#enby misgendering

[dykewithbenefits]

I'm so so into making people worse. That identity that means so much to you? I wanna break it down till its bastardised. Make a trans guy a walking bimbo with a tit obsession who'd throw ~~his~~ her T away to suck a cock or lick a cunt

Get a lesbian so fucking brain dead that she throws herself at disgusting drunk men and records her rape for me

Maybe getting all of them to betray others with their identities just to get me more porn and fleshlights

Turn a trans boy into a femme slut who has to get bred on camera to afford all the implants she's getting.

Turn a trans girl into a pervert femboy who fantasizes about groping women and spends all his free time jerking off to misogynistic porn.

Turn an enby into a broken mess who you can dress like a doll and who'll let you use his/her holes for sexual relief whenever you feel like it.

Turn a dyke into a straight whore who's so addicted to cum she'll go outside naked just for a chance to get dicked down by boys.

Turn a faggot into a straight boytoy; a walking dildo for cis girls and ex-dykes to ride whenver they have an itch for cock.

Turn a straight person into a gay slut who turns into a giggling, drooling mess at even the slightest attention from their own gender.

Turn a bisexual person into a sex-repulsed ace and then whore them out anyways.

Turn an ace into a hyper-sexual bitch and then put them in chastity and edge them for days upon days until they're so horny and stupid they could never function as a member of society ever again.

Turn an aro into your loyal spouse who you can kiss and cuddle and ultimately dump for someone better.

In the name of queer solidarity, don't let anyone go safe~!

[midwestemokilledmygrandma]

they/them is not an all-inclusive pronoun that you can use to refer to anyone just because it is gender neutral.

the very basic sentiment of "don't misgender people" seems to go over even the heads of trans people and cis people alike when it comes to they/them pronouns.

not everyone wants to be called they/them. if someone strictly uses she/her or he/him or she/he or neopronouns etc. anything that is not they/them.... using they/them would still be misgendering. in the same way calling someone who doesn't use any other pronoun that pronoun would be misgendering.

You don't get a free pass to call people whatever pronouns you want to call them rather than the pronouns they use just because they them is a gender neutral pronoun.

also not all nonbinary people use strictly they/them pronouns or they/them pronouns at all.

i feel like this is very simple yet is misunderstood by a lot of people

[bazilisk]

The non-binary experience of not knowing whether or not somebody is deliberately or accidentally misgendering me during remote work meetings, and obsessively wondering whether or not my zoom settings showing my correct pronouns is visible to all users or not.

Because whether or not he's misgendering me is based on that graphic design decision that some zoom developer made.

[houseswife]

transgender detector going haywire rn…

[textk4kira]

I've seen a bunch of posts explaining how nonbinary folks shouldn't be perceived as woman-lite and how AMAB nonbinary ppl are never accepted as nonbinary while AFAB nonbinary folks are always being affirmed for their gender identity.

As a demifem/demigirl, I feel like my gender identity is in a way, "woman-lite" or at least fem-aligned. It feels like many well-meaning trans folks and allies unintentionally exclude demigenders from the conversation, and it feels uncomfortable.

Also, the narrative that AFAB enbies are automatically accepted or affirmed, blatantly ignores the transphobia that AFAB enbies face especially if they are not slim, white or androgynous. This post isn't to dismiss or diminish the very real struggles AMAB enbies face, we should all stand together in solidarity.

We're fighting the same fight. To liberate ourselves as trans ppl and to end transphobia.

[timeladix]

Y'all wanna know what's so fucking cool about figuring out you're aroace?

It's that, after, when like the adrenaline is over and it all *clicks* you finally FINALLY breathe. Nothing's changed, you're the same person as before, you just keep on living like you've always done and just continue being you.

So what actually changed? The expectations you put on yourself, the "i gotta try and learn how to behave like a person that could potentially feel those types of attractions and try to relate to people that do" when you don't and you can't. Yk how fucking exhausting it is, not only masking to fit in with the neurotypicals, but also masking to fit in with the allo people??

I👏Need👏A👏Fucking👏Break👏

And knowing i'm aroace kinda (even tho it shouldn't be a requirement) gives me permission to just be. Like NO MORE FUCKING EXPECTATIONS, I'M DONE PRETENDING AND ANALISING THE SHIT OUT OF EVERY INTERACTION I HAVE. Please i just want to liveeeeee

Ughhh

Yeah

Thanks for listening to this aroace autistic's ted talk.

[thermodynamic-comedian]

in light of recent realizations, shout out to my fellow non-binary people who go by she/her and he/him pronouns, but not they/them.

[goodgirl4daddy4evr]

Things I scream on Daddy's cock 😘💕

I'm a dyke! I'm a lesbian! I love cock! I'm a dyke and I love cock! I'm a cum addicted lesbian! I need to be bred! I was made to be bred! My body was made for men's pleasure! Use me Daddy! Pound my pussy and breed me straight!

[transenbyconfessions]

It's so weird when you see yourself as your gender and nobody else does

I look into the mirror and think 'yup! All correct here!' and everyone address me as my AGAB and I'm like... are you talking to someone else?? Do you need glasses????

Submitted May 28, 2023

[star-dust-shark-arts]

Art about being misgendered, and feeling purposely offended and not being able to speak up.

AM I NOT RESPECTABLE?

[andiv3r]

*sees a Good Omens fanfic that seems well-put-together and interesting* Oh! Yay! New thing to read!

*halfway into the chapter and Muriel is mentioned but using she/her* God fucking damn it.

[dykewithbenefits]

thoughts on misgendering without any detrans?

As long as it's consensual, go for it!

Tell a trans girl that she's a good boy and watch her girlcock throb!

Tell a trans boy that he's a good girl and watch his boypussy leak!

Make sure to inform a non-binary person that there's only two genders and watch them drool a river!

Heck, try misgendering a cis person, and they might discover a thing or two about themselves in the process!

Don't discriminate: misgender everyone!

[rivetgoth]

the amount of tme trans people who are very obviously deeply envious of trans women because they [very regressively] view them as like. "someone whose queerness™ [and specifically queer masculinity, effeminacy, 'faggotry'] is taken seriously ie. as a threat and an inescapable facet of their being" is so prevalent on here. many many tme trans folk on this site functionally pretend to be trans women up to (and sometimes including) just blatantly lying about their cagab, coopting language and aesthetics, identifying as characters that are very obvious transmisogynistic caricatures, etc. like its very obvious that a lot of the deeply transmisogynistic genderfuck dykefags on here with these hard red text on black background MCR horror gore aesthetic blogs truly just envy the fact that trans women face a specific kind of violence that (in the eyes of these people) validates their desire to be seen as Threatening and Tough and Legit and Masculine instead of like. an introverted brunette with short hair whose family misgenders them. they want to be able to wear eyeliner and look like gerard way and be he/him'd so they turn to trans women as this fetishistic "goal" because their perception of trans women is "someone who wears eyeliner but still gets he/him'd." this is of course aligned with the way so many of them make broad sweeping generalizations about how its impossible for GNC trans men to pass (untrue) and of course doubles back around to barefaced transmisogyny 100% of the time because the accepted normalized view of trans women in these spaces becomes "threatening scary failed man whose femininity is undermined by their scary threatening genderfuck masculinity." it is so incredibly prevalent and you will not be able to unsee it once you notice it.

[the-stars-were-his]

it's been a great day but WHY YOU GOTTA MISGENDER MEEEEE I KNOW I TOLD YOU MY PRONOUNSSSS

[sketchytea]

RESPECT THEIR PRONOUNS (OR ELSE!!!) 💛🤍💜🖤💥✨

[dumbdomb]

genuinely, how do i get more attention from women, and especially transfem people, on my sapphic posts? it seems as if nobody really engages with them as much as my bi piv or masc leaning posts. i don't understand. how can i improve and adjust my writing to be more enjoyable by sapphics, while still mostly being about my own interests (as i don't necessarily post for other people, this being a personal lifestyle domme ns/fw blog and all.) help?

while i'm specifically asking women and tfem people here, any advice or suggestions would be appreciated regardless of sex or gender. thanks!