#dump your emotions here

[anonamystic]

Wait... You don't want to rant to/about me? You just want to talk?

This is where you can have a normal convo with me, about whatever you want! Feeling like you need to talk in normal, and nobody will judge you in this safe space of a post!

[sergle]

There's something about like. A certain genre of posts / Online Opinions about insecurity/depression/misery/complaints that are so unhelpful that they wrap right around to being straight up hilarious. and it's the ones that are more or less written to the tone of "Feeling bad? That's gross!" Like, just so you know, don't voice your insecurities/ have low self esteem, because that's offputting! You're gross and weird. Don't be insecure about that, though. That would be stupid if you felt insecure about people disliking you for being insecure. Not attractive. You should be thinking about being as attractive as possible. You shouldn't make comments about suicide, even if you're suicidal! Keep those thoughts entirely to yourself. Make sure nobody around you knows you're thinking about this. It would Make Them Uncomfortable. It's better to keep these thoughts in your head where they can fester. Don't post OR talk to friends with complaints about you feeling miserable or depressed. Tbh people who are sad/upset a lot? Kinda a red flag! You are probably miserable because you're a bad person and you've brought this on yourself. If you don't have friends, it's because you're awful to be around. Easy! Solved the problem for you. And no, there is no nuance to this, got it? So, make sure to feel bad about feeling bad, but don't feel bad about it, because, well, that's just gross. And annoying! You might've wanted your brain rotted thoughts to be Peer Reviewed, you might have just needed to vent- you might've been hoping for some comfort, to get things off your chest. Well, don't! Don't talk about thoughts or feelings that are negative with your friends, you'd be burdening them and that's only meant for THERAPY. #SponsoredbyBetterHelp #MentalHealth like, DAMN. that's so helpful. you're so good at helping. I um really liked the part where these are all hard and fast rules that encourage keeping feelings bottled up and keeping your friends at arm's length. That's really funny of you.

[ani-coolgirl]

Jensen Ackles single-handedly saved this fandom from complete irreversible collapse by changing his line to Cas in Goodbye Stranger (8x17) from "I love you" to "We're family." What a good little soldier. I salute you. 🫡

[proudfreakmetarusonikku]

guys u do realise abuse can be accidental right. “cwilbur didn’t abuse ctommy he loved him he just lashed out and put his emotional burdens on him!” yeah that’s… abuse. cwilbur didn’t mean to do it but he did. abuse doesn’t need to be exile arc level to be abuse jfc

[cloudcountry]

i love how i come back to twst post about how much i hate idia for a few days and then leave again it's such a cycle

[inkisionary]

"I see.. Destruction and Despair . . .

. . . Gᴏᴏᴅ / Eᴠɪʟ the line blurs. . ."

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[ghostcrows]

the way people talk about and view mental illness has always been under this veil of sympathy and understanding but really when that energy is most needed it all just vanishes. we have 200 more specific terms for certain symptoms and 2000 more videos on how to stop procrastinating and how to deal with rejection sensitive dysphoria and 50000 new videos on how it's In Your Brain and it's Hereditary and it's Homemade by your Primary Caregivers but people still dont really ...get it. they just dont. the resources available are so hollow. its empty promises. suicide hotline that just gets you insta-detained. therapist you talk in circles with for a third of your income per session. housing program with a wait list that only gets longer. this insistence that you build up a support system with no support. this quietly depleting time frame you have (or feel you have, this very real pressure) in which to get your shit together before you're just another sad statistic. always having to wait until you're at the brink of complete self destruction to get help, and by then. how much damage is already done

it's all just casting shadows on the wall

[slippery-minghus]

honestly. it's so fucking frustrating and disheartening. that the only thing making me hesitant to cleanly cut contact with my mom, the thing that still looms after cutting away from my dad........ is that when they both finally bite it, that's two houses to sell. that's money that may mean *i* get to have my own house someday.

the key to the security my parents failed to give me from the moment i was born lies in their deaths. the least they can do. the very fucking *least* is to leave me the means to build that security on my own. they owe me so much more than that, but realistically? that small act of restitution is all i can and will ask for.

until then? i want nothing to do with them.

[hetchdrive]

I wish I could articulate my earnest and sincere feelings about the usage of "I'll Be Seeing You" in Deadpool and Wolverine but unfortunately I can't take myself seriously long enough to string my thoughts together.

[milfronin]

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[swordatsunset]

Something something whilst I’m sure it’s annoying to have a friend who can’t take a compliment despite being obviously hungry for compliments, I did unfortunately spend most of my childhood and teenage years being told in no uncertain terms, from Many People in my life, that I was ugly and unlovable and a deeply annoying person who would never be enough and so that makes accepting compliments slightly difficult. Which is a me problem! I can admit this!! But still. It’s tough

[seamonkeyz]

Realizing you cried for weeks over a guy you weren't actually that into at first, like the only reason you ended up going out was because he lived nearby and was more persistent than the other guys you were talking to. Absolutely wild. Humiliating.

[mossy-rot]

just had a very intense moment of trans joy bc i just realized like. This week im gonna go to work with short hair wearing my binder and im gonna walk in and my coworkers are gonna say "hey lucien" and i'll put on my trans flag pin and my he/they pin and im gonna introduce myself as lucien and holy shit. man. this is real. i can do things like this. will it always be pleasant? no, i still get misgendered by customers constantly. will I be able to go home like this? no, i'll have to change out of my binder as soon as i get home and hide my pins before i even start my car. but i get to go out and wear them in the first place. people still call me by my name despite knowing my deadname. people call me they instead of she when they don't know my pronouns. i have queer coworkers. I feel safe. the other shoe will drop eventually, but until then, i'm going to bask in what i have

[tributes-vamps-and-ginnyweasley]

We don't talk enough about what it's like to grieve a parent that's still alive.

When they change. Either because they go through things in life and become different, or you just learn who they are outside of your clouded view from being their child.

When we're young, we rely on our parents. In my experience (and the experience of others I've talked to), it doesn't matter if they're good at parenting. It's our instinct to reveire them, to love them, to idolize them. And when they change, it's like you've lost them. In a way, you have. Because the person you knew, the one you loved, has disappeared in front of you. And only a shell of them remains. Someone with their face, their voice, the same scars, the same wrinkles by their eyes. But they aren't them.

And usually this happens in adolescence. When everything else in your life is already being questioned and changing. And the person you are supposed to turn to for support and guidance has abandoned you. And yet, they're still there. In your day to day, living with you, talking to you. But not there.

And you are left to grieve this relationship, this important person (maybe the most important person to you), this idol of yours. And nobody understands it. The parent you now have won't understand. Will feel attacked and defensive. And it's so incredibly isolating.

Maybe it's just me, but it is something so gut-wrenching and terrifying and emotional. In a time when you are naturally unable to properly regulate and understand those emotions. And we should just acknowledge it a little more.

[quietwingsinthesky]

the thing about mass effect 3 is that if they’d just ended it with Shepard and Anderson sitting side by side and then it choosing your ending for you based on how many war assets you had, people wouldn’t have been half as pissed as they were

[luvevee]

Listen I'm all for seeing Sada and Turo realize how they neglected Arven before their death and/or going a no death au route with it, and/or the AIs stepping in to help fill the parental rolls that he didn't have.

But personally it doesn't sit well to gloss over the neglect and emotional abuse entirely. I'm not saying to clarify that's a known fact every time they're talked about, I'm just saying to understand that they were neglectful and emotionally abusive parents, and that a good chunk of Arven's character arc was about realizing he wasn't just an afterthought in their lives and that he's his own person with his own thoughts/feelings/dreams/etc.