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me at the Wedding Impossible tag:
#why does it feel like people are actively trying to read the show with the worst possible slant#for the record am bi#but why does everyone act as if do han is a fucking saint in this situation#he's not#do i feel bad for him being outed by his shit ex and having to be in the closet and feeling like he has to hide from everyone? yes#do i think that he could've handled the situation a bit better when a jeong said she didn't want to do it anymore? yes#also his brother is all shades of fucked up#with him trying to become a homewrecker and pushing his brother into a position he never wanted#but he gets character development! that's like a big part of the show#the entire point is that the entire trio is flawed as hell and they make bad choices#don't get me wrong i think that the show def could've expanded and conveyed its themes better#a longer season could've been helpful#but it's not the trainwreck you guys want to make it#wedding impossible#jeon jong seo#moon sang min#kim do wan
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does anyone else want to stick these two in the same room together or is that just me... i simply think they are adjacent in vibes... (+a bonus thing???)
get u a fictional guy that makes you feel like this... seeing these guys just evoke a Similar Kind of Brain Chemical and Response. Help Me.
also have bonus yosuke doodle featuring the same brushes used here...! from january 23rd, lol.
#fe3h#sylvain jose gautier#persona 4#yosuke hanamura#crossover#lizzy does art#umm... hi.... (looks away) this is cringe but i am free. what is life if not to draw your favorite characters together on the same canvas#for the record i do not intend to conflate these two as the same character because they are NOT#'lizz. what on EARTH do you see in these guys.' you know. i wish i could answer that. (actually. i can.)#experiencing both of these characters sent me into an absolute spiral of denial when i realized that i enjoyed them#Words Hard but Basically i think its fascinating how both sylvain and yosuke have like this happier front that they project outwards that-#masks the struggles that they don't want others to see... and while both of them do cringe shit thats incredibly stupid#both of these characters have shown themselves to have like?? actual braincells? (re: yosuke at the start of p4 + sylvain support convos)#granted the kinds of themes and messages each of them is meant to convey varies bc of the setting and stories they are in#the sylvain + yosuke pipeline.... oh also i think the fandoms tend to rationalize both of their behavior towards women as like.#a closeted bi case. it's kinda strange to me why they overlap in certain ways hm hm...#but its just so funny to me that like. idk. they're both unbearable. they irritating for a reason /s#i should really draw these two more often (in like separate illusts) they are so fun i love their color schemes and designs it sparks joy#ok ok god i had a lot more to say about that than i thought oops. um. yeah. i learned how to draw for stuff like this. worth itTM
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needed to gif this scene because how Lee Woods jumped onto that guy with the best smirk ever was so hot, he should do it more often tbh
#lee woods#james spader#2 days in the valley#lee woods gif#lee woods gifs#james spader gif#james spader gifs#2 days in the valley gif#gif#gifs#gifset#i fucking love lee woods he is my bisexual chaotic boss king#(ik he is not canonly bi but in my headcanon and AUs I already spoke about with a friend he is bisexual)#(it is spader's energy he somehow gived most of his charas such queer energy#literally making them all queer in my headcanons with my spader buddy)#but lets get bavk to the hot stuff that is lee woods#he deffinetly enjoys toying with people like that#and they way he treats the women in bed oh god dont get me started on how he throws her onto the bed and used the ice on her nipple i am#fucking reborn#but yes this man is kinky and has many kinks#i bet he has a glove gun and syringe kink#and loves to be in controll#he is very possessive of that blonde girl#he doesnt want to share#oh and idk about you guys but i always have different height headcanons of the characters an actor plays (if the height is not given) soooo#sooo i picture lee woods to be this very tall commanding guy who likes to be in charge and shows it#in my headcanon he is 185 cm tall (i need him to be this tall in my headcanon ok#i csn dream)#but the way he was mostly recorded while sitting with his co stars or with shorter ppl or alone on the screen or in angles which make him#look tall makes me have this headcanon of a very tall lee woods
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#not to sound like a broken record#i know this has already been talked about a lot in current fandom discourse#but all the tommy love also comes from a place of#misogyny (buck’s m/f relationships failed bc the women weren’t good enough. but his first m/m is perfect and destined and tommy is god)#(even though we know next to nothing about them as a couple. cough 1 kiss and 1 failed date cough cough)#and biphobic concepts (buck’s only relationship/partner that is worth shipping and love and fandom time is the m/m one)#(if he’s with a woman he’s not worth our time? the relationship/partner isn’t worth our time. right?)#some people kinda sounding like the conservative haters right now#oliver stark’s voice shouting from afar: he isn’t gay! he is bisexual! he still likes women!#some people like to celebrate bi buck (as we should) but then erase his previous gfs#in favour of this 1 man he’s shared literally 4 scenes with. okay#<- <- <- i drafted this like 6 hours before that interview came out. ollie came to back me up with the ‘he still likes women’ lmao#him dating a guy now does not erase or dismiss his previous m/f relationships or that he’s still into women#one final comment. any time buck got with a girl it was ‘they need to break up immediately’#‘she’s not right for him’#he’s with his first guy and it’s ’they should be endgame’#‘they’re perfect together’#huh?? one. we barely know tommy/them together#two. what exactly makes them endgame material? bc they’re both men? cough biphobic misogyny fetishization cough#three. it would be objectively hilarious if he realises his sexuality and within 2 weeks is dating a guy for the first time#and then that guy ends up being his endgame forever partner. lmaoooo that would be so dumb sawry#not to mention it would kinda lean into the biphobia and misogyny mentioned above#in that it would suggest that his problem with finding love previously was… women#and this problem is now magically fixed because… man#four. not to be a buddie endgame truther but if all the vocal support means this is what we get instead#instead of Them. i’m out see ya bye bye#i am sooooo reading way too much into this but oh well
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OH BOY book announcement. on the one hand im excited because MORE EDDIE HELL YEAH and also ive heard good things about the other books, but on the other hand nO i LOVE the backstory that we as a fandom have created for eddie, i don't want anything else!!! i don't want to see it any other way!!!
and im also hellllllla not looking forward to the upheaval it surely WILL cause when Certain Things do/don't get "confirmed"
#and yEAH i KNOW the books arent canon but theyre also not not canon?#like theyre this weird in between kinda thing#and yeah i just dont like the Implications#ALSO the plot for it makes NO sense AT ALL???#a record producer 'discovering' eddie PRE S4?????#we obviously all know how that pans out so??? whats the point????#ALSO if this paige lady is a love interest (which is highly suspected) that is a GROOOOSSS power imbalance i am Not Here For#like idgaf if shes a woman bc bi eddie? hell yeah!!!!#but like her being in this position of power over eddie offering him everything hes ever wanted???#if she IS a love interest then yikes yikes YIKES#(also HOW is that gonna work with the cc boys????? unless they make a whole brand new set of bandmates)#ALSO i dont like the name al for his father lmao that Does Not fit with the image in my head#eddie munson#stranger things#flight of icarus
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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!!
Remember that nonbinary, aromantic, and asexual people belong at Pride, and I am fully prepared to kick your ass if you disagree with me on that.
XOX Admin Aster
#not wtnv#not an ask#Happy pride!#Sorry it's a day late#For the record:#Admin (me) is nonbinary#And my sister is aroace#And I am sick of seeing people say that we're not valid while our other sister (bi) almost never gets comments like#“that's not a real thing you're making it up”#So yeah if I see you saying I don't exist or my little sister is just faking it#Pistols at dawn and I won't be needing any backup
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if you must live, darling one — chapter 1
Chapters: 1/11
Word Count: 2,099
Relationships: Essek Thelyss/Caleb Widogast (Developing); Essek Thelyss/Original Character(s) (Past)
Summary:
For the last week of their excursion into Aeor, Caleb's companion has largely withdrawn, just when they'd begun to grow closer physically, even while they have avoided discussing what is between them.
Fearing he's overstepped, he follows Essek to the top floor of the Tower to ask, and finds him caught up in the fear of gaining a partner but losing a friend.
#critical role#cr fic#shadowgast#essek thelyss#this is fully developing relationship shadowgast for the record it's just like. the demi nonsense tangled up in it. cuz it's INTERESTING.#this is mostly character study with some thought experiment#me? capable of writing something short? THE WONDERS ALSO NEVER CEASE.#(we hope I am capable of it anyway lololol)#also for the record this is neither 'i think Essek is purely gay' nor 'i think Essek is perhaps bi' but a secret third thing#(recognizing that being aspec can be DEEPLY alienating and/or liberating from allo modes of relating to attraction)#so like. plenty of love in the past relationship! attraction? less that it's not present and more that the question of it is irrelevant.#but yanno. enjoy!
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enough talk about queerbaiting. lets start fishbaiting. im hungry
#textpost#for the record i am queer... im bi#i just made this bc i saw someone say enstars was queerbait#No It's Not. They're All Gay#anyway posts that kanata shinkai would make
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Congratulations to me specifically for nonbinary lesbian Ellie.
#I've hc'd ellie as nb for so long#And we don't get nb lesbians ever so this is the best#I had to double check and she could in fact be bi#I want that on record because I hate biphobia#Tlou#Tlou hbo#But as I am a nonbinary lesbian I reserve the right to project and feel validated#Yes this has more to do with Bella themself than with whatever the show goes for but I'm hardly the first to bring actor to character
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in regards to your "i love you bi lesbians post" we love you too !!! 🫶
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if i were rich i would buy george the minecraft soundtrack on vinyl i think he would really love opening it and having it. then he would ever once listen to it but that’s okay ❤️
#inspired by me just now buying the latest pressing of the minecraft soundtrack for myself#i am 100% certain the record that he got from youtube is still in the shrink wrap#his stupid fancy record player sitting on the floor of bis office unused 😭😭#it haunts me a little bit but also i rewatched the stream where he opened it#and he was so excited about it 😭💖
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genuine question because i really would like to know more: what is the difference between allonormativity and amanormativity vs. heteronormativity?
#i am not here to start Discourse TM i just genuinely would like to understand and i haven’t found an explanation that made sense to me#for the record im not saying or implying that amanormativity/allonormativity is FAKE#what i am saying is that i dont understand what those words mean well enough to see how theyre meaningfully different from heteronormativit#again! i do believe that allo+amanormativity Exist#im mostly just wondering if they exist as a Separate phenomenon from heteronormativity#or if its an intersectional term that refers to the unique way which heteronormativity harms aspec people#like for example: the idea that everyone should be married as a foregone conclusion and major life stage#i feel like its hard to say that the people who believe that aren’t saying it with a Very Specific (ie straight) marriage in mind#same goes with the idea that everyone should be interested in sex — in my experience that is Always specifically *hetero* sex#but i can see how those beliefs would impact aspec people differently than#lesbian/gay/bi/etc people#basically idk! anyone more informed than me can lmk :)#also if this breaches containment and anyone starts acting like an asshole i will block on sight
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Muse: Lydia Collins
Open to: M/F/NB, Mutuals & Non Mutuals
Connection/Scenario: Any, all and probably could work as a first meeting too. Pretty self-explanatory!
Edited with Beta | Open Starters Tag | @indiestarter
The weather was already dire and Lydia should have known better than to go outside without an umbrella. After coming back home yesterday, it occurred to her that there wasn’t all that much stocked up food-wise. So, she took it upon herself to go shopping for some groceries. Carrying a couple of heavy, plastic bags in each hand, part of her wished that she had taken her car instead of deciding to walk. Sure, there was the option to call a cab but it was pointless now as she could see her apartment building in sight. Taking quick strides along the sidewalk, tightening her grip on the bags, she continued to remind herself that she was almost there. Her walking came to a screeching halt as the heavy bags she’d been carrying suddenly felt… weightless. One look at the ground confirmed her fears, along with the sound that came along with the contents of her bags falling to the ground. A groan emitted from her lips as she sighed, cursing at herself for lacking common sense in the first instance. “Congratulations, Lydia. You’ve been home for no less than twenty four hours and you’ve already managed to make a mess,” She muttered sarcastically to herself, brushing some of her wringing wet hair away from her face and behind her ear. “This is completely fine. Never wanted those eggs anyway,” Lydia added with a sardonic smile as she slowly bent down in an attempt to try and collect some of her stuff together. The items that weren’t smashed across the pavement, that is.
#for the record i did not write this today i stole an old starter i made for her when she was in a group YEARS AGO LOL#indie rp#open starter#indie bi rp#indie oc rp#me posting a lydia starter? wow shocking#one day i'll post open starters for someone who is not lydia or dougie... that day is not today#muse ;; lydia collins#lydia collins ;; starters#NOW I AM GOING TO SLEEP
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you shouldnt give your character autism or ptsd if you yourself dont have it. You also shouldnt make them bi or ace if you arent bi or ace and your portryal of a flashback was very inaccurate to what Ive read
//Portrayal*
#Mod Fly#//for the record I am Bi and ace myself. I also have autism and ptsd. I write from my own experience mostly.#//this is a flawed way of thinking though.#//fuck you anon
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#ok plz i wanna rant about how the new season of good omens is making me lose faith in humanity#girl tell me how ive trudged through 4 episodes of this season and i still dont know what the damn hell is going onnnnnn#every time i think we're getting somewhere with the 'story' the show slams the brakes to let me know that there're gay people on screen#does the coffee shop chick ever apologize to the record store chick bc i cant staaaand their romance.#like record store lady. girl. this isnt banter shes just straight up dissing your passion and life's work.#im scared to finish the season bc i just KNOW theyre gonna pull the whole 'i made u leave ur toxic partner now date me immediately' trope#ok so story beats aside my other gripe is how contrived the queer representation is in this show#i am a bi woman! my reaction to seeing wlw on screen should be 'yay! im happy theyre together' and not 'ugh this shit again?'#and also with az and crowley! what happened to their chemistry from the first season???#like on the one hand the whole 'bickering like an old married couple' schtick is lovely. but. theyre just faffing about most of the time!#remember the first season? when these characters had agency? and a semblance of intuition?#i am convinced that the majority of the characters in this season couldnt find their way out of a paper bag#i get theres a whole memory loss plot device thing happening. but it feels like Gabriel's cluelessness is like fucking infectious or smthn#i feel like an idiot for assuming that the characters i knew from the first season will be just as competent in this season. they arent!#i hated the whole 'continued' story in the wwii era. i feel like it was a pathetic ploy at giving mark gatiss more needless screentime#did they think people would find the nazi zombies amusing or something? why are we playing this off as a joke?#just admit you dont know what to do with the story and move onnnnnnnn#im gonna finish the season bc i feel like im owed the scene of david tennant sucking face with michael sheen.#itll be like reparations for having to slough through the rest of this nothing burger of a story jesuuuuuussss#ok rant over#good omens critical
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Something tells me this clown might be bi
#youni originals#was gonna poast this on tweeter but decided tumblr deserves this more#i am. watching/listening to o teatro mágico#the way this one song says 'somos todos bichos' (we are all animals) with a bit more emphasis on the 'bi'#the way he kissed another (guy) clown during this one recorded/streamed show#right after bragging about his wife#I'm doing a live slug reaction (positive) at him#(disclaimer: this is just a silly poast i don't care what he is or isn't i just think the combination of words makes for a good post)#(the only thing i care about him being is not a bolsonarista. which he very much is)
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