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cowboyjen68 · 2 years
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Jen!! I remembered your advice and finslly started to be unapologetically butch at work and in public. I used to be scared and dress down and in a way I didn't care for but I remember your words about never shrinking myself down and being never veing less butch for others sake and I get more brave, I never feel happier than when I'm my best butch self so Thank you!!! Hugs and kisses!!! <3
I am so happy you were brave enough to just be you, which in my opinion is the easiest path. No effort. No keeping up appearances. No worrying about the perceptions of others. Just comfort and confidence.
Congratulations and life is just going to get better!
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productiveandfree · 3 months
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Power Dressing Beyond the Boardroom: Alternative Work Outfit Ideas
Ditch the stuffy suit and adopt comfort! Gone are the days when power dressing meant a rigid uniform. Today's workplace celebrates individuality, and your outfit can be an extension of your confidence and creativity.  
Whether you're a boss lady climbing the corporate ladder, a freelancer rocking a co-working space, or an entrepreneur building your dream, feeling amazing in what you wear is key. 
This post is your guide to power dressing beyond the boardroom. We'll explore alternative work outfits that are comfortable, stylish, and guaranteed to leave a lasting impression. 
So, are you ready to know these options? Let’s get started!
1. Choose an Ensemble That Makes You Smile: Dress for Joy!
The secret weapon in your power-dressing arsenal? Clothes that spark pure joy!  Think of your outfit as a confidence booster shot. When you wear formal dresses or pieces that make you feel amazing, they shine outward. It affects your mood, energy, and overall presence.
Here's the magic: It all starts with including colors and patterns that make your heart sing. Maybe it's a blouse in a shade that reminds you of a tropical vacation; a skirt splashed with a playful floral print. Or a pair of shoes that come in your favorite sunshine yellow. 
By choosing clothes that resonate with your personal style and spirit, you're not just picking an outfit – you're setting the tone for a successful day. Imagine feeling dull in boring clothes versus strutting into the office, feeling amazing because your outfit lights up your day.  
That confidence translates into increased productivity, sharper interactions, and a general sense of being ready to tackle anything. So, ditch the "same old, same old" and embrace clothes that spark joy. After all, a happy you is a powerful you!
2. Embrace the Mini Shirt Dress: Your New Powerhouse Piece
This dress is your secret weapon for effortless power dressing that goes beyond the boardroom. Imagine crisp cotton or a flowy, silky number that nips you in at the waist and falls to a flattering mini-length. It's the perfect blend of confidence and professionalism. 
The key to rocking this look is striking a balance. The mini length shows off your legs and screams confidence, while the structured collar and tailored silhouette keep it work-appropriate. Think of it as a chicer, more versatile version of your favorite little black dress. 
The best part? This shirt dress women is a total chameleon! This means if you want to go polished. Throw on some sleek pumps, and you're ready to take on that presentation. Or if you are feeling a more relaxed vibe. Switch the heels for cool sneakers, and you'll have a stylish outfit that's perfect for brainstorming sessions or collaborating with colleagues. Overall, it's the power outfit you never knew you needed!
3. Trousers: Your Comfort and Confidence Companions
Ditch the discomfort, and hello, power trousers!  They've shed their casual Friday label and become the ultimate work style opportunist.  
Imagine a pair of tailored trousers that hug your curves in all the right places, ready to take on the day with both comfort and confidence. They can be dressed up or down, depending on your mood and the occasion. 
The Magic of Versatility: This piece can be your partner-in-crime for overpowering any work scenario.  For a polished look, you can pair them with a crisp white blouse and a blazer. Feeling a more relaxed vibe? Just throw on a graphic tee and a pair of loafers for a chic yet casual outfit. 
Find Your Perfect Fit:  The key to rocking trousers is finding a cut that flatters your figure. High-waisted styles elongate your legs and create a slimming effect. Conversely, wide-legged trousers offer ultimate comfort and a relaxed silhouette. So, choose wisely.
4. Statement Pieces: Conversation Starters with Style
Who says workwear has to be boring? Express your inner fashionista with the power of statement pieces! These aren't just accessories – they're conversation starters that add personality to your outfit. 
Think outside the box! A chunky necklace with geometric shapes can add an edgy touch. Conversely, a pair of statement earrings in vibrant colors can instantly brighten your look.
Also, don't be afraid to play with textures. A chunky knit scarf can add warmth and visual interest to a simple blouse, or a bold printed one can transform a basic blazer. 
But statement pieces aren't just about looks; they're conversation starters, too. A unique necklace might spark a compliment from a colleague, leading to a friendly chat. A brightly colored bag might catch someone's eye and open the door to a new connection. Essentially, statement pieces are a fun way to express your unique style.
The Bottom Line!
Power dressing is about so much more than just clothes. It's about owning your power, feeling confident, and radiating your unique brilliance. So, experiment, have fun, and choose outfits that make you feel unstoppable. After all, when you look good, you feel good, and you beat the world, one meeting at a time!
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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 26 days
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Council of lovefools.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#jiang yanli#jiang cheng#They don't have an actual sleepover in this scene but the vibes were so sleepover coded...I had to get them cozied up.#Late night talks with friends and family are some of the best conversations.#My siblings and I used to have room sleepovers with each other (Actually an excuse to stay up and talk about runescape)#Currently my flatmates and I also have really great heart to hearts late into the night.#Pondering shit like 'What defines confidence?“ and ”Why are people terrified of letting themselves fall in love?"#All that aside; There is a really great conversation between JC and WWX here. They are so close and yet so far way from each other!#Fundamentally they *agree* about many things - but JC now has to play the role of someone more 'mature'.#His temper is reigned in and he had to take a more nuanced approach. Whereas WWX can be far more reactionary.#JC has changed to become someone more mature (or at least he is trying).#Contrast this attitude with the scene *right* after where WWX literally goes baby mode with JYL. Rolling around going “I'm Fwee years old”.#When children are hurt we comfort them with hugs and warm food and a laugh. It's not enough when you're an adult. It's not simple anymore.#WWX is stuck in the past when everyone else is shifting and moving on! It's a depression allegory (and just...actual depression)#But we also get to see how some things have stayed the same. They still bicker about soup. They still tease. They are still together.#They all care for each other very much but they are struggling against trauma and are not equipped to talk about it.#You can't really blame WWX for being so protective over JYL. But JC is right: “You don't have a say in who she likes.”#It may have started as an arranged marriage but *she* is *choosing* what her heart wants. JC sees that. WWX cannot.#The final act of love is letting go after all.
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"Women are just objectively more beautiful" "Sexuality isn't a choice because then no one would be attracted to men" "Men are gross and disgusting haha" jokes morph into their final form:
"You transitioning to be more masculine is wasting your natural beauty"
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dean-is-love · 2 months
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dean and cassie doing their nails and being bisexual
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sharkface · 6 months
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If there are supposedly hordes of trans women sniffing out shy moody androgynous goth boys and turning them into extroverted freaky raver puppygirls explain why hasn't it happened to me yet. Am I not pretty enough
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himbo-buckley · 4 months
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People comparing Kathony and Polin and their chemistry and then finding Polin lacking is so … yeah … of course Polin doesn’t feel as sexually charged and explosive they aren’t supposed to?
Kathony is about wanting someone so much it borders on hate and you feel insane for it. Kathony is about two people feeling trapped in their rules and learning to break from their (self made) cages together. It‘s enemies to lovers
Polin is about finding the person who understands you better than you understand yourself and who loves you despite everything you hate about yourself despite your insecurities. It‘s about finding the person who makes you feel save and comfortable. The person you can be yourself with. Who would never judge you. Who accepts you for everything you are and everything you are not. It‘s friends to lovers
Kate and Anthony both play certain roles in society cause they think they have to and they hate every second of it and they just wanna tell everyone to go to hell. They are wearing masks and they despise them
Pen and Colin both play certain roles in society cause they think it‘s the only way anyone will every accept them and they never quite feel like they are doing it right when they just wanna feel like they are a part of society they do not want to stand out they want to be accepted.
Kate and Anthony have a purpose and they crave to be free of it. Pen and Colin are free and they crave a purpose.
It‘s not the same, not even a lil.
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You wanted to come over! I have to get back to work. || Can we talk again? Yeah, I’d like that.
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z-tomaz · 1 year
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it also caught me so off guard in episode 1 in particular that the crew clearly knew how much izzy was doing to protect them from ed?? no one's saying it out loud because it won't help but the hug, and the whole scene surrounding it, says they've all quietly been paying attention and worrying about him behind his back and it was a culmination of weeks and months of living like they were while knowing that izzy was bending over backwards to absorb as much of ed's rage and heartbreak and anger as possible in order to shield the rest of them??? help??
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no1deahow · 5 months
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The Sabo part came out of nowhere
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blackbatcass · 5 months
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donna’s inherent honesty vs dick’s tendency to be manipulative.. speak to me
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ingravinoveritas · 3 months
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Everything about this is a serve on every conceivable level and I am here for it...
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rondoel · 7 months
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Looked into my folder and there was so much of them! 😭
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i can’t really explain this properly but suguru is a “you’re mine, and i’m yours” kinda guy while satoru is just “i’m yours”….. do u get what i’m saying.
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snakebites-and-ink · 1 year
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I've seen multiple awesome writers worried that people aren't going to like one of their series because it's "not real whump" or some similar sentiment, so I feel compelled to say this.
Some people prefer physical whump
Some people prefer emotional whump
Some people prefer psychological/mental whump
Some people like recovery arcs
Some people like fluff and comfort after the whump
Some people like whump that focuses more on angst
Some people like plot-heavy whump
Some people like worldbuilding-heavy whump
Also, the more niche a piece of writing is, the more happy the people who enjoy that niche will be to find something that fits it
Basically you can write whatever you want and there will be an audience somewhere who loves it.
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socialbutterfly19 · 4 months
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It’s not being vain… it’s called confidence!
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