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#it feels weird to get involved in the discourse as a fellow#but i spent enough time as a female sports fan and fuck that shit is no joke#female sports fans try to have critical conversations and suddenly all the misogyny jumps out#from men women everybody#my two opinions are and always will be#1) always keep a distance from famous people/athletes#they are ALWAYS flawed because they are human#and a lot of them are straight up pieces of shit#you can enjoy the sport and enjoy their skill without being disillusioned to their faults#2) if you really love something#you will be critical of it vocally#if you really love something you want it to be better#silence about faults or flaws or controversy is not love or passion or respect#it’s purposeful ignorance
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I am once again thinking about how odysseus who witnessed the horrors that the captured women went through (one of his main duties in the iliad was taking the women back home and making sure they were as comfortable as possible and safe because he was the only one trusted not to violate them further due to his devotion to penelope. And in the odyssey part of the reason circe sent him to the underworld was so that he'd have to listen to all these women's stories (before he could talk to the prophet) ). Who was one of the few that saw women as people and respected their space and opinions. And was then put in those exact same situations. I don't have the motivation right now to do a full literary analysis of this (I'll site the sources too) but oh man one day I'm going to write a full essay on this.
#The odyssey#iliad#Odysseus#Tw: rape#Tw: sex slaves#Tw: camp slaves#Tw: That one time Calypso kept odysseus as a sex slave for 7 years#circe#Something about the inherent trauma of witnessing how your friends treat women#Watching them keep sex slaves#Then having to bring these girls home hearing about their stories seeing the aftermath#Then living in a situation where you have to let a powerful witch use you as she pleases half in payment for lives/food/medicine#Half because she has the equivalent of a gun to your best friends head and if you don't keep her happy then youre all dead#And then that witch sends you on a quest to the underworld where granted you'll benefit too but first#You have to listen to every single captured women from the Trojan war that you didn't Shepard home tell you their stories#Tell you that you're a horrible person while you are living in a disturbingly similar situation#And then later finding yourself trapped as a sex slave for seven years to an immortal nymph#And then being labeled as a horrible cheater for the rest of history#And none of this well historically everybody cheated or it's up to interpretation bullshit#Because it fucking isn't and granted a lot of abridged versions skip this shit#But if you read the full original stories and still think odysseus cheated then you just have an issue with men being victims#Or weren't paying attention i guess#Where's that meme where's it like the text was up to interpretation cut to the text where it very bluntly states what's happening#And I'm not saying odysseus was a good person or that he didn't have slaves because he did. And he wasnt#But first off nobody deserves to suffer that violation#Second they weren't sex slaves they were all nurses/maids/spys and I'm not getting into the ancient culture slavery issues rn#Third there's a lot you can pick to hate odysseus for but cheating/disrespecting women wasn't one of them#They literally invented a new word to describe his and penelopes love and it means to be so in love that you think the exact same way#Also forcing this narrative of odysseus cheating and penelope leaving to be a single girl boss is#Just the fake feminist mindset that stay at home moms are weak and wrong and live awful lives
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Akasha, still mortal. Designing her was challenging given the lack of extant reference, but this is what I came up with:
Apparently she was turned in 4000 bce, so I based my research in the Uruk Period of Mesopotamia (which was named for the Sumerian city of Uruk, now Iraq, where Rice said Akasha is from). In 4000, Kaunakes we’re not yet in style for Sumerians, instead wearing more straight-fitting kilts/net-dresses. I believe those also conformed to the rule of higher status =ankle length, lower class = knee length, so that’s what I did
On the fabric color—I read a paper that posited the ‘net’ of the net dress shown on the cylinder seal linked above/attached below, was actually a dyed pattern. The cylinder seal is dated @ ~3000 bce, BUT there is evidence of ochre-dyed cloth from Çatalhöyük, in Anatolia, from at least 5700 bce, so I think fabric dyeing in a less complicated pattern sounds feasible for 4000 bce.
Given 4000 was also the Chalcolithic Age/Copper Age in Mesopotamia, I wanted to include something copper. While I couldn’t find extant copper jewelry-jewelry, I did find these pins, and iirc Sumerian wrap-clothing was held with pins anyway
Re: necklaces, Akasha’s is based on this one.
I went with Iraqi-Lebanese actress Zahraa Ghandour as (partial) facial reference
Some assorted refs I don’t think are included in the links:
#I say ‘lack of extant reference’ bc everybody and their mother wants to talk abt 2000 bce onward. including me!!#I wanted to draw one a them leaf/feather headdresses:(#my art#iwtv#interview with the vampire#tvc#vampire chronicles#queen of the damned#qotd#akasha#historical dress#as for whether she should have a head covering for cultural reasons/just for the climate. I don’t think so.#I pirated a 200 page paper abt it so. I don’t think it was a thing yet for men or women#I think she should be fatter bc apparently Sumerians were stocky. but the page that said that was wrong abt something already#so I didn’t trust it/haven’t found another source#did make her a historically accurate shorty tho. which I love.#mother of all vampires wreaking terrible havoc. from 5 ft above sea level
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omg imagine incubus sukuna.. he’s the same- four arms, four eyes, seven, six foot but an incubus. summoning him drunk alone and sad and then he just.. lingers lmfao. after waking up in a century that isn’t his in a 20, 30 something woman’s apartment that isn’t his he just has to adapt to strange customs this decade has that makes him so uncomfortable that your comfortable with. “what do u mean u can go out dressed like that. showing ur wrists and calf’s. AT WORK.”
YES another anon and i were kinda just talking abt this (here + here!) and i have to admit i kinda ADORE his confusion lmao, esp when you're just like... "if you don't like it you can leave, you know? I only called you over once. one time." and he literally has no argument in return LMAOO).
it's especially funny tho because once he finally gets used to the whole...ankles and calves and one layer of clothing thing... he starts getting mad about other stuff, like capitalism when you try to explain to him you have to listen to your boss even though you aren't married to them, all:
Sukuna: "you're serving a man who isn't your husband? what does he give you in return for your loyalty?"
You: "I make money?"
"But if he's in control... he's supposed to provide for his women, is he not?"
"No, because he's my boss?"
"But he at least pleasures you sexually, correct?"
"god no."
HOOOO MY GOD he is so confused.
I'd say you'd eventually you have to take him out to a work thing with you to get him more familiar with the concept... but i think seeing more "half-naked" women serving some random dude would KILL HIM FOR REAL that time. embodiment of the "bitch you live like this meme?" except he's talking about the fact that whatever person you work for isn't giving you head 24/7 or buying you shit.
He'd honestly try to put hands on your boss for "corruption" or something.
#sukuna#he's like. 'are bosses not kings who are subject to taking care of their women just like everybody else?'#and youre like '90% of my coworkers are men.' and he's like 'okay and? i've had male concubines before'#and you're like HELPPPPPPPPPP#don't show him reality tv ever#or your bikini from high school#he's scandalized thinking men who you arent romantically tied to got to see you that way#caitie things#gen#anon
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tomboy trans girls ily <3 by the law of equivalent exchange, there's got to be a masculine trans woman out there that i switched places with gender-wise. hope she's doing well
#in all seriousness it was trans women who made me finally get out of denial about my own transness#i kept writing off trans men from being Really Men bc i thought every woman hated womanhood and being female‚ and just suffered through#bc society brainwashes you into gender conformity#and ''well‚ i may as well deal with this horrible lot in life'' which is what i thought everybody else also thought#but trans women very obviously were NOT brainwashed by society into wanting to be and enjoying being female. so clearly there was something#wrong with that assumption i had made....#and also‚ with how much people insist you're ''saying women can't be masculine without really being men‚'' it was great to find out#that i don't have to worry about there being less butch women in the world‚ bc there are many trans women who actually love and enjoy being#masc AS WOMEN‚ and i don't need to force myself to be that bc there are people out there who really do want that for themselves‚ despite#everything society tells them#and ofc cis women can be and are butch as well but I'll always feel much more of a connection with masc trans women#bc we're both masculine and trans‚ even though they're obviously going in the opposite direction to me#mtf#transfem#transgender#transsexual#trans#o.
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So, what I've gathered based on some online sleuthing in various trans communties, is that:
Trans men feel erased in queer spaces and in discussions of trans people. Most of the attention/resources goes to trans women. Isn't that awful?
2. Trans women feel erased in queer spaces and in discussions of trans people. Most of the attention/resources goes to trans men. Isn't that awful?
3. Nonbinary people are lumped into either "basically a trans man" or "basically a trans woman" based on AGAB. No, this isn't regressive at all. Trust us.
4. Everyone involved should violently fucking hate each other and throw as much blame as possible because of this
can i go be a hermit in the woods now. i know that's like, the whole thing i'm trying to escape, but honestly it sounds good rn
#you get the same stuff from cis ppl btw#mens spaces: men can't talk about their feelings and they're expected to just be stoic and useful to others#women's spaces: women can't talk about their feelings and they're expected to just be stoic and useful to others#can! we! all! stop! this! shit!#i'm torn between “I don't deserve to transition because it one point i fell for this shit and so i'm just a piece of shit transmisogynist”#it's too unsafe for me to transition because no one will accept me anyways they'll just dismiss my issues#and use any excuse to say i'm taking up too much space#happy wrath month everybody. i guess.#cbkj vents#cbkj speaks
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tha terf paradox of promoting acceptance of oneself's biological nature and not changing it for societal ideologies but then turning around and criticizing any person that has a different perception of their biological nature that doesn't immediately enter the "male or female" binary hmmm,,,,
#berry.rambles <3#does this make sense#like#ok cool. lets remind women that just because they're gnc doesnt mean that they have to transition (which isnt a malevolent idea at all imo)#but then the second a gnc woman (that's consciously aware that society sees her as a woman) decides to go by she/they or anything else#she's suddenly the woke version of not like other girls???#HUH#what does that even mean#do you people realize that some women just dont really care about the language used when they're talked about#like its not a “distancing myself” from femalehood (??) thing its literally coming to terms with the fact that language is not rigid#i go by any pronouns because i literally dont care#im a girl i know that#but im not gonna flip out if you call me he or they or she or it#like i have bigger problems didya think about that for a second!!!#this idea that any kind of personal uniqueness/individualism is ALWAYS patriarchy-related is so???? yes the patriarchy doesnt care but#why shouldnt we care about what the women feel too???#its so insane how they'll talk about eliminating the patriarchy/distancing themselves from it to weaken it#but then the second a woman talks about her unique experiences as a female and how it differs from other women's#they jump into her comments/reblogs talking about ��yeah sure whatever but remember you'll always be seen as nothing but a female”#“men don't care about that so you might as well not even view yourself as unique or different from other women”#“patriarchy doesn't care about (insert gnc/trans thing) cause you're still female”#literally using the patriarchy as an excuse to lump all women into a monolith#i dont wanna be with other women#some of you are dumb!!!#traditionalists. conservatives. zionists. religious women. liberal women. libertarians. nationalists. some of you are vile im not gonna lie#some women reject class consciousness as women#thats on them#some women think that their societal condition is natural. thats on them unless they change.#you'll never get everybody on your team#which is why instead of yapping about this nonbinary person or that he/him lesbian
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Always sucks when you see a great post and then they ruin it with a bad take. Mamy such cases!
#yap city#“trans men dont have systemic privilege over trans women” yes nodding about to reblog#“but invisibly disabled people have privilege over visibly disabled people” god damn it we were so close#everybody say it with me#just because someone else's oppression looks different from yours doesn't mean they are privileged
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Post birthdate thoughts: forget hope, your mom getting then being sick and having to care EVEN MORE is a symbol of my terrible conception birth and earnest attempt at a better life while sending your life savings and life body and goddamn soul into a family a village of butt fuck African piranhas lollll how do you cancel yourself out for 30 plus years myyyy g. Post a wk of being gas lit and bullied whilst by my father bc he is ALSO regretful of his life choices l o l. I wish I was never born, sincerely. I’m sorry God, I’m sorry mom. I’m far too pussy to kill myself and too prideful for other avenues. I pray I get out of where I’m out and push through to something that is for me and that’s where I’m at if it happens if I can make it happen. If not, two ppl made a mistake, one poured gas on it while another tried to put the fire of mistake out from the 4th day to the 35th yr. I hope it turns out blessed and we accept or get at peace with it. If not I’ll scream and shout and blow my brains out in the key of anti natalism.
Happy Birthday to me. Attitude gratitude regardless shoutout to those really living out the gift of life. really, more life for all who really live it.
#fuck Ethiopia#fuck familial obligations#fuck passive aggression#fuck obidence#fuck abuse#fuck miscommunication#fuck gaslighting#fuck moms#fuck dads#fuck only children#god bless aborted children#fuck bullying#fuck meanness#fuck Christian conservatism#fuck barbaric African traditions#fuck these fobs#fuck everything#fuck everybody#oh yeah fuck my father and his family to the most painful of hells all of them#fuck my moms family to the most painful of hells all of them#men women and children#god drain me from this blood and wash these genetic makeup off of me#fuck me back to the future as a swimmer in a fetus that never makes it#🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿
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we GOTTA stop repackaging outright gender essentialism and misogyny as cute '''''''''feminist'''''''''' jokes!
#i eat my girl dinner of a few crackers and a diet soda i give in to the feminine urge to text my ex and spend frivolously#then i justify it with teehee girl math cos everybody knows girls cant do math or be smart#i listen to the divine feminine reminding me that girls love pseudoscience and real knowledge is for men while girls get to Feel#and any girl who actually cares abt science is probably just faking for men and being a pickme!#btw women dont exist were all Girls forever#like we CANNOT keep advancing this idea that a.) there are magical differences between men and women#and b.) THOSE DIFFERENCES INCLUDE HOW WOMEN CANT DO MATH OR EVER BECOME ACTUAL ADULTS#be a good girl! dont think girl! be financially illiterate girl! eat badly girl! you need to be taken care of girl!#someone else needs to make your decisions for you girl!#terfs done touch this i hate u for real#rain speaking!#sorry i know i harp abt this a lot#but it is for real so distressing to see this shit getting so mainstream#ANYBODY REMEMBER THE 2010S! HOW DID WE GET HERE FROM THAT#like women who love femininity have always been around! im sorta one of them!#but this framing of it as being Innate To Girls is so fucking bad#and it used to be the sort of shit you just saw outright trad freaks parroting#and anyone who critiques the ubiquity of these 'jokes' is accused of being unable to take a joke
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okay as much as i agree that groups under the lgbtq+ umbrella are stigmatised by other people in the community please be so fr and stop calling it ‘double discrimination’ you just want to say ‘monosexual privilege’ but are aware people get kind of mad about that
#queer discourse#to clarify this isn’t about ableism racism sexism transphobia etc exhibited by people within the community#it’s more about the presentation of stigma witin the community as a disparate and equal thing to bigotry coming from outside the community#like it’s all coming from the same place guys just being wielded by other oppressed people#like lesbians do not represent a unique evil to bi women and vice versa#or trans men exhibiting transmisogny is not a result of their transmasculinity it’s white supremacy and patriarchy#it’s not a sign that these groups of people are your enemy#(disclaimer: this is completely online problem no one under the age of 14 genuinely seems to push this irl as their brains aren’t rotting)#and i’m not saying that bigotry from other queer people should be ignored bcs NO we need to be pulling each other up#but framing it as a ‘double’ discrimination instead of the same goddamn thing is just saying you’ve got it worse than everybody else#if someone attacked me for liking coffee and then a different person /also/ attacked me for liking coffee that’s not double discrimination.#that’s the same type of discrimination done by different people#we are a goddamn community force the internet leeches OUT of your brain don’t let them take you alive#it’ll suck the joy out of everything#this is largely in response to a long as text post that had some great points but this glaring welt of online behaviour in the middle of it#i’m also aware no one is going to read this i just can’t be arsed to waste any real life person’s time in discussing it#godspeed campers
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reblog to not only kill a terf but also kill people who don't believe that trans men, cis men and AMAB people are allowed to be in the LGBTQ+ community. everybody belongs in the community, get laser beamed idiot.
#the amount of retoric ive seen that tries to dismiss people who are AMAB and masc in the community is downroght disgusting#you are still in the community if you are cisgender. you are still in the community if you are a man.#that person who said that cisgender men dont belong in the community? fuck you#that person who denounced that trans man's identity and stopped giving him modeling contracts because he is a trans man? go die.#the people who say that the community is specifically geared towards AFAB people and women? go fuck yourself.#everybody is in the community. doesn't matter if they are cisgender asexual or trans. they are still in the community.#if you hate men so much you should get that shit checked out because last time I checked thats a call coming from inside the house.#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbt community#cisgender#transgender#amab#i love all of you <333 every single one of you deserves love#(hugs you and gives you a little flower)#swan speaks
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i'm always suspicious of people in the fandom who talk about how one main character is better than the other et similia because most of the time what they mean is that the guys are better than the women, and that doesn't sit right with me at all
#women in RE are rarely given space for growth#jill is legit having the bw treatment after a thousand years of not being shown. claire gets thrown in cgi movies every now and then#but her presence does little to nothing to the plot. everybody else is basically disappeared from the scenes lol#i would be absolutely fine with an all women team up in the next installment i've seen enough of the men#this is inspired by a spoiler i read obviously 😂
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tbt - the gazette - bath room // i wish i were a hot goth doctor
#i am once again wishing i were ruki from the gazette#pensive face emoji#the lesbian envy i feel for this guy is unreal#if i were ruki from the gazette women would be all over me like i'm exo#i'm not exo either women aren't all over me#envying men hasn't really worked out yet. hm#i've been listening to a lot of the gazette lately tho they really are killin the aesthetics#they and alice nine have always been groups im ecstatic for bc they have a lot of really cool music that i like#while they also have some stuff that im just not into either but ive always known a9 a lot better so this is nice#the gazette best not go on indefinite hiatus#i can't believe these bands are not even related to one another i have such a strong association between the two#nothing they actually do has anything to do with one another wow#have a good week everybody stay dry#(its raining)#the gazette#nil#tbt#song rec#j rock#visual kei#2000s#shut up kaily#q'd 6/17/2023#Youtube
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very controversial trans take; detransitioners are not our enemy. they're people who took the time to question their gender, to explore their identity inside and out, and came to the conclusion that their identity best aligns with what they were assigned at birth. i wish everybody could take the time to sit and think deeply about the identities they hold, particularly things like gender that are inherent, but also deeply socialized. the detransitioners who are spouting anti-trans rhetoric have been taught by the system we live in that even questioning your gender is wrong, so for many of them, that rhetoric is a survival tool for assimilating back into cis society. doesn't make it okay to hold anti-trans views, for certain, but it does expose the fact that the enforcement of a restrictive gender binary hurts everyone, even cis people.
#nobody is helped by the gender binary#that's not to say that people cannot identify as men and women lol#that tends to be the takeaway a lot of ppl get when i talk about this#it means that forcing everybody to identify within the categories of man and woman is harmful because not everybody is a man or a woman#also the gender binary enforces such strict roles for men and women that anybody who deviates from those is punished#this was inspired mostly by the fact that i had a really cool conversation today with a person who had detransitioned#i went to the food bank bc a bitch got medical bills ahaha#and had a neat conversation with a person who was on T for seven years and went through tons of deep identity processing#before realizing that they were actually a gender nonconforming cis person#they're also black so we talked a lot about the ways that the gender binary harms BIPOC folks#she's a masc lesbian so she doesn't present her gender in the same way as a femhet woman might#and much of the standards we hold in the western gender binary are racist bc they're based solely on white ideas of gender#everything from hair to clothes to eyes#beef speaks#beef's queer theory
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I feel like people particularly in fandom have this idea that once a person reaches like over 25 they’re supposed to lose all their interests and only have the set pre approved Adult Interests™️ like paying taxes and having kids and drinking wine and the only reason an adult would like anything is to find some kind of sexual gratification in it because all adults are sex crazed perverts so even the most innocent fanart or fanfic is deemed sus and inappropriate and idk that sounds like a terrible way to think of getting older
#like as a younger teenager I was kind of scared of losing interest in the things I love#and back then I didn’t even have this attitude from fandoms to influence that#it was more so adults telling me the things I liked were childish and I’d grow out of them someday and they were all just a phase#well I’m not over 25 yet but I don’t see that happening#I still love anime I started watching at 15 and I still love cartoons aimed at children#but now I don’t have a bedtime and nobody can ground me#and I go to work and I pay my bills and my taxes#but I also have some money left over to buy cool posters or keychains or figures#so it’s pretty great tbh#I don’t think people should have to interact with adults if that makes them uncomfortable#everybody is allowed to draw their own boundaries just like plenty of adults choose not to interact with minors#but an adult existing in a fandom space is not a red flag bestie they built the fandom spaces to begin with#an age is not a red flag a person’s behavior is#I see this kind of sentiment aimed primarily at adult women#but men who collect figurines or legos or like sci fi or super hero’s too much#are also often deemed immature and ‘man children’#the idea of ditching the things you love because you’re older sounds sad and terrifying#I love all my stuffed animals and I love my all might figure and I love my posters in my anime corner#I don’t want to lose them just cuz I reach an age where that’s for some reason unacceptable
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