#everyone EVERYONE USES PRONOUNS
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"Ideology of pronouns" boy shut up and never talk again
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pick your battles
#my art#my stuff#art#comic#original art#pride 2024#pride month#trans allegory..... or not even allegory. just trans .... ^_^#i technically cannot come out yet but i don't think the people who i need to not see this stalk my tumblr#i know they stalk everything else like my twitter and my instagram but this might be safe#so fuck it we yap. this is a comic about picking your battles#this is a comic about how for almost a year now everyone at home in singapore has been crying about my sore throat#my terrible fucked up voice. my you know. etc#i came out as not cis and using they/them pronouns in 2015 when i was 14#but no one ever used my pronouns. none of my classmates or friends even up until i left for college in 2020#from 2020 onwards every year i wrote an angry vulnreable essay about how much it hurts that they dont remember#and people would dm me apologizing on their hands and knees and commending my bravery#and then forget about it all over again. id ont mean 'they misgender me and then catch it and apologize and correct themselves'#i mean they dont even get that far#and so you might ask yourself: why have you kept them around all this time?#and i would have to explain that by pure bad luck i grew up in the most conservative close minded community#that all of my ex classmates that stayed in singapore are cishet and upper middle class and chinese singaporean#that i Am the trans person. that they were able to ignore me for a decade partially because there was no one else#so this is a comic about how there is dignity and grace in staying in the closet sometimes#about how not everyone deserves to see you at your happiest. about how some people can go fuck themselves#you know your truth and THATS THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS!!! YEAH!!! i love you
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This is my petition for people who create pins/stickers/other things with "she/they" & "he/they" to also include "she/he". I'm kind of sick of being excluded, and I'm sure there are plenty of others who feel the same.
#trans#transgender#genderfluid#bigender#nonbinary#non binary#multigender#polygender#pangender#she/he#he/she#pronouns#talking lollie#anyways. people should maybe share this around#kinda sick of going to cons & seeing my pronoun set excluded#and also everyone assuming all nb people use they/them in some form#particularly when other people try to correct either someone else or themself to they/them for me#like mate... ive literally never used they/them#she/her and he/him aint dirty. please dont act like it.
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More pyro art pls!!!!!
do you believe in magic ^_^
#team fortress 2#tf2#tf2 pyro#i dont feel like tagging everyone else. LOOK AT HER !!!!!#for the record i hc (RED) pyro as nb transmasc and uses any pronouns. i also hc them as filipino but that’s unimportant LMAO#era.png#era.txt#anon#i rlly need practice drawing him bc pyro’s one of my favorites genuinely. love this freak…#ID IN ALT FOREVER BTW#id in alt text
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BE NORMAL ABOUT THOSE WITH IT/ITS PRONOUNS THIS PRIDE MONTH AND FOREVER AFTER OR I'M STEALING SOMETHING OUT YOUR FUCKING HOUSE AND USING IT TO BEAT YOU SENSELESS
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#byrd chirps#I SWEAR TO GODS.#the ONLY reason i still use he/him pronouns is because y'all (general) can't be fucking normal about neopronouns!#I wish everyone who disrespects it/its users a very shut the fuck up
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Canon genders the clones, both individually and collectively, pretty aggressively. They're men, brothers, boys, sirs. Omega is notable for being the "female" clone, to the point where she's not recognized as a clone in a meaningful way.
But the clones grew up without gendered social groups! Despite how clones are gendered by external factors, gender is functionally a nonentity in their lives until they meet civilians, and civilians do a load of other weird shit anyway.
So why do they still use gendered language?
My argument is that feminine language isn't used as a gendered form of address, but as a form of address that reflects a specific kind of power dynamic and relationship between parties.
Given the structure of the clone army, the only people a vast majority of young clones interact with who could insist on being called ma'am are exclusively kaminoans.
The kaminoans view clones not as autonomous subjects, but as property. They have and expect complete control over their lives and actions. Incidentally, the female kaminoans we see (such as Nala Se) tend to demonstrate an even more proprietary perspectives on the clones.
You can question a sir, like your superiors or trainers, at your discretion, but you can't question a ma'am. A sir is someone who has power over you, but is somewhat responsible for you. The have personal accountability to you in some way. Sirs are responsible for men under them. A ma'am is someone whose power over you is absolute, an authority without accountability, who is not beholden to you but that you must obey. You are tool or a number to a ma'am.
And when you bring clones out into the wider galaxy, I'm not sure anyone would figure it out that quickly.
Say you're a new jedi general. You meet your men, and they address you as "ma'am". Maybe you correct and move on, figuring that they've grown up surrounded by thousands of identical men and aren't great at guessing genders based on social and appearance cues. Scuttlebutt has your forms of address spread through the men by the end of the day, and you don't think about it again.
The clones, on the other hand, take this correction as he/him jedi stating that they want to work with them and suppourt them despite having so much power over them, which fits with both what they know of the jedi and, most often, their leadership style.
She/her jedi (see Shaak Ti especially!), clones maybe treat a little more as absolute authorities. This gendered divide in behavior gets met with, "hm, maybe they're just not used to women." For many jedi, they eventually switch to calling them sir as well, especially as they build rapport.
For Shaak Ti specifically, she is an absolute authority as the representative of the Jedi on Kamino, not just as a figurehead but as a decision maker and educator. Even as the clones grow to trust and love her, she's a relatively distant and all-powered figure. She has near total authority over them, and clones might ask for help or suppourt, but there's no social obligation for those requests to be met, she's just kind. It's compassion, not duty.
Senators, there's a good mix of different factors that make it confusing. "Senator" is always an acceptable form of address if you're not sure how'd they react, even if they should be ma'ams by default, but they're either trying to build rapport for some reason or genuinely want to work with you when they say to call them sir, regardless of the actual power dynamic at play. The she/her senators that respect the clones are in the same boat as Shaak Ti: Padme Amidala may care about clone rights, but I am still just one of hundreds to her and she has no personal accountability to me. Her position is such that she should not and cannot owe me anything. Same with Riyo Chuchi, Mon Mothma, etc. etc.
And a civilian that insists on being called ma'am or sir is going to be an asshole either way, and they technically have power over clones without personal accountability or responsibility for them. It works.
Finally, Palpatine.
He's a slimy rat fuck who pretends to be affable and kind, so of course he's going to laugh and say, "Oh, no, call me Sir!" when you call him ma'am. He is not personally accountable to you, and he does not care about you, but it helps his image and it helps him manipulate people to pretend, so of course he's making you use sir to build false intimacy despite the fact that he's the ma'am of ma'ams, both in power gaps and lack of accountability for his treatment of clones.
So having clones using sir vs ma'am not as a reflection of gender but as a reflection of power? Yeah, I think it works.
#sw tcw#star wars meta#clone culture#trans clone troopers#admittedly this is pretty out there BUT its fun to me#also love the idea of transfem clone being addressed as ma'am and immediately bluescreening#bc like Hi I Still Respect My Brothers As People?#or like trans clones continuing to use he/him bc to clones its not gendered thats the Default Singular Pronoun For Everyone*#gender#miscommunication#Clone gender culture#original speculation
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"This fandom is so queer friendly!" This fandom literally hates, bisexual, trans, nonbinary, and aspec people but ok.
#text#fandom#fandom culture#“queer friendly” you mean gays an lesbians? because i sure as hell don't see the same friendlyness towards anyone else#bisexual character exists “noooo they were comphet” or “they're dating the opposite sex right now so it doesn't count!!!”#Trans character exists and their story still has to focus on them being gay or else it's not queer or interesting enough#not to mention the sexualization they will face solely based off their trans identity#and the debates on if they're “really” gay or not because of being trans#Nonbinary character or character with complex and nuanced gender exists#and it's all about what their ACTUAL gender is and “I'm just going to use [gendered pronouns] for X because i see X as a boy/girl”#Character uses a specific set of pronouns and everyone decides to toss those to the side in favor of other (gendered) pronouns#under the guise of “nonbinary people can use gendered pronouns too! they are still nonbinaryyyyyyy i prommy”#Aspec character exists and it's “nooo you can't prove their aspec” “I can still ship them because aros can still date”#“Aces can still have sex so I can sexualize this ace character”#“okay but i headcanon them as a different sexuality so it's fine!”#and if you headcanon ANY of these identities? “Nooo you can't PROVE that they are bi/trans/nonbinary/aspec!!!!!”#queer#lgbt+#lgbtq+#lgbtqia+#bisexual#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#aroace#aplatonic#aspec#acespec#arospec
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STAR TREK: PICARD 3.08 "Surrender"
#picard#data#spot#lore#picardedit#picard spoilers#trekedit#startrekedit#scifiedit#tvedit#**#by anna#everyone give it up for genderfluid spot who is currently using he/him pronouns again <3
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"they" is a pronoun that has the same rules as any other it's not a 'get out of misgendering jail free' card yes it's gender neutral no it doesn't mean you're allowed to use it to refer to someone you KNOW doesn't use that pronoun
#they is used if a) the person wants you to use that b) you Do Not know what the person wants you to use#if someone's like ''hey i go by she/her'' and you're like Ok. They :) congrats that's misgendering !#if you know someone goes by she and you call that person 'he' everyone would fucking agree that's misgendering#why should saying 'they' be any different ?#this goes fucking triple for neopronouns btw#it's not a ''i can't be bothered to learn your actual pronouns'' card either#someone goes by idk ze/zir and you use they/them that's Still misgendering it's literally not hard to understand#underlines the 'if you KNOW what pronouns the person wants you to use' part in red#because that seems to be the bit most people get confused about or at least pretend to in bad faith
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bunny butt: shiny edition ✨
[op is a femme dyke, he/ze/bun pronouns]
#ok to rb#everyone thank lilith for these pictures coming into existence 🥰🤭#also: i took these at 8am so the natural light really washed me out but honestly. i still love them#(also i say the light washed me out bc i have giant ass windows in this shitty small apartment so it's like Floodlights that early in the A#tbh we dont actually need lamps in here until the sun sets. its like the One part i love about this building. i love natural light so much)#(but also yeah the caveat means my phone camera really struggles adjusting to the light sometimes RIP)#(but im still hot as fuck even with that)#(also for piss kink friends: this is my pissfit. i havent actually gotten pissed on in it yet but its so cute anyway &i WILL!!!)#(i have used it to be a menace :3c also this is the outfit that jiggles video was in mutuals btwww)#bunnyflesh#femme dyke#fat femme#fat femme friday#femme4all#femme bait#butch bait#dyke bait#t4t nsft#t4t dyke#also i hate adding my sexuality and pronouns to these but I've been getting misgendered a bit lately a few different ways so. worth a try i
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this is how people talk about you online when you dont use they/them pronouns
#getting really soooooo sick of getting they/them'd and so many of my friends who dont use they pronouns also getting they/them'd#paradoxically its like people have been taught that using they/them is best bc its neutral so its better than assuming someones pronouns#and potentially misgendering them#but just forget that youre supposed to use they/them when you DONT know the persons pronouns and once you learn them you change to the#correct pronouns. it really shouldnt be that hard to take a second to check someones bio for their pronouns and use the correct ones#its like people dont take into account that they/them may be ''neutral'' but not everyone identifies with them or likes being called them#or that it might still feel like misgendering even if its not he or she#sigh...
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the next person who misgenders mhin. i'll eat all your socks and take the labels off all your cans.
#touchstarved game#mhin touchstarved#touchstarved mhin#mhin#red spring studios#touchstarved fanart#fanart#digital art#my art#hi everyone! i'm alive#i'll get to the ts requests soon! but take this mhin#i wish people would stop misgendering them#redspring has mentioned their pronouns a lot#it's been over a year#why are people refusing to use their correct pronouns
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my ex gf (who's into detransing me) used to always tell the funny story of how she had gotten a tattoo that said DYKE shortly before she ended up dating me, a trans guy.. well anyways fast forward 2 years and now she's telling everyone this story again but with a sequel, which is that the tattoo was actually right all along cause im a girl again 🥰
#ftm girl#detrans kink#ftm detrans kink#ftmtf kink#detransitionkink#she told me she loves telling this story and especially hearing everyone use feminine pronouns for me#its SO EMBARASSING that shes telling all of her friends ive detransitioned but also its so exciting idk#op
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You must be Raven... One of the infamous Handler Walter's hounds. Interesting. You ready to climb the Wall?
#armored core vi#armored core#v.iv rusty#gamingedit#dailygaming#edit:all#edit:gif#ac6edit#acoreedit#barely met him for 5 minutes and i already 100% understand why everyone is crazy about rusty#guy literally told me he participated in a plan to basically kill me but why is he also just so genuinely nice and caring i– 😳👉👈#also the fact he uses watashi/kimi for 1st/2nd pronouns in the jp dub is Killing me... what is this energy i'm??!! jadskjk
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im sorry but if you refer to lightbrush as yaoi or mlm, im immediately blocking you
#i don't need to explain myself for those who know but for everyone else:#if you refer to them as that; you're not only misgendering paintbrush but also lightbulb#paintbrush is canonically non-binary who uses they/them pronouns and gets visibily upset when someone uses gendered pronouns with them#lightbulb is a canon trans woman. if you refer to her as a man you are actually misgendering her#'but i headcanon them as--' nope. they're canon NB and trans. if you view them as something else you are removing their identity#inanimate insanity#ii lightbulb#ii paintbrush#ii lightbrush#lightbrush
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#qsmp#leonarda#richarlyson#pepito#dapper#qsmp fanart#fanart#heights of the girls in the background for comparison ndnsjja#tallulah is the tallest(she got the height from her dad) and pepito is the shortest#put pepitos prns tentatively as he/him cuz im not entirely sure but hes been referring to himself w he/him in spanish#i think the no pronouns thing was just a joke grgehwhabia and it doesnt translate at all to portugese spanish or french#and cuz everyone else uses he/him for him. idk maybe im wrong tho🤷 if anyone (preferably non gringo) wants to correct me please do 🙏
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