#cis ppl are so fucking weird
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Got misgendered at the dentist several times, which is ridiculous cuz um hello i look gorgeous today??? 😜
#cis ppl are so fucking weird#it me!#cool to reblog#transgender#trans#mtf trans#trans mtf#transfem#transfemme#trans feminine#trans positivity#trans pride#trans princess#girlslikeus#transisbeautiful#transisbetter#this is what trans looks like#tgirlsdoitbetter🌈#tgirlselfie#cute tgirl#tgirl babe#trans model#trans goddess#trans girls#trans girl#transgirl#transgirls#trans woman#trans women positivity
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found the instagram of a girl i used to know at school and he’s trans now 48362824 healed 694737485 revived
#so many of those guys’ve detransitioned it’s nice to see that i’m not one of the only ones who haven’t#and especially nice to see that there are still people figuring out that they’re trans and being open about it esp in that group#no hate to the people who did detransition or anything yk u explored urself and realised ur cis but it is nice to see more ppl like me ykyk#anyway he chose a much better name than i did and honestly idk if they even go by he i should probably ask#but we haven’t spoken since 2022/23 so it might be weird to just start up a conversation yk#idk#trans#transmasc#trans joy#ryan shut the fuck up
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#the reason cisswap lesbian macden does nothing for me is bc i get my dose of lesbianism from canon charden <3#i say it (jokingly) all the time but i think if the sunny fandom was more open to charden y'all would have more fun#everything ppl do with macden to make it ~more fun~ is literally. already there with charden#macden is a lot of fun in its own way but if i want butch/femme lesbians i have charden already--#this is literally why i ship both. if i want to fuck around with gender i can throw charden together#if i want to fuck around with weird codependent loser roommates i can throw macden together#they have different dynamics and both bring different shit to the table#also idk such a massive part of dennis is his (often unapologetic but still stifled) more 'feminine' gender expression#so making him a cis woman who likes being feminine is like. yea. that sure is. cis woman dennis.#as someone who has an extremely complicated history w expressing femininity or anything that is even seen as being remotely femme#it doesn't grab me#the genderfuckery is not there#but TRANSBIAN CHARDEN???? YEAAAAAH#i think mac being so focused on upholding traditional mascilinity IS a very interesting dynamic to have next to. you know. dennis.#wheras charlie could not give less of a fuck#i think gender exploration with macden would take a completely different form but still be extremely interesting for both of them#but there's a lot less initial acceptance and a lot more hiding on den's part#especially if the two are in a relationship#because mac coming to terms with being gay took so long so dennis being at all feminine or even transfem is like#mac needs to do. more introspection#which is an entirely different set of issues to charden gender exploration where like#charlie being nonconforming. not shaving. not caring abt using she/her pronouns. being nontraditional in every way and not giving a fuck#would be absolutely fucking absurd to dennis who is very conformist after she comes out#and would probably be content to conform to whats expected of her as a woman with mac IF she did manage to come out at all#bc dennis would have to actually manage to come out. instead of hiding the fact she's trans > looking at carmen and the way mac treated her#i think both paths have additional challenges and that's. you know. whats interesting.#is cisswap den butchy? does she hide her masculine interests? is denise transmasc...??#cisswap mac being butch is like. you know. nonconforming so it doesn't quite do the same thing as canon mac either#mac being Traditional and catholic and having to push past homophobia (internalized and externalized) to be himself is. pretty huge#would cisswap mac be a tradwife. like. thats sort of the equivalent
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in a hilarious turn of events my flatmate didn't even know I use any pronouns....
#i thought when she was talking abt how her parents thought i was gonna come out as trans and kept checking my name/pronouns-#that the joke was that im ALREADY trans but in ways they dont know abt.... but nope she genuinely didnt know 🤭#to be fair. i dont rly let anyone in on my gender business unless we're close enough to be dating or its an anonymous online space#like im legally cis and thats fine. idc abt ppl using my name + she/her bc thats not my gender identity its just AN identity that i use-#to navigate the world without ppl being fucking nosy bc i pass as + am sociopolitically treated as a woman (if butch lol)#to ppl who are friends ill joke that my gender is dyke (true) and to friends whose gender falls on a similar spectrum-#or who are transmasc ill talk a little more honestly abt it bc theyre usually able to understand better than anyone else#other butch dykes w a weird gender going on are the only motherfuckers who actually Get It but theyre hard to come by tbh#to be frank i dont fucking know whats going on w my gender. and i dont rly care enough to do the introspection to figure it out rn#i have so many other problems in my life and im lucky that most of my beef w gender can be solved by presenting butch + binding#and using any pronouns around other queer ppl. its actually incredibly funny to me when ppl she/her me bc its like tch. this chump hasnt#unlocked my level of gender yet. pronouns and names in general are so far disconnected from the way i exist in the world...#its just smth thats fun for me to play around with + makes me feel weird sometimes but in ways i havent distilled yet yknow#and this has been my approach to gender for like?? 4-5 years now??? and likely will continue to be for a long while..#anyway. its not actually that surprising my flatmate doesnt know bc shes cis so ive never felt compelled to have a deeper conversation#abt gender with her. but also i could sweeaaar its been mentioned bc almost all our other friends are trans lol#and also ive been introducing myself at queer sports socials w any pronouns and i swear i talked abt that w her..... whatever#and my pronouns are on discord and shes def seen my tumblr before but maybe i didnt have them in my bio at the time... i digress#i kind of prefer cis ppl she/hering me tbh. theyre not able to they them or he him or whatever else me in a way that matters.....#altho i do find it fascinating when she or other ppl elect to use neutral or masculine terms for me. raising an eyebrow and taking notes#like when she got a job and joked abt me being her househusband.. pulling up the fem/masc tally chart and chalking a line up#a la nona the ninth.... ive been trying to figure out whos inhabiting this body my entire fucking life with no luck girl#ANYWAY just smth to think abt. im so tired i think my brain is gonna start seeping out my eyeballs#im gonna watch some more pluto and read and then -> 🛌#another 6:30 start tomorrow woohoo#.diaries#zzzzz
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Gay trans men be normal about women challenge. Especially trans women and lesbians
#why are they so misogynistic. like why. lol. lmao even. it's infuriatingly hysterical#and not just misogyny in general#the TRANSMISOGYNY??????#lord. god. dear fucking jesus it's goddamn horrendous#also genuinely one of THE MOST lesbophobic groups of ppl i have ever had the displeasure of interacting with#the disdain for women hidden behind 'well i'm not a woman nor attracted to them uwu it's okay to talk about how awful and gross and terribl#they all are. also i will accuse all of them for being either transphobic or a misandrist or both if they confront me about this'#'because i am trans and a minority group so therefore i can never be wrong uwu'#insane behavior#the way so many of them view afab nonbinary ppl as Women Lite because if you're not a binary trans man who wants to pass as cis perfectly#you are irrelevant and can have no opinions on trans topics or experience transphobia or identify it#crazyyyyyyyyyyyy#don't even get me started on the 'transandrophobia truthers' just admit you can't handle trans women being the main topic of conversation f#for once. not even in discussions over their fucking oppression#and don't even get me started on the internalized shit. like not just the misogyny but honestly this weird brand of transphobia#and homophobia too. it's fucking wild#once again. lol. lmao even.#sorry i saw some stupid shit this morning (and it's been building for a while) and I want to bitch. i'm tired. i'm so fucking tired#it's such a trend i have seen in this group of ppl#OBVIOUSLY i know they are not all like this but GODDAMN a lot of them are#and any time someone tries to point out any issues with the community they're just accused of being a bigot. whatever x-phobia is convenien#to cry at the time#okay i'll shut up now#kaz rambles
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Soo...... are we all just gonna forget about everything she did? Cool. Cool. Cool......
#LOVE when a band releases more music and people conveniently forget all of the shit thats happened#like i havemt been part of this fandom in AWHILE specifically because people continue to romanticize that god forsaken relationship#but the last thing i remember happening years ago was an actual physical abuse situation this guy was in#now ppl are posting videos with the abuser climbing that boy like a pole#youre kidding. right?#people will see a cis white woman being slightly weird and then defend her with their lives. thats an abusive piece of shit u have right#there but. go off i guess#if you know me you know what band this is about#if you dont know DONT dig theres a fucking reason im not tagging or putting names#last i remember her fans doxxed someone. so.#people like to act like the only reason you can hate this chick is bc youre jealous she has a relationship with a pretty boy#girl i dont want your sadboy twink. i just dont want you SLAPPING SOMEONE DRUNKENLY IN PUBLIC ?????#anyways i wish the rest of the band got some attention bc the actual music sounds rlly good#the entire reason i left the fandom is bc the stans of both that dude and the chick hes with.
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Again I will forever and ever support telling any person I am friends with to step back and consider their gender and the idea that they may be trans. I've had multiple friends come back to me afterwards and talk about how that really did open the door for them when it came to thinking about the possibility, and contributed to their current identity and transition.
That's so lovely. I wouldn't sacrifice that for the world. Even if you're cis, or don't really think about these things usually, I suggest you examine your gender. So ofc if someone is actually questioning I'm like.....there's a beautiful world out there, have you considered transing your gender?
#tomi talks#it's so unkind to NOT at least suggest it imo#but I mean also tons of ppl have a lot of weird hangups based on social cues n shit#but I simply Cannot Read Those and will just be honest with you#this has two outcomes which is rly great friends and also some ppl that fucking hate your guts lol#but also a fair amount of ppl who say they hate your guts but come back and are like. actually u were right. and be great friends again#that's happened with a few ppl that I've bluntly been like 'ur parent is abusive' to#cuz sometimes that honesty goes over like a lead balloon I tell u hwat#anyway apparently there's some concept abt it being insulting to tell a dude he might be trans#but that cannot be true in my world because being trans is cool af#so.#also like if he genuinely is a cis dude he can survive being asked if he might be trans?? like. he'll live. c'mon.
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there is smth to be said abt how chihiro is always always always depicted in feminine clothing in merch + supplementary material despite her horribly written backstory like.
at some point, if she really wanted to 'stop pretending', she could easily make the choice to wear smth more unisex and 'subtle' but she always goes for the cutest, most feminine looking outfits and its like girl........ girl.....!
#and do NOT tell me its for non-spoilery reasons that shes still included with the girls and always wears cute feminine outfits in merch#pretty much everybody whos brushed against danganronpa knows whats going on with junko#if chihiro really truly was just A Cis Boy Crossdressing To Avoid Bullying (which inherently doesnt make much sense to me)#then like. you think said Cis Boy would... idk... at least try toeing the line between feminine and masculine expression more...#nobody is forcing 'him' to wear cutesy outfits and frilly dresses and brightly colored tops and short shorts in the summer...! just sayin#her internalized transphobia was absolutely self-devouring. honest to god#it ate her from the inside#junko probably took a lot of her self realization and mental peace away abt her gender expression w that memory wipe#its so fucked up. jesus christ#and then u play the game and sakura is forced to touch her corpse to discover the 'truth' and everyone just instantly switches#to masc pronouns with no struggle#its so badly written lmao#lets not even talk abt the whole physical strength = masculinity thing going on with her#also ive entirely given up on caring abt how other ppl perceive her gender#its a battle nobody will ever win#canon says shes a cis boy#her continous choice to express femininely#even in scenarios where she'd likely have 'come out' to her friends#saying otherwise#its just like#as long as you arent telling me to kms over a trans hc#then i dont have the energy to care#bc ppl who see her as a cis boy will not listen or change their minds#and i will not change my mind abt seeing her as a girl#i will say tho ppl who make older chihiro designs#and give her an out of nowhere square jaw and broad shoulders#and is like 6 feet tall#you are weird. i know what ur doing
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you would think that me ending a friendship with someone i knew for ~10 years would leave me devastated but tbh all i feel is disappointment and cringe for them 😶
#want some tea?#if the only times a person shows discontent or just outright says weird shit about YOUR OCS is ONLY when they are not cis#run#too bad i was excusing and ignoring a lot of shit for years#glad i have actually decent ppl by my side that even helped me see that some things that were said were 10 times worse than i assumed#just another story i get to tell when it's time to talk about cringe ppl from my life ajkdhasjklasd#also like imagine sending a whole ass google doc after u have been told to fuck off#and u didnt even check if the link works#funniest shit even but also shows how much they care ig??#anyways#im just kinda glad that im not lost in any delusion anymore and really just moving on from this. character development#sucks that so much of my brain effort was wasted but oh well#anyways to my bestie mutuals if anyone wants to have playdates with ocs pls let's do it i got a whole bunch who need oc friends now akdjlsh#not even joking i love ocs interactions so much hhhh#adry.txt
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i find it so incredibly fucking weird that people who are like so socially conscious and intelligent and really understand like systemic bigotry can at the same time. unabashedly. praise people who are so LOUDLY against everything they stand for. mindblowing
#calling it the jk rowling effect#not even just cis white liberals like i expect them to be fucking stupid at this point#but people who are black who are jewish who are trans like how can you intimately understand the bigotry you face in the world#EVEN WITHIN other fictional/fantasy settings. yet all of this knowledge and experience flies out the window#as soon as you pick up a harry potter book or click on an attack on titan episode#i genuinely dont fucking get it its just so fucking WEIRD. i need to interview one of these fuckers and study their brains#HOW DID ALICE WALKER WRITE ELETHIA AND GET INTO LIZARD PPL THEORIES LIKE GIRL. WHAT IN THE WORLD.
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signed up for the woman's fall/winter hockey team at my local rink n feel sooo guilty about it actually bc like. I'm not a woman at all !! but also like literally there was no other option I can't join the men's team there is actually no way that even asking about it would end in anything but harassment or a hate crime lmaoo. but I feel guilty pretending to be a girl with all these women especially when so many of them are so sweet... I wish I had a rink near me w an lgbt/co-ed team
#🪽#idk i feel weird about it bc like. societally i basically fill the role as a girl like. i look like one im built like one#i think of myself as masc but other ppl dont. i look like a cis woman who is sexually ambiguous basically. i hate it i hate it i hate it#i just WISH ppl would look at me n be able to tell im not a woman. im not one at all its sooo obvious to me but so fucking. blind 2 everyon#i wanna kill myslef..... anywsys#srry hehe 🤪#hockey posting
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I'm not JUST t4t. Yes I am. No im not. But I am a little
#liiiike someone doesnt HAVE to identify as trans for me to be into them#but im so far removed from cis ness that i get treated weird by cis ppl often..#not to mention im just so fucking attracted to gender non conforming people
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wow cool I love that someone intentionally hid the photo gallery opening cards that feature two pregnant trans men on the front lmao sometimes ppl drop off stuff here like "is it ok if we give you some of these and let people grab info" and this one in particular was by a trans artist who does photography of other trans people. I walked out to refill my water and noticed they were missing-- the stack was hidden under some other leaflets up front about prep / npep fuck cis men. FUCK THEM!!!!!!!!! fuckin baby bitch, so sensitive you cant even look at a PHOTOGRAPH of two trans men lmao rrrrrrrrrrrrrGH god so, I put them in an even more visible place than last time :) die mad tbh! I love that these entitled, bratty motherfuckers attempt to flirt with me all the time. and then they pull this type of shit, fully unaware that I'm trans wow it's almost like your idea of transness is wrong, and your idea that you'd 100% know how to clock a trans person is wrong also funny, that! you're flirting with a trans dude, who knows full well that you'd be disgusted and potentially want to kill him if you knew he was trans!
#I also love it when cisgay pts openly say weird transphobic shit in front of me#bruh. lmao#thats the ting too like... they think ill automatically agree because they can't clock me as trans!!!!!! ! they think im cis#You Know Not of Which You Speak#also: fuck you bitch. whiny ass 'cant witness others living a life different from mine' bitch#if it offends you so deeply maybe you should reflect on why that is lmao#and ppl wonder why I still have anger issues smfh#barking into the void#queer#trans
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talking abt cis ppl slapping top scars on their fanart of a fictional man and calling it a day in the Trans Ally department is criticism of how cis ppl will do the bare minimum and expect ppl 2 clap for them being the biggest allies in the world (wow awesome u recognize trans ppl exist sometimes bcuz u draw an anime man with top scars 1 time so ppl would leave u alone abt never drawing trans ppl, great lol) esp while never interacting with or boosting actual trans peoples art, not as a critique of the character ‘not looking trans enough’. if u think that was the criticism then u have lost the plot cuz being pissy that someone drew a usually masculine guy with top scars and complaining abt how he ‘doesnt even look trans’ is actually just you being shitty. what i always wonder w this too is like. u rly think its actually more progressive for a cis person who has 1 way of drawing men to draw the trans man differently than they do the cis men? you think thats Progressive and Accurate bcuz trans men are a TOTALLY Different Male Species? and u want ppl to think ur not a transphobic idiot and ur actually making points? u dont even understand what the original joke and criticism was
#the problem isnt someone drew top scars on a masculine fictional man that literallyisnt a fucking problem#the crit is bcuz cis ppl r fucking losers who think theyre a god among men for recognizing trans ppl exist 1 time#and not on any Serious art or anyting just some sketch they can toss out and not expect to lose their core cis audience for#bcuz if things arent constantly relatable to them nd their Important Cis Artist buddies they cant possibly risk doing More here#or whatever thier thought process is#to them trans ppl r making niche unrelatable weird art and art of their fave characters being trans makes the#m uncomfy :( :( but every so often theyll throw out a bone and expect ppl to suck them off for it#to prove to themselves or their cis fans or whatever that they really ARENT a transphobe!!! see theyve drawn a trans guy once
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i think im allowed to assume someones consuming their kinks in a harmful-to-others way if I have first hand experience with them sexually abusing me, personally.
#do i think they always do it in a harmful way? no. because i dont see the world in black and white. statistically thats impossible#but i think its safe for me to assume the worst in this situation with this specific person. personally#instead of trying to make me second guess if i should be so harsh on my abuser and keep my arms closed entirely maybe#we should be confronting them on being a better person for once#yaknow instead of insisting that i need to heal or change or whatever and the fault all lies in me and never in them#food for thought#i promise me being disturbed by and wanting to avoid certain kinks isnt worse than them being sexually abusive. like i really promise.#if you think i do more harm being uncomfortable than they do by sexually abusing ppl then idk what to tell ya#and a lot of the kinks that make me uncomfortable and i try to avoid are the ones they have#forgive me if trauma makes me weary. i mean fuck dude it takes years for me to even feel like i can trust someone enough to be my friend#now you're telling me i hafta jump all the way to trusting ppl wont misuse their kinks towards me? im sorry what world do you live in#i already dont trust a lot of cis men for that reason it doesnt suddenly change just bc you're queer. i gotta know you're not#a sexually abusive creep to even BEGIN to touch the subject of kinks w you#which explains why me and my abusive ex never got that far in that conversation 😒#cis men have a lot of kinks that just hearing them makes me suspicious because personally i have lived with a cis man who sexually#abused me and was very secretive about his kinks and is the type of person to act one way but then is secretly a pos#so yeah im a little fuckin weary dude. im not assuming people with certain kinks are bad by default but id be lying if i said certain#kinks dont make me a little on edge to hear about someone having. and i'd probably take an even longer time sussing that person out#sorry but i just dont need to be sexually abused again. and for me rn avoiding that is being weary of certain things.#a lot of it is context too... a group of people pretending to be super familiar with me and wanting to dive into kink stuff right away bc#we're all queer so it should be Fine and want me to come to their place that i need to take a car to at night.... yeah gonna pass#but thats why im saying a good long ol' sussing is needed for me to feel ok. if you have an issue with me needing to feel like i#can trust someone to be around them thats just.... really weird. obv i cant always control that but i mean specifically situations i can#obligatory: none of this has to do w kink in public or anything this is all about my own personal life
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why is everyone who makes videos abt ******* transphobic like
#''i dont respect ***** so i dont care to correct their pronouns'' ''*******'s husband-wife-partner-thing“ like ohhh thats ... not ...#dont get me wrong shitty people is shitty people#but youd rather be transphobic & 'right' than just make a video ... about shitty ppl ... one of em just happens to be trans#swear to god im not tone policing im j like????????????? people who claim to be allies and they dance in circles#when it comes to properly gendering someone who happens to be shitty. weird & fucked up#its literally everyone who does this btw. everyone who makes a ten thousand minute long breakdown abt this fucked up ppl#is always a fucking transphobe when it comes to that#even ***** ******!!! do we fucking remember him!!! 'interviewing' victims for a fucking CHEAP DOCUMENTARY!!!#its just so lazy and unnecessary people being like oh durr well ***** changes names and pronouns so often its hard to keep up#these people love to keep tabs on **** and everything hes done or said or posted and yet somehow choose to forget on purpose#that ***** hasnt used she/her since like maybe 2015/16. and thats been pretty consistent. and visual.#just because **** is also a transphobe who misgenders ***** doesnt mean these fucking clowns have to add onto that#literally went from actual valid critique to har har trans people be like!1!1!1 respect my pronouns lol1!1!1!1!! and its just. UGH.#cis people always educating me on the fact that they just dont care about trans identity and the moment a trans person fucks up#in front of them it is fair game to call them every name that isnt theres. jeez
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