#f/o; anti

[us-angels-together]

Shoutout to Selfshippers who....

want to talk about their fictional others but also feel embarrassed about doing so

want to talk about their fictional others but feel too protective about them and want to keep them completely to yourselves

hide the fact they selfship

religiously read x reader fanfiction

have told people they selfship and were made fun of or were unsupported

have lost track of how many fictional others they have

feel guilty about having multiple fictional others

have only one fictional other

have only just recently started selfshipping

have been selfshipping for years

You are all amazing, keep doing what you're doing! Keep having fun with your selfshipping. Keep doing it!

Divider by @cafekitsune

[doodlepoodle69]

Imagine putting a flower crown on your F/O !!!

(bonus points if they committed unforgivable crimes)

(extra bonus points if they don’t want it, forceflowercrown that silly‼️‼️‼️)

[hulluloverchico]

When your F/O watches you scrolling on your phone, so they lean against you sleepily, their eyes slowly closing, as you must put your hand around them just so they don't fall, such a tender loving moment... ♡

(Radqueers/TransID fuck off.)

[rippedangelwings]

Imagine your f/o hugging you while you share a bathtub after a long day. The warm water on your body relieves your tense muscles while your f/o is hugging you, and playing with your hair, whispering sweet nothings in your ear. Their nails occasionally softly scratch your back while they lay their head on your chest, and their gaze watches your expression lovingly.

[bbyshifts]

Daily reminder : your f/o loves you more than anything in this world. In every universe.

[rejaytionships]

cannot believe i gotta say this but please don't follow me if you're comfortable selfshipping with canon racists. i don't care if you headcanon them as otherwise, because if their racism against a real group of people is a key facet of their character (much less incredibly important to the telling of the story that this character is a racist) then i do not wanna see it. this is not the safe space for you

[coolwhipdinosaur]

Your f/o waking you up in the middle of the night to cuddle because they had a nightmare and want comfort

[rosieshipper]

Because I’ve been seeing a lot of them lately I would like to rehash this because it’s getting fucking annoying at this point

PROSHITTERS👏🏻STOP👏🏻INSERTING👏🏻YOURSELVES👏🏻INTO👏🏻SELFSHIP👏🏻SPACES👏🏻

Stop trying to justify your shitty problematic ships and bringing them into our spaces. This community is not for you go fuck off elsewhere

[ailoveuu]

For everyone that needs to hear it, now or in the future:

No, you're not too much for your f/o.

"but I have an eating disorder!"

"but I have anxiety!"

"but I have dissociative identity disorder!"

"but I have-"

It doesn't matter what you have or how much you struggle. It doesn't matter if you're just insecure, neurodivergent, mentally/physically ill, they love you. Any and all struggles can and will be sorted through.

You may not think it, but you do deserve love; and they'll happily give it to you.

[selfmadescientist-moved]

shout out to people with f/os that are hated by the fandom for being morally reprehensible

the f/o that is a rapist

the f/o that abuses animals

the f/o that is canonically a pedophile

the f/o that is a stalker

the f/o that is a bully

the f/o that is an abuser

the f/o that hurts others no reason other than they enjoy it

the f/o that has no desire to get better

the f/o that is an unsympathetic villain

the f/o that treats everyone around them like garbage because they feel like they're the only person with coherent thought in the general vicinity

the f/o that killed off one of the characters you're supposed to root for and supposed to like

the f/o that you can see part of yourself in, maybe even when most people think that'd be a red flag

... and shout out to you, selfshipper, for loving them despite it all! or because of it all. ^_^

[solitaireships]

I feel like I should say since there's been a recent uptick in a lot of communities I'm in/see stuff from a lot of white people pretending to be Asian, but you are not welcome here if you are in anyway stealing from Asian cultures for clout or the aesthetics of it

This includes if you're white and you give your self inserts Asian names, I truly do not care if your f/o is from an anime, you should not be using an Asian name under any circumstances. I hate that whenever I see someone using an Asian name online, I feel like I have to start searching their account to see if they're actually Asian or just a white person who likes the aesthetic of it bcs far too many white people will use Asian names here just bcs it sounds cool, with no regard for the actual cultural meaning behind it. Meanwhile actual Asian people will be mocked for their names, or treated like their names are too hard to learn to pronounce, or discriminated against based on their names

Asian cultures are not a fun little costume for people to dress up with. They aren't just a nice aesthetic, they aren't just a thing you can borrow from bcs you think it sounds cool

[auroraaura-111]

gods, i miss you. i miss touching you and having my hands in your hair while you rest your head on my stomach and wrap your hands around my middle. i miss talking to you and hearing your voice.

i want to cuddle you by having your head on my chest and your arm draped around my waist while i scratch the back of your head. i want you to show me how much you trust me by falling asleep on me and claiming it was the best rest of your life.

sometimes it scares me how much i want you. and not in a sexual way, but so closely intimate that i want to merge my body with yours. it brings tears to my eyes, not of sadness, but… of overwhelming emotion, i suppose. i love touching you. i love softly caressing your hair, twirling it around my fingers, scratching your scalp. i love gently sliding my fingertips across your face, along your jaw and neck, cupping your cheek, moving your silky curls out of your face. i love sitting on your lap, pressing myself against you, just showing you how much i love you through touch.

fuck, i miss you so much.

- when you miss your comfort character but they live in a different universe

[us-angels-together]

Imagine going on a walk with your f/o in the woods. The leaves have begun to fall and are so many different beautiful colors. Dead leaves crunch under your feet. You have a scarf wrapped around your neck as you felt a bit chilled today but holding hands with your f/o has definitely warmed you up.

Divider by @animatedglittergraphics-n-more

[bbyshifts]

I hope I am not the only one who feels this painful feeling when you see your F/O (s/o) being shipped with another character that isn’t you.

Cause damn I feel it. It’s horrible. Help.

[l0v3sickl0s3r]

man i keep accidentally liking proship stuff and then catching myself 😭 PLEASE BE MINDFUL OF WHAT U LIKE/REBLOG/WHATEVER GUYZ THIS IS A REMINDER

proship dni obv >:[

[twoinky]

F/Os that are sad that you don't see yourself the way they see you, but also. F/Os that are angry. Not at you, but at the world that made their love see themself as less than they are. At the people that gave you these insecurities in the first place. F/Os that want to tear the world apart, burn it down because does a world that doesn't love you for who you are deserve to exist?