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Bouncing off of that Anon that was like "my abuser was a trans man, so I hate all trans men"
I'm a trans man. I was sexually harassed and assaulted by a trans fem for three years. Am I phobic to trans fems/women?
Fuck no!!!
I've also been abused and assaulted by cis men and women of all sorts of sexualities
Am I phobic to them and who they are?
Once more: Fuck no!!!
An abuser is an abuser, yes, but their gender/sex/sexuality/etc isn't the reason they are an abuser. It's their mentality, for lack of better words
As for less reporting on trans men and assault, I also feel that it's particularly caused by toxic masculinity (mixed with the seen as cis women thing)
It's like a fucked up cycle of "I can't say this, I'm 'supposed to be a man'", and "you're a woman, suck an egg" (if my wording makes sense)
Hell, when I told my abusers' parents, I was told I was "too smart of a girl to have this happen"
HUH???
Being hurt by one/a few isn't a reason to hate all and be phobic or hateful. If that was the case, why aren't there people who hate everyone who dared to have a kid, good or bad? Or people who hate every single math or history teacher in the world?
i'm sorry you've been through this, but i appreciate you sharing your experience with this. you deserve to be heard
i have also been abused at the hands of trans women and transfemmes and yet i don't hate either of those identities at all. i dislike the actions of individual people who are assholes. that's a very reasonable thing to do. saying that all trans women and transfemmes are abusive assholes and that it's okay to hate them would be career ending. you'd get chased off of every platform under the sun.
why's it okay to do that to trans men?
As for less reporting on trans men and assault, I also feel that it's particularly caused by toxic masculinity (mixed with the seen as cis women thing) It's like a fucked up cycle of "I can't say this, I'm 'supposed to be a man'", and "you're a woman, suck an egg" (if my wording makes sense) Hell, when I told my abusers' parents, I was told I was "too smart of a girl to have this happen"
it blows my mind when people think that just because there are not great police statistics (where'd your ACAB go...?) on violence against transmasculine people that means it just doesn't happen at all. literally where'd your ACAB go? that's an appeal to authority. you are appealing to the cops. you are, suddenly, for some reason, flipflopping and seeing them as a trustworthy resource. this is a double standard. this is shifting the goalposts
trans mascs and men are almost always reported on as women if the crimes we face are reported on. most of the time it's not worth going through the trouble to report it because nothing will ever be done about it. you need a lot of evidence in order to convict someone of a crime like that and more often than not people will try their hardest to discredit whatever evidence the trans man/masc does have because they are being viewed as a cis woman, and thus, incompetent. most people who face violence never report the crime. you can't suddenly treat police data like it's the end all be all of lived experiences
other people will assert that these things can't happen to trans men because they can't happen to men at all, which is a perfect shining example of radfem logic at its finest. there's no other way to say it. men can be hurt and abused. women can be abusive and dangerous. this is not new. silencing trans men who have suffered violence for the sake of talking about yourself isn't helping people understand you better
so many trans men deal with homelessness/housing insecurity, poverty, physical and sexual assault, murder, abuse of all kinds especially mental and emotional, being objectified and forcefully viewed as women, corrective rape, sex trafficking, job insecurity, disability, neurodivergence, mental illness, substance abuse, incarceration, and so many other problems. all trans people face these problems in distinct ways. but they affect us all. we can't silence one part of this conversation for no reason other than to be petty and bitter.
i'm sorry you've had all these experiences, but thank you for sharing. the only way we can help people understand is if we talk about it in earnest. no more hiding. this has gotten more than out of control
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I am absolutely begging tenderqueers to stop playing ‘find the fetishizer’ when engaging with queer content. No one cares if it makes you wonder, no one cares if you’re ‘just asking questions’. Stop acting like cops trying to root out the ‘bad representation’ just stop. All you do is give ammo to the queerphobes who need the right language to be phobic. Stop interrogating queer creators on their identities. I don’t care if you think femme men are being made into The Woman who Bottoms and is Submissive that is your fucking problem stop making it an issue you want to solve you are making feminine queer men in fandom spaces feel alienated and like you think they are gross or something.
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happy pride. remember that first and foremost, queer pride is radical anti-fascism. you don’t belong at pride if you are against the liberation of all oppressed peoples.
You’re bisexual but think cops are a force of good and that Black lives, that Indigenous and Latino lives, that disabled and impoverished and even other queer lives are therefore expendable? Pride doesn’t want you.
You’re trans but think religion is a universally evil force and harass every Jewish person and Hijabi you see at pride just because YOU had a bad experience with your religion? Pride doesn’t want you.
You’re a lesbian but you think trans women are just misogynists and trans men are just women who want to escape the patriarchy? Boo hoo crybaby, Pride doesn’t want you.
You’re a gay man but you enforce racist and fat phobic body standards in your own community? Pride doesn’t FUCKING want you!
If you don’t stand with ALL marginalized people, you stand with none of us. you can don your rainbows and shout love is love all you want but if you don’t give a fuck about people who are even a little different than you, who dare to live their lives outside the box you’ve made your home, then get the fuck out of pride.
otherwise, happy pride queers ily <333
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Ask game:
14. Have you seen the show live? 🤣
Not but really: 24, 25, 26.
No, never, not once, I don't know what makes you say that 😅
Now, about the real questions, honestly I think my answers fluctuate a lot :p It really depends on which version we're talking about, and sometimes who's playing the character within a single version!
24. Is Stella and Zéro's relationship real or PR?
I think I always assumed it was real! It's clear that there are ulterior motives on Zéro's part, but I think Stella probably does fall for him (or him money/power, etc.) to some extent, or maybe just fools herself into thinking she does? I don't actually think it's purely a marriage of convenience/beard situation, although it's a fun idea to play with :p Especially because of that "Moi j'suis avec toi parce que tu m'fais du bien" line 😉
25. Is Sadia a double-agent from the start or initially sincere?
That eternal one!! I think my fave headcanon is that Sadia starts as a double agent, then actually falls for Johnny/The Cause and is about to renounce Zéro, and goes back to him due to being rejected. But it's also a little bit of a cop-out because it's basically just a way to say "both!" I definitely want Sadia and Johnny to have something real though, not just a calculated thing on Sadia's part.
26. What's your headcanon about Sadia's gender?
Ahlala, same thing, I'm so easily swayed 😅 I think my most enduring headcanon about this, which doesn't actually go with the Travesti lyrics but whatever, is that if Sadia were written today she'd be a trans woman or a femme-presenting enby. I really can't get behind the idea that she's a cis woman playing at being subversive, I think that's the coward's way out :p I think this idea came from my desire to avoid the queer-phobic trap of the "predatory gay man" who's trying to trick a straight dude into liking him, or TERF-like "men are pretending to be women to infiltrate women's bathrooms" tropes. I think if Sadia's genuinely got something going on with her gender, it voids that iffyness! (I also like it when Johnny is explicitely queer, which complicates this a little because obvs a dude being with a trans woman doesn't make him queer. But I think he's queer even if Sadia is a woman :p)
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YOUR OCS. can you talk about them 😳👉👈 im intrigued by their crimes
*CLAPS MY HANDS TOGHETER* I’VE AWOKEN OK. SO. RIGHT INTO IT.
Quick rundown of the world they’re in- monsters exist!! And people have to live amongst them even though most of them are very dangerous! So anyways into the murder lesbians :]
Janette Biswar (she’s 47 and suffering/hj) or otherwise this lady:
(oh no the way the images layout lmao but the last one is done by @iersei!) She’s an unwilling cult leader with the church her mum used to run (which is a cult omg) being handed down to her basically! (she completed a rite of passage to be the leader in her teens which was murder she does not like that) And at the moment she’s trying to dismantle the cult to make it a normal cult but then Adele Beckett turns up-
This is Adele Beckett (46 and loving her life/hj)
(i don’t draw her enough and the art on the right is also done by iersei!) SHE’S A COP! (acab) She also fights the monsters in the world they’re in. Transphobic and aro-phobic btw. She gaslight gatekeep girlbosses on a regular basis. (She has a husband called Josh that she was highschool sweethearts with him- he’s transmasc so they were a sapphic couple in the early years)
Onto the actual plot- a cop and a priest walk into a bar basically. (i’m not even joking) so they both do that and they flirt things are said and done woahh (they kiss holy shit :0) They end up sleeping togheter but before that janette was like ‘heyy i’m aro-spec let me explain what that means and how i don’t do romantic relationships” and Adele is like “uh huh. definetly listening” she isn’t. she does not care at all. So basically they have a friends with benefits relationship but then Janette is like “WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU HAVE A HUSBAND” since adele is not polyamorous and did not tell Josh about it.
They split up, and don’t talk for a while until Adele’s son, Ryan, ends up being involved in a cult ritual that ends up with him getting his arm chopped off. Adele knows who did it (janette who did not agree to that ritual) and ended up getting revenge. In the form of arson. She was mostly commiting arson because she was just annoyed at Janette and a little bit for her son she isn’t a good mum. So Janette gets burnt alive and then ends up getting resurrected by weird blue spirits called Sprites that curse her with if she cuts her skin, little blue flowers and foliage burst from her skin trying to push their way out which is dangerous! So she has to stay out of town- in the woods- because everyone thinks she’s dead and she’s just planning her way to kill adele.
yeah. there is so much more lore i could go into but i will save that. for later. :D
Basically both of them have killed people and only one really regrets it (janette) okok anywayssss-
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looking at palm pals descriptions on their website has sent me down a huge like spiralling rabbit hole of wondering about what their world looks like
is it a palm pals-only world? if this is the case i would love to see what this is like. or do they live alongside humans?
multiple palm pals (ribbits frog and brittany avocado toast for example) are passionate about recycling and being eco friendly and reducing one's carbon footprint. this means there IS pollution and climate change, regardless of whatever version of earth it is that they live on
if this is a palm pals only world, i want to see the palm pals who are the CEOs of oil companies. i want to see the greedy corporate palm pals. i wanna see the corrupt politician palm pals.
if this is a humans-and-palm-pals world and humans are the ones with the oil companies and shit like irl, i wanna see what it's like for palm pals to live here. for humans to live here. charles cheeseburger and mike philly cheesesteak run a podcast together. brittany avocado toast goes to the farmer's market. this implies that palm pals have jobs and make money and buy things
i wanna see this world. i wanna see the world where palm pals go to work and get paid and buy groceries. i wanna see kelly cauliflower working at wal mart and snippy crab getting into arguments on twitter
flo watering can and terra potted plant (both she/her) are stated to be life partners, but they aren't married. either they have chosen not to get married (yet?), or it is not yet legal
in a palm pals only world, does this mean that gay marriage isn't legal yet? i wanna see the homophobic palm pals. if it's a palm pals alongside humans world, is it legal for palm pals to get married? if it's illegal i wanna see the palm-pals-phobic humans. i wanna see palm pals rights protests. i wanna see klaus heart throwing bricks at cops
i have so many more thoughts but i shall spare you all for now
-Liam i think?? kinda blurry rn
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headcanon meme: a knb character of your choice bc i've never watched them and barely knows their names sorry
character headcanon meme: HIMURO TATSUYA ❄️
sexuality headcanon
pansexual, he's def the type of a guy who wouldn't mind kissing anyone in the room. drunk or sober. he literally makes everyone question their sexuality lol
gender headcanon
cis ig? i support genderqueer tatsuya agenda tho!
a ship i have with said character
HIMUNIJI.............
tatsuya is literally the man of nijimura's dream. i'm deadly serious nijimura is so, so gay the first time he saw himuro. bro even has a gay panic the whole time. not to mention they're using a first name basis. holding hands. blushing. the entire kurobas novel replace v: stopping on the way is basically their rom-com, coming-of-age movie that takes place in los angeles california where the main character falls in love with someone he met 5 seconds ago and then something dramatic happened. himuniji's canon novel deserves its own movie, produced by a24 studio, and directed by luca guadagnino. he would love them, fight me.
also nijimura is literally equal to himuro. they're literally the same age, same height (himuro is an inch and half taller but still!!), same interest in sport (basketball and table sports), surprisingly the subject they're good at is maths, they're also equally good at fighting, like both were delinquents in their past (except himuro was WILDER lmao), both are the big brother figure esp nijimura who has younger siblings (with a sick father) and raises 7 kids at the age of fucking 15 is a former captain of generation of miracles so he acts way wiser and more mature for his age, i think whenever nijimura with himuro he could do what boys his age do. being silly. being stupid. he doesn't have to get a little caught up in the role of head of household for a while or being the big brother for his younger friends. nijimura could get his youth back with himuro. also himuro doesn't have to be angst about with nijimura since they match each other's freaks and there's no big gaps between them unlike him with kagami or murasakibara. TLDR they're so fucking funny together. they're perfect for each other.
himumibu, it's another crack pair i like. i love the idea himuro would be so protective to our canon nonbinary queen king mibuchi reo from home of phobic fuckers. they would love going to pride parade together.
a brotp i have with said character
kagami for obvious reasons. himuro is totally the best brother figure kagami has. he may feel jealous of kagami's gifted skills, but aside from basketball, he literally acts like kagami's biological brother. the way he protects him and even drags him into tatsuya's deliquency during their time in los angeles. it's very understandable kagami is so fucking crumbled when himuro said they're no longer brothers after what they did--lying to their parents, fooling the cops, biking to 32 km, going to the forest and himuro wants them to stop being brothers?? be for fucking real, tatsuya!!!! also despite himuro considers him as a rival, kagami still looks up to him. himukaga brotp ftw!!!
murasakibara, bc lbr muro-chin is murasakibara's hotter and cooler step-mom. i love the way himuro dotes on him and literally the one in yosen can handle murasakibara's childish ass. if akashi is murasakibara's og mom who's strict but is actually so fond of him, then himuro as a step-mom spoils him even more to get his attention. himuro is the #1 murasakibara's chips supplier atp
alex, she's like the mom of himuro and kagami.
wei liu, foreigners duo. i always hc himuro is still not familiar with japanese culture and speaks broken japanese despite him being a literal japanese and whenever himuro and liu have a chat, they sometimes get lost in translation. liu also would teach himuro swear/dirty words in chinese.
takao, they def would form a band, doing a bunch of covers of emo bands.
mayuzumi, they never interact in canon universe, but since they're in fujimaki's dream team, i think they would be good friends (since himuro's personality isn't that annoying and mayuzumi can tolerate a person like him)
a notp i have with said character
not really have one..... but im quite not fond of murahimu romantically.
a random headcanon
at this point i believe himuro's parents sent him to a catholic school in akita (literally from a warm place to a cold place how much himuros parents have to punish him 😭) bc each day he strays further from god in los angeles lol like himuro literally picks a fight with guys who are much bigger than him on daily basis, canonically gets along with people from underworld, probably has smoked blunt and drunk alcohol despite being a minor, has fake ids/drivers lisence, makeout sessions every weekend and probably he's the person nijimura lost his virginity to......... also himuro fucks a boy in the ass or any sin he commits while a crucifix and mother mary's statue in his room watching him
also maybe he speaks english in californian accent and misses in-n-out burgers on a regular basis hes just basically a los angeles dude walking streotype lol
general opinion over said character
himuro tatsuya is basically if takasugi shinsuke (and ive's wonyoung) could play basketball, speak english, was a californian, and tall (even taller than tatsuma). he's the inspiration of taylor swift "he's so tall, handsome as hell. he's so bad, but he does it so well." he's the menace. beautiful menace.
in case you need a reference what himuro tatsuya looks like

#im forever pissed fujimaki really did him dirty in the series#the way he did kise dirty but even worse.....he seemed hating visually attractive characters lol#like himuro is the best example for people with ordinary talent who's achieved high level and skill in basketball#kiseki no sedai skills are beyond crazy it's like implying hard work will never win against the true prodigies#fuck zone or whatever himuro got jesus tho hallelujah#sorry i didn't mean to write this long i just got carried away 😭#and thank you for the ask!!#tamanone#ask
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I wish dunking on cops and corpo simps and fashy losers didn't end up being super fat phobic all the fuckin time
#not peach#ik we all grew up on cop donut jokes but maybe we should stop taking that as synonymous with heart health
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3. screenshot or description of the worst take you've seen on tumblr
startin out rlly swingin' ok... well lotta rlly shit takes out there so it's hard to pick just one. i def dont have any screenshots of anything... pickin' one at random is just like anyone callin Neji horrible or abusive for kickin the crap outta Hinata in their match in the prelims of the Chuunins. like 1. designated match; 2. she was literally goading him about his literally enslavement????????? like anyone who wanna cop for hinata is already someone imma side eye cause for all that she goes through from her dad she never actually suffers from the caste system itself and being 12 doesnt excuse her goading him when she knows damn well what shes doin; 3. the girl would not stop cause of stupid ass naruto, so like yeah she got her ass beat and then everyone and their mother jumped in to protect her but only Gai stepped in to keep Gaara from straight up killing Lee like the double standards. like pls tell me you have no concept of slavery without telling me you got no concept of it... prolly watch movies about white women in the south during the civil war and empathize with them too cause their husband or dad beat them
7. what character did you begin to hate not because of canon but because how how the fandom acts about them?
i dont know if there is a character i started to hate causa fandom? like i keep to myself and to my focus, and i generally like what i like and dislike what i dislike on its own merit. genuinely i cant think of a single character where im like yeah the fandom has made me despise them. like if i hated a character, i already hated them.
i think if there was anything i could say i developed a hatred for because of the fandom itd be like n*r*gaa but i still like hate that ship on my own too.
8. common fandom opinion that everyone is wrong about
rlly swingin' a bat i havent swung in a minute but or*ch*m*r* is not a trans icon. he's a homophobic and transmisogynistic caricature and tme ppl are quick to disregard that and deny whats textual about this character's preying on children because it doesnt impact them. lack of critical engagement from fandoms has rlly done a number on the way ppl view this character because back in the day we all knew what was up with him re sasuke and didnt need our hands held to know he a predator in multiple ways and that is rooted in the aforemented -phobic caricature-ness. ppl do the same shit with like bugs bunny where it's like no this character was not a queer icon, this character was doin this shit as a joke and ppl need to learn how to differentiate harmful shit from the shit that's in good fun/genuine
and lord if someone tries to send me anon hate about this like they used to just kno you wastin your breath cause i aint gonna give you the time of day
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Reviews: Homophobic Cop Marries Gay Ghost, President’s Son Gets Together with Prince
Recently watched 2 movies with gay main characters in different genres. One was Red, White & Royal Blue (available on Amazon), one was 🌟 Marry My Dead Body 关于我和鬼变成家人的那件事 (available on Netflix). Spoiler-free thoughts below 😊:
❤️🤍💙 Red, White & Royal Blue is an American romcom. It has a 10/10 trailer—incredibly inviting. The movie depicts many women in power, I love that! Many witty jokes, nice! The movie might be better if it were a drama series instead; to save time, it zoomed through the falling-in-love part with the use of text messages—the production team packaged that as well as they could, but it was still too rushed. The ending left me wondering if there could’ve been a tiny bit more to make it feel more complete. Though the movie doesn’t score as highly as its trailer in my opinion, it’s still a decent movie.
(That reminds me of how That Musical Montage in episode 1 of the Heaven Official’s Blessing donghua made me super keen to watch the rest of the series, but it turns out that that was the best part. Quality-wise, Red, White & Royal Blue is overall better than the TGCF donghua though.)
👻👮♂️💓 Marry My Dead Body is a Taiwanese mystery + comedy + supernatural movie. Let me copy the blurb from Google: “Wu Ming-Han, a straight policeman who is homophobic and ghost-phobic, accidentally picks up a red wedding envelope while collecting evidence. He finds himself betrothed to the envelope's owner Mao Pang-Yu, a gay man who died under mysterious circumstances. The duo must work through their differences and join forces to solve the case, seeking justice for Mao.” (Real-life context: marriages between dead people and live ones are/were an actual thing in Chinese culture.)
I’ve just finished watching this movie, love it! Let me get the “con” out of the way first: I wish the movie ended differently! The ending was not unsatisfying, it’s just that I personally could have been more satisfied.
Okay, now I am free to gush.
This movie is HILARIOUS. Won’t describe the humour here, you can see it in the trailers on YouTube.
I love the unravelling of the mysteries (police cases). The feelings would not have hit half as hard without them and the exploration of Maomao’s non-romantic relationships (formed during his life) after his death. Even though I highly value a good plot apart from the romance when I read/watch something, I like talking about feelings more, so that’s what I’ll do.
I have Intense Feelings about these guys. They went from being Not Keen about getting stuck with each other to being really cute together—I notice that the movie managed to do this EVEN WITHOUT having them hold hands or do anything physical beyond that. That is crazy. Romantic physical contact is great, but if you can show chemistry without it, and with minimal flirting—that is exceptional.
(Side note: I think it would be harder to convincingly depict a heterosexual pair arriving at romantic feelings the way Wu Ming-Han and Maomao did: (partly) through constant banter and trading barbs. A man looking down on a woman would have come across as a lot meaner because the threat that poses is larger in the patriarchal society we live in.)
Wu Minghan went from casually homophobic to being on track for bisexuality for a ghost, such character development. The scene where Wu Minghan genuinely calls Maomao “my husband” for the first time is AMAZING, unexpected. At that moment I was like, oh my god, he loves him. Or at the very least, he has good potential. It had taken a series of hilarious strong-arming, including a close call with the loss of Wu Minghan’s family jewels, to make this dude marry Maomao, but now he’s calling Maomao husband—in that particular state, at that timing. I cried. I was smiling at many points throughout the movie, I also cried at some points. I said something similar when I wrote my review for Merman’s Fall: a book/movie that makes me laugh and cry will go at the top of my favourites list. Unlike my danmei list, my favourite movies list is too short for me to put Marry My Dead Body at the top or bottom, but it’s definitely in there.
#red white and royal blue#red white & royal blue#rwrb#marry my dead body#关于我和鬼变成家人的那件事#關於我和鬼變成家人的那件事#rwarb#I have no clue whether it is more helpful for readers if I write spoilery or spoiler-free thoughts when I write about books and movies#99.99999999% of people who see these posts probably don’t care anyway#if that is so#I might do as I please#I write to relive joy#my stuff
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the show i was vague posting btw is a show on netflix that tries to use vampires as a metaphor for homophobia, except all the vampires are played by white people and all the monster hunters are played by black people and all the vampires in question do in fact kill and eat people include multiple of the black monster hunters and also a closeted gay teenager and the only people who are openly against it are waspy white karens who are portrayed as being in the wrong for being "monster phobic" despite the fact the leader is infact fine with actual gay people and her son is a black gay teenager who was secretly dating the closeted gay teenager who was murdered by said vampires, and they did use the term "monsterphobic" and like you wrote a metaphor for cops the vampires are cops this is fucking stupid.
the reason "robot racism" is often a really stupid metaphor is the same reason that like. discrimination against demons or vampires or whatever doesn't work, is because there's often a pretty justified reasons humans are scared of vampires or robots or whatever, in a way that doesn't apply to real life minorities, like a fantasy author will be like "the reason vampires are discriminated against is because most of them and kill and eat people for fun and pleasure, and so humans respond by trying to kill them, isn't that so sad" and like no that's a perfectly fine reason to not trust vampires i think.
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Price: [price_with_discount] (as of [price_update_date] - Details) [ad_1] Rising Sun: During a party at the US offices of a Japanese corporation, a professional escort is found dead, apparently after a violent sexual encounter. Police Detective Web Smith (Wesley Snipes) and John Connor (Sean Connery), a former police Captain and expert on Japanese affairs, are sent to investigate. Independence Day: the aliens are coming and their goal is to invade and destroy. Fighting superior technology, Man’s best weapon is the will to survive. I, Robot: In the year 2035 a techno-phobic cop investigates a crime that may have been perpetrated by a robot, which leads to a larger threat to humanity. Is Discontinued By Manufacturer : No Language : English Package Dimensions : 19.6 x 13.6 x 1.9 cm; 400 g Item part number : 8901736100472-MIG Director : Alex Proyas, Roland Emmerich, Philip Kaufman Media Format : Box set Run time : 6 hours and 39 minutes Release date : 29 January 2016 Actors : Will Smith, Bridget Moynahan, Bruce Greenwood, Bill Pullman, Jeff Goldblum Dubbed: : English Subtitles: : English Studio : 20th Century Fox ASIN : B01B658IBU Country of Origin : India Number of discs : 3 Manufacturer : 20th Century Fox Packer : Excel Productions Audio Visuals Pvt Ltd Importer : Excel Productions Audio Visuals Pvt Ltd Item Weight
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For some reason since the holidays I've been obsessed with Sam from Death Stranding... Mainly because we see him naked, he moves in a way I love, he has cute hair, printed hands over his body, and he's phobic of touch, a little bit messed up... but I can't really play because my days are full of work work work (I literally fill my days with work)... He looks exactly like the actor that voices him because this is how the game is, and because of that I'm obsessed with the actor now.
I didn't think I'd feel that way again because it's been a long time since I did, but I really feel a classic "highschool girl crush". I get all nervous and all when he looks at the camera, heart beating fast. The whole deal.
I learnt after that he played in the The Walking Dead. I don't really like that TV show, it's a dumb plot, I really hate the cops in it, it's so gendered it drives me crazy, zombies are an old trope now (even though their designs are very well made tbh). The evil people are evil just for the sake of evil. But then I thought maybe I could just watch it to see him, and it's less time consuming than a whole video game. And phew isn't he a cutie with his bow like a slutty wooden elf. And he's impulsive, messed up, a little bit awkward, and I like him even with short hair. He moves in a soft way that makes him just beautiful.
It saves the whole plot, I don't care for anyone but him. I want to do all sorts of painful and delicious things to him.
#i hope he never see this#i'm not used to foaming at the mouth for a celebrity#i'm trying to remember another one...#but there isn't really anyone alive#rant#not really a rant but you know
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Interesting note about writing about unhoused people, because I'm rewriting a report from a cop who held an outreach program for unhoused people, she supports understands and empathizes with them, but the language used around unhoused people is still very gross and if no one will point it out I guess I should.
"Stakeholders, businesses, government institutions and others need to join forces to eradicate the homelessness pandemic". What she means is we need to house unhoused people and provide social aid so they can pick their lives back up. I work closely with her I know this is what she means. The language she uses however is unfortunately standard language around the housing crisis, and it needs to change.
The reason it's bad, if it's not obvious to you, is because it creates this feeling of unhoused people being vermin, or a plague, that need to be exterminated. Obviously it's not a direct "we should kill all homeless people" but it does contribute to the stigma of unhoused people as an annoyance that needs getting rid of. Unfortunately there's a prevailing ethos of "as long as they're out of my neighborhood/town/city they're not my problem" and as such any effort to support and aid unhoused people is overshadowed by a general feeling of "if you feed them they won't go away".
I can not stress this enough, but unhoused people are still fucking people. Even if they use or deal drugs they deserve aid and their basic needs met. Even if they steal or rob (using violent force and/or a weapon) they deserve aid and their needs met. Even if they are religious extremists, misogynistic, queer phobic, ablist, racist or any other ism, they deserve aid and their needs met. The way to "solve the homelessness pandemic" is to house them, not push them somewhere else so they're out of sight and out of mind.
The first step towards an accepting and supportive society is changing the language we use. When we stop referring to it as a pandemic and start referring to it as a crisis, when it's no longer homeless (state of being that has no space) and rather unhoused (failed by the system in a way that made them lose their space), when we use empathetic language, instead of standardized language that puts them at a distance so it's "easier to talk about", we can start changing attitudes. After attitudes come actions, and then systems, then society.
Even if you mean well, pay attention to how you refer to things if you have a significant enough public voice. You may well be the difference between the cops burning unhoused people's possessions and cops helping them sign up for social security and low cost housing. Write better, be better.
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