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impossible-rat-babies · 5 months ago

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I love doing the occasional pollux art bc I miss him v dearly, but it’s fun and nice to see likes bc it feels like a chorus of people going look at him go!!

#the funny guy!!#I wanna draw him and Ortega but also just. itfjfjfjcifjfuv my funny guy #his fashion has grown to include long skirts w chunky boots and I’m here for it #long denim + corduroy skirts. the heavy closer to the skin ones #and chunky boots w big heels to make him taller #he sure can gender in a way #okay to be fair he also hates Ricardo as much as Julia for doing the gender thing so much better than him #he just also hates his puppet for the same things #he hates castor bc she’s pretty and he hates himself for keeping her pretty #and he hates that he feels like he has to be that way with her #bc he cannot get out of the trap of the self imposed sense of gender #bc the terrible thing w knowing ur a construct w human gender feelings is that it sits in opposition to the gender the construct #has been assigned bc it’s easy #gender and humanity are so. linked in Pollux’s brain it’s so stupid and silly of him #he also keeps castor nice bc if she is nice there is some reward to be had there will be a reward for doing the gender correctly yeah?#stupid mf w the reward system in his brain all messed up #anyway I lovbe ppl who love pollux

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zehl0w · 4 months ago

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Zenitsu agatsuma has got to be the biggest egg I have ever seen in my entire life

#demon slayer #kimetsu no yaiba #zenitsu agatsuma #nezuko kamado #there’s genuinely no way bro doesn’t have smth going on with his gender #nezukos bamboo necklace is chewlery btw hehe #I hope I was able to capture the expression of like #just genuine tender yearning #it’s something he’s always had the longing for but never quite understood where it came from #or even what it was #just a very empty hole in his body that he could only ever describe as self hatred and disgust even if he knew that wasn’t quite right #I think when they’re older nezuko would rlly help him like #get comfortable w the idea of actually exploring his identity #he’s spent so much of his life just truly and bitterly hating himself to the core #he couldn’t stomach the idea of thinking about who he was beyond the surface level #I think nezuko would make him feel so much more okay with himself and help try to get him to a point of at the very least knowing who he is #it’s a very long road that zenitsu really honestly isn’t sure if he’s comfortable with #but he can’t help but at least try #if not for himself but for the ache of the child inside himself who has so desperately longed for comfort and love and belonging #he wants to know that child who was so brutally outcasted could eventually find a home #he wants to believe there’s hope for himself #Zenko chan I love you so much #she is so important 2 me…..#sorry transed your zenitsu. no yeah we can’t undo it. yeah he’s a she now. sorry nothin I can do.

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rewritingcanon · 5 months ago

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my sister and i just yapped for almost three hours and we were just talking about how genuinely weird people in fandom are surrounding characters who have explicit mental illness. like they can never ever be normal. there are characters who are romanticised and glamourised for their mental illness (eren. wanda. joker. kaneki. nico. almost any danganronpa/ddlc character). characters who are consistently ridiculed for their mental illness either because it simply isn’t getting taken seriously (reiner) or because no one takes the character seriously (armin). and there are the characters that get blatantly outright DESPISED for it (basil, harry potter, korra, gale, also eren etc etc). like yes im seeing a correlation but its still so astounding how selective people are about where they draw the line with mental illness and what traits they can accept.

#*like yes this can be about ootp harry but this post is ESPECIALLY about older harry potter from the cursed child #this post was originally gonna be about basil because damn he does not deserve the hate he gets #omori fandom PLEASE stop policing how children react to their own trauma PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEA #theres also definitely a gendered aspect to it cuz yknow for sure that catra wouldve been a poster child if she was a guy #+ annie leonheart & korra & katniss & aubrey & (controversial) akito. ppl like women spiralling into madness without redemption tho. hnm #all these characters need compensation for this its not even funny #disclaimer: this is not a criticism of the way each characters mental illness is depicyed but a criticism of fandom etiquette towards it #omori basil #harry potter #cursed child #aot #attack on titan #reiner braun #eren yeager #armin arlert #wanda maximoff #katniss everdeen #the hunger games #gale hawthorne #legend of korra #avatar korra #dc joker #kaneki ken #danganronpa #tokyo ghoul #nico di angelo #pjo #percy jackson #rewriting #yall when mental illness makes someone who is suffering so insanely a bit unlikeable: 🤯🤯

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strobbylemonade · 6 months ago

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101 - a dummy's guide to loving and becoming human again

#it's been literally 1 day since ive started thinking about these two and i'm severely mentally ill #do they even have a ship name. i saw 'crowclock' but surely we can do better.#limbus company #yi sang lcb #dante lcb #limbus company fanart #strbylmn art #i. WAAAAHHH WAHHHH #hear me out. yi sang has self worth issues and sees himself as less than human. and he easily develops attachment to inanimate objects #dante struggles to form proper attachments because they don't know what the normal pace for forming relationships is. and they hate being #seen as less than human. so we run into this crazy ass relationship where dante likes yi sang for how human he is and yi sang likes dante #in part because of their head. so they love each other despite neither of them seeing themselves in the way the other sees them.#DOES ANYONE HEAR ME. AAAGHHHHHHHHHH #also supreme amount of gender fuckery as a result. GOD. I'VE MADE MYSELF MENTALLY ILL

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blue-eli · 6 months ago

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For the last day of pride month: sea salt family!

#kh roxas #kh xion #kh isa #kh lea #sea salt trio #sea salt family #kingdom hearts #kh #kingdom hearts xion #kingdom hearts roxas #kingdom hearts lea #kingdom hearts Isa #kh Axel #xion kh #roxas kh #isa kh #lea kh #roxas kingdom hearts #xion kingdom hearts #lea kingdom hearts #isa kingdom hearts #no one can stop me from everything I can think of. so #not shown but Roxas is gnc but there isn’t a commonly excepted flag and I didn’t just want to use the nonbinary flag #it’s important to me that you know that Lea is the only cis one in the sea salt fam I think it’s funny #Xion Isa transgirl transman solidarity. we love that for them #Xion and Roxas would find solidarity in the queer and particularly trans community in a way a lot of trans people find solidarity in them #They have a gsa club at school and both join. Xion realises she is transgender and the fact that others have the experience of being a girl #trapped in a boys body blows her mind. yeah it’s not exactly the same but holy shit!!!#Roxas gets to explore his identity more! figures out that gender isn’t that important to him and yeah sure he can be a girl and a guy #and whatever. it’s fun! Lea and Isa grew up in a place where this stuff wasn’t talked about that much so they are confused but supportive

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ireallyneedaintrestinglife · 27 days ago

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I will forever be unable to visualize human!aithusa as anything other than Eri from My Hero Academia

For context:

This is her picture off the wiki and like just yes!! Swap her red eyes for blue and you got yourself Aithusa. Even the one horn could be symbolic of Aithusa being disabled!!

#do you see it #i literally cannot visualize human! Aithusa in any other way #even though im pretty sure Aithusa is a male #i still visualize him like this #maybe he just has long hair #dragons dont do gender expectations #now all i can think of is human!kilgarrah with long flowing hair like izuru kamukura #from Danganronpa #and i made myself giggle a little #anywho #merlin #bbc merlin #merlin bbc #merlin emrys #merlin x arthur #merthur #aithusa #merlin Aithusa #aithusa Merlin

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lucabyte · 4 months ago

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transfem loop + siffrin... you agree

i does agree.... i does in fact ... write a 7k word essay on the subject..... if you would like to perhaps click that link and read it if you were not already aware...... kisses u on the forehead......... sorry its that long but i had to cover all of my bases you know how it is with textual analysis when you're trying to draw a distinction between "headcanon" and "reading of the text" because those are different things.... to meeeeeeee.......

#a headcanon is when i say shit like loop has feetie pyjamas.#a reading of the text is when i go jesus christ dude im not sure someone that repressed has a particularly great grasp on their ideal Self #lucabytetalks #isat spoilers #back on the homestuck tangent sometimes i think about how ppl picked up on the trans coding of roxy but were so set in their ways that #they thought it mustve been in the past and not a potential future... and then got real mad about a character being like.#complexly transmasc with a nuianced relationship to gender and not Easily Brushed Off Before The Narrative Begins Binary Trans Woman #one of the few times i think ive seen it be That way around? but i think it comes down to that whole. visible transgenderism happening #during the plot vs Invisible transgenderism that shh its okay you dont have to actually think about you can just say for brownie points #BUT MAYHAPS THAT IS MEAN. mayhaps that is mean. but i know what i saw back in the day.#sighs homestuck tangent over anyway uhhh yeah hold on isat fans ill throw you a new bone instead of getting off topic uhhh #isabeau seems like such a pragmatic planner to me i think theyve got contingency plans for whatever family they want to have in future #logical nerd with his transition timeline planned out and it includes a flowchart with an 'IF partner has X then i need Y to have a kid'#shrodingers op isabeau . guy with a gender spreadsheet and punnet squares. i think it being that methodical is funny #it also speaks to his occasional hesitance but thats too dark of a read i think im not going to stake anything serious on that #i have thoughts on isa but they're more obviously aligned with what he literally says with his words in-game. not really much worth #elaborating on besides poking at how his insecurities and appeasement to others might inform his literal decisions #i have maybe a few bullet points in my head for him. not 7k words

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yeyayeya · 9 months ago

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Will forever be mad that MXTX dropped the fact that Hua Cheng had a female form and refused to elaborate

#yeyarants #tgcf #tian guan ci fu #heaven official's blessing #hua cheng #mxtx tgcf #mxtx #mo xiang tong xiu #like hello??#why would you drop that and not elaborate??#mxtx my girl #why???#I knew he had something going on with gender I just knew it #not in a bad way tho #I will always think about this #I’m not sure if hua cheng’s introduction got changed in the revised version #in the very beginning where the other gods are talking about the myths of hua cheng #and what his true form actually is #like why would you not elaborate on that #if it got deleted I’m going to be mad #I will forever think about Hua Cheng’s female form #I WANT TO KNOW THE BACKSTORY OF IT #is it because he missed his mother #if so I’m gonna cry #he is a shapeshifter #ok but imagine the shenanigans of it #I can easily imagine Hua Cheng dragging HX to transform so they could fool and trick people #I WANT TO KNOW MORE UGH #tgcf hua cheng #hua cheng’s female form is my Roman Empire

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bayetea · 1 month ago

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I don't like the judo flip in moa as much as the next guy but in my eyes it's largely the result of rick not taking female violence half as seriously as male violence (a result of viewing women as weaker and inferior to men such that their acts of violence don't need to be taken as seriously) and not so much anything about annabeth herself. like I do genuinely feel that annabeth is a complex heroine and definitely one of the better ones in the realm of ya action-adventure fiction produced in the past 25 years but she is still a girl being written by a man and all I'm saying is that her writing clearly reflects that sometimes (more in tags)

#case in point: the amazons #hazel: you keep slaves????#kenzie: no. the men just know their place #like...... sure jan. the parody of amazon the company isn't actually using immoral labor the workers just like it that way 🥰#but that line about “knowing their place” would not fly the other way around #because women in power are not taken as seriously as a group of men dominating female workers would be #(we could talk about the futurama amazons too in this context because it's pretty much the same issue of female violence not #being taken seriously and played for laughs instead. iykyk)#do you guys know that trope of girls who are just comically aggressive and mean towards guys who barely reciprocate the energy #(like the majority of the female cast of naruto falls into this trope. again iykyk)#it's like a shallow attempt to write a strong female character by just making her an Angry mean nasty man-hater #or it's just a validation of some nerd's worldview that women are just always so mean towards men who never do anything wrong #and they definitely don't have power over women in society women are just Like that. for some reason #anyways if you couldn't tell by my pfp I'm an annabeth fan so I definitely don't mean this in an anti-annabeth way #just in a Critical of the way rick portrays women way #specifically women that he wants to come off as strong/powerful #and if you are a fellow annabeth stan and feel upset by this all I can say is that it isn't a bad thing to be critical of the way our faves #are written and in fact critical reading is a very important skill to exercise 👍#this is also why I'm annoyed by the “annabeth is abusive” allegations because it's like Ok she's clearly not intended to come off that way #so instead of meaninglessly antagonizing annabeth (who isn't real) or fans who enjoy her/the ship in its entirety #what can we glean about the flaws of the writing. what can we glean about biases of the author who wrote the damn thing #(not saying I even agree with the allegations to begin with because I Don't but yk)#this whole thing stems from social constructs around gender (everything else in the world does) i.e. public reception to female violence #where real world female violence isn't taken seriously so female criminals face less harsh punishments OR the other way around and female #cruelty is received as even more egregious than male cruelty because how dare a woman be anything but kind and nurturing and angelic #btw this is not a safe space to be anti percãbeth/annabeth in my notifs keep that to yourself bud 👍#rr crit #pjo hoo toa #percy jackson

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puppppppppy · 10 months ago

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Its really freeing when “gender is just a construct” really sinks in and you dont see yourself identifying with any pre-existing gender that the answer is “wait I can just make my own gender lol.” So. Hello everyone. Im pupgender now

#I still use he/she/they and if someone asks I’ll probably still say nonbinary unless its someone I trust this information with #I just. wanted something made just for me. thats it lol #I get that its important to some people to belong and I think if they really want to find a community who shares the way they feel #about themselves thats actually so wholesome and beautiful #its just that im tired of saying im not really sure what I am whenever it comes up in conversation #because I DO know what I am its just that its not exactly something u would call a gender. except u can and I just did it #this also doesnt mean I use pup/pups pronouns even if it fits the neopronoun naming scheme. I just need something to call myself that #feels like me I guess #Ive never been good at staying self contained in terms of identity so might as well #yapping #diary

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mother-of-houseplants-2 · 5 months ago

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we gotta stop diagnosing men with eldest daughter syndrome

#like as a joke or whatever sure yes that’s your babygirl i get it. i am also guilty of making this joke #but if we’re being serious we have to acknowledge the impact gender has on family dynamics #especially when it comes to childrearing/caring for elders/etc #which anyone can do obviously. but is socially gendered nonetheless #am i making sense #what i’m trying to say is when we talk about the eldest daughter dynamic the person’s womanhood is integral to the way they’re treated #and that contributes very specifically to their role/identity/depiction #no your fave isn’t eldest daughter coded just because he had to take care of a sibling. it’s about the specific combination of misogyny and #parentification only an eldest DAUGHTER would understand. you’re taking about eldest CHILD or eldest SON syndrome #personal #kind of #eldest daughter #parentification #misogyny

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snowshinobi · 10 months ago

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nothing gets me like a character with overt flower symbolism ESPECIALLY self-inflicted

#this post is about #lyney #choosing to use rainbow roses instead of lumi bells for his magic tricks from now on #bc he finds out lumis represent farewells. and rainbow roses represent passion. and he wants to hold onto his connection with #the main character who he's hopelessly gay for (either in the homosexual way or the bisexual way depending on the gender of mc)#but pla tag other characters and ocs and tell me their flower symbolism so i can be unwell about them too #snowswords #Genshin Impact #flower symbolism #i will tag my ocs now #onphora #gets daffodil bc ofc. they are lethal to everyone who isn't (found) family. even then they are stingy w trust/affection ...#tam #tammy #choses lilies bc she holds them at the funeral for a man she hated. flower of fuck you. flower of i do whatever i want especially now #flower of ... doing the right thing. i will mourn you but not bc you deserve it. alsooo lilies can be speckled (: like tam's freckles #elis #hmm i would give elis carnations. white ones w purple dye (: fun n cheap n accommodating n kinda tryhard flowers. but you love em for it <3 #i should assign more flowers to more OCs. i'll add them as i come up w them #OH i assigned #relin #who belongs to #cosmic #magnolias. ancient plants (relin's lineage is important) that represent endurance. that man sure endures ...#OMG I FORGOT I ASSIGNED #senjuro #SUNFLOWERS BC HE IS A SUNFLOWER. HIS LOVE WOULD BE TOO MUCH! HE WAS LEFT IN THE DUST ... and bc he's a sunshiny kid. my poor boy ...

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zrllosyn-art · 5 months ago

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i love your oc haru so much. he;s like if a man & woman had a baby

LMAO thank you for likin my lil guy!! he is my current favorite.

(also accurate)

i have literally over 100 pages of sketches of this guy rn it is dire

#kn8 oc #haru eizaki (oc)#he is SO FUN TO ME so its a blast hearin other people like him #he is a fuckign disaster #also he is kinda. gender. to me #so like #th whole. man and a woman had a baby. is SUPER ACCURATE #n kinda what i was goin for #gember for my ocs. as a treat #(i say as if all of them aint queer in some way shape or form)#anywyas i was like. i have so many doodles i can surely i can complie em #and then this haru zine is now over 100 pages long #and has like #literally eveyrthing in it #one day ill finish compiling it n put it out for like. free #you can have oc lore. as a treat #if you want lMAO #once i am done i will probs be printing a copy. for me. (and my several friends who have joined me in the brainrot pit)#anywyas its enn goes off in the tags again #i will leave it there #I WILL LITERALLY TALK FOREVER ABOUT THIS GUY #IF I COULD #but also like i get shy and think i talk to much #(sorry moss i am doing my best)#anywyas #THATS IT FROM ME

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leohtttbriar · 3 months ago

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tieran the warlord took over kes's body and then presumably looked down at the 90s-style jumper she was wearing and simply had to change into something more appropriate, including a pair of black stiletto boots. because that's essential to the political cause i guess

#tieran said: these heels can pierce the patriarchy.#voyager #for real though he sure did embrace his new gender presentation Rapidly #rapidly enough that i suspect the stilettos were a choice from a male producer #who wanted to make the actor taller in the sexiest bad-girl-est way possible #kes #star trek #ep: warlord

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radmista · 3 months ago

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Genuinely not looking forward to the onslaught of brain dead gender takes the new wave of fans are gonna make over the Ranma 1/2 remake.

#and its like I get it. bc yeah he does literally transform into a girl and back again.#but he's not 'genderfluid' in the way gender fans think of genderfluid bc he doesn't ever consider himself a woman #he's literally just a guy who's cursed to transform into a woman sometimes #like please. please be normal #there are no words to articulate my devastation that they're remaking ranma 1/2 #bc i appreciated it being relatively niche and kinda forgotten about #and now i gotta see people clowning over it bc of the mew netflix show #its like the same shit people did over Camilo from encanto #like yeah sure he's '''genderfluid''' in that he can literally transform into a woman at will #but he's not '''genderfluid''' in terms of ideology or mentality. the guy knows hes a man and will always be a man #big ugh

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buryam-soul · 8 months ago

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I hope picking the Male Rover from Wuthering Waves is the reason I sort out my gender situation bcs that would be a pretty funny way for that to happen

#currently im forever in a loop of 'genderfluid or gnc cis girl' and the former often branches into 'ok but what ARE the genders in ur fluid'#and what most often messes me up are my pronouns. im not attached to she/her but the idea of changing it or even saying idc --#-- doesn't cause strong feelings for me either way. so i just keep using she/her #anyway a long time ago when wuwa was still barely in beta i saw male rover & thought 'wow rare male mc i prefer to the fem one'#'surely he/him won't be jarring for a game. i'll just name him angkasa like my mom would've named me as a boy so i can have some distance'#fast forward to now where i use angkasa as a second name and have this gender predicament happening. and wuwa's releasing soon.#why did i write all this <- guy who's procrastinating from doing lineart #(see. see how sometimes i say guy & sometimes girl. & sometimes i can't figure it out so is that its own gender or lack of gender or??)#i WAS gonna let this rot in drafts but yknow what. maybe my confusion is amusing to someone. woe! scattered thoughts be upon ye

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