#coping with a breakup
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Breaking up with a loved one can be a challenging and emotionally overwhelming experience. It’s important to acknowledge and understand the different stages of grief that accompany a breakup. In this article, we will explore the seven stages of grief after a breakup and provide valuable tips to help you navigate through this difficult time.
#breakup stages#stages of grief after breakup#healing after breakup#getting over a breakup#coping with a breakup#emotional healing#breakup recovery#moving on after a breakup#dealing with heartbreak#tips for getting over a breakup
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𝐏𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄
sanji x reader warnings: kind of angsty? but also kind of fluff?
a/n: this is so vague but i just felt like writing
Sanji gently embraces you as salty tears stream down your face. You felt your face warm up.
He softly rubs circles into your back and kisses your head.
“I’m sorry Sanji, I should’ve listened to you…”
He shushes you, “It’s okay. I waited for you and now I’m able to get what I wanted.”
You sniffle and slowly raise your head, staring into his eyes. The kind, tender love that engulfed his view of you was overwhelmingly calming. He showed you an immense amount of love that no one else ever could. It took you far too long to realize, though.
After going back to your ex so many times, his feelings never came to light. Although, that night made you realize just how much he truly loved you.
“I should’ve seen it sooner, I’m sorry,”
He simply stays silent. He wipes away the tears that fall down your face and smiles at you. His soft, sweet grin that took over your heart, palpitating faster.
The room is silent for a bit. The soft pattering of the rain outside is audible yet so quiet. Inside, the wood creaks from the movement of the ship.
Your eyes glimmer with more water as it makes its way down, from the corners of your eyes only to meet at the tip of your chin.
“Please don’t cry, this isn’t your fault.”
“It is-“
“No, it isn’t. Love clouds the mind.”
You place your hands on his chest and gently grab his shirt. Your tears stain his clothing, seeping through to his skin.
“Don’t cry, I beg of you.”
But you couldn’t stop it. They just kept coming, falling further down your face to the floor. You buried your face into his shirt and sobbed.
Sanji couldn’t handle the pain. Seeing you in such agony was torture. He tightly hugged you once more, placing his hand behind your head and kissed your forehead.
In an attempt to comfort you, he grabbed your wrist and led you to a nearby couch. Sanji sat and, with his free hand, patted the spot next to him, asking you to sit with him.
You pushed a strand of hair away from your face and bent to sit down. Sanji grabs your hand and interlocking your fingers with his, pulling you onto him. He lifts his legs to comfortably lay down next to you.
"You are all I was waiting for, this whole time. Don't apologize."
But you couldn't stop it. They just kept coming, falling like an infinite fountain that never ceases to produce flowing water. You bury your face in the hollow of his neck.
You sob and cry like no end; and so does Sanji. He pulls you in closer and closes his eyes, hoping that his love will be enough to subdue your sadness, your tears.
The blissful moment of peace as the two of you cry in sync was a symbol of tender love, and you never want to let go of it.
Now, the quiet was replaced by a compassionate aura. It was soul pleasing and quite infectious.
The entire ship was taken over by a wave of peace as everyone took a deep sigh in their sleep.
You fell asleep, breathing softly as Sanji wipes the tear streaks away from your face. He closes his eyes and breathes out contently.
"I'll love you forever, even when I can't, mon amour."
END! SORRY ITS KIND OF BAD I WA SJUST EAGER TO WRITE SOMETHING CAUSE SOME SHIT HAPPENED BUT YEA ENJOY MY LOVELIES :3 (edit: this oneshot is so so so vague i kind of hate it)
#sanji#vinsmoke family#op sanji#one piece#sanji x reader#sanji x y/n#sanji x you#its my break up and i get to choose the coping mechanism#coping with a breakup#i need this like i need air#i want sanji#sanji is so fine#i still love him#im never going to recover#im so silly
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↳ endless gifs of lena luthor ✰ 86/∞
Katie McGrath as Lena Luthor in Supergirl ⪼ 5.14, "The Bodyguard"
#sorry ms mcgrath for making you look jaundiced#i have not made gifs in a while... and i'm lazy to fix it#let's just pretend that lena got a bad spray tan to cope with her breakup with kara#endless lenas#lena luthor#katie mcgrath#supergirl#supergirledit#dcladies#dcedit#dctvedit#tv#tvedit#tvgif#tvgifs#gifsbymisa
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I believe in love because they exist (points at 100% fictional couple)
#thoughts#Humor#Writing#writing tropes#character development#otp#otp prompts#imagine your otp#Daydreaming#Escapism#coping mechanism#Posts#By me#dating#breakup#heartache#heartbreak#Irony
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was it casual when the last time you met your best friend you were trying to kill him, you really killed him years later and now you met him once again, but this is not him (just his body), this time his soul was trying to save you.
isn't it ironically beautiful.
#stsg yearning#satosugu#was it just casual?#jujutsu kaisen#jjk#gojo satoru#geto suguru#i am so sad rn just wanna write something in my mind#yearning is coping mechanism#girlblogging#which could mean nothing#kfc breakup#writing
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breakup songs
tags: fluff! (I promise), established relationship, taylor swift songs
"cause i was there when you said forever and always...you didn't mean it baby," you sang passionately with the car's radio. "i don't think-"
the music stopped suddenly. "i don't like this song," sae itoshi grumbled. "pick something else."
you frowned, turning in your seat to face your long term boyfriend. like a good driver, he kept his eyes on the road, expression passive.
"but i like it," you huffed. "and you said i get aux privileges for the next week."
bright teal eyes flicked over you for a moment. "no."
your jaw dropped. "sae! at least tell me why."
"just pick a new song, y/n." his fingers tapped a steady rhythm on the steering wheel. "or i'll do it for you."
pouting, you opened your spotify. "stupid football players and their stupid egos. so used to getting everything they want," you mumbled.
sae ignored your complaints.
"you better like this one."
for the nth time that day, taylor swift's oh so familiar voices leaked through from the high quality speakers all around the car:
"once upon a time, a few mistakes ago-"
sae's hand jumped up to hit the power button. "we're going in silence."
you sputtered nonsensically. "it's another hour until our destination! what's wrong with my music?"
he opened his mouth and closed it. as you fired at him, sae itoshi shrugged silently.
you leaned back into the leather seats, crossing your arms. you couldn't understand why sae was being so shifty. it's not like he had ever minded your music choices before.
in fact, the pro football player had always let you belt out any song you wished, even joining in with enough pleading. it was only in the past week or so that he'd been more annoyed.
frowning, you chewed on your lip nervously. this wasn't a good sign, was it? maybe sae had finally gotten sick of you- found someone better.
you saw him glance at you again. avoiding any eye contact, you turned your gaze toward your hands.
god, when was the last time you had gotten your nails done? your previous polish - a reddish color that matched sae's hair - was chipping from all sides already. you almost frantically picked at the peeling paint.
"y/n," sae's voice was steady. "leave your nails alone."
you jumped, head snapping towards him. "huh?"
he raised one eyebrow, pointedly staring at your hands.
you reddened. "it's not a big deal- keep your eyes on the road. pretend i'm not here or something."
with a narrowing of his eyes, sae turned back to the road.
it was another three miles before you heard him sigh.
"they're breakup songs," sae muttered quietly.
"what?"
the light in front of them flashed red. with another sigh, sae turned his upper body toward you.
"your music. they're always breakup songs now. that's why i don't like them."
you gaped at him, feeling way too much like a goldfish. "what?"
he stared at you. anyone would have assumed he was as indifferent as ever, but you could see that hint of red climbing up his neck.
sae itoshi was embarrassed.
"you're kidding!" you blurted, grinning like a maniac.
he immediately turned his attention back towards the road, but even he couldn't hide the twitch of his lips.
"you're sad because i sing breakup songs?" you managed out past your laughs. "sae, that's so cute!"
"and now i take it all back," he mumbled.
you leaned towards him suddenly, landing a kiss right onto his cheek. sae cursed, car swerving slightly.
"y/n, what-"
"i love you," you said breathlessly, effectively shutting him up. "and i would never break up with you, no matter what taylor swift says."
he snorted. when he replied, his voice was soft all the same. "i love you too."
"...can i have my music back now?"
sae groaned, but there were no complaints as you eagerly tapped through your phone once again.
"we can leave the christmas lights up till january..."
reblogs & feedback appreciated!!
#blue lock#itoshi sae x reader#sae itoshi x reader#blue lock x reader#blue lock fluff#this is so self indulgent tbh#my way of coping with Taylor breakup#hydrobunny
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ah yes, best friends. the tag team consisting of chuck taylor and orange cassidy. and absolutely nobody else. just the two of them. only them.
#i feel like there's enough pics of just them together to gaslight trent out of existence#this is how im coping with the breakup#aew#all elite wrestling#aew dynamite#best friends#chuck taylor#orange cassidy#trent beretta
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anxienn lines
#anxienn#inside out#io2#anxiety inside out#ennui inside out#inside out 2#im recovering from an extremely recent breakup from my 3 yr relationship and am taking solace in lil gay bitches#im coping#my art
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it's sad bitch hours for me 24/7 lately and I'm resorting to quick messy drawings of fictional gays
#im going thru a really ugly falling out with a good friend of 5 years#doodling breakup era gentlebeard is the only way i can cope without killing someone#I've been also listening to creatures of habit by kiltro non stop#PLEASE PLEASE listen to creatures of habit by kiltro its so them coded#maritime melancholy all the way#edward teach#blackbeard#stede bonnet#gentlebeard#blackbonnet#our flag means death#ofmd#ellis.png
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Dan and Herbert are both married and divorced no I cannot elaborate
#like just the vibes give a couple who hate each other and probably broke up a billion times#but also kinda have sunk cost fallacy from being together for so long and the shit they helped each other through during that time#that they’re so codependent and cannot handle being away from each other post breakup very long#like even if this thing they have the detrimental to them both and they’re probably both way better off without each other#they just..can’t bring themselves to do it long enough for it to make a difference#once the whole “fuck them I was way out of their league I’m better off without them fucking and parting to cope#thing wears off they have to run back to each other#reanimator#herbert west#dan cain#bride of reanimator#danbert
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Isaac: Nigel, say aluminum again. It's the entire source of my serotonin during these trying times. Nigel: *sigh* Only for you, buddy. Alyoouminnieeum.
#doing this to cope with the breakup#ghosts season 3#cbs ghosts#ghosts#ghosts incorrect quotes#ghosts cbs#isaac higgintoot#nigel chessum
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Fun fact of the day, the soundtrack/background music in the scenes where Fang Duobing and Li Lianhua breakup after his identity reveal, and the scene where Li Lianhua writes his letter and is implied to have died shortly after, is the exact same. Even more fun tidbit, that soundtrack is called 世上再無李相夷 (Li Xiangyi is no more in this world).
So fanghua nation how are we feeling about fdb saying "Li Lianhua.... No, I should call you Li Xiangyi now." during a scene where the soundtrack is literally called Li Xiangyi is no more in this world?
#mysterious lotus casebook#li lianhua#li xiangyi#lian hua lou#fang duobing#Fanghua#Mlc soundtrack#How sane am I about this no#Look if my discord acc is still dead rn I need to cope#Cheng yi's face in the entire breakup scene was screaming I'm not him I'm not lxy and I don't want to be him anymore#Who am I to waste that particular acting choice especially when it's so well executed
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who among us hasn't gone full goth and joined an underground fighting ring post breakup
#arcane season 2#arcane spoilers#vi arcane#I know I'm on the wrong team but jfc#healthy coping skills#having a normal one#post breakup tips#don't know how to make gifs sorry
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everyone talking about how pathetic it was that louis n armand only got together because of the lestat of it all and like uwu daniel armand soulmates but be so forreal now daniel n armand are getting together because of the LOUIS of it all. its all they talk about in bed for like a decade.
#AND IM GOING TO EAT THAT SHIT UP!!!#toxic mutual dehumanization addiction and unhealthy coping ass relationship that i hope gets translated from dm#also in the books don’t they breakup as soon as dannys a vamp because THATS what he loved bout armand?#interested how they’ll play it in the show. maybe love of armands relative power?#armand#iwtv#daniel molloy#louis de pointe du lac#loumand#loudaniel#devils minion
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Gentaro gets a surprise from his posse
(Was bored and decided to finally draw this screenshot from a spongebob episode. I think it fits posse so much. Definitely ramuda’s idea and dice had no problem following it)
#I’m so sorry if this is cursed😭#is it gens birthday? no. did i still draw it anyways yes#also this took me longer than it should have#I think this is the cutest I’ve ever drawn ramuda before though🫶#hypnosis mic#hypnosis microphone#fling posse#ramuda amemura#gentaro yumeno#dice arisugawa#this is how I cope with a breakup#by drawing 3 silly men
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lister bird the type of guy to self sabotage when a relationship is going too well because he has a chronic fear of commitment and and abandonment issues 🫶
#lister bpd rambling in tags okok so.#stems from the childhood neglect and adults being generally Strange with him#hes like okay so do you actually like me kr do u just want to sleep with me lol#and then when he gets the answer he wants hes like okay well thats funny bcus ur lying to me rn and want me dead#i think jimmy would eventually pick up on the pattern after they go through like. A good few breakups and be like haha heyyy so mayb we ++#shuld go talk ur psychiatrist abt this bcus it has a name lol#and listers like well fuck me (not literally) and gets some well deserved dbt#n at this point hopefully their smart enough to knowthey shouldnt try again until lister sorta understand what this all means for him#and gets some hashtag health coping mechanisms going#but ofc theyre still bros so jimmy + rowan b supporting him in the bg too i lobe them their so silly#iwbft#lister bird#bicci
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