#except if it’s men lol

[ellitx]

heyy same anon who asked the teachers day ask but another scenario popped into my brain lolz gotta ask ya

how would Venti feel having a tsundere s/o ? would he find her cute when she'd cross her arms and go "hmph"

Im assuming this will be outside of the teacher au?

If it is, venti might get drained and a bit hurt from your harsh words (even tho he knows you really didn’t mean them). He’ll be tolerant at first with your arrogant attitude but eventually he’ll drift apart to give you space if he deemed that his presence annoys you.

Of course you begin to worry why venti was avoiding you. Although you’re trying to approach him, he’ll hide.

Multiple flash of thoughts begin flood over his head.

Why are you looking for him?

Are you angry with him?

Or… did you miss him?

As much as he wants to hope for that, he shouldn’t put too much hope in it. After all, you did say you didn’t care for him at all when he teased you for watching over him when he was drunk.

This was tiring. Maybe it was a bad idea to be with you. He’d surely miss your pouty lips and red cheeks by his constant teasing.

Venti heaved another sigh and took off his beret. As he was about to shut his eyes, a strong pull woke him up from his daydreams and he was met with familiar eyes.

There you were, kneeling before him, panting heavily. Your brows are knitted together and he can see your worry and concern.

“[Name]…?”

“Why…” you slouched, still trying to take as many as oxygen as you can for your empty lungs. “Why are you avoiding me?” You breathed out.

“Huh?”

Venti gasped when your nails dug onto the fabric of his cape. “Why are you avoiding me?” You repeated again, but this time slowly and gentle. It was far more different from the usual tone he hears from you. It was surprising but calming. His heart fluttered both from your question and soothing voice.

“I wasn’t really avoiding you,” he uttered. Eyes shifting from elsewhere but you. And though he wasn’t directly looking at you, your glare was harsh and icy that cold sweat was gathering over his palm.

“I thought you didn’t want to see me anymore.” He clarified. Your eyes widened with disbelief. In that vulnerable moment, all the confusion and misunderstanding started to unravel.

"What? Venti, no," you whispered, your grip on his cape loosening. The hurt in his eyes broke your heart, realizing the impact of this misunderstanding. "Why wouldn’t I want to see you?"

His gaze met yours, the vulnerability in his eyes mirroring your own. “Because you’ve been so cold and hot tempered when I’m around and I just thought you didn’t like it when I’m with you.”

At his confession, your mind formulated and pieced everything together. He was avoiding you because of your harsh words.

“I-I’m sorry…” you aplogized. Your hands dropping back to your lap and clutching your pants because of how stupid you are to notice this so late. Your words are nothing for others, because they already know your personality and tend to be so cold when you actually care for them.

But for venti, it’s different for him. You’ve been so careless, acting carefree when he’s been hurting for so long because of you. Because of your cold attitude.

A wave of remorse washed over you as you realized the impact of your actions on the bard. The playful banter that you thought was harmless had wounded him deeply. You never intended for your words to cause pain, especially not to venti, who had been nothing but kind and caring toward you.

"I never meant to hurt you," you murmured, your voice laced with genuine regret. "I'm sorry if my actions made you feel that way. I've just been struggling with my own emotions and didn't want to burden you."

Venti sighed softly, his expression softening as he understood your perspective better. "Communication is a two-way street," he said gently. "We both need to be honest about how we feel and what we need from each other."

You nodded, appreciating his understanding. "You're right. I should have been more open about what was bothering me."

He offered a reassuring smile. "It's okay. We're working through this, and that's what matters."

You both sat in the quiet, the weight of the previous misunderstandings lifting. It was a step toward healing and strengthening your friendship. As the conversation continued, you realized that you should’ve been more honest and open. It may be difficult to drop off that cold attitude, but for him you were willing to make amends and be more considerate of venti’s feelings.

[vaguely-concerned]

are. are you telling me that if the romanced mage warden dies and alistair is king, he deadass stares greagoir down over her dead body and grants the circle of ferelden its autonomy after ordering it rebuilt somewhere safer. first you have to deliberately leave him behind so he won't die for you and then he does that for you once you're gone, even when you're broken up??? absolute and literal king behaviour of the highest order????? the actions speak louder than words of it all??????? I think I hauve covid

[kikker-oma]

Wind has some role models🤭

[nappingpaperclip]

y’all we r not beating exorsexism and misogyny by calling every transmasc that pisses u off a ‘theyfab.’ Idc if they are annoying or have dumbass opinions, literally using someone’s agab as an insult is wrong and treating transmascs as annoying little afabs is deeply misogynistic and transphobic. What happened to just calling people fucking idiots

[kacievvbbbb]

theres something i want to say about the fact that it is Jayce's own hammer that causes his injury and then he has to strip it down to its most plain essential parts to make a cane....to literally get up and walk again. but i dont have the words......but if i did it'd probably be like something something hubris something something nothing good has come of it since he picked up that hammer something something parallel to Viktor and trying to fix unfixable things with that blunt hammer of his instead of just lending support when it was needed.'

I guess it'd be something like that.

[that-butch-archivist]

I'm not sure if this will take off but I'd love to be indulged. I just read through an old reddit thread where butches talked about what colognes they wore and liked, and got to thinking that it'd be fun to do the same.

[yalster54]

gonna post this every time something bad happens to kitty in exceptional xmen trust

[azuneekun]

no more de-aged, hairless and twinkified shane and harvey. Their appeal is being neurodivergent wrinkly dilfs and im RIGHT.

[torahtot]

you can always tell when someone doesn't have maga men in their life and god it makes me angry.. "if you're nice and compassionate you can be the one woman that makes them realize women aren't mean!" my mom bent over backwards for my dad for 25 fucking years he has plenty of other women kissing his ass and it never changed anything. do you really think that before being radicalized they never knew a single kind woman? they were never friends with a nice girl? alt-right men's problem with women isn't just that they've experienced too many mean women and they need to be shown that women can be nice, it's that they think women are inferior and don't deserve rights and don't understand anything so you can do what you want with them. and it takes a lot more than being nice to show someone that you aren't inferior. this isn't a case of being nice even when it's hard for the sake of deradicalization, it's about spending every fucking interaction with someone trying to get them to see you as a human being with value and a functioning intellect while they just laugh and show you that's never going to happen.

i cannot stress this enough: random women are not just going out and Being Mean to men. ur average guy interacts with plenty of women throughout his life- close women amongst their friends and family, casual interactions etc. most people don't start out being shunned by women, they start out being treated as NORMAL. & when they show their disrespect in normal society, it isn't tolerated, but when they go to alt-right spaces (which they're pushed towards online) they're told they're allowed to be as horrible as they want with no consequences because they're entitled to everything. it isn't "women aren't welcoming and the alt-right is so friendly so i'll become alt-right," it's "women don't let me disrespect them and the alt-right tells me fuck them, do whatever you want, you're entitled to it all" and why would you choose the group where you have to be a normal accountable person when there's a group that will reward you for being a shithead who gives no fucks?

the alt-right can afford to be more friendly and welcoming because they can allow bigotry. this can't work the same way for progressive spaces because we can be as kind & welcoming as possible but at the end of the day we have lines where we have to say "this behavior/speech isn't allowed in this space," and for certain people, that just can't win against a space where you can be as nasty as you want. these posts always end with a disclaimer saying "of course being kind doesnt mean you need to tolerate their bigotries" but what they don't realize and what drives me crazy is that women not tolerating bigotry IS the "women are mean" that radicalized them in the first place. they perceive you pushing back on any bigotry or bullshit as you being a meanie and treating them like they're ontologically evil. the 'kindness' they need to be deradicalized is you letting them walk all over you.

idk what the answer is to deradicalizing them and im sure relationships are part of it but you can be as kind as you want and all it will do is destroy you ime. i cant stand to see people (who have never even successfully deradicalized any man by being nice btw they always speak in hypotheticals and not from experience) double down on telling women to do things that will see no results and only hurt them, especially when any woman who has tried can tell you exactly how it went

[bardbreakfast]

they have such a fucked up relationship (jealous)

[reallyhardy]

FINALLY scrubbed through all of that dark phoenix movie from 2019 thinking i'd just watch the nightcrawler scenes. uhhhh my guy was in about 3 minutes total screentime-wise, his eyes looked like they were brown, (yes i know they were really more red than yellow in XM:A anyway) he had literally 4 lines, (half of which where 'im sorry') and they styled him HORRIBLY!!!

grey hoodie and a puffer gilet over a plain red tee and jeans??? utterly swagless. hair still bizarrely has the blue highlights but not even the flock of seagulls fringe because apparently it's 1992 although you would NOT know from ANY of the characters' costumes tbh

and for SHAME too because this is how kodi was styled for the movie premiere, which is WAY more interesting and dare i say wagner-esque. come ONNNN bruhhhhhh

sorry to kodi too but the way he carried himself in his brief scenes suuuucked, he did not carry himself like 'established x-man who's been here and slaying for 9 years' there was no development of his character since XM:A (of course not since his role is basically a glorified cameo) he just stood slouched in the background of scenes like the same awkward 'just arrived at the school' version of himself from the previous movie

and those fucking teeth they gave him meant he could do literally noooo facial expressions except for this: 😬 which is such a shame bc i know he can be a great actor

anyway movie boring as hell even as i skipped through it was like. blah blah no sense of there being any kind of bond between jean and her team members, most of the screentime is for jessica chastain... and LIKEEEE they literally killed mystique and the only person bent out of shape about it was nick hoult. where was the development for kurt-and-momstique why did we have literally NOTHINGGG!!!!!!! me and my old RP partners back in the day wrote absolute gold like we were HAVING the revelations the reveals the emotional fallout and the movies served us absolutely noooothing not even CRUMBS absolute waste of time smh

[subaqueous]

august... PLEASE.....

[phemiec]

Big divorce news! blue elf dilf and nasty sewer rat have very public custody battle for third time this week! neighbors scandalized!

Anyway here’s a wip for an x-men: evolution Kurt/todd fan comic I’m making set in my Hag and Mire OC fanbaby universe. Text (mostly) censored just for spoilers. Posting to gauge interest but I’ll be doing the whole comic either way.

I have……..11 pages of script so far 🫣

[nobodymitskigabriel]

Sometimes I do wonder if Sam eventually decided that Gabriel was justified for 3x11. Like yeah he psychologically tortured me for months but he made some good points...I probably deserved it.

[divinekangaroo]

there is a thing in how Steven Knight wrote the format for 'Who Wants to Be A Millionaire' and also this upwardly-rising social mobility thing with Tommy; yet inherent in both is an utter humiliation and mortification of the one who wants to be that millionaire (because of their fundamental IGNORANCE which will be found out at some point)

your aspirations become the visual and mental fodder of those who know their place (that place of the voyeur as above or below is irrelevant, but woe to the one who attempts to rise out of their place)

[chicago-geniza]

It does hort my feelings a little that all my worst fears about transition came true and even after almost 5 years on T with abnormally high levels at a low dose + top surgery + hysterectomy I still have a high squeaky voice and everyone she/hers and miss/ma'ams me without exception. I don't regret it because those interventions make it bearable to have a body but it does hort my feelings to work pretty hard and still get universally treated like a weird ugly woman because I am five feet tall and fat and my voice didn't drop. I wish the cultural idea that the body is an expression of the Seele would disappear and I wish customers would stop calling me "that lady" lol