#cousellor

[yisum]

“成熟的爱是在保存人的完整性、人的个性条件下的融合。 “ ——弗洛姆《爱的艺术》

cousellor #psycholgoymemes #幸福感

[windrelyn]

-Rainy day-

Sorry for being inactive lately. I’m sick with the flu 

Btw thank you for the asks! I will try to respond as soon as possible!

[omgmarauders]

Nico's eyes moved to take in their surroundings as he listened to her. He wasn't really sure what to do. You couldn't learn this from just watching a video... maybe. Either way, he hadn't. But his gaze returned to her when she confirmed that she didn't want to be alone. He swallowed and nodded. "I'm here." He said, low and squeezing a hint of attempted warmth into his usual void tone. He shook his head. "No." She didn't have to apologise to him. He could suck it up.

"This, for you, is shit. So feel shit." Probably not the trained-response that she should have had. "And don't give a fuck about me. Or anyone else."

She heard Nico's uncertain words and felt his arm pull away. She appreciated that he stayed close though, even if he didn't know what to do. "I… I don't know," she managed to say between sobs, her voice shaky and broken. "I don't want to be alone, but I don't know what I need." She wiped at her eyes, trying to pull herself together. "Just… just stay with me, please? Even if you don't know what to do. It's better than being alone right now." She looked up at him, her eyes red and puffy. "I'm sorry you got stuck with this," she said, her voice barely above a whisper.

[vro0m-but-not-cars]

My employment counsellor thinks she's sooo funny advising me to apply to work as an employment cousellor every time I see her like girl no I would kill myself if I was sitting at your desk your life is hell to me goodbye

[goxinsane]

OPEN TO: f/nb/m SUGGESTED CONNECTIONS: another camp cousellor, ex, crush (or they both have a brief past together), best friend, sibling, another killer, etc.

PLEASE READ MY RULES BEFORE RESPONDING

"Of course monsters are real--- one just killed my BOYFRIEND!" Her voiced raised in fear. The horrifics quickly became nightmare fuel as she saw so, so much blood before running through the woods and ended up in front of the other-- someone she trusted. It felt unreal. It was difficult to wrap her head around it when she could still feel her heart beating rapidly in her chest and the adrenaline through her veins. This was only something she'd ever seen in films and even so, not her favourite genre. She wasn't hallucinating, Erin knew that for SURE. "I just saw it with my own eyes, I swear. One second I was with Peter and the next, he was being stabbed and stabbed and even through the HEART," Her words were unusually fast-paced as she begged them to believe her. "Then they chased me and eventually disappeared. But I swear, IT was after me. Look, I even got hit, but I'm fine." She finally took her eyes off the other and looked at her bicep with the small gash on full display, as the pain began.

[iplaywithstring]

It's also important to note that even when CBT is shown to be useful, there is no clear mechanism for why it is useful. It might be the exercises, it might be the relationship with the cousellor, it might be that having space to understand and reflect on the problem would have helped with any intervention.

CBT is sort of treated like the Tylenol of psychological interventions, but it is not the only option and it's not the best option. People who act like CBT is a cure all are wrong.

I recently had to do a project in one of my psych classes, and man, I knew that CBT was used for every little thing, but seeing over and over, "do CBT! CBT is the best for every mental illness!" was so jarring. I'm absolutely biased because of my own experiences, but I just don't think it's as universal a treatment model as it's touted.

If you didn't benefit from CBT, it's not because you're lazy or didn't try hard enough or lacked intelligence or foresight into your own needs. Frankly, it's a therapy model that (I think) shouldn't be the only readily-accessible model and among the only therapy models covered by insurance. Some of us should not be treated in a CBT model and that's okay. It's not a sign of poor character or unreasonable demands, and if you don't think it's a model that works for you, then it's your right to express that!

[redwinesupercvnt]

hey im sorry i ghosted you a while ago...

i just was still working out tumblr and my cousellor didnt really want me to dm people and told me to block you

sorry again

it's okay i was just worried i bothered you lol

i get it but if you ever want to talk you can always message me <3

[storytimewithnova]

Military husband angst/hurt comfort

It was never easy for suna don’t get me wrong he’s happily married and has a lovely daughter but married life for him isn’t as easy as you expect it to be. how is being married to a wife who was always away.I do not just simply mean like on business trips and then she will be back again No she is away somewhere, where well that info is classified why because she’s in the military first Lieutenant delta squad

So you can see why suna is always on edge and why married life isn’t easy for him he is always wondering when he will receive that one call he never wants to hear and it was that said call he was going to receive what scares him most was how he was going to tell his little girl

Like seriously how do you tell a 4 year old when she asks when mommy is coming home sorry sweetie mommy won’t come back what do you tell her she’s gone to grandma to play with the angels how do you expect a four-year-old to understand their mommy is dead she was K.I.A (Killed in action)

You can’t because that is something you can’t expect a four year old to understand but this is it the moment he had been dreading where he is going to have that talk and he is not even remotely prepared for it how does he know he is getting a call something in him told him his sunshine is no longer shining and as if on cue the phone rang And suna picked up 

Manor Kells 📞Hello is this Mr Suna 

Suna:📞it is

Major Kells:📞i am major shino kells of your wifes regiment calling to tell you Suna Shoya was K.I.A  we are very sorry sir 

Suna:📞Somehow I had a feeling I was gonna get this call today now i have to figure  out how to tell our four year old mommy ain’t coming home

Major Kells:📞again very sorry sir would you like our family Grief counsellor to come and help you tell your little girl it might be a weight off your mind as well and they can stay with you as long as you need them 

Suna:📞it more shiloh i am worried about how someone so young is going to handle this it’s her first death and it’s her mommy 

Major Kells:📞 then we will send that grief counsellor around as soon as possible have a good day sir and our condolences once again

They sent the grief cousellor to the suna residence

Knocks

Suna opens the door

 helena:Mr suna i am the Greif Counsellor my name is Helena

Suna:Hello coming please 

Shiloh:Daddy whose this?

Suna:She worked with mommy princess

Shiloh:🤩really where is mommy?

Helena:Oh sweetie mommy is with some angels now she got badly hurt and we are sorry we couldn’t help her anymore than we did the Injuries were too severe

Shiloh:Mommy is with Ganny?

Suna:Yes sweetie and she can give granny a big hug from you

Sho’s spirt:But i am always with you my little Shi ♥️

Shiloh: But she is safe with ganny no more going to bad places?

Helena:Thats right hun

Shiloh:But mommy promised she will always be with me 

Suna:And she is princess in here 

Suna points to shiloh’s heart 

Helena:And i will stick around as long as you need me tell you stories of how brave you mommy was she is consider hero you know

Shiloh:🥺🤩mommy is a hero plz tell me bout mommy 

Helena:Sure sweetie do you want to sit on my lap

Shiloh:Yay

Suna:Thanks for this Helena 

Helena:Its my job Mr suna what about yourself how are you coping 

Suna:I have shi she keeps me going she is the only thing i have left of Sho now 

Helena:Fair enough right young lady you want that story of mommy 

Shiloh:Yay 

Sho:Thanks Helena you’re a real friend please keep my Little Shi smiling 

Helena:So you want to know how your mommy is a hero right 

Shiloh:Uh-uh

Helena:Well then ite because she called someone away from a landmine Field

Shiloh:Whats that?

Suna:They’re explosives honey

Shiloh:And mommy save someone

Helena:Yep she was only 18 youngest member of her sqaud the poor girl stepped on the mine lucky for us your mommy Knew how to diffuse it without the whole Lot of the land mines exploding all at the same time and she suggested finding a different route 

Suna:That sounds like my sho 

Spirit of sho:Couldn’t let youngest member of my squad die she was a daughter sister teen mom sorry honey if i seemed selfish

Shiloh:Mom is awesome

Helena:She was hunny and I have a feeling you’re gonna be just like her

Helena says as she boops Shiloh’s nose 

Shiloh:Daddy i’m hungy 

Suna:Sweetie you just ate

Shiloh:I’m hungy

Helena:To be fair to her mr Suna it is getting near lunch Should I prepare something for us.

Suna:Sure 

Shiloh:Miss helena do you have more stories of mommy

Helena:Sure do honey but lets eat first

Shiloh:Otay

Suna:Its Okay sweetie mom would be correcting you

Shiloh:My bad

Suna:Its I’m bad sweetie

Shiloh:🤷🏼‍♀️

Helena:You have got your mommy’s sas

Suna:Tell me bout Actually don’t

They finished eating their lunch

Shiloh:Can you tell another story now Miss Helena

Helena:I don’t see why not would you like to know a story of your mommy helping to heal an injured horse

Suna:Sounds like her

Helena:Not only was your mommy a good soldier she did veterinary because we needed a vet and your mom volunteered

Shiloh:🤩

Helena:I take that as a yes

Shiloh nods

Helena:Okay well while everyone was fighting the bad guys your mommy came a crossed a horse that the bad guys injured now the trap was set by the bad guys and it was  Set up to hurt one of your mommy’s squad but the horse got it, it broke its leg so when your mommy freed it she make sure her squad was busy distracting the bad guys and brought the horse over to our side to heal it and make it better

Shiloh:Poor horsie it's otay right?

Helena:Yes she is fine in doing what she did we would of never found out the horse was expecting a baby 

Shiloh:Awww a pony

Helena:Yes shi so in doing what she did she saved mom and foal

Shiloh:Mommy really is a hero

Suna:Yes sweetie to humans and animals 

Shiloh:And me 

Helena:Right miss nap time me and your daddy need to talk

Shiloh:Aww i want more stories 

Helena:Maybe later nap

Shiloh:Otay

Suna put shiloh to bed

Suna:Thanks for that she Seems more accepting of the news than me but I think it’s because of the stories you’re telling her

Helena:They are all true Mr Suna 

Spirt of sho:This is why your the number one grief counsellor

Helena:But i must say Mr Suna you really need to maybe book time with me don’t get me wrong I love spending time with Shiloh but I’ve seen the way you are coping with the death of sho I must admit I do not like your coping methods they are not healthy

Suna:I figured as long as I don’t do around my daughter like a good parent I can get away with it and it mellows me out

Helena:Mr Suna you in the first stage of grief or you are at least coming up to the first stage of grief Which is denial

Suna:Yeah I will admit I want to deny the fact my wife is dead there have been times i would get because i wanted to see her I wanted to head her voice and at the moment I want to say all this is a horrible dream and she’s right next to me in bed and we are cuddling our daughter

Helena:Go through the stages of grief that is a natural process it’s the way you’re going about it that is what is unhealthy I’m sorry but I’m gonna have to call you out on getting high just so you can see and hear sho

Spirit of sho:But i am right here i can hear you my love and i must say i agree with Helena

Suna:But like i said its not me i am worried about its shiloh

Helena:You said it yourself she is coping better than you but please don’t bottle up your emotions 

Shiloh:Mommy mommy the monster coming monster coming 

Suna:Honey honey there is no monster 

Shiloh:You promise 

Suna:Promise punkin

Shiloh:Can miss helena tell another story

Helena:Sure sweetie so oh here’s a cute one story your mommy delievered a baby of one of her sqaud members 

Suna:wait she did?

Suna asked as he sat down actually wanting to list to this story 

Helena:Yes she did and she delieved a beautiful baby boy in the middle of a battle feild

Suna:🥲🥺❤️

Shiloh:Daddy you crying

Suna:No i’m okay 

Helena:You can cry Mr suna

Suna:Not infront of my daughter

Shiloh hugged her dad and said 

Shiloh:Its okay daddy you can cry mommy would want you to please daddy i can see you are hurting 

Suna:Princess when did you become so smart

She had Always been smart while helena watched them waiting to continue the story Shiloh carried on hugging her dad and he just let his tears flow 

Spirit of sho:Thats my girl you did well my little sunflower take care of daddy for me

Shiloh: Always mommy 

Spirit of sho:👋🏻😇

Shiloh:Bye mommy

Suna:Princess?!

Shiloh:Just talking to mommy she wanted me to look after you 

Suna:Sounds like your mother

Time skip and helena is now gone 

Suna is dating again and shiloh actually likes him but they made sure to not forget about shoya

Osamu:Pincess time for school

Shiloh:Okay dad

Suna:Are you driving Shi today Samu 

Osamu:Yes love 

Suna:Thanks 

Shiloh:Dad daddy can we go to mommy’s grave after school

Osamu:Of course sweetheart

Suna:Sure sweetie 

Osamu:Love you need to finish you Grief Couselling 

Suna:I know love i will 

Shiloh:Please daddy dad is  right you need to see miss helena then...oh shoot dad we need to go i will be late 

Osamu:Okay lets go princess

They both kissed Rin and ran to the car

Sorry another time skip rin finished his Greif counselling Shilioh is on a date with her boyfriend much to her dad’s disapproval #overprotectiveperents and they as in her and her dads went to her moms grave checking in say how much they miss her and rin saying he still loved her then went home and carried on their day with Shiloh asking for help on her project 

Osamu:I’ll help you princess

 Shiloh: Thanks dad 

Osamu:Oh course sweetie

Rin watched his family lovingly

Shiloh:Daddy can i ask a question 

Suna:Sure sweetie 

Shiloh:Can i have a baby brother

Suna spat out his drink

Suna:I mean what do you think love 

Osamu:I don’t see why not 

They went to an ophenage and shiloh ran straight to a little boy

Shiloh:Hey whats you name?

Shoyo:my name Shoyo

Shiloh:Would you like a big sister Sho

Shoyo:🤩

Shiloh:Come on then i am now your big sister

Shoyo:Okay Nee san

Shiloh:Dad daddy i found my brother 

Shi came out with a boy

Suna:Hey what’s your name

Shoyo:Shoyo am i going home with you and Nee san

Osamu:If you want to bud 

Shoyo:🥺please.

Suna:Then sunshine yes shi come here

Shiloh:Yes daddy?!

Suna:Did you pick him because he looked like mommy 

Shiloh:Busted

Suna:Shi you sly little  fox

Shiloh:😝

Shoyo went home with His new family and now suna somehow felt like his family was complete and he found his missing peice and the peice was miss maybe his wife but he got a mini version of her in shoyo

end

[yisum]

【對壞心情保持好，而不是評判。】via nickwignall 試著暫停你判斷和批評的習慣，問自己幾個簡單的問題： 事實是什麼？究竟是什麼導致了這種糟糕的情緒？誰？什麼？什麼時候？在哪裡？如何？ 我的情緒試圖告訴我什麼？ 與其將痛苦的情緒視為需要消滅的病毒，不如嘗試將它們視為需要傾聽的使者。 我的故事是什麼？ 思想產生情緒。這意味著，如果您正在消除許多困難的情緒和情緒，那麼根���在於您的思維方式——即您給自己講的故事。特別注意您可能有的任何期望。 我真正想要什麼？ 面對強烈的情緒，很容易做出反應——我們只是做一些有希望讓我們感覺更好的事情。但從長遠來看，如果你的行為符合你的價值觀——你真正想要的東西，而不僅僅是讓你暫時感覺良好的東西，你最終會感覺好得多。

[all-the-fic-recs]

If I may add on:

Your cousellor/advisor may not be kind of useless, even if they don't hate you. You need to go through your requirements for your program and map out a rough template for all four years of what you'll take which year/semester. This will give you a starting point when its time to meet with them and pick next semester's classes.

Also, do not wait until your last two years to take the classes for your major, spread them out. My preference (for when I went as an adult, and when helping both my kids) is to divide classes up into "easy for me" and "hard for me." Take two easy and two hard classes a semester, do not load up on either, because you will regret it later.

Work ahead whenever possible. At some point you will have a massive project due, or a major exam for a class that's not one of your strong subjects and you will be so much happier knowing that you're ahead in the other classes and can focus on this one for a bit.

Don't fall for the trap of "I know this already, I don't need to pay attention" feeling that may happen the first week or two. Remember, everyone is coming from a different educational background and just because your school was good and/or taught this shit, doesn't mean other schools did. Once the prof has an understanding of where you all are really, the real teaching begins and if you're feeling cocky about what you know, you'll fall behind real quick.

Try things you'd never thought you'd like, you never know who you'll meet or if you'll like it.

Go to at least one sportsball game and let yourself get caught up in the crowd's enthusiasm.

Take advantage of on-campus programs. For example, my daughter's college has an auto program, and they'll work on student cars for free labor, you just pay the cost of parts.

Do your best, but recognize your best can and will vary by day. If you have to take a test with a migraine, you do the best you can on that test while having a migraine. Will it best the absolute best you could do if everything were perfect? No, of course not, but it was the best you could do with a migraine. Don't obsess over it.

Above all, don't forget to live and experience things.

I know it’s been a bit since you were in school, but as someone who is about to go to university, do you have any tips?

It is such a huge privilege when someone your age asks an Old like me for advice. When I was young, I thought dudes in their 50s were lame and had nothing to offer. Now that I'm one of those dudes, I understand what a gift it is when you ask me to share my experience. I hope this helps you a little bit.

Make time to meet your professors during their office hours.

You don't have to go have a deep conversation, just introduce yourself, tell them which class you are in, and thank them for their time.

You're doing this because there will be a time in your future when you need an extra day for something, or a little extra help or attention, or something like that. When you go to talk to your professor about that, it won't be the first time you've met them, and that will make a difference.

That's on an academic level. On a personal level, you're going to spend a LOT of the next few years figuring out who you are, what your values are, and how you want to live your life. Most of us try to be someone profoundly different from who we are, in our first year or two, because we're on our own and trying out what it feels like to be an adult. The thing I want you to just remember while you do that is: you know who your are in your heart, and if you try to not be that person, you will draw people to you who don't like *you* as much as they like who you are pretending to be.

It's a long way of saying "be true to yourself. Know what your values are and live them consistently, so you find other people who share them."

Finally, the advice I give everyone who asks me questions like yours:

Choose to be kind.

Choose to be honest.

Choose to be honorable.

Choose to do your best and understand that your best will vary from day to day. Don't judge yourself when your best on Monday is not the same as it was last Thursday. Just do your best, consistently.

You're at the beginning of a really great time in your life. I hope you get everything you want out of it, enjoy learning, and make life long friends.

[magicalgirlbeth-blog]

Wait, I’m posting comics on Monday now? Yes…I think, maybe lol I’ll try uploading comics on Mondays until the end of the semester and see how that goes. In the meantime while I suffer, here’s something #wholesome. #cute #adorable #cousellor #mentalhealth #sweet #lgbt #trans #webcomic #transartist https://www.instagram.com/bethaniaarts/p/Bqp5JRpHZdd/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=7fhphd542b4a

[windrelyn]

Some cute Glorestor :)

[chawlajitin]

Career Counselling for Class 10 Students

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[cranberrykissel]

me after realising i've a bunch of annoying stims like running around the house for no reason, clapping hands, scratching my back etc. and also an attention span that makes studying, watching any vid longer than 20mins impossible: mom, have you ever considered that i might have adhd?

mom: no. why?

[queenoats]

configuring machine code > making a carrd

[random-thot-generator]

Tired of these thieving camp cousellors raiding my crop & screwing in my lake cabana!