Again I will forever and ever support telling any person I am friends with to step back and consider their gender and the idea that they may be trans. I've had multiple friends come back to me afterwards and talk about how that really did open the door for them when it came to thinking about the possibility, and contributed to their current identity and transition.
That's so lovely. I wouldn't sacrifice that for the world. Even if you're cis, or don't really think about these things usually, I suggest you examine your gender. So ofc if someone is actually questioning I'm like.....there's a beautiful world out there, have you considered transing your gender?
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i find it so incredibly fucking weird that people who are like so socially conscious and intelligent and really understand like systemic bigotry can at the same time. unabashedly. praise people who are so LOUDLY against everything they stand for. mindblowing
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signed up for the woman's fall/winter hockey team at my local rink n feel sooo guilty about it actually bc like. I'm not a woman at all !! but also like literally there was no other option I can't join the men's team there is actually no way that even asking about it would end in anything but harassment or a hate crime lmaoo. but I feel guilty pretending to be a girl with all these women especially when so many of them are so sweet... I wish I had a rink near me w an lgbt/co-ed team
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wow cool I love that someone intentionally hid the photo gallery opening cards that feature two pregnant trans men on the front lmao
sometimes ppl drop off stuff here like "is it ok if we give you some of these and let people grab info" and this one in particular was by a trans artist who does photography of other trans people. I walked out to refill my water and noticed they were missing-- the stack was hidden under some other leaflets up front about prep / npep
fuck cis men. FUCK THEM!!!!!!!!! fuckin baby bitch, so sensitive you cant even look at a PHOTOGRAPH of two trans men lmao
rrrrrrrrrrrrrGH god
so, I put them in an even more visible place than last time :)
die mad tbh! I love that these entitled, bratty motherfuckers attempt to flirt with me all the time. and then they pull this type of shit, fully unaware that I'm trans
wow it's almost like your idea of transness is wrong, and your idea that you'd 100% know how to clock a trans person is wrong also
funny, that! you're flirting with a trans dude, who knows full well that you'd be disgusted and potentially want to kill him if you knew he was trans!
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talking abt cis ppl slapping top scars on their fanart of a fictional man and calling it a day in the Trans Ally department is criticism of how cis ppl will do the bare minimum and expect ppl 2 clap for them being the biggest allies in the world (wow awesome u recognize trans ppl exist sometimes bcuz u draw an anime man with top scars 1 time so ppl would leave u alone abt never drawing trans ppl, great lol) esp while never interacting with or boosting actual trans peoples art, not as a critique of the character ‘not looking trans enough’. if u think that was the criticism then u have lost the plot cuz being pissy that someone drew a usually masculine guy with top scars and complaining abt how he ‘doesnt even look trans’ is actually just you being shitty. what i always wonder w this too is like. u rly think its actually more progressive for a cis person who has 1 way of drawing men to draw the trans man differently than they do the cis men? you think thats Progressive and Accurate bcuz trans men are a TOTALLY Different Male Species? and u want ppl to think ur not a transphobic idiot and ur actually making points? u dont even understand what the original joke and criticism was
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was talking to this guy, like INTRO convo and i said one thing abt how guys in my past have been and he got fuckin weird and went off abt how i was lumping him in w other guys and freaked abt how I gendered him (when I literally didn’t even mention him) and all this shit and i was like 😐🧍🏼♀️ sir ur mad bc i “gendered” you and assumed you’re a man BC YOUR BIO. SAID. MAN.
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