#femme ftm

[intersexfairy]

i think being hyperandrogen intersex has made my experience of antitransmasculinity just... that much deeper, that much more lonely. before i even knew i was trans, i would stare into the mirror and pick my face and body apart. why don't i look like the other girls? what's wrong with me? why do i look so wrong in a dress? why do i feel like i take up too much space? will anyone ever love me?

i was punished for my masculinity and androgyny before i even had the chance to (voluntarily) express it. it stung even more, as i've always had an affinity to traditionally feminine things. where i once found joy and bliss in dressing up and posing for the camera, i found myself hiding my body in hoodies and leggings. if anyone pointed a camera at me, i would collapse to the floor and start having a panic attack.

now, as i've grown older, i've found safety in masculinity and androgyny. people don't find it quite as strange, as if my body/facial hair, broad shoulders, stocky build, and androgynous face make it make sense - femininity is obviously off limits for someone like me, yet it's still expected of me. getting "masculinizing" gender affirming care terrifies me. i'd be casting off the last of what makes me desirable, pretty, and unassuming. but the little girl inside me wants to wear dresses, makeup, jewelry - just this time, as a man.

but men aren't supposed to be pretty - least of all fat, hairy, disabled men. so i'm caught. i can neglect myself, out of fear of being seen as even more disgusting and off putting, just so i can cling to the few expressions of femininity i can display... or, i can be myself, and open myself up to the very hurt i've been trying to avoid all these years. but then, i can look my true self in the mirror, and finally say: you're not like other girls (and that's okay). nothing's wrong with you. you still look beautiful in a dress. you don't take up any space that isn't already yours. and you are already very, very loved.

and one day, i will. because that's what we deserve to hear - trans people, intersex people, people who are both. we deserve to do whatever we need to be our most authentic selves. all this judgement, fear mongering, it's all made up - to hurt us. and that's awful. that's scary, and i hope someday, we live in a world where we don't have to be afraid anymore. and part of me - part of you - knows, one day, we will.

[1ckydoggy]

Normal puppy boy reaction to transfem boobs

[femmetransman]

Went out to goth club last night. Got to use a lipstick that I don't get to wear often which is this beautiful deep metallic brown/green called Metallurgy from Portland Black Lipstick Company. Dress from Nerdy Keppie, @vaspider on tumblr.

Edit: forgot to mention my earrings are from the Women Helping Women Beadwork instagram page. They sell beadwork made by incarcerated indiginous women in Canada and 100% of the profit goes directly back to the incarcerated individuals. Highly recommend checking them out.

Had a great time dancing with my mom, and ended the night by throwing a cup of water in my asshole dad's face. Definitely a good night.

[loureedisgod]

Yes my hat says fag and yes, I love it

[thornestar]

Aspen Thorne

18+ NSFW

Horny on main

FAQ

Boygurl Next Door

FAQ

Q: Are you a boy or girl?

A: Yes! I’m a femme transman & I often dress in drag. I identify as masculine but I’m also fluid so my gender is whatever.

Q: Transman? Crossdressing? Don’t you wanna be a man? Why do you wanna be a man? You’re too pretty to be a man, etc

I’m a transman with androgen insensitivity. I work with what I’ve got as we all must do. There was time in my life when I was aggressively masculine. My own body literally cock blocked me and as an artist I must explore the unexplored corners of my soul. The ones who love me know me and that’s what transitioning is about. Xoxo

Q: pronouns?

A: he/him or any other pronoun you want to use

Q: You post about disability & chronic pain, is there something wrong with you?

A: Yes, I have a muscle disorder. It causes chronic fatigue and pain. I am a full time wheelchair user. There are many triggers. My symptoms keep me home bound & unable to work outside the sex industry. Please admire my brilliant editing skills! (I edit out the struggle to deliver the sexy 🤠)

Q: Where can I support your art?

A: First of all, thank you for asking. You are supreme! Check out my link tree or visit my throne to send gifts for me…. or my cats.

Tips appreciated if you like my work 😽😽😽

***Yes! I DO record video thank-you’s for throne gifts***

Q: what kind of custom content do you make?

A: I’m sex positive & open to making all kinds of fantasies come true. If you’ve seen any of my erotic horror you already know I’m deeply strange and strangely sensual. I’ve even discovered a few kinks of my own making content for others. I’ve made customs from ass worshipping to golden showers! I love creating erotic short films and music videos.

Q: I saw your porcupine strip tease animation. Are you a furry?

A: Nope, but I love the furry community. You know how to jam out with your clam out and I’m here 4 it.

Q: Will you draw my fursona [insert sexual act here]?

A: I’d love to! Make me an offer 😜

Q: Are you Poly?

A: Yes! Q: Are you attracted to [insert gender here]?

A: Yes!

Q: Do you wanna be my sugar baby?

A: If you wanna be my sugar guardian you must prove yourself by visiting my throne.

[femmetransman]

Hi! I am a man who transitioned at 18, and discovered that when I was comfortable with my gender it made playing with femme fashion more enjoyable. I can't be an egg waiting to crack because I had to realize I wasn't a girl to get where I am.

I'm also not non-binary or gender fluid. Those are important identities in their own right, but I want to specify that just because someone is GNC doesn't mean they're non-binary, and assuming so is still bad. I've had a lot of people shocked that I don't use they/them.

To all my trans siblings out there, you get to determine your own identity and express yourself the way you want! Finding communities online can help inspire you, but don't let those communities just put you in a new box.

Dresses from @nerdykeppie

Earrings from Women Helping Women Beadwork, an instagram page that sells beadwork made by incarcerated indiginous women. All proceeds go directly to the artists.

I think it's important to let guys be gender non conforming without telling them they're a girl, cause actually misgendering people is still shit even when you are pro trans. "You're a girl, an egg waiting to crack, and that's ok" how about you are a boy and a man and it's still ok if you want to do something that doesn't align with traditional ideals of your gender. You can still be he/him in a skirt and makeup.

[deathtokillian]

If you are trans I need you to stay alive.

Stay alive for every other trans person fighting, stay alive for every trans person who is no longer here, and most importantly stay alive for yourself.

They don’t get to erase us! They don’t get to take away our rights, and treat us as less than human. Don’t let them erase us, and don’t let them make you a statistic. Don’t let them win.

Stay alive

If you won’t do it for yourself, then do it for others. Do it out of spite.

[waambles]

☀️I love you! And you and you and you and-☀️

It’s t4t summer baby!

[arsenenicholas]

https://goodlawproject.org/crowdfunder/nhs-cyp-guidance/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaadkVMoRUHpcFptnjlifnc1xJ0i7YGVi78tfv2vEXVaVIQDPTEp1-ozNcY_aem_AfqNP9xEERFn6GRCZCIP7B2RriLi8ZN7pVAFzmNwdvqIXW0nmc1mTe5Hq0UV3xC6VPWdYe1x64wHk7O6-HPOhIdf

Please share, tag someone who could bring this to a lot of people, and post to other platforms. Not originally mine, idk who is the source of the screenshots.

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In thick white text on black background-> NHS ENGLAND ARE PLANNING A HONEYPOT WHERE THEY SEND ALL KIDS ON GIDS WAITLIST TO CAHMS TO HAVE THEM BE ASKED IF THEY ARE TAKING BLOCKERS/HRT VIA PRIVATE OR DIY ROUTES

Text is broken and in the middle is an excerpt from a leaked nhs document-> a) For medication sourced directly (e.g via the internet), explain the increased risks of harm due to the unregulated nature of these medicines/products. These may include the use of counterfeit chemicals, unsafe/unknown ancilliary ingredients or variability of potency etc. More information can be found here (link to nhs website). // b) Do not initiate or continue prescribing puberty surpressing hormones or gender affirming hormones. The General Medical Council's guidance to medical professionals on 'bridging prescriptions (a course of endocrine intervention managed by a healthcare professional outside of the specialised gender service while an individual is waiting to be seen) does not apply to care offered to young people under 18 years of age. // c) If the child/young person or their carer disregards your advice and you consider that this puts the child/young person at increased risk, then a safeguarding referral might also be appropriate in line with standard safeguarding approaches. Discuss with your line manager and your organization's safeguarding team.

Thick white text on black background continues-> ANY WHO SAYS YES AND DO NOT DESIST FROM DOING SO WILL BE THREATENED WITH SAFEGUARDING REFERRAL (TAKEN INTO STATE CARE)

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In black text on white background, from the news article linked above-> It seems to us - and to those inside the NHS who have leaked the document to us - that what purports to be an "assessment" in fact an exercise in bringing very significant pressure to bear on trans youth and their families to cease private treatment, backed up with a threat of a safeguarding referral to social services if they do not. // We are concerned about what appears to be a misleading exercise in gathering data on which trans youth are obtaining private treatment from abroad, for the purposes of seeking to cause or compel them to stop treatment.

In the same thick white text on black background as previous image-> So an internal NHS document has been leaked basically asking trans kids on excruciatingly ling waiting lists to come to a 'mental health assessment' where the NHS will harvest their personal information & threaten their families with a social services referral if they're found to be on private blockers/hormones & refuse to come off them. // This country is for dogs i swear.

[1ckydoggy]

tboy tits!!! :DDDD

(he/it pronouns only)

[femmetransman]

My dress and nails from the Pride events that I worked last weekend.

The dress is made out of fabric from Twisted Needle Textiles (currently changing management and will have a new name soon, but can still be found on facebook), and the nails are done with holotaco and stamps from Maniology.

I worked booths for my job, the Colorado State Public Defender. We educated people about their basic civil rights, and some queer legal history. For example, did you know that on the night of Stonewall, the police had a warrant for the illegal sale of alcohol, which allowed them to enter the Stonewall Inn and arrest people for crossdressing.

Happy Pride!

[kittyoverlord]

Obligatory, "I'm in this post and I love it."

I recognize I'm not a fictional character, but I'm a man of the trans experience who wears dresses and make-up, so maybe some inspo? :)

honestly though im so sick of every transmasc design + headcanon being short haired and top surgeried like. where did everyones love for long haired men and men's tits go all of a sudden. and where'd everyones love go for the gnc too when it comes to trans headcanons like does every transmasc design have to be in pants and a plain t-shirt. what about us transmascs who play with fashion and still enjoy pink and skirts and dresses. can you all draw any other kind of trans experience the no-op baddies are starving weve been feeding on those boobed vash the stampede drawings for months and we're running out

[loureedisgod]

The bitch is in fact alive

[genderqueerdykes]

you're allowed to love being trans if you:

just came out

havent transitioned and dont plan to

have known you are trans for years but kept it to yourself

don't want surgery or hormones

dont disclose your trans status or genders to other people

dont change your name

never have dysphoria

your transness is tied to your neurodivergence

your transness is tied to your nonhuman identity

dont feel like you have a gender or gendered experience

feel like gender isn't really that important

are intersex

are two-spirit, hijra, or have another cultural gender or expression identity, or "third gender"

are a person of color

are an afab demigirl

are an amab demiboy

have a complex identity

have a very simple identity

cant figure out your gender for the life of you

cross dress

do drag

present socially in ways that are "normal" for your agab

have crushing dysphoria

don't know how to pass

pass effortlessly

are a butch trans woman

are a femme trans man

are demigender

don't like to be reminded you're trans

have a very specific gender

have a gender that's specific to you and you alone

have hated being trans at one point

stopped transition and restarted it at some point

have had to change your gender, name, pronouns or presentation multiple times

change presentation a lot

have a gender that's hard or impossible to put into words

dont want to figure out what your gender is exactly

are plural/a system

are genderfluid, gnc, genderqueer, multigender, polygender, genderflux, neutrois, maverique or genderfuck

are xenogender

are a lesbian or gay

are transneutral

are transfemasc/transmascfem

..... are trans.

every trans person is allowed to love being trans. good day, love yourself today!

[everyponie]

transreads.org is a fantastic resource for queer literature and history, and the best part is that it's FREE! There's no excuse to be ignorant when the information is being handed to you like this.

Leslie Feinberg also has all of hir works free online if you are particularly interested in lesbian history and literature. They are available as downloadable PDFs, and I believe they are on the internet archive aswell.

transreads.org also has a great section on Palestinian queer literature if that's something that interests you, it's important that we learn about queerness outside of America. I've dabbled in a few of these books and essays and poems and they're very cool! I really do enjoy learning about queerness in other cultures, I hope you all can find joy in that too!!

if you have any good queer resources that you'd like to share pls comment or add it to a reblog!! I'll probably make a bigger masterpost later, or perhaps a Google document.