#he's ready to be a supportive friend

[fredmundo]

Eddie after the bt breakup:

[adaki]

GIRLS NITE OUT >_< ((clockwork could not make it)) (wip)

[aspectacularswathofswarmingbees]

So, I was rewatching the disastrous life of saiki k and i got to thinking about something.

Saiki says that satou attracts different clichés because he's just so average. Like in the baseball episode. That whole episode is about how he is so average at everything that it makes the whole story average by comparison, thus the clichés. When saiki first sees him he comments about how his friends are two clichés, one chubby one skinny, one with glasses one without.

So we know that perfectly average people attract different cliché tropes. We also know that saiki trys to be as average as possible all of the time. We also know that saiki's entire friend group is made up of cliché characters, different anime tropes present in each of them. We also know that, despite saiki's blatant disinterest and several attempts at avoiding them, they are chronically allergic to leaving him the hell alone.

Do you see what I'm getting at here?

What if, because saiki is so average but so extraordinary at the same time, he constantly attracts cliché, but extraordinary people? Like some sort of magnet for friendship and weird situations that he has to fix.

He spends so much time wondering why they can't leave him alone, and I'm pretty sure there are like a bajillion reasons, but this might be one of them.

[mcytegg]

i love ros and clown so much, hes her scary dog privilege 🤏🤏🤏

[jinstronaut]

i still orbit you, and nothing’s changed, but if there’s no name to love, everything has changed. (cr. namuspromised, lyric translation doolsetbangtan)

happy birthday @cordiallyfuturedwight 💜💜💜

[mrmeepsmadmind]

idw bumblebee and prowl shouldve broke up bcs he wouldnt stop 𝚊sking prowl to pause his report for just one lil astrosec so he can change his various pastel colored pens while making his cute little aesthetically pretty for no reason & very time - consuming notes with big colorful fonts & cute designs real quick

also another thought abt annoying ass bb trying to make running a literal planet cotteque so he doesn't go crazy bcs hes now a politician when all he ever wanted was to deliver mail & smile & wave at bots who call him cute ---

bee: 𝚠heeljack, im so sorry about this but do you mind repeating the time-stakingly long introduction, instruments, research references, modules, hypothesis, counter thesis, procedures, analysis, second - retrial, results, & explanation that you just spent 700000 earth hours saying because i was busy drawing a cute little bee in the corner of my notes please :] ?

wheeljack:

idw bee trying to run a planet that fucking hates him is just rlly funny to me, especially since everyone views bee as the goody character who everyone loves & he views himself as that & then they finally win this consuming war & he can reap his rewards of being loved without holding a gun & no one fucking likes him. hes even getting on his own old team's nerves & not in the loveable scamp way but the get the fuck out of my face way

[godsfavoritescientist]

you ever think about how bill is who the pines could have been if they didn't have any kind of support from anyone in their lives

[nixtheclause]

was anyone going to warn me the reverse of the medal would have me crying on an airplane but NOT for any of the reasons id expected 😭

[petrichorium]

pluvi i impulsively pulled for jiaoqiu and i don’t know how to build him (and don’t even have acheron) do u know what works for him team wise and artefacts wise?

I will point u over to my beloved guoba’s vid on him if u want an in-depth discussion but for a tl;dr of that:

He slots decently well in any team where Pela does, so he’s good as a Dr Ratio support if ur hurting for debuffs w his team. Hes also an okay dot support (better w eidos so most wouldn’t bother at e0) and he’s pretty good in pure fiction due to ult spam—in general, probably think of him as a debuffing ult support, so he’s good w chars that need debuffs like Ratio and/or whose damage primarily comes from their ults like Argenti or Yunli BUT w the caveat that you’ll probably want Tingyun on there w them as a battery.

Here are the important graphics guoba gave wrt relics

Obvi his sig is his best lc but in lieu of that apparently eyes of the prey is good bc it gives ehr, and tutorial mission (the event lc from way back when silver wolf was introduced, im sorry if u don’t have it) or the Herta shop cone r both very good for ult spam, w the Herta shop cone especially good for pure fiction.

Hope that helps!!!

[axolotlclown]

Today Caiti announced she's not coming back to streaming. I want to highlight why the #MeToo movement in 2018 was such a big deal.

This girl was sexually assaulted by a powerful man in her career. No matter what would have happened or how much proof she had, speaking out would ruin her career.

She would be known for the most traumatic event in her life. Strangers would constantly gossip about it, and other men would make their opinions known.

She's young; she can quit streaming and pursue other ventures. This decision will not ruin her life. But if she were older, she would either have to be forced to come back and endure relentless harassment, or step away and accept a financial crisis. This would have ruined her life.

This is public because these are public figures, but for millions of women, this is their lives. Powerful men can abuse countless women and stay in power because speaking out about it ruins lives.

This was Caiti's first Vidcon as a streamer. She was 18 and so excited to see all of her friends. She was ecstatic to meet bigger streamers and make connections. This was such a pivotal moment in her career. And now it's gone.

If you still support George, Dream, or anyone that was in that fucking room, I don't have a single shred of fucking respect for you. You are promoting a culture that ruins lives. That man doesn't deserve anything but the damn streets. He certainly doesn't deserve money or influence. He doesn't deserve a single damn woman in his life willing to call him a friend. I only hope his current supporters are too young to understand what happened.

I hope Caiti finds fulfillment in her new ventures, and I hope she leaves all of this behind. And to anyone reading who has been assaulted and is too afraid to speak out, I hope you find peace and people who see you for more than your trauma.

[super-done-dead]

so much

[padfootastic]

Ahaha thank you for the nice comments in tags <3 i love Remus but he seems bit like a spineless people pleaser and after dating somebody who would rather lie about their feelings than have people be mildly upset with them..... I chose violence 🗡

no but ur so right because!!! i’ve been sleeping on this for a while but let’s talk about remus’ personality traits and how they have the potential to make him a bad/absent partner, at best, and an abusive one, at worst. everyone wants to turn him into this image of perfection just bc he’s such an ‘uwu victim’ figure in fanon but that’s SO far from the truth omg

(i am…just gonna put this remus character analysis under a cut bc it got unnecessarily long and i wouldn’t want u to read it if u didn’t want to lol)

so, for one, he’s manipulative. he has no combinations in twisting the truth or dodging it entirely for his own benefit. like, the man could stand in front of his dead best friend’s orphaned son & not even allude to the fact that he knew his dad. he had no problem bringing james & lily up in the most twisted ways possible to guilt/emotionally influence harry. so remus in a relationship would have the capacity to either knowingly or unknowingly manipulate his partner. the definition of gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss except more sinister.

next, his spinelessness. either as a defensive measure to deal w anti-werewolf hostility or as an innate personality trait, remus has the habit of just—not standing up for things. he looks away when his friends act like assholes, even when he’s in a position of authority (which yes, u can argue that he’s afraid of losing them but atp they’ve literally risked life & magic & azkaban for him so either way, he comes off badly—either he doesn’t mind himself, or he doesn’t fully trust their friendship, or it’s just easier to look away). in a relationship, this can manifest as bottling everything inside u until it makes u bitter or u violently unload on the other person in an entirely disproportionate manner. the dynamic would also be a bit skewed. the people pleasing u mentioned is also such a big thing that people usually overlook. when ur constantly trying to make the other person happy and don’t want to rock the boat, that is a cocktail for miscommunication and breakdown of relationships. ur also constantly putting the emotional burden of constructively dealing w issues on ur partner instead of doing it urself.

connected to his cowardice is his habit of running away when things get tough. remus is conflict avoidant; he does not like to put himself in a position where he has to take a decisive stance, especially if it’s against what others around him believe in. he runs away when things get tough, and tbh, for me, this comes from a constant spiral of self hatred & self victimisation, both of which stem from his experience as a werewolf. in every difficult situation, he centres himself & his discomfort and instead of dealing with it and moving forward for a constructive solution, he decides that stepping back from it altogether is better. which, yeah, works well for him bc he can temporarily put a pin in it but it’s kinda terrible for everyone’s who’s left behind. so i also think that remus is a profoundly selfish character who doesn’t look beyond the end of his own nose. u can imagine how those traits might manifest themselves in a relationship.

and his people pleasing!! so this might be verging on fanon but his gratitude and/or devotion to dumbledore sets an…interesting tone. it’s also another example of how he cannot conceive himself in any other term except as a victimised werewolf. the marauders did a lot for him, arguably even more than dumbledore’s token representation formula, but he never felt indebted to them the way he did for D. dumbledore also kind of makes him feel needed? validates his feelings? and that just speaks to a very twisted sense of self for me. which, again, won’t bode well for his other interpersonal relations.

also, on a very hc note, i also feel like remus just…does not have any significant capacity to love. he takes and takes and takes but doesn’t give much in return. this doesn’t even have to be an actively malicious decision, tbh, just a very self-centred one. he doesn’t realise how much he’s taking bc he’s only thinking about his own circumstances.

all of these are also just why i can’t see r/s working out in any healthy manner. remus is exactly antithetical to everything sirius is/believes in, and not even in the fun ‘opposites attract’ way. but that’s another rant no one asked for lmao

[livingproofoftbd]

watching georgebur clips because i miss them and the clip of wilbur thinking dnf was real because of how much george was talking about it came up Real tears are falling

[heartshattering]

I'll be happy if I can sleep at least

[stormyoceans]

In the next episode we have Papang! Hallelujah! Let's scream together Monica!📢

MASS HYSTERIA SCREAMING EVENT AT MY HOUSE IN 5 IM GONNA BE WAITING FOR YOU ANON YOU JUST KNOW ME AND MY PRIORITIES SO WELL!!!!!!!!

THE SECOND PAPANG APPEARED ON MY SCREEN IN THE PREVIEW FOR NEXT WEEK'S EPISODE I WAS JUMPING ON MY COUCH BARKING BITING SCREECHING HOWLING VIBRATING OUT OF MY SKIN EVERYONE PLEASE CHEER AND CLAP FOR MY MAIN MAN!!!!!!!

my buddy nick about to be a stronger human being than i could ever be because if this man showed up in front of me and told me he was single and ready to mingle the only words coming out of my mouth next would be my house is nearby and im free rn

ANYWAY I SAID IT BEFORE BUT IMMA SAY IT AGAIN I HOPE NICK IS GONNA FORGET ABOUT BOSTON AT LEAST FOR A WHILE AND LET THIS MAN BLOW HIS BACK (and if after that nick still doesn't want him i will gladly take him)

[italictext]

Hurray!! My sister came out to my mum as bi/pan and told ma she had a girlfriend and it went well! She's not 100% supportive but we'll get there