#don't harrass people

[antlered-prince]

anyway

*slaps my blog title*

[connoisseur-of-love]

some ideas/headcanons on each variant of the mabill/mawill ship.

i love all of them equally

Mawill (reverse Mabel X Will)-i like to think this ship has a wierd maternal side to it, I hc that Will essentially raised the twins since they where like 12, so theres some love to them in the form that they are his children. but being a demon, theres a disconnect, and its not the proper thing. I think ppl portray MaWill with it entirely being abusive on Mabels side way too often, and I don't fully like this idea, in my honest headcanon, its a type of relationship where both strive for dominance, and in situations where Mabel is fully vunruble, Will takes advantage of that and vice versa.

Will especially, since in my version of the au. will was essentially like Bill prior to being a butler for the pines (I don't like when they go by gleeful), so in scenarios where he can, he can finally exert his power he has been lacking for years

anyway

reverse-Mabill (reverse mabel and bill)-Semi partners in crime where they both look to manipulate eachother for their own inherent selfish acts, but fall in love with them. in my hc for this relationship, Mabel is clingy to Bill, but Bill can put her in her place every once awhile.

I like this ship, cause Unlike Mawill, its so obviously abusive and even chaotic, while I find Mawill to have so many layers. while this is so much more "simple" (even though its not really-it still has layers), and its also slightly less-idk, depressing? I have more to say about this ship, but I can't think about it

Mabill (normal)-of course, this is a little more easier to explain. I just love the almost cliche enemies to friends to lovers trope they obviously have. Honestly, other than slight power imbalance, i think antis blow there "toxic" traits out of propertion. of course, some others may disagree, but I don't think they are that bad of a toxic couple, Mabel and reverse mabel are very different due to circumstances and so are the bills so. idk man.

anyway, mabill is generally also a funny ship, they have such good moments of comedy in them, that i also LOVE

Normal mabel x will-I like to think that mabel goes into the relationship thinking. "I can help him get out" to "Okay, but first I have to fix HIM"

other than that, I like to think there pretty sweet together, Will is able to keep a composure of how fucked up he is so he doesn't tread over mabel as a person. ignoring that Mabel is definitely strong enough fo r him. there so cute

[reversed-ragatha-blog]

Ok we now are getting it!! Ragatha just wants us to get @digital-cleaver not youu, we apologize she regrouped us and wants us to get her.

Um...Yeah. Thanks for the apology. But um...I'm gonna have to decline of getting @digital-cleaver. I don't condone any type of harrassment to anybody. Especially since they are going to the role play blogs. WE are just role playing, please keep this in mind.

[stardust-falling]

fandom psa; there is nothing whatsoever that is inherently "problematic" about shipping characters who are "found family."

Adoption is not found family. A blended family is not found family. A found family or chosen family is a group which, through circumstances or simply mutual affection, hold their relationship to one another with equal care and importance as family members ought to. It's not the same type of relationship.

It's not incest. It's not even pseudo-incest unless you want it to be. I personally don't care what people ship, but I'm absolutely tired of people misusing the term "found family" to just recreate the idea of a nuclear family and force those roles onto the entirety of a fandom. Sure, maybe characters who are found family may view themselves like siblings, or like a parent and child or aunt and niece, but they might also just see each other as friends-- and guess what? romantic partners too! That's technically the most widely-accepted form of found family/chosen family there is!

The whole point of found family/chosen family is to have the importance of "family" on relationships that lie outside the commonly-understood bounds of that relationship. Not to recreate the "mommy-daddy-daughter-son" dynamic with unrelated characters and use that headcanon or fanon dynamic to enforce your own morality or preferences on other fans.

[cometblaster2070]

guys please the ever after high fandom is like 30 people, 4 rats and a hope, a dream and a prayer; this debate about apple is ridiculous; STOP GOING INTO PEOPLE'S DMS OVER THIS???

like brother if you're going to leave shit in my inbox telling me to die in hell because i'm defending raven then at least do it properly and not anonymously.

like over THIS of all things?? really???

[bisonaari]

Oh btw since eurovision is soon, a little reminder

While I strongly encourage everyone to boycott

IF YOU HARRASS THE ARTISTS, BLOGGERS AND YOUTUBERS, YOU'RE A PIECE OF SHIT

Block and move on, for fuck's sake. Harrassing and sending hate and death treats make you a fucking terrible person

[darkwood-sleddog]

more and more i become of the opinion my dogs are not reactive to strange dogs but in fact it is unreasonable to expect them to NOT be reactive when the dogs we pass are unwalked, understimulated rural hellions that thrash at the windows of their houses, bark at us and follow us for entire lengths of properties, snarl at us, run at us with tense body language etc.

is this because a neighbor (who does skijor!) moved in half mile down the road from us a half a year ago with the most polite, unreactive dog that my dogs glance calmly at as they walk by? as it is unrestrained (no underground fence) on the property? absolutely is.

is this because a few years ago a neighbor's very nice pitbull mix got out and when it walked up to us with polite calm body language my dogs reacted just as calm and we were able to walk this dog home? absolutely is.

like i am a human woman and have lived in areas with much larger populations than i do now. i remember being followed by strangers, yelled at by strangers in aggressive ways. it made me tense and yes...reactive in those moments to ensure my own safety and needs were met. but was it my fault for having to react that way? To call friends and family and be on the phone any time that i walked alone? to check in when i got to where i was going? to bring pepper spray and iron knuckles to walk less than 10 minutes away from home? I don't think it is. Rather it's the failure that allows that behavior towards me which is at fault. i should not have had to carry those things with me. or call a single soul.

same with my dogs. my dogs aren't reactive, i'm just the only person who walks my damn dogs in my rural neighborhood. even though we can walk for 4+ miles either way on safe dirt roads out of our driveway before we reach pavement. nobody else. walks. their. fucking. dogs. yes i manage my dogs behaviors, it can be embarrassing when they get riled up, but know what? it is not their fault so many other dogs fucking SUCK. and it is not those dogs' fault that they suck either. i encountered more politely behaved dogs when i lived in the suburbs and city than i do now because those dogs at least had some sort of experience with being around other dogs (passing them on the sidewalk even) out of necessity. Rural people truly just throw their dogs outside and expect that to be enough. if you're lucky they install a little underground fence that will maybe keep fido in the yard (like uwu WE don't want to have a look at a fence and we're going to make all our neighbors GUESS if our dog might run into the road at them uwu).

[juniperleafdelivery]

[lameotello]

I hate that we've gone from "don't like, don't read" and not caring about what fucked up shit is depicted in fan media as a standard to hypervigilance and having to mind your every word so the group you've found yourself in doesn't know you ship the Not HOA Approved Ship

[hasellia]

Idk if Akatsuki cosplay is still big after. What, 20 years? But I just thought of a way to explain it to folks who don't know them.

"So you know Michael Phelps, right? How by sheer genetic chance he is built like a monster for swimming? Well, imagine if Michael Phelps teamed up with Usain Bolt & Simone Biles. Together, they team up with every other incredible athlete at the olympics who is built for a single sport. They're all from different countries, with an arguably globalist goal; yet they are just as competitive & egotistical as the usual Olympian. Also, they're terrorists."

[wimpy-imp]

I remember many times when my grandmother would make off hand remarks about how testosterone would make me look like a joke. that it would be funny and unnatural for someone like me to have a beard.

before that i remember my mother outing me to my grandparents without my knowledge or consent. and then having to sit with both of them on different occasions for a year while they tried to tell me i was just a masculine woman. One where they thought it was okay to ask if I'd get pregnant if a potential partner "really really wanted it 🥺" (Which. sidenote. what the actual fuck??)

i remember the day after one of those conversations my mother took me into town for a "suprise" from my grandma. and they tried to make me get my ears pierced. even when i said i didn't want to. the only reason they stopped was because i had an autistic shutdown in public and they were too embarrassed to keep trying to force me into it. That happened 2 years ago. i have very real trauma from that day.

They never cared about my gender nonconformity until i came out.

They still seem to believe that I'd only be a man if i actually secretly hated myself.

[breached-containment-script]

It's uncomfortable to see anti-zutara arguments leaning into insults of real people unprompted besides using the frequent argument that KA ended up being canon.

It's not just vagueposting about zutara fans, it's heavy insults, very vulgar language and threats of violence even towards some of the people who worked on ATLA. Like??? I'm used to vulgarity because I enjoy playing online competitive games, but even this is crossing some boundary. I think it's because of the dogpiling aspect enabled by fandom.

What's funny is that narrative anti-zutara arguments usually are transparently incorrect? Things like insisting that zutara was just fandom's fever dream followed by insults about someone's intellect and social status, etc. Like guys, I understand you dislike this het ship, but you should admit when something in its favour is true.

Unprompted insults and denying reality do not work in your favour.

[weaponizedducks]

absolutely wild to me that your whole life is defined by exams you took when you were seventeen. their brains are not even fully developed yet. please pick a lane, adults. you dismiss their words. you call young people stupid and unable or not old enough to have good opinions or make choices or participate in the choosing of their own futures and yet you define their futures by one little test. well guess what an exam has a fuckton of choices and if they can't be trusted to have an opinion on their own lives then maybe they can't be trusted to make academic choices on a test either. either you give us a voice or you will not hear until it's too late

[youre-only-gay-once]

Spn fandom transphobe blocklist, i'm sure this is not all, if you know of any i missed feel free to add on or send an anon to me if you're afraid of harrassment

(putting them under the cut because there's quite a few, the x's link to proof but be warned they do contain transphobia since that's what they're proof of)

magnetictapedatastorage (x)

arugula2048 (x)

tturing (x)

sparkleoff (x)

winchesterf (used to be destielterf) (x)

rainiermaria (x) (x)

meimiserere (x)

sapphic-schizo (x)

cringetalia (x)

blorbortion (x)

libracorpvs (x)

bakerstreetdoctor (x)

federal-bureau-of-nerds (x)

vivelafrxnce (x)

marmorada (x)

gynoids-over-androids (x)

malewaifbeater (x)

rhondahurleyy (x)

rusalkam (x)

judasvibe (x) (x)

researchgate (x)

apple-pie-42 (x)

0111001100111 (x)

nishiki-apologist (x)

snailsandbails (x)

belastrenchcoat (x) (x)

crackedblorbina (x)

deanwinchesterf (x)

drachenstochter (x)

jjohnnyutah (x)

thelesbianpoirot (x)

[cassowariess]

Ride or die Roiland clowns leaving me mile long paragraphs I'm never gonna read for simply leaving nice comments on Ian Cardoni's IG. This is why this fandom has such a shit reputation. Every season the same people complain the show is shit in a non constructive way and that they'll never watch it again and every season they're back to be unpleasant in comments sections. The Roiland thing is the latest thing they've decided to latch onto. 🤡

Stop watching or stfu. It's what I do when I think a show is crap.

[dropthedemiurge]

I've seen things after SOTUS extreme actor harassment, I've been here through BMF "hate watching flashmob" and you know what, this year I will actually stop tolerating BL fans (at least on tumblr) who don't even have the decency to just ignore things they don't like and who think bullying someone is a good fandom sport, and start calling out. No matter if you believe clickbaits or you're a proud member of celebrity witchhunt or just don't believe people and situations can change, whatever, I really don't want to see KristSingto hate if - when - they will come back with another BL series.

Peraya fans have been waiting and hoping for KristSingto reunion for years, they wanted it themselves for so long as well, and we've unfortunately encountered way too many people who don't use their braincells and who encourage others to follow their footsteps when making derogatory comments about (mainly) Krist or Singto who they don't even know about, or their shows. For years. Some even go to talk shit and laugh right at his face. What the hell.

Maybe don't ruin someone else's parade and don't turn a nice community lake into a swamp. If you consider yourself a good person who can have an opinion "I just don't vibe with this person/show", watch it unbiased, be open minded and if you don't have a full picture, ask fans of the actual story or do research and read proper compilations about him instead of blindly stacking your opinions on repeated echoed insults from yt and tiktok. And if you aren't willing to be open minded and rational, well, let the fans celebrate and stick quietly to your swamp.

It's really no fun to gather around to discuss something and slip on poop piles thrown around for no reason. What happened to civil discussions?