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k-verse-sachi · 14 days ago
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Ghostly Confessions
Hey everyone! Welcome to CharmedChaos!
I'm Alex, writer #3 who loves bringing your favorite characters to life in exciting and imaginative ways here at CharmedChaos. So, sit back, relax, and dive into the world of fantasy with me!
**Fandom:** Danny Phantom
**Type:** X Reader
**Age Restriction:** 13+
**Word Count:** 1,731
**Request Status:** Requested by: No one
**Pairing:** Danny Phantom x Reader
**Genre:** Romance, Fluff, Hurt/Comfort
Trigger Warning: Mentions of overstimulation, emotional breakdown, and family conflict.
Disclaimer: This story is a work of fiction. Names, characters, places, and incidents are products of the author's imagination or are used fictitiously. Any resemblance to actual events, locales, or persons, living or dead, is entirely coincidental.
The day had been brutal.
You woke up with unexpected headaches. Your hair touching your neck was driving you crazy, the sun seemed too bright, and the colors seemed too colorful. The air touching your skin seemed to drive you insane. You could hear the electricity running through your lights, and it was annoying. You felt overstimulated for some reason, with no idea what could have possibly triggered this. But nonetheless, you got up out of bed, took a nice hot shower, and changed into a black t-shirt and black leggings with shorts over them. You added a black-and-silver belt and did your hair up into two buns, keeping it out of your face.
Normally, doing your makeup seems to calm you down. Since you didn’t have to leave for two hours, you decided to let yourself do some skincare along with your makeup. So, you started and finished your skincare, the entire time listening to music on your noise-canceling headphones. All your comfort songs—like ones from *Epic: The Musical*—were blasting so loudly you were sure you’d go deaf. Other people could probably hear them, but you didn’t care.
By the end of it, you felt so much better and a lot less like you wanted to rip your own skin off just so you could stop feeling. Then, you did your makeup. You kept the base normal, went for simple but dark eyeshadow, added heavy Jack Sparrow eyeliner, and skipped lashes because you swore if you had to wear them today, you’d crash out. A bit of cute blush went on your cheeks, nose, and chin, and you finished it off with a deep red non-matte lipstick. The shade looked like dried blood, and Ancients, it was beautiful.
You thought the day would get better. You told yourself the morning didn’t decide the rest of the day.
You were wrong.
As much as you’d love to say that doing your makeup, hair, and accessories—your favorite rings, necklaces, spiked bracelets, and combat boots—turned things around, it didn’t. The moment you stepped outside, the sun made your headache worse, and sunglasses didn’t help. Driving to school was manageable, but the school itself? A nightmare.
You tried to focus, but your brain was foggy. Even your safe foods didn’t feel safe, and you ended up eating nothing, making you even more irritated. The talking, the walking, the touching, the hugs, the “hi” and “bye,” the having to act like you were fine… it was all too much. You knew you’d have to go home, study, and do homework you had no capability for because of how overwhelming everything had been.
Then, you got yelled at by a teacher who dress-coded you because they didn’t like the fact you were wearing shorts, even over leggings. You were pissed. And then you got hit with a pop quiz.
By the time you drove home, you wanted to scream. You went straight to your room, intending to study, but after hours of trying, you gave up. You cried because the words on the page were moving, and you couldn’t read them while they ran. The numbers screamed at you, the lights hummed, and the air was heavy.
When your dad came in and asked why a failing grade had popped up under “pop quizzes” in the class portal, you lost it. You yelled and screamed and said words you didn’t mean. Ultimately, you told him to “fuck off.”
Now, you’re curled up on your bed, still in your day clothes, tears streaking your face. Your room reflects your mood—dark, with only the orange glow of your desk lamp lighting the space. The blackout curtains are drawn, and scattered notes and books lie abandoned around you. You feel crushed by guilt over the fight with your dad. He was just trying to be a dad, and you lashed out at him. You knew better. Yet, you let your emotions spiral out of control.
You’re a psychology student, for Ancients’ sake. You’re supposed to know better. You’re supposed to help people through situations like this. But here you are, lying in bed, hating yourself for being an absolute failure. How h can you ever be a self respecting psychologist if you let things like this happen.
While you’re busy berating yourself, Danny finishes his patrol and decides to swing by your house. He phases through your wall into your room and immediately notices your tear-streaked face and defeated posture. His heart aches for you.
“Y/N...” he says softly, his voice dripping with concern. “What’s wrong?”
You sit up quickly, wiping at your eyes with your hands, only to smear mascara on them. You know it’s probably streaked all over your face now. Feeling embarrassed, you try to deflect. “What are you doing here?” you ask, your voice shaking slightly.
Danny isn’t fooled. He walks closer, his usual teasing demeanor gone. “Y/N… let me help. Please?”
You hesitate but give in when he sits beside you and wraps an arm around your shoulders, before scooping you up in his arms and pulling you close. Damn near placing you on his lap, Danny holds you securely, his presence warm and grounding. You take a shaky breath, steadying yourself enough to start venting.
You tell him about your day, from the overwhelming sensory overload to the fight with your dad. You explain how guilty you feel, how much of a failure you think you are for not controlling your emotions the way you “should.”
Danny listens without interrupting, his hand gently rubbing your back. When you finally finish, his warm hands cup your face, and he looks you straight in the eyes.
“Y/N,” he says softly, “it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. Being human means your emotions will get the better of you sometimes, and no amount of knowledge can change that. It doesn’t make you a failure—it just makes you human.”
The warmth in his voice and eyes makes you feel like you’re melting. For the first time that day, you feel a little lighter.
Danny suddenly grins, his face lighting up with an idea. “Come on,” he says, standing and pulling you to your feet. “I know something that’ll cheer you up.”
Before you can question him, he wraps an arm around your waist. “Hold on tight,” he whispers. Then, he phases you both through the roof and into the chilly winter air.
The night sky above Amity Park is breathtaking. An aurora-like glow stretches across the stars, caused by ectoplasm lingering in the atmosphere. Greens and purples ripple and shimmer, painting the darkness with magic.
You gasp, your earlier pain melting away as you marvel at the sight. The world feels quieter, the weight of the day lifting off your shoulders.
“Danny,” you whisper, turning to him. “Thank you. Really. You have no idea how much I admire you—not just for what you do as a hero, but for the way you always know how to make me feel seen and cared for.”
Danny’s cheeks flush a faint green as he looks away shyly. You giggle softly, watching his ghostly skin take on that adorable hue.
“Y/N...” he says, his voice low as he finally looks back at you. “I’ve always wanted to be there for you—not just as a friend, but because I think I’ve been falling for you.”
Your heart flutters wildly at his confession. Smiling, you wrap your arms around his waist. “I feel the same way,” you admit softly.
The auroras paint your faces in glowing light as he pulls you closer. For the first time that day, you feel safe—like things might actually be okay with Danny by your side. And for once that day you don’t feel like you want to rip your skin off at physical contact.
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o-vera-nalyzing · 9 months ago
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look i know the most likely option for why kipperlilly hates riz specifically is that he like has amazing grades and good friends and is one of agueforts faves while like chronically skipping class and breaking the rules (and laws) but i also have 18 stupid ass reasons i wrote down from rewatching s1 that i think are funnier
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natelia-aldelliz · 2 years ago
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After the Chicago mission ! (Soap probably asks Ghost to close the curtains after that)
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pastafossa · 7 months ago
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I love you guys. I hope you know that.
Like.
Ok so I posted the new TRT chapter the other day. Obviously. And I had to force myself to do it, to click that final, 'post' button because at that last moment, this big wave of imposter syndrome hit (that had already hit on and off as I'd started working on the chapter again). And it was just this cycle of, 'It's been like 6 months since you posted a chapter or anything other than a couple one-shots and you're out of practice, I bet it's bad, it's probably terrible, I bet everyone's left and no one cares about this thing you love so why do you? What if no one likes it, you're gonna drop this and everyone's gonna god 'wtf is this, pasta? what happened?'' And so I forced myself to post it, took my meds to ensure I slept, and then kinda just bunkered down and slept/hid because I was halfway convinced that all the trauma in the previous six months had just bopped any ability I had to write.
Instead I got this outpouring, of just like, 'WELCOME BACK' and people telling me they're happy that mom is ok (which made me cry but in a good way) and they're sorry Cato passed away (more tears, but comforted tears), but also delightful jokes about the funny lines I put in or screaming over that romantic line or about missing Jane and the dynamics and comments about being eager for the next chapter, and how now I can be one of those AO3 authors with those notes of 'yeah my life blew up so I was delayed, but hey I'm back!' which... yeah. And much like when I first started TRT, I didn't... really expect that at all, and it's made me really emotional.
So if you've dropped into my ask box or the comments or the replies, seriously, from the bottom of my heart, thank you, because the excitement and love and just you all being the best little fam and continuing on this journey of TRT with me - a journey that has now included both Matt and Jane's journey, and a real life journey through a pandemic, a huge move, a passing of two of my pets, my mom's hospitalization and recovery, some heart issues, the cancellation and resurrection of the show, me meeting Charlie Cox and getting him to hold a red thread, my first wood carving event, etc - and I know I say this a lot, but you all really, really help me keep going when things get hard. I'd write TRT for nothing, I would, because I love this story and I intend to see it through, but ya'll just... I love you all tons. I'm hoping to get through the asks and fic comments and replies in the next few days, but I just wanted you guys to know that.
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luck-of-the-drawings · 1 year ago
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oh the dread, oh the worry! you love your sister so much and you need to know shes okay. you trust her but you cant trust the world, and more than anything else you cant trust yourself
#jrwi riptide#jrwi fanart#jrwi riptide spoilers#jrwi show#gillion tidestrider#edyn tidestrider#RAHHH IVE HAD THIS ROTTIN IN DRAFTS FOR A BIT but im finally here n ready to POST!!!!#SO THE LIL GILLION AND EDYN ARC HUH??#gillion as a character makes me so emotional. he means so well yet sucks so bad in every way he wish he didnt#HE CARES SOO MUCH ABOUT HIS SISTER. MAN HAS NEVER CRIED EXCEPT FOR THE DAY HE SAW HER AGAIN#HE WAS SOOO HAPPY TO SEE HER AND FIND OUT SHES OKAY. I ALSO REMEMBER SCREAAAAMIN WHEN SHE FIRST APPEARED#I HAD BEEN THINKIN ABOUT EDYN FOR SO LONG... ohhh older sisters where u at... u understand... only us older sisters get it#andNOW WHERE IS SHE..? WHERE IS SHE NOW.... working with the navy to 'undo' what the undersea has done to her precious baby brother#OKAY ENOUGH EMOTIONS TIME FOR ME TO TALK ABT MY ART#REAAALLY THIS IS ONE OF MY BEST DOODLE PAGES SO FAR. IM SO PROUDA THE COLORS N THE SCENES AND THE EMOTIONS#the lil scene with edyn comforting gillion after 'a day of alot of failure. that was the first we ever saw of edyn right? i love my colors#A MIRROR! edyn painted in red when shes often blue. framed by rock and coral and memory sharing bracelets and fire.#A MEMORY! a recent event! finding her at the bar and meeting her at a tavern. its cathartic to hear your older sister tell you its okay#even more cathartic to have her remind you that you are not your tragedies. you were just a kid. you didnt deserve what happened.#you really missed having her here#OH BUT THE NEXT. A NOTE LEFT BEHIND. NOTHING ELSE. i love you a million gillion#BUT THATS NOT A REASSURANCE IS IT? its a trust fall. emphasis on the fall. emphasis on the needle in your chest as wind rushes past#you anticipate the ground but you wish you could anticipate her arms. you wish you could trust. you need to trust. so why cant you?#instead you lash out. again. just like last time. just like always. you were never good at controlling your emotions#all you do in the end is break stuff. none of them can trust you. thats why she cant tell you. thats why he didnt tell you. noone trusts yo#chips got way too many damn belts btw. put some o those back boy u do NOT need all that mess jingling around ur gay hips. you FRUIT!!!!!!!!#I liked the scene with jay n chip dragging gillion around. its a comical scene ofc and i LOVE that balance here. but that sadness remains.#they care about gillion so much..... auuwuuuu.....#OKAY FINAL THOUGHTS. I RLY LIKE DRAWING DIFFERENT TEARS FOR DIFFERENT TYPES OF CRYING#when the tears well up so big from uncontainable joy that you cant even see
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hanafubukki · 2 months ago
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Hot chocolate, matcha cake, haikyuu movie, and cuddling my Lilia plush while laying in warm blankets on a cool night is one of my greatest comforts. 🥰☕️🍰
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volivolition · 2 months ago
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wiggles my fingers at you ouuuu… you want to tell me about solace so bad…
HKJGG wiggles my fingers back lovingly!!! i really do, i fuckin LOVE solace :3 hey did you know i really like making fake skill descriptions?
SOLACE
Follow the north star. Find light in even the darkest places. Cool for: Optimists, Recovering lost souls, Sweet summer children
Solace is the skill you tucked away long ago, at the bottom of Pandora's box. The little one that tells you: despite it all, there is still hope. It needs a lot of nurturing -- and it's far from being the most helpful for police work -- but taking care of it is basically self-care. It enables you to find the glow in yourself that you often ascribe to gold lungs or brilliant halos in others. It encourages you to wake up and watch the sunrise, to play board games with someone you love, to forgive yourself and let yourself be a gentler kind of animal. Constantly looking forward to a brighter future, it also helps shield your morale from damage.
At high levels, Solace gives you a heightened sense of childlike optimism - which isn't always the sense to lead with in this precariously harsh world. Always looking for the bright side will blindside you with naivety. At low levels, however, you may just extinguish whatever keeps your soul alight. You've already lost her once. You may not survive the desolation if you let her disappear again.
#i wanted to draw a skill portrait for her for this but [gestures vaguely at life] i hope this is cool enough hkjgkj <33#solace is truly voli's ''keep going. there's still hope for us'' and echem's ''we can be happy again! let's go find joy wherever we can''#this is why i keep saying she's their kid hkjgh she covers the happy medium of both of their ideologies. hope for a happier future.#harry goes to the store and finds a pair of pink heart shades that gives her ''+1 Rose Colored Glasses'' :3#i feel like theres some mechanic that keeps her from gaining too many points. a locked skill cap or maybe she can lose skill points??#hm. considers this.#echem voice ''i can't believe i'm saying this but we really can't drink alcohol anymore. it's bad for the baby :(''#ALSO. THIS IS ONE OF MY MORE SELF INDULGENT WORKS SO IF IT SEEMS OOC IN ANY WAY THAT'S BC THIS IS MY COMFORT FIC HGKJKJ#i know sometimes i write skill relationships too sweet and the world too kind and the game too unrealistically...#i know shivers said the end of the world is in 22 years. i know being a revachol cop would kill solace. i know alcoholism is hard to kick#and dora still haunts us. i know life is so hard and there is so much that kills hope and that the pale is going to swallow elysium. i know#but isn't disco elysium about how the world is awful and corrupt and futile but there is still beauty and worth to living in it?#the sky. the world. you're still alive. after death; life again. one day i will return to your side. sunrise parabellum.#the phasmid exists. the pale can be fought back with art. the city's alive and she told us she loves us. and solace believes there is hope.#augh idk man hjlkjg just don't want to lean into the ''young witch trying to find a cat in the alps'' bullshit lmao FUCK that </3#i just think harry deserves a hope skill.#volta transmissions#inland drabbles#task: when two skills love each other very much
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skoulsons · 2 years ago
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Thinking about winter and their physical affection and now literally none of these happen under happy circumstances.
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puppppppppy · 11 months ago
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adhd comix
#man i dont even have the energy to be mad. im just tired#like. dont u love it when your parents exhibit symptoms of ADHD and your sibling is diagnosed with a learning disability#and instead of thinking oh shit what if the other one has smth too. they subject you to The Horrors#i cant bring myself to hate my parents. but im tired of feeling obligated to defend them when the thing they think is working#isnt actually working and ive just found other ways to cope to avoid any sort of conflict. like lying and stealing. lol#if someone took me aside and said 'hey so your brain doesnt make as much dopamine as usual and its not a bad thing it just means you#need external stimulation and reward system to function and youre not actually secretly fucked up or lazy' as a kid#im pretty sure i wouldnt be here rn with half the problems i already have. unfortunately getting diagnosed late means u dont have a teacher#to back you up at a parent teacher conference that forces your parents to take this shit seriously instead of ignoring it hoping itll#go away on its own. but hey what do i know i have squirrel ipad baby disease. what do i know about my own symptoms#AND. AND i think im allowd to be mad bc ive been doing my own research on this for years before and after diagnosis#theyve been putting me thru the WORST parenting techniques on earth. which they could have corrected at anytime but they were#comfortable thinking they were doing it right and didnt bother to check if they were or werent fucking up their kid in the long run#and refusing to acknowledge it. i just!! they just decided one day hey lets make babies!! and just looked at books on how to make#a human being survive as long as possible!!! what the fuck!!!!#im sorry for putting this on ppls dashes but i am. so tired. of bottling this up. and im not looking for sympathy or anything i just need#to scream and clench my fists to SOMEONE about it because theyre not gonna take this well up the ass. sigh#yapping#vent
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ohitslen · 2 years ago
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Part two of the thing and uuh also final one
Of this interaction. Because this is far from all I can give, my brain almost imploded from all the ideas
#after some very heated talks between the two brothers Vash said he would leave the house for a good time#suggesting they both needed time apart and Vash needed to learn how to live without Kni#very reluctantly Kni agreed (even if he didn’t V would have done it anyways) with the single condition of letting him know the general#details about his livings. the adress. who he was living with if he decided to room with someone and at least their phone number in case#of an emergency. Vash agreed to this and put the limit there bc Kni wanted to know more but he said no I won’t tell you about their life tf#WW who is comfortable living at the orphanage doesn’t find convenient commuting for over 2 hours everyday to get there#so he is looking for a place to stay. Vash mentioned wanting to share a rental home w someone to split the spendings#and so the stars aligned and they were already planning their moving four days after meeting each other#because that’s Vashwood for you#imagine the delight of being either WW or Kni and finding out about each other thanks to Vash again#neither of them want to tell Vash about what they think of each ither. Kni to keep some sort of face and ‘peace’ with his brother#and WW doesn’t want to leave a bad impression saying he was the cause that the brother of the guy he was planning to live with couldn’t see#with his right eye for a whole week. so they hate their guts and Vash doesn’t know the why though he can grasp a general idea.#but he always hits bullseye making both WW and Kni glance at each other silently with their eyes saying#“DID YOU TELL HIM?’’ ‘’DID-YOU-TELL HIM??’’#trigun#vash the stampede#nicholas d wolfwood#trigun stampede#vashwood#trigun fanart#vash#wolfwood#nicholas trigun#nai saverem#millions knives#Trigun Uni! AU#lenssi draws
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michameinmicha · 1 month ago
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Im very into lavender these days but not in the woo woo 'this will fix my sleep problems and all other issues' pseudoscience way, it's just that i really love the smell and it's very comforting to me, which i can use a lot of right now so i try to surround myself with it as much as possible 💜
#lavender smells like how it feels to get home after a long day in the cold qnd you get to take off your wet clothes and put on soft pyjamas#and you can just get cozy in your warm bed and novidy expects anything else from you tonight no responsibilities no chores#you get to just be warm and safe and fall asleep#also bubble baths because iwe alsway had this lavender bubble bath when i was a kid and i loved it so much (i always tried to eat the foam#or rather i wanted to eat the smell itself but the closest i could get was the foam... yes it tasted bad) and i still love it a lot#oh also my best friend who ive known since kindergarten would always use this lavender oil (instead of like body lotion) after showers#(bit they changed the bottles a few years back so now they are like half the size which is ridiculous)#(we spent holidays together for years) and they still use it today but i dont get to smell it as much but that also makes me feel nostalgic#anyway lavender is amazing and i wish i could just drink that bubble bath fluid and get that cozy feeling inside of me that way#(im trying to find a tea that has mostly lavender but its not easy. most also have other stuff that i dont like... but ill keep looking!)#oh and i recently bought this lavender shower gel and that is so wonderful for a shower at night!!!#hey if any europeans wanna recommend any good (not suuuuper expensive) lavender products i could check out please tell me#winter is kicking my ass and i need anything i can get to cheer me up and comfort me#alright enough rabling#i just bought a tea i wanna try thats why i was thinking about it#mine
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jrueships · 7 months ago
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Paul George on Stephen A. Smith’s Kawhi Leonard jab: “I didn’t like that moment… Kawhi wants to play… We exhausted a lot out of Kawhi this season. So at some point your body breaks you down… I didn’t appreciate that moment. I know I laughed because the situation was lighthearted, but deep down it was like you gotta let that go, Stephen A.”
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Paul George, knight in shining armor
#HE DOES . u know. defend his girlbosses#as a good malewife husband soes#but like... he'll defend them.. five days after the fact#like hes just zoned out during the actual time of necessary defense#thinking about what new gaming chair to buy for himself whilst squinting harshly#i think tauruses and caps get shoehorned into being hashtag Daddies hashtag when it comes to personalities#like yes theyre grounded but that also means they like to duck into their little safety hovels sometimes#if a taurus is in an uncomfortable place/position.. they will often just smile& think abt how much they miss their regular place of comfort#until the moment passes#'oh but theyre so stubborn and loyal! theyll stand up for anyone! all the time!' stubbornness can ironically flucuate#theyre still showing stubbornness! just to the fact that they wanna go home. and they need this moment to pass#and if they bring something up rn.. it will not pass rn#this kind of thinking does not always bode well with fire signs#as much as i love to bully paul .. seeing others do it just isnt the same.. it does not come from a place of love in the end !!#'hes always been a coward-- too afraid to step up and be the bad guy. do the dirty work' no girl hes just a bit stupid#hes literally excitedly told reporters that hes soooo hyped up to try and be the rebound passer guy today#and then one game later hes like 'yea i kinda did too much.. that was.. not good 😔'#like he is doing the best in his mind! his doing bad is not out of bad intent! it's good intent and he is just failing miserably at it#LEAVE MY CRINGEFAIL MALEWIFE ALONE ‼️‼️‼️#MY CANCELLED GIRLFAILURE !!#he just wants to be a trophy husband to a terrifying strange and unusual mystery of a man like isnt that why we wrote dracula#is this not why creepypasta self insert y/n imagines exist on wattpad ?#paul george is just a y/n living in a spiteful world#LMFAOOO#hes so stupid i want to kill him but no one else can kill him but me ok#pg13 years old
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the---hermit · 9 days ago
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@la-galaxie-langblr tagged me to talk about what I do on bad mental health days! As they said in their own post it is very much a work in progress, and it also changes depending on why it's a bad mental health day and whatever I have to also do as a human adult with responsibilities, but there's certainly things that help.
I am an hyper-aware person so I know quite well how I work and what I need, and I am also very aware that many people don't work like me, so let's address right away the thing I know a lot of people might not consider a good starting point. When I am having a bad mental health day or I have to deal with the horrors of emotions in general I tend to isolate myself. Yes it's not always healthy to do so, but that is usually something that I need right at the beginning. I have an awful time opening up with people, doing to requires so much energy for me, so I usually do that once I have worked some stuff out for myself, or once I am calmer and feel less stressed. Talking to friends whether it is to rant about whatever is going on in your life, or to look for distraction if that's what you need is an amazing resource that I appreciate with all my hearth but for me that is the last stage of dealing with something. The main thing I need when I am dealing with something is to have my own quiet place and to be there alone. That allows me to relax as much as I possibly can, so that then I can deal with things.
Usually the first stages of dealing with a bad mental health day in general is to use distractions to get off my shoulders some emotional overwhelm. Playing musing is the number one thing I do, it just makes me feel so much better, it's a great and easy way to let go of stress. Depending on how much mental energy I have I might look for distraction in other hobbies, like listening to a podcast or reading.
Once I feel like I have let go of some emotions and so I can actually focus on whatever is going on, my logical side kicks in and I start analizing the situation. This is a completly automatical thing for me, it's in my nature to dissect and analize everything, and almost a decade of therapy has made me quite good at analizing these situations. I try to figure out what I am feeling if I have a lot of tangled emotions (and I am terrible at this in particular because yours truly uselessly tries to make feelings as logical as possible which, spoiler, is impossible, so don't be like me), and then I try to look at the reaons I might feel a certain way. At that point I just try to figure out what are my options, which means what can I actually do to deal with the situation? Am I feeling emotionally overwhelmed because of something external I can deal with? If the answer is yes, no matter how much emotional stuff I have going on I deal with the thing, because I know that getting the thing out of my head is going to make things 80% better at least. If it's not something I can deal with, I usually sit with my feelings until I feel like I have enough emotional energy to talk it though with someone else.
As I have mentioned I need to consider very well when I talk with people because it can sometimes feel more overwhelming than just sitting with my feelings. But usually I can do that once I have dealt with everything by myself for a bit. Then sharing it with someone like a friend is usually the last step to let go of things.
Other random things that help me are going on walks in nature, when I have enough energy to do that. Or do manual tasks. Whether it is crocheting, drawing, reorganizing my books. Anything that requires me to focus on something physical does wonders. It helps me to shut off my brain for a bit so that I am not completly overwhelmed by emotions, and usually after a while I get to a point where I can actually deal with things.
I am definitely forgetting about something lmao. In general I need quiet time to deal with things, and it is fundamental for me to feel like I can take my time and space to deal with things. That is the one thing people around me have thankfully figured out, which means that if someone notices that something is going on with me that know that the best course of action is not to force me to talk, instead they just give me my space and time and tell me that when I am ready I have their support. I am very grateful for that.
I am tagging @oneardentstudybuddy, @just-a-cup-of-anxietea and @selkiestudies!
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thenightisland · 2 months ago
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category five "listened to 'good wife' by mika while thinking about fitz and beloved" event and if i have to suffer so do y'all
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thefrsers · 2 months ago
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I'm so glad my weewoo show is back on again tonight cos I just need smth feel good to feel good about and my weewoo show makes me feel good
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blossoms-phan · 2 months ago
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we haven’t even hit daylight savings ending and I already feel the seasonal depression sinking in girl help
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