#friendless

[saffigon]

shoutout to grumpy aplatonics, shout out to aplatonics who don't like having friends, shoutout to aplatonics that fit the cold stereotype, shoutout to aplatonics who are friendless, shoutout to aplatonics who want to be friendless but can't, shoutout to aplatonics that are in romantic relationships, shoutout to aplatonics that are aplatonic because of neurodivergency or trauma or mental illness, shoutout to aplatonics who are objectum and their objects are their only friends, shoutout to aplatonics who don't come out because they don't have the energy to explain their aplatonicism, shoutout to the aplatonics who don't come out because they're scared of others' reactions, shoutout to aplatonics who are only friends are their headmates, shoutout to aplatonics who are only friends with fictional characters, shoutout to aplatonics who can only make friends online, shoutout to aplatonics that do like making friends, shoutout to aplatonics who have a lot of friends, shoutout to aplatonics

[thesaramonster]

[scholarofgloom]

[howifeltabouthim]

I tried to have friends. I tried very hard. But it never worked out. I just couldn't get along with people.

Anna Biller, from Bluebeard's Castle

[helloimtired]

never being anyone’s best friend or the most important person in anyone’s life, ever, can really fuck you up emotionally

[dolliexii]

[multiplicity-positivity]

Here’s some positivity for systems without friends!

Forming and maintaining friendships can be a daunting and challenging task for many folks, plural or singlets alike! Some systems may find it harder than others to make and keep friends. Not having friends may make your system lonesome, but you are still valued, special, and worthy of love and respect just the way you are. This post goes out to all the friendless systems out there!

💠 Shoutout to systems who form new friends easily, but often lose them for any reason!

🐬 Shoutout to systems who are aplatonic or who have individual headmates who are themselves aplatonic!

💎 Shoutout to systems who feel too weird, awkward, or different from others in order to make friends!

🦋 Shoutout to those who only make friends within their own system!

📘 Shoutout to systems who want to make friends, but whose disabilities often make maintaining friendships extremely difficult or impossible!

🦕 Shoutout to systems who have to rely on themselves for support due to not having any friends they can lean on!

🗣 Shoutout to systems who have been called “difficult,” “off putting,” or “high maintenance” by potential friends!

🪁 Shoutout to systems whose struggles with depression, anxiety, or emotional regulation make it challenging for them to keep friends!

💙 Shoutout to systems who genuinely don’t know why they are unable to hold on to friendships in their lives!

🔹 Shoutout to systems whose members are not friends with each other!

🌀 Shoutout to those who developed their system as a way to cope with the loneliness of not having friends!

🌌 Shoutout to systems who are happy and comfortable with not having friends in their lives!

Not everyone is capable of having and maintaining friendships in their lives, and that’s okay! If your system often feels lonely or isolated due to not having friends, please know that our heart goes out to you. We hope that very soon you will be able to establish a connection with someone that will last! And if not, know that you are still deserving of peace, joy, and comfort in your lives. We are wishing for you a hopeful future filled with happiness and self-acceptance!

Please do your best to treat yourself and your system with gentleness and compassion today. Not having friends is in no way a poor reflection of your character. You are beautiful, cherished, and unique just the way you are, and you belong in both your system and the plural community as a whole! We care about you and we hope that things get easier for you soon. Thank you so much for reading, and have a lovely day!

[gaznull]

I want desperately to hang out with people who share the same interests. But I can not get over the feelings of being disliked, unwanted, boring, not being good enough, etc. I feel like I have nothing to offer a friendship but my undying loyalty, which in my experience people see as "he is reliable when I need to use him". I will never be someone's first choice, but always someone's worst-case scenario.

[bloodbranches]

I wish I had real friends. I wanna hang out in someone's bedroom. I want someone to randomly call me. I want to get a text when I'm bored at home that they're parked outside my house. I want to be surprised on my birthday. I want to be taken to a random parking lot in the middle of the night when we're getting rowdy. I want to be invited to lunch on weekends. I wish I mattered that much to anyone.

[hauntinglyreal]

People when hikikomori/neets aren’t attractive, cute, sociable and are actually unhygienic, not social, very mentally ill.

[poopy27627282]

poor jiwoo bro 😭🙏🙏🙏 victim to kayden and kartein’s nonsense

[busterkeatonsociety]

#FanArtFriday Oh! Look at this little devil! @erinchristmass on Instagram is the animator of this adorable Friendless & Brown Eyes.  Send your Buster Keaton fan art to socialmedia@busterkeaton.org for a chance to be featured in future or in our magazine, “The Keaton Chronicle.”

[toldyouimthevillain]

I struggle to get close to people and I know it’s a me problem, I know I’m the toxic one. I know that under my armor it’s just poison that seeps out the cracks. Those who stay at arms length will most likely never get hurt (as long as they don’t stick around for too long) but those who start to get too close inevitably will. Anyone who tries to get close enough to help me patch the cracks will only end up getting seriously hurt by me. I’m sure everyone is different under their armor, everyone has different insides, but why is this what I got? I want to change it, I want to heal it. But I don’t know how. The only thing that seems to work, truly work, not just on healing the armor but also truly healing and changing the inside, is being loved by someone else, inside and out. What I need is someone who will grab me and pull me closer and hold on tightly to me when I’m hurting, but unfortunately my toxicity always harms them before I can heal enough for them to be able to stay… and that’s if anyone even tries to grab me and hold me close to them in the first place. I don’t want to hurt people. I don’t want to always be the villain.

[lilacs-and-lavenders]

"Reach out to a trusted friend".

Me:...what friends??

[pokaww]

Joe and his imaginary friends.🌸🌸

Bibulli 🐡🩵

Baflay 🦋💚

Lecalexa 🐈🩷

Xiuanlinlin☁️💛