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cowboyjen68 · 2 years ago
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Jen!! I remembered your advice and finslly started to be unapologetically butch at work and in public. I used to be scared and dress down and in a way I didn't care for but I remember your words about never shrinking myself down and being never veing less butch for others sake and I get more brave, I never feel happier than when I'm my best butch self so Thank you!!! Hugs and kisses!!! <3
I am so happy you were brave enough to just be you, which in my opinion is the easiest path. No effort. No keeping up appearances. No worrying about the perceptions of others. Just comfort and confidence.
Congratulations and life is just going to get better!
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productiveandfree · 5 months ago
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Power Dressing Beyond the Boardroom: Alternative Work Outfit Ideas
Ditch the stuffy suit and adopt comfort! Gone are the days when power dressing meant a rigid uniform. Today's workplace celebrates individuality, and your outfit can be an extension of your confidence and creativity.  
Whether you're a boss lady climbing the corporate ladder, a freelancer rocking a co-working space, or an entrepreneur building your dream, feeling amazing in what you wear is key. 
This post is your guide to power dressing beyond the boardroom. We'll explore alternative work outfits that are comfortable, stylish, and guaranteed to leave a lasting impression. 
So, are you ready to know these options? Let’s get started!
1. Choose an Ensemble That Makes You Smile: Dress for Joy!
The secret weapon in your power-dressing arsenal? Clothes that spark pure joy!  Think of your outfit as a confidence booster shot. When you wear formal dresses or pieces that make you feel amazing, they shine outward. It affects your mood, energy, and overall presence.
Here's the magic: It all starts with including colors and patterns that make your heart sing. Maybe it's a blouse in a shade that reminds you of a tropical vacation; a skirt splashed with a playful floral print. Or a pair of shoes that come in your favorite sunshine yellow. 
By choosing clothes that resonate with your personal style and spirit, you're not just picking an outfit – you're setting the tone for a successful day. Imagine feeling dull in boring clothes versus strutting into the office, feeling amazing because your outfit lights up your day.  
That confidence translates into increased productivity, sharper interactions, and a general sense of being ready to tackle anything. So, ditch the "same old, same old" and embrace clothes that spark joy. After all, a happy you is a powerful you!
2. Embrace the Mini Shirt Dress: Your New Powerhouse Piece
This dress is your secret weapon for effortless power dressing that goes beyond the boardroom. Imagine crisp cotton or a flowy, silky number that nips you in at the waist and falls to a flattering mini-length. It's the perfect blend of confidence and professionalism. 
The key to rocking this look is striking a balance. The mini length shows off your legs and screams confidence, while the structured collar and tailored silhouette keep it work-appropriate. Think of it as a chicer, more versatile version of your favorite little black dress. 
The best part? This shirt dress women is a total chameleon! This means if you want to go polished. Throw on some sleek pumps, and you're ready to take on that presentation. Or if you are feeling a more relaxed vibe. Switch the heels for cool sneakers, and you'll have a stylish outfit that's perfect for brainstorming sessions or collaborating with colleagues. Overall, it's the power outfit you never knew you needed!
3. Trousers: Your Comfort and Confidence Companions
Ditch the discomfort, and hello, power trousers!  They've shed their casual Friday label and become the ultimate work style opportunist.  
Imagine a pair of tailored trousers that hug your curves in all the right places, ready to take on the day with both comfort and confidence. They can be dressed up or down, depending on your mood and the occasion. 
The Magic of Versatility: This piece can be your partner-in-crime for overpowering any work scenario.  For a polished look, you can pair them with a crisp white blouse and a blazer. Feeling a more relaxed vibe? Just throw on a graphic tee and a pair of loafers for a chic yet casual outfit. 
Find Your Perfect Fit:  The key to rocking trousers is finding a cut that flatters your figure. High-waisted styles elongate your legs and create a slimming effect. Conversely, wide-legged trousers offer ultimate comfort and a relaxed silhouette. So, choose wisely.
4. Statement Pieces: Conversation Starters with Style
Who says workwear has to be boring? Express your inner fashionista with the power of statement pieces! These aren't just accessories – they're conversation starters that add personality to your outfit. 
Think outside the box! A chunky necklace with geometric shapes can add an edgy touch. Conversely, a pair of statement earrings in vibrant colors can instantly brighten your look.
Also, don't be afraid to play with textures. A chunky knit scarf can add warmth and visual interest to a simple blouse, or a bold printed one can transform a basic blazer. 
But statement pieces aren't just about looks; they're conversation starters, too. A unique necklace might spark a compliment from a colleague, leading to a friendly chat. A brightly colored bag might catch someone's eye and open the door to a new connection. Essentially, statement pieces are a fun way to express your unique style.
The Bottom Line!
Power dressing is about so much more than just clothes. It's about owning your power, feeling confident, and radiating your unique brilliance. So, experiment, have fun, and choose outfits that make you feel unstoppable. After all, when you look good, you feel good, and you beat the world, one meeting at a time!
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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 3 months ago
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Council of lovefools.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#jiang yanli#jiang cheng#They don't have an actual sleepover in this scene but the vibes were so sleepover coded...I had to get them cozied up.#Late night talks with friends and family are some of the best conversations.#My siblings and I used to have room sleepovers with each other (Actually an excuse to stay up and talk about runescape)#Currently my flatmates and I also have really great heart to hearts late into the night.#Pondering shit like 'What defines confidence?“ and ”Why are people terrified of letting themselves fall in love?"#All that aside; There is a really great conversation between JC and WWX here. They are so close and yet so far way from each other!#Fundamentally they *agree* about many things - but JC now has to play the role of someone more 'mature'.#His temper is reigned in and he had to take a more nuanced approach. Whereas WWX can be far more reactionary.#JC has changed to become someone more mature (or at least he is trying).#Contrast this attitude with the scene *right* after where WWX literally goes baby mode with JYL. Rolling around going “I'm Fwee years old”.#When children are hurt we comfort them with hugs and warm food and a laugh. It's not enough when you're an adult. It's not simple anymore.#WWX is stuck in the past when everyone else is shifting and moving on! It's a depression allegory (and just...actual depression)#But we also get to see how some things have stayed the same. They still bicker about soup. They still tease. They are still together.#They all care for each other very much but they are struggling against trauma and are not equipped to talk about it.#You can't really blame WWX for being so protective over JYL. But JC is right: “You don't have a say in who she likes.”#It may have started as an arranged marriage but *she* is *choosing* what her heart wants. JC sees that. WWX cannot.#The final act of love is letting go after all.
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antianakin · 9 days ago
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Headcanon that Cody actually thinks Obi-Wan is ten times more attractive in his Jedi clothing than he ever was in armor. He doesn't think Obi-Wan is UNATTRACTIVE as such when he's wearing more armor earlier in the war, but one day he sees Obi-Wan with either no armor or just the bracers and something just CLICKS and his jaw drops to the floor because YES, that's exactly how Obi-Wan should always look.
And bonus headcanon that he sees Obi-Wan in Mandalorian armor for whatever Reasons and immediately hates it and thinks it's probably the most unattractive Obi-Wan has ever looked. Obi-Wan finds this absolutely hilarious.
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nightmarish-fallen-angel · 3 months ago
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"Women are just objectively more beautiful" "Sexuality isn't a choice because then no one would be attracted to men" "Men are gross and disgusting haha" jokes morph into their final form:
"You transitioning to be more masculine is wasting your natural beauty"
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dean-is-love · 4 months ago
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dean and cassie doing their nails and being bisexual
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himbo-buckley · 6 months ago
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People comparing Kathony and Polin and their chemistry and then finding Polin lacking is so … yeah … of course Polin doesn’t feel as sexually charged and explosive they aren’t supposed to?
Kathony is about wanting someone so much it borders on hate and you feel insane for it. Kathony is about two people feeling trapped in their rules and learning to break from their (self made) cages together. It‘s enemies to lovers
Polin is about finding the person who understands you better than you understand yourself and who loves you despite everything you hate about yourself despite your insecurities. It‘s about finding the person who makes you feel save and comfortable. The person you can be yourself with. Who would never judge you. Who accepts you for everything you are and everything you are not. It‘s friends to lovers
Kate and Anthony both play certain roles in society cause they think they have to and they hate every second of it and they just wanna tell everyone to go to hell. They are wearing masks and they despise them
Pen and Colin both play certain roles in society cause they think it‘s the only way anyone will every accept them and they never quite feel like they are doing it right when they just wanna feel like they are a part of society they do not want to stand out they want to be accepted.
Kate and Anthony have a purpose and they crave to be free of it. Pen and Colin are free and they crave a purpose.
It‘s not the same, not even a lil.
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not-with-you-but-of-you · 6 months ago
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You wanted to come over! I have to get back to work. || Can we talk again? Yeah, I’d like that.
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z-tomaz · 1 year ago
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it also caught me so off guard in episode 1 in particular that the crew clearly knew how much izzy was doing to protect them from ed?? no one's saying it out loud because it won't help but the hug, and the whole scene surrounding it, says they've all quietly been paying attention and worrying about him behind his back and it was a culmination of weeks and months of living like they were while knowing that izzy was bending over backwards to absorb as much of ed's rage and heartbreak and anger as possible in order to shield the rest of them??? help??
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no1deahow · 6 months ago
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The Sabo part came out of nowhere
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blackbatcass · 7 months ago
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donna’s inherent honesty vs dick’s tendency to be manipulative.. speak to me
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demigods-posts · 7 days ago
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hearing annabeth express genuine confusion at the existence of disney world was incredibly heartbreaking. but it raised a good point about just how unprepared she was for a life outside of camp. it makes me wonder how she settled into a public school environment after training as a child soldier for five years straight. i question what her first active shooter drill was like and if the teachers noticed how prepared she seemed for life or death situations in comparison to her english homework. i wonder how she socialized with kids her age, or if she mostly kept to herself because the anxiety of making a misstep in social situation and risk being neglected was near crippling. i think of the quiet moments at home during bedtime ruined by the slightest movement outside and her father finding her keeping watch outside her brothers' bedroom at three in the morning. how heartbreaking is it that annabeth can't find true solace in any environment she's in?
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dykedvonte · 1 month ago
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I just realized some people are confused about events in the alluded to past in Mouthwashing, particularly about how long the crew has been working together.
The only person who is truly new is Daisuke and it’s why his dynamic with the crew and role in the story is very unique and somewhat distant. Curly didn’t just get Jimmy this job on the Tulpar, he got him the job with the Pony Express. He’s been his copilot for probably a couple of years but still not as long as they’ve been friends. None of them are new with the freight industry, Anya and Swansea especially have been doing this for years, together.
Jimmy is the newest on the regular crew, maybe just a few assignments, but it’s not his first time working with them. I think it’s just something important because this isn’t just one bad mistake that snowballed with giving Jimmy the job. None of them thought Jimmy would do anything, no matter how off-put by him they could’ve been, since he hadn’t done a thing since being there. Generally unpleasantness isn’t a crime and he’d be aware of that.
It was a festering thing and a sort of forced trust they had to give him that he knowingly took advantage of. He was the black sheep and still a wolf under the wool. He expected when he lashed out, that he had been there long enough for it to be looked over completely. Got too comfortable in the space he inserted into and did a lot of damage with his claws when he felt he was going to get shaken out.
#I think acting like if Curly just didn’t give Jim the job this wouldn’t have happened is underplaying that they’ve all been working for PE#for a bit and that Jimmy got comfortable enough to do something horrible like#a lot of factors made the trip being out the worse parts of them but Jimmy was slowly letting his worse parts show and I think people assume#that this was one a few mission he went on with Curly and that he advocated for him completely when it was more likely#he pulled some strings so Jimmy could work right under him and stay out of trouble with a decent job and it back fired cause Jimmy is just#not a good person like I see people acting like his breakdown and choice to crash the ship was because this was probably one of the last#chances to fix his life and he couldn’t admit he fucked up soemthing literally handed to him so badly and cruelly#I think people forget that predators like Jimmy rarely do anything the first day. or week or month or year#they ingrain themselves into the schedule and dynamic and build a sort of stability that make it harder to knock them down or push back#he has Curly’s trust as the co pilot and as a friend#Swansea doesn’t like him but doesn’t trust him and Anya is just wary initially#he doesnt even attack her at the start of the trip it’s implied it happens after the psyche evals and when she confides in Curly how#patronizing he is to her and her position. he’s retaliating against a perceived slight to his stability to him it was pure act of power and#anger because he’s at his core an avoidant bully who can’t take responsibility#mouthwashing#mouthwashing game#jimmy mouthwashing#I didn’t want this to be a Jimmy post but it is#more so about how abusers like Jimmy work but I digress cause most of it’s in the comments
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ingravinoveritas · 5 months ago
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Everything about this is a serve on every conceivable level and I am here for it...
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rondoel · 9 months ago
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Looked into my folder and there was so much of them! 😭
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crownedinmarigolds · 29 days ago
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While I don't believe in "inherent sisterhood" per se, I do think Mouthwashing wouldn't have gone down as it did (if a situation would've gone down at all) if just one other woman had been on board with Anya.
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