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I'm a doctor, not a miracle worker.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wen ning#wei wuxian#wen qing#jiang cheng#Truly Massive disclaimer here: I am a Jiang Cheng enjoyer. I like his character. I enjoy that he is very flawed and volatile.#This episode of the audio drama has a lot of great breakdown scenes featuring JC - and they all deserve a feature.#But underlying this comic is a small meta comment of 'ah man I have too many comics of JC just wailing sadly'#My goal is to draw 6-8 comics per episode - I sometimes have to truncate and cut good scenes out.#Especially when a large majority is just different flavours of trauma and toxic relationships to your self-worth.#I would also like to make a note here that just because you lose the ability to do something that is very tied to your core identity-#-does not mean your life is over. It will feel like the end of the world. It will send you into a spiral of grief. It will hurt so badly.#Sometimes we do not realize how tied up our identities can be in certain things until we are cut loose.#You don't lose yourself. I promise the pain will fade in time. I promise you will find other things to tether you. I promise you will be ok#Life moves forwards. Time moves forwards. You move forwards.#Ego death just means an opportunity for ego rebirth. You are never committed to being the same person forever.#To wrap this around to JC: Yeah I love the twist with the core transfer but man I would have loved to see JC accept the loss.#Obviously it happens for a reason (story) but I can have my AUs. I can have these 'what-ifs'.#described in alt text#I'm trying it out! *please* give me feedback - I want to eventually Add image ID to all of these comics one day
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#okay when I was thinking about inna cents x miss hell yuri i didnt know i was gonna get so extra and angsty with it#also i cut a bunch of stuff out of this post so i might post the outtakes later#uhhh dont expect a full story this is kind of just a quick blurb of sorts idk what im doing lol#but it's october so you get toxic lesbian vampires on this day#ts4#the sims 4#sims 4#ts4 simblr#simblr#ts4 story#inna cents#miss hell#ts4 vampires#blood tw
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hi everypony :3
#wahh...#i have to be honest i dont have tumblr downloaded on my phone so i miss out on posting/replying a lot skjdfjg#sigh... may have to clear up my 55k images to make space for it.... thats why i've been pretty gone#bc i need to whip out my fat chipping aging laptop.. i love her. she is a wife to me <3 toxic yuri bc she chips glass out and gives me cuTS#loL LOL#ANYNWAYSY#SDJBHGFHJGF#cookie run#cookie run kingdom#choco werehound brute#cherry blossom cookie#bruteblossom#cookie run ovenbreak#my art#I MISS YALL (said as if though i'm not the one separating myself kJSJDJGFSJ)#OKAYBYE#<3333
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So with my Momās cancer being back, my own health stuff, and everything else going on, Iām not sure Iāll be able to be the most active in this round of bookclub (and I do have a lot of words muted and stuff hidden because of mental health and streamlining things and Tumblr's an ass about showing posts sometimesāso if I miss a post, please donāt take it personally!). ): It honestly makes me super upset
But I really hope that everyone has a good time and I canāt wait to see what people cook up! <3 Last time was SO MUCH FUN it makes me a little nervous about living up to those expectations aksjdkajsn But as long as someone has a good time, that's what counts :3
#TrigunBookclub#Tbh I have a lot of ships in general muted/hidden so that I stopped accidentally reblogging things to the trigunart blog lol#Which luckily romance and shipping rarely take root in my brain so *I'm* fine with that#(Don't look at the one obvious elephant in the room)#But it does mean I'll miss stuff#PLEASE let me know if someone's being a dick and I miss it#Absolute zero-tolerance policy for harassing or being cruel to anyone in this house#And also tbh I'm overwhelmed but I'm doing better than I have in previous overwhelmed times#I've been doing a lot of mental word and cut out a lot of toxicity in my life#Even if I'm really raw atm#So I'm okay#As okay as I can be anyway#ANYWAY I just feel so guilty about this#And I don't want anyone to feel bad
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GIGGLING AND KICKING MY LEGS. bet grrm didn't like that whole rhaenyra's maid alicent bullshit eitherš¤
#anti hotd#anti rhaenicent#hotd#love being right at everything#rhaenicents the are dumbest ppl in the fandom currently unfortunately#he literally said worse is to come and here's insider info how this is tip of an iceberg he isn't only mad about cutting maegor out#it's clear in his post he has grievances regarding other characters and plot points those people are just delusional#BITCH I WISH IT WAS ACTUAL TOXIC YURI AND NOT THE PATHETIC SHIT WE GOT
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you know what I really like in season 2? how Jim Jimenez, who was not exactly part of the comedy in S1, which was most probably the reason why Blackbeard got them into the new crew in the last episode of S1... is now hamming it up as much as they can.
they used to be the silent support (posing as literally silent, mute) of the crew, someone who'd be on the fringes of both conflicts and comedic situations. and then, when Jim realises what exactly the good old days were to them, things they miss, the stories Stede told... they re-enact the wooden boy story the best they could. bring up the "toxic environment" to Izzy, refuse to let good things go, don't run from them, kiss Archie when she allows, ham it up with jokes and needlings, have a curly moustache drawn onto them and are the life of the party, and then Jim's the one to help Olu out with his new romantic partner. you'd think S1!Jim would be called "nosy interferer"? personally, wouldn't think so.
as much as we call a certain other character "person amongst Muppets", Jim Jimenez had also escaped their own genre, of "Hispanic revenge thriller", into queerness and acceptance of it wholeheartedly. with Jim being themselves, nonbinary and poly and breaking as many stereotypes as they can.
#Jim Jimenez#OFMD S2#OFMD S2 spoilers#OFMD spoilers#OFMD#Our Flag Means Death#Varya rambles#one - it also adds to the narrative of genre switching within the story and how it affects OFMD#two - they're a narrative foil to Izzy Hands who ALSO. as a younger queer. helps him out in various ways#bringing up the toxicity. cutting his rotting leg (symbol of attachment to Blackbeard and that lifestyle). being supportive#and THAT is why in s2ep6 THEY are the one in center of the frame looking up at Izzy when he sings in the last scene#fuckin superb!! also like. healthy poly relationship showing that it's alright to shift them or let go#which might be another narrative foil if we ever get that Steddyhands wink wink nudge nudge#text post
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What's your opinion about "Maybe you're not what I need but you're everything I've always wanted" with your Konig interpretation? I have so many mixed feelings about it. This line it's been in my mind and I'd like to know because I love your stories, I always feel my heart bleeding in the best way possible
Yes Iām thinking about a toxic/unrequited love scenario, a mismatch of two completely different soulsā¦ ā¤ļøāš„
Some brief lust and excitement brought you on a date with him, and he was so excited he only looked at his hands when he talked. His nose was runny because of allergy season, and his jokes were awful, his rehearsed little nods a little too enthusiastic when it was your turn to talk.
In other words: he was a hot mess, bangable only when gagged, and you werenāt sure if you should just let him fuck you and be done with itā¦ or if you should kindly let him down and excuse yourself before things got any worse.
His muscles and his height really worked for him though, and you ended up in his bed. Ended up riding him until he looked like he was about to fall in love with you, and you just wanted to put a bag over his head... Thatās way too much desperation for your taste, but unfortunately, youāre wrong if you think this man is stupid. He sees that tiny disgusted glint in your eye; he knows that look of female yuck and pity all too well.
He wants to hate you for it, but canāt, so he exacts his revenge in other ways... Lies that heās seeing other women on the side when you discreetly ask about itāsince when did you agree on having an actual relationship? Sure, heās up for it, if you areā¦ He just needs to cut off some tiesā¦
You only pull away in shame; that creepy ogre has been shagging other girls while youāve devoted yourself solely to him, maybe playing hard to get, sure, indecisive whether you should call this thing off or not. The sex is good, his tired puppy eyes kind of cute, the awkward cuddles something youāve now grown used to. But his recent casual statement makes you nearly choke on your own heart.
Here you thought he was your adoring beast, your cruel outcast, your own big little pet, needy for some pussy, love and attentionā¦ Turns out youāve been played the fool, and Kƶnig only asks if you want it from the back like yesterday.
#heās sooo toxic when scorned#man would cut out his whole heart for you if youāre kind#but if you give him any shit?#heās not going to just eat it and say thank youā¦#kƶnig angst
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āIf I could go back, one thing I would do / Try to unravel, cut down, and unscrew / The first double helix that links me to youā
Wow, get a load of these guys. Whatās wrong with them?
Also song inspo if anyone would like it! Itās where the top quote is from!
#drawing Gus sad made me feel like I was kicking an already sad wet cat why do I do this to him#supposed to be a weird dream sequence thing about a year later after the Geosenge Incident#believe it or not this piece is about Gus learning to move on#like my thought is that Gus has been trying to move on but he keeps finding Lysās stuff or references to him#and after dreaming of Lys burning up (literally) and not being able to save him#he wakes up and finds heās holding Lysās coat#which finally leads him to finding all of Lysās stuff around his apartment and throwing it all in a box to get rid of#and it would end with him finally grabbing the photo of him and Lys#and finally cutting him out of it#anyway I love them so much#I NEED THEM IN PAIN AND TORTURED#Gus gets to be happy and moved on later I promise#Lys either got his ass immortal or is dead beneath the rubble š#idk what happened tho I heard one song and got locked in and had to draw toxic doomed pokemon yaoi#what the fuck is wrong with me?#yeah I have so many thoughts on those stupid guys fr#I WOULD LIKE THEM OUT OF MY BRAIN THO#PLZ LEMME GO I WANT OFF THIS TRAIN#professor sycamore#professor sycamore pokĆ©mon#augustine sycamore#lysandre pokemon#team flare lysandre#pokemon xy#Spotify#rainbowpufflez art tag
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The idea of Ky suppressing his Gear Cells through his Catholic Willpower is so incredible to me. RIP to Sol Badguy and the scientific breakthrough of Gear Suppression devices but if Ky Kiske woke up with a tail he would just make it go away
#toxic talks about#guilty gear#Ky kiske#this is 100% unserious#well maybe 90% unserious because I think at a certain point in his life Ky would just cut off his tail#nowadays he probably would keep it out so he and Dizzy could tail cuddle
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Simon Eriksson is a beautiful character and deserves all the good things in this world plus more.
#i donāt need to say any more#and i donāt need to make a long post justifying what i said#(i said what i said)#his character speaks for itself#and if all good things includes cutting out the toxic people in his life#then so be it#young royals#simon eriksson#simon young royals#wilmon
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My favourite part of Nagisa's sidestory is when Nagisa, Yuu, and Inui had a lovely tea party with Nagisa's homemade cheesecake and emotional support for Inui to break up with her shitty boyfriend and emotional support for Nagisa dealing with her shitty mom's death and nothing bad happened!
#puella magi madoka magica#mahou shoujo madoka magica#madoka magica#pmmm#wyfy's meltdowns#magical girl#nagisa madoka magica#nagisa pmmm#nagisa momoe#yuusa magia record#yuu magia record#yuusa yumeno#inui itsumi#magia record#and they formed a lovely magical girl team and worked through their issues and everything was great!!!#nagisa is teaching yuu and inui about cheeses#inui is teaching yuu and nagisa about fashion#and yuu is teaching nagisa and inui that the people who truly love you wouldn't make you stress or hate yourself and-#-it's ok to cut off toxic and abusive people!#I'm happy we finally found out Nagisa's full story but at what cost?#I love pmmm and magia record but by god it makes me miserable (positive)
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You know it's annoying how people accept gender being a complex thing. How the way you identify and the way you present are not the same. How complicated and fluid your gender can be.
And then turn around and deny ALL of it for sexuality. That sexuality is binary and strict.
#queer#'yes you can be masc presenting trans woman NO you cant be aro and date'#'yes you can trans by being girl most of the time and sometimes biy NO you cant be ace because of grey fluidity'#you know what fuck you all aplatonic are queer too gnc are queer too#(if they feel like it)#queer is about FUCK you socity for dictating what normal and not normal is#sometimes you are queer for how you are born and sometimes you are queer for how you live#queer is messy not the way society demands human identity to be#so once again FUCK YOU for reinforcing the same toxic suffocating ideas#FUCK YOU#yes i am angry#i am pissed off at people who supposed to know how shitty it is to be judged by who you are#to be pushed in one box only and cutting pieces off that do not fit#and then DO THE EXACT SAME THING#i KNOW queerness is complex#that it takes time to learn what being trans is what sexuality is how different kinds of attraction works#how society norms on what gender is supposed to be is bullshit#how society norms on how we are supposed to interact with each other is bullshit#but the VERY first rule should be to keep an open mind#something feels conflicting and off?#RESEARCH FIRST#learn more to figure out that its not all that simple and there are experiences beyond your comprehension#your first instinct should NOT be to hit WTFUCK
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it's actually really funny that dwayne, marko, and paul barely have any characterization or lines and up until the end of the movie are really just there to make david look a little less pathetic while he desperately tries to get michael to fuck him
#like everything before marko dies if you cut them out of the scene nothing really changes#except that the dynamic changes from group peer pressure#to speedrunned jennifer and needy style toxic homoeroticism#i mean that's already there of course but it's just amplified#the lost boys#tlb#kate's bad takes
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me: tumblr for you tab, please. I know I like batman and stalk the tim drake tag, but I do NOT wanna see x reader stuff. there's too many tags to blog and I don't have the energy for that. just show me ANYTHING ELSE PLEASE
tumblr for you tab: I got you king! jaytim and ooc brutalia
me: ....this is hell, I'm in hell, you're the devil
#I don't fuck with brutalia personally#but I think it's fun when they have something toxic and reciprocated and real but unhealthy going on#BUT SHE WOULD NEVER BE A HOUSEWIFE#GIRL THAT IS THE MOST 2D CARDBOARD CUT OUT STEREOTYPE OF A WOMAN#THAT IS NOT TALIA#THAT IS TAMMY WHO WORKS AT STARBUCKS
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no time for rude bishes in this economy
#james supamongkon#that's very sexy of him#ngl#love when he speaks up for himself#imagine james telling you you have no manners and he will cut you out of his life... i would dig my grave#James live stream#reasons why I love James#james social#clapback to toxic fans
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I know you're keeping Clear Sky as an antagonist (and he's very compelling as one in your rewrite), but I'm curious: if you absolutely had to give him a redemption arc, how would you go about it? (Besides not fridging his sister and wives, of course.)
If I was forced to give Clear Sky a redemption arc I'd slip a femur right out of my legmeat and beat someone to death with it
I'd never write a redemption arc for him, ever. It would be a completely different character.
Clear Sky's redemption arc is not even an idea worth considering; This an extremely consistent abusive family member who drives the entire plot, a predator who will leverage the love people have for him, whose defining characteristic is that he dresses up his megalomania as "Just Trying to Protect Everyone"
And I'd give that up?! for what?
I'd rewrite the whole plot, JUST like how the writers did with TWO born evil foreigner villains so their story wouldn't get boring, so I could prove the he could be a good boy if he wanted to? WHY?
It's doing the same thing the Erins do, totally uninterested in the story of his victims to write yet another plot centered around the pain of an abusive man.
Elder Bones is disappointed in you if you even think about it, actually. I am holding the femurbone in my hand as we speak. I'm gonna GETCHA
#Bone Babble#Clear Sky can be redeemed in my wine cellar. if he'd like to come down to take a look#And I am sorry but like. I've never seen it done well. ever#When other people attempt it#I have never enjoyed an AU or an analysis post exploring some possibility for an alternate redemption arc#And I have seen a *LOT* of them#Every single one has played into legitimizing his Oh So Sincere Pain And Regret#HELL no!!!#NO he fucking doesn't!! EVERYTHING revolves around power to this character!#Any moments of sincere reflection or remorse get shoved down in the pursuit of more power and respect#He is incapable of sitting with his shame and that's INTERESTING#How he's a complete weasel who will find a way to twist the words of authority telling him to Cut It Out into something that benefits him#How the emotions people feel when interacting with him is either Guilt or Fanatic Affection#He's a horrible and toxic person!! The kind of person you're VERY lucky to get away from#So I've never actually seen anyone do it in a way that works.#And I'm not entirely convinced it exists. Anything is possible but no. Not in my house
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