#cisn’t

[universallydestinytaco]

Joanne Rowling and Elon Musk potentially getting sued and jailed for defamation all while their respective properties (HP and Twitter) rapidly lose relevance and goodwill, Nick “your body my choice” Fuentes getting arrested and exposed for assault and battery, cisn’t folks protesting bigoted BS by throwing dance parties in bathrooms, Thailand legalizing same-gender marriage, Steven Universe potentially coming back, the rise of queer celebs like Cynthia Erivo, Chappell Roan, Gigi Perez AND the most successful animated series rn is made by a trans woman (Gooseworx).

Oh yeah, we’re so winning. ✨ 🏳️‍⚧️ 💕🏳️‍🌈✨

[khaotictrash]

I’m not cis, but I don’t fully identify as trans sometimes

So I have come to a conclusion

I am

✨ Cisn’t ✨

[anotherobsessedsomething]

How do I differentiate between my (gender) identity and people pleasing? I am so used to people pleasing and tolerating things and ignoring my needs.

Like do I use she/they pronouns because it’s me or do I just leave she as an option because I know it’s easiest for people and everyone will refer to me with that most of the time anyway and I don’t want to confront people about it all the time and ask them to use different pronouns?

How do I know if I am actually mostly (not always) fine when people call me a woman because some part of me feels still connected to it or if it’s just me being used to it and knowing that people will think of me as a woman most of the time anyway and there is not much I can do about that so I might as well accept it?

Am I actually fine with how my body looks or have I just accepted that my body is the way it is and it doesn’t matter because I thought I can not change my appearance much anyway? Like for example as a teenager I was bullied and called ugly and fat a lot and at some point I just accepted for myself that I was maybe not the most beautiful person and that most people won’t find me attractive. And I don’t mean that in a hateful way just in a okay I look the way I look and I can not change that so it’s okay when people find me ugly way. (I am not saying that all that is true it’s just how I reacted to it back then)

And also if I accept certain things if I take on certain labels it will make me incredibly vulnerable so maybe it’s better not to? Like you can’t take labels from me if I don’t identify with them in the first place and you can not misgender me if I say it’s fine and I don’t mind to be called certain things/pronouns. You can not invalidate me if I don’t think I am valid and so on you know? But am I not also betraying myself and who I am with that?

[haunted-thing]

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cisn’t acehet

for those who are cisn’t and also acehet! requested by anon :3

[m3ph1st0phelescircus]

my gender is whatever the doctor’s going on fr

[jane-hates-everything-else]

Something no one really talks about is that trans/cis can itself be a limiting binary, as there absolutely are people who definitely straddle the line between the two categories.

( I’m not referring to enbies in general, though there are surely some who WOULD identify with the conception of being neither really “cis” or “trans”)

The best term I’ve found for this is

“cisn’t”

[readmypaws]

I feel this... way too hard *looking at you friends*

that’s me. i’m the transmasc friend.

[advoir]

Tags I use to sort my posts:

🛸#ace diary 🛸#agender diary 🛸#autism diary 🛸#weed diary 🛸#x diary (x for christ/ex)

🛸#cat owned

[zero1qn2]

four times dankovsky was given a kiss (and an extra of returning the kindness)

[gratefulcheeses]

Devil fruit users? More like fruity- um. Fruity guys. Amirite or amiri- (mic feedback blares through speakers)

(Also bonus image in reblogs)

[fools-catacomb]

In episode six of The Magnus Protocol, Rusty Quill sets off on an exciting endeavor they’ve never explored before: the shows first heterosexual (presumed) couple!

[anotherobsessedsomething]

I never thought I would ever wish to not be genderqueer and even more I would have never thought it would be because of people in the queer community making me feel so unwelcome and hated that I think that I should have never come out of the closet not even to myself

[dont-look-me-in-the-eye]

i find it hilariously ironic that even before i knew i was agender i still participated in genderfuckery

like i didn’t know people felt gender i honestly thought people went along with it for the aesthetic. So i was like: nah this is all bullshit, i would like to confuse people, please

[eggs-can-draw]

Nanami Anon: 11 and 34?

11. Favorite (or just one you love) piece of LGBT media?

Kingdom Hearts I really liked She-ra and The Owl House!!

34. What are you needing most right now (what would make your life easier or more fulfilling in regards to existing as queer)?

Getting rid of laws trying to hurt trans kids would definitely help

[mapsareforbraindeads]

“oh vari you look like such a tomboy” ……………….

[thelongestshore]

She/her -> she/they -> they/them -> various combinations of they/it/he/she + a few xenos depending on the vibes

she/her -> she/they -> they/them -> they/he -> he/they -> he/him

went from one end to another gradually