#feeling: aroused and in love

[girlygguk]

HELLO LYSSA !!!!! i finally managed to get my hands on nitw and Oh my god. first of all, this is probably the thing i’ve waited the most in my whole life for… From the MOMENTTT the teaser was posted i was seated. the tumblr employees were scared and asking me to stop refreshing your account but i was simply too seated. LIKE I NEEDED IT BADDD the trope was everything i ever needed and with your writing i knew it was going to make shakespeares ahh look ridiculous in comparison like 🤭🫵🏼 the fact that you weren’t even sure about posting it was Heartbreaking omfg but the wait was SOOO worth it. i had to postpone the reading but it was getting to a point where it was eating me inside i just needed to KNOWWW so i just said fuck my exam and postponed my today’s study session instead 🙏🏼 and wow. let me just say i won’t regret it! you are just a phenomenal writer!!!! the way you can put such complicated situations and feelings into soul-touching words is a gift, and baby you are gifted !!! you create these whole worlds that are so easy to fall into, and with nitw it felt like the warmest embrace 😭😭 i definitely teared up bc i resonate with oc 💔 and whipped jk was OHHH such a moment my god! highlight of my whole year! like yes be desperate for me babes! this is getting too long but i just really hope you know your works are so appreciated. thank u thank u !!! i love how you’re keeping us fed, like seriously im eating all of it up, but please get your well deserved rest too <3 luv u a lot

listen here u little rascal. it is 8 o’clock in the morning and i am already in tears. there was no need for this...

wow baby i genuinely… like i don't… i don't know what to SAYYYYY?? and i ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAYYYY???? 😭😭😭😭 FIRST of all you atee with that study sesh postponement 👆 that was such a diva move and yoongi is somewhere smiling out into the distance with pride swelling in his chest... i hope you actually know that something like this coming from the author of older is such a fucking compliment and i am in awe, shock, and disbelief… next on my list of reads is the grande series and glb when i finally get my head out of my ass and back into reading because i just know it's about to rock my fucking worlddd i’m sooo serious. no because you resonating with oc gets me sooo bad bc when i saw a few ppl hating on her i was like OOP as if i didn’t literally base her on myself LMFAOO… i love you seaux much baby, i will brush my fingers through your silky locks every day and feed you every last crumb to my name /gen. thank YOU so much honey... what the FUCK ❤️️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

[ficandkaboodle]

So like. Do we think the gloves — Copia’s gloves — stay on during? I feel like they often do. I headcanon the gloves either helping to quirk with sensory issues or they’re just plain a comfort item for him. Just something to do with his Copiautism.

He can go without but it’s rare. And honestly it frustrates him because he does wish he could touch you without any barriers, feel your heat and your wetness with more than just his mouth or thighs or belly pressed against you. There’s been at least one time where he pushed himself to go without the gloves on a night he wasn’t exactly built up for, bud he wanted to so badly. Poor thing, he wasn’t sure what upset him more: That he ruined this moment and thus made you call the safeword, or that he really couldn’t control exactly when he was good to go without the gloves.

His fingers tense in the familiar leathers; what should be comforting instead makes him feel ashamed. He’d hide his face in his hands if he weren’t so angry with them. He almost wants to fight against you as you gently guide him into a loving, almost cradling hold against your chest.

But he can’t bring himself to. For as overwhelming as touch can be, he still manages to find some comfort in this. Some comfort in you.

“Ssshhh…It’s alright, Co,” you murmur softly, the air of your words just barely causing his curls to flicker. “It’s okay. I got you. Is this okay?”

It…is…But he feels he doesn’t deserve it. He doesn’t deserve to feel your affections, not when he can’t bring himself to feel all of you. It feels like a rejection of you, it feels shameful —

“There’s nothing to be ashamed of,” you assure, and it makes him tense. What, you’re psychic now? Or…Maybe you just know him by now. You know him and his peculiarities and his nitpicks…and yet, you still stay. You still comfort. You still seem to enjoy his touches, however he touches…

You still love and adore him.

“…You feel really nice…” he whispers hoarsely. And buries his blushing face into the warm spot where your neck slopes into your chest.

[hanzajesthanza]

geralt is also a most real depiction of good quality fatherhood and great girldad representation because EVEN THOUGH witchers don’t even experience aging at the same rate as non-GMO humans, EVEN THOUGH it would be “biologically impossible,”

geralt having had been raising a pre-teen girl for maybe a few months to a year already “gave the impression of having aged,” his “face slashed by wrinkles.” the emotional toll on this man from raising she-devil ciri

and this is only the very beginning of the saga. BEFORE everything goes to shit. the wrinkles have set in

[treatsf]

rrRAAAHHHHH I CANT DENY IT ANY LONGER!!!!! AROACE SCOUT!!!!! RAHHHHHH!!!!! TEARS MY SHIRT OPEN IN ANGUISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[marlasbreastlump]

fight club soap scene genderbent

[himblebo]

Again again thinking

[sunny12th]

dany should cut drogo's braid off when he died and wore it around her neck after. wouldve been v rich visually, like she's wearing a black rope. wouldve also shown how she's still not free of him to go along with the moments when she defends him and tells herself he had loved her in his own way.

[mittysins]

Turn off/turn on: Stretch marks? Either pregnancy related or no.

TURN ON OH MY GOD I LOVE STRETCH MARKS

Literally my favorite detail of a bare-skin drawing to add. Stretch marks on pregnant bellies, on fat bellies, on chests, thighs, biceps, oh my GOODNESS

[beanghostprincess]

my mom came up(?) with a concept of asexual Sanji and I need your professional opinion on this

Oh, this one's new! I never heard of this headcanon before but as an asexual and a person who relates to Sanji a very insane amount, I can actually see it. I think I never thought about it due to his... Behavior. And also the perception the fandom has about him. I guess I just always used the Bisexual headcanon for him. But!! Guess what? I love turning horny characters that are used as comedy relief Asexual!! Breaking stereotypes and all that shit.

I think Sanji's sexual attraction to women, asexual or not, comes from a need to be loved and accepted and have somebody to care for. He's a natural caretaker and protector; his core need is to feel useful and wanted. Which, you know, comes from all that trauma of not being wanted or useful. And I think sex is the easiest way to feel needed and wanted, so it wouldn't be weird for him to just convince himself that he feels sexual attraction when actually he just wants to be wanted. Which has happened to me. A lot of times. It's not fun.

He worships women both because of his mom and because of Zeff's words, so it isn't weird that the concept of sexuality and romance toward them is mainly because of his past. Also, the concept of toxic masculinity the Vinsmokes made him grow up with can also be a reason why he feels the need to like women sexually.

Perhaps it's just Sanji adapting to the world, seeing the men at the Baratie liking people that way and feeling left out because of that. And if you mix that with his worship toward women (this is very real though) he just becomes a very chaotic simp. Not because he actually feels aroused, but because his feelings toward women are strong enough for him to confuse sexual attraction with admiration or worshipping.

And don't get me started on men. I think he's just straight-up repulsed by the idea of being with a man. And it's not even because of his internalized homophobia due to toxic masculinity (that too, though) but because of plain fear. Literally the people who have hurt him the most are men, so of course he doesn't like them. And the most important people in his life are women, so of course he just assumes he only likes women and should like them sexually and worship them in every way.

So here we have Sanji, who has severe issues with men and a fixation toward women, thinking he likes them sexually when actually he just... He just wants to feel loved and needed and wanted. Sex is the quickest and easiest way for that to happen, honestly.

And maybe this is just me projecting and all that, but I think that despite being the way he is he wouldn't like sex that much? I think he keeps acting this way to pretend (he thinks he likes sex himself, even, until he tries it) but sex just feels odd. Uncomfortable. It's a very intimate and personal thing and I think he has had trauma regarding sex (not getting into this right now but I think it's obvious what I'm trying to say here). And if he has sex, do you really think he'd be proactive? I genuinely don't like the concept of Sanji topping (unless he's like, service top or power bottom) because I think he'd just like to be useful, not really caring about his own pleasure.

I think he doesn't feel sexual attraction but his libido is pretty high. He is not repulsed by the idea of sex, like, the concept and blurry images of it are fine. But actually having sex? I don't think he has had good experiences but he forces himself to be in these situations. Either to feel valid or useful or whatever. But he could have sex and enjoy it when it comes to a deep bond.

I actually love this headcanon now?? You've opened my eyes, tbh. Thank you. Sending you hugs.

[hakucho-art]

About your last shared post and the tag, what if being horny isn’t in someone’s biology? Im starting to think i might be asexual and your tag kinda triggered me xd its not your fault tho, you are always so nice and i guess im always searching for strangers opinions about it xd (just hoping not feeling like a freak for not liking sex or feel horny xd)

Well, I am not that well versed with biology so don't take me by word but I do think that being horny is a very natural thing to feel and necessary for us in order to reproduce and why sex or anything that serves for our survival is pleasurable. That doesn't mean it's bad or something is wrong with you if you don't, every person has a different sex drive c:

Some people have a higher sex drive while some others have a low one. So you're not a freak at all! Everything is perfectly fine for you.

You mention asexuality in the context of sex drive and I think it's important to add that afaik, asexuality describes a lack of sexual attraction, not your sex drive. That means you don't find people or their bodies arousing. There are asexuals who have a low sex drive and can be sex repulsed while there are other asexuals with a higher sex drive and be open to sex or want to have it!

Asexuality also comes in a spectrum! Demisexual, graysexual, others that I probably dont know about JWVDJJSV inform yourself about them and dont be scared of using a label for you that feels right. You can always choose another label later when you feel like that one fits better (I like the simile of labels being like magnets on your fridge ;))

My tag was directed towards people who feel shame about their arousal and a reminder that there is nothing to be ashamed about. Of course, the same applies to a lack of arousal. You should never feel ashamed of your feelings, especially because it's not something in your control. You just feel or don't feel, whatever it is, its okay ♥️

[fettery-fetterie]

if i was an artist with budget i'd be able to draw the buildup and all. i am not an artist with budget tho. so 3 panels will do

Kinda suggestive/nsfw tags btw go there with caution

anyways i think i huave covid

[sincurse]

Playing with pcrews so y'know I had to make v/b.

[parlerenfleurs]

Heartbreaking: the monogamous tiny bi butch who is very much engaged has insane chemistry with you to the point that just existing near her makes your blood warm.

[angstics]

that very very veeryyyyyyyy good scene with bash and rhonda and the sex worker. GOD. THE VERRYYYYYYYYYYYYY good scene with debbie and bash the next episode. netflix used to make real gay tv. Whys it all teenagers now. I need to watch television shows about giving a man a handjob in front of your wife and its the first time youve fucked a man and it’s in front of your WIFE who is figuring out youre gay but doesnt want to because she loves you and youre 34

[forcedhesitation]

it’s completely bananas to me that halsin's sex scene features a moment where he somehow loses control of his druidic powers and wildshapes into a bear, because he’s apparently that horny. like...gale had to be infected with a mindflayer tadpole for him to make mistakes in his spellcasting, even though he already carried a small nuclear bomb of evil, weave-consuming magic in his chest. what THE fuck is halsin’s excuse? like, as funny as it is for an archdruid to be so overcome with lust upon seeing a tdick that he loses his grip on his abilities, it makes absolutely no sense! what do you mean that this guy has enough power to open a portal to the shadowfell, and rescue a little fey boy from it, but he can't control his wildshaping because "bear horny?" HUH?