#fandom awareness

[a-voice-for-the-victims]

Upon request the document has been cross posted to X/Twitter.

[anticedfiaweek]

Standing Strong❗️Why I’m Speaking Up for Healthier Representation in Fandoms

Entry 1: Standing Firm in My Beliefs

As I embark on this journey with @AntiCedfiaWeek, I feel compelled to share my experiences and the motivations behind my blog. While it’s easy for some to dismiss our discussions as mere negativity, the truth is that we are engaging in important conversations about representation, age dynamics, and the implications of media portrayals—especially in a show like *Sofia the First*. Our goal is not to harass or belittle anyone, but to advocate for thoughtful engagement with the material that influences young audiences.

1. Misunderstandings in the Fandom Community

Recently, I've encountered misunderstandings that have left me both bewildered and disheartened. Accusations of harassment from users, including one named Trixie, have been particularly jarring. It’s frustrating to be labeled as a harasser when I have never even interacted with this person. I’ve simply been sharing my opinions and facts about the concerning age dynamics between Cedric and Sofia, and yet, here I am, faced with claims that I’m creating a hostile environment. This is not only inaccurate but damaging, as it shifts the focus away from the critical discussions that need to happen.

It’s essential to clarify that running an anti-Cedfia blog doesn’t mean I’m advocating for animosity. I’m merely highlighting the disparity in age between Cedric, an adult, and Sofia, a child—a dynamic that raises important questions about consent, power, and the messages we send to young viewers. I’ve always believed in the right to express my thoughts on this matter, and that right should not be overshadowed by misunderstandings or fear of backlash.

2. Advocating for Healthy Discussions

The intent behind my blog is to spark conversations rather than to incite conflict. I strive to provide a platform where fans can critically analyze character relationships without resorting to name-calling or personal attacks. The discussion surrounding fictional relationships is vital, especially when it involves complex themes that can impact real-life perspectives on relationships and boundaries.

I firmly believe that every fandom should be a safe space for expressing differing views. Constructive criticism should be welcomed, not met with hostility. When we encounter differing opinions, we have an opportunity to engage in dialogue that fosters understanding rather than division. I hope to model this approach through my writing, showing that it’s possible to challenge ideas while maintaining respect for those who hold different viewpoints.

3. The Emotional Toll of Online Interactions

Navigating the world of fandom on platforms like Tumblr can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope. While I cherish the friendships and discussions I’ve cultivated, I also recognize the emotional toll that negative interactions can take. The weight of being accused of harassment when I have done nothing to deserve it can be heavy, and it’s a struggle to maintain my passion in the face of adversity. However, I refuse to let this negativity define my experience or deter me from advocating for what I believe in. It’s crucial to remember that online interactions are often fraught with misunderstandings, and that can lead to unnecessary drama. I am committed to rising above these challenges and focusing on the core message of my blog: advocating for healthy representation and fostering dialogue that encourages critical thinking.

4. Finding Support in the Community

In these trying times, I find strength in the community I’ve built around this blog. I am grateful for the supportive friends who stand by me, reminding me that I am not alone in my beliefs. Their encouragement serves as a reminder that the fight for respectful dialogue and meaningful discourse is worth it. Each message of support fuels my passion and reinforces my commitment to this cause. Furthermore, I hope that by sharing my story and the challenges I face, others who feel marginalized in their opinions can find solace and courage. We all have a right to our voices, and together, we can create a community that values every opinion—especially those that challenge the status quo.

5. Looking ahead

As I continue this journey with @AntiCedfiaWeek, I’m filled with hope for what lies ahead. My mission remains clear: to advocate for discussions that promote healthy representations of relationships in media. I invite all of you to join me in this endeavor. Let’s uplift one another, engage in meaningful conversations, and ensure that our fandom remains a place where all voices can be heard and respected. Together, we can challenge harmful narratives and foster a space where fans can express their opinions freely and without fear of backlash. Thank you for being a part of this community, and let’s continue to support each other as we navigate these complex discussions.

Entry 2: Clarifying My Intentions

To be absolutely clear: I do not engage in personal attacks. My posts focus solely on the characters and the relationship dynamics within the show. The fact that I run an anti-Cedfia blog does not mean I hold any hatred toward those who see things differently. I simply believe that Cedric and Sofia’s age gap and relationship dynamic should be discussed, and I am willing to share my thoughts respectfully.

What has been hurtful is seeing how quickly people have assumed the worst about me. I've been labeled as someone who goes after other fans or tries to ruin their enjoyment of the show, but nothing could be further from the truth. I’ve received messages accusing me of targeting individuals and even a specific user named Trixie, but I’ve never spoken to this person or harassed them. These accusations are not only unfounded but seem to be based on stereotypes about anti-blogs rather than my actual actions.

Running @AntiCedfiaWeek is my way of expressing valid concerns. I’m here because I care about *Sofia the First* and want to create a space where these kinds of age-gap relationships in children’s media can be talked about openly. This fandom is filled with people who love the characters and storylines, and I respect that. But it feels unfair to be labeled as a bully just for sharing a different perspective.

I’m here for meaningful, respectful conversations, and I believe in allowing all sides to be heard. My intention has never been to shame or call out anyone, but simply to explain why this particular ship feels inappropriate. I believe fans should be able to have spaces for both positive and critical discussions, and @AntiCedfiaWeek is my space for the latter.

Seeing how quickly people have jumped to conclusions about my intentions has been both shocking and discouraging. I’ve even considered stepping away from the fandom because of the negativity, but I don’t want to let a few voices push me out. This blog means a lot to me, and I appreciate those who take the time to engage thoughtfully and respectfully. It’s my hope that we can continue discussing these characters without hostility.

Entry 3: The Importance of Facts and Evidence

As I continue to address the harassment I’ve been facing, I want to take a moment to explain why I hold my views on Cedric and Sofia’s relationship dynamic with clarity and transparency. For me, this is about taking a closer look at the messages media sends, especially to young audiences, and sharing valid concerns that are often overlooked. I believe it’s crucial to base discussions on facts and evidence—things we can observe about these characters and their roles within the show. By sharing this, I hope others can understand that my position is reasoned, thoughtful, and not meant to attack or diminish anyone else’s perspective.

1. Age Difference and Power Imbalance

First and foremost, the age difference between Cedric and Sofia is undeniable. Cedric is portrayed as a fully grown adult, perhaps in his late twenties or even thirties, whereas Sofia is a young girl around the age of 8. This disparity alone is enough to raise concerns about the nature of their interactions. Relationships that involve large age gaps, especially where one individual is a minor, come with an inherent power imbalance. Cedric, as an adult, has access to experiences, knowledge, and authority that Sofia, as a child, has yet to develop.

When people ignore or downplay these factors, I believe it creates a dangerous precedent in how we perceive relationships in media, particularly media aimed at younger viewers. I’m not saying every viewer will misinterpret their relationship, but for those who look deeper or for children who don’t yet understand these dynamics, it can send a mixed message about what’s appropriate. It’s important for us to acknowledge these nuances and advocate for boundaries that reflect age-appropriate interactions, especially when younger characters are involved.

2. The Context of Cedric’s Role in the Story

Cedric is not a character who exists to support or uplift Sofia. In fact, he often has his own complex motivations and struggles, some of which directly contradict Sofia’s journey as a young princess learning responsibility and kindness. While he does occasionally assist her, his intentions are often layered with self-interest and personal ambition. Sofia, on the other hand, is still learning about trust, friendship, and loyalty.

By shipping these characters, the dynamic shifts to something that could potentially undermine Sofia’s growth and development. Instead of seeing her as a young girl finding her place in the world, the narrative focuses on her relationship with an adult whose goals do not align with her own. In a way, it robs Sofia of her agency, framing her as part of a pairing rather than a standalone character who deserves the chance to grow independently. Cedric, too, deserves to be viewed as a complex character with individual growth, not just as one half of an age-inappropriate pairing.

3. Real-World Implications of Depicting Age-Inappropriate Relationships

When a children’s show introduces interactions that could be interpreted romantically between adults and children, it’s essential to consider the impact. Children are impressionable and often emulate the characters they admire. For some viewers, especially younger ones, seeing adults and children treated as romantic counterparts can normalize dynamics that, in real life, are inappropriate. The idea of an adult and a minor as equals in a romantic context is not only unrealistic—it’s potentially harmful.

Media has a responsibility to depict relationships in a way that is both respectful and age-appropriate, and when fans question these portrayals, it is often because they want to protect younger viewers from exposure to potentially confusing narratives. As someone who values healthy depictions in media, my concern is that shows like *Sofia the First* should be careful with these interactions and avoid romantic implications that may mislead or blur appropriate boundaries.

4. Cultural Responsibility and Media Impact

There is a wider conversation happening in society about the responsibility of creators to avoid problematic portrayals in media, particularly those aimed at children. We live in a time when people are increasingly aware of how certain relationships and character dynamics influence our collective understanding of what is appropriate. By speaking out on this blog, I am joining others who believe in fostering responsible media for younger audiences.

People often dismiss anti-blogs as “hate accounts,” but that perception overlooks the core of what I’m trying to do here. I’m not attacking the fans of this ship—I’m asking questions about the impact of these dynamics. This isn’t a baseless or negative stance; it’s a call for thoughtful analysis of how these characters are portrayed and what messages might come across.

5. Moving Beyond Misconceptions and Building Understanding

I know there are strong attachments within the fandom to these characters and that some people genuinely enjoy Cedric and Sofia’s interactions. I don’t intend to take that away from anyone. What I do want is to open a space where we can critically examine the implications of certain ships without judgment or hostility. It’s okay to disagree; in fact, fandom thrives when there are diverse voices and perspectives. But I also believe that sharing concerns like mine shouldn’t automatically invite accusations or harassment.

I’ve seen so many passionate, thoughtful members of this fandom who love discussing their favorite characters, and I hope those who follow this blog can appreciate that I’m not here to “ruin” anyone’s enjoyment. Rather, I’m hoping we can approach these stories with a deeper sense of what they represent, especially for younger viewers. By respectfully discussing boundaries and age-appropriate relationships, we’re helping to create a healthier fandom that can appreciate *Sofia the First* while also being aware of the importance of character dynamics.

Thank you for listening and showing support

To everyone who has read this far, thank you for taking the time to understand my perspective. This blog is a labor of love for me, and every thoughtful message or show of support means the world. I know not everyone will agree, but if we can foster a fandom space where respect for all viewpoints is encouraged, we’ll have succeeded in creating something positive.

This blog will continue to stand for safe, age-appropriate discussions of the characters we love. And I appreciate each of you who respects that and offers compassion in return. It’s hard to stay true to a perspective that not everyone understands, but with supporters like you, I know I’m not alone in wanting what’s best for this fandom and for the stories we care about.

Entry 3: The Importance of Facts and Evidence (continued)

6. Addressing Misinformation About @AntiCedfiaWeek

One of the most frustrating parts of running this blog is seeing misinformation circulate about what @AntiCedfiaWeek truly represents. Some people assume that just because I’m vocal against the Cedfia pairing, I must be on a mission to harass or call out those who support it. But the reality is very different. I am not here to shame anyone personally, nor do I use this blog to track or harass individual fans. It’s disheartening to see the assumptions made about me simply because I chose to voice concerns over this ship.

In fact, many of my posts simply present factual observations about the show and character dynamics. I avoid names, direct confrontations, or even generalizations that could be seen as attacking fans personally. I’ve been careful to make sure my posts remain focused on the characters and the narrative, not on individual people in the fandom. Unfortunately, it seems some individuals have overlooked these efforts and continue to view this blog as an “attack” platform, which couldn’t be further from the truth.

7. Emphasizing Respectful Discussion Over Conflict.

At the heart of @AntiCedfiaWeek is the belief that we can have open, honest discussions without turning to conflict or personal attacks. Fandoms, especially for children’s media, should ideally be spaces where people can share different perspectives without feeling bullied or misrepresented. I have seen blogs that focus solely on “pro” perspectives, and I respect that; they have every right to express their views. My hope is that my blog can serve as a respectful “anti” space, offering another side of the conversation while respecting others who think differently.

This fandom has the potential to be welcoming and diverse, a place where people can openly share thoughts and interpretations. I believe there’s room for both sides in this fandom—as long as we keep things respectful. What makes fandom enjoyable is that we can all share and learn from each other, and my intent has always been to add a constructive voice to the discussion. My hope is that more people will see this blog as a place to reflect on these character relationships without feeling that I am here to tear down anyone’s enjoyment of the show.

8. Why This Blog Matters to Me

Running this blog has been more than just a way to voice concerns; it’s a way to stay engaged with a show that, despite my criticisms, I do appreciate. *Sofia the First* has many positive elements—its messages of kindness, courage, and learning—and that’s a big part of why I want to address its dynamics. I believe in the power of stories to shape young minds, and part of my dedication to this blog comes from wanting those stories to reflect values of respect and boundaries.

When I see people dismiss or belittle concerns over age-inappropriate relationships, it reinforces why this blog is important. We need to be able to speak up about issues we see in media without fear of harassment or silencing. I believe this kind of discussion is not only valid but necessary, especially when we’re dealing with characters that younger audiences admire. This blog matters because it represents a voice for those who also have concerns but may be hesitant to speak up. I want this to be a space where others can feel validated in their own discomfort with certain ships and dynamics.

9. For the Supporters Who Have Stood by Me

To those who have reached out with messages of understanding and support, I want to say thank you. Every kind message reminds me that I’m not alone in this fandom and that there are others who see the value in having conversations like this. Your words mean so much, especially when things get tough. Knowing that there are people who support respectful, thoughtful discussion makes it easier to stay here and keep posting.

For those who have come forward with similar experiences, thank you for sharing them with me. I know it’s not always easy to speak up, and I appreciate every person who has taken the time to express solidarity. It gives me strength to know that this blog resonates with others, even if we’re a smaller voice in the fandom. Your support is a reminder that the discussions we’re having here are meaningful, even if they’re sometimes challenging.

Moving Forward with Respect and Understanding

As I move forward with @AntiCedfiaWeek, my goal is to stay true to my purpose and keep this space a respectful, factual resource for those who want to explore the reasons behind my stance on Cedfia. I’m not here to force anyone to agree with me; I’m simply sharing a perspective that I believe is important. Whether or not others agree, I hope they can see that my intentions are sincere, grounded in evidence, and driven by a genuine concern for the messages we pass on to young viewers.

In the end, this blog isn’t about hate or harassment. It’s about responsible storytelling, thoughtful discussion, and respecting boundaries within a fandom. Thank you again to those who understand where I’m coming from and who believe in respectful dialogue. Your support keeps me grounded and helps me remember that there’s a place for all of us in this fandom, as long as we approach each other with kindness.

Entry 4: Breaking Down the Misconceptions Surrounding @AntiCedfiaWeek

As I continue to address the misconceptions and unfair assumptions about @AntiCedfiaWeek, I want to take a closer look at the core beliefs that guide this blog, as well as the misunderstandings that have led to some painful accusations. Running an anti-Cedfia blog doesn’t mean I’m against the fandom, nor does it mean I’m here to shame or harass those who feel differently. In fact, my goal has always been the opposite—to foster a thoughtful conversation about media and age-appropriate boundaries, particularly in shows that are aimed at young audiences.

With that in mind, I’d like to break down some of the key misconceptions I’ve encountered and clarify what this blog stands for.

1. Misconception: Anti-Cedfia Means Anti-Fandom

One of the most common misconceptions I see is that anti-Cedfia automatically means “anti-fandom,” as if criticizing this one ship somehow undermines the entire community. This couldn’t be further from the truth. I care deeply about *Sofia the First*, which is precisely why I take the time to post about it. Fandoms are, at their best, spaces where people can express both admiration and critique, and just because I have concerns about one aspect of the show doesn’t mean I dislike it as a whole. On the contrary, I believe that engaging critically with a show often demonstrates a deeper level of care.

Fandoms are diverse spaces by nature, and they should be able to hold different viewpoints, including critiques. Being anti-Cedfia isn’t about “hating” the show or the people who enjoy it. It’s about expressing a viewpoint rooted in the belief that certain dynamics, especially those involving significant age gaps and potential power imbalances, deserve closer examination. I’m here because I respect this fandom and want to create a space where these issues can be addressed thoughtfully.

2. Misconception: Criticism Equals Harassment

Another common assumption is that any criticism is automatically an act of harassment. I want to be very clear—at no point have I used this blog to send hateful messages, call out individuals, or target anyone personally. The content here is focused on character dynamics and fictional portrayals, not on attacking people who enjoy those portrayals. However, I’ve found that just by voicing a different opinion, I’ve been labeled as aggressive or confrontational. It’s upsetting to be accused of things I’ve never done, simply because I run a blog that goes against popular opinions.

True harassment involves unwanted, targeted communication meant to intimidate or harm another person. What I’m doing on @AntiCedfiaWeek is sharing an opinion, and I’m careful to keep it about the characters, not the people who might ship them. I don’t send messages to individual users, nor do I make posts that single out others by name. I’m here to discuss fictional relationships, and I have never, nor will I ever, cross the line into personal harassment.

3. Misconception: Anti-Blogs Lack Validity

It’s disheartening to see the way “anti-blogs” are dismissed as automatically negative or hateful. Being anti-something doesn’t inherently mean being disrespectful or hostile. Anti-blogs can provide critical perspectives, and they often serve as a space for people to voice concerns or discomfort with certain aspects of a fandom. I’ve chosen to focus my blog on Cedfia because I believe it’s a ship that deserves careful consideration, particularly because of the target age group of *Sofia the First*. Just because a blog is “anti” doesn’t mean it lacks validity; it simply means that it offers a different lens through which to view the content.

It’s okay to hold different views in fandom, and there’s room for both “pro” and “anti” perspectives. Anti-blogs can bring balance by challenging us to think critically and consider alternative interpretations. I think we could have a healthier, more open fandom environment if anti-blogs were seen not as antagonistic but as a valuable part of the conversation. After all, constructive criticism is often a sign of passion, not negativity.

4. Evidence-Based Concerns: Why This Blog Exists

My criticisms are not random or based on personal vendettas; they’re rooted in observations of the characters and relationships portrayed in *Sofia the First*. Cedric is an adult character with his own storyline, ambitions, and motives, while Sofia is a child learning about friendship, responsibility, and compassion. Their age difference alone introduces a power imbalance that could be problematic if interpreted romantically. It’s important to consider how these portrayals might impact viewers, particularly young children who may not fully understand the nuances of adult relationships.

In many ways, *Sofia the First* is a teaching tool for young viewers, imparting lessons about kindness, courage, and responsibility. Pairing an adult and a child, even hypothetically, runs counter to the show’s positive messages and could lead to misunderstandings about age-appropriate relationships. I’ve chosen to focus my blog on Cedfia because it stands out as a pairing that, if romanticized, could blur lines that should remain clear in children’s media. For me, this is less about the fandom and more about advocating for responsible storytelling.

5. Why I Believe in the Right to Critique

Some people might wonder why I’m so passionate about this subject, and the answer is simple: media shapes our perceptions. As fans, we have every right to engage with content in ways that feel meaningful to us, including through constructive critique. The idea that fans shouldn’t question or critique certain relationships within media feels limiting. I believe everyone in the fandom should have the freedom to explore their own perspectives, whether they’re “pro” or “anti” a particular ship.

It’s important to remember that critique isn’t inherently negative. Asking questions about the media we consume helps us understand it better and can lead to more nuanced conversations. In many ways, critique is a way of showing respect for a work—it means we see its potential, and we want to engage with it on a deeper level. My blog is a way for me to express my concerns while still appreciating what *Sofia the First* offers as a show. Being a fan doesn’t mean blindly agreeing with every aspect of a story; it means caring enough to consider its impact thoughtfully.

Entry 5: Finding Strength in Community: A Heartfelt Reflection

As I continue to navigate the complexities of running @AntiCedfiaWeek, I feel it’s essential to take a moment to reflect on the incredible community surrounding this blog. The conversations I’ve had, both publicly and privately, have reinforced the idea that we are not just a collection of individual voices but a vibrant tapestry woven together by shared interests, passions, and concerns. This entry is dedicated to exploring the importance of community in fostering respectful dialogue, understanding differing perspectives, and standing together against the tides of negativity that can sometimes permeate online spaces.

1. The Power of Supportive Friends

Throughout this journey, I have been fortunate to have amazing friends who have offered their unwavering support, both emotionally and intellectually. These friends remind me of the importance of resilience and the power of solidarity in the face of misunderstanding and accusation. It’s easy to feel isolated when negativity surrounds you, but my friends have been a lifeline, helping me remember why I started this blog in the first place. Their encouragement reminds me that I am not alone in my beliefs or my mission to foster critical discussions about relationships in media.

The supportive community I’ve found isn’t just about agreeing with my viewpoints; it’s about engaging in meaningful discourse. When I receive messages from friends expressing their understanding of my perspective, it validates my efforts to speak out against harmful dynamics in media representations. This support helps me stay grounded, knowing that there are others who share my concerns and values.

2. Building Bridges, Not Walls

One of the most challenging aspects of running an anti-Cedfia blog has been encountering individuals who automatically assume that criticism equates to hostility. I’ve come to realize that building bridges is vital in creating an environment where all voices can be heard, even when those voices differ. Instead of viewing differing opinions as divisive, I strive to see them as opportunities for growth and understanding.

It’s essential to recognize that everyone comes to fandom with their own experiences and perspectives, shaped by their unique backgrounds and identities. By embracing this diversity, we can have more meaningful conversations about why certain portrayals in media matter and how they affect us as viewers. I hope that by fostering open dialogue, we can dismantle the walls that often arise from misunderstandings and create a space where healthy debate can flourish.

3. Embracing Compassion in Discourse

In every conversation I’ve had on this blog, I have tried to emphasize compassion and empathy. It’s crucial to approach discussions about sensitive topics with care and thoughtfulness. When we talk about relationships between characters, especially those involving significant age differences or power dynamics, it’s important to consider how these portrayals can impact young viewers.

By embracing compassion in our discourse, we not only elevate our conversations but also demonstrate that it’s possible to disagree without being disagreeable. My goal has always been to express my concerns while remaining respectful of those who may not share my views. Engaging in constructive dialogue requires us to listen actively and recognize the validity of different perspectives, even when we might not agree.

4. The Role of Evidence in Our Conversations

As I’ve shared previously, my critiques of the Cedric and Sofia dynamic are based on careful consideration of the characters and their circumstances within *Sofia the First*. I’ve aimed to provide factual evidence and thoughtful analysis to support my points, believing that this approach adds weight to the discussions we have. When we ground our conversations in evidence, we elevate the dialogue beyond mere opinion and foster a culture of informed critique.In doing so, I encourage my readers to think critically about what they consume in media and how it shapes their understanding of relationships. This isn’t about demonizing anyone or shaming those who ship Cedfia; it’s about inviting everyone to reflect on why certain portrayals matter and how they can influence perceptions of age-appropriate relationships. By engaging with evidence, we can collectively work toward creating a fandom that values thoughtful discourse.

5. Thank You to My Amazing Friends and Supporters

As I conclude this entry, I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude to each and every one of you. I couldn’t do this without my amazing friends and supporters who have rallied around me, offering encouragement and understanding through every step of this journey. Your kindness and compassion have inspired me to keep going, even when the road gets rocky.

To those who have reached out to share their own experiences or to discuss the topics I’ve raised on this blog, thank you for being a part of this community. Your voices matter, and your willingness to engage in these conversations makes a difference. Together, we can create an environment where all opinions are respected, and constructive criticism is welcomed.

I believe in the power of fandom as a space for dialogue, creativity, and growth. Let’s continue to uplift one another, champion open-mindedness, and foster a community that celebrates our shared love for *Sofia the First* while also holding it to the standards it deserves. Here’s to more discussions, more understanding, and more compassion as we navigate the complexities of our fandom together.

Our voices matter, and together, we can shape fandom spaces into places that champion respect, critical thinking, and the courage to stand up for what’s right.

[ssenza]

It is calming to see something familiar in another

inspo x x

[sabertoothwalrus]

Literally every character in dungeon meshi gets mischaracterized and whatever whatever it happens it’s inevitable I’ll move on. It’s just really sad to see the way Mithrun is sometimes portrayed cause he’s such a cool character!!

He’s not naive. He’s not gullible. He’s not ignorant of how to do things. He’s not confused all the time. He understands social cues. He doesn’t take things literally, or just at face value. He still understands humor and sarcasm. He’s not forgetful. He has an impeccable memory. He doesn’t have shame. He’s incapable of being hypnotized— when Cithis tried to kiss him or told him to eat out of a dog bowl, he was fully capable of saying no, and just saw no reason to. He’s stubborn (he’s a taurus <3). He used to secretly be a Huge Asshole and thought poorly of those around him (this is one of my favorite aspects about him) but he was really just insecure and struggled with jealousy. He’s now outwardly an asshole because he’s blunt and no longer has the ability to care if it hurts people’s feelings. It matters to him that other people don’t fall victim to the demon. He’s thoughtful.

He’s strong!!!! He’s smart and analytical. He became the captain of the canaries after his recovery. The thing that motivated him to recover was because all be wanted was to rejoin the canaries. When he met the demon, his deepest desire was to live a life where he never joined the canaries to begin with. He didn’t even want that much, and that’s why the demon’s appetite wasn’t satisfied. The demon intentionally left him with the desire for revenge so that he would have a reason to come back, fresh with new desires. He wants to make noodles. He wants to make noodles!

[aromantic-diaries]

"this character is autistic coded so headcanoning them as aro/ace is wrong because you're reinforcing the idea that autistic people are incapable of having romantic or sexual relationships" DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MANY ASPEC PEOPLE ARE ON THE AUTISM SPECTRUM

[readrantannotate]

I love that the show is giving Grover so much more screen time and is really diving deeper into his character. Particularly his reaction to his uncle’s death.

In the books, he was a little shocked when he first saw his statue at Medusa’s place but he quickly moved on.

In the show, he was visibly grieving and the first thing he said to Augustus was that his uncle died and he doesn’t know how to talk about it with his friends. Or rather, he doesn’t think they’d understand.

There’s just this clear divide between his perception of the world and Percy and Annabeth’s perception.

[inkzectz]

The archivists

[locusfandomtime]

The maths fandom is wild. “Real” and “imaginary” numbers? I think you mean canon and non-canon. You guys seriously go “this is my number oc his name is i and he is the square root of -1” when in numbers canon lore it’s actually impossible to square root a negative but sure whatever. “Complex numbers”? I think you mean a character x oc ship. “f(x) = 3x - 5”? That is self-insert fanfiction.

[hkthatgffan]

Hey, Kiki-Kit. Your customers are waiting!

Well, this is a painful post to make given the respect and admiration I had for her, but a long overdue one because I'm not alone in this mess and I refuse to let another fan fall for it when I could've said something!

Back in February, I bought a commission from Kiki-Kit. You may know that artist as she was one of the best in the Gravity Falls fandom back in the day and the illustrator of Don't Dimension It in Lost Legends.

She'd been running emergency commissions at the start of the year and I got one from her for $40 USD.

I have the invoice and everything saved and also messages with Kiki of us talking about the comm and me paying her. I owe nothing on my end money wise! I paid in full.

She said later she'd have them finished by around the end of March but come late April, still no response. So, I messaged her about it. Nothing odd I thought. I get things can happen and if Kiki is busy, at most she'd reply telling me it'll be a while longer and all's good.

But I got nothing. I messaged her, emailed her on the commissions email she had and tweeted at her. NOTHING! Turns out there were other people, including some friends of mine who had not heard back either. Then in June, Kiki made an update post explaining the situation.

Naturally I felt bad and wished her the best. She said iirc, she'd have the remaining comms done by the end of the Summer but here we are at the end of October and still nothing. I messaged her too again and no response.

You know, it's one thing if there's a reason for no response for a few days but then another when it's been months and still nothing. Oh and btw, I very much remember Kiki on Twitter liking tweets (back when Twitter let you see liked tweets) while I was there messaging her for an update. Real sus if you ask me.

But okay, I shouldn't rush it. Everyone has reasons to take time and maybe Kiki is just very busy and can't get back. She went through a very rough and difficult experience and I can understand and respect that. I'm more than happy to wait. But how long is too long without an update? Maybe a bit longer I guess. Art takes time.

Well, IDK about you all, but I don't remember any other Gravity Falls fan artist taking oh, idk...FIVE YEARS TO FINISH A COMMISION AND STILL NOT RESPOND!!

FoxieSkullzArtz on Twitter made me aware she has been waiting since 2019 for Kiki to respond to a commission they paid her for.

2019!!

I'm not an artist, so forgive me if I'm wrong. But I don't think it should take any artist 5 years to make a commission and even if, at least communicate with the person who paid you about it so they're not left guessing.

Oh, and it gets worse. I got another person who let me know they've been waiting since 2020 for a comm and Kiki handled it far worse!

Oh yeah, she blocked them for asking about it!

And okay, even if we give Kiki-Kit the benefit of the doubt and assume she has reasons to not communicate with people and maybe even assume people messaging her are being mean about it, then why not refund them? Nice or bad, you were paid by them to do something but also have the power to deny it and refund their money. And yet, Kiki did not even do that. And even if we be super kind and assume everyone is lying, I'm still here.

I paid Kiki-Kit $40USD for a comm I thought I would get in late March and it's now late October and still nothing. And even if you don't wanna believe me cause you can't believe an artist like Kiki-Kit would do this and assume I'm after clout (which would be odd, given why would I take pleasure in calling out an artist I respected)...well, there's gonna be someone else who says this too. And people have been saying this for years and she still is getting away with it!

It's disappointing honestly. Kiki-Kit is a name so many in this fandom know and love. And I love her art too. She's a fan artist who got to be on Lost Legends. We all celebrated that in 2018 and still remember it. And I know how hard it may be to hear this, but it has to be said.

I do not like having to do this, but I have a platform that can get this message across further than others could and having been someone who lost money to her too, I know first hand what all these people have been through.

And before you say "Kiki was going through a rough time in her life. Why are you blaming her? Be patient and she'll get your stupid art done," read over everything again. I'm not saying Kiki-Kit needs to be making art 24/7 and fulfilling these comms. I'm not saying she isn't allowed to be offline and not finish things on time for reasons out of her control. What I'm saying is that she hasn't communicated properly with anyone here who paid her and has continued to accept more and more commissions from people despite not finishing ones she has backlogs of.

When an artist opens commissions, why do you think they have slots or only accept a few? Because they know they can get that many done in a certain time or know anymore will take longer. And even if it took longer, at least they give updates. I bought a commission for the interview with Alex Hirsch and got it both on time and with proper communication from the artist.

And even if you disagree with all this, be honest with yourself...is making someone wait since 2019 or 2020 for a comm and not responding to them really something still worth defending?

I'm not here to cancel anyone. I don't want Kiki-Kit's reputation to be that of an scammer who stole money from people. But she's painted herself that way to far too many people who have been warning about this for ages but no one either saw or listened to them.

I tried to be nice and messaged Kiki-Kit over and over for an update and she never responded. I had friends who she took money from who similarly have not heard anything back! If you know Kiki directly, tell her to reach out to these people and all the ones she has taken money from and not gotten back to and either refund them or commit to finishing their commissions. Please don't be rude or hostile either though, given despite it all, she is still a person like your or me who deserves a chance to make things right.

I wanna believe Kiki-Kit has just made some negligent mistakes and isn't the best with time management or communication. I mean, I'm not the best either. But I'm not asking people for money for something and then not getting back to them with it. I'm sorry to everyone who is learning about this who saw Kiki in a positive light and I'm sorry also to everyone like me who lost money to her.

I hope if nothing else, Kiki will respond and make whole everyone she has taken money from. If she really cares about this fandom that put her on a pedestal high enough that Alex Hirsch himself picked her to work on his book, she can respond to us and fulfill what we paid her to do.

I'm not asking for my commission to be done tomorrow...I just want an update. That's all. We all do! No more stalling, @kiki-kit. Please respond to us now!

Sincerely,

Every person who has paid you for a commission and has yet to hear back from you and every Gravity Falls fan who your work inspired and are now having to learn this about you!

[everything-is-as-it-was]

with every video I'm getting more and more convinced there will never actually be an official 'hard launch,' just the door opening wider and wider until they act like the door was never there at all.

The fact that they answered the question about Phil snoring. The fact that they talked about "the bathroom" so candidly. the fact that they called it NEWLYWEDS AT ALL. They trust us so much because we put so much trust in them.

[dollishbabess]

HOW BATBOYS WOULD REACT WHEN YOU GET CATCALLED (IF YOU FOUGHT BACK OR DIDNT) - dollish

A/n: As someone who got a NAKED GUY chase them in Central Park once,it’s same to say I don’t go out at night and I have my reasons ����😭 idk if you guys want a story time though (it’s in replies of comments)

Second divider @cafekitsune

Dick grayson:

If you fought back first:

Surprise and Concern Dick would be taken aback by your sudden action. “Whoa! I didn’t expect you to do that!” He’d rush in, concerned about your safety and the potential repercussions of your actions.

Supportive Reaction After the initial surprise, he’d be impressed by your boldness. “I admire the courage, but let me handle this next time. I don’t want you to get hurt.��

Talk it Out He’d want to discuss what happened afterward, emphasizing that while he respects your willingness to stand up for yourself, he’d prefer to ensure your safety first. “You didn’t have to take matters into your own hands; I’m here for that.”

If you didn’t fight back:

Protective Instinct Dick’s protective nature would kick in immediately. He’d likely step in without hesitation, using both charm and assertiveness to diffuse the situation. “Hey! Back off!” Which surprisingly he doesn’t do physically fights as dick grayson but used to when he was younger.

Non-Violent Approach While he might be ready to fight if necessary, he’d prefer to use his words first. He’d try to make the perpetrators feel ashamed or embarrassed instead of escalating to violence.

Check-In Afterward, he’d check in with you to ensure you’re okay, offering support and reassurance. “You shouldn’t have to deal with that. Are you alright?” Would check you for any sign of discomfort or emotional distress.

Jason Todd:

If you fought back first:

Immediate Approval (YUHH THATS MY GIRLL) Jason would likely be thrilled by your boldness. “Damn, that was awesome!” He’d appreciate your willingness to fight back against disrespect and might find it incredibly attractive.

Reinforcing Behavior He’d stand beside you, ready to support you in case things escalated further. “I’ve got your back; let’s show them what we can do together.”

Post-Fight Confidence Afterward, he’d be all about boosting your confidence. “You didn’t back down. That’s badass. Just remember, you’re not alone in these situations.”

If you didn’t fight back:

Immediate Rage Jason would likely be furious upon witnessing the situation. His protective instincts would lead him to confront the catcallers aggressively. “You think you can just touch her like that? Get the hell away!” Would be so ready to pop a jaw out of place.

Fight Ready He wouldn’t hesitate to escalate to violence if the catcallers didn’t back off in a nano second, his past experiences fueling his anger towards disrespect since he grew up in the streets he’s seen how violent men are towards woman.

Aftermath Support Once it’s resolved, he’d focus on you, ensuring you feel safe and respected. “I’m sorry you had to go through that. You deserve better, let’s go home.” He’d say a bit annoyed but definitely mood wrecked and definitely made sure you saw stars that night.

Tim Drake:

If you fought back first:

Shock and Support (Like girl, you just did that?) Tim would be shocked at first, watching you throw the punch. “Whoa!” His concern for your safety would come first.

Strategic Thinking After the punch, he’d quickly assess the situation and help you strategize. “That was a bold move! But maybe next time we should come up with a plan together?”

Validation He’d validate your feelings and support your actions, understanding your need to stand up for yourself. “I get why you did that; nobody should have to deal with harassment. Just be careful!”

If you didn’t fight back:

Quick Analysis Tim would assess the situation quickly, evaluating how best to handle it. He might initially react with shock before stepping in.

Calm Confrontation He would confront the catcallers with a calm demeanor, using logic and authority to demand they stop. “That’s not cool; you need to leave her alone.”

Protective Move If the situation escalated, he wouldn’t shy away from physical confrontation, but he’d also prioritize your safety and try to de-escalate things first.

Supportive Afterwards Afterward, he’d want to talk about what happened, ensuring you feel heard and validated. “Are you okay? I can’t believe they thought that was okay.”

Damian Wayne:

If you fought back first:

Impressed but Concerned (BRO’S THROWING HANDS W YOU) Damian would be impressed by your courage but also worried about the consequences. “That was… unexpected. Are you certain you wish to engage in a fight?”

Protective Instinct He’d immediately stand next to you, ready to back you up if needed. “If they retaliate, I will not hesitate to defend you.”

Ownership of the Situation After the incident, he’d likely want to ensure you felt validated. “Your actions were brave, but remember that you must also consider your safety in these situations.”

If you didn’t fight back:

Immediate Intervention Damian would react with a sense of urgency, feeling that your honor was being challenged. He’d step in swiftly, ready to confront the aggressors. “How dare you lay a hand on her!”

Defensive and Fierce His fighting style would be aggressive, and he wouldn’t hesitate to take action if they didn’t back down. He views such disrespect as an affront not only to you but also to himself (he should be on baddies atp)

Possessive Nature After the confrontation, he’d likely be very protective, wanting to ensure you feel safe. “You should not have to endure such disrespect. Stay close to me next time.”

Bruce Wayne:

If you fought back first:

Initial Shock Bruce would be initially shocked by your reaction. “Y/N what are you doing!?!” He’d be concerned about the possible repercussions of such actions in a civilian setting.

Protective Reaction He’d quickly assess the situation, ready to step in if things escalated. “Let’s not make a scene. I’ll handle this.”

Serious Conversation Afterward, he’d want to have a serious conversation about your actions. “While I respect your need to stand up for yourself, it’s important to think about the consequences. Your safety matters most to me.”

If you didn’t fight back:

Calculated Response Bruce would remain calm and collected, assessing the situation before acting. He’d approach the catcallers with an air of authority, making it clear they need to back off.

Verbal Confrontation He might use his intimidating presence and voice to confront them. “You’re making her uncomfortable. Leave now, or you’ll regret it.”

Prepared for Escalation If they didn’t comply, he’d be ready to fight, using his combat skills effectively.

Caring Aftermath Once it’s over, he’d turn his attention to you, offering support and reassurance. ��Are you alright? Let’s get you somewhere safe.” And would try to take your mind off it in any way he could.

Tbh all of them would fight for you, just some of them don’t throw hands first especially tim and Bruce.

This is for awareness purposes, thousands of women today around the world have to go through this and worse thousands of women and young girls and minors are being assaulted today, please teach and make a difference for the world today it could be anyone, your mother, sister, daughter, cousin, aunt, grandma etc.

[timtamtomme]

"I've been outside Black Mesa, Dr. Freeman, There's nothing there, But YOU, I know there's a world in your dreams. AND I NEED TO GO THERE." ~ Dr. Harold P. Coomer

I had a lot of fun with this!! I need to make finished art more often, HAHA!! Hope you like it <333

[space-owl]

Tumblr, I’m actually very proud of that we achieved this!

[dathen]

Ace awareness “how to be a better ally” advice of the week: “Aces are part of the queer community” only means as much as you *act* like it.

Recently the thing I notice the most is people talking about a queer adaption/reading in contrast to an ace/aroace one—it betrays the belief that only the romantic/sexual aspects would make it REALLY queer, so an ace one wouldn’t count. I had this post in draft form for half a day and *five minutes ago* saw yet another instance of this.

I feel for stories specifically this language stems from the weird way ‘representation’ and ‘shipping’ get tangled up. (See: use of ‘queerbaiting’ for canonically queer characters that people want in a ship) It doesn’t make it any less alienating.

Ace stories and aro stories are queer stories. They’re worth telling and worth hearing and don’t need to be ‘upgraded’ to ‘actually queer.’ We don’t have to justify our place in the community with whatever element of attraction.

[mocndu]

uh oh

[vrrl]

I watched the HLVRAI this week. Surprisingly, I liked it!

Well... I have redrawn several frames from the anime "Kaiju no.8" 🥴

+Portraits