#exparium

[isobug]

Exparangi

An Exparium androgyne, one who is an androgyne in an Exparium way, or any similar experience. Intersex-exclusive just like Exparium is.

Made by combining the Exparium flag format with this Androgyne flag and this Androgyne flag.

Made for anon but free for anyone to use anywhere as always!

Taglist - @radiomogai, @interarchive, @daybreakthing

[queercripintersex]

Intersex folks ONLY: how do you relate your gender to your AGAB?

If you're not intersex please don't vote, it makes it hard for us to get an accurate set of results!!!

I'm pulling the terms from intersexfairy's Intersex Glossary <3 "Gender modality" means how you relate to your AGAB (e.g. cis, trans) and is not the same as gender identity (e.g. woman, man, intergender, non-binary)

[nolongeronlyhereforthewhispangle]

SPOTLIGHTING LESSER-KNOWN QUEER IDENTITIES THAT I THINK ARE COOL PART 23!!!!

EXPARIUM!

This identity is an intersex exclusive label for those who feel connected to the ideas of feeling transmasc, transfemme, or another trans/nonbinary gender despite it corresponding to their assigned gender at birth!

For example, an AFAB intersex person who identifies with the idea of being transfemme!

There’s also specific flags for exparfem (female specific microlabel of this) and exparmasc (male specific microlabel of this)!

Right: Exparfem

Left: Exparmasc

IF I SEE ANY HATE UNDER THIS POST I WILL KILL YOU WITH MY BARE HANDS!

Thanks to @imthatwannabeauthor for the suggestion!

[inter-sex]

Day five of making the #intersex tags happier!

Links:

Integender, Advenagender, Dionyfluid, Mallardhoarder, Duogender, Exparium, Intersex Genders in General

[ipso-faculty]

Proposing some intersex gender modality & transition terms

So there are a whole bunch of different ways that intersex people can be/identify as trans. I've been thinking about what names would be useful for articulating these differences and in this post I'll list what I've got so far. 🧑‍🔬

I'm hoping to get feedback on these, so if you have feedback let me know! 💛 I expect to edit this post, to incorporate feedback and further ideas.

CW: mention of IGM and forced HRT

Types of transitions

Distransition: a medical transition forced upon an intersex person, such as through IGM or forced HRT. Dis- to indicate the negative aspect of the transition being coercive, as well as to connote disability since this process is so frequently traumatic and/or disability-causing. In disability studies language it's a form of debility (disability caused through systemic violence).

Mistransition: a distransition (forced transition) that is not in alignment with a person's gender identity. Mis- to indicate the incorrectness of the alignment as well as to maintain a negative connotation because this is a coercive transition.

Entransition: a consensual transition done by an intersex person. Contrast to distransition. En- acts as an opposite to dis- and also to me indicates a level of intent (e.g. envision, enact, enliven). It also serves to indicate that transition is different for intersex bodies than for perisex bodies.

Retransition: an entransition done by an intersex person who previously had been distransitioned. I.e. when an intersex person does a second transition to undo, alter, or improve a forced transition. Re- to indicate a second transition, but also that it's a revision of the first one. EDIT #1: This term is not intersex exclusive, and may also be used by perisex trans people who have transitioned multiple times. EDIT #2: For an intersex-exclusive version, I suggest "re-entransition", combining re- and en-.

Retrotransition: a retransition that is done to undo the effects of forced transition. So an intersex person who, after being forced into a binary gender, then transitions their body towards a best approximation of what their body's natural state would have been without forced transition. Retro- for backwards to indicate undoing that is worth differentiating from detransitioning.

Laterotransition: a retransition done by an intersex person to a gender that is neither the gender externally imposed by a distransition nor what their body's "natural state" would be. For example, an AFAB AIS person who was coercively transitioned female, who then later transitioned male. Latero- as contrast to retro- (latero- is to the side, antero- is forward) as well as to indicate the turn away from the path set forth externally by parents/doctors.

Anterotransition: a retransition done by an intersex person that continues the direction set forth by previous forced transition. So additional transitioning done by somebody whose gender is in alignment with what was externally imposed. While this will probably be somebody's AGAB, it doesn't have to be - some times intersex people are forcibly transitioned to a different gender than their AGAB.

All of these transitions would have an analogous gender modality. So an entransgender person is somebody who has/is undergoing/intends to entransition. And a retrotransgender person likewise has/is undergoing/intends to retrotransition.

I see distransition and mistransition as potentially useful for intersex people talking about trauma and structural intersexism. I think entransition might be useful for talking about how being intersex and transitioning is frequently different than for perisex people, especially if it is a retransition. And perhaps distransition and anterotransition may be of use to exparium folks.

Personally: I was distransitioned as an adolescent and have recently started a process of medically retrotransitioning.

Feedback welcome! A list of revisions will go at the bottom of this post. Will make flags for terms once I feel satisfied with them.

Edits

2024-01-16: I've been informed by @chipbutbetter that retrans is already used by some perisex folks with complicated transition patterns, so I have edited to say this term should not be intersex exclusive. Thanks! 🏳️‍⚧️

2024-01-16: thought about an intersex-specific version of retransition and landed on "re-entransition". A little awkward but combines both retransition and entransition! Flexible on whether to include a hyphen (reentransition).

[intervex]

Inter-transgender, trans-intergender, trans-intersexual, etc

Following up my post about the difference between demi-intergender and inter-demigender, here's one for transness thanks to an anonymous request 🩷

This post is long because there are several of terms to differentiate! This one is complex because of how "trans" has multiple meanings. I'll cover some ways that transness and intersexness can combine:

Inter-transgender (intertrans): when an intersex person is transgender in any sort of way, and this transness is connected or linked to being intersex.

This includes intersex people who feel trans because of a forced medical transition (mistransition/distransition).

This includes ipsotrans/exparium people: intersex people whose gender is the same as their AGAB but are trans.

This flag design follows the pattern of the interfluid, interdemigender, etc flags. It takes the transgender flag and adds intersex yellow stripes to top and bottom to signify it is an intersex/intergender version of transgender.

Hex codes: #FFFFFF #F5A9B8 #5BCEFA from trans flag, #FDD70A from intersex/intergender flags. ***

Inter-ultergender (interultergender): when an intersex person has a gender that is different from the one they were assigned at birth (ultergender) and this feels connected or linked to being intersex (intergender). This is ultergender in an intergender way.

Like above, I took the ultergender flag and added yellow stripes to give it an intergender flavour. Note: (inter-)ultergender people may or may not identify as trans. Ultergender does include trans people. Ultergender hex codes: #FFF378 #A263BD ***

Transgender-intersex (trans-intersex, ultertrans): an intersex person "whose gender identity does not match the one decided on by their doctors and/or parents at birth, and identifies as transgender and intersex at the same time." (@intersexfairy, 2021). Flag by Jesse Bananasaurus (2017).

This can be thought of as ultergender people who use the trans label, or ultertransgender.

Note that trans-intersex is not limited to people who feel their transness is related to being intersex. For example, somebody who is both trans and intersex, but feels that these two are completely unrelated from each other, would be trans-intersex and not intertrans.

Somebody who is trans, who transitioned, and then years later found out they are intersex, would also be trans-intersex.

Hex colours: same as inter-transgender. ***

Trans-intergender: when an intersex person changes/transitions from extergender to intergender. Extergender is when your gender is not influenced by being intersex; intergender is when it is.

For example: an intergender person who was assigned a binary gender at birth, who transitions from presumed extergender to becoming intergender/intersex-gender.

Another example would be an intersex transmasc who didn't know they were intersex until long after they did their gender transition, and then later got in touch with their intersex side.

Or, for another example, an intersex neutrois person who swore up and down during their gender transition that it was unrelated to being intersex (perhaps to access gender care) who later realizes or reveals they are intergender.

This flag design combines the intergender and extergender flags. The purple on the outside represents intergender. The white ring represents transition. The black in the centre represents extergender. ***

Trans-interine (transgender-inter, trans-intersexual): when an intersex person is trans, and their transition goal is their body's natural state - i.e. intersex/intergender/intersex-gender.

Per @intersexfairy (2021): trans-intersexual are intersex people "who feel as if they’re both biological sexes and do not fit into the categories of “male or female.” These people fit the categories of both intersex and transgender people."

Similar to how trans-feminine is a trans person who is feminine, trans-masculine is a trans person who is masculine, etc, I'm coining interine as a gender quality for intergender. This is an intersex-exclusive gender quality.

Trans-intersexual and trans-intersex tend to get (understandably) mixed up so I'm hoping interine is visually different enough to help out. Inter- in interine is for intergender, -ine is a common suffix for gender qualities (outherine, xenine, etc).

Trans-interine is a broader category than retrotransgender, a term I coined several months ago for intersex people like myself who transition to undo IGM/forced HRT/etc. Trans-interine would include intersex people who were free of coercive medical transition but are socially transitioning to be intergender.

This design follows the pattern of the four-stripe transmasc/transfem flags and the extended series posted by @ryanyflags in 2022. It replaces the two middle stripes that are used to indicate gender quality with the yellow and purple of the intersex & intergender flags.

Hex codes: #FDD70A #7A01AA from intersex/intergender flags, #FFFFFF #2b2d2c from trans* flags. ***

Intersex and trans (left), intergender and trans (right): flags for people who are both intersex and trans (left), or both intergender and trans (right).

Like trans-intersex, they do not imply a connection between the transness and the inter(sex|gender)-ness.

Unlike trans-intersex, these flags include ipsotrans people, and people who feel they are trans because of forced/coercive transition.

I've made these flags because I wanted ipsotrans & mistrans people to have options for flags. These flags follow the pattern of "stick icon in place of ring" to make X that is also intersex flags, like the flags for intersex & disabled, intersex & autistic, etc.

Table for reference

I hope this helps clarify how trans & intergender can be combined as terms (and flags)! Let me know if you want even more permutations of these concepts/flags 💜

Tagging @intersexflags @interarchive for archiving

[inhumanliquid]

Yk what? Actual pinned. Fine. Fuck it.

Tpwrtrmnky supporters kys. Why? (link)

My timezone. Btw. (link)

Definitely some kind of plural but we've got bigger issues right now

I'm always too tired to commit to anything.

I'm Blair or Belphie or a million other things. My pronouns are anything but she/her.*

If you "Ms." or "Mrs." me I will fucking maim you with my claws. If you "man" "woman" or "girl" me, I'll explode you, but "boy" is great.*

*Both "girl" and she/her pronouns are fine when funny or from friends.

I support all sorts of weirdos and freaks simply because the cishet, nt white guys want everyone that isn't "normal" to die.

I'll make get fucked banners (link) upon request, if I feel like it.

I'll also do pronoun banners, but you have to be a bit more specific about the design you want for those (pronouns, colors, wording, etc).

Expect random bouts of calling aspec people cool, because we are.

I'm a very bitchy alterhuman. Feel free to ask questions about that, such as these ones (link).

I'm a maladaptive daydreamer because for my entire early childhood, it was either that or death.

Aroace, aroacefucked, autiaroace, greyrose, demirose, acesymmetrical, aegosexual cupioromantic, bellusromantic, fictorose, panrose, omnirose, abrorose homoflexible gaybian. Omniaspec. Objectum, conceptum, autorose.

Transgender (transmasculine, transfeminine, transneutral, transandrogynous, transxenine), cisgender, demitransgender, demicisgender, integragender, absgender, adgender, centrgender, exparium, isogender, sensgender, simigender

Behold my ever-expanding list of "fake" identities. (link)

Yes, my icon is actually me.

I'm a tranny, a faggot, a cripple, and more. Don't like that? Fuck off.

I got assigned two platonic partners on January 31st 2024. To see that mess, check out #platonicule posting

I'm obsessed with ✨️creepypastas✨️, Obey Me, Honkai Star Rail, and Sanders Sides. Prepare yourself for fandom spam reblogs from time to time.

Infodump to me or I'm stealing your knees.

Hate anons are funny to me.

My stance on every online discourse ever (link)

Watch this video AND this video before talking to me about shipcourse.

Playlist I made based on a guy who stole my entire identity (/hj) (link)

Shit I like to stare at (link)

Post I made out of spite for the Obey Me devs (link)

Post I made with footnotes and linked references out of sheer autism (link)

Spotify Bullying Me for my music taste (link)

Current pfp (link)

That One Anon who demands song lyrics

[isobug]

Expargirl

An Exparium girl, one who is a girl in an Exparium way, or any similar experience. Intersex-exclusive just like Exparium is.

Made using the Exparium flag format but using some colors from this Girl+ flag ( because it's got my favorite color palette out of all Girl gender flags. ) Intentionally matching with my Exparboy flag !!

Free for anyone to use anywhere as always !!

Taglist - @radiomogai, @daybreakthing, @interarchive

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Cisn't Man Pride Flag

Cisn't (noncis): an umbrella term for anyone who is not cis*. It includes trans people, as well as other gender modalities, such as isogender, ipsogender, ultergender, exparium, utrinque, sensgender, adgender, and demitrans (sometimes demicis for some).

Usually, this includes binary trans men, and some non-binary men. However, there are other binaryn't men, such as intramasculine, extramasculine, transtidal, isotidal, transrainian, anonbinary, those with culturally specific genders that are not essentially nonbinary or binary, cis or trans, etc.

In the case of men who were AMAB (assigned male at birth), they can consider themselves as not cis due to being multigender or demigender, for example. They may or may not have xenogenders, neurogenders, or orientationgenders.

[demiintergender]

saw a post abt the term disparium and also exparium and. man. those kinda fit but do they also include like. noncis and nontrans? ik technically i can just have them mean whatever i want them to bc labels are for yourself etc etc BUT. idk. i also kinda want them mixed together but idk how that works. disexparium sounds fun like. in a stimmy way lol. but idkkk

once again i am struggling w my gender irt being intersex smh

[revenant-coining]

exparboy and intramasculine exparboy flags?

exparboy: miaspec/maingender exparium term

since we aren't intersex we don't feel comfortable coining exparboy!

[isobug]

Intramasculine Exparboy / Intramasc Exparboy

( ID: a rectangular flag with 7 stripes of varying sizes, the top and bottom stripes are thick while the 2nd, 3rd, 5th and 6th stripes are thin, with the middle stripe being incredibly thick. The colours from top to bottom are: light yellow, teal, light sky blue, purple, light sky blue, teal, light yellow. End ID. )

An Exparboy who is also Intramasculine / Intramasc, one who is an Exparboy in an Intramasculine / Intramasc way, or any other possible combination of these two terms. Intersex-exclusive.

Made using the Intramasculine / Intramasc flag by Instagram user mogai.terms and my Exparboy flag from here.

Taglist - @radiomogai, @daybreakthing, @interarchive

[isobug]

Intramasculine Expargirl / Intramasc Expargirl

An Expargirl who is also Intramasculine / Intramasc, one who is an Expargirl in an Intramasculine / Intramasc way, or any other possible combination of these two terms. Intersex-exclusive.

Made using the Intramasculine / Intramasc flag by Instagram user mogai.terms and my Expargirl flag from here.

Taglist - @radiomogai, @daybreakthing, @interarchive

[isobug]

Intrafeminine Expargirlboy / Exparboygirl

( Intrafem Expargirlboy / Exparboygirl )

An Expargirlboy / Exparboygirl who is also Intrafeminine / Intrafem, one who is an Expargirlboy / Exparboygirl in an Intrafeminine / Intrafem way, or any other possible combination of these two terms. Intersex-exclusive.

Combining my Intrafem Exparboy and Intrafem Expargirl flags together. Use either flag layout you want, the only real difference is aesthetic preference.

Taglist - @radiomogai, @daybreakthing, @interarchive

[isobug]

Intramasculine Expargirlboy / Exparboygirl

( Intramasc Expargirlboy / Exparboygirl )

An Expargirlboy / Exparboygirl who is also Intramasculine / Intramasc, one who is an Expargirlboy / Exparboygirl in an Intramasculine / Intramasc way, or any other possible combination of these two terms. Intersex-exclusive.

Combining my Intramasc Exparboy and Intramasc Expargirl flags together. Use either flag layout you want, the only real difference is aesthetic preference.

Taglist - @radiomogai, @daybreakthing, @interarchive

[isobug]

Expargirlboy / Exparboygirl

An Exparium Girlboy / Boygirl ( or equivalent term ), one who is a Girlboy / Boygirl ( or equivalent term ) in an Exparium way, one who is both an Expargirl and Exparboy, or any other experience which might be described by these terms. Intersex-exclusive.

Made by combining my Exparboy and Expargirl flags together. Use either flag layout you want, the only real difference is aesthetic preference.

Taglist - @radiomogai, @daybreakthing, @interarchive