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my love language is curiosity, and i'm not even fluent in it lol
#self-discovery#looking back on your life and laughing at how obvious the answer is#and how obvious it is now#i'm yelling into a void that is not listening lol#i'm a kid posting a list of questions hoping someone will ask me one#and no one ever does#but i kept posting them#hoping#fuck you#i don't need anyone to know me#“I” know me#and if someone actually asked me the questions i wouldn't know how to answer anyway#because no one ever has#i have no practice at it#i'm watching movies with my parents and they pick up their phones#i'm watching a friend play a game to see what choices they make#i'm asking people about info on their profiles and expanding on them#and no one#no one hardly /ever/ asks me back what i think#even as a courtesy question#as an echo back#and i'm really seeing it now#how many people don't even listen to my answers when i give them anyway#i'm gonna go cry now
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desperately need people to understand that alicent is a victim but she’s also an abuser and a perpetrator
that she actively makes choices to harm other women because of jealousy and envy and the greed deep in her bones because submitting to suffering didn’t get her what those women fight to grasp for themselves.
she is absolutely a victim, in show.
that doesn’t change that she abused rhaenyra and her children, her own son, most likely helaena given how she flinches every time her mother touches her, and is actively weaponizing the patriarchy of westeros against other women- rhaenyra primarily, but also mysaria and dyana.
she isn’t the moral, righteous force of good that even she thinks she is, she’s a wounded woman directing all of the rot, pain, and fury inside her at the wrong people and forces.
#anti team green stans#anti team green#anti alicent hightower stans#i don’t wanna say it’s anti alicent bc honestly it’s more ‘accept her for who she is bc she’s so much more complex and interesting when you#but i made this bc someone genuinely tried to say that the reason people hate her is that they don’t see her as a victim#most rational people know show!alicent is a victim#it’s the point that’s she’s an abuser as well#that makes them dislike her#that she’s a hypocrite and a traitor#i don’t even like young alicent bc i don’t at all think she was a good friend to rhaenyra#‘it’s not your place to question the plots of lords and men’ to the named heir#dismisses rhaenyra’s hopes and idealism entirely out of hand#is baffled that rhaenyra is more worried for her fathers happiness and mother’s wellbeing than her position#she knew as early as ep 3 that otto was conspiring against rhaenyra and never told anyone#condemns ‘targaryen customs’ only to wed her daughter to her son even younger than she was when otto dangled her before viserys#acts entitled to rhaenyras secrets whilst condemning and judgemental even though she did not give rhaenyra that same courtesy#made no attempt at apology for the insensitive comment of aegon’s birth#though rhaenyra DID try to apologize for the ‘imprisoned in a castle’ line and tried to comfort her#uses her power as queen to push past the space rhaenyra is trying to create because she feels heartbroken and betrayed#rhaenyra took part in alicent’s culture with prayer at alicent’s urging because she cared about alicent and alicent was trying to help her#alicent is never once shown to return that favor instead condemning it for ‘queerness’ and growing to later#erase and remove all targaryen and valyrian heraldry from the red keep to replace with her own#like alicent is a victim and i DO have empathy for her. but i don’t like her and never will#especially not after the way her stans behave#she deserved better than otto’s machinations and viserys’…. viserysness#but that can also be true whilst i condemn her actions and behaviors
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I know need to know what the fuck was the honda three rider team about. Bc that sounds made up as fuck
historical silly season: 2010 edition!
in early 2010, casey had very much had enough of ducati
rumours are that he'd already been looking to break his contract for the 2010 season after how ducati had handled the whole mystery illness 2009 saga... releasing inaccurate statements about his condition to the press without his consent, implying his diet was to blame - as well as offering jorge a shit ton of money to come ride for them. crucially more than they were paying casey
this was from mid 2009 and the vibes were already BAD back then... it's hard to know how seriously to take retirement rumours from the time given casey just wasn't. really... talking to the press, so a lot of the times the media was relying on other sources from inside his camp or just wildly speculating
anyway, casey did see out the 2010 season with ducati, but at the start of the year he essentially gave them an ultimatum - he wanted them to rip up his proposed contract and have them show him how much he was worth to them. they did not do so
according to casey, he already signed a contract at the second round of the season in jerez, which gives you a sense of how done he was with all things ducati - but it was only announced after the seventh round in july. the move was made smoother by casey's existing close relationship with livio suppo, who had himself recently made the switch from ducati to honda
very much the right time to make the move for sure. at the time, there was speculation that casey's poor results in the first half of the season was due to decreased motivation, which of course he strongly denied. really, it was the fault of the bike and team - and casey would show as much the following year at honda
one little problem. honda already had two factory contracted riders for 2011: dani and dovi. now, dani had been honda's wunderkind since forever, and after their last world champ nicky hayden - who was not on particularly warm terms with dani's camp, it has to be said - departed the team, dovi had been the chosen replacement. dovi was a long time honda loyalist, even when he was riding their underpowered bikes to championship runner up positions against jorge in 250cc, and he'd also had a highly impressive rookie season
2009 had not been a particularly great year for either factory honda rider, partly due to bike performance partly due to injuries partly due to... rider performance. it was a rough year for dovi in particular, despite his win in tricky conditions at donington (all four aliens deliver quite funny performances at that race in different ways. not exactly the finest of hours for any of them)
when casey's signing was announced, honda initially went 'okay three factory blokes but maybe we'll have two in the real team and then one in a fake team'
the problem, right, is that it costs a lot of money to field a three man team - this is why honda was so keen on the red bull option, because then they could pay for the seat
honda confirmed its intention to have four factory honda riders in 2011, those three and sic, in mid-september. but they still needed to figure out where to put them. they didn't manage to get the funds to put casey in a separate team, and then they tried to put dovi on the satellite squad:
now, dovi was on a 2+1 contract, with 2009-10 guaranteed and an option to extend for another year. the contract included a performance clause - and dovi was having a more successful 2010 season, so hrc was having some trouble forcing dovi to accept the move:
so yeah, obviously not exactly great behaviour to sign a third rider when your team is already essentially full... and then immediately spend the next few months trying to get rid of one of your existing riders who is still entitled to that seat
some more details:
for a while, dovi looked like he might be leaning towards accepting it, and was certainly keen to stress that he wasn't rejecting gresini due to his interpersonal issues with some of the team's personnel. this from september:
eventually, repsol agreed to fund the whole thing so that honda could honour their commitments to all three riders:
so, one team for all of them, if still a wee bit of healthy internal separation
and by november the whole thing was sorted
honda did have some internal precedent for this! in 1997, they fielded three factory riders: doohan, criville and okada
also back in the day they did just create shell teams organised around one rider, which is of course where valentino spent his first two years in the premier class
and here's the updated version from 2011!
anyway, it was only something honda was willing to do for one year, and in the end dovi decided to jump ship to yamaha rather than accept internal demotion. the fight for p3 in the championship went right down to the final race in valencia - and it must have been incredibly satisfying for dovi to snatch it from dani there
after this... look, basically they changed the rules to make it two entries at most per team, then they changed it back for like? two years? so that four riders were technically allowed. and then they changed their mind again. now it's just two - obviously teams are allowed wildcards, but they couldn't do this three man team thing anymore nowadays
teams generally wouldn't even want to do this because it's a lot of hassle and, most importantly, money. so yeah, unlikely to make a comeback. very much a quirky curio that won't be replicated... could be funny though. if they want to change the rules again
#i mean it did kinda briefly reenter the discourse last year courtesy of ktm being ktm#if i keep working my way back through historical silly season editions at this rate i'll be talking about 1988 lawson to honda pretty soon#motogp#//#brr brr#batsplat responds#heretic tag#alien tag#morale tag#my problem with this team - not to sound like too much of an arsehole here - is that they all got on basically fine#like I hate so say it but there's really not much else interesting to say about this situation. it happened! that's it#casey doesn't even mention dovi was his teammate in the autobiography. barely registered apparently#very much the stale years of the alien era unfortunately. not much going on in either the racing or intrigue department#I just don't think they really work as a combination... they all have potential in the teammate squabbling department we know this#but you kind of need someone in there to like. just kick things off. the jorges the valentinos the marcs of this world#incidentally unequivocally the worst three guys you could do this with#here's my suggestion: honda signs jorge rather than casey for 2011. casey to yamaha dealer's choice whether valentino still goes to ducati#jorge was on a one year contract for 2010 he wasn't THAT committed. I think if that volcano doesn't erupt it could've happened#(also teammate chemistry is a bit of a timing question. 2007!casey/dani would've been more prickly than their 2011-12 versions)
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tengu doodles (the inspo for the first picture should be above)
Nana: Torino...
Sorahiko: Yeah?
Nana: Did you remember to teach Kotarou how to change back?
#bnha#shimura kotarou#gran torino#shimura nana#torino sorahiko#shih's art#my neighbor torino au#actually all three (nana toshinori and kotarou) get to have tengu forms courtesy of being connected#to the daitengu (think king tengu; progenitor tengu even) yoichi#the difference between them and torino though is that they are still locked into a mortal lifespan#so i guess really the question of my neighbor torino au is#immortality (for fear of death; afo) vs immortality (for stewardship reasons; torino) vs mortality (which is incidentally also#the buddhist reincarnation cycle)
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Why did I log out, when I meant to post here?
#{out of love | ooc}#Hi my name is Saku and I am fucking dumb#I am also horribly obsessed with Final Fantasy 16 and am seriously considering roleplaying Clive Rosfield#I have icons courtesy of a close friend and everything#But would anyone even be interested in him is the question?
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Cannot believe my girl Asa heard Denji say “don’t open the fridge or any of the neighboring apartments” and didn’t IMMEDIATELY go “Wait but what are you hiding in there”
Denji and Asa share one brain cell and Yoshida has it
#Chainsaw man#csm#csm spoilers#chainsaw man spoilers#asa mitaka#baby girl you are so dumb#you’re absolutely right that it’s common courtesy to not open someone’s fridge#SO WHY WOULD IT BE A RULE#SHE DOESNT EVEN QUESTION IT#I love her so much
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ok so like. is it too much too ask for a heads up when entire areas of the living space you pay rent for is rearranged by your roommates or am i just a freak weirdo with control issues.
#j.txt#genuine question. especialy when i have Brought This Up Before that it massively stresses me out#to have my things moved without my consent or foreknowledge#woke up to half the kitchen cabinets in completely new arrangements and never even a courtesy just letting u know we moved things#and when I said hey can yall maybe tell me when you move stuff i get an oh well we didnt know we were gonna rearrange until we did. ok?#is it wildly outside the range of possibility to send even a 'hey kitchen got rearranged' text ???? considering its My Place of Living Also#like. Im just so frustrated and resentful that the scant times i manage to bring up a boundary or request#all i get is a well its not a big deal. It Fucking Is. To ME .
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So, here's my plan:
I am going write down everything I'm doing around the house for the next few months, making sure that I do everyhing PERFECTLY, following EVERY SINGLE RULE my roomate made up, and even signing all the dates where I am not in the house (like when I am in my hometown, or even when it's a full day in university if I go out early morning and come back late evening) just to make sure that the times I got nothing done I got a valid reason (I fucking wasn't there).
I am going to do all of this, writing everything down as backup because my memory is shit, and the next time my roomate acts like a bitch and complains about whatever the drama of the day is I am going ballistic. I will have my backup and I will be ready to defend myself with concrete proof because I AM DONE.
And if she's still acting all cold and resentful, all because last time I dared to defend myself and talk back, then she's the problem. And I will tell her to her fucking face: if you're not able to see a genuine attempt at making things right and the good will to want make up for past mistakes (even if she fucking exagerated them, but I will cut this part out for the sake of peace), and everything is always bad and wrong, then you are the problem.
It's not my fault if you're never happy, and it's not my job to make you feel better.
#she's fucking insane#an evil part of me really wants to rattle her out to our landlord for some of her... legally questionable habits#and yell at her things that I know will hurt#I am not doing any of this though#not that she fucking apreciate or notice it#even less she shared the courtesy#she talks big about and empath and caring about others#but it's easy when the others aren't the people close that you see on a daily basis#i didn't see her try to understand me when things are bad#meanwhile i let slide many things i find annoying just because i know they are good for her#because i know she's not in a good place#figures that someone else fucking acts like this towards me#no one ever shares my courtesy or notice me trying hard#i am always the evil one#sooner or later i will actully be mad lose control and act bad#then you'll see#there's a reason i fight so hard to always keep myself under control#elo stuff#rant
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suddenly realizing that one of ur friends is quite self centered is WILD. i know some people talk about themselves as a way to relate to something you said but to do it every single time someone tells you something....
#once i started noticing this i couldnt stop its crazy#like not even once to ask a follow up question or anything just completely shift to talking abt urself#eg if someone tells me smth ill usually ask follow up questions#idk its just common courtesy#not to constantly be like ME ME ME ME#literally a family member of mine died and she didn't find out until a month later#cuz she never asks abt how im doing and stuff#AND WE TEXT DAILY!!!!!#then when i do want to discuss smth that happened to me she just completely shuts me down or changes the subject#idk i get that she doesn't have many (single) friends so ig im the friend she can vent to#but man.....im tired of being so accomodating and just listening constantly#a convo is a 2 way street#mine
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Just remembered the time in high school 2 completely random girls (I think they were fishies, but they might’ve been sardines) walked up to me in the hallway and just. Deadass, straight to my face, asked me if I was racist
Like Miss Bitch (‘cause only one of them actually spoke to me, iirc)
one: would a racist actually admit to being racist? I don’t think so
two: why the fuck are you talking to me (I did not, and still do not, like random people coming up to me. Especially when I’m trying to get somewhere and forget I exist) and why are you asking me that?
Anyway, apparently because I stayed out of everyone’s business and was super fucking quiet all the goddamn time, people started coming up with rumors about me
Issue was, I was pretty fucking open about shit happening in my life at the time
Apparently claiming that I was racist was easier than just calling me a tranny or fag or whatever (probably because i had, multiple times, openly called myself those words and made it clear that it didn’t bother me)
#fish = freshman#sardines = sophomores#idk how or why those nicknames came to be but I’m realizing that these might not be universal terms for those specific groups in high school#and for anyone curious#jellies = juniors#sharks = seniors#my reaction to this random question you might be asking#stare at the girls and silently question if I am in fact a racist#I came to the conclusion that yknow im white. I’m at the very least benefiting from a racist system#I did not say this tho#I can’t even remember what I said#I don’t even know why I just remembered this#fucking memory unlocked ig??#have some free high school memories courtesy of mars
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I don't know why but this has been bouncing round my head for a few hours and I need answers. Does Rafael exist in the Children of the dust universe??? And if so, does he ever meet the step children his father loves more than him? Please and thank you!
Excellent question. Here is a little bit of history. While I was writing Children, and the first season of season 5 was released, I decided to be democratic and ask readers whether they'd prefer Rafael to exist in that universe or not. Not surprisingly, the unanimous vote was Andrés-core (they didn't want him), so I didn't mention or allude to him in the main verse.
But between us, I always was fond more of the idea that he exists in that universe, mainly just because it makes everything funnier.
There is an old snippet I have somewhere in a forgotten document where Rafael does meet the twins and it's killing him because Rafael's entire worldview is that his father doesn't love him not because of any personal reason but because he's just not a father material, so he sees the twins and all of that tumbles down and his misery is very funny to me.
The bottomline answer is he exists and he doesn't depending on what we want!
(Except that if I do write the sequel and the sequel's sequel I'll have to bring Rafael into existence because I wouldn't want to make any major changes to the heist trajectory itself. Tatiana is Gabriel's piano tutor in that verse btw.)
#he was SO dramatic in that snippet as far as I remember#he's ??? and Andrés is like: what's weird?? they are better than you in every way??? you're inferior. you don't even have Martín’s blood#also said kids with Martín's blood have all Martín’s viciousness and Andrés' desire to humilate people wherever they go#so they are 11 and they bully Rafael into crying#needless to say. he's not a big fan of his step siblings#Children of the Dust#Max -number one voter- I respect your choice to not see Rafael but you have to admit that his existence makes the entire family funnier#also you didn’t ask the question but here is the answer anyway: no. Martin does NOT return the courtesy and treat Andrés' child like his own#he's equally terrible wuwjwk
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NAUR coz I just heard that Sainz said he could've WON the race if he'd pitted during the SC? 💀💀
What a stupid thing to say really, after the race he had and a time penalty on top of it. Mans wasn't even going to get on the podium with the pace of that car.
and ESPECIALLY when Norris is finally having his moment??
#it's not even about “carlando” or norris it's just basic fucking courtesy??#so many question marks because I am BAFFLED#miami gp 2024
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im tired of being nice
#💭. mutters !#// both irl and on tumblr.com#// listen it's not even a big annoying question thing#// but ive had two people ask me how to do the gradient text#// and if they were my mutuals#// id very happily explain but also im just so done with being friendly to people i don't know lately#// like ok it's courtesy to answer the asks and shit but also there's info like everywhere on how to do gradient text#// also idk whenever i help people on this site they have the tendency to ask to be mutuals#// and im going to be honest; im not into making more mutuals on here#// i may seem social and shit but im really not and hate the idea of a very large friend group#// hypocritical of me a little bc my friend group is quite big#// but yeah idk man#// maybe it's just bc im really tired#// but ive given up on trying to be nice to people i couldn't care less about#// like; if you aren't a friend of my friends then kindly and in the most polite way possible: screw off
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Once again all-but-begging Taylor Tomlinson to marry me for having a Bit™ introducing a game with, essentially, "I guess there's no good explanation beyond 'the heart wants what it wants' for why so many people love [horrible fictional man]."
#not. elaborating on WHICH horrible fictional man.#mainly because I have not seen firsthand how horrible he is#but I KNOW. courtesy of other people giving me a rundown of the property in question#but. there are. as she said. MANY stans and they scare me.#(all stans of this particular Guy Archetype scare me)#girl...please.........you said you wanted a wife. it could be me. I would even learn stand-up for you. I would DO IMPROV for you do you#KNOW how much that means??? what kind of statement that is??!?!?!???#mc13 is a useless bisexual
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thinking about the expert masseuse Alfred hired for the family that is paid a small fortune annually to provide massage services and ignore so, so many things. No questions, no remarks, just quality service and an ironclad NDA that, if broken, would probably topple said masseuse’s entire family line.
Things Alfred is paying them to ignore, in no specific order:
Bruce’s spinal hardware courtesy of Bane :)
weird amounts of muscle on everyone, even the kids (despite them allegedly not working physical jobs)
scars
FRESH scars
the fact that every joint in Bruce’s body clicks when moved/manipulated at the tender age of 42
Olympic athlete level physiques
rotator cuff injuries across the whole family
scars that are definitely from bullets and/or acid splashes
old signs of what looks like torture (Bruce)
Dick’s entire left arm is basically screws and plates (he “fell really bad” once)
every single family member takes deep tissue massage with max pressure with 0 complaints
calluses
no really, the weirdest fucking calluses
#thoughts#I got a massage today and played my favorite game#where the masseuse touches my back for the first time#add to this?#recoils slightly#and asks me immediately what I do for work lmao#bruce wayne#batman#dc#batfamily#dick Grayson#robin#nightwing#red hood#Jason todd#Damian wayne#Fic ideas#actually this would be a hilarious outsider pov
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finally got to speak my piece about how much ending e sucks ass this is like therapy, actually
#gu6chan's musings#there's more to this as you can probably guess but my GOD if there's one thing in dod1 ill solidly criticise it's that really#it should have just ended at d like....#i said earlier in this message ending e is nice as a GIMMICK???? but like#not the definitive ending to the game yk?#it takes itself way too seriously to be funny as a joke but at the same time#isnt really unfulfilling with the 'why should violence be satisfying' message in the way that the other endings are prior with respect to#the player OR even the game itself. it's... just kinda there as a lukewarm melding point too frustrating to mean anything and#treated/built up to too seriously to be taken ironically#there's a way to call their violence into question while still having the basic courtesy to respect the dedication and effort to see the end#of the story CRAFTED for them. they WANT to see it; not out of inherent violence; but bc something in that game touched something in them!#if it was about the violence they'd just go onto something more 'fun' lmao#tbh ill just say im increasingly convinced y*ko taro has not only no respect for Drakengard; but more importantly can't FATHOM#the idea that other people do#so it just feels like whenever he has anything to do with it it's just focused on 'rewriting' and sabotaging the original story with no#regard to what made it so special to people to begin with (re: dr/akengard 3)#ending e really does feel like the earliest reflection of that; and just... idk man. it sucks i hate it lmao#praying he retires soon so the series can either be laid to rest before anymore damage is done or by some stroke of luck is picked up by#someone who cares ejfjdjenfnf
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