#confident black women

[imanisays]

Beyoncé “ Work It Out” Music Video.

[mauvefiles]

When a woman is consistently spoken to softly & treated gently, she becomes a new woman. You're helping her heal her nervous system, you're helping her heal generational trauma, you're allowing her feminine energy to flourish, you're helping her to remember who she is.

[sbrown82]

I don’t compare myself to anyone. But I definitely don’t compare myself to any white person.

– Keke Palmer

[feminineenergylife]

[litrly-justagirl]

Shed What’s Holding You Back to Build the Life You Want

Remember when we used to play The Sims? There was something so powerful about designing the perfect character—choosing their look, their hobbies, their personality. You could decide what their hair would look like every day, what their clothes would say about them, how they’d spend their days and nights. You’d play out their dreams, and somehow, it felt like magic when those visions started to come to life.

Now, it’s time to stop dreaming in pixels and start creating our own life. The game is over—this is our reality.

you have to let go of the past

It’s time to shed the version of ourselves that’s stuck in the past. Let go of the old narrative. The one that tells you you’re not enough, or that you can’t be who you want to be. The imposter syndrome has had its run, but it’s no longer welcome here. We’ve mourned the past long enough, and now it’s time to step forward.

We’ve been clinging to the old, but now we’re called to something greater. We’re destined to move forward, but we’ve held ourselves back by staying rooted in who we once were. It’s time to release what no longer serves us so we can step into the future God has waiting.

How to Let Go:

Release what God has rejected. It’s not a loss—it’s a redirection.

Resume your responsibilities. Pick up where you left off with intention.

Get ready for something better. God's next is always greater than what’s behind.

The Vision for My 2025

So, if I could build the perfect version of myself for 2025, what would she look like? This is my vision—a woman who radiates confidence, elegance, and a clear sense of purpose.

Wardrobe: She dresses with intention, like every outfit is a reflection of her inner world. She’s effortlessly classy—sensual, grown, and timeless. She gravitates toward eclectic pieces, each one telling its own story—a statement bag here, an asymmetrical top there. Her style is uniquely hers, and it turns heads without trying. Even when she’s dressed down, people can’t help but compliment her. Her wardrobe feels high-end, but it’s the simplicity and comfort that make it stand out. She loves colors—rich hues that pop against her skin, because she knows that her complexion allows colors to literally radiate from her. Red for date nights, black for a touch of mystery. Each piece is chosen with care, because she knows how to blend luxury and ease, making every look an experience.

Work Attire: She’s a force in the corporate tech world, mainly working from the comfort of her home. But when she steps into the office, she brings the same timeless style with a modest twist—effortlessly chic, like she’s walking through a boardroom runway. Every outfit is a statement, without saying a word.

Sleepwear: Even bedtime is an opportunity to feel like a goddess. Her pajamas are silky, feminine, and luxurious. Think chemise dresses—soft, flowing, and sensual—not your grandmother’s nightgowns, but an elegant nightwear collection she can’t wait to slip into. She’s drawn to soft neutrals like whites, creams, blacks, and delicate pinks, with a quiet confidence that she looks just as beautiful while she sleeps.

Makeup: Her everyday makeup is subtle yet stunning—accentuating her features without masking them. For special events, she goes bold: a deep red lip, or a smoky eye that demands attention. It’s always about enhancing what’s already there, never hiding. She knows the power of looking effortlessly put together, whether she’s headed to the office or a night out.

Diet and Fitness: Her body is a reflection of the life she’s building—strong, healthy, and active. She eats a balanced diet, focused on protein, fiber, and fresh greens. Nigerian dishes fill her plate, but she’s learned the importance of balance. She’s gaining weight to build curves, strengthening her body with every workout. The gym is her playground, and she wears colorful, flattering sets that make her feel unstoppable. Wednesdays are her chance to romanticize her life with pink workout gear, a personal touch to remind her that she is branding her life, on and off social media.

Community: She’s surrounded by women who don’t just dream—they take action. They are spiritual, entrepreneurial, and fiercely ambitious. They love Christ and believe in lifting each other up. They’re a community of beauty lovers, skincare enthusiasts, and fearless dreamers. Together, they make things happen. Their support is unwavering, and they inspire each other to live life fully—no holding back.

Home and Environment: She lives in a luxury penthouse with panoramic views that take her breath away every time she looks out the window. Think floor-to-ceiling windows, bathed in natural light, with a view of the city—maybe Dallas, her favorite city in Texas. Her space feels like an oasis—soft neutrals with deep textures, creating a balance of tranquility and energy. Browns, creams, greens, and touches of gold make her space feel alive and welcoming. It’s the kind of home that excites her to be in, a sanctuary for when the world gets too loud. Her furry companion, a little fawn-colored Shorkie, keeps her company as she reflects on her life.

Lifestyle: She’s the type of woman who enjoys the simple luxuries—brunches at her favorite spots, working from cozy coffee shops with the best ambiance, and discovering hidden gems in the city. She’s constantly inspired by the world around her. She takes time to do her devotions, and attends church regularly—on Sundays and Wednesdays—fully immersed in her faith. She wants to be more active, and has joined the women’s Bible study group at church.

Creativity: She’s rediscovering her creative side, embracing the things she once loved as a child—painting, pottery, and exploring new forms of self-expression. She’s letting go of the pressures to conform and is finally diving into what makes her feel alive.

now i want you to try!

Imagine waking up every day in a space that feels like you’ve stepped into your dream life. Your wardrobe reflects your confidence, your energy, and your purpose. You move through the world with intention, shedding the weight of what no longer serves you and confidently stepping into the person you were always meant to be. The path to this transformation is one step at a time, but each step is a declaration that we are no longer bound by the past. We’re building something new, something powerful, something real. So, let’s make it happen. The life you’ve been dreaming of is waiting to unfold—and it starts now. Together, we’re shedding what’s holding us back and building the life we want. Let’s bring this vision to life.

[hersoul-exclusif]

How to Be That Girl – Rich Edition 💸✨🥂

Being an It Girl isn’t just about looking expensive—it’s about embodying luxury, confidence, and exclusivity in every aspect of your life. Here’s your ultimate guide to leveling up and stepping into your high-value era:

Invest in a Luxury Bag : A designer bag instantly elevates even the most basic outfit. Whether it’s a classic Chanel flap, a LV Alama BB or a Dior Saddle, the right bag makes a statement before you even speak. 💼

Jewelry is a Must : Always wear something that shines—whether it’s a timeless tennis bracelet, a dainty gold chain, or statement earrings. High-quality pieces last forever! 💎

Upgrade Your Aesthetic : Post the trips, the champagne toasts, the five-star dinners, and the luxury stays. Let your lifestyle speak for itself, and keep the rest private—mystery is power. 🥂

Hair is Everything : A true It Girl has flawless hair at all times. Whether it’s high-quality bundles, a sleek silk press, or effortless waves, investing in a top-tier hairstylist ensures you always look put together—even with no makeup. 💇🏽‍♀️ SHOP : @Candalbeauty (on instagram)

Drive Luxury : Your car is part of your brand. A high-end vehicle not only elevates your status but puts you in different rooms and circles. It’s not just transportation—it’s an investment. 🚙

Confidence is Key : If you don’t feel like that Girl yet, change whatever you need to until you do. Whether it’s Botox, fillers, surgery, or a whole new wardrobe—self-improvement is power. Look good, feel good, move differently. 💉

[theblackfemininesociety]

Hello ladies & future ladies of BFS 💋

We’ve been hearing all this talk about “Pretty Privilege” and although it is very REAL no one is really talking about how to maximize your beauty to benefit from it. It’s not about “if you have it or you don’t” we believe here at The Black Feminine Society is all about unlocking and reaching your full feminine potential! It’s about self love and adornment! The answer comes down to one question: Do you value your beauty?

Are you nurturing those beautiful brown eyes and curls or those beautiful cheek bones and curves ? Or are you just waking up and barely washing your face, not putting any effort into your outfit, barely touching your hair or covering it and rushing to get where you need to go? Here’s the real ☕️ : You’re sleeping on yourself babe, it’s time to wake up.

What is Pretty Privilege?

Pretty privilege refers to the advantages and benefits that people who are considered conventionally attractive or good-looking often receive in society. This can include things like receiving more attention, better job opportunities, or being treated more favorably in social situations simply because of their appearance. Essentially, it highlights how physical attractiveness can influence people's experiences and interactions in everyday life.

THE TRUTH: Black women are the most beautiful people on this planet! We are the original blueprint 🧬 when we exist in our femininity we are a force to be reckoned with!

Step 1️⃣ : Lean into your unique beauty black girl ! Embrace it. Insinuate it! Learn how to use skin care and makeup to highlight what’s already there! A good skincare routine on top of little mascara, blush and lipgloss that compliments your melanin can go a long way. Give yourself the love you deserve and take a little time to enjoy and pour into your beauty.

Step 2️⃣ : Wear clothing that works well with your body type! Pick out flattering pieces that compliments your shape not hide it! It’s okay to wear things that comfortable to you but make sure you’re elevating your lounge wear and always accessorize!

Step 3️⃣ : Find your signature scent ! There’s nothing more memorable than a beautiful looking and smelling woman. Do not take this for granted. We want you to not only find a signature scent but also master the art of layering your scents with body butters, oils and body sprays.

✨🫧🌹 Did you know we are opening up a one stop shop for this exact reason, shop with us at TheBFS.shop for all things luxury self care! From body care to elevated pajamas and loungewear made as an extension of our love for black woman on their femininity journeys. 🧴🧼 🛁 ✨

Step 4️⃣ : Invest in your smile! No, we don’t mean that you need to break the bank get veneers unless you want to do so. Alternatively, you can invest in an at home whiting kit (crest white strips & smile bright on amazon is a good start) and making sure you brush everyday and use mouth wash. This will not only boost your confidence but maximize your pretty privilege.

Step 5️⃣ : When you look better you feel better 💐 once you master the last four steps your confidence will go up and so will your aura! Smile and be kind, your aura and beauty will introduce you but your energy is what leaves a lasting impression. Pretty privilege isn’t just about physical appearances, it’s an energy! Beautiful woman with nasty attitude aren’t maximizing their pretty privilege they are hindering it.

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[fairycosmos]

idk i feel like women who don't conform to a conventionally feminine gender role or appearance get a lot of shit in their day to day lives and ignoring that is overlooking a huge facet of misogyny

[thegracefulroyaltownofthesaint]

having a Pinterest board dedicated to her is not enough, i need Dorcas Meadows to pin me to a wall and fuck my soul.

[serenityinpinkk]

Intentional Ways to Spend Your Time Offline ✨

In a world that constantly pulls us toward endless scrolling, there is beauty in slowing down and choosing presence over distraction. Instead of losing yourself in social media, immerse yourself in activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul.

Read a book—expand your mind and escape into a new world.

Crochet—create something beautiful with your own hands.

Write poetry—express your emotions through artful words.

Write a story—bring your imagination to life on paper.

Paint or draw—let your creativity flow freely.

Meditate—find peace in stillness and connect with yourself.

Write a letter—to your future self or a loved one, filled with wisdom and intention.

Listen to a podcast—gain insight and inspiration from new perspectives.

Dance in your bedroom—move with joy and freedom.

Do some yoga—align your body and mind with gentle movement.

Write a gratitude list—reflect on the beauty in your life.

Color—embrace the simplicity of creativity.

Bake—fill your home with warmth and sweetness.

[imanisays]

Eartha Kitt Interview (1986)

[mauvefiles]

Ethereal beauty of melanin

[feminineenergylife]

Never dim your light for anyone

Divine Feminine Affirmations

[sinnakopia]

one thing about me, i may be nice, kind, sweet and selfless; but do NOT get it fucked up. i will beat yo’ ass over disrespect.

[theblackfemininesociety]

The Power of The Tongue:

Foolish is labeling the newness of saying affirmations in the mirror as ‘cringey and awkward’ unknowingly blocking the energy that it possesses to unlock the power within you.

Don't Be Me.

TRY THIS…

Sisters, while I enjoy downloading uplifting affirmation apps, and even reblogging a good affirmation list. I've recently realized I've been approaching this method of manifesting and the law of attraction all wrong! Instead of merely reciting affirmations, I needed to truly embody the feelings and beliefs behind them. It's not enough to just say the words; I must visualize and feel as if my desires are already mine.

I've recently started incorporating manifesting and visualization practices into my daily routine, allowing myself to experience the emotions of gratitude and joy as if I have already achieved my goals. By shifting my mindset and focusing on the positive energy associated with my dreams, ans the woman I want to become. I’m transforming my approach.

Now, every morning when I do my routine I say 1-3 affirmations to myself with intention! (which means they are not random, they go hand and hand with what I feel and want to feel that day) I am as confident and specific as possible. Not only expressing gratitude but also embracing the woman I am destined to become.

For Example, instead of saying:

"I AM SUCCESSFUL "

Try this:

“I am grateful for the abundance in my life, including my finances, supportive friends and family, and I appreciate the opportunities that come my way.”

I’ve learned the importance of taking aligned action towards my intentions. Manifesting isn’t just about thinking and feeling; it’s also about stepping into opportunities and being proactive in my journey. I’m excited to embrace this new perspective and see how it unfolds in my life.

With this deeper understanding, I feel empowered to not only set my intentions but also to trust in the process and trust myself! Here's to a new chapter in my journey of self-discovery and abundance! 🥂 🪞 💐 ✨

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