#girly encouragement

[yourchubby-baby]

I need more fat 🤤🥹

[mummythiccc]

Make me fatter

[gorgeousfeedee]

Tell me I look portly 💦🐽❤️

Looking for a feeder 😩🤭🥰

[stuffherfull5]

Feed me & jiggle me - that's all I ask😁

[thatgirlguidess]

Here’s a list of meaningful activities to make December productive and set the tone for a successful 2025:

1. Reflect on 2024

• Assess Goals: Review what you achieved this year and areas for improvement.

• Gratitude List: Write down things you’re grateful for.

• Lessons Learned: Identify challenges you faced and how they helped you grow.

2. Set Goals for 2025

• Personal Goals: Focus on self-care, habits, or skills you want to develop.

• Professional Goals: Define your career or academic aspirations.

• Break Down Goals: Set SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) goals.

3. Declutter and Organize

• Physical Space: Clean your home, wardrobe, and workspace. Donate items you don’t need.

• Digital Space: Organize files, delete unnecessary emails, and declutter your social media.

4. Create a Vision Board

Visualize your 2025 goals using pictures, words, and affirmations to keep you inspired.

5. Financial Planning

• Budget Review: Analyze your 2024 spending and set a budget for 2025.

• Savings Goals: Establish clear savings targets.

• Invest: Research opportunities to grow your wealth.

6. Develop Better Habits

• Start waking up earlier.

• Read at least one book that inspires you.

• Incorporate mindfulness practices like meditation or journaling.

7. Nurture Relationships

• Reconnect with loved ones.

• Express gratitude to mentors or those who supported you.

8. Focus on Health

• Begin a fitness routine or challenge.

• Experiment with healthy recipes to reset after holiday indulgence.

9. Learn Something New

• Take an online course or workshop related to your interests or career.

• Learn a skill that complements your personal or professional goals.

10. Give Back

• Volunteer for a cause or help someone in need.

11. Journal Your Intentions

Write down what you want to achieve and the mindset you need to cultivate for 2025.

[deusfoundry]

coming back to life here just to say This with zayne ... getting rewards in the form of kisses from him based on the number of body parts you get right ...

[beautifulwilson]

FULL

[chubbyamelia]

😘😘

[yourchubby-baby]

🤤

[bloomingdarkgarden]

but what if i release dark academia elriel chapter one tonight.

[sweetrosegirl33]

the most commonly used words in the Bible ♡

[inkskinned]

im gonna start a fight; and, at the same time, i need you to take this in the most good-faith way possible, but:

videos that involve body-checking and intentionally (and uncritically) show a mealplan of an unhealthy number of calories are just a revamped version of pro-ana food diaries.

and yeah, i know there's arguments. i address some of them under the cut. but at the end of the day, we're just coming back to romanticizing mental illness; we've just found a better platform for it.

this is already something we've done. we knew it was wrong and tried to stop it. and tbh. it just wasn't enough.

there are people who argue "well, what if you have an eating disorder, you can't help it if you don't eat!" except that as someone with an ED; we are not infants. we know what we're doing. part of having an ED is that you are like, maybe too self-aware. even if we can't help our own food choices, we don't need to fucking romanticize the disorder - something we've been warning you about since 2013. there are hours of setup, filming, and editing that go into these videos. they do not happen to fall into place randomly. there is a reason they are pieced together to be beautiful, bright, inspiring.

there's this woman who pretty much only posts daily plans under a normal amount of calories, and everyone defends her saying but it's better than nothing! and i'm like. except she opens those with images of her showing off her body and provides no context in the video or caption that suggests that she believes what she's doing is unhealthy. she has hundreds of thousands of followers on a platform designed for young kids and teens. i refuse to believe that by accident her content just happens to be cheery advice on "healthy" versions of starving.

for any other symptom of mental illness, we would be incredibly enraged by this kind of placid acceptance of a "tips and tricks" fast-start guide. imagine if people posted pink & pretty videos saying "best places to cut yourself" as if it was a fucking storytime. we, as a society, are so fucking fatphobic that we would rather accept blatantly harmful displays of self harm than admit that we are obsessed with a hyper-thin body type.

i am not suggesting someone never talks about their disorder. i talk about mine. actually, it's a plot point in my book.

here's the difference: i recognize it's a fucking mental illness. i am very careful to never mention a specific weight, eating pattern, or calorie plan. i always make sure to position it as something that ruined my fucking life. i do not put cheery music in the background and hearts and sparkles over my worst moments. i do not film it in bright light. i do not start each passage with an image of a thin body followed by "here's how to look like her."

eating disorders should not be framed as aspirational. and the problem is that society worships the "after" image, so long as you don't get too sick. there is a reason so many people who quit being "influencers" will later admit - i wasn't eating well that whole time; an obsession with food was completely destroying my life.

we let any uncredited, uncertified person write the most backwards, fucked up shit about how to get the body you desire! because the underlying, secret belief is: well, at least they're thin! and the real thing that fucking gets me each time - they make fucking money off of it. their irresponsibility and societal harm literally pays off for them.

"why do you care so much." "don't like it don't look." "so what if people experiment with new ways of thinking of food?"

thank you for asking. we're about to get extremely personal. it's because when i was 18 i discovered "thinspiration"/"thinspo." and it absolutely influenced, shaped, and codified my pre-existing eating disorder. i went from having some troubling habits and traits to being incredibly unwell within what felt like a matter of days. there were actual pages designed to train me on how to have an ED correctly. it was all so suddenly easy. i was sick; and the nature of the illness meant - i wanted to be sicker.

it takes an average of 7 years for a person to fully recover. i know this personally - even now, 10 years from the worst of it, i still fucking struggle. i am so much happier now and i eat what i want and i literally don't think about food at all (19 year old me would shudder) and yet - i still fucking know the calories of plain toast with butter.

an eating disorder is one of the deadliest types of mental illness. over 1 in 4 people with an ED will attempt suicide.

and i'm sorry. i just do not see the exchange rate of "high rate of engagement" versus "the value of a human life."

[thatgirlguidess]

Habits that can secretly make you look desperate!!

These are big turn off's:

-Constantly Seeking Validation: It signals insecurity and dependency on others’ approval.

-Oversharing on Social Media: It can come across as a cry for attention rather than genuine sharing.

-Chasing People Who Don’t Show Interest: It gives the impression of low self-worth and a fear of being alone.

-Agreeing to Everything: It suggests you lack boundaries or authenticity.

-Fishing for Compliments: It appears as though you need external validation to feel good about yourself.

-Constantly Updating Your Relationship Status: It makes it seem like you’re using your relationships for social clout.

-Excessive Flattery: It can seem insincere and like you’re trying too hard to be liked.

-Compromising Your Standards: It shows you don’t value your own worth.

-Always Being “Available”: It suggests that you don’t prioritize yourself or your time.

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[hungrycupcakefeedee]

Another Yummy 😋 Day to eat all day mmmm what are you having for breakfast??? Cum feed me 👿👿💦🥵

[bubblebarley01]

Yummy 🫠😊

[hypokeimena]

creators being in fan spaces is almost universally bad imo & ime. people start going begging to the creator to win arguments and shit. it's only fine if the creator sees themselves as part of the fan-creative process and not as some sort of authority whihc is broadly like. not an attitude you see frequently and. which probably causes other legal problems a la reading fic (eg uncertainty about the origins of ideas etc). so it's just better for everyone if there's boundaries. u don't need the creator to tell you you're right. just decide that you're right on your own. you have the power