most chill part of day is always the ~20 minutes i spend completely naked after a shower to make sure everything dries 😗
love sitting in front of the fan holding my boobs. yes my arms get tired
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No butches but It Gets So Lonely Here is v good toxic yuri vn tbh
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due to lightning i haven’t been able to swim for 3 days in a row and my body is like wtf is going on dude? rurnning without swimming afterwards is like a steak & cheese sandwich without the cheese. i wanna swimmmm!!! (but not in a lighting storm)
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// made a hilarious discovery
rika vc larry is2fg
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I'm not qualified to give mental health advice but something that legitimately helped me get out of the rotting lethargy of my cocktail of mental issues was to take a bunch of inconsequential activities I knew i usually enjoyed and slapping them on a wheel of fourtune style wheel and spinning it a few times each day. Like bam write a poem bam paint something bam write a nice letter to a friend bam go for a walk. and I gave myself imaginary points for each task so i made it possible to WIN.
Obviously this isn't a one size fits all solution -- I still struggled to motivate myself to do the wheel-mandated things-- and I certainly found it more doable when I paired it with actual other mental health treatment, but it helped me feel less like I was wasting my time or my days.
For me, a lot of my anxiety and my urges to do nothing but feel bad all day stemmed from issues with wasting my time and being so overwhelmed by what I should be doing that it was impossible to start. using my Dumbass Wheel kinda gave me permission to say that any task is porductive if I enjoy it or it gets me moving, and that was a whole big deal for me!
I also noticed that, over time, it became a lot easier to get some agency in what I wanted to do with my day. Sometimes I would spin the wheel and get something I absolutely didn't want to do, and I would think about what activity I wish I had spun and do that instead! For me, it almost gave me permission to WANT to do inconsequential, fun shit without all the guilt!
I don't know if this would be helpful for everyone, and I know this post is probably pretty obvious and honestly a little dull, but I felt like I should share because it has been a game changer for me and my cocktail of mental health issues
so anyways GAMERS GAMIFY YOUR MENTAL HEALTH MAKE DOING THINGS INTO A GAME THAT YOU CAN WIN
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Also while I was waiting for all the pride charms I made to get their turn in the kiln last week, I was approached by a girl in my class who was basically like "hey I wanted to wait to say this until we were alone bc I'm not out, but I'm trans and it makes me really happy that you're making these so openly" and I think that's the happiest I've been in awhile. I almost fucking cried lol
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Something something, thinking about that thing I wrote a while back about how the Targaryens' assimilation to Andal societal norms and values diminished their power and separated them from their purpose. Something something, Dany's choice to remain in Meereen and assimilate to Meereenese societal norms and values is essentially a speed run of what happened to the Targaryens at the height of their power.
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