#codependent flag

[solargeist]

thinking abt the Watchers and their Creative mode powers, their ability to spawn things in.

thinking abt how any time Grian wants food, he has to ask, bc he can’t summon them on his own, and there’s nothing familiar to eat in the End

[bl-bracket]

a fun little observation I noticed the other day is that in every bracket that has happened since the show aired, Phaya from The Sign has been in it (horny on main, himbo, unhinged, poor little meow meow) EXCEPT this one. listen I am #1 Phaya fan for life but homeboy is too much of a glaring red flag lmao

another fun observation is that ZERO of the characters in The Poorest Little Meow Meow bracket are also in The Greenest Flag bracket (which of course makes sense since one the qualifiers for plmm was to be morally dubious but still it's quite fun to me to notice). no overlap whatsoever. there are two types of men in bls

[lovesick-coining]

Codependent Flag (REUPLOADED)

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A flag for people who are codependent.

[Image ID: A rectangular flag with 7 horizontal stripes. The top 4 stripes are different shades of pink, the top stripe being the darkest and fading to the lightest pink in the middle. The bottom 3 stripes are different shades of purple, the topmost purple stripe being the lightest and fading to the darkest purple in the very bottom stripe. /end image ID]

Self-indulgent coining

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Important Note

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[rukkhashavaaa]

looking back on our old convos makes me realize that the relationship might've been more toxic than i originally thought

[neurosiscocktail]

“Edward Teach is just a teenage girl”

Yeah well Izzy is her “straight” best friend who she has an intensely codependent, vaguely sexual, extremely toxic relationship with.

And when your best friend who you are totally not in love with- ew why would you even suggest that, gets into a relationship, the only normal reaction is OBVIOUSLY to break them up for your friends protection (call the British navy) because that is what good friends do.

And then later you realize that you are actually gay and that those were in fact gay feelings and jealousy so

I’m sorry but they’re all teen girls and this is just the queer teen girl experience

[mmyashas]

shoutout spiderbit/guapoduo my most unstable stable toxic relationship <3 cellbit just murdered maxo oh f

[liquidstar]

really do love how otto's arc is going from "die so i can live" to "i would happily die for you, in fact ive already written the suicide note" to "i would literally kill an entire nation for you. i dont care how many people die as long as youre okay." dude relax

[sunshine-of-my-shoulder]

Saw Hiyori be labelled as cis so I colour picked the trans flag from the City Rider outfit

[stabknives]

The jester vs king motif will indeed drive me to- [CARS HONKING LOUDLY AS I CROSS AN INTERSECTION NAKED WITH A KNIFE]

Redd's codename being Jester and Christian always going by Crown. Only a court jester has the privilege of making fun of the King. Richie always shocking laughter out of Christian who DOESN'T want to find him funny and DOESN'T want to acknowledge that they're friends. Especially when Richie keeps gleefully telling Christian he's gonna kill them both one day. Murder suicide, if Christian doesn't kill Richie first. Go on. Kill me Chris. I know you want to. You know you want to. Why do you pretend you don't want to. Why do you pretend you're not enjoying this. Laugh. Smile. I know you want to.

[myfacereallyaches]

Hoping that even though Ed knows Stede is back, he attempts to get better for himself, first and foremost. He can’t just rely on Stede to keep him in check here

[imsailorpluto]

One high-severity incident is always preceded by 29 minor incidents and 300 near-miss incidents. Before my relationship fell apart, there were certainly the things that I had missed.

A cellphone face down. A sudden plan. Saying sorry like a habit. Someone's unfamiliar trace. Watching the same movie he'd seen. He became secretive. Busier with work. He checked my schedule.

How did I not know?

[vizthedatum]

Always with the illusion of choice unless they’re love-bombing you.

[hexxxcapades]

I take back everything I said about David Jenkins, that man is public enemy #1

I CANT BELIEVE IZZY DIED

[ranvwoop]

I would like to do pride headcanon stuff but honestly being queer takes a backseat to the worse things going on in my interpretation of these guys

[karmaphone]

dude as someone who understands the nuances of enmeshment + the varying degrees of abuse-versus-codependency I'm really more of a Beveryly-Did-Nothing-Wrong-er than the show, which is a Beverly-Is-Equally-At-Fault-er

[st4r-with-a-four]

Haven’t spoken to my ex in a week,,,