#good vibes always

[blaksharks32]

Nut all in her November.. or however that saying goes 😏

[bean-spring]

Hot take and not to be a killjoy or the shipping police but people treating Viktor or Jinx's aroace headcanons as if they were canon is not the revolutionary take people think it is.

Headcanons are always all right but we have to acknowledge that they are somehow damaging when they apply to stereotypes. It might not be the case for everyone but most of the time people unconsciously assume that disability/mental illness=asexuality. These headcanons erase the freedom of attraction from people who are already seen as unable to have sexual/romantic experiences/desires, when it's completely untrue and harmful.

You can headcanon Viktor and Jinx as aroace, but I have seen people changing their minds once Viktor is no longer disabled (s2 with all of his other forms) and Jinx is no longer as mentally ill (alternate universe Powder). And it speaks wonders of how people see these characters.

"I never thought about Jinx being able to feel romantic/sexual attraction until s2!" To believe she's actually only capable of that when she's not "damaged" is incredibly disturbing. Especially since Jinx has always had a bit of a flirty personality too.

"I've always seen Viktor as asexual, I don't know why!" That's fine. You can headcanon him as ace. But I believe there is a reason behind it, most of the time, if for some inexplicable reason the "vibes" of the disabled character are making you think he's ace.

I say all of this being aroaspec myself, by the way. Headcanon all you want but going to people's posts commenting how "it's weird for you that they have romantic/sexual plots when they're clearly aroace" is not a win at all. It's a headcanon, after all, and it should be treated as such, and that's fine. But it also is damaging to spread stereotypes like these.

Of course the disabled character is asexual. Of course the mentally ill character is aromantic. It's not as revolutionary as you might think, tbh.

Fandom is not activism and it's all right to have any headcanons you want BUT some of them are filled with damaging stuff and perhaps we should look into ourselves more before treating these assumptions as something canon.

[neonscrapyard]

happy thoughts, psyduck!

[art by me - neonscrapyard]

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[chloesimaginationthings]

The death of Vanessa and the birth of Vanny in FNAF

(Inspired by this art by Yuto Sano)

[bryonyashaw]

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“Don’t believe everything you read on the internet,” is the modern-day, “Don’t take candy from strangers.”

Alot of people on internet wants to appear as a perfect person. A perfect parent, Bodybuilder, progessional, Writer, Entertainer, etc, because internet is a place where everyone wants to show a happy and positive side of life. We see people travelling around the world, eating decadent food, clicking perfect pictures with their partners & showcasing a perfect image.

But is it really true? Are they really living a perfect life as they show it on their social media?

Not at all.

And I don’t mean that they are in fact unhappy, or doing it wrong or to make someone feel bad about themselves. People are allowed to post good parts of their lives. Yes, it can affect on the viewers and can make them doubt themselves - but behind each perfect image is a hidden struggle or 'mess' & not everyone shares those struggles. By this I don't mean it's the posters responsibility for others feelings but to be aware we don't see it all

It happens with all of us. If we see someone we know uploading happy pictures from holiday or celebrations while we are sitting at our home, we naturally feel bad about ourselves. We need to understand the reality that what we see on our screen is not the real truth.

No one is living a perfect life and no one can. There will always be negative behind every positive picture. So stop being too harsh on yourself by believing on such virtual perfectionism.

Which brings me to the second image which is 'do the best you can for what you can give today' - it doesn't mean it's your best every day ahead, it will look different. All you need to do is try and give what you can today, and everyday. It's a road of ups and downs and we just have to learn how to make the most of what comes.

I know at times I can be hard on myself... Comparing myself to yesterday or last year... Most days I feel like I’m not doing 'enough'. When in reality, I am doing my best & every day my ‘best’ looks different.

Your best is not going to look the same as anyone else, or how you were yesterday or ten years ago. Progress isn't linear and you won't always be working upward.

[artist-rat]

Guys do not ask how this group is still together.. I'm too afraid to ask (the answer is magic of friendship and ✨Delusion✨)

[seventh-district]

Making Incorrect H:SR Quotes Until I Run Out of (hopefully) Original Ideas - Pt. 6

[Pt. 1] [Pt. 2] [Pt. 3] [Pt. 4] [Pt. 5]

[tampire]

#Retail Mood

[glitradora]

i haven't even started the episode but this is so funny

senshi is just there like "so you two are sure lunch break is a no? not even a little fish? some riceballs?"

[blaksharks32]

That kind of day

[thewanderingmask]

very satisfactory hermits

[ionomycin]

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[obsob]

happy and proud!!

✷(print shop)✷

[bryonyashaw]

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𝙍𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙤𝙢 𝘼𝙘𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙆𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝘿𝙖𝙮

Yep, you read that right! It's a thing - I swear there is a day for everything but in this case I think celebrating a random act of kindness is never a negative thing. People can be d*ck heads. There are d*ck heads everywhere. During the pandemic I especially learnt that if there was an apocalypse we'd be totally f*cked and the weak would just d*e as everyone either bulk bought, politicians had secret house parties and so on... Anyway, I digress.

Have you ever had your entire day improve because of something someone did for you or to you? Something simple. Something small. Something random, but maybe not at all.

Kindness is an incredible superpower every single person can tap into at any time, anywhere. It’s true. Kindness doesn’t have to be expensive, in fact some of the best acts of kindness are free.

World Kindness Day started after the formation of the World Kindness Movement. It was their hope and goal to create a day that would help to raise awareness of the importance of kindness as a unifying power between people everywhere.

25 ways to show 𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨:

1. Say thankyou when relevant

2. Educate yourself on things you don't understand so ignorance doesn't blind you.

3. Offer to pick up some groceries for someone struggling

4.Tell your family/friends much you love and appreciate them

5. Help your parents/grandparents with household chores

6. Help a friend get active

7. Make someone laugh

8. Offer to cook for a friend or family member or make a cuppa!

9. Be understanding

10. Tell someone you know that you are proud of them

11. Compliment with reckless abandon

12. Donate blood

13. Volunteer on a free afternoon

14. Let someone merge into traffic

15. Send a motivational text to a friend who is struggling.

16. Donate unused items to charity.

17. Practice patience.

18. Recycle

19. Pick up litter

20. Hold the door for someone.

21. Say sorry when you need to

22. Listen

23. Allow someone their privacy

24. Understand people have bad days

25. Don't bulk buy the loo roll

Don't forget be kind to YOU - Drink a glass of water, remember self care, rest when you're able to 💕

What did you do that was kind today?

[boatem-probler]

been chewing on this conversation between pearl and gem this week:

Gem: I know you didn't kill me!

Pearl: So what are you cranky about?

...

Gem: I'm just- you know, I wanted some drama! So, this is the drama, you're welcome.

Pearl: "This is the drama". You're telling me we could've been friends this whole time but you're just like "yoohoohoohoohoohoohoo... I hate you!"

Gem: Yeah, I mean, why not!

and i'm connecting it to gem in empires season 2, where like. in the context of the fiction everyone else had been living in that world their whole lives and that's their reality, like, it's real to them.

and meanwhile gem is just roleplaying. like, she was a being from another world who just came there because she wanted to play at being a human princess for a while. and then when she's called away she's just like. anyway i was never actually a princess or a mortal being from this dimension and we're never gonna see each other again, sorry for the existential crisis, bye!

and anyway i think she has a similar deal in the life series. like, everyone else is there because they're trapped in the Torment Nexus, gem is there because she wants to be.

[black-and-yellow]