walks around sporting various love bites and scratch marks after a night with his girlfriend.

Jungkook’s spoken with his hyungs’ regarding sex a few times but, it’s never a conversation he initiates.

He’s far too shy to openly speak about these things.

But from what he’s gathered, sex is top notch.

None of his brothers could think of anything that feels as good, although Yoongi did cite sleeping as a close second.

After a long week of lectures and tedious lab work, Jungkook has finally decided that he wants to lose his virginity.

Or at least…he’s ready to talk about it…

He starts off guns a blazing: he sends you a text trying to appear nonchalant despite the fact that his heart is currently pounding in his chest.

Jungkook: do you want to come over tonight? 

Jungkook: there’s a new season of that anime we started watching :)

His message does the same bit of damage on your heart because, although you two have been dating for quite some time, you still get excited at the thought of seeing him.

You: plzzz

You: this first week has killed me

You: I need to relax so bad

You: my brain cell count has dropped to dangerously low amount.

Jungkook chuckles to himself, shaking his head at your response.

Jungkook: wow

Jungkook: lower than normal???

Jungkook: that’s pretty bad jagi :/

You giggle, already gathering your toothbrush and, various other items needed for an overnight stay.

You:  I know

You: it’s a tragedy : (

Despite the playful banter between the two of you, Jungkook is furiously moving around his room, cleaning every inch of it.

He’s dusting the shelves, vacuuming his floor, rearranging his figurines on his desk.

He feels like a mad man…

Jungkook: lol you’re ridiculous

Jungkook: you can come over around 7 if you’re ready; I’m just finishing up an assignment.

Jungkook: miss you <3

Your boyfriend is literally sour patch kid.

You: miss you too 

You: falling asleep without you sucks

You: 10/10 would not recommend

Jungkook smiles, gripping his phone in his hand, a flurry of emotions stirring in his stomach.

Jesus, he really likes you…

Jungkook: stay the night then

Jungkook: I’ll make sure you sleep better tonight

He feels proud of himself.

He initiated you coming over, he’s holding a playful/flirty conversation with you, and he’s totally not freaking out at the fact that he’s going to have to tell you he’s ready to have sex.

Right?

Okay, the last part is definitely a lie but he’s just gonna go with it.

You: on my way :)

Jungkook receives this text from you roughly two hours later when he’s getting out of the shower.

He deep cleaned his bedroom, put fresh bedding on his mattress, scrubbed every inch of his body and, now he was standing in front of the mirror with nothing but a towel on his hips.

He takes time slathering lotion all over his skin, hoping that you like the vanilla-honey scent before applying a copious amount of deodorant.

He shaved in the shower, taking his time to remove the bit of hair around his crotch because it makes him feel cleaner.

Jungkook’s hair is getting longer too so, he’s been putting leave in conditioner on his ends to keep them healthy and spritzing his hair with anti-frizz serum.

After roughly 20 minutes of primping, he gets another text from you as he’s pulling on his sweat pants.

You: Here <333

Jungkook feels his stomach twist whilst reading your message.

Here goes nothing…

You’re standing outside the door of Jungkook’s house, dressed in a hoodie and a pair of leggings.

Comfy works out for you because, it requires minimal effort and, it’s also your boyfriend’s favorite look on you.

So, it’s a win win.

Given the fact that you and Jungkook usually end up fooling around, you took the time to exfoliate and shave whilst you were in the shower.

You may have also worn a new lacy red bra that had arrived in the mail earlier that day…

But, who knows?

“Yahhh there she is…”

You instantly light up as Jungkook eagerly swings open his front door, quickly pulling you into his grasp.

He smells amazing but, he feels even better and, you waste no time in pulling him close to you.

“I missed you.” You mutter into his hair

He grins, hugging you a bit tighter and, ushering you inside, “Missed you too, are you cold at all?”

Stepping through the threshold of his door, you notice that he’s freshly showered himself, his hair is damp and stringy but, it frames his face perfectly

“A little bit but, I plan on using you for warmth really soon so, I’m good.”

His hand is intertwined with yours as he leads you up to his room and, his face lights up with a smile.

“I got a new duvet on Tuesday, it’s really warm but,” He places a hand on his chest. “,you can still use me though, I missed having you here.”

Jungkook mutters the last half of his sentence, his cheeks warming up at his confession before he pushes open the bedroom door.

You don’t comment on his shyness but, it makes you smile and lean into him a little more.

His room is always clean but, the fresh scent of his disinfectant spray is slightly more pungent than normal. It isn’t a harsh smell; it’s a soft lavender cleaner that he special orders from Korea.

He absolutely hates the scent of bleach.

“It’s a nice color huh?”

Jungkook gestures to the muted grey of his new bedding, which is carefully placed over his mattress.

“I love it, it’s very you.” You smile as your eyes scan the room, “it matches your furniture really well too.”

His eyes light up, “Yeah, yeah that’s why I got it. I knew it would look good with the- um the desk and the dresser and stuff. See, I knew you’d notice that…you always notice things like that.”

Before you can respond he’s speaking again, his tone slightly uneven, “Um do you want to lay down? I know you said you were cold. I can hold you if you want-“ He grimaces at his word choice, not fully understanding why his nerves are taking over already, “not that  I don’t want to or anything. I do, I just…I know you’re cold.”

You touch your hand to his cheek, bringing his wandering eyes back to yours, “Are you ok?”

Jungkook swallows, his eyes locking with yours, “Y-Yeah, I just don’t want you to be cold…”

You’re not convinced.

Although the two of you have only been together for 6 months, you like to think you’ve gotten to know Jungkook really well. He isn’t exactly a closed book and, when he’s nervous about something, it’s fairly obvious.

“Are you suuuure?”

The question is paired with a soft kiss to his lips and, Jungkook can’t help but smile when you do, his posture relaxing slightly.

“I’m sure, I’m just happy you’re here. It was weird not seeing you all week.” He tucks a stray hair behind your ear before, pecking your lips.

Again, you’re not convinced but, you don’t want to pry.

He’ll tell you when he’s ready.

The matter of his worries is dropped and, Jungkook quickly (and neatly) pulls back the covers so, that the two of you can slip underneath them.

Moments later, you’re nestled against your boyfriend’s side, draping your arm over your stomach.

“You smell good…” You mutter against his sweater, nuzzling gently against the material.

Jungkook grins triumphantly, silently patting himself on the back for his choice of lotion.

“Thank you,” His chest vibrates with the sound of his voice, “so do you…”

With that, he tentatively raises a hand towards your hair, allowing his fingertips to brush over the top of your head.  

The anime begins playing but, you’re more focused on the way his fingers feel, as you melt into the soft fabric of his sweatshirt.

And halfway through the first episode, Jungkook’s motions are beginning to take a toll on you.

But not in the way you’d normally expect…

He’s smiling softly, admiring the way you sigh at his touch, taking time to play with the ends of your hair before massaging gently at your scalp.  

“You’re going to make me sleepy…” You mumble contently, a few minutes later and, Jungkook chuckles breathlessly beneath you.

“That’s ok; you can sleep if you need to.”  

He means it.

Jungkook had other things on his agenda but, now that you’re here, all he cares about is your comfort.  

“Don’t wanna sleep-“ You nudge your nose against his ribcage, “I missed you.”

With another chuckle, he traces his fingers over the edges of your hairline, brushing over the shell of your ear.

You can feel goosebumps rising on your skin but, it’s not intrusive or sudden, they come on slowly along with a type of comfort that only Jungkook can provide.

“I’ll be here when you wake up.” He soothes, his motions continuing over the arches of your brows before, he traces back up the expanse of your forehead. “I promise.”

You can feel yourself smile as your blinking slows, taking another deep breath whilst your body seems to melt into him.

The heaviness in your eyelids is growing despite your best efforts to warrant off your exhaustion.

You didn’t want to nap, you wanted to spend time with your boyfriend but, when he tucks his fingers beneath your hair and, begins scratching gently on your scalp, the threat of sleep becomes more prominent.

“Sleepy girl…” He teases, a fond smile on his lips as he watches your eyes finally close. His thumb brushes over your cheek, gently pinching at the skin before, returning his hand to your hair.

This warms you from the inside out and, sooner or later you can’t help but, drift off into a light sleep.

Jungkook smile grows and, he slows his movements to a stop before tugging on the duvet until it covers your shoulders.  

He decides in that moment that he really wouldn’t mind spending every night just like this; tucked under the covers, falling asleep in eachother’s arms.  

He changes the show to something you’ve already seen; he doesn’t want to watch the anime without you.  

After some time has passed, you slowly come out of your slumber, happy you’re still laying on your boyfriend’s chest.  

You peer up at Jungkook to see his brow furrowed in concentration as his gaze is locked firmly on the screen.  

A smile immediately finds it’s way onto your lips, your finger reaching out to bop him on the nose.

He jumps at first, not understanding the source of the interruption before he quickly matches your smile, ““Yah she’s awake. Did you have a good nap?” He thumbs over your cheek once more and, you’re overcome by the urge to press a kiss against his lips

He’s willing and able to accept it.

His hands come up to hold you against him and, he slowly begins to move his lips against yours

“Mhm...”

His nose wrinkles with the joy on his face as he presses more kisses to your lips.

“I’m sorry I fell asleep, I just haven’t been getting to bed on time this week...”

An adorable pout comes over his mouth, “Don’t be sorry, I’m glad you were able to get some rest. It’s not late or anything.”

It’s well past sunset but, Jungkook’s vanilla cake candle is providing enough light to illuminate the details of your boyfriends face.  

You kiss him again, just because he’s cute and you can, “What did you do while I was out?”

His head reclines against his pillow again but, he tugs you closer, ensuring that you remain against him.

“I watched a few episodes of Naruto...” He admits, “I’ve seen it a million times but, I never get tired of it.”

Your arms drape over his shoulders as the upper half of your body rests over his chest. The wispy ends of his black hair are too cute to resist so you absentmindedly toy with them as you respond,

“I get it, I have a few different shows that I’m like that with; I swear I’ve seen The Office so many times I could quote it in my sleep.”  

A half smirk curves on the end of his mouth, “Yeah that’s a good one too, Jin hyung watches that show all the time.”

You giggle, tucking a bit of hair behind his ear, “Ah that explains a lot actually, Jin and Michael Scott have a lot in common.”

He chuckles at that, nodding in agreement, leaning his head against your hand.

“Which character do you think you are?”

You purse your lips, mulling it over, your eyes narrowing in thought, “Hmmm that’s a tough one cause like- I wanna say Kelly because, she’s amazing but in reality, I’m probably more of a Kevin.”

Jungkook’s smirk grows, “Isn’t that the guy who dropped his chili all over the place?

With a dramatic sigh, you nod, “God, I’ve never related to anyone more in my entire life...”

A full belly laugh comes from your boyfriends pretty mouth, his body trembling beneath you as he shakes his head.

It’s one of your favorite sounds, especially when it gets all high pitched like it is now.

“Jagi you aren’t Kevin...” He insists, wiping a tear from the corner of his eye, “You are cooler than him.”

“You’re just saying that because you see the best side of me; in reality I am 100% Kevin.” You giggle, tucking more hair behind his other ear.

He still chuckles, shaking his head before nodding to you, “Who do you think I am?”

This definitely gets your brain going.

“I’m leaning towards Jim, you guys have a lot in common.” You nod as you continue to think about their similarities, “Yeah, you both have the same sense of humor and, even though you’re more sexy in an obvious way, you both have the same kind of sexiness?? If that makes sense?? But, you’re definitely hotter than Jim.”

You force your train of thought away from the office- style fantasy that pops into your head as Jungkook feels something stir deep in his gut.

“You think I’m sexy?”

You can’t help but laugh at the surprised look on his face, you swear you’ll never understand how Jungkook doesn’t see how hot he is.

“Duh.” You seal your response with a kiss but, Jungkook surprises you by sitting up and tugging you onto his lap.

He chuckles at the squeal that leaves your lips but, he carries on kissing you, his hands sliding up your outer thighs.

You don’t know what prompts his motions but, you’re not really in the mood to ask.

You’d much rather sit on your boyfriend’s lap and, make out with him.

“Can you-” He whispers against your lips, slightly breathless, “Can you say it?”

Your eyes flutter open to catch the shyness in his, “Can I say what?”

Warmth floods the apples of his cheeks, “Can you say that you think I’m sexy?”

A smirk teases the corners of your mouth and, tentatively you roll your hips against his.

“Are you trying to get hard Jungkook?”

You can hear him gulp, his eyes widening a bit before he nods.

With a smirk still on your lips, you tilt his head back, moving your fingers through his hair as you slowly begin placing kisses up the side of his neck.

His breathing picks up and, god help him, he immediately feels his dick hardening in his sweats.  

Jungkook’s neck is a sensitive area and, you know exactly where his weak spots are.

As you reach the lobe of his ear, you feel his grip tighten on your hips, his mouth parted slightly to make way for his shaky breath.  

“Jungkook?” You whisper in his ear, biting your lip as you see him visibly shiver beneath you.

“Yeah?”

“I think you’re sexy.”  

You nibble on his ear before quickly reuniting your lips, your hands sliding underneath his sweater.

His skin is so soft, so warm beneath your fingertips and, there is a large part of you that wishes you could spend hours just touching and kissing your boyfriend’s body.

Jungkook is eagerly reciprocating your kiss whilst his hands slowly move back up the outsides of your thighs.

His plan to get hard definitely worked because, you can feel him poking against your hips and, you’re already thinking of all the different ways you can make him cum.

“Did you get hard for me?” You whisper against his swollen lips, nudging his nose

Instantly he nods, his hands tugging the hem of your hoodie.

You take the hint, pulling back from him in order to remove it.  

Your plan is to continue kissing him of course but, as Jungkook spots the fire-red lace cups supporting the swells of your breasts, he lets out a tortured sigh.

“Is that new?” He swallows thickly, biting his bottom lip, allowing his hands to trail up your hips before securing themselves against your waist.

All you do is nod, sticking your chest out a bit and, encouraging him to keep touching you.

Jungkook leans in, dragging the tip of his nose between your breasts, inhaling when he reaches the space between your color bones.

“Did you wear this for me?”

His voice is ragged but, it’s deeper than normal, due to the arousal coating his tone.

“I wanted to look pretty for you.” You whisper, running your fingers through his hair.

You can feel him smile against your chest, his wet lips trailing back to tops of the bra, “You’re always pretty but this-” He grows bolder, biting softly at your breast, “this is torture”

A giggle bubbles past your lips, as you roll down against him once more.

“Jagi I-” The sensation of pleasure that toys with his body acts like a truth serum and, in an act of desperation that he definitely didn’t plan, a confession tumbles from his mouth, “I want you.”

But you don’t quite catch his drift, still rocking slowly against him, arousal slowly beginning to unravel you, “I want you too.”

No like,” He pulls away, his eyes glazed over with desire as they lock onto yours, “I want to be inside of you...”

It’s like a punch to the gut really, the way your boyfriend’s voice seems to quake under the weight of his admission.

You cup his cheek, “Really? Are you sure?”

He nods eagerly, licking his lips before turning to press a kiss to the inside of your wrist, “I want you so bad...”  

You’re quick to capture his lips then, kissing into him with more fervor than you ever have.  

"Can you do it for us Noona?” He croons into your mouth, his eyes darkened with lust as they plead with yours.

A nod is all you can manage at his devasting way of asking you to ride him.

For the first time...

You’re pulling off his sweater, securing your lips to his once more, kissing on them as you lean him back against the pillows.

Your bottoms are removed, leaving you completely naked as you tug his sweats down his legs.

Jungkook’s erection looks painful and, you feel yourself ache at the thought of finally being able to sit on it.

As you sit astride him once more, you lean down to press a kiss between his eyes before trailing your lips down the bridge of his nose to hover over his mouth.

He looks a little emotional, staring up at you as if you hung the moon just for him.

And you would, you’d do anything for him.

“Are you ready baby?” You whisper

He takes a deep and unstable breath through his nose but, gives you a nod anyway as he exhales through his mouth.

Right as you start lining him up with your entrance, Jungkook cups your cheek, his hand clammed up due to his nerves.

“Jagi?” He croaks

You kiss his hand gently, reassurance in your eyes, “Yeah?”

“G-Go slow please...”

You nod, “Of course, tell me if you want to stop at any point ok?”

He returns your nod before, letting out another breath as his head returns to his pillows.

Slowly but surely, you begin sheathing him in your heat, going as slow as possible so he can feel everything.

His body seems to freeze as you sink down on him, his hands tightening on your hips before a gasp leaves his throat.

Jungkook is quite sure he’s in heaven.

That’s the only explanation for the intense feelings of pleasure swimming through his body. He’s never felt anything so hot, so tight-  

So fucking good.

He’s going to lose his mind.  

With wide eyes, he stares up at you in awe, his lips parted as the length of his dick is fully inside of you.

You’re not fairing too well either because, Jungkook fills you up perfectly, nudging against the spot within you that makes your head spin.

“Is that ok?”

“ ‘ss so good...”  His voice is slurred as his hips jerk beneath you, sending a wave of pleasure through your core.

Biting your lip, you thumb his cheek, trying to hold it together, “Can I ride you now?”

You’re asking because, you want to make sure he’s prepared.

You know this isn’t going to last long but, you still want to blow his mind.

“I’m already so close jagi...I’m sorry...” He chokes on the end of his sentence when you start a pace on his dick, “Oh fu- oh my god...”

“Shh...don’t be sorry, you’re doing so good. You cum whenever you need to ok?”  

“Ah- Y/N...”  

His beautiful features are screwed up in pleasure, his hands falling off your hips because, he literally doesn’t have the strength to hold on at this point.

Jungkook’s breathing is growing rapid, as his eyes flit to where you’re connected, “Jagi I’m- I’m really inside...I’m really inside of you...” He marvels, his voice weak with emotion as his hips begin to meet yours.  

“You feel so good inside of me.” You assure him, increasing your pace which prompts his eyes to roll back momentarily.

“Will you kiss me? Please? I wanna kiss you when I cum...and I’m-” His eyes re-focus but, it doesn’t last long as you lean forward to brace your hands on either side of his head, “Jagi I’m gonna cum already...I’m gonna cum so hard. Oh sh- shit...”

You want every wish of his to come true.

You lean down to connect your lips, your hips moving faster and faster, wanting him to cum harder than he ever has in his entire life.

He whimpers into your mouth as his sweaty hands hold you tightly against his body.

“It’s...fuck I’m sorry, I’m sor- I'm cumming.” He chokes out, his grip tightening intensely as his hips weakly jerk with the force of his release.

He says your name as he cums inside of you, trying his best to kiss you properly but, it’s wet and sloppy.

You don’t care though, you ride him through his orgasm, keeping your lips connected.

“There you go, cum for me baby...” You coo, kissing all over his face as the pleasure continues to wrack his senses.

Jungkook knows his never cum harder in his life and, by the time his orgasm settles down, he’s properly spent.

He doesn’t completely register the feeling of you sliding off of him as his whole body is alight with tingles.

You make sure to clean him up, pressing gentle kisses to his stomach as you do.

You didn’t cum this time and, to be honest, it doesn’t really matter.

What you’ve both just experienced was too intimate to measure and, orgasms weren’t really the point this time.

Tucking into your boyfriend’s body you bring him close, tugging the duvet over his shoulders this time...

“Hi” He whispers, tucking his face shyly into your neck, his breathing not fully recovered.

“Hi you...”  

With a smile on your mouth, you press a kiss to his head, holding him tightly to you.

He kisses your chest, feeling ridiculous at how shy he suddenly feels, “I think-” He stops himself to peek up at you, a bit of moisture in his eyes, “I think I’m falling for you.”

Your heart throbs at his confession, kissing his lips once more before whispering, “I think I am too.”

Jungkook knows you didn’t finish and, he plans on addressing that when he settles down but right now, all he can do is hold you.

He thinks he’s finally figured it out:

You can’t plan a perfect moment because, perfection just doesn’t exist.

But as along as he’s with you, it doesn’t really matter.

[haledamage]

Escape, Law, Pistol, and Vice for Iorwen!

Escape :: What do they do to destress? How successful is it?

she likes to climb up to the highest point she can reasonably reach or sit on the battlements surrounding the Shepherds compound and watch the stars. it’s relatively secluded, which is a gift in a big city like Haven, and really the only people who ever join her regularly are Tallys (who craves the quiet just as much), Trouble (who will sometimes stand near her perch and share a smoke), or Chase (for whom bothering Iorwen and climbing on roofs are two of his favorite things). Sometimes Blade will join her too and just... stand nearby in silent solidarity, which is nice (they never talk about it, ever (unless they’re in a romance, in which case he’s more likely to put an arm around her and pull her close instead of just standing nearby))

how successful it is depends heavily on what time of year it is and what she’s trying to destress from. it’s more effective in the autumn and winter because she likes the cold, and also it’s not as useful for Big Stress as it is for the little daily things that build up. Iorwen either hasn’t realized it yet or is trying to ignore it, but it’s actually much more effective when one of her friends is with her than when she does it alone.

Law :: What do they think about abiding rules? Are they selective about it?

she’s very selective about what rules she follows. I’d put her firmly in the Chaotic Good camp. on the one hand, she will readily and willingly follow orders if they come from someone she respects, though never blindly. on the other hand, she studied magic illegally at an illegal hidden Mage school of which her oldest friend is currently Archmage, and one of her best friends (or potentially her boyfriend, depending on which route she’s on) is the leader of the Thieves Guild, so some rules are definitely made to be broken.

Pistol :: Is this character skilled with a weapon? What’s their opinion of violence?

she is very skilled with a blade (/wink), be it sword or knife or axe or whatever. she has a particular fondness for daggers and knives, and keeps a frankly absurd number of them hidden on her person at any given time.

Iorwen sees violence as a means to an end. she doesn’t shy away from it, but she doesn’t really seek it out either. it’s very much the way she’s survived as long as she has and the way she makes a living, but she is, at her heart, a healer. I think if she could put down her daggers and dedicate herself to keeping her friends safe and healthy she’d do it in a heartbeat.

Vice :: What bad habits do they have? Is there something they would be ashamed of?

she smokes charch sometimes, though really only if it’s offered to her. it’s one of the few vices Mages are allowed to indulge in, but she doesn’t indulge often.

she has a habit of leaning against walls/tables/chairs instead of sitting down, though I don’t know if that’s a bad habit necessarily. she just doesn’t like to stay still or get too comfortable unless she’s in a place she knows she’s safe, just in case.

most of the others would say her worst habit is encouraging Red. They’re old friends (they went to school together) and she’s one of the few people who doesn’t interrupt him on his big nerdy lectures. Mostly she likes his lectures, she learns a lot of things from him, and sometimes they actually turn into debates or brainstorming sessions where the two of them bounce ideas off each other. It can lead to some really cool discoveries and/or friendly arguments, but woe be to anyone who has to be in the room with them.

I don’t think she’s really ashamed of any of her habits. she’s not really ashamed of much except her sleep problems, and even then only because she doesn’t want people to know how often she has nightmares. she’s pretty content with who she is and figures if someone else has a problem, that’s their problem not hers.

[freyjawriter24]

Advent Omens: Cookies

This one might make you a little hungry - apologies in advance! Another of my responses to @drawlight‘s excellent winter prompt list - this time Day 18, which has been sitting unfinished in my drafts for ages. Enjoy!

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When he’d set out on this project, he hadn’t thought it would take that long. A couple of months, a year at most. Not the best part of a decade.

Trying, adjusting, trying again. He was almost at the stage where he was ready to ask for human feedback – in total secrecy, of course, under the empty threat of eternal torture in Hell. He could trust the American girl, certainly, and probably her husband, and their kids could give their feedback too, but they were probably too young to understand the intricacies of flavour and the importance of the whole thing properly. Adam and Warlock could probably be trusted to keep it secret, but he’d have to keep them out of the way afterwards, because when secrets were involved, they both had a habit of grinning at Crowley in such a way that the angel would figure out something was up in about two seconds flat. Other than that, he supposed he could try it out with random humans who didn’t know Aziraphale and would therefore have zero chance of passing any confidential information on, but that was worse, because he’d have to explain things and then wipe their memories afterwards, and honestly it just wasn’t worth the stress.

But he hadn’t told anyone yet. It was almost maddening, that, having to keep something quiet for so long without even a hint that there was something there to hide. It had been a while since he’d had practice at that.

Today was the cut-off date. If he wasn’t happy with it by this evening, there wouldn’t be time for the human trials to take place so that it was ready in time for Christmas, and so he would have to work on it for another whole year before showing Aziraphale. He’d gotten this down to a fine science, both the project itself and the timings of it, and he was not going to risk mucking it all up by going over deadlines and changing everything at the last minute.

“Right, you,” he said threateningly to the tray in this hand, but determinedly not putting a miracle into it. “You’ve got to be perfect this time, okay? Perfect. I do not want this to last another year.”

He opened the oven door and slid the tray inside, hitting the to-the-second timer at the same instant that he shut the door. It began to count down, and he glared at it for a second to make sure it knew what would happen if it wasn’t loud enough or on time enough or did anything else wrong.

Then he glanced at the counter, at the pile of stuff sat there.

“Ugh,” the being who was once the Serpent of Eden said, and reached towards it. “Now for the apple.”

He worked for another couple of hours, mixing and dividing and baking, plating up the results in colour-coded tins and setting a miracle over each of them to keep them at the perfect temperature. The clipboard was marked off as each batch came out, and sat beside the tins, waiting to be filled out with all necessary details when the time came.

Crowley didn’t realise he was humming until the tune was broken partway through by a polite cough. The demon froze, then whirled around, uncovered yellow eyes blown wide.

Any faint hope he’d had that the now-adult Antichrist had been the one to break into his locked flat vanished as his gaze fell upon the softly-smiling face of his husband.

“Angel...” The word slipped out without intent, as it often did when Crowley was suddenly caught by how beautiful Aziraphale looked. But this time the shock was more one of fear and embarrassment than just flat-out love. Though there was definitely a healthy dose of that in there too.

Unnecessary blood thundering in his ears, he took in the scene, trying to figure out how much Aziraphale knew. The angel was stood by the kitchen table, the rainbow of labelled tins in front of him. Crowley himself was stood by an obviously-on oven, clearing up an obviously-floured counter, but there was no tray in his hands, no actual evidence tying him directly to the tins on the table. Maybe he had a chance? But then, with a sinking feeling in his chest, he realised the clipboard containing his own handwriting was held gently in the ethereal being’s hands, and Crowley knew he was done for. Aziraphale knew the whole thing.

The demon stumbled through a few nonsense sounds, and then eventually fell quiet. And then changed his mind immediately.

“It was meant to be a surprise,” he said slowly, quietly, and he was distantly shocked to hear how broken he sounded.

“Oh, Crowley,” Aziraphale said, dropping the clipboard on the table and crossing the room to him in a few quick, sure strides. The angel folded the demon to him in a strong hug, and Crowley hugged him back automatically, the contact no longer unusual or terrifying.

“If it helps, it was a surprise,” Aziraphale murmured, his chin tucked over his husband’s shoulder. “I didn’t even know there was anything I should be avoiding walking into. And it’s a wonderful surprise, too.”

Crowley mumbled something neither of them recognised as words into Aziraphale’s neck, and then resolved to just enjoy the moment for a bit. There was a time when we couldn’t do this. Something so wonderfully simple as this. He also resolved not to cry, and only failed a little.

“Are you okay, my dear?” Aziraphale asked when they finally drew apart. The angel was frowning at him in a concerned sort of way, and Crowley vanished any hint of tears with a click of his fingers, at the same time focusing on returning his irises to normal, human-like size.

“Yeah, sure, ’m fine, angel.”

“I really am sorry that I walked in on your surprise.”

“Nah, ’s not that. Well, maybe it’s a little bit that. But, I mean...” Crowley cast about for the words and ended up groaning at his own inarticulacy. “I just... It all got a bit much. That we can just do that now. Hug. In the middle of the kitchen. In broad daylight.”

Aziraphale’s face crumpled into a strange mixture of love and sadness and deep, deep understanding. “I know, my darling. I know.”

At that moment the timer went off. Crowley wavered for a second between the oven and the angel, then figured why not both and clicked his fingers as he stepped back towards Aziraphale and wrapped his serpentine arms around him. The final batch of cookies made it to the cooling rack right on schedule, and the two celestial beings enjoyed another moment that was all their own, still a novelty after only a decade being allowed that.

At some point, when they realised that the night had drawn in on the Mayfair flat, they broke apart again, limbs relaxing into this strange world where they could live together, be married to each other, and not have to deal with either of their respective Head Offices trying to murder them. They decided not to make the long journey back to the cottage tonight, and instead Aziraphale retrieved a collection of tartan blankets from a cupboard and arranged them around himself on the sofa.

Crowley brought a plate over with one of each cookie batch on it, and when the angel took it from him, he slipped under the blankets too and snuggled into Aziraphale’s soft embrace.

“They’re still just prototypes,” the demon warned. “I haven’t tested them on anyone else yet, so they might not be quite there yet...”

Aziraphale gave him a look, and Crowley shut up, nodding in acceptance.

“Which should I try first?”

The demon considered, then pointed, describing each by their major flavours.

“Gingerbread, white chocolate and raspberry, milk chocolate and orange, lemon with meringue chunks, then apple and cinnamon.” He considered this list, then nodded. “Yeah, that’ll work. Not the order I made them in, but they should all be the right temperature for what their flavours are.”

Aziraphale daintily picked up the first biscuit on the list, a simple round of gingerbread with a star pressed into it. “Very festive,” he commented, smiling prettily.

“Yeah,” Crowley mumbled. “I was going to add some bronze edible glitter or something, but that kind of messed up the rustic aesthetic a little...” He trailed off, realising how much he was giving away, and buried his face in Aziraphale’s neck. “Urmph, just try it.”

The angel’s soft fingers found Crowley’s among the blankets, and squeezed. The demon clung on in return, and didn’t move until Aziraphale had tried every flavour of cookie he’d painstakingly put together from scratch through a decade of testing and tasting and so much baking, baking, baking.

“Crowley,” Aziraphale said finally, and the demon dared raise his head. The pale blue eyes were full of emotion, and for a second Crowley wondered (again) what would happen to him if he discorporated now from pure love.

“My dearest, most wonderful darling,” Aziraphale began, and there was a crack in there somewhere that made Crowley grip the angel even tighter to him. “I love you more than anything in the entirety of creation.”

“They that good?” Crowley asked, and pretended the odd note of his voice was a laugh.

“Oh, they are,” Aziraphale said, nodding and pulling Crowley impossibly closer to him. “But that’s not the point. You’ve...” The angel cut himself off, took a deep breath, and covered the break by pressing a kiss to Crowley’s forehead.

He drew back slightly and continued, gazing earnestly into the demon’s eyes as he did so. “You’ve put so much time and effort into this, into making these perfect, and that’s all for me, and I just...”

It wasn’t often that either of them cried, but they both forgave themselves for it on this occasion. The tears were heavy with millennia of affection, but they were warm with it, too, and the pile of blankets became a haven of strong arms cuddling close and gentle fingers brushing cheeks and soft lips offering kisses and endless words of love, and that was honestly all they needed.

The tins of cookies sat, perfectly warmed, on the kitchen counter for the rest of the night. They were retrieved in the morning, and offered out to anyone who ventured into the bookshop (as long as they promised not to buy anything), all of whom gave rave reviews of every single flavour.

Aziraphale encouraged Crowley to bake a batch of each to bring to Tadfield for the winter celebrations that year, and every one of the humans who tried them agreed with the angel’s assessment that they were the most delicious cookies they’d ever had. Thereafter, of course, Crowley’s baking was requested at every major event, but he didn’t really mind. It made his angel happy, and that was all he’d ever really wanted.

[frogfaceandzombieboy]

can i just. take a second to talk about how beautiful it is that byeler’s connective moment happened in autumn? i’m not sure if we’ve ever discussed how much that symbolizes before. we’ve talked about the summer season and what that means in terms of youth/growing up, but not so much autumn.

the only constant is change. not only is the physical environment around them actually changing & shifting, but it’s symbolic of their whirlwind growth as young teens from the tiny kids we first met them as in s1. it’s emphasizing that yes, they’re still young but they’re growing up. they’re shedding childhood and entering a new phase of life. also combined with the horrors will faces throughout the season, it just hits home that these two young kids have to accept the impermanence of life and how important and vital it is to appreciate and embrace the present before it’s gone. i.e.- the anxiety mike feels at the possibility of losing will all season. and how the innocence of youth (trick-or-treating, stability) can float away in a bracing breeze if you turn your back to it.

it’s also a chilling time for mystery. and as obvious as it is given will’s arc and the genre of horror throughout the season; the falling leaves, changing colors and shifting lanscapes personify the unknown (— unknown emotions, perhaps? unknown intentions, unknown nature of affection). & as things die/change and life gets less certain (z o m b i e b o y; trick or treat, freak!)- it makes characters realize that they have to live life to the fullest extent that they can because the next day isn’t a given (“it was the best thing i’ve ever done.”)

autumn is also symbolic of creating warm, comforting, homey environments. as peak autumn instinctually brings out the preservation of life, it’s time to prepare for hibernation and cozy spaces for winter. amidst dropping temperatures (“he likes it cold”), who does byeler find comfort in literally the entire season? each other. the fact that the writing has them pair up this way really says this is my safe haven. that they find a home within each other. a nook where they feel safest, well-protected & ready to face the bracing, bitter and unrelenting cold of winter; together. fall is a time for reflection, and a time to reconnect within. where does will find any tranquility this season? with mike; we won’t let him- remember the first day that we met? - are you hurting again? and what is the only serene space he finds himself in? the basement; crazy together.

also in basic seasonal symbolism, autumn is the “adulthood” of the seasons. this would mean that byeler by-way of a basic writing mechanism, is symbolic of a matured, long-lasting transformative relationship capable of withstanding the test of time.

in that same vein, bundling up in warmer clothing symbolizes protection. mike has undoubtedly one of the most iconic looks all season with his argyle sweater. he also wears double layers in all of his scenes with will (always in a sweatshirt). mike becomes peak!paladin in s2 in his efforts to protect will, and as autumn is a time for boosting healthy habits, self-awareness and awareness of one’s surroundings- we can surmise that taking care of will is not only natural for mike’s protective nature but it’s also good for him. autumn brings out the best of mike (—therefore will does, too.)

and most notably, autumn represents death. aside from the most obvious example of will narrowly escaping the mindflayer’s grasp, autumn is not generally so morbid and instead, spiritually, represents beginnings. so along with death comes transition and balance & being reborn. fear shouldn’t stop you from being reborn into the unknown or you won’t be able to find new happiness. be it the death of your old self turning into something new (zombieboy/coming out), the loss of the old version of your best friend, or the death of friendship turning into something more, and the birth of love. fall is a reminder that life doesn’t get better by chance, it get better by change.

and to me it seems like byeler didn’t connect in autumn by chance, they connected for a change in their future.

[shellheadtm-a]

@involuntaryspy​ | you know what i want i want gushing over tony/bucky

okay, god, fine.  real talk, y’all, this is a ship i didn’t really think about, until i read the 2018 winter soldier run.  and then i couldn’t take the goggles off and now we’re here, i guess.  after having my eyes opened, there’s a lot of stuff - a lot of it - that points to it being a Thing That Could Happen or at least has enough canon basis (in 616 - do not get me started on how fucking badly the mcu bungled tony and bucky and what they are to each other in prime continuity because i’m still mad and i’ll stay mad and there’s literally nothing at all you can do about it) to point to it being a valid possible path to follow.

okay.

like all true possible love stories, this one starts off with one trying to kill the other.  in this case, it was just post-steve’s assassination.  bucky catches the funeral on the news.  and makes up his mind the one thing he can do for steve is kill tony stark.  and he tries to.  this very human, very squishy lump of dumb boy with a metal arm took one look at the guy in the high tech, cutting edge suit he could control with his brain, and said, “i can take him.”  and that ended with bucky sitting in tony’s office, reading the letter steve left tony, and tony offering bucky the shield, being ready to go to get rid of bucky’s triggers, and agreeing to let bucky do things his own way.

he even helped design the suit bucky wore.

but it doesn’t end there.  bucky was cap for a while, you know, it wasn’t just a hot minute.  they were on a team together.  they fought together.  they went to a possible future together, and during that time, in a lot of ways, bucky was one of the few who talked to tony.  and i don’t mean in an official avengers capacity, he’s one of the few that - because let’s not forget, bucky is very good at what he does - is observant to notice things.  tony’s little distress tells,  to ask if tony’s alright.  to show some actual concern and mean it.  during bucky’s trial, tony was just as much a part of his defense process as steve was - he’d gotten rid of the files shield had on bucky (and wiping his brain guaranteed they were gone for good).  he offered support.  he’s the one who modified bucky’s arm so he could keep it, because i can guarantee you he knew how important that would be to bucky.  he’s mentioned as a possible visitor in the gulag bucky’s thrown in.  when tony wiped his brain, left it up to his friends to decide if they were going to bring him back - if they wanted to bring him back, after everything he’d done - bucky’s quick to say yes, like there just isn’t another possibility.  we don’t see a lot of them interacting before that, not really, though there are lots of mentions, but if you flash forward to ws2018, we see a tony and a bucky who are casual, comfortable friends.  who apparently are close enough that bucky feels comfortable with tony knowing where he lives.  who are close enough that bucky will call him in the middle of the night for an evac and tony will drop everything to give it to him.  who are close enough that even when bucky (gently, i’ll add) turns down tony’s unspoken offer of a new/backup arm, tony puts one together anyway - he’s probably had plans for upgrades for bucky for ages to be honest, giving things like that to people is how tony shows he cares - and leaves it with him.

and the fireworks date.  listen, there’s a lot to be said about that one little snippet of dialogue, okay.  a lot.  sharon knows what bucky’s doing it’s written all over her and she is 1000% done with bucky barnes.  tony’s in a zone, you could ask him anything while he’s working like thta because his mouth functions on autopilot and he won’t remember hardly any of the conversation once he comes back to earth.  more importantly:  it’s confirmed by the writer himself that yeah, they went.  they sure did.  that was definitely a thing that happened, but i don’t think tony realized it for what it was, for one.  which means that overall, bucky got the real tony, not the one trying to impress.  real tony is...if you know him, you hold him close.  generous to a fault, a little dorky, wears his heart on his sleeve, gets excited about the stupidest things, is fairly unself conscious about all of it, is just...one of those people that lights up a room, really.  and more importantly things aren’t awkward between them after that.  i’m pretty sure they actually had a pretty great night.

so you know.  they’ve come a long way from bucky shoving a gun in tony’s face and tony holding bucky’s head between his palm repulsors, is what i’m saying.  but is it enough?  is it enough to establish a ship? 

bucky and tony have a lot of similarities, first and foremost.  they’ve both been steve’s foil, they know what that’s like.  they’ve both been the guy who will do the dirty work, get their hands bloody, be the bad cop, so that steve can stay untouched by the worst of things.  they’re two people who have actively worked to keep steve on his pedestal as a beacon of good.  and they now how it weighs on you, and how heavy steve’s disappointment - when they don’t do things the steve rogers way - can feel.  theirs is a small brotherhood, that really...in a way doesn’t include anyone else in the intimate way they know what it feels like.  they know what it’s like to orbit steve and think you’re broken.  to look at steve and look at yourself and find yourself lacking.  to be overwhelmed by steve.  but if this was it, i’d let it go, not really healthy ship material, you know.

in a lot of ways they mirror each other.  they both have a serious side, they’re both very good at what they do.  their spheres of interest overlap a lot, professionally, just in different capacities.  they both have great senses of humor, make the same kinds of jokes - some of which have a self-depreciating edge.  they’re both genuinely, in many ways, soft people, despite what they’ve been through.  cautious, but soft.  hell they even have the same taste in women (looks pointedly at nat).  they’ve also both clawed their way back up from the very bottom and made a comeback where they’re better than ever, if you really wanna look at it that way.  tony fell into a bottle.  tony sold his soul.  and now he’s managed to be better.  do better.  bucky ended up in a goddamn gulag.  bucky’s trying to do better for himself, he’s getting his shit straightened out.  he’s got a home.  a cat.  he’s making active, healthy steps to deal with shit.  and he’s making progress and isn’t ashamed of that.  that’s important, i think, to this whole ship, is that bucky is an example of admitting when you need help and seeking that help in a healthy way.  it’s good, i think, for tony to see that.  it might take a while for tony to get there himself, but he can see it.  he can see what it does for bucky.  and he can start the wheels turning in the back of his own mind for himself.

bucky’s been a support for tony, he knows tony, he’s seen tony at his lowest of lows, and still trusts him to know where he lives.  to work on his arm and know he’s not up to any funny business.  he understands doing what you have to do, even if it’s not the good thing to do, but for the right reasons.  and despite all this heavy shit, things between them are light.  like i still haven’t read invaders (shame on me) but the few pages i have (because i was there for tony) even bucky diverting tony from steve doesn’t have...any heat in it?  he still makes it a joke and i think...overall.  bucky understands that the best way to get tony out of one of those hit first ask questions and feel remorse later moods is to give him another target, something else to focus on.  like...it’s all so subtle, really, but in their overall interactions you can see just how well bucky understands tony.  that you don’t have to be a guy with three ph.ds to figure out how tony’s brain works on an emotional level.

there’s also no competitiveness between them.  tony’s supporting role in ws2018 is a nice change of pace, and while he grumbles and grouses that’s just tony being tony, because he doesn’t mean any of it.  it’s tony being playful, in a way.  he doesn’t mind taking the back seat role and dropping things to help when bucky really needs it, and i bet bucky can count on him every time, all the time, to do it.  bucky’s in tony’s circle of people he’d do anything in the world for, and it’s a thing you gotta do somewhat responsibly, because i mean literally anything.

also important, bucky’s a tinkerer, he does his own arm maintenance mostly, and he’s curious.  he asks questions.  he knows how to engage tony on a level they both get.  hi i just love bucky barnes a whole fucking lot.

but what i’m saying is, especially with regards to this particular ship (i can’t wait for tony to figure out he’s being surprise dragged to the altar it’s gonna be great) is that...they’re different people.  absolutely.  but they know each other.  they have this...unspoken understanding of each other.  and tony’s habit of nesting, and bucky being a soft touch just...pushed it right along as naturally as could be.  there was already a foundation of trust you only get when you know the worst about someone but still see them as being someone you can believe in anyway, and they have that by the bucket.  and like...all it took was a little push and here they are.  they’re gross and disgusting and sappy but tony’s happy and that’s what matters to me.  bucky’s his safe haven, and he’s ready and willing to drop everything and be bucky’s, when it’s needed.  they just kind of...fell into step next to each other and that was that, they haven’t dropped out of formation from that.  we get weekend domestic tony stark now who thinks about the middle of indiana as being home and has a killer commute that i can promise you he makes at even the slightest hint he can and.

i love them.

insert tony ship get thoughts | accepting