#have a bachelors?

[the-gray-goat]

Yes, it happens.

Please, if you are at the start and noticed it, take it very seriously and try your best to cut it out. It became an addiction and an obsession, and it literally destroyed my life.

I lost more than a decade to it, and thanks to it, I will probably lose what is left. It is not funny or quirky. It is miserable, I won't ever get those years back, and whatever else years I decide to live suck because I built nothing to go off of.

And then you go back to daydreaming because your life sucks more than when you started with it years ago.

And differently of being addicted to drugs, if you ever share about it with people or ask for help, nobody takes it seriously.

And let's be honest, it is shameful. Out of all the things to get addicted to?

At the same time, while you can avoid drugs in your house. And keep junk food out of your house if you over eat or something, there is no running away from your brain.

After one point, you won't be able to stop, even if you desperately want to.

Not even professional help could help me.

Do not make the same mistake I made.

Live life.

Just one step each day is enough, keep moving, after years things will build on one another and you will have something as long as you keep putting in the work, while daydreaming will bring you nothing but bitterness and emptiness.

Effort and failure may hurt, and the rewards might not ever be as interesting as the ones in the dreams, but at least they are real, and pain beats feeling nothing.

I just saw a thing that was like if you fantasize too much you’re releasing enough dopamine that you won’t be motivated to actually do anything or live your life because the fantasy feels almost as good with none of the effort and it can essentially become an addiction that messes with your ability to perform daily tasks or maintain/develop real relationships……………… awkwardddd

[onemagpie]

Au where Goncharov and Andrey survive everything, grow old together and sit on a street all day somewhere in the south of Europe

[dizzybizz]

i drew them,, with some mixed results

[texasbama]

[blitheringbongus]

Personally I think they’d be cute

[fiona-fififi]

Just over here thinking about just how much trust is implied in the way Eddie let loose at the bachelor party. And I know this isn't news, that Eddie trusts Buck implicitly, but there's just something so beautiful in the idea that Eddie Diaz—master of control and compartmentalization and putting everyone else first—was not only willing, but eager to let loose with Buck. Even after the safety of the rest of their group was gone, even after Buck had invited dozens of strangers into their space, Eddie didn't hesitate for a moment to let go with Buck because of course Buck is safe and of course he can trust Buck to let go right beside him without judgment.

And there's just something really beautiful in that.

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

[Based on a group chat (I was Wen Ning)]

Congratulations to everyone who graduated recently, or is soon to graduate!!!

[peggingeddiediaz]

911 text posts pt 3

[x-letsbreaksomerules-x]

is this something

[mariamegale]

There are 44 counts on the indictment. Here’s what happened as a result of your actions… ...is that so? Show me how it really was, then.

PATHOLOGIC 3 (2025)

trailer released on 7/10-2024

[cora-illus]

(GTN Spoilers) a locked tomb animation/amv i've been working on for uhhh.. you know what just roll it

[transk0vsky]

Got possessed by the demons again

[sirchik]

looks at his the butcher

[evild3ad]

my humble Stardew Valley Spouse review, in birthday order 💜 I love my boywives & girlhusbands.

(edited to fix a typo in the graphic lol)

[starkwlkr]

petition for the whole ‘which team is adrian newey choosing to join?’ be filmed and edited like the bachelor

[loktauri]

Tma au where nothing is wrong ever and Jon gets to pet as many cats as he likes