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bit of a continuation of this post, this art, and maybe also this art, bendy, having made hundreds, if not thousands of different versions of audrey to try and appease joey and set itself free, grew attached to a select few over the time he's made and re-made her.
the one drawn in the bendy basically being a dad image, is his most favorite. he doesn't name her, or any of the others, so anytime he talks about her, he just says "My Favorite." and thanks to some of my own ideas, and this lovely lil comment uwu
his "favorite" might have given him, at least a bit of a change of heart, just for a while at least.
(this is a bit long and slightly fan-fic-y, so i'll put it under keep reading)
(also look at the tags they got tw's, that's kinda important)
when ripping parts of himself to make audrey, he digs out pieces of himself. pieces that seem insignificant to him now, but when isolated, might act out in ways he couldn't expect. there may have been versions of audrey that where horrible monsters, killing things just like him, or little ones full of rage, envy, sorrow, or loneliness.
with him having so much of those emotions to go around, having those parts of him torn off, he isn't too surprised, and it doesn't really phase him.
but at some point, he dug a little deeper, just in the right spot, to pull out something that all those negative emotions buried.
now, i also hc that at this point, the ink demon was/is mostly an abusive parent. being rather neglectful, and only starting to care a little, at least for the audrey's appearance, in the hopes that so long as she looked human, he could be freed. he would call all of them names, and say "you'll likely die" whenever it was time for them to meet joey, and he was always right, so he never bothered. he'd push his own creations away, because of his own trauma.
but this one. this one he calls his "favorite". at some point started to realize that, despite the ink demon saying mean things to her, he was rather kind, and didn't hurt her. despite him killing and eating people, around her, he was rather protective, maybe a little too protective. even if he would threaten her life, or get close to eating her, she wouldn't seem scared. (it could also be that she just freezes, or dissociates due to abuse)
he could call her a hideous, ugly wretch, that no one would ever truly love, while still having cleaned her, and tried to make her look pretty, and she would pick up on that. "you don't rrreeeaaallly think i'm ugly, do you? you spend all this time fixing my dress and my hair. if you really think i'm ugly, maybe it's because you're not very good at making pretty things."
a majority of the time, the ink demon would be straight up with her, saying "i eat people, because i enjoy tormenting them. ripping them apart limb from limb, and hearing them scream, and cry, and beg." and anytime he even seemed like he was lying, mostly in contradictions between his words and actions, she'd ask him about it, and he wouldn't really have an answer for her. and not having an answer made him feel vulnerable.
sooner or later, he slowly becomes more kind to her, taking her to heavenly toys, or bendy land, just spending time with her, if at a distance and seeming detached or aloof. still insulting her and being a bit abusive, but not physically hurting her all that much. he even brings her supplies to draw, and watches her on occasion. he starts extending his time with her, enjoying her company, occasionally wondering if he should play "the end" reel on himself, simply to spend even more time with her.
but her time is coming to and end, and joey is getting impatient. once it's time for her to go, he's finally nicer with his words, if not still blunt and distant. she ask him if joey will like her, and he coldly says no. she ask if he can come with her, and once again he says no. she ask if all those horrible things he said about joey where true, he says yes. she's squeezing a bendy doll he gave her, holding back tears, "is he... really going to kill me if i'm not perfect?"
... something in him finally clicks, and for once, he honestly, genuinely tries to reassure her. that she doesn't have to be "perfect". she doesn't have to be "born right" to be beautiful, or deserving of love. that what imperfections she has means something to him, and make her who she is. and for a moment, he doesn't want her to go.
but she goes...
and she's gone...
she's dead...
like the rest of them...
and he regrets not being kinder to her...
and he hates himself for not having more time with her...
and he eats her, like he'd done the rest, dug around, hoping to get that little piece of him back once more, to see it just for a moment, but could never find it, and could never rebuild it again...
just more sad, angry, or detached audrey's, that sure, began to look more human, began to be more human, but slowly became more and more of a blank slate. more of a marry sue even, but it took a lot out of him (pun intended) to just get that.
audrey may be perfect... but she is not his Favorite.
#batim#batdr#audrey drew#ink demon#tw verbal abuse#tw parental abuse#tw parental neglect#detached parenting#stockholm syndrome#or at the very least sorta kinda those vibes#bro accidentally pulled the good outta himself#had it call him out on his bs#made him feel a little less like a monster#and was like 'please don't leave'#and then it DIED#og henry and his favorite are the only things#keeping him from loosing his mind entirely#and he's already p close#angst#daddy ink demon au#favorite!audrey
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Sub Bucky and a breeding kink 💀 dead unlived it's one of my favourite things 😌
This is pretty high up there on my list of dream fantasies 🥵 these are two of my biggest weaknesses, don't even look at me rn
One of life's greatest joys is cuddling with the other person's head resting on your chest so you can play with their hair and rub their shoulders. I love that shit, having someone else's body weight on you is so comforting.
I imagine that's something Bucky would really enjoy too. It's so soft and sweet and tender and getting to feel cared for would really appeal to him.
But that's up until his hands work their way under your top, up over your bare skin so he's able to cup your breasts and bury his face between them while he's getting his hair played with. Life's pleasures don't get much simpler than that.
After a few moments he shifts slightly, tugging the neckline of your shirt out of the way to give himself space to kiss and nip your skin. All of a sudden he's desperate and it's beautiful to watch.
"Please." He whispers between frantic kisses, flicking his tongue over the stiff peak of your nipple before engulfing it with his warm, eager mouth.
"Please, what?" You tease, tugging on his hair just a little for emphasis.
He groans, frustrated by his own lack of coherence, pulling his mouth from your nipple. "Please let me put a baby in you."
That's not what you were expecting but fuck, he makes it sound pretty appealing.
"Bucky-" You begin but he cuts you off, giving your other nipple the same attention as he gave the first. God, that's distracting.
"You'd make. Such. A pretty. Mommy." He whispers, kissing his way down your body until he reaches the bottom seam of your top. From there, he pulls it off, letting it fall to the floor before removing the rest of your clothes.
"You'd look so pretty with a little baby bump." His huge hand rests on your bare tummy, imaging how your body would change.
"I want it, Buck." You mean it too. It doesn't sound like such a bad idea when he's taking his clothes off.
"I know you want it." He groans, rubbing the tip of his dick against your soaked core. "Y-you're so wet."
He presses his hips forward, sliding inside you and you can't explain it but you swear it feels different this time.
"Don't even think about pulling out." You cup his face in your hands, keeping his eyes on you and you almost worry he's going to fuck himself senseless into you. "I want you to make me a mommy. You're going to give me every single drop of cum and when it starts to drip out of me, you're going to fuck it back in."
His head falls onto your shoulder, sobbing a pathetic moan against your already hot skin. The pace of his thrusts matches his need, his hips slamming into yours and when he finally gives in, he cums inside you with your legs clamped around his waist, making sure he couldn't pull out even if he wanted to.
#asks answered <3#becca writes spice#anon#sub!bucky#subby bucky#this is one of those fantasies that's nice in my head#I think I'd like to be at that point in my life but it's absolutely not where I'm at rn#maybe some day tho#I started writing a new series yesterday#making a lil moodboard#excited to post the concept#can't decide if I want each chapter to feel like a continuation of the one before#or if I want the chapters to be more detached from each other with time passing in between#might actually space it out over a weekend?#I took my lil granny out for lunch today and she's just the cutest#she usually comes up to ours for Sunday lunch but my parents were out this weekend#so I made her dinner last night and took it down to her and I asked if she wanted to go out for Sunday lunch for a change#she made me book the table right there in front of her so she'd be able to look forward to it 🥺#I sat with her for over an hour yesterday evening and she smiled nearly the whole time#she's too cute I swear
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The dads at the Farm
One thing I love to do whenever I play a new dating sims game is think of the ENDLESS possibilities if the LIs interact with each other. Not just A vs B, C vs D, it's more like, if you throw all A B C D E F G... into one room, what would they do.
I tend to build my own world based on given characters and settings, and that's what I find the most interesting to do and to create for a fandom.
#They all take part in parenting and that makes me emotional#They deserve this future#to have their own family and do everything to nurture and protect it#Yep#Although Robin is more like a male wife#and Whitney tried to keep detach at the start#I just love to discover the potential if they'd ever interact and get to know each other beter and have the chance#to actually haver control of their life and choose how they want to live#dollya art#robin the orphan#dol robin#whitney the bully#dol whitney#alex the farmhand#dol alex#dol#degrees of lewdity#dad and baby#DoL: Homestead AU
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The thrilling sequel.
#fop#fop a new wish#the fairly oddparents a new wish#fairly oddparents#fairly oddparents a new wish#doug dimmadome#dev dimmadome#development dimmadome#obessesed with the idea of doug being a decent grandparent but a shit parent#Doug's parenting style works better as a grandparent#plus Doug just isn't as cold as Dale#mainly because his trust in the world and people in it wasn't completely shattered by a highly traumatic experience at a young age#where he was locked away from the world and grew detached from it and the people in it as a means of survival#and also wasn't able to form the necessary skills required to form strong emotional bonds in the first place because#his body was more focused on keeping him alive than developing his sense of empathy and logical reasoning :)
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We all know Timmy is Wanda’s mama’s boy but we need to keep in mind he’s still Cosmo’s kid too and that Cosmo would love him just as vehemently as Wanda
#fairly oddparents#not that anyone has portrayed him different#certainly not distance he loves Timmy he probably says it the most in the show and in fanon#but still- watching New Wish there felt like there was a disconnect with Cosmos character-like he wasn’t as well defined as he was in OG#that’s in part due to them toning him down from being an idiot plain and simple but I feel like it wasn’t fitted with something else it was#simply taken away#just to say he didn’t have as much of a presence to me in New Wish as Wanda did and I crave spinning Cosmo around in my brain#I want to see Poof being his Dad’s Boy yknow and I want to see cosmo doting and I want to see when he gets like. parental rage for the sake#of his kids#yknow? Yknow? part of him feeling detached in a new wish has translated into him not wanting to get as close to Hazel as he did Timmy-#to try and play it more like godparents are supposed to- just a presence for a couple months#but also because like. he got SO attached to Timmy and he���ll never regret it and he’d never do anything different#but idk. if it were me I wouldn’t have the capacity to go through losing my godkid again after becoming that attached#that’s not even mentioning that they don’t HAVE to be in hazel’s life the same way they were in Timmy’s because Timmy was going through#neglect and Hazel has loving family and friends all around her at all times- her blocks are mental#in that way cosmo and Wanda just have to do the Typical Godparent Job of aiding her- not becoming people she desperately needs in life#which also bleeds into why I think Peri was having such a. difficult time#godparents aren’t supposed to be attached the way his family was to Timmy and that how he learned it#but his first godkid is Not Easy and lends immediately to the issues Timmy was having where he HAS parents he HAS things (though . Timmy#was not rich and would sometimes not be fed… dev’s dad also forgets to feed him but dev is still able to eat you know)#and how he grew up with his parents as godparents and how he’s been taught are conflicting and it’s nature vs doing a good job quoteunquote#I didn’t mean to ramble so damn much in the tags I’m really sorry#told myself if I had more to say I’d write it down and post it later but I must be heard.
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Role-reversal AU where Machete opens a library on Florence and slowly becomes a very influencial local political figure, while Vasco's parents become fed-up with his "lifestyle" and send him away to the clergy (he probably has a brother in this AU, to make their decision more believable)
They reconnect in a similar way to the original, but their relationship is much more tragic as Vasco became self-hating and thinks he corrupted/doomed Machete in their youth and meanwhile, this Machete is trying to protect him from the corrupted side of the Church and possible assassination plot, that he's too indoctrinated to see happening around him
A interesting ending for this AU should be that Machete still dies, but results in Vasco finally running away from the clergy/inquisition (not sure if Vasco joins the inquisition or not, you can decide) and hiding in the country-side. Where he grows old dedicating various paintings and poems to Machete and possibly taking care of some noble's horses for a living
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#that's interesting#Machete could potentially really shine in politics I can see that being a thing#but Vasco would most likely have miserable time in the clergy#the pressure and guilt and expectations would break his spirit#even if he doesn't always get along with his parents his family relatives and social bonds mean a lot to him#he wouldn't take it well if he felt like he had failed his parents#and was subsequently pushed into a profession that forbids personal relationships#Machete would have hard time watching him and comparing the young jovial Vasco he used to know to his current dejected state#but in this situation it might be more possible for them to escape together#Machete can't leave the church because he's been indoctrinated from early childhood and has never had any life outside of it#Vasco's relationship with religion is a lot less intense he might be able to detach mostly in one piece#and look after horses for the rest of his days#answered#anonymous#Vaschete scenarios#Machete the librarian#he'd love that
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whole life convincing yourself that you’re emotionless, cold and unbothered only to realise many years later that you created that version of yourself because in reality you couldn’t bare the thought of being vulnerable in any way
and when you finally realise that it’s not something to be proud of you also realise that it’s too late to re-learn everything
you feel great shame because you finally see that you weren’t actually strong - all of it was a weakness. the thing you hated the most. you couldn’t embrace it
and worst of all - you realise that you’ve become exactly like the person who hurt you in the beginning
#psychology#childhood trauma#emotionally unavailable#emotionally immature parents#actually bpd#actually ptsd#coping with trauma#realisation#trauma#traumatized child#coping mechanism#pretending#emotionally detached#adult children of emotionally immature parents#living with borderline
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am i the only one who genuinely forgets the fact that bihyung is one of biyoo's dads? idk if it's bcs orv is devoid of scenes depicting their relationship or it's just kdj and biyoo being such a cute dad and daughter duo and yjh and biyoo going on a hundred years long space journey to save kdj which was also a promise 41 yjh had made to 41 sys. it's just so hard for me to imagine bihyung and biyoo being dad and daughter the same way i imagine kdj/yjh's relationships with her
#does it make sense?? i hope it does#orv#bihyung#biyoo#kim dokja#yoo joonghyuk#like even when kdj is absent it always felt like yjh took on the parent role and not bihyung#idk i feel so detached from their bond
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we are never gonna find those fucking kids bro
#the plot feels so detached from it now because of all the crazy shit happening#mascot civil war#and whatever the fuck happened at the end of 7#the only reason I still remember is cause the characters call the player parent#and stinger flynn is still pissed abt it#garten of banban
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Thor: I think I just… realized something. I had a bad childhood. Loki: Yes, I know Thor: What?! What do you mean you know?! Loki: Thor, I was literally there
#it takes Thor crying over his hammer for the 13th time in a day to realize this#Thor not really feeling anything @ Odin's death and having to work through how he feels about that#bc he recognized he was growing detached to Odin and didn't want anything to do with him#but that was still his father and he thinks he should have to process that he's gone now but instead of feeling bad he feels better#etc.#VS Loki who worked all this out about Odin and Frigga being bad parents like at least a decade ago but IS still mourning them#etc. etc.
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Something about people making fun of Kabru's blue eyes feels very much like they're missing the entire point of his character...
#kabru#kabru of utaya#kabru dungeon meshi#kabru dunmeshi#like... that's the point#his blue eyes are a big deal to him#he feels like a monster because of them#he's an outcast over something that he had no control over#nor his parents... or anything#he's different he has always been different and that makes everything feel all the more distant#i wouldn't be surprised if the reason why he feels often detached from things is due to how he was treated#so seeing the fandom point out and even make fun of him over his eye color just feels like that's the whole point
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Personally Im under the opinion that morning crew shares a giant bed that could fit 5 people and two eggs :] and just eep together
#Tubbo rolls off the bed in the middle of the night and fit has to detach himself from pac to pick him up and put him back on#I can’t be angsty with morning crew they are just so family coded#qsmp#When Richas and Ramon come back they squeeze inbetween pac and fit even though the defiently have enough space to just lay somewhere else#Because they don’t want to be apart from their parents#And Mike lays on pacs otherside and phil puts his wings overall of them#Adding Sometimes richas sleeps between ramon and pac. And sometimes between pac and mike
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i have the headcanon that among multiple professions, helsa is a model. then wondered what seviathan would be like as a model. this ensued
#personally i headcanon that sev has kind of detached himself from his parents and keeps out of the public eye#so no he’s not a model#i imagine helsa would be like an all round influencer#but her main job is a musician as she was born a siren#helsa never wanted to be any of these things but her mother had other ideas#anyway i’m done ranting about random von eldritch sibling headcanons now#hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel seviathan#hazbin hotel fanart#seviathan von eldritch#seviathan von eldritch fanart#my art
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Hey, friends. Wanna hear something funny?
I got into a car accident today.
But I was very lucky.
A truck went out of control, slid sideways down the road towards me and hit the driver's side with its rear end, pushing my car against a wall for a moment, then spun around again and got stuck, fully blocking the road.
I'm completely fine.
Only a piece of shattered glass cut my finger. Except for that, your humble artist is unharmed.
This doesn't feel real
What a crazy day
#text post#please feel free to scroll past#I'm ruining the positivity of my page :(#I don't know why I'm sharing this#..or maybe I do#it's the aftermath of living through an experience perceived as near-death. oversharing paired with detachment. haha.#today I've gotten more support from everyone else than I've gotten from my parents in the last 10 years#and I'm still young. those 10 years aren't of adulthood.#trauma dump? sorry.#I didn't plan to turn this art account into a personal blog but here I am. writing THIS#this is unreal. insane.#however! there's a plus! this was my first ever car accident and it wasn't my fault at all! ha!
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@pwippy DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER 🎉🎉🎉🎉
so fun fact. I originally had an idea for an ALNST spirited away AU (and a long list of other media I'm into in an ALNST AU)
But after I drew these and looked at their little faces I simply could not bring myself to go any farther. These poor kids do not deserve that 😭 especially chihiro I was so hurt at the thought of anything bad happening to her that I scrapped the thought immediately
I was still interested in their post movie dynamic (specifically the bits and pieces we get of haku's past + the fact that chihiro forgets everything once she leaves the tunnel) and it lingered on me after I watched the movie
these ocs are just me trying to explore a different flavor of that dynamic + traits from a few other pieces of media that I enjoy
#i believe toon also guessed#anyways sorry guys i am horrendously unsubtle#and also#spirited away meant a lot to me back then and it means a lot to me now#haku and chihiros post movie dynamic interested me#so i took them. broke them in half. threw them into a blender and made something outta the main concept#also jiu is very blatantly haku coded but kio is slightly more detached from chihiro#they have their own junk that separates them from og chihiro haku#honestly life and work has been beating my ass lately#i went back to rewatch this movie and i cried like a baby because all the themes are so painfully poignant#like as a kid i was like woah magic#and now watching it i feel like that meme of coralines dad at the computer screen#so when making new ocs naturally theyd seep in#HEAVILY#even entering young adulthood i still feel like chihiro yelling for her parents and crouching down small near the river 😭#sorry for yapping idk where that came from
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I hate having very quiet passively expressed anxiety that looks like aloofness everyone thinks Im lazy and don't care when in reality it's freakout paralysis from caring too much
#my parents would get convinced im some emotionally detached sociopath but im just depressed and not moving/talking much#-_- sorry im not type A enough for you
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